On this week’s episode, I share my struggle to stay present and accept the present. When contemplating divorce sometimes it’s easier to reminisce about the past or have false hope for the future, instead of accepting your present truth. I spent years running from my truth. I’ve learned the sooner you face it the sooner you can begin to heal. Connect with me on Instagram @divorcednotdeadyet https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

As moms we juggle a lot of responsibilities and it’s rare that we get an opportunity to take a vacation, without our children. In this week’s episode I will share my struggle to enjoy the opportunity I have to take a much needed break. When going through a divorce you already loose time with your children and the thought of taking extra time away can come with a lot of guilt. Add that with separation anxiety and ta-da the perfect emotional storm! I’m here to tell you that the feeling of guilt is normal but don’t let it stop you. Taking a vacation will give you time to rest and rejuvenate, allowing you to come back a more patient and present parent. Connect with me @divorcednotdeadyet on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

On this week’s episode, I will share what it was like to experience my first Mother’s Day, post divorce. Mother’s Day as a single or divorced mom can be hard. It’s a reminder that there is no longer a designated partner to show you appreciation on that day. It can bring up a lot of feelings of loss and hurt. I’ve learned to honor those feelings and hold space for them. Also, don’t put pressure on yourself or your ex to have a “magical” Mother’s Day because every day is Mother’s Day. Follow me Instagram @divorcednotdeadyet   https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this episode I will share my experience of negotiating spousal support during the divorce process. I realized that my inability to speak up for myself, my people pleasing ways, pride, and emotional exhaustion heavily influenced the decisions I made. I hope that you will learn from my mistakes and know that whatever support you get from your ex, financially, should not be attached to shame or fear. I want you to feel empowered to ask for what you deserve and you deserve to “ Get that Money, Honey”. Lol

On this week’s episode, I discuss the financial fear that comes with getting divorced. With some planning and budgeting you can alleviate some of that fear and start your new chapter financially, post divorce. It’s not easy, but I’ve learned that it pushes you to become very resourceful. Whether it’s starting a new career, starting a new business or selling pictures of your feet on Only Fans (no judgement for those who do) lol. You will figure out a way to provide for yourself and your children. It will be hard, but you can do it! “Get Good with Money”, by Tiffany Aliche Connect with me on Instagram @divorcednotdeadyet https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this episode I discuss my journey from fear to freedom. Sometimes we need a little push to get over our fears. For me, my first push came from becoming a mother. My second push involved me naked in public minus my wig! I’ve learned that change and growth can come out of necessity or sheer embarrassment . Follow me on Instagram @divorcednotdeadyet https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this week’s episode, I share the beautiful lessons I’ve learned while going through the brutal divorce process. Show Notes: “Girl, Stop Apologizing” by Rachel Hollis Folllow me on Instagram @divorcednotdeadyet https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this episode I’m sharing my journey to making one of the hardest decisions of my life. The choice to end my marriage and file for Divorce. Follow me on Instagram and let’s go through this journey together . (Link below) https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

Welcome to the Divorced but not dead, yet Podcast! My name is Alicia Topps. Join me on my journey to and through divorce. Together let’s laugh, cry, scream, heal, and grow as we navigate the next chapter of our lives. Grab a cup of coffee, a glass of wine, a therapist (lol) and let’s get through this together. Let’s build our community! You can follow me on Instagram @divorcednotdeadyet. (Link below) https://www.instagram.com/divorcednotdeadyet?igsh=NGNlczZlN29zNzRu&utm_source=qr