The Extraordinary Marriage

Connie Durham

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EPS 33 - Chicago, California, Moolah Management - Connie Durham & Gale West
6d ago
EPS 33 - Chicago, California, Moolah Management - Connie Durham & Gale West
Step into the heart of financial harmony with Connie Durham and Gail West, in this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage. Discover the dance of money in matrimony, where we unravel the complexities of our relationship with finances and its impact on our union with our beloved.   Episode Chapters (00:00) Navigating the intricate relationship between love and money in marriage (07:15) Gail West shares her personal story of love, commitment, and overcoming adversity (12:30) The importance of space and time in nurturing a relationship (17:45) How to express and fulfill individual needs within a partnership (22:58) Gail's expertise on empowering relationships through financial understanding (28:34) Strategies for couples to manage money without conflict (33:20) The significance of valuing each other beyond financial contributions (38:15) Tips for aligning your money mindset with your spouse for marital bliss (43:00) Gail West's book "Money, Come Dance with Me" and her approach to a joyful money relationship   Host - Connie Durham... Atlanta, GA Learn Communication Secrets in my OnDemand Class online, Book me for small groups online and locally, or learn this method through private coaching to find specific solutions. Personality predicts how we make decisions, what motivates us, and even how easy we are to live with. Need Insights, talk to me free... while space allows. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session   www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com   Gale West, MA, MFA, is an internationally known teacher, entrepreneurial coach, and intuitive consultant who brings more than 35 years of experience in human potential and transformational change. A midwife to magnificent businesses, careers and lives, she is passionate about empowering clarity of vision and actively co-creating with the Divine. Her book, Money Come Dance With Me, invites a new paradigm of money as the expression of Divine love in the marketplace, a guide and loving friend, and an agent for a generous and collaborative world. She has taught business, entrepreneurship and leadership both in China and the U.S. Gale specializes in transforming personal and collective relationships to money and success through workshops, retreats, classes and breakthrough coaching. An artist and ardent adventurer, she brings her love of living fully to everything she does. successwithsoul.com
EPS 32 - How to be Flexible, Forgiving, & have Favor in Marriage -  Connie Durham & Toni Hebel
May 23 2024
EPS 32 - How to be Flexible, Forgiving, & have Favor in Marriage - Connie Durham & Toni Hebel
Embrace the power of forgiveness to transform your marriage! In this eye-opening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, as Connie sits down with Toni Hebel, a beacon of hope for couples entangled in the web of unforgiveness. With her profound insights and life-changing strategies, Toni unveils the secret to unlocking a world of freedom, love, and reconciliation in your relationship. Toni's story is not just a testament to the resilience of love but also a guide to navigating the tumultuous waters of marriage with grace and wisdom. Whether you're battling anxiety, depression, anger, or addiction, discover how forgiveness can be the key to healing and a harmonious union. 🎙 Episode Chapters (00:00) Introduction to Toni Hebel and the concept of "Forgiving Forward" (03:15) The pivotal role of forgiveness in overcoming marital strife (06:45) How past wounds can sabotage your present happiness (12:30) Toni's personal journey of transformation and its impact on her marriage (20:50) The crucial distinction between being responsible "for" and "to" your partner (28:34) Unpacking the "red flashing light" signal in marriage (35:20) The devastating effects of unforgiveness and how to break free (42:45) The Forgiving Forward ministry and resources for couples #Forgiveness #MarriageHealing #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast 🌟   🌟Your host, Connie Durham, invites you to join this transformative conversation that could be the turning point in your marriage. Subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast and take the first step towards a relationship filled with understanding, compassion, and true partnership. 🌟Need to a friend to listen or would you like to schedule a live or online small group? Contact Connie by email... connie@theextraordinarymarriage.com  or talk to her... https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session  Hi, I'm Connie! After over four decades of matrimonial bliss and motherhood experience under my belt, let me tell you - people are a fascinating mix of quirks and characteristics. Whether we like 'em or not is almost always determined by the way they make us feel about ourselves...and that goes double for marriage! That's why I've made it my mission to find those niggly marriage problems pricking your happiness bubble – so together we can get rid of them and forge ahead on a path towards an even better life than before. It makes me a kind of Marriage Guru…with all the exciting remedies yet waiting to be discovered!   SPECIAL RESOURCE: Dive into Toni Hebel's "Forgiving Forward" online course and book to learn the transformative art of forgiveness. Find peace and reignite the spark in your marriage. Check out the details at www.forgivingforward.com 🌟 Toni is a gifted communicator and teacher of spiritual truths. Her passion is contagious to all around her as they gather close to hear her latest “God Story”. She is quick to say she lives to see and hear God. Having lived a life of performance, she now takes great joy in living totally for His satisfaction and pleasure. Toni has served alongside her husband in pastoral ministry for over 30 years. They now lead ReGenerating Life Ministries championing the Forgiving Forward message, founded out of their own suffering. She is passionate about helping all women find freedom through forgiveness, while restoring their God-given destinies through an intimate relationship with Jesus. Toni is a powerful voice speaking the passion of God’s heart—forgiveness. She addresses this topic in such a way that will not only encourage women to embrace it, but will also help them know how to apply it. She has been a guest speaker for various ladies events and retreats both nationally and internationally. Toni and her husband Bruce live south of Atlanta and are blessed with three adult children who are all active in ministry. They have witnessed thousands of people set free through the forgiveness message. Together they have authored the book Forgiving Forward: Unleashing the Forgiveness Revolution.
ESP 31 - Birth of Chick-fil-A & the Cathy Family
May 16 2024
ESP 31 - Birth of Chick-fil-A & the Cathy Family
Embark on a journey through the values and legacy of an extraordinary family with Connie's special guest, Trudy Cathy White, daughter of Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A. In this episode of "The Extraordinary Marriage," we delve into the roots of a business built on biblical principles and the impact of a consistent, faithful, and generous life on marriage and family. 🕊️ Episode Chapters (00:00) The profound influence of Trudy's parents on her life and marriage (07:57) Trudy's childhood memories and the birth of Chick-fil-A (12:09) The importance of communication and commitment in Trudy's 46-year marriage (15:30) The challenges and triumphs of aligning values, faith, and family (21:39) Trudy's insights on gratitude and expectations in marriage (26:12) How the Cathy family's values are passed down through generations (30:47) Trudy's travels and mission work, spreading hope and joy (34:01) The legacy that lasts and the gift of a loving marriage to children Join us as Trudy shares the wisdom gleaned from a life rich in faith, family, and service. Whether it's the story of her first car or the lessons learned from her mother's quiet strength, Trudy's experiences offer invaluable lessons for nurturing an extraordinary marriage.   Find more on Trudy Here: https://trudycathywhite.com/   Find More on Connie and how to have an Extraordinary Marriage Here: https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com   Want to find the root causes in marital misunderstandings?  Complimentary!   https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/is-it-me-finding-harmony-in-marriage-workshop   #Marriage #FamilyValues #Legacy #Faith #Gratitude #ExtraordinaryMarriage #Podcast #ChickfilA #TrudyCathyWhite #MarriageCommunication #FamilyValues #ChickfilaLegacy #theextraordinarymarriage   Discover how to communicate effectively with your spouse and enrich your marriage. Learn more at www.theextraordinarymarriage.com and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE on APPLE, Spotify, and Amazon, for more insights on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
EPS 30 Mighty Mom Mastery with Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany
May 9 2024
EPS 30 Mighty Mom Mastery with Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany
Embark on a heartfelt journey into the essence of 🌷 motherhood with Connie Durham and her delightful guests— Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany, three vibrant young moms sharing their experiences and wisdom. This episode of The Extraordinary Marriage is a tribute to the unconditional love, the laughter, the lessons, and the legacy that mothers bestow upon their children and the world. 🌷 Episode Chapters (00:00) Connie introduces the touching theme of motherhood and its celebration (03:24) Melissa shares the humorous side of parenting and the importance of positive reinforcement (07:15) Tiffany reflects on the power of forgiveness and leading by example, even in challenging times ( 12:40) Brittany emphasizes the hope and optimism that the gospel brings to family life (16:58) The panel discusses the virtues of humility and the courage to admit when we're wrong (21:45) Educating children on empathy, service, and problem-solving skills for a better future (27:10) A collective message on the impact of mothers and the importance of self-compassion Join us as we delve into the extraordinary role of mothers, from the tender moments of bringing a new life home to the profound influence they have on shaping future generations. Whether you're a mom yourself, have a special mom in your life, or simply appreciate the nurturing spirit of motherhood, this episode is a celebration of all things mom—just in time for 🌷 Mother's Day. For more insights on nurturing your relationship and embracing the joys of family life, don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast.  (On Apple, Spotify, Amazon) Connect with Connie and learn more about her work in empowering couples through communication secrets at www.theextraordinarymarriage.com . Learn the Secrets of Communicating with your Spouse through Private Coaching or invite a small group of friends to share a fun, enlightening workshop online or locally in person. Let's talk. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session    #Motherhood #FamilyLove #ParentingWisdom #TheExtraordinaryMarriage #Podcast #MothersDayCelebration --- Ready to dive deeper into the communication styles that can transform your marriage? Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com  and discover the tools to create a more connected and fulfilling partnership.
EPS 29 Debonair, Duty, & Dynamics with Jeff & Connie
May 2 2024
EPS 29 Debonair, Duty, & Dynamics with Jeff & Connie
Join Jeff & Connie as they share personal anecdotes and practical advice, drawing from their own 40-year journey of love and collaboration. Whether it's tackling the chores, managing finances, or supporting each other's roles, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for couples at any stage of their relationship. 🏡 Episode Chapters (00:00) A warm welcome back with insights on household responsibilities (02:15) How our parents' roles shape our approach to marriage (04:48) Jeff's childhood lessons on responsibility and teamwork (08:30) The pitfalls of not discussing responsibilities with your spouse (11:52) The consequences of assumptions and the power of communication (15:45) A humorous tale of unexpected lunch guests and marital learning curves (19:10) The importance of planning and talking through household tasks (22:57) How to achieve a fair work and family life balance (26:40) The challenges of busy schedules and the necessity of clear communication (30:25) The Couples Roadmap - a tool for planning and harmony in your marriage https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/roadmap For more insights and to connect with today's guests, visit www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com . Don't forget to subscribe & give us a rating on your favorite podcast host.. for your weekly dose of marriage enrichment and to share the love with other couples striving for an extraordinary partnership. #MarriageGoals #Teamwork #Communication #HouseholdManagement #TheExtraordinaryMarriage #PodcastLove #MaritalWisdom
Episode 27 What IS Communication in Marriage?
Apr 18 2024
Episode 27 What IS Communication in Marriage?
Ready for more effective communication with your spouse? Awareness is key! Welcome to a podcast that illuminates the intricate dance of communication within the sacred bond of marriage. Designed for those who have pledged their lives to one another, this podcast serves as a beacon for married couples seeking to foster a profound connection through the power of conversation. Understanding Communication Styles: We all communicate differently. Delve into the diverse ways in which we express ourselves—beyond words—and discover how to appreciate and adapt to your partner’s unique communication style. 🔹 Episode Highlights  (00:00) Unveiling the impact of differences on your relationship   (05:22) The four unexpected ways you're communicating with your spouse  (12:47) Three actionable tips to elevate your marital communication today   (18:34) The vital role of understanding in overcoming disconnects   (23:15) Connie's passion project: Communication Secrets for Marriage   (29:42) How a personal assessment can revolutionize your marriage   Self-Evaluation: On a scale from 1 to 10, where does your communication with your spouse fall? Engage in thoughtful self-reflection and self-assessment exercises that can inspire growth and improvement in your daily dialogues. Each episode is crafted with the aim of nurturing the roots of marital connection, fostering a richer understanding between partners, and cultivating an environment where both love and communication flourish. Whether you’re newlyweds or decades deep into your commitment, join us as we unlock the secrets to communicating more effectively, listening more deeply, and loving more completely. Subscribe to "The Extraordinary Podcast" and begin the journey to elevate the conversation within your marriage. Host - Connie Durham... Atlanta, GA Learn Communication Secrets in my OnDemand Class, Book me for small groups online and locally, or learn this method through private coaching to find specific solutions.   #family #marriage #theextraordinarymarriage #marriagematters #happyfamily www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
Episode 26 - Real, Resilient, & Rare Mom of 7
Apr 11 2024
Episode 26 - Real, Resilient, & Rare Mom of 7
Host - Connie Durham & Guest Tiffany Wicks We all dream of an extraordinary marriage; a union filled with love 💌, communication, and everlasting companionship. Yet, achieving this can often feel like a mystery. In our todays episode, we feature an incredible guest, Tiffany Wicks, whose life story resonates with strength and resilience. Like many of you, Tiffany has encountered real-life challenges stemming from her childhood and past experiences. Yet, it is her commitment to personal growth and determination to thrive as a wife and mother that truly sets her apart.  Through our engaging discussion, we explore the nuances of what makes a marriage not just work, but flourish. We shed light on the fundamental truths echoed in the concept that a great marriage begins with understanding how you're both different – in thoughts, temperaments, and responses. It's not always about changing each other, but about understanding and appreciating these differences, and using them to strengthen the bond you share.   Her podcast, To the Nines, echoes her philosophy of striving for excellence and empowering women to boldly pursue their goals without waiting for permission. 📋 Episode Chapters (00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters (01:27) Tiffany Wicks has a podcast called To the nines (07:57) Our energy all started with the creation of humans (08:39) M my mother was incredibly young when she got married (12:09) Tell me about your first year as a married couple (14:00) Tiffany says she and her husband are completely opposite in many ways (15:30) Tiffany says she wakes up every morning thinking about her husband (21:39) Tiffany says sometimes she feels attacked by her husband when asking questions (26:12) Tiffany, many women can't control their mouths or their emotions (30:47) Tiffany Wicks is a health and fitness coach and entrepreneur (34:01) Connie Durham shares marriage communication secrets on The Extraordinary Marriage podcast   For Show Notes and Tiffany's contact info, go to: www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com/PODCAST    #marriage #marriagematters #couples #happyfamily #lovestory #theextraordinarymarriage #podcast #real #nine #momlife *********** I have a FREE GIFT for you.... Learn more about your personality with... "The LoveXpertise" quiz... Then... get your spouse to take it too! This will create conversation! https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/lovexpertise-quiz
EPS 25 - How to Refill your LOVE Tank
Apr 4 2024
EPS 25 - How to Refill your LOVE Tank
Dive into the heart of a thriving partnership with Connie Durham in this week's episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, where we explore the critical balance of deposits and withdrawals in your love account. 🌹 💑 Connie, with her characteristic warmth and wisdom, invites us into an intimate conversation about the everyday actions that either enrich or deplete our marital bonds. From the art of forgiveness to the power of patience, she illuminates the small yet significant choices that can lead to a full 'bank account' of mutual love and respect.   📋 Episode Chapters (00:00) Being a team player affects every relationship that you have (06:15) The concept of deposits and withdrawals applies to every relationship you have (13:33) Whatever you're doing for your family or for your spouse is appreciated (15:28) Let's talk about deposits, because I like a full bank account (20:28) Can you see the importance of making deposits into your marriage (25:03) Connie Durham: Ten days to a happier marriage is just $18   💬 Leave your thoughts and experiences in the comments below - I would love to hear your take on maintaining a healthy, balanced love account in your relationship! Get 10 Days to Happier Marriage mini-course $18 https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/offers/fQ4LxbH6  ✅ Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insights on nurturing your relationship and living a life filled with love.   Connect with me: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheExtraordinaryMarriage/ Official Website: www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast #LoveAccount  #RelationshipGoals  #HealthyRelationships  #MarriageAdvice  #Podcast  #LoveAndLife  #theextraordinarymarriage
EPS 15 Purposeful Parenting No-Problem   Jaci Finneman
Jan 25 2024
EPS 15 Purposeful Parenting No-Problem Jaci Finneman
Feeling the stress of raising polite and well-behaved kids? Well, brace yourselves because your marriage might also be going through a rough patch! Prepare yourselves for some hilarious and eye-opening tips from Jaci & Connie as they spill the beans on how to have an extraordinary marriage while dealing with the challenges of parenting.  Don't miss out on this epic conversation! Jaci has one of my FAVORITE Gifts......Communicate better with your kids AND find many parts superb for husband or wife use also!!    60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool Find Links and Free Gifts in the Show notes @ www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com/podcast  Connie (The Extraordinary Marriage) Jaci (No-Problem Parenting)   Episode 15 Jaci Finneman, founder of Hello World, LLC, and No-Problem Parenting™, a parenting support company that serves parents and providers worldwide. Since its establishment in November 2013, Jaci has helped parents and providers become confident leaders through personalized parent coaching as well as consulting for providers and companies that employ parents. In 2019 Jaci branded No-Problem Parenting™ and launched the No Problem Parenting Podcast in 2021. She produced and published two No-Problem Parenting™ books between September 2022 and August 2023, ranking #1 Amazon New Release Best Seller and #1 International Best Seller, respectively. Jaci's goal is to reach one million parents by 2024 and help them replace guilt, fear, and frustration with confidence Before establishing Hello World, LLC, Jaci worked for 20 years as an in-home family counselor, mental health practitioner, and clinical team’s coordinator at a non-profit counseling agency.