Randi and Henry chat about parenting in 2024 and whether a cell phone is appropriate for a child to have. The luddite parents are taking over.   Honey Baked Ham Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Randi and Henry talk about how they show each other appreciation for each other and offer some great tips on how couples can make this a regular thing in their relationships. Step one, order a coconut cake from Honey Baked Ham. Honey Baked Ham Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry and Randi sit down and share their favorite memories they've made together. Think they are talking about sex? Honey Baked Ham Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Randi and Henry talk about some great date night ideas that might lead to sex (or not). Its hard to keep things fresh when you are dating your spouse - check out this list of ideas and reach out to us with your best date night ideas. Honey Baked Ham Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry and Randi respond to requests to talk about how they maximize time with their family while they have busy careers and piling up chores at home. Honey Baked Ham Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Sex and Ozempic, the two most listener requested topics. Today Randi and Henry are jumping into the Ozempic conversation and sharing about their story and how much it has impacted their lives.  Sometimes you get to the point where you need a little help with weight loss. There is no shame in needing help; Randi and Henry tell you all the details of when, why and how they got started on what has been an incredible resource to help them back to healthy! People say it is the easy way out... uh, yeah - duh? Who isn't signing up for the easy way? Let us know what you think - would you consider a weight loss medication? Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

The always fabulous Sheila Scruggs joins Henry and Randi in the studio to talk about all the things. Shelia (if you have been living under a rock) is the Upper Cumberland's Radio Queen. Her and Jason Grider have developed the "most local" local morning show! On 107.7 FM The Hub every weekday morning from 6-8 AM. Shelia talks about how she has ended up in Radio where she is and also about other projects she is working on, including Willow Window. There is talk about a career in feet pics, you'll have to listen to learn more about that! Good Morning Cookeville On Facebook Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry and Randi asked AI about some communication advice for healthy marriages. This one is spicy, find out whether they agree with ChatGPT, and each other. Lots of communicating in this episode - you tell us whether it is healthy! What are the things you think are important to a healthy marriage? Send us a message somewhere! Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Randi and Henry jump into a conversation on friends and how your friend groups can change over time. Life changes, new relationships, building businesses and focusing on family can cost you some friends - and if it does - maybe that is okay?  Randi opens up about the fact that Maggie has definitely impacted her ability to go out with friends - but that is just the stage of life they are in, and its okay. Henry talks about how he has a group of guys that have hung in there with him through thick and thin. These are the friends you need to have around you, and this is the kind of friend we need to be.  "The man who would have friends must show himself as friendly." - Benjamin Franklin Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry and Randi invite Jim and Tori Nelson into the studio to talk about some similarities they have (older husband, younger wife) and they talk about how this age difference impacts their relationship and their interactions with other people as well. A highlight is when Henry shares his response to those who tell him he is selfish for having children at such an older age. Spoiler: he tells them they can fuck off and it is none of their business. Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Randi and Henry opine on what has happened in Alabama. Henry jumps into the legal "think" of it all and discusses why this is really just fall out from the overturning of Roe v. Wade. Randi speaks from the heart as she talks about a woman's right to control those embryos.  Make sure you subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry and Randi jump right in to talking about the needs that partners have in their relationships. And you guessed it, they even talk about some sexual needs!  Make sure you subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Randi and Henry share funny stories from the wedding and divorce world. The stories just keep going; so funny. Make sure you subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry & Randi spend time talking about what moving on looks like after divorce. Henry speaks to the idea that divorce creates role changes and how we deal with each other is going to change. Divorce is grief in your life, and you need to be ready to deal with grief by putting in the right coping mechanisms in your life. Make sure you subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Website: idoididimdonepodcast.com Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

This conversation explores the topic of prenuptial agreements. Henry and Randi discuss the importance of open communication and understanding when it comes to discussing and creating a prenup. They emphasize the need to determine whether a prenup is necessary based on the couple's assets and financial situation. The hosts also highlight the importance of reviewing the prenup with a lawyer and seeking advice from other advisors.   Make sure you go ahead and subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry and Randi discuss the topic of age differences in relationships. They share their personal experiences and address the reactions they receive from others. They also talk about the benefits of age differences and how it has enhanced their lives. The conversation then transitions to the importance of choosing each other every day and respecting each other's tastes and alone time. Overall, the conversation highlights the value of embracing differences and navigating life's challenges together. Make sure you subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

This conversation explores the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a relationship after having children. Henry & Randi discuss the importance of prioritizing people over things and finding ways to be intimate despite interruptions from children. They share personal experiences and strategies for creating dedicated time for each other, such as planning date nights or getting away for a weekend. The conversation emphasizes the need for communication, vulnerability, and understanding in your relationship. Overall, the hosts highlight the importance of finding ways to reconnect and maintain a strong bond as a couple. Randi & Henry emphasize the challenges of finding time for intimacy and offer suggestions for scheduling sex. They also encourage couples to spice things up and explore new experiences together.

This conversation explores the challenges of divorced parenting and provides insights on how to navigate them. Henry & Randi discuss the importance of maintaining routine and stability for children, being honest with them while avoiding derogatory comments about the other parent, and finding a balance between honesty and age-appropriate discussions. They also highlight the difficulties of communication between divorced parents and the impact of uncertainty on children. Randi & Henry talk about the importance of a detailed parenting plan, the need for flexibility and reasonableness, the role of in-laws, protecting children from hurtful comments, being positive, and making promises. Henry closes us out with a joke - you want to hear it! Ha.

Henry and Randi talk about their experiences with Maggie and the NICU at Vanderbilt Hospital. Randi shares about how priorities, and other things she thought was important, change in light of the experience with the NICU. Henry explains how his experiences in mountaineering prepared him for dealing with the challenge of having a child in the NICU, focusing on the next thing that is in front of you and taking the next step. **This is an emotional episode that deals with the heavy topic of infant mortality. Just a warning. Make sure you go ahead and follow this podcast, and follow us on social media! Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher

Henry & Randi look at the importance of setting a work/life balance. They talk about both having careers where work could easily follow you home and how they combat this to make sure time with each other and their kids isn't impacted negatively. Looking at their family pizza and movie night ritual, they talk about making sure to commit to disconnecting from work, and the rest of the outside pressures we face, and focusing in on healthy activities with family. Make sure you go ahead and subscribe to this podcast and follow us on social media! Podcast Instagram: I do, I Did, I'm Done! Randi Instagram:@randisfincher