Join The Waitlist now for our Sensuality & Soft Touch Signature Workshop In this episode we discuss the transformative power of sensuality and soft touch to enhance sexual experiences.  Will describes his birthday surprise, when he was blindfolded and treated to an erotic experience, not knowing who or how many women were touching him… We explore how to be present with sensations, how to drop into receiving touch, and what happens when we remove goal-oriented thinking from intimate situations.  We also give you a glimpse behind the scenes at our signature Sensuality Workshop, where couples and individuals learn to connect more deeply using intentional touch and presence.  === Follow and Chat with Us on Instagram === Have you listened to our episode about SEXUAL FANTASIES - how to share them and overcome taboos?  Listen on Apple  Listen on Spotify  === 01:42 Beyond Sex As “The Goal” 02:36 Introducing Our Signature Sensuality Workshop 03:42 Will's Sensual Birthday Surprise 11:56 The Dom/Sub Relationship Parallel 14:05 Mindfulness in Sex and Sensuality 16:23 Learning To Receive Touch as a Man: Vulnerability and Masculinity 20:58 Exploring Sensuality Beyond the Bedroom 21:29 Inside Our Sensuality & Soft Touch Signature Workshop: What to Expect 21:51 Sensuality versus Sexuality 23:17 “Eye Candy”: Sensual Energy Beyond Touch 25:45 “Mind Candy”: Fantasies and Sexy Talk === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. ===  >> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” === NEW!! You can now support us on Patreon === >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Signature Workshop: Join The Waitlist here

Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment. Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them. In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some fantasies that we had never revealed before. We explore what makes it hard to express desires that our conditioning labels weird or dirty. We reflect on how liberating it feels to take that leap of faith and be rewarded with love (and sexy opportunity!). You’ll hear about public sex in kinky clubs, blindfolds and restraints, anonymous touch, and playing with multiple people. Perhaps, listening to us might inspire you or trigger a spicy conversation with your partner... === >> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” === Follow us & Contact Us on Instagram === Sign up for our next SENSUALITY SIGNATURE WORKSHOP: Join The Waitlist === 01:17 Exploring The Unspoken Desires 03:25 The Allure and Limits of Fantasies 04:01 The Fantasy Of Being Taken…  05:02 It's Shameful to Express Sexual Fantasies… NOT!  05:51 Conditioning of Female Sexuality: Why Can't I Be A Slut?? 07:28 Embracing and Expressing Fantasies: Playing Within a Group  09:00 70 Virgins or 7 Sluts? 11:35 We All Have A Masculine And Feminine Side 15:44 It's Important For A Woman To Feel Respected And In Control 16:02 Anonymous Sex In A Club Anyone? 16:41 Another Spicy Fantasy: Tying a Woman up to a Pole in a Club 19:03 When Fantasies Become Real: Experience a Sex Positive Club! 24:09 The Power of Eye Contact in Erotic Spaces 25:44 10 Men Watching?? 26:35 Voicing Your Fantasy Will Set You Free 28:10 Recap of Today’s Top 4 Learnings === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. === FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” === SENSUALITY SIGNATURE WORKSHOP: Join The Waitlist

Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” == It’s the Origin Stories episode! Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of our lives. We explain how we “fell” into non-monogamy, survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus.  Hear spicy stories about our first experiences with group sex and how we learned to communicate, trust and stand up for ourselves. Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut sex party, and that’s fine – we’re not kink evangelists! We use stories from the fruity end of the spectrum to explore ideas that can empower everybody – singles and monogamous folks included. == 01:14 Introduction to The Episode 02:27 You Should Listen If... 02:51 Will's Journey: From Vanilla to Exploration 05:21 Finding Freedom and Rebirth through Love and Exploration 06:04 Chiara’s Transformation: from Catholic Roots to Kissing a Woman (!) 08:57 From Fantasy To Reality 10:56 Communicate Clearly Before Swinging! 12:52 “Sexperts” Night 14:40 Fun4Two: Our First Swingers Club 15:39 The Dark Room 18:29 "The Hot Tub Lady" Encounter  21:21 I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It 25:11 Allie's Life Adventure: from Small Town Girl to Adventurous Sex Lover 28:08 If We Cheat We Cheat Together 29:29 The Sexy Castle Adventure... Attempt 33:14 Sorry - I Already Came! 34:30 Swinging CAN Strengthen Relationships 39:59 How Swinging Environments Can Gift Body Confidence 41:24 How to Navigate the Swinging Scene 43:25 Is Swinging for Me?  45:44 Keeping the Spark Alive 51:02 The Hot Tub Story: The Good, The Bad And The Ugly 51:45 No Condom Asked 55:23 What We Learnt From Our Mistakes At Our First Swingers Club 56:19 Be Open! (To Listen AND To Communicate) == WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. == >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Follow us on Instagram

Today’s episode is all about a very common problem for both men and women: body image. You’ll hear how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship. Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey to overcome shame that her boobs were “too big”, and then “scarred”. We explore how the lens of positive self-perception can boost sexual confidence: deeper sexiness comes from feeling confident and comfortable in one's skin, rather than conforming to external beauty standards. For those that might be curious, you’ll also hear how non-monogamy and swinging can be platforms for receiving genuine feedback from others that don’t necessarily have a vested interest in just giving you a compliment - like a husband or friend would do. === 01:13 Body Confidence for Better Intimacy 01:19 Body Image and Self-Perception: “my boobs are too big!” 02:09 The Impact that Body Image Can Have on Intimacy 02:26 Overcoming Body Image Issues 02:29 The Role of Mindset in Sensuality 03:41 The Influence of Media on Body Image 04:06 The Disconnect Between Appearance and Self-Perception 04:53 The Importance of Self-Acceptance 05:37 Redefining Attractiveness 06:17 “Beautiful” Doesn’t Mean “Sexy”: The Impact of Arrogance on Attractiveness 07:12 The Journey to Feeling “Comfortable”, not “Confident” 09:17 How Moderate Physical Activity can Improve Your Body Image Perception 11:04 The Importance of Healthy Eating 12:06 The Power of Positive Self-Perception 12:58 Embracing Your Body is Liberating! 13:51 Chiara's Breast Reduction Experience 13:55 Embrace the Changes in Your Body 19:15 Men's Perspectives on Body Image and Self-Acceptance 21:46 Redefining Sexiness: Beyond the Physical 22:13 The Impact of Confidence and Comfort on Sexiness 28:32 The Importance of Compliments in Relationships 32:11 The Power of Feedback and Self-Acceptance 33:21 The Beauty of Imperfection: Embracing Your Body Post-Childbirth 37:53 The Impact of Physical Appearance on Self-Perception 37:53 The Incredible Impact of Feeling Good on Your Sexual Life 39:13 Practical Tips for Improving Body Image and Confidence 39:59 Positive Self-Talk and Compliments 42:18 Conclusion: Embracing Happiness and Confidence in Your Skin === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. ===  >> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Email us your questions and suggestions  >> Follow us on Instagram

Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”   In this special edition which we recorded naked (!!), we cover the differences between transactional sex vs. deeper, more intimate and sensual connections.  We share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge erotic connections in all kinds of relationships.  We talk about how rare it is to find partners who share a similar emphasis on slow, intimate play, and we will provide a few tips on how to communicate  intimacy in your relationship, so that you can harness the power of focusing on the present moment to have mind blowing experiences.   01:56 A bold start: we are recording NAKED today! 02:31 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Norm 05:16 Personal Boundaries and Evolving Relationships 07:44 The Power of Sensuality  17:55 The Impact of Trust and Respect in Sensual Encounters 22:48 The Essence of Sensuality: Being Present and Connected with Each Other 30:07 Navigating Safety and Comfort  36:56 Is He Worthy Of You? 38:11 Exploring the Paradox of Intimacy in Swinging === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. === >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Email us your questions and suggestions  >> Follow us on Instagram

In this episode we talk about how non-monogomy can strengthen relationships, contrary to what many people fear. You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond?  We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together.  Allie shares how she made her man’s fantasy come true by organizing a surprise birthday party, where he got to play with a bunch of naughty secretaries in his office… While you might get excited by the hot details, this story is actually a great example of how communication and trust made the whole experience even stronger. We’ll give you the ins and outs of how to prioritize the couple’s intimacy, desire, and mutual pleasure while maintaining a strong emotional connection with each other. We also talk about: personal growth, how sharing fantasies can help you increase trust, how to communicate that there is something wrong by processing information before making a scene, and how to ask for what you need. === 02:49 Exploring Swinging: Strengthening Relationships Through Shared Experiences 04:18 Allie’s POV 04:18 The Power of Communication and Boundaries in Swinging 04:48 Unleashing Fantasies: The Journey of Sharing and Exploring Together 05:11 Chiara’s POV 06:48 The Best Birthday Present: A Naughty Fantasy Come True  15:56 Will’s POV 21:06 Chiara’s View On Respect 21:13 Navigating Challenges and Emotions in Swinging 26:31 The Importance of Confidence and Teamwork in Swinging 28:59 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Relationship Dynamics 40:36 “We Don’t Need This”  42:59 A Magical Connection When Sharing Pleasure and Intimacy === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. ===  >> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Email us your questions and suggestions   >> Follow us on Instagram

In this first episode we dive deep into the challenges that couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life, especially as responsibilities grow and the initial spark fades. We have a very open and honest discussion about the importance of creating time for intimacy and sensuality - which is not just having “sexual intercourse” as your main goal. We share our own experiences and learnings, such as how we communicated in tricky situations, how we made ourselves vulnerable and how to create a safe space for each other. We also discuss how non-monogamy might be an option for some, as a catalyst for deeper connection and exploration beyond what traditional society teaches us. === 02:16 Welcome to Our Sensual Journey 03:07 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Sexual Fulfillment 04:50 The Common Struggle of Maintaining Intimacy 06:46 Prioritizing Your Relationship Amidst a Busy Life 10:50 The Importance of Quality Over Quantity in Sexual Relationships 15:43 Exploring Non-Monogamy and Its Impact on Our Relationship 22:18 The Role of Inner Work in Enhancing Sexual Connection 37:38 Advice for Couples Struggling with Intimacy 39:25 What Actually Worked for Us === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. ===  >> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Send us your questions and suggestions   >> Follow us on Instagram

This is a podcast about sex where three sex positive friends - who also happen to be globally accredited coaches - share their own journey through  super sexy adventures and incredibly fulfilling sex lives. By learning how to effectively communicate needs and desires to partners, we unlocked our own sexual energy, and our erotic lives have been completely transformed. We have seen it all: we have been through marriages, kids, divorces, affairs, heartache, frustration, resentment… So we do know how it feels to be stuck and unfulfilled in a relationship. But we’ve discovered an amazing new world of possibilities, where you can actually feel safe to fully express yourself sexually, guilt- and shame- free. No matter if you’re single or coupled up, vanilla or spicy, this is where you’ll find the fuel for your sexy fire. We believe we’ve found our holy grail. And we hope to inspire you to find yours too.   >> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Email us your questions and suggestions:   >> Follow us on Instagram