Too Dad To Quit Podcast

Ben & Yoel

The Too Dad to Quit podcast is hosted by Ben & Yoel, two dads on the other side of divorce, with five kids each. Yoel is a lawyer, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and author. Ben is an author, YouTuber, and sales engineer. The goal of the Too Dad to Quit podcast is to share the stories of dads on the other side of divorce to inspire and give strength dads going through it and encouraging dads to stay involved in their kids' lives. Share Your Story https://toodadtoquit.com/contact FOLLOW US: https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: https://toodadtoquit.locals.com Ben & Yoel read less
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Episodes

#50 - A Dad's Race To Stop His Son's Blindness with Steve Johnston
Feb 25 2024
#50 - A Dad's Race To Stop His Son's Blindness with Steve Johnston
In this week's episode, we welcome a truly remarkable guest, Steve Johnston. In this extraordinary conversation hosted by Ben, we explore the compelling journey of a dad who's not just battling the trials of parenthood but also facing a race against blindness. Steve Johnston joins us to share his powerful testament of resilience, fatherhood, and the human spirit. In the face of a challenging diagnosis for his son Luke, Steve defies the odds and demonstrates that being a dad is not just about seeing with the eyes but persevering with the heart. In this heartfelt discussion, we unpack Steve's experiences of fatherhood to the diagnosis that changed his perspective on life. His story isn't just about overcoming obstacles; it's about transforming challenges into opportunities for growth and connection within his family. As a guest on the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast, Steve Johnston becomes a beacon of inspiration for fathers navigating their own unique challenges. His insights into the intersection of parenthood and a race against blindness offer a profound perspective on what it means to be "too dad to quit" in the face of adversity. Tune in to this special episode to witness the strength, love, and tenacity that define Steve Johnston's role as a dad. Whether you're a parent, soon-to-be dad, or simply someone inspired by tales of triumph, this conversation will leave you uplifted, motivated, and ready to face life's challenges with newfound courage. Subscribe now to the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast and be part of a community celebrating the extraordinary stories of dads like Steve Johnston. Discover the depth of the human spirit and the power of fatherhood, proving that even in a race against blindness, one can be "Too Dad To Quit." Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/qPEeHLSCKZ4 Chapters: 00:00 Facing a Diagnosis: From Grief to Action 00:18 The Future of AI and Personalized Technologies 00:35 Being a Role Model for My Son 01:24 Inspiring Stories of Strength: Two Dads To Quit Podcast - Featuring Steve Johnston 03:49 Drive to Make the Web Accessible for All 04:48 Finding Purpose Through Advocacy 06:39 Understanding Genetic Conditions and Their Impact 09:18 Show Recommendation and ADHD Discussion 10:05 Innovative Services and New Show Concepts for Visually Impaired 13:21 The Impact of AI and Technology on Accessibility 16:29 Parenting and Co-Parenting Challenges 17:19 Creating a Supportive Family Environment for Children with Special Needs 21:44 Supporting Vision-Saving Therapy for a Unique Diagnosis 27:28 Father Trains for Ironman Race to Inspire Son 31:25 Parenting and Child's Activities 32:54 Reflections on an Iron Man Race 37:09 Embracing Individuality and Family Reactions to a Diagnosis 39:01 Overcoming Challenges with a Positive Mindset 43:21 Parenting Reflections on Vision Loss and Priorities 47:49 The Importance of Seeking Help in Marriage 50:38 Proud Dad Moment: Celebrating Son's Karate Achievements 51:24 Advice for Dads Going Through Divorce 52:59 Connecting with Race Against Blindness: A Nonprofit's Social Media Presence SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠ Episode Resources: Daredevil Movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muPX9Oi7-EE Sight Unseen TV Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joHB3Cs4pgk Behind The Scenes, Google Pixel Big Game Commercial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=geC3D-X6a_g Reach out to Steve: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/a.race.against.blindness Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dad.vs.blindness Web: https://araceagainstblindness.org Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: https://facebook.com/groups/toodadtoquit Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#49 - Men Need Safe Spaces To Express Themselves with Terraine Brown
Jan 7 2024
#49 - Men Need Safe Spaces To Express Themselves with Terraine Brown
In this week's episode, step into an enlightening conversation on the "Behind the Shades" podcast as host Terraine Brown welcomes Ben & Yoel. Terraine engages with the hosts of the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast in a candid dialogue about their experiences, motivations, and inspirational stories that have shaped their podcast. Together, they peel back the layers of fatherhood, revealing the raw emotions, challenges, and moments of triumph that have defined their journey as dads and podcast hosts. Drawing from their wealth of knowledge and personal experiences, they discuss the power of storytelling in uplifting and empowering dads from all walks of life, emphasizing the importance of community and support in parenting. Terraine Brown leads the conversation, navigating through the diverse perspectives of the "Too Dad to Quit" hosts, providing listeners with a multifaceted understanding of the joys and complexities of being a dad in today's world. Join us for an enriching episode on the "Behind the Shades" podcast as we uncover the essence of fatherhood with the hosts of "Too Dad to Quit." Whether you're a father or someone passionate about stories that celebrate the strength and dedication of dads, this conversation will leave you inspired, enlightened, and ready to embrace the journey of fatherhood with renewed vigor and purpose. Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/awSetkaO7H8 Chapters: 00:00 Supporting Dads on the Other Side of Divorce 01:18 Excitement About Being a Podcast Guest 02:11 The Impact of Divorce on Men: A Discussion with Ben 03:16 Joel's Story and Men Navigating Divorce 04:21 Growing Up with Separated Parents 04:49 Navigating Divorce and Finding Support 06:37 The Challenges Faced by Men in Divorce Cases 07:31 Growing up with a Single Mother & Misconceptions About Single Dads 07:55 Supporting Single Parents: The Launch of a Facebook Group 09:47 Emotional and Painful Aspects of Divorce 10:48 Personal Experience and Approach to the Podcast 11:54 Identity, Support, and Legal Perspectives on Divorce 13:48 Equality for Men & Shelters for Men and Children: A Call for Gender-Neutral Resources 15:09 Balancing Support for Men and Women & Challenges faced by men in expressing themselves 16:49 Equality of Men and Women, Challenges in Discussing Emotions, and Dad's House Organization 18:49 Supportive Podcast: Dad's House and Personal Stories 20:16 Fatherly Pride and Inclusion on Podcasts & Men and Emotions: A Woman's Awakening 21:21 Challenging Stereotypes: Men Opening Up Emotionally 22:43 Reevaluating Societal Expectations and Finding Pride in Fatherhood 24:20 A Heartwarming Moment with My Child & Joy of Spending Time with Kids 25:56 The Speaker's Love and Pride for Their Children 27:41 Commonalities in Helping Men Achieve Proud Moments and Feel Safe & Creating a Safe Space 28:41 The Impact of Having a Platform for Men to Share Experiences & The Power of the Podcast: Providing a Platform for Personal Stories 32:09 The Need for Closure and the Consequences of Silence & The Dynamics of Divorce Decisions 35:51 Understanding Divorce and Gender Differences & Advice for Men Navigating Divorce 38:09 Reducing Conflict for Children's Well-being & Loving Yourself After a Breakup or Divorce 39:03 Physical Fitness and Mental Health 39:55 Personal Growth and Self-Improvement SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message Episode Resources: Behind The Shades Coaching: https://www.behindtheshades.ca YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@behindtheshades Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2SeqWFZHDQ3DsSOqpgOqj7 Reach out to Terraine: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/behindtheshadesfb Twitter: https://twitter.com/TerraineLeBeau Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: https://toodadtoquit.locals.com Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#48 - A Heroic Dad's Conscious Shift In Priorities with Kyle West
Nov 19 2023
#48 - A Heroic Dad's Conscious Shift In Priorities with Kyle West
In this candid and moving conversation, Kyle opens up about his personal journey through the maze of fatherhood, sharing heartfelt stories and invaluable insights gleaned along the way. From the early stages of parenting to navigating the complexities of being a modern dad, Kyle's experiences illuminate the essence of resilience, determination, and the pure joy of being a dedicated dad. A true testament to the ethos of the Too Dad to Quit Podcast, Kyle discusses the balancing act between work, family, and personal growth. His perspective on the importance of fostering a nurturing environment for his children and the significance of being a positive role model stands as a beacon of inspiration for dads worldwide. Join us on this special episode as we explore Kyle West's introspection and life-changing decisions, his triumphs, and the lessons learned in the pursuit of being the parent he never had. Whether you're a divorced dad or someone exploring the potential of separating, this conversation will leave you feeling empowered and motivated to embrace the challenges and joys that come with the role. Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/tysXPPf-2M4 Chapters: 00:00 Introduction & Role of Podcast 01:16 Interview with Kyle West and Growing Up in South Africa 04:32 Exploring South Africa and Personal Interests 05:56 Importance of Faith and Connection and Reflections on Self-Thinking 09:14 Finding Beauty in Ordinary Things and Understanding Joy 12:17 Dealing with Envy and Focusing on Connections 13:26 Reflection on Success and Legacy 18:19 Discussing Personal Relationship with Money 19:36 Balancing Work and Family Life 25:37 Journey in Electronics and Engineering 31:42 Changing Perspectives and Career Challenges 34:17 Journey of Personal Growth and Transformation 38:14 Reflections on Recovery and Parenting 40:20 Staying Fit and Health Transformation 41:50 Navigating Life's Challenges and Starting Heroic Dad Coaching 43:38 Struggles of Fatherhood and Divorce 47:39 Childhood Reflections and Personal Legal Battles 52:43 Building a Strong Parent-Child Relationship 56:14 Advice for Dads Going Through a Separation or Divorce 57:40 Conclusion SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Video: Secret Beach on Table Mountain by Dan Mace , https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPUjckd5KeU Book: The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It by Warren Farrell and John Gray, https://www.amazon.com/Boy-Crisis-Boys-Struggling-About/dp/1948836130 Video: Piers Morgan vs Dana White, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edhknTTq7bM Video: Story of the Girl Scout Cookies with Jim Rohn, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84i3XV0YNmk Reach out to Kyle: YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theheroicdad Instagram: https://instagram.com/theheroicdad LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heroic-dad Web: https://heroic.dad Email: kyle@heroic.dad Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/groups/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit ⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#47 - Planning Leads To The High Road In Divorce with Andy Heller
Nov 12 2023
#47 - Planning Leads To The High Road In Divorce with Andy Heller
Get ready for an extraordinary episode on the Too Dad to Quit podcast as we sit down with the incredible Andy Heller, a serial entrepreneur, and author of Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family. Hosted by Ben, this conversation is a deep dive into the life, challenges, and unwavering commitment that define Andy's journey as a dad. In this heartfelt discussion, Andy shares his personal stories, triumphs, and the lessons he's learned while navigating the unpredictable terrain of divorce. Andy and Ben discuss how Andy decided to move across the country to be near his children and dive into the topics of his book. Andy shares his writing process and how he took business concepts like conflict resolution and applied them to co-parenting. Andy's book lays out the business plan for a well-thought-out divorce and post-divorce co-parenting experience. As a testament to the Too Dad to Quit ethos, Andy discusses how he has transformed challenges into opportunities, becoming an inspiration for dads everywhere. Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/PtqRXdvhZ5U Chapters: 00:00 Therapy and Self-Reflection: A Personal Story 00:33 To Dad To Quit Podcast Introduction 01:25 Sharing Personal Stories, Introducing Andy Heller and His Book 04:04 Personal Background and Moving Across the Country for Family 05:55 Personal Experiences in Real Estate & Going Through Therapy 08:48 Sef-Reflection, Being the Reasonable Thinker and Emotional Compromise 10:12 Creating a Best Practices Manual for Divorcees 12:24 Appreciation for Pausing, Practical Advice, and the Importance of Self-Care 16:49 The Importance of Communication and Joining Clubs for Support 18:56 Dealing with High Conflict Divorces and the Importance of Taking the High Road 22:30 Prioritization and Strategic Compromise in Negotiations 25:05 Business Strategy: Providing Multiple Options 27:46 Challenges and Adaptation after Separation 30:24 Preparing for Divorce: Taking Inventory and Enhancing Communication 32:34 Observations on Divorce Tendencies and the Approach to Co-Parenting 34:43 Dealing with High Conflict Relationships 37:57 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Planning for the Future 41:40 Advice on Parenting and Communication during Divorce 46:44 Personal Growth and Development as a Parent 52:57 More Divorce Advice and Takeaways 55:40 Closing Remarks and Farewell SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠ Episode References: Book: How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Kids-Will-Listen/dp/1451663889 Book: BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns by Bill Eddy, https://www.amazon.com/BIFF-Responses-High-Conflict-Personal-Meltdowns/dp/1936268728 Andy's Book: Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family by Andy Heller, https://www.amazon.com/Take-High-Road-Compassion-Yourself/dp/B0C1J1RJL2 Reach out to Andy: Facebook: ⁠https://facebook.com/takethehighroadbook Instagram: ⁠https://instragram.com/andyheller Web: https://takethehighroaddivorce.com Email: andy@takethehighroaddivorce.com Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/groups/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠ Follow Us: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit ⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#46 - On A Mission To Help Men and Dads Become Better with Ryan Shortill
Oct 15 2023
#46 - On A Mission To Help Men and Dads Become Better with Ryan Shortill
In this week's episode, we sit down with Ryan Shortill. Ryan's passion for being an engaged and supportive dad shines through as he discusses the role of dads in shaping the future and the cherished moments that make it all worthwhile. His story is a testament to the strength and determination that define the essence of fatherhood. Tune in to this special episode of the Too Dad to Quit podcast to discover how Ryan Shortill embodies the spirit of being "Too Dad To Quit." Whether you're a dad yourself or simply someone who appreciates the profound impact of dads, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and motivated. After struggling to find a support system for divorced dads, Ryan founded the Dads Organization. Dad’s Organization is a fellowship of men who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may be better fathers and family men within their communities. Ryan's story is a reminder that fatherhood is a journey worth taking, and you too can embrace the mantra of being "Too Dad To Quit." Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠ Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/GIGPaFI48OM Chapters: 00:00 Two Dads to Quit: Inspiring Stories of Dads on the Other Side of Divorce 01:23 Interview with Ryan Shorthill and Conversation About Fatherhood and Support 04:00 My Journey of Travel, Service, and Building Communities for Single Dads 05:58 Creating a Safe Space for Dads and Finding Wisdom in Personal Changes 08:59 A Challenging Time and The Healing Power of Nature 11:23 Reflections on Parents' Divorce, Future Relationships, and Breakups 13:33 Maintaining Relationships and Personal Growth 15:27 Creating a Supportive Community for Dads 18:47 Origins and Evolution of the Dads Organization 20:40 Perspectives on Gender, Empowerment, and Emotional Support 23:07 Collecting Families and Friends: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth 26:12 Creating a Supportive Space for Men and Group Efforts 27:26 Reflections on Family, Loss, and Parent-Child Relationships 31:57 Importance of Division of Labor and Not Keeping Score in Relationships 36:07 Fighting for My Kids and Ins and Outs of Fatherhood 39:31 Raising a Large Family: Joys, Reflections, and Advice SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠ Episode References: Book: Greenlights, by McConaughey Matthew, https://www.amazon.com/Greenlights-McConaughey-Matthew/dp/1472280873 Book: The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage, by Ben Tzion Shafier, https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767 Author: Brene Brown, https://www.amazon.com/stores/Bren%C3%A9-Brown/author/B001JP45BA Social Media Influencer: Emily King, https://linktr.ee/emilywking Reach out to Ryan: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DadsOrganization Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsorganization Da's Organization: https://dadsorg.com Follow Us: ⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit ⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/toodadtoquit⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#45 - A Grateful Dad Whose Life Changed After A Trip with Josh Polsky
Oct 2 2023
#45 - A Grateful Dad Whose Life Changed After A Trip with Josh Polsky
In this week's episode, we sit down with Josh Polsky. Hosted by Ben, this episode is an intimate conversation with Josh discussing his upbringing in St. Louis, his passion for the Grateful Dead, and the night that changed his life. Tune in to this special episode of the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast about how Josh Polsky traveled the country after converting from a "dead head" hater to a festival-going dead head. Learn how Josh fell into a 23-year career in marketing and a more recent life as DJ Polsky as well as Josh sharing the most impactful trip of his life. Josh takes us on a journey through his life and the work he has done to make him the man and dad he is today. Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/sQAChbY-GSQ Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Personal Processes and Introducing the Two Dads to Quit Podcast 01:55 Interview with Digital Marketer Josh Polsky 03:16 Casual Conversation about Personal Experiences 05:31 Living in a Small Town and the Appeal of Hobbit Houses 10:02 Exploring Caves at Bay Guvrin and Unexpectedly Strong Acid Experience 17:18 Religion, Negativity, and Personal Experience 24:08 Discovering DJing at a Trance Festival 28:53 Turning Rock Songs into Lullabies and a Career in Marketing 32:34 Challenges of Running a Marketing Company in Israel as an Independent American 34:34 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Personal Growth 35:34 Selling a Business, Job Hunt, and Enjoying Hobbies 39:51 Living in a Small Country: Advantages and Cool Diving Spot 43:57 Discovering Hidden Gems in Israel 46:42 The Power of Patience 47:08 Exploring NLP Certification as an Alternative to a Psych Degree 53:10 Watching My Children Grow and Finding Happiness 56:12 Closing Remarks of To Dad To Quit Podcast SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message Episode References: Book: Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma by Pete Walker, https://www.amazon.com/Complex-PTSD-Surviving-RECOVERING-CHILDHOOD/dp/1492871842 Psychedelics in Congress via FoxNews: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgOuvlRWYZ4 Beit Guvrin National Park: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beit_Guvrin-Maresha_National_Park Coppadocia Turkey via Lost LeBlanc: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCQwOusdMfk Masada Caves via BengineerTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2nKX3_jshA Reach out to Josh: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/polsky LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuapolsky Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshuapolsky Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: https://facebook.com/groups/toodadtoquit Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#44 - How To Make Your Comeback After Divorce With Robb Brooks
Sep 24 2023
#44 - How To Make Your Comeback After Divorce With Robb Brooks
In this week's episode, we sit down with Robb Brooks. Ben delves into the inspiring journey of Robb Brooks, a remarkable individual hailing from the sunny shores of Sarasota, Florida. Robb's story is one of unwavering determination and an unquenchable thirst for success that was tested after his divorce. After almost giving up, Robb transformed his life and has become an inspiration for other divorced men. Robb's story is of a man who had everything and one day found himself embarrassed of his post-divorce situation. However, on one of the best fishing days of his life, he left his future up to the Almighty and he answered his prayers. His story is a testament to the indomitable spirit of a father who refuses to quit, no matter the challenges that life throws his way. Through trials and tribulations, Robb's resilience shines through, inspiring all who cross his path. Robb Brooks is not just a man with a vision; he's a living testament to the idea that with unwavering determination, anything is possible. Join us in this captivating episode as we uncover the wisdom, experiences, and unstoppable ambition that define Robb Brooks, the embodiment of "Too Dad To Quit". Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtu.be/8AeiF7H0mDs Chapters: 00:00 Finding Joy and Meaning in Challenging Times 00:35 Setting Income and Network Goals 01:24 Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting: A Conversation with Rob Brooks 03:12 Speaker's Hobbies and Outdoor Activities 06:02 Exploring the Guest's Books and Impact of Divorce 14:27 Revisiting Divorce Experiences and Moving Forward 17:09 Finding Joy and Hope in Solitude 18:46 Finding Life's Meaning and Joy 21:45 Pursuit of Helping Others and Personal Improvement 27:22 Sports and Personal Growth 31:05 Sharing Land Business and Investing in Real Estate Stories 45:34 Life Lessons from Sports to Real Estate 49:18 Personal Journey through Post-Divorce and Children Relationships 54:04 The Ups and Downs of Divorce and Fatherhood 57:00 Gratitude and Farewell SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Book: P.D.M.M.M. - POST DIVORCE MALE MELTDOWN MODE™: How To Defeat The Post Divorce Hangover That Leaves Men Stuck, Emasculated, and Just Melted Down So That You Can Get Back To Your Winning Ways! by Robb Brooks, https://pdmmmbook.com Book: PLAY 4444: YOUR GREATEST COMEBACK NOW! by Robb Brooks, https://comebackplay4444.com Facebook Group: THE ART OF YOUR COMEBACK - The Modern Man’s Path Back To Winning!, https://bit.ly/artofyourcomeback Robb's Real Estate Course: Land Banking Millions, https://landbankingmillions.com Mention "Too Dad to Quit" to receive discounts and VIP perks! Reach out to Robb: Facebook: https://facebook.com/rob.land.14661 Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: https://bit.ly/TDTQcommunity Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#43 - She Didn't Realize Men Have Feelings Too with Caneisha Berry
Aug 13 2023
#43 - She Didn't Realize Men Have Feelings Too with Caneisha Berry
In this week's episode, we share our first guest spot on another podcast, the Berry Thoughtful Life podcast with Caneisha Berry. We did not know what to expect, but we were excited to be the first male guests on this extraordinary podcast focused on helping women identify their feelings. We shared why we started the Too Dad To Quit podcast, but the discussion quickly turns into Caneisha being at a loss for words about how honest and vulnerable Ben & Yoel were about their divorce journeys. Something that she says is missing in today's society from culture, social circles, and the media. We were so enlightened by this conversation that we decided our listeners needed to hear it as well. Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠https://youtu.be/nzabkKVQIWs Chapters: 00:00 Voice in Divorce and Divorced Fathers' Stories 03:29 Traveling Experience and Power of Friendship 06:13 Divorce During COVID and Support for Men in Divorce 07:52 Overcoming Challenges and Value of Divorced Fathers 09:17 Importance of Father-Child Relationship 11:10 Show Feedback and Personal Background 12:02 Background, Travel, and Positives of Divorce 14:46 Emotional Awareness and Untold Stories of Divorce 17:09 Changing Perceptions of Relationships 21:40 Divorce Rates and Power of Communication 23:14 Proud Dad Moments and Validating Fathers 26:01 The Realities of Marriage and Relationships 27:37 Perspectives on Understanding and Empathy in Divorce 32:52 Understanding Different Perspectives 33:21 Male Suicide Rate Amidst Divorce SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Caneisha's Book: https://berry-thoughtful-life-coaching.square.site/s/shop Get in touch with Caneisha: Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100078330557516 Email: cberry@berrythoughtfullife.com Website: https://www.berrythoughtfullife.com Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#42 - The Importance Of Never Quitting On Your Kids with Robert Glasco
Aug 6 2023
#42 - The Importance Of Never Quitting On Your Kids with Robert Glasco
In this week's episode, we sit down with Robert Glasco. Sit back for a captivating and inspiring journey of resilience, triumph, and unwavering determination as we delve into the life and experiences of a true hero in our latest episode of the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast. The incredible story of Robert, a man whose unyielding spirit and unbreakable bond with fatherhood have carved a path of inspiration for all. Through the highs and lows of Robert's life, from his early days of facing adversity to becoming a beacon of hope for those striving to overcome obstacles. Robert's story is a testament to the power of fatherhood, resilience, and determination. Through engaging conversations, we dive deep into his experiences, from balancing the responsibilities of fatherhood to pursuing his dreams, all while defying societal norms and expectations. Our conversation with Robert offers listeners a front-row seat to the wisdom he's gained, the lessons he's learned, and the impact he's made on his family. Tune in to this captivating episode of the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast as Robert shares his 7-year battle to see his kids and how he was able to keep himself from quitting along the way! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/8bevcaw7aTw Chapters: 00:00 Robert Glasgow: A Single Dad's Journey to Custody 03:33 Adopting a Healthier Lifestyle: Microdosing and Wim Hof 06:37 The Power of Breath: Understanding and Benefits of Breathwork 08:47 Discussing Wim Hof, Autobiography of a Yogi, and Mindfulness 11:38 Reflections on the Past and Interest in Books 13:21 Interviewee's Background in Computer Programming and Nonprofit Work 16:11 Getting a Job at a Hiking Company 17:07 Reflections on Recent Activities and the Local Economy 17:35 Gratitude for a Beautiful Home and Contentment 18:05 The Speaker's Experience with a Home Visitor Program 18:37 Reconnecting with My Children After Years Apart 20:00 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Relationships 21:26 Living with Parkinson's and Good Support 21:51 Reflections on Sticking it Out 22:18 Teaching Financial Responsibility to My Daughter 23:49 Reflection on Bitterness, Divorce, and Finding Support 24:20 Reflections on Travel and Personal Struggles 26:15 Building Trust and Transitioning with Children 28:32 Overcoming Bullying and Seeking Opportunities 30:20 Helping Others 31:45 A Unique Crowdfunding Idea: Reaching Out to LARS via Email 32:11 Using Crowdfunding Software for Discounted Legal Services and Helping Others 37:52 Reflections on Divorce and Advice 39:44 Reflections on Foster Care, Personal Growth, and Helping Others 42:38 Vacationing at a Resort in Veradero SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Book: Awaken the Giant Within: How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny! by Tony Robbins, https://www.amazon.com/Awaken-Giant-Within-Immediate-Emotional/dp/0671791540 Book: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Landmark-Bestseller/dp/1585424331 Book: Autobiography Of A Yogi by Yogananda Paramahamsa, https://www.amazon.com/Autobiography-Yogi-Yogananda-Paramahamsa/dp/818953551X Video: The Power of the Breath by Wim Hof, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYbHEcYbHmI Video: Jimmy Kimmel - Mayor of Dildo!, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wK3HWT7NIN4 Get in touch with Robert: Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familyreconnectionhub Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robert.glasco Twitter: https://twitter.com/bebiostrong Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#41 - On A Mission To Drop the "FAT" in Fathers with Keith McNabb
Jul 30 2023
#41 - On A Mission To Drop the "FAT" in Fathers with Keith McNabb
In this week's episode, we sit down with Keith McNabb, aka, "The Trainer Guy". Keith McNabb is a renowned fitness expert, motivational speaker, and life coach who has transformed the lives of countless individuals through his unique approach to personal development. Ben dives right in with his own battle with exercise and his attempts at weight loss and the boredom of a gym brings him. Keith shares his philosophy on weight loss and how important working through his client's negative thoughts plays a role in their success. Keith also shares the benefits of virtual training and in-person sessions and his desire not to be a trainer for life, instead, he is teaching his clients good routines and habits for long-term success. This episode is a must if you are looking for a new lease on your health and changing your bad habits. Sit back and get ready to say goodbye to that dad bod! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/QjV-NvaQZ2k Chapters: 00:00 Effective Cardio and Fitness Habits 01:16 Transforming Fatherhood Fitness with The Trainer Guy 04:01 Challenges of Weight Loss and Meeting Calorie Goals 04:55 Eating Habits and Fitness 08:08 Mindset and Beliefs about Fitness 33:50 Conduct During Corona 15:19 Fitness Tips and Effective Cardio 30:43 Personal Growth and Transformation 46:44 The Joy of Teaching and Importance of Self-Care for Dads SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Book: Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting Out of the Box by The Arbinger Institute, https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Self-Deception-Getting-Out-Box/dp/1576759776 Book: Let That Sh*t Go: Find Peace of Mind and Happiness in Your Everyday by Nina Purewal and Kate Petriw, https://www.amazon.com/Let-That-Sh-Go-Happiness/dp/1633886786 Book: The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey, https://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highly-Effective-People/dp/1471195201 Book: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Eckhart-Tolle/dp/B0095GVWMA The Trainer Guy in the news: https://finance.yahoo.com/news/dad-bod-fit-dad-trainer-012000189.html Get in touch with Keith: Get a free discovery session to talk about vision, goals, struggles, etc and mention the code TTG2DAD2QUIT for 10% OFF! Get the best online trainer with 16 years of experience in getting real results customized workout plans customized meal planscustomized habit and goal-buildingaccountability results YouTube: https://youtube.com/@TheTrainerGuyInstagram: https://instagram.com/therealtrainerguyTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealtrainerguyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrainerGuyWebsite: Thetrainerguy.ca 🔥Dropping the FAT in father. Helping dads lose their dad-bods forever! 💪 Get your ****FREE****copy of 40+ FIT DAD SECRETS - The Ultimate Fitness Secrets Compiled from Thousands of Fit Dads Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#40 - Maximize Your Potential By Living In Reality with Isaac Mass
Jul 23 2023
#40 - Maximize Your Potential By Living In Reality with Isaac Mass
In this week's episode, we sit down with holistic dog coach and guru Isaac Mass. In an entertaining discussion covering a wide range of topics, Isaac describes his background in the Hasidic world and how he evolved into the man he is today. While not orthodox in the traditional sense, Isaac displays a mastery of ancient Jewish texts, citing one after another to introduce important lessons that we can all learn and grow from. Displaying wisdom beyond his years, Isaac gives his take on why some men are called upon to experience the challenges of divorce and shows maturity in describing how he realized he and his then-wife had evolved but in separate ways, necessitating the break-up, though in a respectful, peaceful manner. We also get into Isaac's approach to working with dogs and how he is able to hone in on a dog's personality to help their owners enjoy their beloved canines. Isaac is clearly a proud dad to 2 boys, gushing over their various character traits and how he leverages their qualities and character traits to bring out the best in each of them. Isaac's high-energy personality is mesmerizing, and we could have kept going for hours had time permitted. If you want to feed off a dynamic, exciting, and vibrant man with much to offer, Isaac's episode is for you. So sit back and enjoy! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/KGqDgXAlp_g Chapters: 00:00 The Influence of Fathers, Challenges of Divorce, and Living in the Present 01:11 Interview with Isaac Moss: Finding Confidence and Authenticity in Singing 04:23 Musical Upbringing 04:50 Embracing Your God-Given Talents and Parenting with Purpose 14:01 Reflections on Upbringing, Divorce, and Personal Growth 23:09 Family History of Moving from France to the United States 24:58 A Journey from Orthodoxy to Leaving the Religious Lifestyle 29:37 Prioritizing Family and Building Community 31:23 Understanding Human and Animal Behavior: A Unique Perspective 46:46 Embracing Darkness: Teaching Kids Resilience 53:00 Proudest Dad Moments on the To Dad To Quit Podcast 53:28 Nurturing Connections and Personal Growth: A Parent's Perspective 01:00:21 Outro of the To Dad To Quit Podcast SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Movie: Bab'Aziz: The Price That Contemplated His Soul, https://www.imdb.c/title/tt03954om61 Shaun Ellis: https://www.wolfanddogdevelopment.org/about Get in touch with Isaac: Instagram: https://instagram.com/theholisticdogcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/isaac.moker30 Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#39 - Supporting Parenting To A Peaceful Divorce with Yaakov Kessler
Jul 16 2023
#39 - Supporting Parenting To A Peaceful Divorce with Yaakov Kessler
In this week's episode, we sit down with divorce support mediator Yaakov Kessler. An excellent listener and articulate communicator, it was immediately clear to us why Yaakov excels at helping couples mediate through the divorce process and avoid the unnecessary wars that often accompany divorce. We covered a range of topics such as personality conflicts, child-rearing, relationships, and even the often-heated topic of Agunot (women who cannot remarry under Jewish law due to not receiving a Jewish divorce). Offering a balanced perspective on things, Yaakov wisely describes how he doesn't look at things from a right or wrong perspective, but rather from what he can do to facilitate the needs of each party to a divorce. For those who think that divorce must be an all-or-nothing combative process, think again. As Yaakov demonstrates, divorce doesn't have to be horrible, and not only can a divorcing couple walk away serenely, but most importantly, the children can benefit from peacefully coexisting parents. It is not impossible and not beyond reach. If this sounds appealing to you, then sit down and listen to the wisdom of Yaakov Kessler! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/AFF_MWHXYkY⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Chapters: 00:00 Understanding and Navigating Divorce 00:42 Introduction to the 'Too Dad to Quit' podcast 01:07 Personal Journey in Divorce Mediation 06:12 Personal Reflections and Life Experiences 13:25 Fathers and Fatherhood: Reflections 04:23 The Process and Challenges of Divorce Mediation 08:24 Law and Divorce: Insights 11:13 Understanding Divorce Support and Mediation 12:58 Personal Growth after Divorce 15:12 Parenting and Mediation Skills 16:50 Impact of Divorce on Personal Relationships 18:33 Dealing with Conflict Behavior in Support Sessions 20:19 Recognizing Similarities through Interactions 21:28 Professional Balance and Role of Mediation in Divorce 23:03 Understanding Halakhic Divorce 27:52 Ways to Accommodate Partner's Needs in a Marriage 37:17 Approaching and Overcoming Divorce Difficulties 34:47 Handling Dominating Personalities and Mother-in-Law Dynamics 40:33 Divorce, Parenting and Learning from Experience 50:54 Advice for People Going Through Divorce SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get in touch with Yaakov: Whatsapp: ⁠⁠https://wa.link/vyyvl4 Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#38 - A Son's Perspective On His Parent's Divorce with Eli
Jul 9 2023
#38 - A Son's Perspective On His Parent's Divorce with Eli
In this week's episode, we sit down with none other than Ben's older brother, Eli! Similar in voice only but nothing else to the discernible eye, Ben and Eli take us on a spirited discussion down memory lane. Eli candidly describes how he helped raise Ben and care for their mom during her struggles with raising the children following their parents' separation and divorce. Offering his perspective on the challenges of a child growing up with divorced parents, Eli portrays a complicated relationship with his dad, while at the same time exhibiting peace and understanding that comes with age and experience. In a moving tribute to their late brother Phil who died tragically in a motorcycle accident, Eli shares how it impacted his life and how he marks the anniversary of his death every year in a moving tribute with Phil's favorite foods. We also get into Eli's various brushes with potential death and how he always has managed to stay one step ahead. Witty and hilarious, Eli's energy is infectious, and you are sure to walk away not only thoroughly entertained by Eli's candor but also enriched from Eli's perspective as a child of divorce. Enjoy! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtu.be/k7kUB7r4iYQ Chapters: 00:00 Learning to Play the Piano and Relationships 00:51 Stories of Dads and Representing Children in Divorced Families 03:06 Gratitude for Encouragement and Learning / Reminiscing about the Past 05:51 Recalling Stories, Expanding Business and Moving Back to Manhattan 08:44 Reminiscing about a past event and Growing Up in a Divorced Families Environment 14:54 Taking Care of Someone and Powerful Stare as a Teacher 17:13 Carrying a Burden and Taking Care / Changing Relationships 20:42 Forming Relationships at Work and Dealing with Depression 23:13 The Journey of a Friend with Epstein-Barr Virus / Making Ben Laugh and Love for Acting 29:11 Appearance, Sending Pictures and Unusual Experiences 32:32 Belief in Destiny and Karma / Reflections on Personal Experiences 35:19 Discussing Personal Loss and Family Separation 39:57 Taking Phil Skiing and Coping with Loss 42:38 Spending a Night in Funeral Home and Memories of a Brother 47:03 Favorite Meals and Birthday Celebrations / Impact on Sibling Relationships 48:53 The Impact of Divorce on Father-Child Relationship / Discussion Topics for the Podcast 50:31 Enthusiasm for Being on the Show and Exploring Divorce Dynamics 52:57 Religious Guests and Reflections on Past / Perspective 01:00:26 Reminiscing about Mrs. Munson, Parental Communication and Childhood Memory 01:02:23 Reflections on Parents and Upbringing / Personal Experiences on Relationships 01:06:42 A Story of Suspected Infidelity and Dealing with Divorce 01:09:37 Discussion on Father's Perspective and Improving Relationships 01:11:30 Leaving the Past Behind and Emotional Connections and Differences in Upbringing 01:17:20 Navigating Breakups and Loss / Finding Hope After Losing Everything 01:21:41 Proudest Moments of Raising Me SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#37 - Ben's Dad Also Wanted To Be An Astronaut?! with Fred Stern
Jul 2 2023
#37 - Ben's Dad Also Wanted To Be An Astronaut?! with Fred Stern
We sit down with none other than Ben's dad, Fred Stern! In an understated fashion, but with an entertaining, wry sense of humor, Fred takes us on a tour of his life through his adventures building rockets, obtaining his pilot's license, and flying his family across the country. We particularly enjoyed Ben's banter with his dad, as they exchanged story after story, giving us real-time insights into the dad-son dynamic. In his personal life, Fred was divorced while Ben was a baby and has since remarried having fathered another son and raised a step-brother to Ben. Fred offers valuable and experienced insights into his perspective on divorce, why he feels fathers should not remarry while the kids are young, and how it can impact one's ability to fully be present as a dad. Fred also discusses the excitement of a new relationship but the "baggage" that inevitably comes after the passage of time and how one must learn to accept such baggage to make a second relationship last as he has in his own life. Fred opens up about his feelings over his relationship with Ben's mom and their challenges in communicating both pre and post-divorce. Finally, while not overly emotional in nature, Fred vulnerably describes how painful it was to hear about Ben's divorce, how he wanted to do anything to help him, and how proud he is of all of Ben's ongoing accomplishments in a touching "Too Dad To Quit" moment. This is an episode that will pull at your heartstrings, so don't miss it! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtu.be/LCT8Ngb1ScE Chapters: 00:00 Modeling and Life Stories 03:16 Childhood Stories 05:43 Finding a House and Childhood Memories 09:40 Growing Up 12:01 High School and College 18:54 Working with Film Projectors and Missiles 25:49 Journey to Becoming a Pilot 33:36 Flying Experiences 39:04 Childhood and Family 44:27 Divorce Advice 47:51 Divorce and Fatherhood 57:55 Reflection and Advice on Divorce 01:00:45 Family Dynamics and Changing Relationships 01:04:25 Moving Forward After Divorce 01:09:31 Recollections of Family Business and Entrepreneurship 01:13:58 Influence of Business on Personal Life 01:17:55 Reflection on Family Name 01:21:19 Advice for People Going Through Divorce 01:24:28 Balancing Personal Happiness and Responsibilities 01:29:25 Reflecting on Past Experiences 01:32:21 Expressing Gratitude and Reflections SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Hidden Figures Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4846340 Dr. Laura Schlessinger: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laura_Schlessinger Get in touch with Fred: LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/fred-stern-4b270680 Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#36 - Motivation From A SWAT Team Negotiator with Terry Tucker
Jun 25 2023
#36 - Motivation From A SWAT Team Negotiator with Terry Tucker
We sit down with larger-than-life retired SWAT team negotiator, motivational speaker, and author, Terry Tucker. In a spirited discussion that could have gone on for hours, Terry entertained us with fascinating tales from his time as a SWAT team negotiator, and his involvement in athletics including playing alongside Michael Jordan in college. His views on communicating with curiosity and in simple language, and his perseverance in the face of very real health challenges he has endured. Articulate and energetic, Terry shares how solicitations for his advice resulted in the culmination of his thoughts packaged in a book he wrote entitled, "Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life". Terry also dives into his views about divorce and what one can do to better himself in the process. In addition, Terry is a proud dad, beaming over his daughter's resilience in overcoming learning challenges to graduate from the Air Force Academy and joining the elite Space Force, and emotionally sharing his "Too Dad to Quit Moment" with us. Terry's job is to motivate, and he certainly accomplishes it in this episode! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtu.be/PjeGnsBh1g4⁠ Chapters: 00:00 Reflections on Uniqueness and Specialness 01:00 Interview with Terry Tucker: Leading an Uncommon and Extraordinary Life 03:26 Basketball Skills and Experience 07:17 The Impact and Value of Teamwork 11:58 The Benefits and Impact of Jujitsu 13:11 Surrounding Yourself with the Right People and Transitioning Careers 18:30 SWAT Roles and Experiences 22:58 Customer Service and Negotiation Tactics 23:39 Empathy in Negotiations 31:56 Retirement and Identity 33:07 Exploring the Space Force Air Force Academy and Making a Decision for Military School 34:49 Overcoming Challenges and Transitioning to the Space Force 37:05 Personal Reflections on Cancer Diagnosis, Rare Melanoma and Finding Purpose 42:38 Advancements in Technology and the Importance of Hard Work and Failure 46:35 Taking Responsibility and Reflections on Difficult Relationships 52:08 Reflections on Battling Cancer and Parental Responsibility 53:01 The Disconnect in Modern Communication 54:05 The Importance of Non-Verbal Communication in Negotiations 56:13 The Power of Smiling in Phone Calls 56:42 The Importance of Communication and Staying Connected 01:00:33 Working on Your Mind, Heart, and Soul SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Terry's Book: Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GLGVTVS Mark Zuckerberg Interview with Lex Fridman: https://youtu.be/Ff4fRgnuFgQ Casey Neistat Video: 10 Simple Tricks to Not Get Divorced, https://youtu.be/Cm_uIxcczWM Get in touch with Terry:Motivational Check Website: https://www.motivationalcheck.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terry-tucker-9b5605179Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motivationalcheckTwitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/terrytucker201Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sustainableexcellenceauthor Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#35 - Parenting Tips From An American Dad Living In Spain with Jesse Sweed
Jun 18 2023
#35 - Parenting Tips From An American Dad Living In Spain with Jesse Sweed
We sit down with the energetic and enthusiastic teacher/instructor, Jesse Sweed. Originally from Pennsylvania, Jesse talks about his travels to far-off countries such as South Korea, eventually settling down (for now) in exotic Spain. Jesse is a proud dad to 2 children and enjoys an excellent co-parenting relationship with his ex-wife. We pick Jesse's brain on all sorts of topics including how he includes "why statements" in his journal to motivate productivity, how he suggests dealing with mistakes and guilt, how to accept yourself and relate positively with others, and much more. Jesse also discusses various parenting hacks that any parent listening can easily apply to their own interactions with their children. What we loved most about this episode is just how many tips Jesse packed into one episode and in such a simple and easy-to-understand manner! We walked away feeling inspired by Jesse, and are confident you will as well. So, be prepared to learn and be inspired with us, and as Jesse suggests, don't forget to grab a pen and paper so that you don't miss a single tip! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtu.be/PjeGnsBh1g4 Chapters: 00:00 Introduction - Balancing Parenting and Professional Life 01:11 Reintroduction and Inviting Interaction 01:35 Discussion with Jesse Swede: Parenting, Divorce, Empowerment 03:44 Travel Experiences: Spain and South Korea 04:58 Initiating Travel Vlogging and Learning Languages 06:19 Desire to Travel and First International Trip 07:36 Exploration and Diverse Experiences 11:21 Shift in Lifestyle: Teaching, Entrepreneurship, and Parenting 17:06 Shifting Mindset, Finding Meaning, and Demonstrating Love through Daily Tasks 21:27 Reflecting on Personal Relationships and Daily Tasks 23:06 Discussions on Gatherings and Workshops 25:56 Dealing with Parenting Guilt 29:57 Apologies, Responsibility and Handling Mistakes 33:45 Dealing with Difficult Situations in Education 37:09 Making Learning Fun and Engaging Kids Creatively 41:24 Reflections on Divorce, Relationship with Children and Co-parenting 46:56 Proud Moments as a Parent 51:45 Reflecting on Divorce and Personal Growth 54:31 Connecting with Listeners and Conclusion SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Conscious Leading Playbook for Parents and Entrepreneurs: https://eaglemethod.newzenler.com/f/playbook Get in touch with Jesse: LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/jesse.sweed Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#34 - Paying For College The Right Way with Brad Baldridge
Jun 11 2023
#34 - Paying For College The Right Way with Brad Baldridge
We sit down with financial planner and college funding consultant, Brad Baldridge. Brad specializes in late-stage college funding planning, and with many of our audience having children going off to college in the coming years, we were excited to land an expert of Brad's caliber. In addition to providing the ins and outs of understanding college finances as it applies to families, Brad also describes how he assists students from divorced families entering college and how multiple single-income households can affect college tuition, grants, and more. In case you are the type who avoids discussing finances, you'll be refreshingly surprised to listen to Brad make things interesting and informative such that you can understand the basics and be motivated to take action to help your child maximize savings and make wise financial planning decisions. So, grab your pen and paper and sit down for an informative discussion that could save you and your children a ton of money! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠⁠https://youtu.be/Gk6Iy2kUSoQ SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Taming the High Cost Of College Podcast: https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/category/podcast SAI - Expected Family Contribution Calculator: https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/student-aid-index-sai-efc-calculatorScholarship Guide For Busy Parents: https://courses.tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/p/scholarship-guide-for-busy-parents Cost of Colleges by State: https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/cost-of-colleges-by-state College Money Report: https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/college-money-report Get in touch with Brad: Website: https://bradbaldridge.com Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#33 - Selling Coffee, Stocks, and Spirituality with Gary Miskin
Jun 4 2023
#33 - Selling Coffee, Stocks, and Spirituality with Gary Miskin
We sit down with 6' 7", physical and spiritual giant, Gary Miskin! From humble beginnings selling coffee to becoming a successful entrepreneur, Gary describes how he turned his fortunes around by maximizing his strengths and espousing honesty in all his business dealings. Springboarding from that discussion, we get into Gary's difficult time during divorce and how he turned to seek spirituality to find strength and meaning in life. The secret, Gary discovered, is going inward, having the guts to do the inner work to manifest outer greatness. But you can only fully understand that concept when you listen to Gary describe it in his own words! Gary has since remarried and is the proud dad to 7 children ages 2-18 whom he clearly adores and takes pride in. This is an episode packed with spiritual wisdom from someone who's been in the trenches and has come out the other side shining. You're sure to come away from it as energized and uplifted as we were! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/Ym5fplsXDiY SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Book: Secrets of the Soul: Facilitated Communication with Special Children Reveals Startling Spiritual Messages by Yehuda Srevnik, https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Soul-Facilitated-Communication-Startling/dp/0967070511 Book: Dolores Cannon, https://dolorescannon.com Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#32 - An Author's Leap Of Faith with Yitzchak Jaffe
May 28 2023
#32 - An Author's Leap Of Faith with Yitzchak Jaffe
We sit down with a man who's lived many lives, Yitzchak Jaffe. In an honest and articulate manner, Yitzchak shares his journey from studying to become a reform Rabbi in New York to finding himself in the hub of ultra-orthodox Judaism in Bnei Brak, Israel, to returning to America to try life in Kansas and ultimately to settling back in Israel, this time in Jerusalem. During that journey, Yitzchak got married, had 4 children, divorced, and remarried! Recognizing how much of an impact his divorce had on his own life and wanting to help others in similar situations, Yitzchak wrote a book about his experiences, "You're Doing Everything Wrong: Dating, Marriage, and Divorce: Advice from Deep within the Trenches". If you think that title is packed, then you need to see the actual book which is filled with insights and advice from someone who's lived it. In addition, we get into Yitzchak's epiphany about his love and admiration for his own parents following a harrowing life-threatening experience, how he embraces his role as a dad and his love of skydiving! All this in one life and...one episode! Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/lSeULfscjY0 SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References: Books By Yitzchak Jaffe (aka David Andrew Jaffe): ⁠https://amzn.to/427T4E5⁠ Reach out to Yitzchak: Yitzchak's Blog: ⁠https://jaffeworld.com ⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/JaffeWorldForever ⁠LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaffeworld⁠ Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message
#31 - Hockey Playing Dad Shoots For The Stars with Brian Spivak
May 21 2023
#31 - Hockey Playing Dad Shoots For The Stars with Brian Spivak
We sit down with the super positive ball of energy, Brian Spivak. The podcast opens with a spirited discussion of Brian's love for playing ice hockey in the Middle East. Brian also shares a touching story about how he scored the equivalent of a Stanley Cup-winning, Game 7 overtime goal in front of his daughters! Off the ice, Brian shares stories from his exotic travels at sea, sailing with a flotilla of sailboats to far-flung countries such as Greece and Sicily. Away from Brian's sports and travel, Brian is a successful technology businessman and describes how one encounter with a manager changed his outlook on his personal and professional life. Honest and authentic, Brian explains how he decided to accept the reality of his divorce and utilizes his time post-divorce to grow and develop himself into the person and dad he is today. With excellent mantras and affirmations that anyone can apply to his/her own life to grow and succeed, Brian imparts real-life, experienced wisdom that you will not find anywhere else. Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/ejTWOOkIvak SEND US A VOICE MESSAGE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/toodadtoquit/message⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Episode References:Mindflow Improv: https://www.mindflow.co.il How To Talk To Anyone by Leil Lowndes: https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Anyone-Leil-Lowndes/dp/0722538073 Tools of Titans by Tim Ferriss: https://www.amazon.com/Tools-Titans-Billionaires-World-Class-Performers/dp/1328683788 Reach Out To Brian: https://www.linkedin.com/in/spibri85 LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/spibri85 Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/toodadtoquit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Too Dad To Quit Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.locals.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for listening, Ben & Yoel --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/toodadtoquit/message