Obsessed or Not Interested

Mindy Wender-Querio | Lifestyle + Wellness + Personal Growth

Are you obsessed with personal growth and mindset? Because, same! Hey I am Mindy Wender- Querio the host of Obsessed or Not Interested podcast. I am a Wellness Entrepreneur, mom of 5 (3 biological and step mom to 2) amazing kids, autism advocate, and I help women break free from self limiting beliefs and give them the foundation to thrive in life and business. Because I am a mom with ADHD I get super hyper focused and research a ton of different topics that catch my interest and attention based on what is going on in my life. Whether its parenting, relationships, fitness, wellness, mindset, skincare, supplements, and more you are going to find a variety of topics on this podcast! One thing I can promise you is that I am your new go to person that is open and honest about sharing the things I am obsessed with. I have these types of conversations all the time and I am excited to bring them here for you to listen to! I know what it is like to be unhappy, broke, and wondering ”is this it?”... read less
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45. Advocating for Yourself & Your Child, The Power of Support, & Embracing the Unexpected | My Sister’s Story of Down Syndrome Diagnosis While Pregnant
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45. Advocating for Yourself & Your Child, The Power of Support, & Embracing the Unexpected | My Sister’s Story of Down Syndrome Diagnosis While Pregnant
In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested, I am bringing my older, wiser sister Kim Tobey to talk about her story of getting a down syndrome diagnosis while she was pregnant with her 4th baby, complications that followed the beautiful birth, and advocating for yourself and your child. The motivation for me sharing my story of my daughter's autism diagnosis and now sharing this episode with you is to help you as a mom feel connected to our stories even if they are different, not go through this alone, and encourage you to become a mom warrior for your child.  The episode is a heartfelt story and conversation of the trials of being a special needs parent and resilience of motherhood. We believe you were made for this and we hope you have felt seen & supported from this episode.   Ways to Work with Me:  www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com  wwwFoundations Course - use code OBSESSED at checkout for an exclusive discount Follow on Instagram @mindywender | @obsessedornotinterested   Episode Outline:  Family & Pregnancy Background (00:04:32) Unexpected News and Initial Response to Down Syndrome Diagnosis(00:08:20) Emotional Struggle and Coping Mechanism (00:13:19) Finding the Right Specialist (00:17:38) Overcoming Misconceptions and Finding Support (00:29:54) Post-Birth Challenges (00:38:00) Unexpected Medical Complications (00:44:36)Advocating for Yourself & Your Child (00:49:28) Visualization and Prayer (01:05:35) Reaching Out for Support (01:16:05) If you enjoyed this episode please share with a friend and leave a rating & review. I love reading them to know what episodes are your favorite and it helps get the podcast so much!
42. The Bounce Back | 10 Tips for Being Resilient Through Big & Small Challenges
May 14 2024
42. The Bounce Back | 10 Tips for Being Resilient Through Big & Small Challenges
In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested Podcast, I'm diving into some really cool strategies for staying resilient when tough times hit. I'm going to chat about how knowing yourself really well, the kind of environment you're in, and having solid routines can make a huge difference in bouncing back. I'm a big believer in turning negative feedback into something we can use to grow, and I'll share how making bold moves can really kickstart your motivation.   Plus, I'm going to open up about how powerful gratitude can be, and how worship music, prayer, and leaning on God have been super helpful for me. I'm all about keeping it real, staying hopeful, and remembering how awesome positive vibes can be when you're working through life's challenges.    Ways to Work with Me:  www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com How to Change Your Mindset - Free EBook   Follow on Instagram @mindywender | @obsessedornotinterested Episode Outline:  Operating as Your Best Self (00:02:16) Not Allowing Yourself to Go There (00:05:17) Bounce Back Rate and Self-Awareness (00:12:35).Creating an Inspiring Environment (00:22:01) The Impact of Routines and Rituals (00:24:09) Embracing God's Love and Overcoming Challenges (00:27:18) Using Setbacks as Fuel for Success (00:32:03) Taking Massive Action and Expressing Gratitude (00:34:17)    If you enjoyed this episode please share with a friend and leave a rating & review. I love reading them to know what episodes are your favorite and it helps get the podcast so much!
41. From Teen Mom to Business Boss: Andrea Crowder's Story & Top Tips for Creating Community in Online Business
May 7 2024
41. From Teen Mom to Business Boss: Andrea Crowder's Story & Top Tips for Creating Community in Online Business
This is such a great episode, I just had the most amazing chat with Andrea Crowder on my podcast. Let me tell you, Andrea's story is nothing short of incredible. I have heard about her wild days as a teen mom, her struggles with drugs and stripping, and the spiritual awakening that totally turned her life around so many times and her story never gets old and is always inspiring!  Andrea is a powerhouse who's built a super successful network marketing business from the ground up. And that's not all—she's out creating a global brand, amazing digital offers, and coaching an amazing roster of private clients.  We really got into the nitty-gritty of why being real and authentic matters, how to build a community that supports you, and the journey of personal growth. Wrapping up, I just want to say a huge thanks to you for tuning in. Get in touch, join the conversation, and let's keep this community vibe going strong. I'm so grateful for your support and can't wait to hear from you!   Ways to Work with Me:  www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com Follow on Instagram @mindywender | @obsessedornotinterested Episode Outline:  Andrea's Story - Team Pregnancy, Stripper, House Fire, Divorce to Building Her Empire (00:01:05)Changing Directions in Her Business (00:19:59) Pleasure Over Pressure (00:24:28)Creating a Devoted Community (00:33:54) Creating Digital Programs (00:47:34) Creating Belief Before Creating Offers (00:59:28) Connect with Andrea Crowder:  Follow Andrea on Instagram THE UNRULE/Y ENTREPRENEUR PODCAST  Community Masterclass  Legend in the Making - 3 Day Free Trial 15 Minute Launch Coach   If you enjoyed this episode please share with a friend and leave a rating & review. I love reading them to know what episodes are your favorite and it helps get the podcast so much!
39. Lucky Girl Mindset… Gratitude & Positivity Practice
Apr 30 2024
39. Lucky Girl Mindset… Gratitude & Positivity Practice
In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested Podcast I am talking to you about cultivating a Lucky Girl Mindset. Where I share the power of gratitude and the importance of cherishing life's small moments. I talk about how beginning each day with a positive attitude prepared me for some of my most challenging situations and how it can shape our reality.    Through my own stories, I hope it helps you adopt a positive mindset that can turn challenges into opportunities, promoting a life perspective where events happen for our benefit, not against us. My goal is to encourage you to embrace a grateful and optimistic outlook to lead a more joyful and satisfying life while sharing with you the practical ways I have woven this into my routines so I start and end my day with mindset work.    Episode Outline:  Lucky Girl Mindset (00:01:04) Focusing on the Little Things (00:02:07) Laws of Attraction and Attracting More Positivity (00:09:42) Life Happening for You, Not to You (00:11:35) Reticular Activating System and Affirmations (00:13:17) The House Fire (00:25:24) 40-Day Detox and Clarity (00:29:23)  If you know mindset is holding you back, join the FOUNDATIONS course!   Ways to Work with Me:  www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com Get Your Journal Here House Fire Episode   Follow on Instagram @mindywender | @obsessedornotinterested   If you enjoyed this episode please share with a friend and leave a rating & review. I love reading them to know what episodes are your favorite and it helps get the podcast so much!
37. Obsessed with Lymphatic Drainage Massage: What Are the Benefits and How Does It Work? with Abby Maleport
Apr 23 2024
37. Obsessed with Lymphatic Drainage Massage: What Are the Benefits and How Does It Work? with Abby Maleport
In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested, I brought on an expert guest to talk about lymphatic drainage. I know we both have seen this talked about on social media and I ask her all about the trends we are hearing and seeing, you are going to love this conversation. Abby Maleport is a LANA certified lymphedema therapist, licensed massage therapist, physical therapist assistant and certified personal trainer.    She walked me through how this super gentle technique can help with detoxing, boosting your immune system, and just making you feel great overall.We also got into the cool tool she invented, the lymph motion mitt, and we talk about those trendy ones like facial rollers and gua sha. Abby stressed how important it is to use these tools the right way if you want to see results.    Plus, we chatted about how often you should get a lymphatic drainage massage, busted some myths, and I could really tell that Abby is super passionate about helping people with this. She gave some super helpful tips and even invited everyone to hit her up for more info.    Get Your Hyper Focus Journal Here!   Ways to Work with Me:  Follow Me on Instagram Follow the Podcast on Instagram www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com Episode Outline:  Explanation of lymphatic drainage massage (00:06:09) Benefits of lymphatic drainage massage (00:08:03) Personal experience and additional benefits (00:12:15)Lymphatic Drainage Technique (00:21:10) Difference Between Dry Brush and Mit (00:23:30) Using the Mit for Self-Manual Lymphatic Drainage (00:25:22) Facial Massages and Lymphatic Drainage (00:27:32) Cold Showers and Lymphatic System (00:35:24) Common Misconceptions about Lymphatic Drainage (00:38:39)  Referenced Resources:  Follow Abby on Instagram Lymphatic Massage Mit Booking with Abby   If you enjoyed this episode please share with a friend and leave a rating & review. I love reading them to know what episodes are your favorite and it helps get the podcast so much!
34. Navigating Blended Family Dynamics: Tips & Insights for Stepmoms with The KICK-ASS Stepmom Jamie Scrimgeour
Apr 9 2024
34. Navigating Blended Family Dynamics: Tips & Insights for Stepmoms with The KICK-ASS Stepmom Jamie Scrimgeour
In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested, I have a heart-to-heart with Jamie Scrimgeour, a life coach and the brains behind the Kick-Ass Stepmom Podcast and blog. We dive deep into the complex world of stepfamily relationships, the hurdles of co-parenting, and why empathy & setting clear boundaries are so crucial. Jamie gives some solid advice to fellow stepmoms on how to handle high-conflict ex-partners and stresses the importance of keeping the lines of communication wide open. We also touch on how vital it is for husbands to support their new partners, and we navigate the tricky waters of being at events with an ex-spouse.    Jamie points out some great resources for stepmoms, highlighting how crucial it is to have a network of support and personalized help. We wrap up the episode with a focus on keeping the peace and steering clear of unnecessary drama.   Snag The Hyper Focus Journal on Sale!   Ways to Work with Me:  Follow Me on Instagram Follow the Podcast on Instagram www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com Episode Outline:  Jamie's Journey into Stepfamily Dynamics (00:03:48) Recognizing and Addressing Overwhelm and Resentment (00:14:14)Handling High Conflict Exes (00:19:29) Setting Boundaries and Rules of Engagement (00:20:24) Empathy and Respect in Co-Parenting (00:31:54)Challenges of Co-Parenting Relationships (00:39:40) Setting Boundaries and Addressing Disrespect (00:43:44) Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges (00:47:28)Protecting Your Peace (00:52:00)  Connect with Jamie THE KICK-ASS STEPMOM:  Follow Jamie on Instagram The Kick-Ass Stepmom Podcast Free EBook Jamie's Coaching + Mentorship
30. Autism Breakthrough: Raun Kaufman’s Incredible Story & Safe to Connect Approach Therapy
Mar 26 2024
30. Autism Breakthrough: Raun Kaufman’s Incredible Story & Safe to Connect Approach Therapy
I had the pleasure of sitting down with Raun Kaufman to talk about his incredible journey of personal recovery from severe autism and his dedication to helping others on the spectrum. He is an international lecturer and graduate of Brown University with a Degree in Biomedical Ethics and author of Autism Breakthrough. As a child he was diagnosed with so-called “severe” non speaking autism and recommended lifelong institutionalization. Instead his parents worked with him to blossom, grow, and accomplish everything his parents were told he would not. We dove into the critical need to create a safe environment for autistic individuals, to truly understand their unique ways of experiencing the world, and to clear up some common misconceptions about things like attention span and mind blindness. Raun opened up about his own methods for reaching out and connecting with autistic individuals by finding common ground through shared interests, and he stressed how vital it is to approach autism with both an informed perspective and a sensitivity to past trauma.    I couldn't help but connect Raun's insights with my own experiences with my daughter Lilly, especially when it comes to the power of forming deep, authentic emotional bonds. Ron also discussed his book and the various resources he's created to offer support to those with autism.   Grab the Hyper Focus Journal While It's On Sale - Use the Code HYPER30 for 30% Off!   Ways to Work with Me:  Follow Me on Instagram Follow the Podcast on Instagram Get Podcast Merch  www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com Episode Outline:  Raun’s professional and personal experience (00:00:58) His childhood diagnosis and treatment (00:03:31) Parental instincts with therapeutic approaches (00:17:06) The Safe to Connect Autism Approach (00:34:58) Neuro Crash and Dysregulation (00:35:40) Understanding the ACT Protocol (00:39:36) Social Attention Span and Mind Blindness (00:56:45) Referenced Resources:  www.autismcrisisturnaround.com www.raunkkaufman.com  Raun’s Facebook Page Find Autism Breakthrough by Raun Kaufman on Amazon or Audible Lilly’s Story Episode   If you enjoyed this episode, share with a friend and leave a rating & review of this show! I appreciate it so much and love reading them!
26. Recap of Growth Day in LA: The Most Life Changing Tips From My Amazing Mentors
Mar 12 2024
26. Recap of Growth Day in LA: The Most Life Changing Tips From My Amazing Mentors
In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested Podcast, I am sharing with you a recap from a trip I took to California with my leaders to see all of my favorite people speak on one stage at Brendan Burchard’s Live Growth Day. I give you guys a deep dive into the wisdom shared by some of the most renowned speakers like Brendon Burchard, Ed Mylett, John Gordon, and Jamie Kern Lima, all of whom had so much to offer on personal development and how to manage stress effectively.   I can't stress enough how crucial human connection is, and I talk about how we can tackle those negative thought patterns that hold us back. I'm a big believer in the power of affirmations, and I share that belief with you. Throughout the episode, I weave in my own personal stories and give you some really actionable advice on how to nurture your relationships, consciously choose your emotional state, and extend grace to those around you.   This episode is filled with gold from the most incredible people!   Growth Questions to Reflect On: What are you grateful for?What are your goals this month?What is your best practice for dealing with stress and overwhelm?  Ways to Work & Connect with Me:  Follow Me on Instagram Follow the Podcast on Instagram Get Podcast Merch  www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com Episode Outline:  Mindy's Experience at Growth Day (00:05:09) Self-Awareness and Dealing with Stress (00:16:34) Dealing with Stress and Toxic Relationships (00:23:07) Ed Mylett's Insights (00:25:49) Vibrating at a High Frequency (00:30:42) Extending Grace and Positive Impact (00:39:59) Speaking Life into Children (00:46:33) Love Casts Out Fear (00:50:13) Referenced Resources:  Jamie Kern-Lima Books Believe It & Worthy  My Rentals @luxuaryretreatrentals  Dr. Amen Clinics Growth Day App   If you enjoyed this episode please share on social, tag me, and leave a rating & review if you can! That would mean so much to me and helps the podcast so much!