May 14 2022
Christopher Avery's Agility narrative on living a life at choice
For more about Christopher Avery. Click here for The Responsibility Process® A good place to connect with us is LinkedIn with Janet, and Martin Thanks Please see chapter headings;00:01:27 Driving question, why so many smart people are unhappy at work?00:04:25 Back to studying, then working in consulting firm - creativity, entrepreneurship, culture building and worked working with IBM to build a team building program00:06:17 The search for integrity00:07:44 Christopher settled on shared responsibility as the space where individuals make this organic shift and come together as a team00:09:38 The search for personal responsibility started... found research project with Christopher's mentor, Bill McCauley, and his mentor, Marshall Thurber.00:10:37 Listening to narratives on why they were stuck and why they couldn't have what they wanted - They created the responsibility process00:11:04 Team work is an individual skill00:12:18 Many responsibility definitions - Capital R - Responsibility and its meaning - is owning your ability and power to create, choose and attract.00:13:50 Agility's definition from responsibility is the "ability to change (adapt) without changing" (your identity)00:15:33 The protagonist is the 3 or 5 year Christopher who wants to feel good and to be loved00:16:29 Aspects of of the protagonist - a proposal of living life in reverse00:18:25 Teaching on how fast can you get past good, bad, right, wrong as learned position abilities00:20:15 Practical responsibility or extreme responsibility - levels of owning your ability and power to create, choose and attract00:21:21 Profound role of the Law of Attraction and attraction patterns00:23:06 Various thoughts have different vibrational frequencies, meta physical (beyond the physical) and biocentric design00:24:59 The villain of ego, the upper and lower mind, Being anxiety driven versus freedom driven 00:26:54 The three keys to responsibility are intention, awareness and confront, which are all big aspects of consciousness00:27:49 Letting go - identify the fear, blockage, even the pain, the symptom, and you can work to release it00:29:05 The Sedona method - Can you welcome it? The frustration, the pain.... Could you let it go? Would you let it go? When00:30:36 The responsibility processhttps://responsibility.com/the-responsibility-process-poster/00:33:52 What is at stake for people to not take any action - For people to live at cause rather than at affect in their lives00:34:18 Coping is overrated - I'd rather grow than cope00:34:51 We learned to reward intellectualism and not how to put the human psyche and consciousness first00:35:10 COVID 19 experience - free mentoring with people who had high anxiety - the reason I can't have what I want is because of this pandemic00:37:20 Covid had me in fear for 36 hours00:39:09 People are stuck, what would be your call to action00:39:42 Dealing with the real problem is rare, we generally solve to treat our anxiety00:40:27 I love best practices are great as ideas, I don't love them as solutions.00:41:39 The angst cause by should, good, right or wrong... It is your responsibility on whether you want to adopt this advice or not.00:42:42 Solve problems by sitting in our anxiety and use curiosity to look at how we got here, at our thinking, at our assumptions, at our beliefs00:45:47 Thank you, Socrates, practical program, at effect in our life and are stuck or are in charge of our life and we're moving forward in responsibility.