Get ready to be a figurative fly on the wall as we, Khyia and Tamara Pollard, kick back with a refreshing round of green tea cocktails and a captivating game of truth-or-dare-esque Resha's Roulette. We put our personal and occasionally risqué anecdotes on the table, sharing stories about partner squabbles and our shoplifting pasts. Plus, stomach-knotting dares that’ll have you both cringing and laughing! The best part? We sip on our cocktails with every shocking revelation.Brace yourself, as we're joined by a powerhouse guest, a brilliant human resources professional cum actress, who shares the rollercoaster ride of balancing multiple careers. Listen closely as she unravels her journey to self-care, her perseverance through childhood trauma, and how she juggles her two passions. It's not all work though, we dive into the world of acting, discussing our dream collaborations and the joys of stepping into someone else's shoes. Of course, we also touch upon the challenges of being working mothers in the industry and the importance of authenticity.And then, we bare it all, talking about the time-honored tradition of coming out to family, the reactions, and acceptance we encountered, and how these experiences shaped our personal growth. We reflect on the importance of honesty and open communication in fostering long-lasting relationships. And, we delve into the often-ignored conversation about asserting oneself within a relationship, finding the right balance between being too nice and standing one's ground. So, join us on this journey of hilarity, honesty, and a few surprise revelations that promise to entertain as much as they enlighten.Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard

Ever had a sip of truth while savoring an exciting cocktail, and then wondered about life’s other truths? We kick things off in this episode with a teasing game of Sip and Tell, where secrets unravel with every sip of our delightful cocktail, Apple Bottom, provided by none other than SP Drinks. As we share salacious truths and concocted lies, we navigate through a maze of intriguing topics - from our oddest sex dreams and quirky fashion trends to one-night stands and the eternal debate on preserving intimate photos. In this whirlwind of truth-telling, we are joined by the immensely talented hair stylists, Ms Kympress Robinson and Ms Fananda Young. We delve into the intricate world of hair-styling, a journey that is as much about self-discovery as it is about learning the craft. Through managing the complexities of motherhood, work-life balance, and relationships, to introspecting on whether hair-styling would be a full-time commitment or a side hustle, we traverse an emotional rollercoaster. Our conversation extends to the broader industry, where we ponder the nature of collaboration and inclusivity.As the conversation intensifies, we tread into the controversial terrain of self-change and men's infidelity. We discuss the challenges of managing the multiple roles of motherhood, work, marriage, and relationships, and the dilemma of warning a friend about their partner's infidelity. We also share our experiences with collaboration amongst hair stylists and offer advice on how to handle dilemmas when someone feels trapped in a relationship. Get ready for an episode filled with laughter, tears, and a lot of heart. Join us for this journey of self-discovery and unending revelations, all while sipping on a cocktail that's as tantalizing as our conversation.Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard

How many of us have go-to drink recipes or a signature cocktail we whip up at social gatherings? Well, this episode brings you a fun, fresh cocktail idea - the Blueberry Storm. And who better to join me in creating this delightful cocktail than my sister-in-law, Faith. As we sip on our concoctions, an intriguing discussion unfolds about relationships and their complex landscapes.The concept of relationship titles, toxic actions, and the influence of single friends in our lives are dissected over our drinks. We delve into the nitty-gritty of social media's impact, the beauty (and challenges) of long-term partnerships, and the importance of being mindful of our company. It's a candid conversation sprinkled with personal anecdotes and insights, which you won't want to miss.We culminate our conversation by discussing the pros and cons of taking a break in a relationship. We share our personal experiences and learnings, and discuss why stepping back may sometimes be the way forward. To wrap things up, there's an exciting announcement about my search for a personal assistant for this podcast. So, tune in for an episode packed with insightful conversations, hearty laughs, and a cocktail recipe you'll want to try at home!Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard

Ever wondered about the intricacies of transitioning? Ever questioned how it feels to receive attention not just for who you are, but also for the person you've become? Then, grab your margarita, sit down, and get ready for a heart-to-heart chat with my sister, Chanice. Starting her transition journey at 17 and taking it seriously at 22, Chanice's journey is not about being born in the wrong body but about gaining the attention she yearned for. As we navigate through her experiences with family, her preference in men, and her thoughts on trans women in sex work, we also shed light on the stigmas that still haunt the trans community.As the margaritas keep flowing, so does our conversation. Chanice takes us on a fascinating exploration of her relationships, life goals, and the transformative journey of her partner. In this intimate space, we broach the question of top or bottom preference and share our experiences with individuals desiring transition. The conversation takes an introspective turn as we dissect the challenges faced by the gay community, especially in public spaces, and the importance of self-acceptance.Finally, we venture into the realm of relationships, sex, and dating. With candid honesty, we tackle tough questions around sexual preferences and experiences, exploring the social dynamics of sex and the challenges of expressing gender identity. Chanice's story echoes the hard truth that sex doesn't always lead to a relationship - sometimes, slow and steady wins the race. So, join us for a rollercoaster conversation filled with wisdom, real-life experiences, and a healthy sprinkle of humor. Cheers!Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard

Today, we sit down with Miss Diesha, a brave mother who has faced unimaginable loss, shedding light on the real-life impact of gun violence. We kick off the conversation with a light-hearted moment of cocktail-making and a playful game of sentence-finishing. But as we journey deeper into our discussion, we learn about the profound pain and resilience that defines her story. Miss Diesha speaks candidly about the loss of her son, sharing how her family is grappling with his untimely departure. She takes us through the heart-wrenching details - from her daughter's breakdown upon seeing a handprint in the mirror to her son seeking solace in his deceased brother's room. We also discuss the circumstances of her son's death and the consequent feelings of isolation from her community. The conversation takes a sobering turn as we delve into the topic of fake social media posts about her son's death, adding a troubling layer to her narrative.As we navigate through the profound grief, we also address the more personal aspects of Miss Diesha's life. We explore her thoughts on dating, her stance on the LGBTQ+ community, and her unique perspective on relationships. Despite the tragic loss, Miss Diesha is a beacon of strength and resilience, demonstrating the power of coping and healing. It's a conversation that promises to touch your heart, challenge your perspectives, and inspire you with the undying spirit of a mother. So, join us as we navigate this poignant journey with Miss Diesha.Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard

What happens when you're wrongfully convicted and serve more than a decade in prison? How does life look like once you step outside those cold steel bars? These are questions that most of us, fortunately, won't ever have to answer, but my guest today, Mr. Anthony Thomas, lived this reality. A victim of an unjust system, Anthony spent 13 years wrongfully behind bars, a period in his life that not only challenged him but transformed him in more ways than one. In our frank conversation, Anthony opens up about his prison life - the isolation, the power dynamics, the struggle to stay hopeful. He talks about the importance of understanding the law, not fighting the system, and seeking help instead. A man of unyielding spirit, Anthony also reveals how he navigated the minefield of re-entry - a journey fraught with difficulties that range from a lack of resources and support to societal stigma. But it's not all grim; Anthony shares lighter moments too, from his zodiac sign to his current relationship status and his passion for community outreach. We delve deep into Anthony's experiences and reflections on societal norms, including the pressures men face, why they tend to cheat, and how he uses his experiences to help others. We also talk about our own brushes with the law and how these incidents have shaped us. From discussing personal growth and the power of prayer to the importance of preparing for life's trials, our conversation takes on various hues of life. It's a testament to Anthony's resilience and a reminder to all of us about the power of a positive mindset, gaining knowledge, and the importance of putting in the work to improve one's life. So, tune in for an inspiring and insightful journey that promises to stay with you long after.Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard

Welcome to our candid and enlightening conversation with the extraordinary Khyia ward and guest Kamora Byrd.  As two trans women, we bring you a raw and personal discussion about our unique journeys to self-discovery, our triumphs, and the challenges we've faced throughout our transitions. Hear Kamora's compelling story about when and why she chose to transition, an intimate dialogue that reveals a profound understanding of identity, acceptance, and the power of self-expression.Our chat isn't limited to identity and transition, though. We also share our perspectives on dating as trans-sensitivists, providing a fresh take on relationship dynamics. Ever wondered about the intricacies of dating, or the unique struggles and joys of raising a step-child in our community? Stick around to hear about our experiences. We also touch on some heavier topics, such as why some people turn to sex work and the dangers associated with it, providing an empathetic perspective on survival and resilience.Finally, we lay open our hearts to discuss deeply personal experiences with infidelity and deception. There’s no sugar-coating the damage it inflicts on relationships, the heartache it brings. Yet, through the pain, we explore the strength in understanding, the value in communication, and the power of honesty. It's not all heavy; we also celebrate the diversity among women, highlighting the importance of mutual respect, support, and love for each other. Get ready to broaden your understanding, challenge your perspective, and perhaps even gain some insights into your journey. Join us, as we share, learn and grow together.Facebook- Khyia WardInstagram-Khyia WardYouTube- KhyiaWardTikTok- KhyiaWard