Our relationships with friends and others are influenced by our personalities. While some people find it easy to connect and make new friends, others find it more challenging. Regardless, it's crucial to prioritize communication, respect, and boundaries to maintain healthy relationships with friends, colleagues, and spouses. In this episode, Emmanuel and Miriam discuss their differing views on friendships and relationships, and how they don't allow these differences to affect their relationship. Emmanuel emphasizes the importance of openness, particularly as a financial advisor where building trust with clients is crucial. Meanwhile, Mimi highlights the importance of being cautious about who we allow into our lives, especially people who use others for their own benefit. Tune in to learn more! Highlights How Eman’s passion for helping others started with helping his motherFactors that affected Mimi’s relationships, especially with making friendsEman’s vibrant relationship with old friends and making new friendsGood and bad sides of leveraging peopleSetting boundaries with friendships and relationshipsHow Eman's open-arm personality makes it easy to connect and invest with people Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmanuel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @lifewithmimiasuquo

If you are questioning, how can you move forward in networking knowing you’re shy, you could be dealing with pressure and thoughts of leveraging your network. In this episode, Eman and Mimi discuss what should be our perspective in attending a networking meeting. They share the values of being ready, getting over shyness, and being prepared to give reciprocal favors. Listen to some tips to improve and leverage your network. Highlights Why is it better to prepare and know the audience of the gatheringHow transparency can generate professional conversationsHow can good questions lead you to discover potential networking partnersWhat is the difference between a personal and a business emailWhy reciprocity is important in networking Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmanuel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @lifewithmimiasuquo

Have you ever asked yourself, “what am I doing for me to achieve my goals and dreams? More often than not, we focus on working for other people’s dreams and forget to understand our own importance. In this episode, uncle Eman talks about why you are stuck in achieving your goals and dreams and how to start taking control of fulfilling them. He discusses the most overlooked aspects of our day-to-day life and provides some valuable tips that you can use as a guide to making the best decisions and actions toward your dream. Highlights Why does January feel so long, and you ain’t got no moneyHow to be accountable for your goalsMake the money that you work for work for youHow to allocate time to develop yourself; andThe role of your environment in achieving your goals Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmauel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @lifewithmimiasuquo

The holiday season is over, and now we are back to the reality of making a living, paying our bills, and stepping into achieving the goals we set for the year. Have you set your resolutions? Maybe you want to create something, change your career, or become the best version of yourself but are you making an effort to turn it into reality? In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about how to level up and finally achieve the goals you set for this year. They share the steps Mimi takes in successfully changing her career, how they design a work that is suitable for them and the great benefits that change brings. What we talked about... Start by making a decision for yourselfGet clarity on what you want and don’t wantCreate a foundation of trust, joy, and supportBe a constant learner; andSurround yourself with positive people that encourage you   Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmauel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @lifewithmimiasuquo

We all know Eman and Mimi as the host of The Eman Effect podcast, and that’s it. Some of you don’t have any idea what they like as a person or what they do for a living because you just enjoy listening to them. In this episode, Eman and Mimi play another round of the Bob in UK Debate Date Card Game. They answer juicy and controversial questions about race, relationships, family, and self to understand and get to know them better.  Highlights One piece of advance for Black Own BusinessHow important sex is in a relationshipNot all things need to be shared on social mediaWhite and Black people have something to be accountable for; andThe rise of the GenZ era Do you have a juicy question about relationships, family, business, and finance that you want to ask Eman and Mimi? Send them over to their Instagram DM! Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmauel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mariam.asuquo

2022 will come to an end, and we are going to enter a new year with new beginnings and new opportunities. But before that, let’s look back, appreciate the past year, and reflect on the things we need to let go of and take away in the upcoming 2023. In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about how 2022 changed many aspects of their life, career, and business. They share their struggles in changing careers, making decisions, being a better version of themselves, and what they will be focusing on in 2023.  Highlights The reality of being your own bossMimi’s experience in changing her career pathCreating stability and structure in life Eman’s new book and career progress; andTakeaway lessons from the year 2022 Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmauel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mariam.asuquo

It’s the season to be jolly! Everyone is busy buying gifts, preparing holiday recipes, and dancing at Christmas parties. We always celebrate Christmas but do we really understand its true meaning? Christmas is more than just a monetary gift, snowfall, and spending money. In this episode, we will tell you why. In this episode, Eman and Mimi recap their previous Christmas celebrations and what they are grateful for during the year and talk about the true meaning of Christmas. They also give last-minute Christmas gift ideas, tips, and activities families can do during the holiday season. Highlights The memories of ChristmasHow to control overbuying of gifts this seasonCreating Christmas traditionsTaking time to reflect, rest, and bond with family and loved ones; andActivities that your family can do this Christmas Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmanuel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

What would you do if one day you woke up and found out that you were made redundant at work?  Some will cry, some will complain about their life, and some, particularly the Asuquos' will use it as a motivation to achieve success. In this episode, Eman and Mimi walk down memory lane to share the untold stories behind their success in marriage, business, and life. They talk about the pain and challenges they face to build a legacy. So, if you want to feel inspired and are ready to create your legacy like the Asuquos', listen to this episode. Highlights The time when Eman got redundantHow to prepare yourself for successCreating a goal and game plan to winNot jealous but grateful; andLearn to protect the legacy you build Links Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmauel Asuquo Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com   Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

We are back with all-new episodes and we are shaking things up. In a relationship, value systems are important but do we need them to be similar?  In this episode, Eman and Mimi play the Bob in UK Debate Date Card Game where they ask each other questions that they’ve never asked before. Join us in this episode and let your friends know we're back! Highlights  Is the relationship over after a failed marriage proposalWhy Eman thinks men should propose to a womanWhat does loyalty meanBehaviors that are an absolute red flagDoes porn ruin our sexuality Links Check out the Bob in UK Card Game  Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

Men worry that committing to a relationship will limit their freedom. They fear they may envy their friends, miss every Friday night out, and lose the benefits of having sex with different women. But is marriage really the end of enjoying manhood? A constant debate topic that only the person involved can answer. In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about commitment and relationships, particularly for men. Based on their experience as a married couple, they explain the nonsexual benefits of a relationship on both sides (men and women), discuss why some men opt not to commit, and highlight the importance of deciding for oneself. Highlights The reason why men get more out of a relationship Understanding the pros and cons of having a partner The stability and security a relationship offers; and Why settling down with the right person is important   Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

The only constant thing in the world is change, whether good or bad. As people in the position take on power, more kids are in danger, and as the cost of living continues to rise, life gets harder to bear. But with all this happening, you have the option to choose. Let yourself suffer or create ways to live better. In today’s episode, Eman and Mimi tackle the hot issues of today that have a massive impact on the world. The couple gives their opinion on the newly signed law to ban abortion in the US, provides useful and clever tips on handling market inflation and increasing cost of living, and sheds light on the risks of committing to any investments. Highlights The riffle effect of the new abortion law in the USA jaw-dropping increase in petrol and diesel pricesSavvy ways to spend and budget for your needsThe importance of understanding the risk of any investments; and Find out the best and worst investments you can make Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

When are you sacrificing too much for your marriage? Marriage is more than just a union of two people. It is a product of love and sacrifice from both sides. Being in a relationship is a wonderful experience, but if you need to sacrifice the things you don’t want for marriage, are you still willing to do it? In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about marriage and relationships. They discuss the importance of understanding yourself, your partner, and the sacrifices of marriage. They exchange their list of non-negotiables when it comes to marrying someone and share their views on it. Highlights Putting aside wealth, legacy, and ambitionThe hygiene presentation and people treatmentHaving different faith and beliefsSetting past relationship boundaries; andExisting relationships are important, but family is a priority Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

What would you say if you were given a chance to talk to your younger self? Our childhoods are filled with beautiful memories, but we also make mistakes. And learning from every situation makes things better and makes us feel a lot stronger. In this episode, Eman and Mimi sit down and do a little reflection on things that they wish to tell their younger self. They talk about the highs and lows of everything and share their experiences of self-discovery and things they learn and love along the way.  Highlights Finding time to have fun and relaxLearning from certain situations in lifeCreating habits to get through the challenging momentsThe bigger purpose of doing service to othersHow to be mindful about saving moneyFocus on setting goals and achieving them; andExperience life first before going into relationships Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com   Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

Money has the power to bring out the worst and best in people. Evey money-making decision we make is important because sometimes it can bring us wealth and abundance and but it can also destroy our reputation and ruin people’s lives. In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about the value of money and the sacrifice people make to have it. They discuss the highs and lows when it comes to earning, how money changes people's lives both in good and bad, and the result of every money-making decision.  Highlights Focus on things that you can changeThe limits to what people can do for moneyWhat are the consequences of building a bad reputation for moneyUnderstand the different seasons of life; andThe mindset of people about money Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

There is a saying “Tell me your friends and I tell you who you are”. But, if one of your friends is abusive, then there is a possibility that you will be labeled negatively as well. You need to take accountability for your actions, change negative characteristics and break your silence about abusive relationships and situations. In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about accountability with yourself, family, and friends. They explain the importance of speaking up and holding people accountable for their wrong actions. Creating a safe space, empowering people, protecting lives, and building respect for each other.   Highlights The importance of taking accountabilityWhy you need to speak up against violenceHow does the environment influence peopleWhat is the key to breaking generational curses; andKnowing your value as a person with or without a relationship   Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk LinkedIn: Emmanuel Asuquo Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

Everyone has their own idea of wealth, but we all aim to achieve the same thing, that is to live a comfortable and debt-free life today and into the future. This is the reason why we need to know and understand the steps to take in order to build wealth. In this episode, Eman and Mimi walk us through the different ways to build wealth. They talk about the importance of having basic knowledge about wealth education, having clarity with your goals, how to manage your finances, and taking ownership. They also provide useful tips if you want to start building wealth through business and making investments.   Highlights Learn how to create a plan to manage your moneyThe importance of having an emergency fundsHow to maintain a good credit standingWays to invest your money strategically; andDiscover how you can start your investment with property   Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

Sometimes you want pasta and your partner wants a burger. And sometimes you want to live in the UK and your partner wants to live in Africa. Is it the end of the relationship when you and your partner have different goals? The thing is, sometimes partners have different goals in the future – although it can sound scary. You can manage these issues and make your future a reality. In this episode, Eman and Mimi answer the question “What to do if your partner has different goals?” They explain how partnership and commitment affect the individual's goals, the negative things that have a negative impact on a relationship, and the financial aspect of it. They also point out the importance of controlling your emotion, being flexible, and learning how to find the middle ground if you have different goals with your partner.   Highlights Understanding your commitment to your partnerThe importance of taking responsibility for relationshipsHow to connect with someone who has similar goals to yoursWhat are the money matters in a relationshipHow to control your emotions when you are in a relationshipThe reason why broke is a mindset; andLearn to compromise and not compromise with your different goals   Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

There is no secret formula to achieving success. If you desire to be successful in whatever area of your life, you need to sacrifice some things. And the sacrifices you make today will contribute to your success tomorrow! In this episode, Eman and Mimi are joined by Bola Sol to speak about creating balance in building a successful business while still having time and space to find love and take care of oneself. Bola sol shares how she starts her entrepreneurial journey, the challenges, and the self-sacrifices she and other entrepreneurs make to be successful. They also talk about Bola Sol's motivations and inspiration for creating wealth. Bola Sol is a finance coach who's passionate about building her community and discussing money matters. She has weekly chats on her social media and talks about money, has worked with various media companies, and has been featured for her work on BBC and Forbes. Bol Sol is also a book author of “How to Save It”   Highlights How to find a balance between hustle and lifeLearn to manage your time if you're booked and busyThe willingness to sacrifice things to achieve successWhat is the reality behind the success of working a 9-5 job and being an entrepreneurHow to be comfortable showing yourself for your businessThe relationship myths about power dynamics according to one's finances; andCreating a foundation and building intimate relationships outside of work   Links Connect with Bola Sol on Instagram @bola_sol and grab a copy of her book How To Save It: Fix Your Finances Follow Eman and Mimi on social media: Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

Did you notice the recent increasing price of commodities? It is common for people to complain about the high gas prices, but this is only the beginning since prices will continue to go up. In this situation, we need to be conscious of our spending habits and learn to create a budget based on our needs. After all, it’s not about how much you earn but it's how much money you keep, and how much money you make work for you. In this episode, Eman and Mimi discuss investing in oneself and how to handle money. They discussed how Eman stepped out of his comfort zone, made an investment in himself to write a book, and the struggles that come with it. They explain the importance of having an education, understanding your finances, and how you can budget and manage your finances in the different areas of your life during this time of inflation and rising costs of living.   Highlights What are the challenges of writing a bookLearning a skill and propagating that in different waysHow to focus on achieving your goals and obtaining a good educationHow to master pressure from competition and use it effectivelyImportance of setting up a budget for your householdHow to keep more money in your pocket when things go up; andLearn to be smart in saving and making money   Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:   Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com   Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

Everyone has a different standard and rule for what they want from their relationship. But what if the one you are dating said that he doesn’t want to spend money on your dates because you have the rule to wait and have sex until marriage?  In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about relationships specifically dating. They share their different views on people's standards, rules, and regulations in terms of money and dating, the pressures of social media, and the importance of values and core beliefs in choosing a partner.    Highlights How does “Go Dutch” works in datingWhat are the dating standards, rules, and regulationsThe reason why sex shouldn't be viewed as a currencyWhy a relationship should involve give and takeHow social media brings pressure to datingWhat is the biggest reason for divorceThe importance of values in a relationship   Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:   Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk  Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com   Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes