Reflections of The Father’s Heart

In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Dana Cole, a registered social worker and certified grief recovery specialist. They explore Dana's professional journey from child protection to private practice, emphasizing the importance of engagement and understanding grief and loss. Dana shares her personal experiences that shaped her career, the impact of unresolved grief on mental health, and the connection between grief and addiction. The discussion highlights the need for empathy in addressing emotional pain and the significance of recognizing various types of loss. In this conversation, Dana Cole and Sandi Derby explore the complexities of trauma, grief, and addiction, emphasizing the importance of understanding underlying issues rather than merely addressing surface behaviors. They discuss the significance of finding the right support, the impact of childhood experiences on adult coping mechanisms, and the necessity of emotional healing. The dialogue encourages listeners to approach their struggles with curiosity and compassion, fostering a deeper understanding of themselves and their behaviors.

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the concept of trauma bonding, its implications, and how it can be weaponized by the enemy. She discusses the essential nature of bonding in human experience, the different types of trauma bonds, and the detrimental effects of unhealthy attachments. Sandi emphasizes the importance of healing from these bonds and the need for a deep connection with Jesus for true restoration.

In this episode, Sandi Derby continues her conversation with Dominic Wickey, who shares his profound journey of growing up in an Amish community marked by trauma, abuse, and cultural silence. Dominic recounts his experiences of childhood abuse, the shame and anger that followed, and the struggles he faced with identity and belonging. The discussion delves into the cultural practices of shunning within the Amish community, the impact of these practices on victims, and the lack of support for those who suffer in silence. Ultimately, Dominic reflects on his search for authenticity and faith, highlighting the transformative power of forgiveness and the presence of God's hand in his life despite the challenges he faced. In this conversation, Dominic and Sandi explore themes of divine intervention, spiritual battles, and the journey of healing from trauma. They discuss the impact of leaving legalistic systems, the tactics of the enemy, and the importance of understanding the difference between conviction and condemnation. Dominic shares personal experiences of overcoming an orphan spirit and the significance of trusting God amidst pain and challenges. The conversation emphasizes the need for a genuine relationship with God and the transformative power of healing.

In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby interviews Mishka Murad, a certified grief recovery method specialist, who shares her inspiring journey from growing up in Pakistan to working with students in the U.S. Mishka discusses the impact of losing her mother at a young age, the cultural challenges she faced, and how these experiences shaped her identity. She emphasizes the importance of emotional health, the challenges of navigating grief, and the transformative power of the grief recovery method. Mishka also reflects on her personal growth, the effects of COVID-19 on student mental health, and the significance of holding space for others in their grief. Connect with Sandi: Instagram:   / sandi_derby11   Facebook:   / sandiderby11   Tiktok:   / sandiderby   Website: https://courses.sandiderby.com/

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby interviews JoBeth Evans, a Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist. JoBeth shares her personal journey through grief after the loss of her husband to brain cancer, discussing the profound impact of grief on her life and the lives of those around her. She emphasizes the importance of community support, the concept of secondary losses, and the transformative power of the grief recovery method. JoBeth also highlights her work with individuals struggling with grief and addiction, illustrating the deep connections between unresolved grief and substance use. Throughout the conversation, themes of hope, authenticity, and the necessity of addressing emotional pain are explored, encouraging listeners to embrace their own healing journeys.

In this episode, Sandi Derby interviews Dominic Wickey, who shares his profound journey from growing up in an Amish community to finding healing and freedom in his faith. Dominic discusses the challenges of growing up in a controlled environment where he felt voiceless and neglected. He reflects on the impact of shame, classism, and the concept of shunning within the Amish culture. As he navigates his struggles with substance abuse and a condemning view of God, he ultimately finds liberation through a personal relationship with Jesus. Dominic's testimony highlights the ongoing journey of healing, the importance of breaking free from religious mindsets, and the grace of God in times of crisis.

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby interviews Andrew Aggrey, a powerful man of God who shares his transformative journey from a life of anxiety and partying to a deep relationship with Jesus. Andrew discusses his early life in a Pentecostal home, the struggles he faced with anxiety, and his eventual surrender to Christ. He recounts supernatural encounters that shaped his faith and emphasizes the importance of obedience and preparation for the challenges ahead. The conversation highlights the need for believers to step into their God-given authority and influence, especially in times of spiritual warfare. Follow Andrew Aggrey on Instagram: @andrewaggreyy

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby explores the often misunderstood relationship between grief and faith. She emphasizes that grieving is a God-given process essential for navigating life's losses and that it is a misconception that faith requires the absence of emotional responses. Sandi discusses the importance of community in the grieving process, the dual reality of faith and feelings, and the urgent need for believers to acknowledge and process their pain to avoid unresolved grief.

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the often misunderstood concept of self-love within the context of faith. She discusses the importance of loving oneself as a precursor to loving others, emphasizing that true self-love is not narcissistic but rather a healthy recognition of one's worth. Sandi delves into biblical teachings, personal experiences, and the significance of healing and boundaries in relationships. She encourages listeners to engage in an intimate relationship with Jesus to understand their value and to learn how to love themselves effectively, ultimately leading to healthier interactions with others.

In this episode, Sandi Derby continues her testimony of her experience with satanic ritual abuse (SRA). She shares how she discovered her own history of SRA and the horrifying details of the rituals she endured as a child. Sandi emphasizes that SRA is more common than people realize and that it often operates under the guise of religion. She also discusses the power dynamics within the satanic kingdom and the resiliency of children who have experienced SRA. Sandi shares her own healing journey and the hope and restoration she has found in Jesus.

In this episode, Sandi Derby shares her personal story of abuse and trauma, as well as her journey towards healing and finding God. She discusses the importance of facing suppressed memories and the dynamics of memory recall. Sandi also emphasizes the need for safe community and the power of truth in setting us free from bondage. She addresses the misconceptions around memory and encourages empathy and understanding for those who have experienced trauma. In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and abuse. She emphasizes the importance of leaning into the pain, embracing it, and trusting oneself in order to reconnect with one's true self. Sandi also discusses the concept of false memory syndrome and how it has harmed survivors of abuse. She shares her own experiences of finding healing through her faith in Jesus and the power of intimacy with Him. Sandi's journey includes discovering repressed memories of satanic ritual abuse and the subsequent healing process. She concludes with a prayer for healing and restoration for those who may be listening.

AmarAtma, a trained Grief Recovery Method Speciaist and Board Certified Chaplain, shares his journey of discovering and working with grief. He discusses the importance of recognizing tangible and intangible losses and the impact of unprocessed grief on the body. AmarAtma emphasizes the need for emotional processing and the connection between grief and trauma. He highlights the role of safety in the nervous system and the importance of releasing stored emotions. AmarAtma reframes grief as an expression of love and discusses the potential for inner peace and world peace through grief work. Grief is transformative and has the power to turn loss into hope, character, purpose, and life. Society often avoids grief, but it is a natural part of life that needs to be actively embraced and processed. Grief is not a problem to be solved or an enemy to be defeated, but an invitation to grow and transform. We were never taught how to grieve properly, which leads to unresolved grief. Living an unscripted life after loss requires courage and can lead to a deeper sense of joy and aliveness. Grief work is not about staying in the grief business, but about embracing life and finding completion. https://amaratmacoaching.com/

Letty Wickey shares her experience growing up in an Amish community and the abuse and control she witnessed. She describes the strict rules and expectations placed on women, the lack of education and understanding of the Bible, and the pervasive abuse within the community. Letty also discusses the shunning of ex-Amish individuals and the manipulation and control exerted by the church. Despite feeling that something was wrong, Letty struggled with self-doubt and believed there was something wrong with her. She eventually left the Amish community and now has a different perspective on her upbringing. Letty shares her experience growing up in the Amish community and the religious abuse she endured. She discusses the lack of emotional expression and the suppression of emotions within the Amish culture. Letty also talks about her struggles with partying and drinking as a way to cope with her suppressed emotions. She shares her journey of healing and finding her identity outside of the Amish community, as well as her discovery of the restorative power of Jesus. Letty emphasizes the importance of facing past trauma and healing the heart and soul.

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart podcast, Sandi Derby interviews Lisa Cynkin-Hardy, the founder of The Lighthouse, a nonprofit organization that provides support and resources for young adults aging out of the foster care system. Lisa shares her personal journey growing up as a messianic Jew and the challenges she faced, including bullying. She also discusses her passion for powerlifting and the importance of taking care of our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. The conversation then shifts to the founding of The Lighthouse and the issues faced by young adults aging out of foster care, including homelessness and trafficking. In this conversation, Lisa Cynkin-Hardy and Sandi Derby discuss the issue of human trafficking and the work that Lisa does through her nonprofit organization, The Lighthouse - A Place of Refuge. They share stories of young girls who have been trafficked and the devastating effects of this crime. They emphasize the importance of raising awareness and taking action to combat human trafficking. Lisa also talks about the services provided by The Lighthouse, such as baby showers, prom prep events, and mobile food banks, to support young adults who have aged out of the foster care system. They highlight the need for volunteers and donations to help meet the basic needs of these vulnerable individuals.

Jessyevell Aggrey shares her powerful testimony of overcoming sexual abuse, rejection, and self-destructive behaviors. She opens up about the grooming and abuse she experienced as a child, the impact it had on her relationships and self-worth, and the cycle of seeking love through promiscuity. Jessyevell also discusses the importance of addressing the shame and silence surrounding abuse and the need for healing and restoration. Her story highlights the resilience and strength of survivors and the power of God's love and redemption. Jessyevell Aggrey shares her powerful testimony of overcoming abuse, addiction, and suicidal thoughts through her faith in God. She emphasizes the importance of addressing both male and female victims of abuse and highlights the need for open conversations about women perpetrating abuse against men. Jessyevell's journey of healing and transformation serves as a reminder that God can restore and redeem even the most broken lives.

Taylor Leys, owner of Jesus on Every Screen, discusses the impact of social media on reaching people with the gospel and the need for the church to engage in this space. He highlights the prevalence of social media in the lives of young people and the negative influence it can have, such as increased rates of suicide and depression. Taylor emphasizes the importance of using social media as a platform to share the message of Jesus and bring healing to those who are hurting. He encourages individuals to be creative and authentic in their content, rather than copying what others are doing. Taylor shares a personal story of the tragic loss of his brother and the potential impact that a simple prayer on social media could have had. He calls for a shift in mindset, viewing social media as territory to be gained for Jesus rather than something to be avoided. The conversation explores the impact of social media and the importance of using it as a tool for spreading the message of Jesus. It emphasizes the need to overcome comparison and perfectionism, and instead focus on obedience and being true to oneself. The conversation also highlights the schemes of the enemy and the importance of being aware of his tactics. It encourages believers to step out in faith and share their testimonies on social media, as it has the potential to reach and impact millions of people. The conversation concludes with a reminder that God has called believers to be active participants in His plan and to use social media as a means to bring about positive change.

Ed Owens, Vice President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares his personal journey of grief and the impact of compartmentalizing emotions. He discusses how his military and law enforcement training taught him to suppress emotions and the price he paid for not dealing with his losses. Ed emphasizes the importance of emotional availability and the negative consequences of emotional detachment. He also highlights the cumulative nature of grief and the need to address it to live a fulfilling life. Ed's story serves as a reminder that suppressing emotions can have long-term effects on relationships and overall well-being. In this conversation, Ed and Sandi discuss the importance of letting go of pain and the transformation that comes from releasing it. They explore the fear and resistance that can arise when facing the process of letting go, but emphasize the need to deal with emotional baggage in order to live a full and connected life. Ed shares his personal experience of going through the grief recovery process and the profound changes it brought to his relationship with his son. They also discuss the significance of being present in the moment and the impact it has on one's ability to fulfill their mission and be there for others.

In this episode, Sandi Derby and Curtis Reed discuss the damage caused by toxic religious environments and the importance of healing. They highlight how these environments can lead to a distorted view of God and the merging of the leader with God. They emphasize the need to separate God from the church and leadership and to focus on personal healing. They also discuss the role of the enemy in attacking churches and the importance of addressing unresolved grief and bitterness. They encourage listeners to let go of pain and embrace their true identity. In this conversation, Curtis Reed and Sandi Derby discuss the importance of healing from church hurt and the need to address the underlying pain and trauma. They emphasize that healing is not just about exposing the problem, but about finding spiritual solutions and healing the heart. They highlight the dangers of carrying unresolved emotional pain and the importance of completing the grief process. They also discuss the need for empowered and healthy communities that allow individuals to discover their gifts and walk in their calling. The conversation concludes with the understanding that healing and empowerment are God's desire for His people.

In this episode, Sandi Derby interviews Thomas Staub, an 18-year-old who wrote a thesis on how the church mishandles mental health. They discuss the issues of shame-based teachings, the rejection of psychology, and the lack of understanding and support for mental health in churches. Thomas emphasizes the importance of pastors being educated in psychology and connecting with mental health professionals to provide holistic care for congregants. He also shares his aspirations to become a therapist and serve his church in that capacity. www.sandiderby.com

Cecy Frazier shares her journey from a challenging childhood to finding faith and navigating the complexities of religious communities. She discusses the impact of trauma, the struggle for self-love, and the dynamics of submission and suppression within religious circles. Her story sheds light on the journey of healing and self-discovery. The conversation delves into the themes of healing, forgiveness, self-reflection, and personal responsibility. It emphasizes the power of love and forgiveness in overcoming trauma and building healthy relationships. The journey of healing and self-discovery is highlighted, along with the importance of investing in personal development. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult life and the significance of healthy, supportive relationships.