A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health

CMHA Kelowna and Jessica Samuels

A Way Forward podcast, presented by Beem Credit Union, examines the challenges that can wear down our individual and collective mental health. Host Jessica Samuels focusses on the stressors, the core issues and contributing factors, and the approaches and practices that can help address these issues. Listeners will leave feeling they have the information and tools to better manager their well-being and able to find...a way forward. read less
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Episode 5: Mental Health & The Holidays
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Episode 5: Mental Health & The Holidays
In Episode 5 of A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, host Jessica Samuels is joined by Mike Gawliuk, CEO of CMHA Kelowna for a conversation on Mental Health & The Holidays. The holiday season brings unique joys and challenges. In this episode, we dive into practical strategies for managing mental health and well-being during a time of heightened expectations, consumerism, and emotional triggers. Key Topics Covered:1. High Expectations During the HolidaysThe "perfect holiday" narrative: Balancing societal pressure and personal priorities.Strategies for managing expectations:Focus on what the holidays mean to you.Delegate responsibilities when hosting.Accept imperfection: It’s okay if the ornaments aren’t perfectly placed.2. Setting BoundariesHealthy boundaries ensure you protect your mental well-being.Tips for effective boundary-setting:Be clear and kind in communication.Examples: "I can join for dinner but not stay the whole evening."Remember, boundaries aren’t inherently negative—they’re a tool for self-care.3. Overindulgence: Food, Alcohol, and SpendingAwareness and moderation are key to avoiding post-holiday regret:Spending: Set a budget and stick to it. Consider alternative gifting options, like Secret Santa or giving your time.Eating & Drinking: Stay mindful of consumption and its impact on mental health.Maintain routines, like exercise, to balance indulgences.4. Loneliness and Grief During the HolidaysLoneliness is common during the season, especially when facing grief or being away from loved ones.Ideas to combat loneliness:Volunteer in your community.Reach out to friends or family through calls or cards.Plan small traditions for yourself, like a Christmas Day walk.Managing grief during the holidays:Allow yourself to feel emotions and reflect on positive memories.Share your thoughts with a trusted friend or loved one.Have a plan for anniversaries or milestones that may trigger grief.5. Consumerism and Financial StressThe holiday season amplifies the pressure to spend, especially with Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and gift-giving traditions.Strategies to manage financial stress:Be mindful of spending limits.Focus on meaningful, non-monetary gifts (e.g., quality time).Prepare for post-holiday realities to avoid the "holiday hangover."Key Takeaways:Manage expectations and focus on what truly matters to you during the holidays.Set boundaries to protect your emotional and mental well-being.Moderation in spending, eating, and drinking can prevent regrets later.Combat loneliness through connection, volunteering, and small personal rituals.Grief can be heightened during holidays—acknowledge it and seek support when needed.**Resources:https://www.interiorhealth.ca/stories/10-ways-focus-your-mental-wellness-during-holidayshttps://cmha.ca/news/five-ways-to-protect-your-mental-health-this-holiday/   **General Mental Health Resources:**If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now
Episode 4: Men's Mental Health
Nov 6 2024
Episode 4: Men's Mental Health
In Episode 4 of A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, host Jessica Samuels is joined by Mike Gawliuk, CEO of CMHA Kelowna, for a discussion on men's mental health and suicide rates. Acknowledging the cultural and societal expectations surrounding masculinity, they explore how these norms contribute to the struggles men face when seeking help. This episode sheds light on alarming statistics, personal experiences, and the urgent need for more open conversations.Key Topics DiscussedThe Silent Crisis: An overview of the suicide rates in Canada, where approximately 75% of the 4,000 annual suicides are men.Gender Paradox: Discussion of why men are more likely to die by suicide despite women attempting it more frequently.Cultural Expectations of Masculinity: How societal norms dictate that men should be strong and self-reliant, making it difficult for them to express vulnerability or seek help.Personal Experiences: Mike Gawliuk shares his journey with depression and the societal pressures that discouraged open conversations about mental health.The Role of Social Connections: The importance of having supportive relationships and how they differ between men and women.Impact of Life Events: How unemployment, relationship breakdowns, and parenting challenges can significantly affect men's mental health.Resources for Men: Introduction of various resources such as Heads Up Guys and He Changed It, aimed at providing support and information for men's mental health.Workplace Culture: The stigma surrounding mental health in the workplace and how it can prevent men from seeking help.Community Awareness: The need for increased awareness and conversation around men's mental health, particularly in light of the current drug crisis affecting men disproportionately.Important Statistics75% of suicides in Canada are by men.77% of deaths from unregulated drugs in British Columbia are male.80% of these drug-related deaths occur indoors, highlighting issues of isolation.TakeawaysEncouragement to Seek Help: Mike emphasizes the importance of reaching out and having conversations about mental health.Community Action: Individuals can play a role in fostering community discussions and reducing stigma around mental health issues.Resources and Support: Awareness of available tools and websites can help men recognize when they need help and how to access it.**Additional Resources** He changed itBuddy UpMen's Health Foundationingoodcompany.menshealthresearch.ubc.caHeads Up GuysMovember**General Mental Health Resources:**If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now
Episode 3: Cost of Living
Oct 24 2024
Episode 3: Cost of Living
In Episode 3 of A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, host Jessica Samuels is joined by Mike Gawliuk, CEO of CMHA Kelowna, for a discussion on the cost of living and how it can affect one's mental health. This episode, Jessica and Mike explore how increased living expenses contribute to anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges, especially for vulnerable populations.Key Topics Discussed:The Connection Between Cost of Living and Mental Health:Highlighting the link between low incomes and mental illness, exacerbated by rising costs and interest rates.The psychological burden of financial strain, emphasizing the stress on those with limited resources.Impact of Inflation on Social Interaction:The term "inflation isolation" is introduced, addressing how financial strain limits social activities that are crucial for mental well-being.Isolation can worsen mental health, transitioning from anxiety to more serious mental health issues.Vulnerable Populations:Identifying various groups particularly affected, including nonprofit sector workers, seniors on fixed incomes, and service industry employees.The challenges faced by these groups as costs rise.Resources Available:CMHA Kelowna’s Rent Bank program is highlighted, providing no-interest loans to those at risk of eviction.Other community resources for financial literacy and mental health support are shared, including food banks and counseling services.Managing Mental Health:An emphasis on the importance of self-awareness and recognizing changes in behavior and mood.Strategies for managing mental health during tough financial times are discussed, such as limiting technology use, seeking social connections, and engaging in free activities.**Resources Mentioned:CMHA Kelowna: Mental Health Support Services | Canadian Mental Health Association KelownaRent Bank Program: Central Okanagan Rent Bank | Canadian Mental Health Association KelownaFoundry Kelowna: Foundry - Where Wellness Takes Shape Virtual Counseling Services: Foundry Virtual BC - Foundry BC App Financial Literacy Programs: Home - Launch Okanagan**General Mental Health Resources:**If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now
Episode 2: Housing & Homelessness
Oct 9 2024
Episode 2: Housing & Homelessness
In Episode 2 of A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, host Jessica Samuels is joined by Mike Gawliuk, CEO of CMHA Kelowna, for a discussion on housing and homelessness.  This episode sheds light on the complex web of issues surrounding homelessness and highlights the importance of proactive community support and resources. The discussion examines the many pathways to homelessness, and how experiencing homelessness can significantly impact a person's mental wellness. Resources and programs that can prevent individuals from becoming homeless, and that can support people to get back into housing are highlighted in this episode.**Key Topics Discussed:**What It Means to Have a Home: The distinction between having a stable home versus temporary shelter, and why a secure place to live is critical to overall well-being.Pathways to Homelessness: Exploring the many factors—both individual and societal—that can contribute to housing instability and homelessness, from financial struggles, to personal crises, to mental health challenges.Prevention and Early Intervention: Mike shares insights on existing programs and services designed to intervene early, helping to prevent individuals from becoming homeless.**Resources Mentioned:**Central Okanagan Rent Bank (Operated by CMHA Kelowna)BC Rent Bank (provincial entity)Boys and Girls Club (Shelter Diversion program)Metro Shelter Hub**General Mental Health Resources:**If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now
Episode 1: Youth Mental Health
Sep 25 2024
Episode 1: Youth Mental Health
In the first episode of A Way Forward Podcast: Conversations on Mental Health, presented by Beem Credit Union, Jessica Samuels covers the topic of Youth Mental Health with CMHA Kelowna CEO Mike Gawliuk and the need for more mental health resources and support for young people. The conversation focuses on the importance of early intervention and how providing mental health services sooner can have a lasting impact on youth as they transition into adulthood.Mike shares his expertise on the current state of youth mental health in Kelowna, emphasizing that many mental health struggles can be mitigated or addressed with timely and adequate resources. The episode also explores the critical role that youth dedicated organizations, school, and families play in advocating for more accessible mental health programs and the long-term benefits of investing in early intervention.The episodes wraps up with a discussion of programs and resources available for young people as they manage their mental health challenges.**Key Topics Discussed:**- The current gaps in mental health resources for youth- The importance of early intervention in preventing long-term mental health issues- How early support can help ease the transition from adolescence into adulthood- The role of CMHA Kelowna/Foundry Kelowna in advocating for youth mental health- How youth dedicated programs, schools, parents, and communities can collaborate to provide better mental health support- How parents and caregivers know when to see out supports for youth- Real-life stories of impact and success when intervention happens early- Programs and resources that are available**Resources Mentioned:**- Foundry Central (provincial entity, Foundry Virtual)- Foundry Kelowna (operated by CMHA Kelowna)- ARC Programs (Family Connections Centre)- The Upstream Project (Boys and Girls Club Okanagan)- The Bridge Youth Services**General Mental Health Resources:**If you or someone you know is struggling, CMHA Kelowna's Find Help Now page has a list of emergency and non-emergency resources for individuals of any age. CMHA Kelowna - Find Help Now