UK swingers lifestyle

Charlotte and Paul

Welcome to The UK based Swinging podcast brought to you by 'Biproperswingers'. It is our hope to give a very honest insight into the swinging world within the UK. Our names are Paul and Charlotte and we are pretty well known on the scene. If you’re swingers I bet you can find us. With a combined time on the swinging scene of around 21 years we have a substantial amount of experience and knowledge of how it all really works. Our hope is to dispel some of the myths about the lifestyle and help spread the good experiences we all have had. We feel society as a whole doesn't really know that much about this very special, hedonistic community and we hope to enlighten a lot of minds about what it truly is all about! Real current social attitudes towards sex and the scene itself, we want to spread awareness with the aim of educating at the same time. Real interviews with other genuine swingers and those to who have transitioned into and out of the lifestyle. We'll take you on a very special journey inside the clubs around the country and the adult industry providers to share what is really out there including that of the usually unspoken fetish scene. We'll give honest and un-bias reviews of the scene, from the sex toys, shops to holidays. We'll do our upmost to provide the best advice for people who are curious and want to try it, but sadly won't or can’t, due to the fear of being judged. We were both once newbies and still occasionally get nervous. As we don't want to give a prejudiced perspective on anything we discuss, we will very openly examine the up's and downs, as well as the positives and negatives. We hope that the knowledge we've gained through our own personal experiences within the community; be it the bad ones or the out of this world amazing ones, we want to enable people to open their minds instead of closing them off. Exploring a wide range of different topic's like 'what is a unicorn?', 'The sheer level of respect you get in the clubs', 'The power is usually within the hands of the woman', and many, many more. We are completely new to doing podcasts, so our material may be a little bit all over the place to begin with, but I'm sure with practice, we shall soon get into the swing of things. https://biproperswingers.wixsite.com/biproperswingers Disclaimer: The Ukbiproperswingers podcast, website and blog associated with it are the opinions and beliefs of Paul and Charlotte's only. (And this covers any of the guests featured on any of the episodes too.) The information shared on the podcast isn't professional advice and Paul and Charlotte cannot be held responsible for any negative actions or consequences which occur from trying any activity after listening to the podcast. read less

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Podcast 009 - Club visits, Festivals and the Vanilla world could never ENTICE us back.

Podcast 009 - Club visits, Festivals and the Vanilla world could never ENTICE us back.

We were forced to go vanilla for a bit but only by our own actions, so it's all cool. With our usual laid back chatter and giggling with plenty of possible Segway's, we managed to, (just about) to keep it on some sort of track. As always, it’s eloquently unprofessional manner shows through. With a very brief summery of the two adult lifestyle festival's that we attended last year, followed by the amazing outfits at swingathon that we both wore, that only a handful of people managed to see. Because of the sheer weight of Paul's helmet (of the outfit now, you dirty minded individual's hehe) - he had to take it back to the tent after a mere 45 minutes out. We are though, pretty damn sure it could have won if it was left on long enough to be appreciated. Swingathon 2024 is going to be far bigger this year and we already have our tickets, so you want to find out how to purchase yours, the link is below people. 18- 21st July is going to be amazing :) Last years Swingathon was somewhat kinkier than normal, so this year is going to be even bigger in regards to the whole kink community combining with the swinging community. With mere expression of individual impulse and feeling, frequently amatory, and pure lust; it really isn't going to be one to miss! So having both Fetfest and Swingathon combined is going to make double the fun. Home - SwingathonWe discussed visits to pleasures (where we shared an a very naughty experience filled with pure curiosity and lust in their little dungeon area) Although pleasures isn't anything but small - so if you want to learn more; the link is below. https://pleasures-in-kent.co.uk/ We even managed to have a little discussion on the current societal situation regarding gender identity diversity which appears to be shaking up the LGBTQ community. Discussing the constant pressure of the heteronormative world and how this is somewhat affecting the scene - when it comes to men and bisexuality. We very briefly touch upon an offer we had with a global swinging radio station for a weekly show, which was going to monetise the podcast through it, but I was on the precipice of finishing my degree; so as always in life, the timing was impeccably incorrect. From bad timings in life to bad timings arriving for stuff - we almost turned up too late to the Vanilla Alternative’s festival of fun festival - boot camp themed. We are planning on going to the May weekend festival and the Main August festivals of fun. Here is the link if you want to learn more about the amazing Vanilla Alternative (members only) club...... The Vanilla Alternative Exclusive Private Members Club - Apply For Membership and Book (va2.co.uk)We also touch upon the entice night at xtasia, which was amazing. We love seeing new clubs and the website for this is - you guess it below.... Xtasia Adult Sexual Entertainment Venue – Xtasia.co.ukCharlotte is writing about this night in far greater detail than what we managed to discuss on here; so you know where to go to find that :) But just in case you don't, here is the link...https://ninjaconflicted.blogspot.com/ What's even nicer, is the vanilla world writing articles in a much brighter light and not just the same sensationalised misinformed gibberish. Swingathon returns to Lincolnshire with additional fetish festival held across three days (lincsonline.co.uk)

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Podcast 009 - Club visits, Festivals and the Vanilla world could never ENTICE us back.

Podcast 009 - Club visits, Festivals and the Vanilla world could never ENTICE us back.

We were forced to go vanilla for a bit but only by our own actions, so it's all cool. With our usual laid back chatter and giggling with plenty of possible Segway's, we managed to, (just about) to keep it on some sort of track. As always, it’s eloquently unprofessional manner shows through. With a very brief summery of the two adult lifestyle festival's that we attended last year, followed by the amazing outfits at swingathon that we both wore, that only a handful of people managed to see. Because of the sheer weight of Paul's helmet (of the outfit now, you dirty minded individual's hehe) - he had to take it back to the tent after a mere 45 minutes out. We are though, pretty damn sure it could have won if it was left on long enough to be appreciated. Swingathon 2024 is going to be far bigger this year and we already have our tickets, so you want to find out how to purchase yours, the link is below people. 18- 21st July is going to be amazing :) Last years Swingathon was somewhat kinkier than normal, so this year is going to be even bigger in regards to the whole kink community combining with the swinging community. With mere expression of individual impulse and feeling, frequently amatory, and pure lust; it really isn't going to be one to miss! So having both Fetfest and Swingathon combined is going to make double the fun. Home - SwingathonWe discussed visits to pleasures (where we shared an a very naughty experience filled with pure curiosity and lust in their little dungeon area) Although pleasures isn't anything but small - so if you want to learn more; the link is below. https://pleasures-in-kent.co.uk/ We even managed to have a little discussion on the current societal situation regarding gender identity diversity which appears to be shaking up the LGBTQ community. Discussing the constant pressure of the heteronormative world and how this is somewhat affecting the scene - when it comes to men and bisexuality. We very briefly touch upon an offer we had with a global swinging radio station for a weekly show, which was going to monetise the podcast through it, but I was on the precipice of finishing my degree; so as always in life, the timing was impeccably incorrect. From bad timings in life to bad timings arriving for stuff - we almost turned up too late to the Vanilla Alternative’s festival of fun festival - boot camp themed. We are planning on going to the May weekend festival and the Main August festivals of fun. Here is the link if you want to learn more about the amazing Vanilla Alternative (members only) club...... The Vanilla Alternative Exclusive Private Members Club - Apply For Membership and Book (va2.co.uk)We also touch upon the entice night at xtasia, which was amazing. We love seeing new clubs and the website for this is - you guess it below.... Xtasia Adult Sexual Entertainment Venue – Xtasia.co.ukCharlotte is writing about this night in far greater detail than what we managed to discuss on here; so you know where to go to find that :) But just in case you don't, here is the link...https://ninjaconflicted.blogspot.com/ What's even nicer, is the vanilla world writing articles in a much brighter light and not just the same sensationalised misinformed gibberish. Swingathon returns to Lincolnshire with additional fetish festival held across three days (lincsonline.co.uk)

Podcast 008 - Catch up, new club opening and the pineapple app interview

Podcast 008 - Catch up, new club opening and the pineapple app interview

For once we managed to get an episode out in a decent time frame; without the usual 9 month delay. The degree is over - finally. Let’s hope I’m in good spirits the next episode as I could have failed, you just don’t know! The pressure is finally off and fingers crossed you can tell in char’s voice. Although in char’s own words… ‘I feel like the 5,000 word may have caused some damage and I may need to sleep until Christmas to recover hehe’. At lease you guys listening don’t need to wait until Christmas for the next episode hey. Through char’s new event at the D2S club - to the amazing bad girls event hosted by the one and only Kim @ penthouse and her husband Paul - who runs the tattooed talent bi nights there) We go through the awesomeness of the new D2S club in Grantham - and a bank holiday trip down to Devon to finally catch up with two of our favourite humans. The weather was Devine, but not as Devine as the play time. Char is working on a free swingers newbie guide to swinging. It’s almost finished, so it will be up on our website (no doubt twitter / Instagram too) fast forward through all of the very casual, laid back Banta - you will find the eagerly anticipated interview with the owners of the new pineapple app. To download to the brand new app and give it a try. https://www.thepineapple.app/https://instagram.com/thepineapple.app?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==For information regarding the biggest adult lifestyle festival, see the website below. https://swingathon.co.uk/swingathon/welcome/ Information about up and coming events at the new D2S CLUB can be found on their Instagram page. https://instagram.com/d2sclub?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Char and Bry's links can be found below too..... https://allmylinks.com/charandbryFuture bad girls events hosted by pink_flamingo_Parties and tattooed Talent bi nights can be found on the penthouse website below......https://www.penthouseplayrooms.comKim's ( pink_flamingo_Parties) socials can be found below... https://instagram.com/pink_flamingo_parties?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==tattooed Talents socials....................https://instagram.com/tattooed_talent_parties?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Podcast 007 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - 2023. Mr and Mrs Catch-up

Podcast 007 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - 2023. Mr and Mrs Catch-up

A very long awaited, yet equally laid back episode. Tune in and chill with us - as we sit down on our sofa discussing our wedding, trips to pleasures and new adventures at the beautiful adult club that is penthouse. Come and enjoy the non-scripted Banta and laughs; as we take you along for the ride in more ways than one :) We discuss the politics of the swinging adult life-style - all while maintaining our un-bias perspective - which with all of the telly programs coming out, its a raw & honest view. We even managed a very informal interview with Matt - mr swingathon', well the man who runs the now - biggest annual, UK swinging adult lifestyle. Was really hoping to have both Matt and Stacy - but hey, ho - it is what it is. It was awesome to have an extraordinarily fast paced chat, although it's fair to say that we managed to fit so much into such a short period of time. We managed to briefly go over previous years - and even more amazing to through what is store for this up and coming 2023 swingathon.For those who are not new to the swinging scene but haven't yet heard of the swinging festivals... the website for swingathon is below. https://swingathon.co.uk/swingathon/welcome/If any of you listening wanted more information on the adult club - penthouse. The link is below you lovies :) https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/For the club that we spoke about - that was Pleasures, their website is belowhttps://pleasures-in-kent.co.uk/

Podcast 006 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - 2022. A summer of Festival's, orgies and cake

Podcast 006 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - 2022. A summer of Festival's, orgies and cake

Festival's, orgies and cake. Well there was a song titled 'cake by the ocean', so why can't there be a podcast named 'cake by the orgies'. hehe. Well to be completely honest, we was wandering around the Vanilla Alternative with bowls of fruit, but eating Victoria was well needed after the fun and in that, we do mean eating the Victoria sponge lol, not a person named Victoria. Can't quite believe that its been a ridiculously 9 months since we published an episode. We are 100% aiming to get another one done in the next 3 months. The wedding, family, only fans, work and university have all been stealing our time. Covering the amazing summer solstice bi night, Swingathon 2022, Festival of fun 22, recent trips to pleasures, max's garden the amazing 1st visit to secrets for one of our besties birthdays. We just hope we kept you listening to the end and in the next episode we hope to discuss our up and coming visit to the penthouse and DV8. The summer solstice and festival of fun was situated at the lovely Vanilla Alterative. Website can be found below https://va2.co.uk/The awesome 5 day festival mentioned which is now officially the biggest adult lifestyle festival in the UK. The link to their website is below. https://swingathon.co.uk/The club that we discussed in the south east of the UK (the one with the massive bed was pleasures - in Kent https://pleasures-in-kent.co.uk/-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------For the beautiful naturalist place we mentioned - here's their website. But please remember - *PLEASE NOTE : this is a purely naturalist site and not a swingers venue. *https://maxsgarden.net/-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Tattooed talent bi parties is a bi night that you will never forget and they are now being held at the penthouse and he has a new website too. click the link below to see all the details.https://tattooedtalent.com/Penthouse's website is below :) https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/The website link for the lovely club we briefly discussed in Devon is below.http://www.secretsforsharing.co.uk/party-dates.htmBarenecessities are a new toy business who approached us at the Festival of Fun. We are going to be doing some awesome promotional work for them as the toys are fab! Their website can be found below.https://linktr.ee/thebarenecessities?utm_sourceTo help you with a truly awesome visual representation to go along as you're listening to this podcast episode and your yet to see the TikTok videos that have been disused, the links are below you sexy listeners. https://www.tiktok.com/@backupbiproperswingers/video/7137941127549701382?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1https://www.tiktok.com/@backupbiproperswingers/video/7130345182003875077?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1https://www.tiktok.com/@backupbiproperswingers/video/7116457676942478597?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1

Podcast 005 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - 2021

Podcast 005 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - 2021

Its been 6 months since our last episode (which is pretty disappointing our behalf so apologies) Vanilla life at times gets in the way and sometimes its just enviably. With studying and employment effecting our enjoyment - we've just had our hands tied (and not in the way we like!) Focusing mainly upon the three festivals that we attended during the summer and considering it had been well over a year since we had done anything like that since the Covid lock downs happened last March. We 100% made the most out of it and even started our own Mexican wave orgy in the field at the first ever swingfon...Enjoy this fun episode where we go into details of the fabulous swingfon, the VA festival of Fun.. And the treasurefon.The scene is 100% recovering since the lock down and social distancing measures and we couldn't be any more thrilled and can't wait to see what's going to happen in the near future in the scene! XThe Va bi night blog post can be found here......https://ninjaconflicted.blogspot.com/2021/07/the-big-bi-play-at-one-and-only-va.htmlIf you want to know more details regarding Pleasures (Kent) The link for the website is below....https://pleasures-in-kent.co.uk/The Vanilla Alternative's websites is below...https://va2.co.uk/gallery/ The DV8 club can be found belowhttp://www.kinkyengland.com/

Podcast 004 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - Light at the end of the tunnel

Podcast 004 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - Light at the end of the tunnel

We're both so sorry for it being so damn long since doing an episode. With Paul working full time from home (which is making him work longer at times because his work is just there.) Charlotte with her studies and juggling family responsibilities has been taking so much of her time, so being able to get the time and energy has been somewhat difficult. With Covidageddon beginning to come to an end (fingers crossed the whole situation stays improving) we've decided to do an episode discussing some up and coming events, including The Festival of fun at the Vanilla Alternative and Swingathon in Lincolnshire. We briefly touch upon the bi nights at Eureka's that we're going to be hosting soon. We mention an awesome experience we had recently when a real fan got contact to gift us a very special machine! We cover sexual health, the sad closure of smaller clubs due to Covid restrictions and how lucky we feel to be able to attend these fabulous festivals again.https://va2.co.uk/http://www.eureka-naturist-club.co.uk/events/ https://swingathon.co.uk/swingathon/dare-to-share

Podcast 003 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - safety and FOF

Podcast 003 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle - safety and FOF

This episode is regarding the possible dangers of meeting new people on the scene and then we discuss the awesome time we both had at the Festival of fun (Which is held at the beautiful Vanilla Alternative located in Bedford) We've been almost taken back to see so many people wanting to dip their toes in regards to the scene and we're both so proud of you all for wanting to do that. Some of you have even taken those first step and have started up your own profiles on Fabswingers, which is fantastic, but we feel we should give you our thoughts about online safely and hopefully some of our tips will help you all on your journey. All exists is now and why not enjoy it as much as you possibly can. We also decided to discuss with all of you sexy listeners-of one of our past experiences at one of our swinging festivals. They are kind of new to us too, as we only went to our first two last year and although Swingfields got cancelled this year, Festival of Fun still was able to go ahead. With an amazing manager behind the Club, it went ahead and we hope our account of those two wonderful days will bring you some joy in these dark times.

Podcast 002a - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

Podcast 002a - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

This is our 2nd bonus episode for all of you lovely people out there who are tuning in to our swinging lifestyle podcast. We have taken quite some time editing this one and both want to give you a massive heart felt apology over just how long it took to get into publication. Our personal and vanilla lives have been crazy and since being able to get out and travel after the lockdown eased, we defiantly made up for lost time. Cornwall, Bournemouth, Lakes district and Brighton for Charlottes birthday, It was Pride weekend, so was recorded 3 months ago and we decided to get a cabin at one of our favourite clubs-Eurekas in kent, south of England. Now this little snippet into one of our crazy filled weekends down the club is just a shared experinace...its not an actual club review, that is going to be coming soon. Thanks so much for your patience and we are loving the amount of love we are receiving from all of our social media platforms, can't wait to do another proper episode.

Podcast 002 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

Podcast 002 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

This episode is our funny and insightful guide to how to use a swinging website and some of the things you will experience during your first time. Hopefully out views and tips on how to navigate your way round fabswingers will encourage you to take the plunge and get on it.

Podcast 001a - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

Podcast 001a - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

Just a small clip saying thanks to all the interest and constructive criticism. We are going to be having these bite-size episodes pop up occasionally along side our normal ones.Thanks.

Podcast 001 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

Podcast 001 - Biproperswingers UK Swinging Lifestyle

Giving people out there a rough idea of how the UK swinging scene has affected our lives, and how we operate within the scene and just a very erratically erotic first episode with us Paul and Charlotte. From explaining our bi sexuality, to certain different abbreviations (But obviously not all of them, as there are just so many!) and our experience within the scene, and how the inner workings of our special and sexy community can change anyone's life.