The D Spot

The D Spot

Relationships, sex, polyamory, lgbtq+, and more are what we are talking about on The D Spot with Dana McNeil and her array of guests. From fellow therapists to individuals and couples living outside of societal norms, we are breaking the stigma and normalizing acceptance in a therapeutic setting. Therapy is cool! read less
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Shame, Codependency & Narcissism With Darlene Lancer
Jan 17 2024
Shame, Codependency & Narcissism With Darlene Lancer
Join us today as we sit down with Darlene Lancer, walking through the concepts of her significant work Codependency For Dummies. Drawing lines between past and present, Darlene uncovers how childhood behaviors can seep into adult life and generate feelings of shame and codependency. As the discussion deepens, she identifies harmful coping mechanisms we unknowingly incorporate in our relationships. Delving into 'The Tyranny of The Shoulds', Darlene examines what it means to disconnect from your true self, focusing on external validations. And if you ever wondered what happens once a narcissist feels secure, then this video is for you! Walk through the challenging path of recovering from codependency and get a new perspective on loneliness with Darlene. Find out where you can connect with her in her last words in the video. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Darlene Lancer Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/darlenelancerlmft/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/codependencyrecovery/ Website → https://whatiscodependency.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:13 Meet Darlene Lancer 01:03 Codependency For Dummies 04:11 Where Does Shame & Codependency Begin? 10:10 The Transference of Childhood Behaviors to Adult Life 12:43 Coping To Survive 13:53 Discovering Potentially Bad Coping Mechanisms Within New Relationships 15:53 The Tyranny of The Shoulds 17:04 When You're Disconnected From Your True Self, You Are Going To Look Outside Yourself 19:22 It Starts Out With Both Wanting To Be Loved By Each Other 20:58 Once A Narcissist Feels Secure 23:21 Recovering From Codependency 28:11 Darlene, You're Lonely, And That's Ok. 31:03 Final Thoughts & Where You Can Find Darlene ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
New Beginnings: Flipping The Script On Survival Mode With Sarah Barr
Jan 10 2024
New Beginnings: Flipping The Script On Survival Mode With Sarah Barr
Join us as we meet Sarah Barr, a dedicated mental health professional hailing from Ireland. In this episode, we dive into her journey in breaking stigmas associated with mental health in Ireland. Learn how the choice of viewing our thoughts is ours alone. Delve deeper as Sarah talks about our inherent negative bias and ways to challenge it, especially in relationships. We are talking about positive coping skills and how to flip the script in survival mode. Don't miss it. Listen now. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Sarah Barr Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/newbeginnings_counselling/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/NewBeginningsCounsellingService Website → https://newbeginningscounselling.net/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:14 Meet Sarah Barr, She's From Ireland! 02:00 Becoming A Mental Health Professional in Ireland 04:57 Breaking New Ground & Stigmas in Ireland 06:11 I Am Not What Happened To Me 08:01 How We Choose To View Our Thoughts...Is Our Choice 12:40 Pre-Programmed To Have A Negative Thought 17:19 Challenging Your Negative Thoughts In Relationships 20:39 A Toolkit Full of Positive Coping Skills 22:24 A Little Tip that You Can Try Out Today 24:00 Survival Mode 24:40 What Sarah Barr Has Cooking ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
Polyamory & The jealousy Roadmap
Jan 3 2024
Polyamory & The jealousy Roadmap
Polyamory is still often misunderstood, so listen to Dr. Dana McNeil and Dr. Joli Hamilton as they discuss what it means and how to practice healthy boundaries in open relationships. Tune in now for some insightful tips! *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Joli Hamilton LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/joli-hamilton-phd/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/ Website → https://www.jolihamilton.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:29 What is Polyamory? 02:16 How Close is Too Close? 04:34 Turning Expectations Into Explicit Agreements 07:42 What Kind Of Relationship Are You Trying To Build? 10:57 Maybe It's Just Not The RIght Time. 18:04 Turning Jealousy Into Healthy Boundaries 26:42 The DIfference Between Boundaries, Rules & Agreements 35:08 Where To Find Joli ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
Developing Self-Regulation Skills through Mindful Thinking with Adole Muruako
Dec 27 2023
Developing Self-Regulation Skills through Mindful Thinking with Adole Muruako
Mindful thinking plays an important role in maintaining a peaceful mind, body, and soul. Listen to the discussion between Doctors Dana McNeil and Adole Muruako as they explain the importance of self-regulation skills, including how tapping into your body helps develop this skill set further and how reframing discomforts through mindful thoughts, individuals can overcome their fears of uncertainty with courage while relying on their innate wisdom to manage their emotions better. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Adole Muruako, PhD, MEd, LPC, BC-TMH LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/adolemuruako/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mpoweredwellness/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:19 Meet Adole Muruako PhD, MEd, LPC, BC-TMH 00:55 Tapping Into Your Body. What Is Self-Regulation? 03:11 Why Should I Be Mindful Of My Thoughts? 06:03 Reframing Discomfort 09:35 Tuning Into Your Body 11:27 What Are We Scared Of? 15:55 Letting Your Natural Wisdom Take Over 20:00 Practice Makes Perfect 22:31 The Inability Self-Regulate is Causing Fires In Relationships 26:18 How Do You Tell Someone You Think They Need To Work On Self-Regulation? 29:26 Tips, Tricks & Final Thoughts 31:07 Where to Find Adole Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
One Special World with Danielle Nicole Preiser
Dec 13 2023
One Special World with Danielle Nicole Preiser
Join Dr. Dana McNeil and Danielle Nicole Preiser, founder of One Special World, as they share their insights on advocating for people with special needs. In this video, you'll learn about the challenges faced by parents of special needs children and the strain it puts on their relationships. They'll also discuss the importance of self-care while being a caretaker. Don't miss out on this informative and insightful conversation! *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Danielle Nicole Presier Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/daniellenicolepreiser Website → https://daniellenicolepreiser.cohere.live/about One Special World → https://www.instagram.com/onespecialworld ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:48 Meet Danielle | Founder of One Special World 02:17 Strain, Stress & Challenges When You Have Children With Special Needs 05:34 Knowing From A Young Age I Was Going To Take Care Of My Brother 10:27 Using Acts of Kindness As A Coping Mechanism 15:06 Destigmatizing Special Needs 16:47 Pushing Away The Unknown Out Of Fear 19:47 How To Become A Better Advocate 22:50 Maintaining Self-Care While Being A Caregiver 29:28 You Can't Control The Haters 33:07 Learn More About Danielle & What She Does ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
Changing Your Mindset to Embrace Your Worthiness with Nicole Schiener
Dec 6 2023
Changing Your Mindset to Embrace Your Worthiness with Nicole Schiener
In this episode of The D Spot, we'll discuss how to reframe our state of mind to view things as happening for us rather than happening to us. We'll also explore the reasons why we expect our partners to be mind readers and offer tips for finding your worthiness. Additionally, we'll talk about emotional load, what it is, and how you can recognize your own red flags. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Guest Name Here LinkedIn → https://tinyurl.com/Nicole-Schiener Instagram → https://instagram.com/peaceandpossibility?igshid=MTNiYzNiMzkwZA== Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/peaceandpossiblity?mibextid=ZbWKwL Gottman Author Page → https://www.gottman.com/author/nicole-schiener/ Website → https://peaceandpossibility.ca/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 02:27 Flowing Into Possibilities 05:24 Reframing Your State of Mind to Happening For Us Versus Happening To Us 10:45 Why Do We Expect Our Partner's To Be Mind Readers? 14:10 Finding Your Worthiness 16:55 Emotional Load: What is it? 20:52 How Can I Recognize My Own Red Flag? 27:22 Embodied Anger 33:15 Final Thoughts ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
The Need For Family Therapy, and Why It's Important with Robert Taibbi, LCSW
Nov 29 2023
The Need For Family Therapy, and Why It's Important with Robert Taibbi, LCSW
Attention Couples in Crisis! This week on The D Spot, we sit down with Robert Taibbi, a seasoned expert in family therapy. Learn why family therapy is essential and the benefits of seeking professional help. Find out how to work together with your partner when you're not seeing eye-to-eye and delve into how your own childhood shapes your parenting style. We'll also cover the risks of treating your child like a friend and give advice on getting families back on track. Finally, discover how to establish structure in a blended family and get valuable tips for finding a therapist who's right for you. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Robert Taibbi, LCSW Website → https://www.bobtaibbi.com/ Email → bobtaibbi@ntelos.net ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:11 Meet Robert Taibbi, An Expert in Family Therapy 00:47 The Need For Family Therapy, and Why It's Important 06:13 We Are Not on the Same Page and We Need to Unite 11:29 How Your Parent's Influenced Your Parenting Style 16:12 The Consequences of Treating Your Child As Your Friend 19:50 Working With Families To Get Them Back on Track 24:05 Finding Structure in a Blended Family 30:10 How to Find a Therapist That Fits Your Needs 34:57 Final Thoughts ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
How Ignoring Self-Care Can Lead to Burnout with Dr. Nashira Kayode
Nov 22 2023
How Ignoring Self-Care Can Lead to Burnout with Dr. Nashira Kayode
Are you feeling burned out? Meet Dr. Nashira Kayode, an expert on burnout, she and Dr. Dana McNeil will discuss what causes it and the signs and symptoms to look for. Learn how to tell your partner if you think they are suffering from burnout. Do people become successful because they power through burnout, and does comparing your life to others' lead you to burnout faster? Watch and find out. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.*→ Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information!↓ C O N N E C T ↓Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcastConnect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneilConnect with this week's guest | Dr. Nashira KayodeLinkedIn → http://www.linkedin.com/in/nashira-funn-kayodeInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/dr.shikayFacebook → https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090174050862Amazon Books → https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BNJ6LN4C/aboutWebsite → https://www.drshikay.com/home↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓00:22 Meet Dr. Nishira Kayode: An Expert in Burnout00:50 What Causes Burnout?02:28 What Are the Signs and Symptoms of Burnout?07:01 How Do I Tell My Partner That I Think They Are Suffering From Burnout?09:48 "Powering Through" Burnout As A Successful Person13:01 Fake It Until You Make It14:33 Feeling Pressured By Everyone Else's Life Instead of Focusing on Your Own16:15 "I Deserve A Soft Life, And I Have Everything I Need To Succeed"18:52 Dr. Nashira Kayode's Book And Where To Find Her↓ M U S I C ↓Track: "anjoo", dubuMusic provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
This feels Taboo, But Can Those Who Have Passed On, Affect My Relationships Today? Joy Giovanni
Nov 15 2023
This feels Taboo, But Can Those Who Have Passed On, Affect My Relationships Today? Joy Giovanni
Get ready to meet Joy Giovanni, a medium, mystic, and mentor. In this video, Joy will explore the common denominator between healing and those who've passed. She and Dr. Dana will delve into the taboo topic of whether those who have passed can influence our current relationships. Joy will also discuss how to deal with negative energy tossed your way and share tips on how to prepare for a reading. Finally, she'll explain the importance of trusting your intuition. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Joy Giovanni Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/joyfulmedium/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/joyfulmedium Twitter → https://twitter.com/joygiovanni YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/joygiovannipsychicmedium Website → https://www.joyfulmedium.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:35 Medium, Mystic & Mentor. Meet Joy Giovanni 02:42 What Drives The Common Denominator Between Healing and Those Who've Passed 10:06 This Feels Taboo 14:03 Can Those Who've Passed, Influence Our Current Relationship? 19:09 How Do You Deal With All The Negative Energy Tossed Your Way 23:25 How Does Someone Prepare For A Reading 29:16 Trusting Your Intuition ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
From Infertility to Baby-Making Guru with Dr. Jennifer Hintzsche
Nov 8 2023
From Infertility to Baby-Making Guru with Dr. Jennifer Hintzsche
You are not alone! Join Dr. Dana McNeil as she chats with scientist and baby-making expert Dr. Jennifer Hintzsche, about the painful journey of infertility. Through laughter, tears, struggles and triumphs, learn about her incredible transformation - from losing hope to finding new purpose by supporting and uplifting women everywhere who struggle to conceive with a new product that's already helping women reach their lifelong goal of motherhood. A heartwarming story that is sure to inspire, starts now with the push of a button. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Jennifer Hintzsche LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/jhintzsche/ Instagram → https://tinyurl.com/Pherdal-Instagram Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/DrJenniferHintzsche/ Twitter → https://twitter.com/DrJenn_PherDal TikTok → https://tinyurl.com/Pherdal-TikTok Website → https://www.pherdal.com/ Email → Support@PherDal.com Pinterest → https://www.pinterest.com/PHERDAL/ Youtube → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEIWyGn9JrM_Cfj8HNg6Whg ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 01:57 Unexplained Infertility | Meet Dr. Jennifer Hintzsche 06:57 There Wasn't A Kit For Me, So I Made My Own 13:24 Infertility And The Emotions That Come With It 17:58 Infertility Almost Killed My Marriage 22:46 Realizing That I Could Help Others Just Like Me 26:30 Seeking FDA Approval For The Insemination Kit 33:20 Thank You, Dr. Jenn, For All That You Do ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
Self Love & Compassion with Dr. Madeline Ofina
Nov 1 2023
Self Love & Compassion with Dr. Madeline Ofina
If you're struggling to maintain a healthy sense of self-love and compassion, you're not alone. Tune in to this episode of the D Spot Podcast with Drs. Dana McNeil and Madeline Ofina to explore how discomfort is often a sign that something isn't right, and how temporary fixes may be preventing true healing from taking place. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Madeline Ofina LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/madelineofina/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/dr.ofina/ Molina Wellness → https://www.instagram.com/mofina.wellness/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:30 Self Love & Compassion 04:46 How do you know if you're losing self love and compassion 07:30 Preverbal Check Engine Light 10:10 Discomfort is Discomfort 14:00 A Temporary Fix 18:04 Pandora's Box 22:16 What's the next step 27:39 Madeline's Educational Work ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
The Healing Power Of Massage with Olive Panes-Gindelberger
Oct 18 2023
The Healing Power Of Massage with Olive Panes-Gindelberger
Join Dr. Dana McNeil and Olive Panes-Gindelberger this week as they explore the advantages of a couples' massage. Discover how this experience can provide emotional, mental, and physical benefits for both you and your partner. Learn about the different protocols that are followed during a couples' massage, so you can relax and enjoy the experience without worry. If you're seeking relaxation or connection with your partner, don't miss this episode!*Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.*→ Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information!↓ C O N N E C T ↓Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcastConnect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneilConnect with this week's guest | Olive Panes-GindelbergerInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/solimar_wellbeing/Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/SolimarWellbeingWebsite → https://www.solimarwellbeing.com/↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓00:21 Meet Olive02:10 How Did Olive Become A Licensed Massage Therapist?06:18 What's the Difference Between People Who Love and Hate Massages09:48 Massage Protocols & Feeling Safe on the Table11:02 Not Being Afraid To Speak Up16:05 What Does Body Work For A Couple Look Like18:36 Love Needs To Start From Within↓ M U S I C ↓Track: "anjoo", dubuMusic provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
Unboxing Men's Mental Health
Oct 4 2023
Unboxing Men's Mental Health
Dr. Dana McNeil welcomes Jeffrey Young, the latest addition to The Relationship Place's clinical team, to discuss an important topic: Men's Mental Health. During their conversation, Jeff shares insights from his experience at Men's Center Los Angeles, what it means to have permission to be a man, the benefits of "Men Only" retreats, and more. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Jeffrey Young Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/youngtherapy/ Website → https://www.jeffreyyoungtherapy.com/ Book an appointment with Jeff at The Relationship Place → https://www.sdrelationshipplace.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:10 Meet Jeffrey Young 04:35 Jeff's Experience with Men's Center Los Angeles 09:04 Permission to be A Man 11:42 The Benefits of "MEN ONLY" 13:36 Beyond the Physical & Materialistic Values Men Possess 17:11 Unboxing Men's Mental Health Within Relationships 22:22 How Does a Couple Prepare Themselves For Differences During a Therapy Session? 25:27 Are the Expectations Sessions Can Bring, Intimidating? 28:44 How Can You Show Your Partner Support When They Come Into Therapy Feeling Like a Failure? ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "anjoo", dubu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/IC21YT
What is Ghosting? A Panel Discussion About Relationships, Dating & Therapy
Aug 30 2023
What is Ghosting? A Panel Discussion About Relationships, Dating & Therapy
Are you lost in the modern dating world? Join us for an eye-opening panel discussion with Dr. Dana McNeil and The Relationship Place Therapists! Get ready to tackle the hard-hitting questions like, Is talking on the phone old-school? and What is the appropriate response after you've had sex for the first time? Trust us, you won't want to miss this one. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with The Relationship Place LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/company/sdrelationshipplace/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/sdrelationshipplace/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/sdrelationshipplace Twitter → https://twitter.com/sdlovetherapy Website → https://sdrelationshipplace.com ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:24 Meet The Relationship Place Panel 01:20 How Has Covid Changed Relationships? 05:54 What is Ghosting? 09:48 Is Texting For A Long Time Before You Meet a Red Flag? 10:59 Is Talking on the Phone An Old-School Thing? 12:19 What Are We Prolonging By Continuing to Text With Each Other? 13:16 Are You Giving It Up Too Soon? 16:15 What is The Appropriate Response After You've Had Sex For The First Time? 18:40 Opening Communication in A New Relationship 21:57 How Do I Tell My New Partner About My Mental Health Issues? 26:39 Are we Exclusive? 31:30 Do I Save My Kinks For Later? 35:22 How Do You Know You're In Love? 38:52 Final Thoughts And Tips For Couples ↓ M U S I C ↓ Music provided by https://Slip.stream Track: "Attention", Overu Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb
The Healing Power of Music with Bill Protzmann
Aug 23 2023
The Healing Power of Music with Bill Protzmann
Get ready to explore the amazing world of music and its therapeutic powers! Join us on this incredible journey where we meet Bill Protzmann of Musimorphic. From reinvigorating what we used to do with music, to discovering music as a form of self-care, we dive into the power of music and how it can be used to create emotional connections and enhance relationships. Co-create an effect on a relationship with music, play together in a musical way, or even sing your session with music psychotherapy! We also touch on why music resonates with some people and not others, and how you can find Bill & Musimorphic for yourself. So sit back, relax, and let's explore the transformative power of music together! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring content like this. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Bill Protzmann LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/company/musimorphic/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/musimorphic/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/musiccarequest/ Website → https://musimorphic.com/about/ Email → bill@musimorphic.com ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:27 Meet Bill Protzmann of Musimorphic 01:11 Reinvigorating What We Used To Do With Music 02:31 Music is A Form Of Self-Care 07:48 Using Music With A Partner to Open an Emotional Connection 12:02 Co-Creating an Effect on a Relationship with Music 17:22 Playing Together in A Musical Way 19:05 Singing Your Session With Music Psycho Therapy 23:20 Why Does Music Resonate with Some People and Not Others? 26:56 How To Find Bill & Musimorphic ↓ M U S I C ↓ Music provided by https://Slip.stream Track: "Attention", Overu Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb
If Smiling Were Easy: Living With Mental Illness with Caroline Wynn
Aug 16 2023
If Smiling Were Easy: Living With Mental Illness with Caroline Wynn
If you or a loved one is struggling with mental health issues, this video is a must-watch. From signs of clinical depression to developing the ability to not hold feelings as facts, this video covers a range of topics related to mental health. Dr. Dana discusses with Caroline, her personal experiences with bipolar disorder and therapy while offering practical advice for how to ask loved ones about their own struggles with mental illness and be a supportive partner during tough times. With informative interviews and expert insights, this video is packed with valuable information and is perfect for anyone looking to learn more about mental health and relationships. So don't miss out! Watch now and take the first step towards better understanding and supporting those who need it most. TRIGGER WARNING: The following content contains discussions about mental health conditions, including depression, bipolar disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and suicide. These topics may be distressing or triggering for some individuals. Viewer/Listener discretion is advised. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing a crisis, please call your local emergency number or a crisis hotline. In the United States, you can reach the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Dial 988, available 24/7. For international helplines, visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Caroline Wynn Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/loveiammi/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100076313891869 TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@iammilove Website → https://iammi.info/home ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:27 Meet Caroline Wynn 02:28 How Do Signs of Clinical Depression Show Up In Your Life? 04:20 Self-Talk 05:32 What Are Caroline's Symptoms of Bipolar 08:46 Why Should You Go To Therapy When You're Medicated? 11:26 A Therapist is Not Your Friend or Family 14:51 Nobody Chooses to Feel Sad 17:00 Developing The Ability to Not Hold Feelings Asa Facts 18:39 You Have To Be Your Own Advocate, No One Is Going To Move the World For you 19:30 How Does Mental Health Impact Relationships 24:42 TMS Therapy 27:55 How Do You Ask A Loved One About Their Mental Illness? 32:15 How to Be A Supportive Partner and Fight Together Against Mental Illness 36:12 Where to Listen to Caroline's Podcast ↓ M U S I C ↓ Music provided by https://Slip.stream Track: "Attention", Overu Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb
Healing and Empowering Your Relationship with Money and Each Other
Aug 9 2023
Healing and Empowering Your Relationship with Money and Each Other
Are you ready to take control of your finances and attract abundance into your life? Then this video is for you! We dive deep into the world of money, exploring everything from manifesting wealth to overcoming financial blocks. Whether you're single or in a relationship, there's something here for everyone. Learn about the four stages of business development applied to relationships and how to navigate conversations around money with your partner. Did you know that neuroscience is behind money manifestation and that being in love can elevate your vibrational frequency? We even include a meditation for financial health, so you can start attracting abundance into your life right now. So grab a pen and paper, get comfy, and let's talk about money! Don't forget to hit that like button and subscribe for more content like this. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Amanda, Founder of NFA Money YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/nfamoney LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/nfamoney/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/nfamoney Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/nfamoney BUY HER BOOK → https://www.iamamoneymagnetbook.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:27 When Was The Last Time You Thought About Money? 02:09 The Zone Of Manifestation 03:34 The Four Stages of Business Development Applied to Relationships 05:41 Conversations Around Money & Money Magnetism 06:27 Money Blocks 08:56 Couples With Differing Money Relationships 11:59 Make Money in the world doing what you love 13:21 "I am A Money Magnet!" 14:31 The Neuroscience 17:14 Is Wealth Building Your Goal As A Couple? 19:28 Being in Love = Higher Vibrational Frequency 20:51 How Do I Tell My Partner I want to Better Our Financial Health 22:31 Meditation For Financial Health 26:05 Where Can We Find Dr. Amanda ↓ M U S I C ↓ Music provided by https://Slip.stream Track: "Attention", Overu Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb
Eating Disorders: Vicious Cycles, Causes & Effects with Dr. Marianne Miller
Jul 26 2023
Eating Disorders: Vicious Cycles, Causes & Effects with Dr. Marianne Miller
Are you curious about the behaviors and effects of eating disorders? Join Dr. Dana McNeil & Dr. Marianne Miller in this eye-opening video, we explore the different aspects of eating disorders, from their commonality to their impact on oral health. We also delve into the lesser-known condition called ARFID and the relationship between dating and eating disorders. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of this important topic with compassion and curiosity. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion - like, share, and subscribe for more educational content. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Marianne Miller Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/drmariannemiller/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/drmariannemiller/ Website → https://www.drmariannemiller.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:19 Meet Dr. Marianne Miller 00:55 What Constitutes Behavior of an Eating Disorder? 02:01 A Lot of People With Eating Disorders Tend To Be Higher Achieving 03:46 Anorexia & the 80's 05:59 Binging & Purging: The Vicious Cycle 07:18 The Effects of Eating Disorders on Your Teeth 08:49 How Common Are Eating Disorders? 10:39 ARFID: Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder 14:09 Important Work on A New Frontier 15:04 Dating & Eating Disorders 18:52 "We Are Weird About Food" 23:02 Varied Experiences Within Different Cultures 25:33 How Do You Approach Someone You Are Dating About A Suspected Eating Disorder? 30:11 Having Compassion & Being Curious Vs. Furious 31:59 "When Is It Ok To Comment On Somebody's Body?" 37:54 "Take Care of What is Around You, Take Care Of What is Within You" - Dr. Marianne Miller ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "Attention", Overu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb
Infidelity: A Journey of Heartbreak, Betrayal, and Self-Growth
Jul 19 2023
Infidelity: A Journey of Heartbreak, Betrayal, and Self-Growth
Infidelity is a painful experience that involves heartbreak, betrayal, and ultimately, personal growth. It is a journey that tests the limits of one's emotions and challenges their ability to heal and move forward. Join this discussion between Dr. Dana McNeil and Dr. Talal In this thought-provoking video, we delve into the complex world of relationships and explore some common issues that can arise. From losing our sense of self to the importance of effective communication, we discuss how these factors can impact the success of a partnership. With examples and insights, we examine behaviors that may signal trouble in a relationship, as well as the significance of empathy and entitlement. Whether you're looking for advice or simply curious about the dynamics of relationships, this video provides valuable insights that may help navigate the complexities of love and partnership. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more enlightening content on building healthy and fulfilling relationships. *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Talal Alsaleem LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/infidelityrecoveryexpert/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/dr.talal.h.alsaleem/ Facebook → http://fb.me/DrTalalHAlsaleem Twitter → https://twitter.com/DrTalalAlsaleem YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRfi3YNU1cucDxR8abO6cZg Website → https://www.talalalsaleem.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:24 Meet Dr. Talal? 01:11 How did Dr. Talal Come to the Decision of Specializing in Infidelity? 01:56 Most Couples Are Usually Coming In For A Crisis, Not A Tune Up 03:03 The Journey: How Do Affairs Happen? 03:35 Factors That Can Lead to Infidelity: Sometimes It's Not You...It's Them 05:14 Losing Our Sense of Self Or Has Your Partner Forgotten to Remind You How Wonderful You Are? 05:47 If You Are In A Relationship, Your Partner Should Be Your De-Facto Therapist 06:39 Relationship Proxy 07:20 Why Don't People Stop Having Affairs? 08:37 Maybe I'm Doing This So I Can Stay In The Relationship 09:49 Having the Tools to Communicate Properly Might Have Saved The Marriage 11:56 The Difference Between The Betrayed and the Unfaithful 12:44 "Affairs Beyond the Hope of Repair" 15:11 Examples of Behaviors in Relationships Who Probably Won't Make It 16:55 Lack Of Empathy 19:14 The Partners Feeling Entitled After Being Betrayed 22:10 Mourning the Loss Of the Affair... An Outlet 26:38 Telling Your Partner What You Need From Them 29:02 How Do You Regain Trust After Infidelity 30:31 Final Tips & Thoughts 32:16 You Can Rebuild Something That Was Better Than It Was 32:57 Where Can You Find Dr. Talal ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "Attention", Overu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb
Let's Expand How We View Sexuality with Dr. Julie Hanks
Jul 12 2023
Let's Expand How We View Sexuality with Dr. Julie Hanks
In this video, we sit down with the incredible Dr. Julie Hanks as she shares her expert insights on female sensuality, self-identity, and balancing our masculine and feminine energy. From identifying our needs and desires to giving ourselves permission to fully embrace our sexuality, Dr. Hanks offers practical advice for women who want to feel empowered and confident in their relationships. As a songwriter, therapist, wife, and mother, Dr. Hanks truly does it all! Join us as we explore how to share the load in partnerships and families and delve deeper into conscious decision-making when dividing responsibilities. Plus, learn where to find more of Dr. Julie Hanks' amazing work. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring conversations like this! *Disclaimer→ Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We want to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.* → Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email dspotpodcast@gmail.com for more information! ↓ C O N N E C T ↓ Connect with The D Spot → https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT → https://linktr.ee/danamcneil Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Julie Hanks LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjuliehanks/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/drjuliehanks/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/DrJulieHanks Twitter → https://twitter.com/drjuliehanks Website → https://www.drjuliehanks.com/ ↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓ 00:34 Dr. Julie Hanks is Helping Women Claim Their Sensuality 03:00 How Do You Identify Your Own Needs & Desires? 05:08 Giving Yourself Permission. 06:06 Playing with Both Your Masculine & Feminine Energy 07:30 "When Did You Know You Were Straight?" 09:55 Let's Expand On How We View Sexuality 12:13 Dr. Julie Hanks, Songwriter, Therapist, Wife, Mother...She Does It All! 14:28 How To Share the Load in Partnerships & Families 16:09 Acknowledgments & Expectations 17:03 Is It A Conscious Decision to Divide Things A Specific Way and Is It Fair? 18:29 Where to Find Dr. Julie Hanks ↓ M U S I C ↓ Track: "Attention", Overu Music provided by https://Slip.stream Free Download/Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/187d6b2c-b91e-44f6-97d7-d9b4156764bb