In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss their up coming Discord community, Pride South Side, TikTok Live, Memorial Day, Flag Football, Date Night Diaries and how each of them knew it was time to move on from past relationships.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about (HBO) Max’s Seeking Sister Wives and Seeking Brother Husband. Mother’s Day. Last episode update. Date night. Relationship regrets and navigating those regrets differently in their relationship.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss the WNBA Draft and the NFL Draft, Pride South Side (Chicago) and how social media can have an effect on communication in relationships.

In tihs episode, Beautifulll and Ace talk about, the death of OJ Simpson, NCAA Womens Basketball Championship and friendships while being in relationships and nurturing the friendships you have outside of your relationship.

In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace explore un-traditional relationship structures. They also talk about their experiences with these un-traditional structures, how they navigated their experiences, is it a possibility in their own relationship and how it affected their previous relationships.   If you want to check out the Bonus Episode of Together Real Bad, entitled Sweet N Low Daddy, you can purchase it by clicking here. In the bonus episode Sweet N Low Daddy, Beautifulll & Ace talk about being "flewed" out by Beautifulll's sugar daddy. What her experience was, how Ace feels about, will it happen again and what the expectation are on actually having a sugar daddy.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss A2 flag football championship, a Goldman Sachs trip to NYC, Love is Blind and how being humble in their relationship has helped to create a safer space in comparison to their past relationships. They will also discuss how they may struggle to be humble in their current relationship. Lastly, don’t know how to be humble? They have a few suggestions for you!

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace have special guests Ashley and Alona! Ashley and Alona are avid listeners and join us to talk about their experience with individual therapy and couples therapy and how effects their relationship.   Below are the tools Alona & Ashley talked about as part of their therapy exercises! Use them!!   1. Check-ins:  Set a time/day weekly that typically works best for you to have them. If that doesn't work, schedule out a time/day after each check-in to make sure it's in your calendar.  Please feel free to use whatever language you feel comfortable with but be mindful to stay within the realms of this template.    Check-In Template 1. Individual Check-In:  - On a scale of 1-10, how has your week been? - What made it a ___ ? [Ex. What made it a 6?] - How can you go from a ___, to a ___?  [Ex. How can it go from a 6 to a 7?]   2. Couple Check-In:  - On a scale of 1-10, how are you feeling in our relationship this week?  - What made it a ____?  - How can it go from a ___, to a ____?  *Key- SMALL goals and take it one goal at a time. We're not aiming to jump 2 numbers, we're just aiming to go from one number to the next.    Also- don't be afraid to take notes. When your partner is telling you how they go from one number to the next, they are giving you the answer key. Write some thoughts down on your phone so you can be intentional about being a part of getting them to the next level.    2. I-Feel Statements:  I feel _______ when ________. I'd prefer _________ Again, these statements help to ward off blaming your partner and helps you to stay focused on you and your feelings. I've also attached an emotions wheel for you to utilize.    3. Speaker/Listener You express something to your partner using 4 sentences or less. Your partner repeats what they've heard and then you respond in 4 sentences or less.  This helps you to think about what you're going to say before you say it. It also keeps you on task and makes sure you are interpreting what your partner is saying correctly.

In the episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss the Super Bowl, our fitness journey so far, the Netflix Series Down For Love, Club Shay Shay’s interview with Monique and answering the remainder of the 21 questions. Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples!  Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS  Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss Megan The Stallion, Love On The Spectrum, Chicago Restaurant Week, The Super Bowl and 21 Questions. Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf Lighting Its super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC  Channels Earns Small Commission from Affiliate Links

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss football, the judge who got jumped, 2024 goal updates, weekend travels and Five levels of intimacy. Ace also discloses something that cause a bit of friction on air.   Arcane Wonders Onitama Board Game https://amzn.to/3SdUk5Q  The game Ace and Beautifulll played for at least 10 hours during their recent travels . Really good for road trips! Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS   Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf LightingIts super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC Affiliate Links Earn A Small Commission

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about how they spent their Christmas and New Year, Katt Williams’ epic interview with Shannon Sharp and New Year goals. They will be setting these goals on air during the podcast! So, consider this sort of an intimate look into something that is typical more private. Beautifulll and Ace hope to inspire others to hold them selves accountable, not for doing a 180 an accomplishing all of these goals, but for having the courage to try, and try and try again. Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf LightingIts super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC Channels Earns   A Small Commission for Affiliate Links

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace have a special guest, Pam B. their neighbor! Pam is an LGBT ally and has raise a young African American man as an ally too. She is also married to a straight man who is also an ally. We talk to Pam about her experience as an ally and how she was able to raise a young black male in today's current climate.   Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster Pro We use this to capture and record  our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf Lighting Its super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

In this episode Beautifull and Ace discuss playing Madden 2024 for the first time, Roller Skating together for the first time and the five A’s that they practice for a healthy loving relationship.   The book we mention by David Richo can be found here: https://amzn.to/46LmXfK   Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c   Rodecaster Pro We use this to capture and record  our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA   Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf   Lighting Its super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC     Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the Cassie, Diddy and Kim situation. They also take a deep dive into depression and its impact on self, family and friends.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about their Vegas vacation, fighting fair in their relationship and resisting the urge to sacrifice their relationship safe space.

In this episode Beautfiulll and Ace discuss flag football, Ace’s high school alumni powder puff team, ABC dates and what it was like during the first year of our relationship! Please like, follow and share!  Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Love is Blind, Ace’s induction into her high school hall of fame and living together while coping with Beautifulll’s A.D.D.   Please like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the BIG MOVE, celebrity breakups, Flag football Chicago Blitz training camp,  and rur first JuJitsu class Please like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad WE LOVE THESE PRODUCTS: Fur - Their products are awesome! Check them out, especially for ingrown hairs! https://furyou.com/discount/TOGETHERREALBADPOD15     Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

In this episode, we will discuss the latest in pop culture, our respective flag football teams, and how religion or lack there of plays a role in our lives. We will also touch on our personal experiences with attending church and our thoughts on mega-churches, all inclusive churches and ordered churches.   Please like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

Beautifulll & Ace discuss Football, Bob Barker's Passing, Hamilton is coming to Chicago, and our experiences with cheating and being cheated on in our past relationships and what the outcomes were.   Please  review, like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS