Unlock the complex history of how queerness was pathologized in our latest episode, where we promise to guide you through the transformation from criminalization to medicalization of LGBTQ identities. Explore with us the pivotal role activists like Carl Ehrlich and Carl Westphal played in shaping this narrative. We'll reflect on the challenging journey the queer community faced as we delve into the original intentions behind medicalizing homosexuality, the subsequent stigmatization, and the powerful acts of defiance that led to a reevaluation of queer identities within the mental health system.Sigmund Freud's theories, once considered radical, now open a window into the shift in perception of homosexuality that laid the groundwork for acceptance and change. We analyze the nuanced implications of his views alongside Alfred Kinsey's groundbreaking research, which brought once-taboo conversations into the mainstream and sparked a sexual revolution. The episode is punctuated with personal accounts revealing the deep-seated impact of societal norms on gender and sexuality, providing insight into the emotional and mental toll these norms have historically taken on individuals from a young age.Our conversation culminates in a stirring homage to Dr. John Fryer's courageous 1972 speech, which played a crucial part in the removal of homosexuality from the DSM's list of mental illnesses. We honor the stories of those who fought against the tide of discrimination, from the Lavender Scare to "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," and recognize the ongoing battle for equality within the LGBTQ+ community. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the continuous advocacy needed to ensure the medical field evolves in understanding and representing LGBTQ identities authentically and respectfully.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Have you ever felt like a puzzle, piecing together your own truth, only to discover that the image wasn't quite what you expected? Join me, Kit, as I recount the intimate and transformative journey of self-diagnosing as autistic, a path paved with struggles, breakthroughs, and an unexpected neighbor's song that turned my world upside down. My odyssey was not just a pursuit of self-knowledge, but a battle against the internalized ableism that often silenced my doubts and questions. This exploration is an honest reflection on my past diagnoses and a heartfelt dialogue with my mother, unveiling the stigmas that once shrouded our understanding of autism.But this episode isn't solely about introspection; it's also a celebration of the quirks and joys that make life so incredibly rich. I'll guide you through the process of embracing personal comfort, even when it means defying societal judgments, especially when it comes to the autistic experience of stimming. Alongside these personal revelations, you'll find amusing tidbits about bees' pollen pockets and Disney's Tiki Room, proving that our passions, no matter how eclectic, are worth indulging. Plus, learn how the iconic Chucky doll became a puppeteering marvel, and let's discuss the importance of community support as we approach Pride month, highlighting the vibrant solidarity within the LGBTQ+ community.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Embark on a sonic journey that will challenge your perceptions and ignite your passion for change. Macklemore's latest anthem, "Hins Hall," sets the stage for a profound exploration of music's impact on political discourse and social justice. In recalling the artist's previous work, we uncover the layers of activism embedded in his lyrics, from championing LGBTQ+ rights to advocating for sustainable living. The conversation then transitions to the literary realm, drawing striking comparisons between the dystopian world of "The Hunger Games" and the real-life struggles we confront today. You're in for an episode that not only resonates with the heart but also mobilizes the spirit for action.As the dialogue progresses, we confront the complexities of modern activism and the struggle to achieve systemic change. Delve with us into the intricacies of boycotts and movements like BDS, and unravel their potential to foster transformation amidst a surveillance-laden reality. The comparison to the corporate world's HR departments reveals an unexpected kinship between organizational dynamics and social movements, both wrestling with entrenched systems. This episode promises to fuel your drive for disruption and arm you with insights into the sustained activism that history has shown is crucial for societal advancement.Finally, we take a moment to celebrate the essence of community and the power of collective action. Through personal reflections on the contrast between American individualism and the communal ties observed in Guatemalan villages, this episode sheds light on the vital role of mutual support. The Land Back movement is brought into focus, advocating for the restitution of Native American lands as a cornerstone of intersectional justice. And as we revisit significant yet underappreciated events like the Stonewall riots, we're reminded of how vital historical literacy is to our collective journey forward. Prepare to be moved, enlightened, and connected through this earnest dialogue.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Step back into the raw, unflinching world of "Fight Club" with us, as we strip back the layers of its powerful narrative to reveal the tangled threads of identity, mental health, and societal constructs. This episode isn't just a trip down memory lane; it's a deep-dive analysis that will challenge your perception of masculinity, consumerism, and the search for authenticity. As we recount our visceral reactions to the film's iconic moments and discuss Chuck Palahniuk's personal journey, including his coming out, we invite you to confront the unsettling implications of violence and scars as more than just plot devices, but as symbols of struggle and self-realization.Feel the tension as we scrutinize the complex character dynamics within "Fight Club," particularly the enigmatic relationship between Marla Singer and the narrator, and the explosive persona of Tyler Durden. Our conversation delves into the intersection of societal violence with queer identity, examining how these elements manifest in the film's characters and their interactions. We dissect the paradox of Tyler's allure and the destruction he leaves in his wake, urging a reflection on the costs of self-discovery and the toxic pressures of societal norms. Let this episode be your guide through the film's labyrinth of psychological twists and the harsh critique of a materialistic world.Ending with a look at the unexpected influence of "Fight Club" on real-world dialogue, we reveal the irony behind the term "snowflake" and its cultural evolution. By examining the film's impact on existential crises and the quest for genuine self-expression, we promise to leave you with a fresh perspective on how fiction can shape our understanding of reality. So join us for an episode that's as thought-provoking as it is enlightening, with discussions rich enough to satisfy long-time fans and newcomers alike, and maybe—just maybe—you'll emerge with a newfound clarity on the enigma that is "Fight Club.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

As we fire up the console of memory, our friend Dylan and us, we take you through a pixelated journey of gaming's past and present, painting the screen with tales as vivid as the adventures we've lived out in fantastical digital worlds. From the tactile joy of mashing buttons on a classic SNES to the awe-inspiring narratives of The Last of Us and the comforting farm life in Stardew Valley, we chart the course of gaming's evolution and its burgeoning inclusivity. Together, we celebrate not only our cherished video game memories but also the representation that resonates with players across the spectrum, highlighting queer narratives that have expanded the horizons of storytelling in interactive media.As we maneuver through the intricacies of gaming genres, Dylan shares insights into the impact of role-playing games that offer a spectrum of characters and choices, affirming the identities of players who yearn to see themselves in the heroes they control. We discuss the satisfaction derived from both the nail-biting tension of action-packed adventures like Elden Ring and the gentle rhythms of cozy games that soothe the soul. Our conversation traverses the terrain of turn-based RPGs, marveling at the depth of queer storylines that enrich these games, and we gleefully geek out over practical gaming setups and the charm of custom accessories by indie artists.Wrapping up our session, we guide listeners through the vibrant tapestry of queer-themed games suitable for younger audiences, ensuring a journey that's as age-appropriate as it is enlightening. With Dylan's expertise, we also spotlight the cultural legacy of queer representation in games, such as the Overwatch community's embrace of diverse characters, and reflect on the historical significance of LGBTQ+ narratives with the poignant tale of Emperor Ai's 'passion of the cut sleeve.' It's more than a podcast episode; it's an homage to the games that have shaped us and a nod to the future that awaits in the inclusive gaming universe of which we're thrilled to be a part.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Autocorrect might not get it yet, but we're here to ensure that 'aromantic' doesn't come out smelling like a rose scent. This episode is all about peeling back the curtain on asexual and aromantic identities, the vibrant 'A' in LGBTQIA+. So chuckle along with my little mishap, and settle in for a rich dialogue that affirms the diversity of human experience. We're taking you on a journey through the dual split attraction model, celebrating the individual paths of self-discovery, and exploring the unique romantic and sexual orientations that make up the ace and arrow communities.Ever wondered about the spectrum of identities under the ace umbrella? We've got you covered. From asexual to demisexual, graysexual, and even the lesser-known agosexual, we're pulling back the layers to reveal the rich tapestry of attraction—or lack thereof. No two stories are the same, and in this episode, personal reflections shine a light on the complexities and joys of embracing who you are. Plus, we're tearing down the walls of amatonormativity, opening up the conversation to include all forms of connections, because love is not one-size-fits-all.Finally, let's talk visibility and the challenges faced by queer communities when their very identities become political battlegrounds. We honor historical figures like Emma Trauss, who forged a path for the asexual community long before the modern discourse took shape. It's a reminder of the persistence and resilience of those who dare to live authentically. So whether you're seeking support, looking to learn, or just here for the stories, this episode promises to enlighten and entertain by amplifying voices that too often go unheard.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Co-host Jenene has a converation with longtime queer lesbian friend, Terysa. She's originally from the Bronx, NY and currently living in Phoenix, AZ enjoying her retirement. The conversation explores the use of the word 'boob' and its various meanings and connotations. It delves into the history of the word and its association with breasts, as well as the societal attitudes towards women's bodies. The discussion also touches on the impact of clothing choices, such as bras, on women's health and comfort. The conversation highlights the importance of using respectful language and embracing one's natural body. In this conversation, Jenene and Terysa discuss various topics related to femininity, body image, and societal expectations. They touch on the use of language and how certain words are associated with different genders. They also discuss the discomfort and shame that can be associated with breasts and menstruation, and the importance of embracing and celebrating these aspects of womanhood. They talk about the power of the female body and the need for acceptance and empowerment. They also mention the importance of having open and honest conversations about menstruation with young girls, and the need to break the narrative of shame and embarrassment surrounding it. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for acceptance, understanding, and celebration of the female body.Note: We want to recognize and acknowledge that not every human with breasts is comfortable with them. Perhaps this information can be taken into consideration by all and shared with those who you feel may beneift from it. There's something for everyone to take away.Keywords: boob, breasts, slang, women's bodies, bras, language, respect, natural body, femininity, body image, societal expectations, language, breasts, menstruation, shame, empowerment, acceptance, celebrationTakeaways:The word 'boob' has various meanings, including a mistake or error, a slang term for a woman's breast, and an insult for a foolish person.The use of derogatory language to describe women's bodies reflects societal attitudes and the objectification of women.Clothing choices, such as bras, can impact women's health and comfort, and it is important to prioritize personal comfort and well-being.Using respectful and accurate language when referring to women's bodies is essential for promoting body positivity and self-acceptance. Society often associates certain words with femininity and masculinity, perpetuating gender stereotypes.There is a need to embrace and celebrate the female body, including breasts and menstruation.Open and honest conversations about menstruation with young girls can help break the narrative of shame and embarrassment.Acceptance and empowerment of the female body are important for overall well-being and self-confidence.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties13:53 Societal Attitudes Towards Women's Bodies36:36 Breaking the Shame Cycle43:53 Honoring the MaidenInstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Reflecting on half a year of sharing our most intimate narratives and celebrating the rich tapestry of queer history, Kit and I are elated to bring you a special retrospective episode. Together, we've traversed the poignant tales of our lives, with Kit unpacking their journey with gender identity, and I, Jenene, disclosing the raw emotion of my coming out. We've honored pivotal milestones like the Stonewall riots, delved into the evolution of gendered pronouns, and explored the vibrant etymology of 'queer.' But it's not just memories we're recounting; it's the spirit of our community, echoed in the arts through the revolutionary sounds of 'Rent' and the classic compositions of Tchaikovsky.In our most downloaded episodes, the transformative power of choral protest through the New York City Gay Men's Chorus resonated with countless hearts. With Dr. Van Broome joining us, we've highlighted the significance of LGBTQ+ affirming spaces, and celebrated Carl Heinrich Ulrichs, a queer trailblazer. This season finale isn't just a look back—it's a clarion call to the future, as we gear up for a second season that promises to amplify voices and stories yet unheard. Your comments and stories have been our guiding light, and we invite you to continue the conversation with us. Here's to the journey ahead, filled with more uncharted paths and courageous conversations.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Have you ever pondered the colors of your identity and how they meld into the tapestry of society? Join us as we unravel the complexities of the transgender and trans non-binary experience, with a special focus on the intricacies of transitioning. Kit will take you through his own story as someone who chose a social transition, sharing insights into the validity of each unique journey, whether it includes medical steps or not. We'll navigate the sometimes contentious historical debates within the community, aiming to foster understanding and inclusivity throughout our discussion.This episode isn't just a conversation; it's a treasure trove of possibilities and empathetic support for those affirming their gender identity. We dive into daily gender expression tactics, like using mascara to simulate facial hair, and the role accessories play in shaping one's presentation. Bringing in the broader picture, we talk about the significance of finding affirming spaces and the impact of vocal training apps, and we don’t shy away from the hurdles and triumphs of updating legal documents. Our exploration is about embracing the diversity of experiences and expressions within the LGBTQ+ community.To round off, we scrutinize the medical transition process with a lens of informed consent and the support systems necessary for a healthy journey. Discussing everything from puberty blockers to hormone replacement therapy and surgical options, we emphasize the importance of a collaborative relationship with healthcare providers. We share the care and consideration that goes into making these life-altering decisions, and we look back at historical perspectives, reminding us of the long road traveled by individuals asserting their true selves. Tune in for an episode that is not just informative but an homage to the courage and resilience of the trans community.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Have you ever sipped a cocktail and thought about the journey of LGBTQ+ marketing in corporate America? We're peeling back the layers of history, from the mid-70s when queer folks first shimmered on the radar of alcohol brands, to the powerful 1994 IKEA commercial that broke molds by featuring a gay couple. Alongside the narrative of these pioneering moments, we unravel the nuanced dance of media representation, where advocacy groups like GLAAD have stepped in to shape the narrative, and seemingly trivial items like a stuffed shark from IKEA have become beloved community symbols.This episode isn't just a history lesson; it's also an homage to the laughter and literature that have soothed and strengthened our community. We get personal, reflecting on an Amazon Kindle ad that touched queer hearts everywhere and the importance of supporting LGBTQ+ authors and bookstores like Tiny Raccoon Books. The conversation takes a turn to discuss the complexity of navigating a world filled with heteronormative assumptions and the sometimes painful experiences within our own diverse community. As your host, I share anecdotes that underscore the importance of representation, the beauty of diversity, and the power of a good chuckle.As we wrap up, the spotlight turns to the thorny issue of corporate allyship and the double-edged sword of Pride Month marketing. With a critical eye, we dissect 'pinkwashing' and celebrate authentic support, sharing stories from my own life as a transgender individual navigating corporate spaces. We question the role of corporations in Pride and look forward to the power of community-led initiatives, DIY Pride merchandise, and the authenticity that comes from grassroots efforts. Together, we dive into the potential of hope as a catalyst for change against the backdrop of a capitalist society, all while staying mindful of the personal and societal challenges that continue to shape our lives.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Embark on a linguistic journey with us and our guest Kit as we explore the rich tapestry of gender identities within the LGBTQ+ community. Prepare to have your understanding of labels like transgender, non-binary, and genderqueer deepened, and discover the personal stories behind terms such as demigender, demiboy, and demigirl. We tackle the complexities these terms represent and celebrate the authenticity they bring to individual experiences, all while emphasizing the significance of respectful and evolving language.Confronted with the challenge of navigating gender discussions, we recount uncomfortable personal encounters that highlight the need for greater empathy and respect. Kit and I dissect these moments, offering insight into the appropriate ways to engage with transgender and demigender individuals. We also delve into historical perspectives, connecting the present with the past through the story of Thomas(ine) Hall, an intersex person from the 17th century, to illustrate the depth and continuity of gender diversity.As we wrap up our conversation, we illuminate the subtleties of demigirl and demiboy identities, clarifying the spectrum of gender identification beyond binary confines. The discussion of pride flags and the diversity within non-binary terms showcases the personalized nature of gender expression. Join us for this nuanced episode that not only educates but also advocates for a more inclusive understanding of the many identities under the LGBTQ+ umbrella.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

When Kit and I sat down to record this latest episode, we knew we were treading into deeply personal territory. We open up about our own bouts with outfit-induced stress, a seemingly trivial matter that unveils the profound complexities of gender identity—a conversation that goes far beyond the clothes we wear. Our listeners will journey with us through the experiences of those living with gender dysphoria, the impactful contrast of gender euphoria, and the heartfelt moments when one's true identity shines through. We don't just talk about these concepts; we share the lived experiences and emotional depths they encompass.This episode isn't just about definitions; it's an exploration of the human experience as we navigate the intricate feelings of disconnect for individuals whose gender identity doesn't match their assigned sex at birth. We contrast gender dysphoria with body dysmorphic disorder, dissecting the nuances and highlighting the emotional impact these conditions have on every facet of life. From the importance of using correct pronouns to the individual nature of transitioning treatments, we address the necessity for empathy, understanding, and support systems for those on this journey.Wrapping up, we delve into the personal and medical aspects of transitioning, including hormone replacement therapy and gender-affirming surgeries. I share my own insights into the decisions that come with these life-changing steps, and together we underscore the critical importance of meeting treatment criteria to ensure the best outcomes for those with gender dysphoria. This isn't just a conversation; it's a celebration of identity and a call to stand with our friends navigating their path to self-actualization. Join us for this enlightening session—it promises to be as informative as it is uplifting.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

I never imagined that my own battle with body dysmorphic disorder would lead me to share such intimate details, but here we are, peeling back the layers on a condition that's far more than skin-deep. With my partner's unwavering support, we delve into the realities of BDD, contrasting it with narcissistic traits, and shed light on the importance of recognizing this spectrum of disorder. In our first chapter, "Understanding Body Dysmorphia and Dysphoria," listeners will journey with us through the challenges and societal pressures that shape our self-perception, as we dissect the impact of our fixations and the supportive role loved ones play in the face of dysmorphia.The conversation takes a holistic turn as we consider the unexplored benefits of chiropractic care for mental health treatment. Could this ancient practice hold promise for modern psychological challenges? We explore this potential alongside traditional treatments, including those for BDD, emphasizing a multi-faceted approach to wellness. Then, we pivot to a fascinating piece of history—Saints Sergius and Bacchus, and their unique standing in the Catholic Church. Their enlightening story adds an unexpected layer to our vibrant discussion, encouraging an open-minded view of inclusivity through time. Join us for an episode that offers not just insight, but a community of support for anyone grappling with body image and mental health.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Unveil the shadowy dance of queerbaiting with us as we trace its origin from a political weapon to a Hollywood marketing ploy. Grasp the full picture as we dissect the complex interplay between the intent to engage LGBTQ+ audiences and the broader goal of retaining mass market appeal. This episode peels back the layers of this phenomenon, probing deep into the critical balance of representation and the pitfalls of misusing the term 'queerbaiting' when it comes to personal journeys of self-discovery.Step into the vibrant landscape of TV and film where characters like Sulu from Star Trek are caught in the crossfire of representation debates, and the chemistry between Supernatural's Dean and Castiel sparks more than just fan theories. Our conversation doesn't shy away from the tough questions, including the critique of industry practices and the call for authenticity in storytelling. We examine Benedict Cumberbatch's controversial comments on autism and the wider implications of subtext versus explicit representation in media narratives.The controversy doesn't end there as we unravel J.K. Rowling's retroactive narrative additions and contentious social stances. Literature's impact on impressionable minds takes center stage as we explore the potential for fiction to shape societal views. Finally, we debate the merit of engaging with bad-faith arguments, alongside a fascinating historical detour that ponders the secret lives of Renaissance artists like Leonardo da Vinci. Join us for an episode that's as informative as it is thought-provoking, where history and modern discourse collide in the ever-evolving conversation on LGBTQ+ issues in media and beyond.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Discover the colors of the rainbow hidden within the monochrome palette of media representation; our latest episode is a journey through the evolving portrayal of the LGBTQ community in film and television, with an acute focus on Disney's tentative dance with queer visibility. We unpack the subtleties of queer coding, tracing its roots from the nefarious villains of the silver screen to the present-day hesitation that shrouds films like "Strange World." It's a conversation that not only critiques Disney's half-hearted LGBTQ character inclusions but also calls into question the larger landscape of mainstream media's commitment to meaningful representation.The silver screen once whispered secrets of queerness through the allegories of the Cowardly Lion and Dracula's Daughter, and we continue to uncover these hidden messages, celebrating their clever defiance of past censorship. Our narrative then leads to the hopeful anticipation of tales yet to be told, like the upcoming Disney film featuring a gay prince, and the necessity for more non-binary characters. With a nod to bravery and the act of 'doing it scared,' our discussion pays tribute to the pioneers who have paved the way, from Queen Latifah's Mama in "Chicago" to those who stood up during the Cooper Donuts riot of 1959, a lesser-known yet pivotal moment in LGBTQ history.As the curtains close on our introspective session, we reflect on how far we've come, yet how much ground there is still to cover. The portrayal of LGBTQ characters has evolved from the sinister to the celebrated, but stereotypes and tokenism still lurk in the shadows. With a respectful salute to the artists and activists who've fought for visibility and equality, this episode is a mosaic of past struggles and future aspirations, an ode to the enduring spirit of the LGBTQ community and its unwavering quest for authentic representation in media. Join us as we honor these milestones and muse on the transformative power of storytelling to write the next chapter in the narrative of LGBTQ+ rights.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Unlock the secrets of queer coding in media as we navigate the delicate dance of subtext and stereotype, revealing the hidden messages that have historically signposted LGBTQ representation. With a spotlight on the tantalizing yet unfulfilled queer storylines of "Supernatural," we traverse a landscape peppered with both frustration and admiration. Our journey doesn't stop with queer coding, as we dissect other coding phenomena, such as autism and black coding, and underscore the urgency for mindful representation in children's shows. We welcome you to connect and reflect with us as we unpack the intricate layers of cultural significance and personal resonance tied to these narratives.As we pay tribute to the iconic Ursula, the sea witch of "The Little Mermaid," who owes her flamboyance to the legendary drag queen Divine and lyricist Howard Ashman's insightful vision, we also debate the impact of casting choices in the live-action adaptation. The episode takes a heartfelt turn through the cherished memories evoked by classic Disney villain songs, stirring a mix of nostalgia and critique. Join us in questioning the implications of Disney's decision to remove "Hellfire" from the Hunchback of Notre Dame remake, as our guests and I explore the far-reaching influence of these cultural touchstones on our lives.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Ever wondered how a flash of color on your nails or the choice of a certain accessory could signal a hidden message? Step into the kaleidoscopic world of queer signaling and symbolism as we trace the secret language of the LGBTQ+ community, from the discreet nods in fashion choices to the bold declarations found in historical emblems. Our exploration unveils the clandestine communications that have connected queer individuals through time, such as the famed lesbian club Le Monocle's monocles and the Hanky Code's resurgence in the kink and BDSM scenes. With the help of expert guests, we uncover the stories behind these symbols and consider their journey into mainstream consciousness.Feel the pulse of LGBTQ+ culture through the romantic echoes of violets and the intricate dance of symbolic language that has evolved within the community. Our dialogue blossoms with tales of Sappho's poetry, keys jingling with unspoken intentions, and the transformative imagery of roses and butterflies cherished by the trans community. We pay homage to the artful creation of lavender languages like Polari, sharing the poignant necessity for these secret slangs as a shield for identity and solidarity. Join us and our guests as we celebrate these beautiful forms of resistance that continue to flourish undiminished.Finally, we illuminate the ever-changing lexicon of queer identities and the innovative expressions that have emerged as both badges and tools for survival. From the ace ring's subtle declaration of asexuality to the nuanced femme flagging manicures, our conversation delves into the personal and political significance of these gestures. We're also unraveling the surprising history behind pink and blue's gendered connotations, revealing how societal norms are as malleable as they are impactful. Prepare to be enthralled by the stories of resistance, pride, and unity—embodied in the vibrant flags that wave with unwavering spirit.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

As we tread the paths carved by pioneers of queer rights, we are reminded of the indelible marks they left behind. In our latest episode, we pay tribute to Karl Ulrich, a visionary of the 19th century, whose audacious stance on innate same-sex attraction and the concept of a "third gender" sparked the flame for modern sexology. Our discussion winds through Ulrich's advocacy, dissecting how his theories challenged the sexual norms of his time and how his legacy continues to influence the dialogue on queer identity today. We celebrate the New York Times' retrospective recognition of Ulrich's work, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging the crusaders who fought for the rights and recognition of the queer community when it was most perilous to do so.The narrative of queer history is as diverse as the community itself, and our guest Kit provides invaluable insights into the multifaceted experiences during the Nazi regime. Reflecting on the tragic paradox of queer Nazi officers, we underscore the irony of their ultimate fate, mirroring those they oppressed. This poignant chapter of our heritage serves as a stark reminder of the need for continuous remembrance. We also dismantle myths around faith and sexuality, pointing to the inclusive aspects of various religions. Kit's perspective enriches our conversation, revealing the resilience and presence of queer individuals throughout history, urging us to honor these stories at all times, not merely when convenient.Finally, we explore the intricate details of the Warren Cup, a Roman artifact that whispers tales of homoerotic art from a bygone era. Through this ancient piece, we glimpse into a world where expressions of queer love were etched in silver, offering a striking contrast to the narrative of queer invisibility throughout history. Our journey into the past concludes with honoring Karl Heinrich Ulrichs, whose terminologies and annual celebrations in Germany serve as a beacon of hope and inspiration within the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we reflect on the profound legacy of queer history, reminding ourselves of the continuous battle for rights and recognition that echoes through time.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

Joining forces with my life and business partner Dr. Vanessa Broom, we've embarked on an adventure to redefine chiropractic care. Dr. Van brings her warmth and expertise as we unveil our vision for an inclusive practice that truly celebrates and honors the LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities. We peel back the curtain to share our personal connection with the queer community and our dedication to providing a sanctuary for everyone. Mark your calendars—our doors in Oakdale, Long Island open on February 6th, ready to welcome you into a space where you are seen, valued, and cared for.Chiropractic care is often pigeonholed into the 'pain relief' box, but what if we told you its magic extends far beyond? In this episode, we uncover the lesser-known preventative superpowers of chiropractic treatments and how they can be your ally in cultivating a resilient nervous system and a vibrant life. Be sure to catch the end of our chat, where I reveal a slice of personal history involving a snowstorm, familial heroics, and a birth story that's sure to captivate and charm. Ready for a new perspective on your health journey? Tune in and let us guide you to balance and well-being.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.

***TRIGGER WARNINGA friendly warning to all of you if you're not ready to hear the F-slur multiple times in reference to it, in reference to its history, in reference to all of that, it's present. It's present everything I recommend skipping this one, coming back to it at a later date when you feel like you can handle it more, or just skipping it all together. We totally understand and we will see you next time.***Have you ever pondered the incredible elasticity of language, how a word can journey from the mundane to the malicious, and perhaps even find redemption in the mouths of those it once harmed? Our latest episode unravels the story of "faggot," a term with a past as varied as the individuals it has touched. We're joined by a linguist and columnist who shares his personal evolution from a youth peppered with homophobic slurs in Eastern Pennsylvania, to a proud, public celebration of his queer identity. His tale is interwoven with a historical look at the word's origins and its impact on society's perceptions of masculinity and gender roles.This episode is not just about the word but about the power it wields, both to wound and to empower. Through engaging discussions and narratives, including a nod to Stephen Fry's own sexual awakening through literary great Oscar Wilde, we analyze the delicate art of reclaiming slurs. The conversation is laced with consideration for the complexities of context and consent, and we present a caveat on the limitations of reclamation. For a touch of inspiration, we also suggest tuning into "V for Vendetta," a film with layers of meaning for queer audiences. Don't miss this compelling exploration of language's role in shaping, and reshaping, identities.InstagramTikTokFacebookWant to see the video? Check us out on YouTube.