Have you ever felt like the weight of grief could define your entire existence? In this episode, I'm here to shake things up and challenge the traditional narrative of widowhood. It's time to reclaim the journey as our own and recognize that being a widow doesn't solely revolve around our deceased husbands. Yes, we honor their memory, but we also have a life to live. Widowhood is a chapter, not the entire book of your life and being a widow doesn't define us; it propels us forward into the next chapter of our lives. We must remember that our happiness matters too, and our late husbands would want us to find joy and purpose. It's about shifting our perspective on grief and embracing the opportunities for growth and fulfillment. So, let's not just survive but thrive and truly live with intention as you Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Join me on the Season 5 premiere as we finally get down to business on what it means to "Widow Your Way"In this episode we are going to talk about the Widow Journey, emphasizing one crucial truth: You are not dead, just your husband! It's time to embrace your loss, your life, and your purpose! Whether you're still in the depths of grief or ready to explore new possibilities, this episode is a reminder that the widow journey is about YOU. It's about evolving into the person you were always meant to be, honoring your past while stepping boldly into the future. It's How to Widow Your Way ❤️Season 3 Episode 8: In Mourning and Discovery: A Widow's JourneyOops! I misquoted the title of this episode but it is about grieving the loss of yourself.  Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

The microphone feels different this time! As I struggle with my ongoing battle against cancer, I'm reflecting on this podcast and direction it's taking. I feel the need now more than ever to be more clear with my message and purpose.So far Widow Your Way has been more of an expression or feeling of empowerment for Widows, but not put into clear words. I have never wanted to be someone who gives Widow advice. There are no step-by-step guides here, no one-size-fits-all remedies—just the honest, often messy, chronicles of learning to trust myself on this Widow Journey. I love the quote by Brene Brown, "One day you will tell your story of how you've overcome what you're going through now, and it will become part of someone else's survival guide" This podcast has always been meant as a guide for you to discover your own unique path to living happily even after. Widow your way is about trusting yourself and making your own rules. Your Widow Journey. Your Loss. Your Life. Your Purpose. Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Growing up, I struggled with the concept of gratitude, feeling pressure to be thankful without truly understanding its depth. As a widow, this struggle intensified when faced with societal pressure to be grateful.I share personal experiences of downplaying my grief and masking my emotions to appear strong. This is a common struggle among widows – feeling the need to put on a facade while silently battling with our grief.Reflecting on my journey, I realized the importance of finding balance between honoring grief and embracing gratitude. It's about allowing both to coexist. True gratitude, I've learned, comes from acknowledging and feeling all emotions, even the painful ones.This episode was inspired by my recent guest appearance on the Hilistically Speaking Podcast with Hilary Russo, who had me opening up in unexpected ways. You can listen to our episode Ep145 - Widow Your Way from Grief to Resilience with Rebecca Johnson on Hilistically Speaking Podcast Page / Apple Podcasts / Spotify / You TubeYou may also want to listen to The Purpose Filter Podcast with Kathy Zhang. The Sneaky Way You're Doing Gratitude Wrong And How To Fix It Instead. As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

In this deeply personal episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on a relationship journey that's been anything but easy. Over the past few years, I've stumbled, learned, and grown through the rollercoaster of love, loss, and self-discovery. From swiping right to clinging onto hope, I'm sharing the raw, unfiltered moments of navigating romance amidst grief. It's a candid look into the messy reality of dating after loss, where red flags are waved, boundaries are blurred, and self-worth is tested. But amidst the chaos, there's a glimmer of truth: the most important love story begins with loving oneself. Join me as I lay bare my heart and soul, inviting you into the ups, downs, and everything in between on the journey to finding that love isn't dead, but it begins with honoring myself.As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

A Valentine's Day Special ✨💖Today's episode is all about love, laughter, and a little bit of magic – because sometimes, love finds us in the most unexpected of places. Join me as I share a heartwarming love story that holds a special place in my heart.In a two part series, I'll take you on a journey through my experiences navigating the complexities of dating and relationships as a widow. Though the road may have been bumpy at times, each encounter has taught me invaluable lessons about love, loss, and the resilience of the human heart.So grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and prepare to be swept away by a tale of love, laughter, and the beauty of second chances. As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

My recent trip to Podfest has ignited a shift in my perspective!Podfest, a haven for podcasters, exposed a truth—I've been holding back. I believe fear of rejection has tempered my honesty, and it's time to change that.I'm recalibrating the way I fuel our conversations from behind the mic. Expect to hear the unvarnished truth, the kind that might ruffle feathers or challenge comfort zones, as I commit to a podcast that's as real as the life I'm living.As we move forward, I'm thrilled to unveil a new website at www.widowyourway.com, where we can connect in various ways. You can schedule a call to chat, ask me anything, or share your story for the podcast, social media, or my upcoming blog. I'm excited to be speaking at events and offering widow workshops soon. Get ready for more surprise appearances on other podcasts and interviews with inspiring widows and other special guests dedicated to helping you move forward in life, not just grief.Being a widow is just one chapter in our life journey. Together, we'll redefine the widow's journey, celebrating that love endures beyond loss.As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

When dreams are deferred, what does it take to revive them amidst life's harshest trials?Embark on a journey with me in the latest episode as I share the twists and turns of my life!From sidelining dreams as a wife to discovering my own strength as a widow, and now navigating a Stage IV cancer diagnosis. All the while trying to make a difference in the world of grief, one widow at a time!My story isn't just about survival—it's a masterclass in crafting a legacy that dances with hope, touching lives, creating a narrative of courage and resilience.Join me as I pivot, fueled by the desire to create a legacy through my podcast, coaching, and speaking, all with the unwavering belief that love is not dead, just my husband.As always, Widow Your Way! ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

You know that feeling when you give the best advise but don't take your own?Well, I've been struggling with my recent cancer diagnosis and how I'm supposed to be handling it. I'm just going to take my own advise and tell people how I feel and do what's going to make me happy!This podcast makes me happy and I want to dedicate as much time as I possibly can to it.  I want it to be a positive reminder that life after loss can be beautiful and you should always, always widow your way!Because you my friend, deserve to be "happily even after" ❤️  Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Ever thought about what it's like facing your own mortality while dealing with the loss of a loved one? In this emotional episode, I share my personal journey as a Widow battling an incurable cancer. Join me as I navigate the ups and downs of grief, denial, and acceptance, shedding light on how tough it is to share this heartbreaking diagnosis with family and friends. This episode is a testament to my friendships and a reminder of the delicate beauty of life and the strength we have to find hope in tough times. This is a heartfelt dive into my emotional rollercoaster of life.  I hope you continue on this journey with me.As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Imagine life just starting to get good, feeling like things are finally falling into place. Seemingly worry free and looking forward to starting a new year off with a bang! And then the unexpected happens or should I say the unexpected returns! Just 6 weeks  after my husband died in 2018, I was diagnosed with a rare eye cancer with no cure, Ocular Melanoma. As hard as the news was to accept then, it's even harder now with a new diagnosis of Stage IV Metastatic Uveal Melanoma. Out of all my journeys in grief, widowhood and self discovery, my cancer journey has been the hardest to accept with a limited life expectancy.  As I face this new reality I hope you continue to follow me on this journey of embracing life fully and finding joy in each moment until the very end. As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Life has a way of surprising us with unexpected twists that force us to reassess everything we once held close.  Life just threw me a curveball – my Cancer has made a surprising return, taking me into an uncertain chapter of my life, a terminal diagnosis of Stage 4 Liver Metastatic Uveal Melanoma.I find myself grappling with the profound emotions that come with living with an incurable disease and the heart-wrenching realization that my journey has an impending end.As I step into this new season of my life, my focus remains on finding joy amidst the chaos and continuing to connect with you through this podcast. Through these episodes, I aim to provide solace to anyone dealing with grief, no matter its form. My hope is for this podcast to serve as a beacon of hope, a living legacy that reflects the enduring power of love.  While the frequency and content of future episodes might shift, the heart of this show remains the same. I invite you to walk beside me on this journey, navigating  new intricacies of grief, the depths of love, the complexities of life, and the resilient beauty of the human spirit.As always, Widow Your Way ❤️Links to learn more about Ocular Melanoma:A Cure in SightThe Eye Believe PodcastOcular Melanoma FoundationSupport the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

A year ago I announced I was starting a podcast. What some people don't know is that my brother Donnie gives me the courage to speak my mind. In this episode I'm baring my soul about losing my brother. As this grief is still fresh, I share the rollercoaster of our relationship, my guilt and regrets, realizing the very things that would drive me crazy are now cherished memories. This episode is a raw, unfiltered journey through sibling love, a tribute to the impact Donnie had on my life.If grief is the price for love, I will gladly pay this toll ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

What if Thanksgiving doesn't have to be a full-throttle, joy-filled celebration? What if it's okay to shuffle the traditions, to feel a little less than festive, especially when you're wrestling with grief or loneliness? This episode is a heart-to-heart conversation, acknowledging that it's absolutely fine to have an 'Unhappy' Thanksgiving. We challenge the idea that gratitude must be monumental, instead, inviting you to celebrate the seemingly small things you are grateful for. And above all, we remind you that love is still very much alive.As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

In honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, lets shine a light on the often unspoken and deeply sensitive topic of abuse, especially concerning surviving Widows of domestic violence. We explore the intricate layers of grief and healing that these survivors go through, and how their journey to recovery differs from traditional widowhood.These brave women may experience relief and even happiness after their loss, emotions that can be challenging to understand from the outside. It's a reminder that there's no single way to grieve, especially when the person lost was an abuser. We discuss the importance of non-judgmental support and emphasize the need for these Widows to find their unique path to freedom, self-love, and a life without fear. Theirs is not only a widowhood journey but also a journey to reclaim their lives and rebuild with strength and resilience.If you are experiencing domestic violence, help is available. Please call 1-800-799-SAFE or you can text ‘START’ to 88788.  Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

When we lose someone we love, we're often told that the first year is the hardest. But what happens when that first year is over, and we're still grappling with the void that person has left behind? After the first year Widows may find themselves feeling increasingly alone in their grief. Yet amidst the pain, there is hope and healing.  As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Grief is like an onion! There are so many layers!In this episode we unravel the multi-layered journey of a widow, and an often overlooked topic of widowhood: the grief for the loss of one's former self. It's not just about mourning a spouse; it's a journey of self-discovery and transformation.The message is simple: it's okay to embrace change and let go of who you once were. During grief and loss, there is also a chance for rebirth and growth.This episode celebrates the courage to redefine yourself, reminding us all that the widowhood journey is about honoring your past while embracing a brighter, self-empowered future.As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

In this episode I have a candid conversation with Divorcee, Josie Falcon of the Heavy Pages Podcast, and what unfolded was truly eye-opening!We found ourselves marveling at the similarities between the journeys of Widows and Divorcees. The only difference was my husband is dead and hers is not!While the circumstances of widowhood and divorce are unique, the emotional rollercoaster that follows is surprisingly alike. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that loss is painful for everyone, no matter what form it comes in. If we are willing to be open, we can celebrate these connections and join each other on the winding paths of healing and self-exploration. After all, love is not dead for any of us! Look for Josie on all social media platforms and more! She offers a variety of service to help anyone through an unwanted separation. Spotify: Heavy Pages A Separation JourneyInstagram: @heavy_pages_podcastFacebook: Josie ThePodHost Website: Josie Falcon Separation Survival Specialist Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Are you ready to hear the unfiltered thoughts that often whirl in a widow's head? Lets talk about the cliché comments and thoughtless questions that are often thrown at widows. You know the ones: "How are you doing?", "They are in a better place", the list goes on. I'm going to give you authentic responses many widows may harbor and are just too polite to say outload.Just wait until you hear the most insensitive question asked! This episode is a gentle reminder that finding the right words to say to a grieving Widow can be challenging, but it's equally difficult for the Widow. Even if you don't have the perfect words. Sometimes, silence, presence, and support through actions speak volumes. Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!

Grief is a universal, yet deeply personal experience. Like many of you, I've had my fair share of losses and not just from people dying. So for me it's not about comparing losses, but about acknowledging that each loss hits differently for each person. They all hurt in their own way. So why do we compare our grief to others? We are not here to compare scars; we're here to learn how to cope with our feelings. We should be supporting each other through the pain, no matter what form the loss is in.Even though the pain of loss is difficult to navigate so is the healing process. Eventually, our hearts can heal, and we can find love and happiness again, regardless of the type of loss we've experienced. Let's remember to encourage and support each other during those times as well. That is the purpose of this podcast. To remind you that love is not dead, just your husband ❤️And as always, widow your way! Support the Show.Enjoying the podcast? I would love to here from you! Send me a message. Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husbandWebsite: www.widowyourway.comYou can also support the show in other ways: Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with meLeave a review to help others find meSign up for a small monthly subscription Coffee is my love language ❤️ If you like this episode, please consider Buy Me A Coffee!