Ever found yourself at a crossroads between cherishing your alone time and feeling the aching pangs of loneliness? It's a path I've walked many times, and I invite you on a journey through the latest Pillow Fort Sessions of Around the Kinky Campfire, where we untangle the fine threads that separate solitude from loneliness. As your guide, El Comidin, the Cuddle Gigolo, aka HH Julius I'll share how my own polyamorous journey has taught me the value of self-reflection and the necessity of social connections.This heart-to-heart is not just about telling tales around the campfire; it's about lighting the way to understanding the spectrum of social interactions and how it's possible to feel lonely in a room full of people or at peace in the quiet of your own company. From addressing the unjust stigma attached to being a loner to offering actionable advice on mitigating loneliness, we traverse the emotional landscape that often remains unspoken. You'll find solace in learning that solitude can be a source of strength and that loneliness, while challenging, can propel us towards meaningful improvement and community.Wrap up in your coziest blanket and get ready to find comfort in our shared experiences and strategies for fostering fulfilling relationships. Remember, it's not just about being in the company of others; it's about crafting a life where every interaction has purpose and every moment of solitude is a chance for growth. Share your journey with us on Instagram at KampfireKinksters and keep the conversation going via email. Let's redefine what it means to be alone together, in this thoughtful session that promises to elevate your understanding of the complex dance between solitude and loneliness.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Gather 'round the Kinky Campfire, where your hosts Bartholomew Hunt and Ms Ru serve up a piping hot blend of humor and insight on the fascinating intricacies of BDSM and non-monogamy lifestyles. Ever wondered how to subtly signal your kinky interests on the battlefield of dating profiles? We've got you covered with tales from the front lines, including what to look out for and how to spot the green flags of a genuine, respectful connection in the vast wilds of fetishization. Let's face it, discussing your alternative lifestyle passions can be stickier than s'mores at a campfire. We share our own experiences of navigating these conversations in public, from casual bars to corporate boardrooms, encouraging a world where kink can be as socially acceptable as chatting about the latest sports scores. And we dig into the moments of quiet contemplation too, discussing the profound difference between solitude and loneliness, and how they each have a place in the grand tapestry of our social lives.Wrapping up with a soothing meditation session that might just end up more giggle-inducing than calming, we delve into the art of introspection and setting intentions in exploring new interests. Whether you're a veteran of the kink scene or just curious about the path less traveled, there's a spot by our Kinky Campfire waiting for you. Join us for an episode that kindles the spirit, challenges preconceptions, and champions personal growth with every crackling sound bite.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Ever wondered what the difference between 'kinky' and 'vanilla' really is, or struggled to navigate the often misunderstood landscape of BDSM roles? Fear not, kindred spirits, for I, Falkor, alongside the ever-intriguing Ms. Ru, will guide you through these murky waters with humor and a wealth of knowledge. Our latest episode of Around the Kinky Campfire promises to demystify the complexities of kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy, making you laugh, ponder, and possibly squirm—all in the name of education and entertainment.Sex education is no joke, but that doesn't mean we can't crack a few as we address the shortcomings of what's being taught—or not taught—in schools. From the spectrum of sexual preferences to the clear-cut distinctions between kinks and fetishes, we delve into what makes our intimate tickings unique, all while challenging you to approach these discussions with a healthy dose of curiosity. And as if that's not enough, we'll also tackle the sensitive issue of porn as educator, and why it's so crucial to seek out information that paints a full picture of the sexual experience.But wait, there's more! Our campfire conversation isn't complete without a foray into the etiquette of play spaces. From understanding the rules of engagement to ensuring the furniture can withstand the... festivities, we've got your back with practical advice and firsthand insights. So, whether you're a seasoned veteran or a curious newcomer to the scene, join us for some hearty laughs and learn tips to stride confidently into any social space. Tune in to Around the Kinky Campfire, and remember to catch us on Instagram at Campfire Kinksters for a peek behind the scenes!Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

As we pop open a bag of nerd clusters, the playful banter sets the stage for an episode that's as much about the crinkle of candy wrappers as it is about the crunch of complex relationship dynamics. We're two peas in a podcast, bringing you a scoop of nostalgia with a nod to "A Knight's Tale" and Heath Ledger, served alongside a helping of heartfelt frustration at his too-soon departure from our screens. It's a rollercoaster ride from the giggles of an ASMR experience to the serious talk of how couples navigate the developmental dance of their relationships without stepping on each other's toes.Have you ever wondered what makes a partnership thrive amidst the trials of individuality and cultural influences? We're peeling back the layers on that onion, discussing everything from the importance of maintaining self within a union to the unique challenges single-parent households face. No guest this time—just us, your trusty hosts, getting real about the intricacies of relationship phases and the expectations that come with them. We're not just musing over love; we're talking about the power of experiential learning versus formal education, especially when it comes to understanding the nuanced world of kink and BDSM.To top it all off, we're stepping into the minefield of politics and morality, having a candid chat about how societal changes and political decisions can influence our private lives. From the colorful consequences of green donuts to the quirky traits that can make or break a partner's rating, we're laying it all out there. Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere happily in the middle, this episode will leave you laughing, pondering, and maybe even nodding in agreement. So, recharge your headphones—this is one conversation you won't want to miss.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Uncover the enigmatic roots of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator with me, Julius HH, as we traverse the intellectual legacy of a mother-daughter duo and the indelible mark they left on the psychological landscape. Whether you're an INTJ like myself, or another of the 16 personality types, this episode promises to gift you with a richer understanding of the MBTI's origin story. Sip on your pineapple seltzer and join our Pillowfort session as we delve into the historical intricacies behind a tool that's become a staple in our quests for self-discovery.Grappling with the complexities of human behavior, Katharine Cook Briggs and Isabel Briggs Myers crafted an assessment that's become a cultural icon. Tune in as we navigate Carl Jung's influence on their work, the balance between judging and perception, and the nuances that continue to shape the MBTI today. We'll confront the criticisms and limitations head-on, acknowledging the importance of a critical eye when engaging with this beloved yet scrutinized psychological instrument.Finally, I'll guide you beyond the confines of personality tests, encouraging a journey of introspection and genuine self-awareness. As your host and guide, I, Julius HH—also known as El Comidon, the Cuddle Gigolo—invite you to partake in future dialogues about relationships and communication. Connect with our vibrant community on Instagram at CampfireKinksters and anticipate lively discussions in the upcoming iterations of "Around the Kinky Campfire" and "The Pillow Fort Sessions.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Gather 'round the Kinky Campfire, where Miss Ru and I, Batty Coda aka Julius, ignite a lively dialogue that will leave you both informed and entertained. Ever wonder why your favorite fast-food soda tastes different at each restaurant? We'll quench your curiosity and then some, as we sip through our quirky drink choices and delve into the flavors of nostalgia with "Ferngully." But hold onto your leather hats, because we're going beyond mere reminiscence—we're opening the floor to discuss demisexuality, the nuances of kink versus BDSM, and the importance of leadership within our vibrant communities.Strap in for a journey from the Leather Leadership Conference's coast-to-coast transformation to the heart of community dynamics. Marvel at the sessions that dissect the Science of BDSM and uncover the genuine motivations behind organizing community events. Our conversation weaves through the threads of leadership development, where we highlight the value of fostering future leaders and consider the lasting impact of leaving a legacy. And because we're all about keeping things spicy, we couldn't resist teasing the prospects of food play and the tantalizing thought of penning our very own smut book.As we wrap up this episode and look forward to the next year's LLC in Los Angeles, we reflect on the roundtable discussions that give voice to generational perspectives on leather and kink culture. From Mara's seasoned insights to the lighter banter of regional desserts, we leave no stone unturned. Make sure to tune in every second and fourth Thursday for more illuminating chit-chats that keep the embers of conversation burning bright. Remember, it's KampfireKinksters with Ks all around—because where there's smoke, there's fire, and where there's kink, there's us, bidding you a warm goodbye until next time.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Ever felt like you're slogging through the swamp of small talk, only to find yourself stumped at the shore of silence? Fear not, my fellow conversational adventurers, as I, elacomy dome—known in some circles as the cuddle gigolo, and in others as HH Julius—usher you through the enigmatic maze of casual banter. Together, we'll discover that these seemingly simple exchanges are more than just idle chatter; they're the golden keys to unlocking new worlds of understanding and empathy.Our cozy pillow fort becomes a haven for demystifying the mechanics of mingling. As we peel back the layers of this unappreciated art, we realize it's not about convincing others, but rather expanding our own social horizons. I'll guide you through recognizing the 'why' behind people's thoughts, a critical step before diving into the depths of deeper dialogue. Whether you're testing the waters at a munch or trying to blend in at a family barbecue, this is your go-to guidebook for cultivating a sense of trust and compatibility—one light-hearted exchange at a time.As our heart-to-heart in the fort winds down, I give you a glimpse of the exciting path ahead. Bi-monthly pillow fort sessions interwoven with our larger kinky campfire conversations promise a rich tapestry of topics to explore. Gather round, kinky campsters, and prepare your most comfortable pillow; it's time to embark on this journey of conversation mastery, one small but strategic step at a time.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Have you ever wandered off into your thoughts at a party, or felt your energy sap in a crowd, leaving you to wonder if you're an introvert, or perhaps something more complex? That’s where my journey began, leading me to the discovery of Carl Jung's fascinating concept of introversion and the spectrum it exists on. Our latest episode takes a deep dive into the world of introvertism, where I share my own experiences and challenges, and the surprising ways they've shaped my interactions and leadership style. We'll peel back the layers of personality traits, from the thinkers to the anxious, and discuss the misunderstood relationship between shyness and introversion. It's an exploration that invites you to reflect on where you draw your energy from and how it impacts your daily life.This episode isn't just about introspection; it's a call to action for introverts to navigate the world without compromising their nature, and for society to appreciate the nuanced contributions of introverted individuals. I tackle head-on the stereotype that introverts can't be leaders and offer up evidence to the contrary, highlighting the unique strengths they bring to the table. Whether you proudly identify as an introvert, suspect you might be an ambivert, or simply want to understand the introverts in your life better, this conversation is an affirming nod to the quiet power within us all. So, join us as we celebrate the introspective journey and debunk myths, offering a fresh perspective on what it means to be an introvert in a world that can't stop talking.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Gather 'round, fellow adventurers, as Ru and Gently McFluffin Stuff bring you tales from the wilds of kinky campfires and creative conventions. Embarking on a quest through the realms of non-monogamous kink and BDSM, our latest episode offers personal insights and candid conversations that aim to enlighten and destigmatize the often misunderstood. Whether you're a seasoned traveler of these communities or simply kink-curious, join us for an episode rich with the nuances of social dynamics, the thrills of identity expression, and the complexities of ethical non-monogamy.Strap on your geeky pins and dust off your pronouns – we're recounting our journey into the heart of a content convention where our alternative lifestyle choices sparked a mosaic of reactions. On our expedition, we encountered dismissive glances as well as moments of profound connection and validation, all while navigating the intricacies of visibility and representation in diverse environments. Our exchange is more than just a foray into the convention scene; it's a reflection on the power of open dialogue and the courage to be true to one's identity amidst a sea of conformity.As the embers of our kinky campfire glow with the promise of shared knowledge, we wrap up with a behind-the-scenes look at the tech and marketing wizardry of podcasting. Discover the surprising realities of podcast conventions, from the unexpected focus on production prowess to the untapped potential for genre-specific tracks that could revolutionize the way we connect with fellow podcasters and listeners alike. And remember, your support on platforms like iTunes and Spotify doesn't just boost our show – it fuels a movement for awareness and education on the topics that often shy away from the spotlight. So sit back, sip your tea, and let the conversations commence every second and fourth Thursday of the month with us, your guides through the fascinating world of kink.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Ever felt the urge to unearth the animal within you, to connect with your ancient, instinctual self? Well, buckle up, my fellow kink enthusiasts, because Julius H. H.—yours truly—is about to guide you through the primal jungles of the BDSM community. Join me as we explore primalism, where the raw intensity of our kink identities meld with the world of geeks and polyamory. Whether you're a seasoned primal player or simply curious, this session promises to reveal the depths of an often misunderstood realm, shedding light on the multifaceted nature of primal roles and their intrinsic link to our innate selves.Get comfortable in your pillow fort as we chase the concept of primal play through its paces, from the thrill of the hunt to the metaphorical 'devouring' of our partners. It's a consensual tussle, a delicious struggle for control that has less to do with typical power exchange and more with the visceral, the raw, the unadulterated human experience. Amidst wrestling, pinning, and animalistic growls, I'll share how these dynamics play out in my own polyamorous life, offering personal anecdotes and insights that resonate with the authentic ethos of PRICK—Personally Responsible Informed Consensual Kink.As we wrap up, we don't just scratch the surface—we claw our way into the complexities of mating and primal instincts. Forget the cliché alpha and beta roles; we're talking about a dance of nonverbal cues and consent that transcends size and gender stereotypes. And let's not overlook how our tech-obsessed lifestyles might be taming the wildness within us. So, if you're ready to connect with that side of yourself that's been howling at the moon for release, this is your invitation to a world where primal passion plays out in the modern age. Welcome to the tribe, my friends—let's get primal!Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Have you ever found yourself curious about the world beyond vanilla relationships? Well, stoke the fires and join us as we illuminate the paths through the realms of Dominance and Submission (D/S) dynamics. This isn't your typical kink talk; we're breaking down barriers and challenging the myths head-on. From the diverse roles that transcend gender stereotypes to the surprising ways D/S relationships can extend beyond the bedroom into everyday life, we're revealing the truth behind the leather and lace. In our vibrant discussion, we delve into the importance of negotiation and consent in the continuum of power exchange relationships. Whether you're captivated by the notion of 24/7 D/S dynamics or the complexities of consensual non-consent, our introspection navigates these intricate connections with empathy and authenticity. We underscore the essential practice of establishing clear boundaries and the adaptability necessary within the fluid contracts of D/S relationships. Our conversation is a candid and careful guide for anyone, from the seasoned kinkster to the merely kink-curious, looking to understand the nuanced interplay of dominance and submission.Lastly, we puncture the inflated myths that have shadowed alternative lifestyles. We unmask the therapeutic potential of BDSM, differentiate between BDSM and non-monogamy, and celebrate the diversity in relationship structures that exist within the community. From personal anecdotes to practical insights, we dispel the stereotypes and embrace the fluidity of D/S dynamics for healthier and more fulfilling connections. So, whether you're tuning in with a partner or solo, this episode promises a thoughtful companion in your journey through the captivating landscape of D/S relationships.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Ever wondered about the ethical implications of AI recreating celebrities or how professional dominants might navigate the digital age? Rue and Sterling Golden are stoking the fires for an enlightening discussion on these topics in our inaugural 2024 episode of "Around the Kinky Campfire." As we reminisce about the balance between our work lives and the podcast, we also share the buzz of excitement for the upcoming podcast convention that promises to be a networking bonanza. You're promised Instagram-worthy moments and a lighthearted debate that might just change your tea-making process forever.Prepare to be riveted as we delve into the complexities of AI in the entertainment industry, discussing the recent case of Bruce Willis and the moral maze surrounding AI recreations of individuals. We don't just stop at Hollywood; our chat extends to the realm of BDSM, where issues of consent and digital personas for professional dominants are scrutinized. Can an AI truly capture one's essence? We dissect this tricky terrain and consider the implications for human interaction. By the campfire's glow, we also indulge in daydreams of luxury and what we'd do if "fuck you money" was no object – from shopping sprees to space travel, our fantasies know no bounds.Our journey shifts from the stars to the risqué as we chuckle over the top fetishes and porn searches by state from last year. It's a playful yet insightful exploration that dives into sexual kinks and the evolution of adult content consumption across the nation. We close the episode with some reflective wisdom, embracing the mantra 'let them' as our shield against the unpredictable currents of life. Whether you're here for the kinks, the quirks, or the quandaries, "Around the Kinky Campfire" promises to keep you toasty with bold tales and hearty conversations.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

We don't really know either.  Let's find out together!Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

What are these myths?  Are they true?  Let's debunk them!Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

What are these feelings?  Lashing out?  Rejection feeling like actually pain?  Let's find out why!Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

What is a unreasonable or reasonable expectation in a relationship?  How do we clear up a wrong expectation when we have them?  We're going to give you some examples of each in this episode.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Can you believe this??  Well we're going to debunk some pretty crazy assumptions about NM.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Catching up on this Fall season of Animes and Superhero and maybe a little sci fi...and what I think about think about them.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

Have you heard the myths going around?  Well we're here to provide the reality of the relationship situation.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

In this episode, we have a "quick" discussion on our lifestyle experiences in the real world versus what we "thought" it was going to be like from the fantasy realm.Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/