Tend and Befriend

Deborah Herritt Koumoutsidis

Every woman struggles with her health, body or mental health issues during one or more stages of her life. In every woman’s story there is a solution to another woman's difficulty., sharing our individual stories with one another will unleash our collective power. Our dream is to be a village of professionals and women who are trying to change the process of getting us thinking outside of statistics to care for women and into our stories and individual bodies. We hope to create a space where love and knowledge can be available to mamas and their families in every experience. You are not alone on your path, let me guide you by introducing you to other women who have walked the path before you. read less
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Episodes

Money, should not be your first sacrifice as a New Mother!
May 17 2022
Money, should not be your first sacrifice as a New Mother!
Ever wonder how some women manage not to worry about finances during their maternity leave?  I know how they did it.... they hired Alynn Godfroy from Godfroy financial.   How did she enjoy her maternity leave without financial burden, the same way she is now enjoying her life, raising her baby boy Austin and making time for herself, her husband and her family life while owning her own business!  She did it with smart financial strategy!  I have admired Alynn's financial mindset since the day I was first introduced to her, and you will too.  She is  a smart, kind, loving individual & a mom of baby boy Austin and she enjoys helping others achieve their financial goals.  Alynn offers classes about finances, and hosts a podcast with a sweet name "achieve fire" with Fire being the acronym for  Financial independence retire early.  Cool ?  Yes it is!! Join us to hear a little about Alynns journey to getting pregnant, & a pretty simple  way to figure out your budget for maternity leave! .Alynn Godfroy is a graduate of the University of Windsor where shecompleted her Honours Bachelor of Commerce degree. She ownsGodfroy Financial Management Ltd., and has been a Financial Plannerfor 18 years, holding designations as a Certified Executive Advisor,Certified Life Underwriter, Elder Planning Counsellor and MasterFinancial Planner.She is happily married with a 3-year-old toddler, 4 stepchildren and theauthor of “Why You Need a Financial Advisor.”Alynn was a Rotarian for 11 years and served as the President of theRotary Club of Belle River and is currently the Charter President of thearea's newest club, the Rotary Club of Windsor-Walkerville. She hasparticipated in volunteer missions to Venezuela where doctors andnurses performed cleft lip and cleft palate surgeries. Alynn has alsobeen to Ghana three times helping to renovate two schools and ahealth clinic.Alynn just completed 7 years as a board member of Community LivingWindsor where she was the Treasurer of their board.You can find out more about Alynn on her website www.godfroyfinancialgroup.com Website | Instagram
Canadian Olympic Athlete Melissa Bishop
May 13 2021
Canadian Olympic Athlete Melissa Bishop
Melissa Bishop Nriagu is a Canadian Professional Athlete from Eaganville Ontario,  she is a  2 time Olympic Athlete for the 800 metre distance.  She is only the 3rd woman to achieve a time under 2:00 minutes and is currently the record holder for this distance at an amazing time of 1:57.01.  Melissa is here to talk about Training and Exercise during pregnancy, as well as Postpartum.  We discuss the fact that no matter what other women have experienced or professionals say is typical, this may not be the journey for you.  Pregnant women often hear mixed information about what physical activity is safe or dangerous during pregnancy and when you SHOULD feel like exercising postpartum.   Melissa share’s with us that no matter how much you know and plan for - Your body sometimes doesn't respond the way you think it will.   We share Melissa’s journey of training during pregnancy and her path of finding the right professionals to guide her while keeping her baby girl Corinne safe.  We talk about returning to postpartum training and how that looked for her.  How would training during Covid look and attempting to qualify when there are no races and a very touchy topic of the lack of Maternity leave for Canadian Professional Athletes. You can find out more about Melissa Bishop Nriagu at this link and don't forget to follow her journey in this years Olympics in Tokyo.  GO CANADA!https://olympic.ca/team-canada/melissa-bishop/Website | Instagram
Nour Hachem-Fawaz - VBAC story of baby girl Alayna
May 3 2021
Nour Hachem-Fawaz - VBAC story of baby girl Alayna
Giving birth carries a lot of emotions for families, and moms sometimes have difficulty processing all of these feelings and emotions if they feel they didn't have a birth with choices.  Today we are talking to Nour Hachem Fawaz as she dives into her first birth that ended with a cesarean delivery and the feelings she had postnatal that she felt were connected to her feelings about her body and birthing team.  We discuss how different that looked with her second birth, where she felt supported and empowered to birth with choices and in control.  Even while birthing during a pandemic, developing cholestasis during pregnancy, building a team that supports your wishes, she felt like she was in control.  Nour expresses that when you get what you need during the birth process how it can change your physiological thoughts towards your mothering journey. Nour and the host share an intimate conversation about her journey through motherhood, Postpartum depression and the struggle that comes with all of it.  Note: There is a lot of crying and laughing during this episode but in no way shape of form are we laughing at the seriousness of these very intimate topics. You can find access to the beautiful Nour and her leadership role with being an advocate for women in skilled trades through her website  www.webuildadream.com . Nour also has her own podcast and you can find it under the name Perfectly Unfiltered. Website | Instagram