Relationships Revisited

Elazar Bloom, LMFT

A therapist's take on the intersection between Torah wisdom, attachment theory, and neuroscience to empower couples, parents, and individuals in their relationships. As a spouse, parent, or within your own soul, this podcast will offer you skills and perspectives that can help you become more confident, aware and fulfilled in the "space between". IG: Instagram.com/relationships_revisited Comments/Questions: eb@elazarbloom.com read less

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WHO this podcast is for and HOW it can help you in your Relationships.

Episodes

Shame Resistant Families and Communities

Shame Resistant Families and Communities

Shame resisitant communities are possible. Let's move in that direction. Daily IG Reels @relationships_revisited

Parenting - The Difference Between Validation and Permission

Parenting - The Difference Between Validation and Permission

Validation is essential to creating a secure bond with your child. How to prevent validation from becoming permissive parenting. Daily IG Reels @relationships_revisited

Couples - THE Skill All Couples Need

Couples - THE Skill All Couples Need

Every successful relationship learns how to do this well. Learn what it is and why. Daily IG Reels @relationships_revisited

Couples - Is the Wedding Night a Waste?

Couples - Is the Wedding Night a Waste?

Are we setting couples up for false expectations and failure? Why does the wedding night seem so disconnected from the rest of the relationship? Daily IG reels @relationships_revisited

Couples - Can One Person Fix the Relationship?

Couples - Can One Person Fix the Relationship?

Can I work on myself enough so that my relationship will automatically improve as well? Daily IG Reels @relationships_revisited

Embracing "Not Enough"

Embracing "Not Enough"

Raise your hand if you sometimes feel "not enough". This is not a bug, it's a feature. Use it to reveal the deepest unity. Daily IG reels @relationships_revisited

Couples - How to Create the Best Story of "US"

Couples - How to Create the Best Story of "US"

The story of our relationship is co-created by us. By giving attention to specific moments we can begin to tell a story of safety, security and loving support. Daily IG Reels @Relationships_Revisited

Parenting - Honoring you is good for your children

Parenting - Honoring you is good for your children

We may be uncomfortable with the honor and respect the Torah requires our children to give us. Here's why it's important for THEM. Daily IG reels @relationships_revisited

Hashem Gets Your Vulnerabilities

Hashem Gets Your Vulnerabilities

In reaching to us individually and as a nation, Hashem engages in the relationship with attention and care for OUR world and vulnerabilities. Daily IG reels @relationships_revisited

Couples - The Attachment Dilemma (and the solution)

Couples - The Attachment Dilemma (and the solution)

Understand why you and your person get painfully stuck. Discover what can be done. Daily IG Reels - @Relationships_Revisited

No Suffering Left Behind

No Suffering Left Behind

Trauma is only fully healed when it is transformed. Daily IG reels @relationships_revisited

Couples - The Therapist You Need is Inside You

Couples - The Therapist You Need is Inside You

The inner, master therapist that can compassionatley heal you and your relationship. Daily FB and IG Reels @Relationships_Revisited

Parenting - How to Teach Empathy

Parenting - How to Teach Empathy

Empathy is a crucial human capacity. Many children struggle with it. Not to worry - it CAN be taught. Here are a few suggestions to get you started. (Shemot)

Trauma 2 Step - Producing Fruit in Disowned Pain

Trauma 2 Step - Producing Fruit in Disowned Pain

The names Joseph gives his sons, born in the land where he was sent to be a slave, give us an insight into how we naturally respond to trauma and the ultimate goal of healing it. Daily FB and IG reels @relationships_revisited

Parenting - Gift Your Child the Power of Perspective

Parenting - Gift Your Child the Power of Perspective

Help your child regulate her experience with the power of perspective (Vayigash) Daily FB & IG Reels @Relationships_Revisited

Couples - Why it's so hard to thank your wife.

Couples - Why it's so hard to thank your wife.

Gratitude is superglue for relationships. Still, many of us find it challenging. Here is the deeper reason why and what to do about it. Daily Reels on FB and IG @relationshipsrevisited

No Matter What Don't Disconnect

No Matter What Don't Disconnect

A template for how to respond to our most challenging situations. Daily IG and FB reels @relationships_revisited

Parenting - The Courage to Stop Sharing Your Scars

Parenting - The Courage to Stop Sharing Your Scars

Intergenerational transmission of trauma happens automatically unless... (Vayeshev) Daily IG and FB Reels @Relationships_Revisited

Couples - Elevate the Quality of Your Love

Couples - Elevate the Quality of Your Love

How could the same verb "love" describe both the lowest and loftiest of inclinations? The answer and why the answer is so important in this episode. Daily FB and IG reels @relationships_revisited

Parenting -You're Good, What You Did Was Not.

Parenting -You're Good, What You Did Was Not.

How to respond to your child's misbehaving (Vayishlach) Daily FB and IG Reels @Relationships_Revisited