The echoes of our hard-won victory for marriage equality in Australia still resound vibrantly in our hearts, and today, I, Cris Stevens-Todd, am thrilled to take you through the emotional and historical pilgrimage that led us to this monumental achievement. Listen as we revisit the cascading effects of Ontario's same-sex marriage legislation and the subsequent Australian endeavors that culminated in the landmark Marriage Amendment (Definition and Religious Freedoms) Act 2017. Feel the pulse of early activism, the swift legislative countermeasures to overseas same-sex marriages, and join us in celebrating the advocates who blazed trails towards justice and love, including Jackie and my dear friend, Jason, the wedding celebrant who graced my own union.As we wrap up Joy's summer program with this introspective journey, we not only recount the poignant milestones of this fight but also share candid, personal reflections of the days leading to and following the public's overwhelming endorsement of equality. From the gut-wrenching $80 million survey to the rush of joy on the day the results were announced, we explore the intimate and public dimensions of a battle that drew communities together and legalized love in its truest form. Experience the transformative power of this historical moment and its personal significance, including the process of unifying our family under one name, as we bid farewell to this season and eagerly await the stories and celebrations we're set to bring in upcoming episodes.Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

Get ready to be dazzled by the sequins of storytelling and the power of inclusivity, as we unfold the magic of Drag Storytime in our latest podcast episode. Imagine a world where our little ones flip through the pages of acceptance and self-expression, where the colorful world of drag isn't just for nightclubs but also for nurturing young minds. We're pulling back the curtain to reveal how this beautiful symmetry between drag and literacy is igniting a cultural shift, amidst the glittering backdrop of our Out in the Open festival and the heartwarming tale of "Granddad's Life."Yet, not every chapter in this story is written with a fairy-tale ending. With an open heart, we confront the challenges and backlash that these trailblazing events face. From protests to heated debates down under in Australia, the path to change is often met with resistance. But as we share poignant stories and the resilience of the community that stands by love and diversity, we also witness the unwavering spirit of those who dare to make a difference. Join us, with or without your tiara, as we celebrate the heroes in heels reading to our future generations.Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

As we opened the door to a world where two dads awaited the arrival of their daughter, the Canadian winter presented a backdrop as crisp and fresh as our new beginning. Embarking on this heartfelt surrogacy journey, we prepared for the emotional whirlwind of setting up a nursery and coordinating travel plans, all while maintaining the vibrant rhythm of our active life. The nursery was more than a room; it was a labor of love, a space filled with dreams and the echo of laughter yet to come. Our story takes you through the unique anticipation of parenthood without a physical pregnancy and the unforgettable moment of meeting our surrogate, whose baby bump signaled the imminent arrival of our newest family member.Welcoming baby Fletcher into the world wasn't just about the birth—it was about the community and support that surrounded us. We delve into the joyous complexities of settling into our temporary Canadian home, celebrating a second birthday for our surrogate's son, and navigating the Canadian healthcare system with the warmth of midwives and doulas. Fletcher's arrival was serene, in the tranquil waters of home, a moment captured in time and shared with listeners, seeking to paint the picture of this profound experience through words and images.As we wrapped Fletcher in blankets and ourselves in coats, we realized that parenting wasn't just about adapting to our child; it was about integrating her into the tapestry of our lives. The community embraced Fletcher, the unexpected adventures of international travel with a newborn brought laughter amid chaos, and our efforts to foster independence and resilience in our daughter shone through each shared story. Join us as we reflect on the transformative power of parenthood, the respect for diverse life choices, and the unbounded joy our journey continues to bring.Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

Embarking on the road to parenthood, my partner Damien and I faced a labyrinth of emotions and decisions, a journey that's as unique as it is universal. For anyone who has dared to dream of a family that's a little different, a little brighter, step into our story of love, legacy, and the lengths we'd go to bring our daughter into the world. Our intimate exploration unravels the tapestry of our ten-year quest, weaving through the trials of surrogacy laws across borders, the ethical quandaries we grappled with, and the financial hurricanes we weathered on salaries that were anything but grand.Join us as we recount the heart-wrenching moments of selecting an egg donor and the groundbreaking 'glue' procedure that offered a beacon of hope during our IVF trials. Feel the tension in the silence before the pregnancy test, the euphoria of a positive result, and the tempered joy in sharing our news. As we stand at the threshold of a new chapter, our narrative invites you to celebrate the remarkable and often invisible triumphs of LGBTIQA+ parenting, offering a candid lens into the transformative power of love and perseverance.Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

Ever found yourself reminiscing about the "good old days" of dating, only to realize that a decade ago, swiping right was just a weird gesture, not a way to find love? Join me, Cris Stevens Todd, as I take you on a hilarious and heartfelt journey through my dating scene, from the days of MySpace mix-ups to the era of app-induced anxiety. It's a rollercoaster ride of tattoo-related tragedies, stained-glass shower shenanigans, and the profound growth that emerges from the mishaps of young love.This time on Out Loud, we're peeling back the curtain on the private, peculiar, and sometimes perilous world of modern romance. Sit back and let the stories unfold—from the Melbourne hotel room that became a crucible of heartbreak to the unexpected message that led me to the man I would marry. It's a candid celebration of where we’ve been, the loves we've lost, and the strange, serendipitous experiences that guide us to where we’re meant to be. No guests, just me, my memories, and the myriad of ways love has a habit of surprising us all.Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

Join us on a journey that reaches back in time to the pivotal Stonewall Riots, and travels forward through Australia's unique queer history. We guarantee this episode is a treasure trove of lesser-known facts, key moments, and individuals who have championed the rights of the LG BTI QA Plus community. We'll share with you how the ripple effects of Stonewall have echoed across the globe, and how local heroes have shaped Victorian history for the better. We'll indulge in untold stories of brave activists, like Rodney Croom, who pushed for the decriminalization of homosexuality in Tasmania, and others like Ro Alan , Alex Greenwich, and Ali Hogg whose efforts have shaped the present and future of our community. Hear our personal connections to these remarkable individuals, and how their tireless work has influenced us. We promise an inspiring journey of resilience, courage and unyielding dedication that redefines the very essence of activism.But it's not all serious history and activism. We'll also joyfully celebrate those unsung heroes who have added color and vibrancy to Australia's queer culture. Their names may not be in every history book, but their contributions are felt every day. By the end of this episode, you'll have a newfound appreciation for these tireless advocates who have shaped our community and continue to pave the way for a more inclusive future. So join us, as we take pride in our past, honor our present, and look forward to a future where everyone is celebrated for who they are.Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

Remember when Ellen DeGeneres famously came out on her TV show back in 1997? That moment sparked a revolution in how queer characters are depicted in popular media. I'm your host, Cris Stevens Todd, inviting you to join me on a nostalgic journey, as we explore the transformation in queer representation from ground breaking shows like "Will and Grace" to contemporary narratives found in "Queer as Folk" and "Brokeback Mountain." This episode promises a deep dive into the portrayal of our community in TV, films, and books and the impact it's had on acceptance and visibility.The landscape of queer representation has evolved, and with it, our understanding of queer life and relationships. From the raw depiction of living with HIV in "Queer as Folk" to the unspoken love in "Holding the Man," these narratives have played an irreplaceable role in shaping our identities and experiences. We also delve into the Bendigo Queer Film Festival, where we discovered the recurring theme of melancholic endings in queer cinema - a trend that we're eager to see change. We want our stories to be told in all their vibrancy and diversity, and without the overshadowing of tragedy.Lastly, we address a theme that's close to our hearts - the depiction of diverse families in shows. I share my personal experiences growing up without such representation and express gratitude for today's changing times. The media has the power to shape young minds, and it's crucial that they portray various types of families to promote acceptance and understanding. So, come along, as we delve into the power of representation and its potential to change society. Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new

We're sharing the raw, unfiltered journey of coming out with our host, Cris Stevens-Todd. Cris bravely peels back the layers of his personal struggles, from accepting his sexuality as a teenager, facing bullying, to the whirlwind of internal conflicts. His enlightening tale shines a beacon on the unique hurdles LGBTQ+ folks vault over when coming out. Moreover, it's a testament to the power of acceptance, understanding, and robust support networks.Our episode also trails through broader struggles individuals wrestle with as they grapple to understand and embrace their identities. Cris weaves a compelling narrative about their health struggles, a lightning bolt of self-discovery, and an enlightening journey that helps them understand their sexuality. We also unmask Cris struggles with coming out, highlighting a traumatic event that catapulted him to live his truth. It's an eye-opener - the emotional roller coaster ride that coming out is, the symbolism of self-acceptance, and the vital role that a supportive environment plays in this delicate process. Embark on this journey with us, discover real stories, and let's talk about acceptance, love, and identity.Switchboard Victoria https://www.switchboard.org.au/Support the Show.Cris Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cris_stevenstodd/?hl=enBecome a show supporter by subscribing https://www.buzzsprout.com/2279103/supporters/new