The OCD & Anxiety Podcast

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The Alter Ego of Self-Compassion: Self-Judgement
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The Alter Ego of Self-Compassion: Self-Judgement
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 396 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. As summer begins, Robert offers insights into managing OCD and anxiety, especially during this season. If you're struggling, you can book a free session via his website. In this episode, Robert delves into the concept of self-judgment, which he identifies as the alter ego of self-compassion. He explains how self-judgment can derail our efforts to manage OCD and anxiety, emphasizing the importance of addressing this habit. Drawing inspiration from a quote by meditation teacher and psychologist Tara Brach, Robert discusses how recognizing and not feeding into self-judgment can help us stop feeling unworthy and make progress in overcoming OCD. Robert provides practical advice on how to deal with self-judgment, such as being aware of imperative statements like "should" and "must," and adopting a playful attitude towards the inner critic. He also suggests techniques for observing negative thoughts without getting lost in them, fostering a habit of self-compassion that is crucial for managing OCD effectively. For more insights and tips, follow Robert on Instagram at @robertjamescoachinguk and listen to the podcast on YouTube. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
The Conviction To Be Uncertain & Not Taking The OCD Bait
3d ago
The Conviction To Be Uncertain & Not Taking The OCD Bait
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 395 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, hosted by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the crucial concept of embracing uncertainty as a way to combat OCD. Robert discusses how OCD often lures us into a trap by making us crave absolute certainty, which in turn keeps us stuck in a cycle of compulsions and anxiety. Drawing from personal experiences and professional insights, Robert explains the importance of accepting the inherent uncertainties of life. He offers practical advice on how to develop conviction in uncertainty, allowing us to break free from the grip of OCD. By learning to live with a bit of uncertainty, we can open ourselves up to a more meaningful and fulfilling life. If you find this episode helpful, don't forget to follow and like on Instagram, check out the podcast on YouTube, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Enjoy the episode Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
A Chat With Researcher Dr. Maitre About The Impact Of The Environment On Mental Health
1w ago
A Chat With Researcher Dr. Maitre About The Impact Of The Environment On Mental Health
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 394 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! Today, we're taking you to the beautiful Montseny Mountains near Barcelona for a fascinating discussion with Dr. Metra, a researcher at IS Global. In this episode, we delve into the profound effects of the environment on mental health, particularly focusing on the impact of urban living and the importance of green spaces. We explore how early life conditions, even those experienced in utero, can have lasting effects on brain development and mental health. Dr. Metra shares insights into pollutants like lead and their links to conditions such as ADHD, and provides practical advice for those living in cities to improve their mental well-being. The conversation also touches on the critical role of the gut biome in mental health, emphasizing the benefits of a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and nuts. Join us for this enlightening episode and learn how both nature and nutrition can play a vital role in managing anxiety and improving overall mental health Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
An In-depth Exploration of OCD's Causes
May 18 2024
An In-depth Exploration of OCD's Causes
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 392 of "The OCD and Anxiety Podcast", where we delve deep into understanding the causes of OCD. By knowing the root causes, we can be more optimistic about potential strategies we can adapt to manage, and perhaps overcome, this disorder. In this comprehensive discussion, we navigate through biological factors, genetics, chemical imbalances, psychological factors, social triggers, and even work environments. Our journey to understanding begins with a look at brain structures and how the brains of people with OCD show measurable differences compared to those without. These differences can be traced back to a higher flow of oxygenated blood to certain areas, indicating high levels of worrying characteristic of OCD. As we try to determine the hereditary nature of these differences, we move onto our second stop: genetic factors. Despite the emphasis on locating specific risk genes, the complex interplay between learned behaviours and the environment could also contribute to the development of OCD. The role of chemical imbalances, specifically serotonin, comes next. It might not be the root cause, but serotonin appears instrumental in maintaining OCD signs, highlighting potential treatment ways. Our understanding is further sharpened as we dive into psychological aspects, where behavioral theories, cognitive theories, mindfulness & acceptance commitment therapy each play their crucial part. The role of depression and personality traits in exacerbating OCD also warrants mention here. Lastly, we explore social factors. How everyday stress or major life events can trigger OCD in the predisposed, how OCD can strain relationships, causing more stress and feelings of isolation, and even how it can affect work productivity. If you're grappling with OCD or anxiety and interested in a free session, head over to my website robertjamescoaching.com to book one. Join me in this insightful episode and remember, with the right support and help, it is possible to manage OCD more effectively. Change your experience of OCD today! References •Beyond OCD. (2013). Clinical Definition of OCD. https://beyondocd.org/information-for-individuals/clinical-definition-of-ocd •Caleb, W.L., Challis, C., Pelling, N. (January 2008). The biopsychosocial aspects of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder: A primer for practitioners. Australian Counselling Association Journal. 8(1). 3-13. •Center for Disease Control. (July 2023). Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder in Children. United States Government. https://www.cdc.gov/childrensmentalhealth/ocd.html •National Institute of Mental Health. (2024). Obsessive-compulsive disorder. United States Government. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd •OCD UK. (2024). What Causes OCD. https://www.ocduk.org/ocd/what-causes-ocd/   Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
A Chat About Trauma, OCD & Anxiety With Hypnotherapist  Jenni Bell
May 15 2024
A Chat About Trauma, OCD & Anxiety With Hypnotherapist Jenni Bell
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   In episode 391 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the powerful realm of hypnotherapy with our guest, Jenni Bell. As an experienced hypnotherapist who specializes in addiction recovery and reshaping relationships with food, Jenni shares her personal journey of struggling with anxiety and PTSD and how it led her to a fulfilling career in hypnotherapy. Drawing from thought leaders in the field like Gabor Maté and Joe Dispenza, she offers unique insights into the beneficial aspects of hypnotherapy for anxiety and OCD. Listeners gain a comprehensive understanding of techniques used in hypnotherapy, such as regression, that can help address underlying traumas often associated with anxiety disorders. Jenni brings light to the harsh realities of childhood trauma, emphasizing how the human mind can often exaggerate threats perceived during our formative years. Hear about the shortcomings of traditional responses to trauma and her exploration into alternative therapies like NLP and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). This episode covers Jenni's extraordinary journey full of insights on managing anxiety, the workings of hypnotherapy, and its potential in reshaping your relationship with anxiety. This high impact discussion is packed with practical advice and encouragement for anyone on a path to better mental health, be they a patient, a professional, or a loved one of someone battling anxiety disorders. For those keen on exploring hypnotherapy as part of their healing journey, Jenni Bell welcomes interactive conversations. Reach out via her website: https://www.jennibell.co.uk Via Social: https://www.facebook.com/JenniBellHypnotherapyRTT/ https://www.instagram.com/jennibell.hypno Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. -In this episode the guest speaks about her personal opinions on medication. If you are thinking about changing your medication or stopping, always speak with your doctor first before doing anything.
OCD & Making Up For Lost Time
May 11 2024
OCD & Making Up For Lost Time
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 390 of 'The OCD and Anxiety Podcast' by Robert James Coaching. In today's episode, we explore the impactful role of time in our lives, particularly when trying to manage and overcome disorders such as OCD and anxiety. Together, we look at how to make up for 'lost time', focusing on the resentment and frustration that may arise from believing that these disorders have stolen key moments from our lives. However, it's vital to remember that focusing on the past too much can prevent us from enjoying the present and blight our future. This podcast emphasizes the importance of managing our perspective, especially when dealing with mental health issues such as OCD and anxiety. It emphasizes resilience, positivity, and a growth mindset, along with practical techniques such as postponement and exposure. Remember, being present in our lives, even when anxiety and uncertainty are present, can open the door to beautiful, unforgettable memories. In this episode, we learn how to do just that. We learn to acknowledge our past struggles without allowing them to dictate our future experiences. We also consider the damaging effects of perfectionism and how we can temper it for a healthier, more balanced life. It’s about appreciating life’s moments as they come, letting go of the need for 'perfect' experiences. Join us for an engaging and insightful examination of time, living in the present, and learning to navigate anxiety and OCD in a healthy and positive manner Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Why Waiting To Feel Better Before Taking Action Can Keep You Stuck In OCD
May 8 2024
Why Waiting To Feel Better Before Taking Action Can Keep You Stuck In OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 389 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, your reliable source shedding light on how to positively cope with anxiety disorders. Guided by our experienced host, it offers invaluable insights on reclaiming your life from the clutches of fear. This episode underscores the need for action against OCD and Anxiety, pointing out the trap many fall into as they wait for perfect circumstances before pushing ahead. Drawing from Pablo Picasso's wisdom, we illustrate how action dismantles OCD's dominion over us, using Tony Robbins' endorsement of "massive determined actions". We also caution against compulsions that provide temporary relief but reinforce OCD's hold. The call to action is for you to delve into your fears and start leading a life controlled by your choices, not anxiety. We emphasize the urgency of tackling OCD, not delaying due to discomfort, but instead learning to accept anxiety as a normal, manageable facet of life. We delve deeper into Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), an effective cognitive-behavioral approach that empowers individuals to live with uncomfortable thoughts and feelings. The essence of ACT lies in freeing oneself from the necessity to eradicate distress before taking action. We further explore the effectiveness of exposure work, another cognitive-behavioral technique aimed at building the capacity to confront challenging emotions intentionally. This episode presents insightful perspectives on how ACT and exposure work can help OCD sufferers not merely cope but thrive despite distressing situations. Leveraging insights from Steven Pressfield's 'The War of Art,' we elucidate the concept of resistance in the context of OCD, emphasizing the importance of altering our view of resistance from barrier to catalyst. We extend advice and encouragement to those yearning to escape the OCD-induced cycle of rumination and progress towards an anxiety-managed life. Whether you are grappling with OCD or keen on understanding it, this episode equips you with practical tips and techniques that can foster personal development and resilience Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Brain Shift - A Conversation About Chronic Stress & Wellness With Dr. Romie Mushtaq
May 4 2024
Brain Shift - A Conversation About Chronic Stress & Wellness With Dr. Romie Mushtaq
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 388 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. Learn from expert, Dr. Romie, a board-certified physician with over two decades of experience in integrative medicine, mindfulness, and neurology. Discover her award-winning program, 'Brain Shift', aimed at improving mental health and developing a culture of wellness. In this episode, we explore maintaining stress, navigating life's challenges, battling burnout, defining success, cultivating optimism, and more. Dr. Romie Mushtaq is a board-certified physician who brings together more than two decades of leadership in neurology, integrative medicine, and mindfulness. She is an award-winning speaker working with Fortune 500 companies, professional athletes, & global associations. Her brainSHIFT programs improve mental well-being and help to build a culture of wellness. Dr. Romie serves as Chief Wellness Officer for Great Wolf Resorts. Her expertise is featured in the national media, such as NPR, NBC, TED talks, and Forbes. Her first book, "The Busy Brain Cure" is being published by Harper Collins in January 2024. You can learn more at drromie.com or join the brainSHIFT movement @drromie on social media. Unveil the concept of the 'busy brain', a state of hyperactivity due to chronic neuroinflammation leading to adult-onset ADHD, anxiety, and insomnia. Learn about the importance of balanced hormone levels, markers of inflammation, role of sleep, and 'Brain Shift Protocol'. Gain insights into understanding your body's cry for help and steps to regain control over mental and physical well-being. Find out about the power of self-compassion and its effect on calming an overactive mind and nurturing mental health. Dr. Romi provides tips on how to replace anxiety and fear with hope for compassionate interactions towards self and others. Also, glance into the spiritual element in the journey towards mental wellness and its role in healing. For individuals battling with anxiety, OCD, or a busy brain, this episode presents a comforting reminder that you're not alone. Listen to gain reassurance, hope, and practical advice. Take the first step into your journey of transformation – from a busy brain to a calm, focused mind Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Having Patience About The Impatience To Improve From OCD
May 1 2024
Having Patience About The Impatience To Improve From OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 387 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! As we near our 400th episode, we're taking a look at patience and our relationship to it, especially when dealing with complex challenges like obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Inspired by our coach Robert James, we are going to explore various ways we can cultivate patience and turn frustrating setbacks into opportunities for growth. This episode delves deep into the often turbulent journey of dealing with OCD. We'll talk about the highs and lows that come with the disorder, how to manage impatience during recovery, and the importance of acknowledging setbacks as a normal part of progress. We'll also touch on vital strategies, such as exercising self-compassion and understanding the unpredictability of life. Often, when we're making progress with OCD, it seems like triggers increase rather than decrease. This could be our brain trying to lead us back to old, familiar habits. Recognizing and resisting this can be crucial in smoothly navigating the path to recovery. The episode also explores this phenomenon, drawing insights from acceptance commitment therapy, exposure work, and the teachings of Carl Jung. As we journey through this discussion, you'll learn how to cultivate patience effectively. By accepting the challenging emotions that come with setbacks and resisting the urge to feed our frustrations, we can actually come out stronger and more determined to fight OCD. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion that aims to empower you with practical tools and the mindset you need to combat impatience and setbacks in your journey with OCD. Start living the life you choose, not the one chosen by your fears. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
How Judgment Can Make OCD Worse
Apr 27 2024
How Judgment Can Make OCD Worse
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 386 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, the show that provides insight, positivity, and empowerment for dealing with anxiety disorders, brought to you by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the powerful role that judgment plays in intensifying the symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). We shine a light on the destructive impact of our inner critic, revealing how it feeds on our self-esteem and propels us into a cycle of negative self-judgments. We uncover the nature of the inner critic as a part of our psyche, one that does not reason or empathize but instead instigates attacks and criticism. Take a journey with us into the realm of the inner critic and its relationship with self-esteem. Embrace the realization that while the inner critic might make us feel vulnerable, we can learn to release judgment and permit acceptance to evolve. Get clarity on the illusion of control associated with OCD and dispel a few common misconceptions about self-esteem and OCD. With insightful advice and pragmatic strategies at your fingertips, this episode is a valuable guide for anyone dealing with OCD or trying to comprehend their internal dialogue better. By the end of this episode, you will understand that the journey isn't about eliminating the inner critic but fostering a healthier relationship with it. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle. Boosting Self-Esteem Amidst Social Media Pressure and Judgment In today's episode, we also explore the unsettling influence of social media on self-esteem. Given our age of constant online sharing, we live in an era where people frequently showcase their best moments or traits, painting an artificial portrait of continuous happiness and success. This portrayal inevitably leads to comparisons and self-judgment, skewing our self-perception in a negative light. Compounded by a consumerist culture that ties fulfillment and happiness to material possessions, we dissect how these projected expectations and social comparisons give rise to anxiety disorders like OCD. We underscore the importance of self-compassion and awareness amid these superficial societal expectations, and how journaling can prove to be a useful tool for introspection. Useful resources and free sessions are available on our website to assist you in navigating through these emotional challenges. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Holding Your Head Up High: Navigating OCD With Confidence
Apr 24 2024
Holding Your Head Up High: Navigating OCD With Confidence
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. The aim of this podcast is to encourage individuals who are battling with anxiety disorders, specifically Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), and equip them with tools to have a more positive approach towards their conditions and the confidence to start living the life they choose. In today's podcast, we discuss a rather challenging topic - navigating OCD with confidence. Many times, people struggling with OCD and anxiety fail to maintain their confidence, hence, making it harder for them to manage their disorders.Regardless, it is crucial to build and maintain a positive outlook and inner strength to overcome adversity just as Helen Keller and many others did. We understand that taking on the challenge of OCD requires resolve, resilience, and inner strength. Therefore, this episode stresses the importance of practicing different therapy techniques such as exposure work, acceptance commitment therapy, and building confidence in oneself. Included are inspirational quotes, personal experiences, and plausible solutions to keep you motivated and hopeful. We assure you that no matter what stage of life you are in, maintaining balance in all areas of life is crucial. When life is interesting, you are less likely to get caught up in anxious thoughts. Also, being compassionate to oneself goes hand-in-hand with the quest to gain more confidence while navigating OCD. Whether or not you are successful in initially building this confidence, it is okay. What's important is that you do not stop trying. Eventually, with time, it will get easier and hopefully tell positively on managing the OCD. Remember, you can always reach out for a free session. Just head to the website www.robertjamescoaching.com and leave a message. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Understanding OCD: Why Some People Are More Prone and The Hope For Change
Apr 20 2024
Understanding OCD: Why Some People Are More Prone and The Hope For Change
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 384 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. Today, I'll be discussing the topic of why some individuals seem to be more inclined towards developing OCD and obsessive behaviour. In this episode, I delve into the concept of 'nature versus nurture,' explaining how both genetics and environmental influences play crucial roles in predisposing us to OCD and anxiety disorders. I shed light on the complexities of OCD, emphasising how our daily lifestyle, surrounding environment, and level of childhood trauma can contribute to our nervous systems becoming more sensitive and anxious. I also explore the fascinating subject of epigenetics. This emerging field of science studies how our behaviours and environment can trigger changes that affect the way our genes work, which can sometimes be passed on to future generations. It offers a hopeful outlook for those of us wrestling with OCD, as it suggests the power of our environment to switch on or off certain genetic tendencies. And while it's crucial to acknowledge our inherited dispositions towards anxious thinking, it's equally essential to remember that our destiny is not fixed. A key focus of the podcast is the message of hope. I believe that, regardless of how long you've been struggling with OCD or how deeply rooted your fears may seem, you can change the narrative. OCD may feel like a trap, but through acknowledgement, acceptance, informed strategies, and sustained practice, you can shift behaviour patterns, attain emotional resilience, and alter your nervous system responses. Join me in this episode for an enlightening discussion on OCD, its underlying causes, and the hope for transformation despite its challenges Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Try This When OCD Strikes
Apr 17 2024
Try This When OCD Strikes
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 383 of The OCD & Anxiety Podcast where we dive into the complexities of living with OCD and anxiety. In this episode, we begin by recognizing the daily struggles one faces when dealing with these disorders, and provide an easy way to access free support through robertjamescoaching.com. Diving into our main topic, we discuss how difficult it can be when your OCD catches you off guard. In those moments, it feels more natural to give in to obsessions, performing rituals or compulsions, and ultimately gets stuck in an unproductive cycle. Throughout this episode, we take a closer look at resisting these impulses and rather focusing on accepting discomfort rather than pushing it away. We also delve into the idea that OCD is often a way to suppress difficult emotions such as fear, anxiety, anger, guilt, and shame. People with OCD tend to push these feelings away, but we suggest a new approach of allowing these feelings to rise, acknowledging them and learning from the experience. We also discuss the concept of viewing OCD triggers more as challenges instead of threats and focusing more on overcoming them. In this episode, we introduce the concept of a 10 to 30 second rule to slowdown when experiencing a trigger. This means paying direct attention to the feeling of anxiety, not judging or pushing it away, but instead curiously observing the experience. Through this method, we encourage listeners to change their relationship with these difficult emotions to navigate these unexpected triggers better. As always, we wrap the episode with a reminder of our offer of a free session from robertjamescoaching.com and ensure listeners that the information in the podcast is for informational purposes only, and is not intended to be a substitute for actual medical or mental health advice. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Should You TryTo Eliminate Or Master Anxiety?
Apr 13 2024
Should You TryTo Eliminate Or Master Anxiety?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 382 of "The OCD and Anxiety Podcast" where we offer insights into having a healthy relationship with anxiety disorders. We delve into whether the goal should be to completely eliminate anxiety or master it, with the emphasis leaning towards mastering anxiety as a more beneficial long-term approach. Anxiety is a natural, human sensation that has been with us since birth. It's challenging to truly eliminate it, but learning to manage or 'master' this emotion can lead to a more fulfilling life. Anxiety shouldn't always be interpreted as negative. Sometimes, it can be a trigger, signalling us to step out from our comfort zones and challenge ourselves, aiding personal growth. The episode discusses the importance of exposure work that allows us to practice and become familiar with experiencing discomfort. This understanding provides a positive light to anxiety, showing that it isn't necessarily a sign that things are going wrong, but rather, an invitation to explore our limits and learn more about ourselves. Whether it be public speaking, relationships or other fear-inducing situations, managing anxiety demands patience, acceptance and compassion towards the discomfort we experience. The idea isn’t to eliminate anxiety but to co-exist with it, acknowledging its presence without letting it dominate our lives. Particular stress is laid on the fact that while it's great to relax sometimes, we shouldn't always aim for constant calmness. Instead, the emphasis should be on how to manage those anxious feelings effectively, navigate through them and become stronger for it. Please remember to consult with a mental health professional when you're dealing with issues related to OCD or anxiety. A professional can guide you better through the process and ensure you handle these emotions safely. Tune in to the podcast to broaden your perspective on anxiety and OCD and begin the journey to reclaim control over your fears Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sustainable Growth For A Life With Less OCD
Apr 10 2024
Sustainable Growth For A Life With Less OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 381 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching, a platform geared towards establishing a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders. This episode is designed to help you reclaim control over your life and veer away from the course charted by your fears. Our topic for today's discussion is the key to rendering patient and sustainable growth from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Together, we will unpack successful strategies to maintain progress, manage setbacks, and preserve any gains achieved throughout your journey. The goal is to foster an increasingly peaceful future and a lifestyle free of the reins of OCD. I understand that dealing with OCD is an uphill battle that demands incessant pushing against your comfort zone, the persistence to stay on track with foundational therapies such as Exposure and Acceptance Commitment Therapy, keeping up with new routines, and warding off the perilous claws of burnout. These tasks are challenging, but with the right mindset and approach, you can turn these challenges into stepping stones towards a healthier mental state. By recognizing, accepting, and responding appropriately to life's inevitable upsets—such as relationship tumults, professional disputes, or other life events—we can navigate our path to recovery effectively. Patience, self-awareness, and understanding that setbacks are part of the process can fortify our resolve in the face of adversity. This podcast episode also lays emphasis on the importance of habit formation and the pitfalls of setting too many goals simultaneously. Using the concept of sustainable atomic habits, I explain how focusing on a few small but consistent actions or routines can lead to lasting growth over time. This way, you mitigate undue stress and overwhelm, and ensure continuous personal development despite the torrents of anxiety or OCD distracting you. Finally, remember that setbacks are not fail-ends but opportunities for self-reflection, evaluation, and change in strategy. The key is not to strive for a perfect journey but for a successful one. Join me on this episode to gather more insights on overcoming OCD and living a more peaceful and joy-filled life. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
How To Be Able To Do Nothing & Still Not Ruminate
Apr 10 2024
How To Be Able To Do Nothing & Still Not Ruminate
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 379, we delve into the often overlooked importance of embracing stillness and 'doing nothing'. Often our fast-paced lives neglect the importance of these silent moments. However, learning to be at peace in stillness, without ruminating, is a crucial skill to help manage OCD and anxiety. As we further engage with this concept, an interesting correlation is drawn between OCD and boredom. The idea that the obsessive thinking tied to OCD can serve as a distraction from monotony is explored, hinting towards the possibility that OCD might be a mechanism developed to counteract boredom—a form of undisguised anxiety. The challenge of idle states for those struggling with OCD is acknowledged, but a constructive solution is offered—embracing mindfulness. By directing focus onto the present moment and grounding oneself, it can offer relaxation and relief from the cycle of thoughts. Practical tips on bringing mindfulness into these idle periods are provided, such as paying keen attention to your immediate surroundings and tuning into the senses. By focusing on what you can see, hear, smell, or touch, it keeps the attention grounded in the present moment, providing a refreshing rest from intrusive thoughts. In conclusion, the power of doing nothing is recognized as a positive coping strategy for those dealing with OCD and anxiety. However, it must be approached mindfully, ensuring that in moments of 'doing nothing', we stay connected to the present moment and grant ourselves much-needed peace from ruminating thoughts Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Understanding the Link Between Procrastination and Anxiety
Apr 6 2024
Understanding the Link Between Procrastination and Anxiety
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In the 380th episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, your host explores the often overlooked but deeply impactful link between procrastination and anxiety. This episode delves into how the struggle of putting things off and waiting for the 'perfect time' to act can exacerbate anxiety and OCD, further disrupting daily living. Discussion points include understanding anxiety-induced procrastination, identifying both obvious and non-obvious areas of procrastination in your life, and how the idea of perfectionism can often lead to avoidance and further anxiety. The conversation also spotlights the importance of acceptance and the powerful role it plays in the process of managing anxiety. The episode winds up with a valuable insight into how deflecting difficult emotions can lead to unhealthy behaviors like obsessive-compulsive tendencies and procrastination. Moreover, it highlights the benefits of getting in touch with our emotions and body sensations for a healthier approach towards dealing with anxiety. Whether you are a long-time sufferer of anxiety or OCD, or you are just beginning to explore the world of mental health, this episode offers helpful perspectives and practical steps towards understanding and dealing with procrastination linked to anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Build Self-Compassion for OCD With This Body Focused Meditation
Mar 30 2024
Build Self-Compassion for OCD With This Body Focused Meditation
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 378 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. We're here to help you build a more positive outlook on anxiety disorders and reclaim control to live the life you choose. This episode is devoted to sharing a self-compassion body focus meditation, a powerful tool that has played a significant role in my own journey with OCD. While everyone wants to live an authentic life, we often get trapped in our fears and obsessions dictated by OCD. We all yearn to let go and feel liberated from these persistent patterns. But the issue with OCD is finding ourselves stuck in our thoughts, going in circles with compulsions. The solution to this problem lies not in thinking, but in feeling—leaning into the discomfort and inviting self-compassion into our lives. Self-compassion is more than a buzzword in mental health, it's about accepting ourselves as we are, including our struggles, anxiety, and mistakes. It's a journey towards letting go of perfectionism and embracing acceptance. With this episode comes a guide to a meditation exercise that brings you into your body, focusing on the heart and breathing in a 'white light' of kindness and compassion. As you focus on this meditation, you'll feel a sense of peace and freedom from OCD, anxiety, and other thought patterns that keep you stuck. It's all about building self-compassion and acceptance, two powerful allies that can transform the way you manage your mental health. If you have any questions or need further guidance, feel free to reach out. Your journey to a healthier, happier life is just a few breaths away Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Letting Go Of OCD: The Resolve & Resilience To Make The Change
Mar 27 2024
Letting Go Of OCD: The Resolve & Resilience To Make The Change
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com   Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 377 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast. This episode tackles the challenges of OCD, the persistence to break free from the entangling mindset, and the move towards a healthier mental state. Emphasizing that letting go of OCD, albeit arduous, is not impossible and adversaries could turn into accomplishments. This episode provides encouragement and supportive words to those trying to overcome limits posed by OCD and anxiety. Drawing on personal experiences and observations, the podcast sheds light on the misconceptions about OCD and the undue judgment subjected to those suffering from it. It underscores the importance of concentrating on maintaining an inner peace, regardless of external or internal criticisms and prejudices. By tackling the often overlooked aspect of OCD- the relentless mental labor that goes behind maintaining a semblance of normality, this episode offers a profound understanding of the disorder. It underlines the extraordinary grit, determination, and tireless work individuals with OCD put in daily. As the episode evolves, it navigates the difficult road to replacing old, harmful habits with healthier coping mechanisms. It emphasizes learning to accept setbacks and mistakes as part of the recovery process rather than signs of weakness. Ultimately, this episode reassures that while hurdles exist, progress may come with detours, and life may not always be beautiful, it is still worth fighting for and living to the fullest. It encourages reorienting your focus away from perfection and towards small, consistent actions that lead to self-improvement and living in harmony with one's values. Combining understanding and empathy with real-world experience, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies to those grappling with OCD and anxiety. Join us on this journey to better mental health, a gradual but invaluable process, bringing you one step closer to living the life you want. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.