In any relationship where one partner is very entrepreneurial, whether it is the husband or the wife, it's going to require quite a bit of adjustment and understanding because it is not like every other marriage. Your marriage and my marriage are not like every other marriage.Every marriage is unique in its own way. We have our own different challenges, just like might be experiencing in yours. And so, in this episode, I want to shift a little bit from how you normally experience listening to this podcast.Here is the reason why: as you know, we have crossed over a hundred episodes.In this episode, we’re going to discuss "Love and Leadership: How to Be His Rock Without Losing Yourself." This will be primarily focused on the wife of the aspiring entrepreneurial husband. It will definitely be good for the husband to listen as well. Stay tuned and have your notes if possible.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Happier Marriage Secrets YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.com.Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

We all know the saying: "Don't say anything you'll regret later," especially during heated arguments. But in the heat of the moment, staying calm and collected can be incredibly challenging. If you've ever been there, you know exactly what I'm talking about. I certainly do.Sometimes, even as the words left my mouth, I knew I would regret them, and I felt a pang of remorse for my actions. In those intense moments, it's so easy to let emotions take control and say things we don't truly mean.After all, a moment of silence can prevent a lifetime of regret.In this episode, we’ll be discussing "Don't Let Your Emotions Control Your Marriage. Put Peace in Place." In this episode, we'll focus on the common challenges we face in our marriages and discuss the most important steps to take to address these issues.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.com.Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Ever feel like your spouse speaks a different language? Have you ever wished your spouse could just read your mind? Do you and your spouse argue more than you talk?As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Relationship Coach, I’ve encountered these issues with many couples. Most of these problems, I’ve found, could have been avoided if these spouses had grasped the approach we’ll be tackling in this episode. And hopefully, it will be true for you as well. Often, it’s not so much what we are doing that creates these issues, right? It’s more about what we are missing, what we are not doing.So, what could we possibly be missing? That’s the question we’ll be exploring.In this episode, we will be reminded to stop the mind reading, create a deeper connection, and have a more fulfilling marriage. This episode will focus on you and your spouse’s love language.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel:https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.com.Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Ever wondered what it takes to make a marriage last with divorce rates soaring and fairy tales often falling apart or falling short?It's a question many of us ponder. I remember when I first got married in 1985. It's a very long time, right? I had some questions.There were some uncertainties. We were young and just getting into life, not fully aware of what life had to offer because we were both at a place in our lives, my wife and I, where we were just trying to figure out life.And it took us quite some time to get some things right and some of that I'm sharing here in the Top 7 lessons learned in 38 years of marriage.In this episode, we’ll be discussing 7 Lessons Learned from 38 Years of Marriage You Will Thank Me For. These lessons are discussed in a way that will help you and your spouse to experience deeper connection and what I believe will help you to also have a more satisfying marriage when you choose to put some of what you’ll hear into practice.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.com. Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Ever feel like your home is always filled with tension, like a battlefield instead of a peaceful sanctuary?Do little things seem to snowball into big issues, making every day a challenge?If you've ever felt this way, you're not alone.In this episode, we're diving into how to make your marriage more peaceful with three proven practices. Whether you've tried some of these before or not, stick around to learn more and keep your marriage thriving.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.com.Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Marriage is undeniably wonderful, but let's face it, it can get a bit complicated at times, can't it?Have you ever thought about what are some of the distinguishing factors that set successful and flourishing marriages apart from the rest? What are the secrets to constructing a love that endures through time and how can one nurture it?Discovering the keys to building a relationship that not only sustains but also brings profound joy and fulfillment to both partners is something that couples who are serious about their marriages are after. Are you one of them?But here's the thing—I'm convinced that secrets exist in everything, including successful marriages. After all, success often leaves behind clues, and marriages are no exception.In today’s episode, we’ll be talking about 7 Attitudes That Are Proven To Strengthen Your Marriage and Make it Last.  So, get ready to discover what they are as we dive into the key attitudes that are proven to strengthen marriages and pave the way for a lifetime of love and happiness.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.com.Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Do you feel that sometimes, you and your spouse are two roommates, or do you feel like you're like two ships passing in the night, but never connecting? Or maybe,  you feel like your relationship is one where you wonder what's happening ... what's happening to our marriage? And you feel lonely wondering whether your spouse still loves and cares for you ...Imagine that you're having these internal conversations, lying in bed at night, perhaps by yourself, because your husband or your wife is in another room or hasn't yet come to bed and being flooded with feelings of frustration and confusion. What do you do? In this episode, we're going to tackle the Top 5 Marriage Frustrations Head-on and create a connection rather than the frustration that you're currently feeling. We're going to identify those top five frustration points and then see what we can do to close that gap. Fawn Weaver says, "The greatest marriages are built on teamwork, mutual respect, a healthy dose of admiration, and a never-ending portion of love and grace."Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Feeling like you and your spouse are operating on entirely different wavelengths is a common experience shared by many couples. When partners struggle to effectively communicate, it can lead to misunderstandings, frustration, and ultimately unhappiness in the relationship. It's important to acknowledge that many couples experience these challenges, and you're not alone if you're facing them in your relationship.Research has shown that communication issues rank among the top causes of marital dissatisfaction. When couples feel like they're constantly talking past each other, engaging in blame or shame, it creates a toxic dynamic that erodes the foundation of the relationship.Surely you probably feel the same way at times. Right? In today's episode, we're going to delve into the transformative power of communication within your marriage. We'll explore how to shift away from patterns of blaming or shaming and move towards a communication style that fosters health, support, and productivity in your relationship.By making this shift, you and your partner will unlock the potential for a deeper connection and a more fulfilling marriage.Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

What's it like for you when you feel like your husband or wife is not willing to deal with an issue? It's almost as if you're left to pretend that everything is ok, right?That can be incredibly frustrating. I know because I've been guilty of that myself in my own relationship, my own marriage, where I find that in my mind, it's easier to just do the avoidance dance.Because of what I perceive could result if we were to address the issue, I act as if everything is okay. But then you have to "walk" gently around your spouse because of that "elephant" in the room.I've noticed that it never truly fades away. Instead, we tiptoe around it, pretending as though it never existed, never occurred. This is something I've also encountered in my own marriage.So, in today's episode, we're diving deep into this crucial topic: how to stop sweeping problems under the rug, and more importantly, what proactive steps you can take instead. Don't miss out on valuable insights that could transform your relationship. Stay tuned for strategies that will empower you to foster a healthier and happier marriage!Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/startYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Have you ever come across those signs or lists indicating that your marriage is doomed, or worse, already over? It can be quite disheartening, don't you think? When experts point out these indicators, essentially telling you to accept the reality and move on, it can feel like a harsh reality check. It begs the question: What more evidence do you need to acknowledge that it's truly over?You may often sense the implication that this is what you should do.What I've observed is that when you scrutinize these experts and delve into their backgrounds, you might discover that, in some instances, they haven't had successful marriages themselves.Isn't that something you've noticed too?Of course, we want a helping hand.So in this episode, we will help you with Debunking Signs Your Marriage Is Over So You Can Work On Saving Your Marriage Instead.Let's save Marriages Together!Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/safeYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Creating an emotionally safe space takes work and requires skills that you might not be currently using. However, it is something that is desperately needed.Imagine a world where you feel safe and comfy in your marriage. It's like sailing a boat smoothly on calm waters, feeling happy and secure. But what if your boat gets stuck and you feel scared and unsure? That's where emotional safety comes in. It's like having a special map that helps you feel better when things get tough. In this podcast, we'll learn how to make your marriage a cozy place where you both feel safe and encouraged. Let's go on this journey together to make your marriage better and happier!Extra Stuff:Get your FREE 28-Day Conversation Starter: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/safeYOUTUBE:For more cool videos and tips, check out the Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Ever feel like you're bending over backward just to keep the peace at home?Yeah, we've all been there!  Maybe you call it "people-pleasing" and sometimes it can feel like the only way to avoid a fight.While it's totally normal to want things to be calm and happy, listen up: constant people-pleasing can actually hurt your relationship in the long run.Here's the thing: imagine you're playing a game with your partner, but you always let them win, even if you know the answer or could totally beat them.  Sure, they might be happy at first, but it wouldn't be much fun, right?This podcast episode dives into why people-pleasing can be a hidden problem and what can happen when you never speak your true feelings. We'll explore the surprising ways it can hurt your connection and what you can do to build a happier, more open relationship.So, grab your headphones and tune in –  because a healthy marriage is a two-way street, and this episode will help you get on the right track!Additional Resources:QUIZ:Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE:Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Imagine this. You've attended countless workshops, read numerous books, and practiced countless communication techniques, right? All in the hopes of improving your marriage. Yet, despite all of your efforts, you still find yourself stuck in the same frustrating cycle that you know of misunderstandings and arguments.This might sound familiar, right? But If you can relate to or have experienced any of these situations, know that you are not alone. So in this episode, we'll be talking about "The Surprising Truth About Why Communication Alone Isn't Saving Marriages". This sounds new, right?  Well, stay tuned as we uncover the surprising truth. Additional Resources:QUIZ:Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE:Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Do most of your conversations with your spouse end up in a fight?Have you ever wished,  that you could sit down with your spouse and just talk about what's bothering you, causing you sleepless nights, anxiety, and sadness without feeling fearful of ending up arguing more, or being gaslighted? Or for that matter, making matters worse. Of course, having this conversation is one that could potentially lead to an escalation or more argument.Because you've tried it before and felt like you got nowhere. You felt unheard and the issue wasn't resolved so you felt worse.Wait a minute. If you are losing hope, stop and be assured that you and your spouse can overcome this.In this episode, we’ll be talking about The One big mistake most Christian couples make In having difficult conversations. Know some effective ways to avoid it.Additional Resources:QUIZ:Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE:Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

It's indeed crucial for couples to have meaningful conversations, regardless of how busy life gets and the responsibilities they may have. If couples find it challenging to make time for even short conversations, it can indeed be difficult to engage in deeper discussions.Most of the time, drama interferes with deeper and more difficult conversations. There are pros and cons of course. But at the end of the day, it prevents intimacy.If you have been married for any length of time you will certainly resonate with what you hear in this episode!In this episode, we’ll be talking about practical ways how you have difficult conversations with your spouse without drama. Many couples report that they never get to have deep and difficult conversations because when they've tried, it tends to get worse. However, take heart, this episode is designed with you in mind.Let's turn the drama into dialogue and strengthen those relationship bonds. Stay tuned!Additional Resources:QUIZ:Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE:Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Feeling neglected when your spouse is overly focused on work is a common struggle. It can leave you questioning the place of your marriage in their priorities.Have you been in this kind of situation?Maybe you felt a sinking feeling in your stomach when I mentioned this because you can relate. It's like his job has taken over, leaving you feeling sidelined as just the spouse. This can lead to hurt, frustration, and maybe even resentment as you're hearing this.So in this episode, we’ll be discussing Finding Peace When He, your Husband, Prioritizes Work Over You (3 Tips for Kingdom Wives.) It may not always be easy to find peace, but it’s possible to have it.Additional Resources:QUIZ: Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE: Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

When you attempt to keep the spark alive when your husband is busy building the business can be challenging. No need to convince you. You know that.In addition to prioritizing the family's well-being, some husbands are also striving to build the "family" business. Can you identify with this?Challenges between you and your husband can arise despite your shared goals and efforts to keep your family and bond together.You, as a wife, may have been quite supportive in various ways, but as time has passed and expectations haven't been met, feelings of resentment, frustration, and even anger may have started to surface.Rest assured, you're not alone in feeling this way. Many wives are grappling with the challenge of balancing support for their husbands' dreams while also addressing their own needs. In this episode, we'll explore strategies for maintaining the spark in the relationship while your husband is deeply engrossed in building "the" business.Additional Resources:QUIZ: Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE: Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

In trying to revitalize your marriage, it is not uncommon that the advice given is to seek therapy.Therapy does have its place and for the most part, has proven useful for many people.It can reignite the spark in your marriage and other relationships so I want to emphasize that suggesting the possibility of doing that very thing without therapy doesn't diminish its value. It's about finding alternative ways to rediscover that connection without immediately resorting to the usual go-to solution.Would you agree with this?I know the power of therapy, and you may have already known that because you might have yourself done therapy as a way to try to figure out how to revitalize or reignite what's missing in your relationship.In this episode, I will share timeless wisdom on how to breathe new life into your marriage, without therapy. You'll discover simple yet powerful ways to rekindle the love and connection you share with your spouse.Friendly Reminder: It's important to remember that whatever methods or solutions you choose that get you the result you are seeking, are valid. Every marriage is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to solving challenges.But this timeless wisdom has stood the test of them all. I hope you will agree and if you don't it's okay too. Let me hear from you either way.======Additional Resources:QUIZ: Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE: Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

A life of alignment of faith, family, and impact is something that many people aspire toward but not many have done so successfully as you'll hear in this episode.Having a good example to imitate can serve as a valuable guide and source of inspiration in various aspects of life. No doubt, the first factor that comes to mind as having a significant impact on your life is your family. The way you are making them a priority; focusing your energy on them.In this episode, you'll hear the stories of my father and how he inadvertently left us a legacy but failed at others. You will also hear the story of a late friend, coach, and mentor - Dan Miller of 48 Days To The Work You Love - and the impact he made on my life plus countless number of others.Let me hear your thoughts on this.======Additional Resources:QUIZ: Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE: Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

In tough times, it might feel like your home is a bit like a war zone. The tensions and interactions with your husband could be making things challenging. And maybe as you're listening to this, your home feels like that.Take a brief pause for a moment.If you take a closer look at why things might feel this way, what recurring theme or issue stands out to you? Identify the main factor that keeps making the situation challenging.Just as a key can unlock a security lock, there are keys to fostering open and secure communication between you and your husband.In this episode, we'll discuss practical tips on supporting your husband in building his business without causing tension at home.Let me hear your thoughts on this.Additional Resources:QUIZ: Happier Marriage Assessment: https://www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quizYOUTUBE: Kingsley Grant YouTube Channel: https://kingsleygrant.com/youtube.comThanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.