Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

Dave & Chris

Dopey Podcast is the world’s greatest podcast on drugs, addiction and dumb shit. Chris and I were two IV heroin addicts who loved to talk about all the coke we smoked, snorted and shot, all the pills we ate, smoked, all the weed we smoked and ate, all the booze we consumed and all the consequences we suffered. After making the show for 2 and a half years, Chris tragically relapsed and died from a fentanyl overdose. Dopey continued on, at first to mourn the horrible loss of Chris, but then to continue our mission - which was at its core, to keep addicts and alcoholics company. Whether to laugh at our time in rehab, or cry at the worst missteps we made, Dopey tells the truth about drugs, addiction and recovery. We continually mine the universe for stories rife with debauchery and highlight serious drug taking and alcoholism. We also examine different paths toward addiction recovery. We shine a light on harm reduction and medication assisted treatment. We talk with celebrities and nobodies and stockpile stories to be the greatest one stop shop podcast on all things drugs, addiction, recovery and comedy pathfinding the route to the heart of the opioid epidemic. read less
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Dopeycon 500! Drugs, Addiction and Dumb Shit, Jason Biggs! Hank Azaria! John Joseph! Abbey Fickley! Rachel Elizabeth! Brandon Novak! Zac Clark! Carl Radke! Skinny Vinny!
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Dopeycon 500! Drugs, Addiction and Dumb Shit, Jason Biggs! Hank Azaria! John Joseph! Abbey Fickley! Rachel Elizabeth! Brandon Novak! Zac Clark! Carl Radke! Skinny Vinny!
This week on Dopey! On this very special 500th episode of Dopey we celebrate at DopeyCon 500! A Dopey Fan Convention and our 500th episode LIVE!!!!! It featured Jason Biggs and Hank Azaria playing me and Chris! John Joseph telling his truthful trauma! Kimber King and Brace Beldon! Abbey Fickley, Rachel Elizabeth Nicole, Brittany Jade, Handsome Evan, Lenny from the beach and Billy Jenson play the Stash Word! Novak gets honored - Again! Skinny Vinny tells his prison pocket story, Jeremy Turner tells the secret of Whitey Tighties, Bobby Dukes on a Crack house in Philly, Zack on Depression in recovery, Carl on getting sober and dealing with controversy in front of the World, Erin Khar runs Ask Erin, Ray Brown Sings! The Live Dopey debut of John Bukaty painting and talking recovery - and the smokey tones of Jake from West Virginia! It's all here! And more! Plus my dad and Linda making everyone cry and I tell the follow up to stealing a car in Bayport Long Island PLUS Fentanyl Jay and much much on this super long and emotional playback of Dopeycon 500! On the brand new DOPEYCON 500 of that good old DOPEY show! This is what AI says: keywordsDopey, addiction, recovery, community, DopeyCon, support, mental health, gratitude, storytelling, emotional journey, recovery, addiction, Safe Spot, Dopey Nation, drug use, community support, personal stories, mental health, relationships, Brandon Novak, Dopey, recovery, community, gratitude, storytelling, humor, imposter syndrome, personal growth, addiction, support, addiction, recovery, humor, community, storytelling, x-ray, attention, play, spirituality, DopeyCon summaryThe conversation centers around the 500th episode of the Dopey podcast, celebrating the community built around addiction recovery. The host reflects on personal experiences, gratitude towards supporters, and the emotional weight of sharing stories of addiction. The episode features a dramatic reenactment of past podcast moments and insights from guests about their journeys through recovery. In this segment of the conversation, the speakers share personal stories of survival, recovery, and the impact of community support in overcoming addiction. They discuss the importance of hotlines like Safe Spot, the challenges of navigating relationships in recovery, and the collective strength found within the Dopey Nation. The segment also honors those lost to addiction while celebrating the resilience of individuals in recovery, highlighted by Brandon Novak's inspiring journey. This conversation captures the essence of community, recovery, and personal growth within the Dopey Nation. It features heartfelt stories of gratitude, humorous anecdotes, and reflections on the challenges of sobriety, including imposter syndrome. The participants share their experiences, emphasizing the importance of honesty, vulnerability, and support in the recovery journey. The event is a celebration of resilience and transformation, showcasing the power of connection and shared experiences in overcoming addiction. This conversation explores the humorous yet profound journey of recovery from addiction, highlighting the importance of community, the healing power of play, and the transition from seeking attention through harmful behaviors to finding fulfillment in sobriety. The narrative is punctuated with anecdotes from DopeyCon, showcasing the camaraderie among those in recovery and the celebration of milestones in sobriety. takeaways DopeyCon 500 was a celebration of community and support.Gratitude is essential in the journey of recovery.The emotional weight of addiction stories can be profound.Dramatic reenactments can bring past podcast moments to life.Support from sponsors is crucial for the podcast's success.Personal experiences shared can resonate deeply with listeners.The journey of recovery is filled with ups and downs.Community events like DopeyCon foster connection and healing.Acknowledging past struggles is part of the recovery process.The importance of humor and lightness in discussing serious topics. Surviving on the streets can lead to traumatic experiences.Hotlines like Safe Spot play a crucial role in recovery.Navigating relationships can be challenging for those in recovery.Community support is vital for maintaining sobriety.Personal stories of loss and recovery resonate deeply with others.The landscape of drug use has changed significantly over the years.Honoring those lost to addiction is important for healing.Brandon Novak serves as a beacon of hope for many in recovery.Dopey Nation provides a sense of belonging and support.Celebrating milestones in recovery fosters community and connection. The Dopey Nation provides a vital support system for recovery.Personal stories of gratitude can inspire others in their journey.Humor plays a significant role in coping with addiction.Engaging activities can foster community and connection.Working the steps around joy can enhance personal growth.Imposter syndrome is a common struggle in recovery.Honesty and vulnerability are crucial for healing.Celebrating milestones in recovery strengthens community bonds.Sharing experiences can help others feel less alone.Transformation is possible through support and connection. The experience of putting items up one's butt became a humorous story of addiction.Community plays a crucial role in recovery and healing.Finding clarity often comes from surrendering to a higher power.The healing power of play can help in recovery.Sobriety is a journey that requires cooperation and support from others.Humor can be a powerful tool in discussing serious topics like addiction.Celebrating milestones in recovery fosters a sense of belonging.Acknowledging the darkness is essential for personal growth.The importance of sharing stories to connect with others in recovery.Recovery is an ongoing process that involves continuous self-care and reflection. titles The Role of Humor in RecoveryThe Power of Community in Healing The Impact of Safe Spot HotlineBrandon Novak: A Beacon of Hope Reflections on Recovery and JoyHumorous and Candid Storytelling The Prison Pocket ChroniclesFrom Addiction to Epic Adventures Sound Bites "Toodles for Chris at Dopey""Dopey wouldn't exist without Mountainside""If I die on the table tomorrow""I was traumatized by Oreo cookies.""I love representing Safe Spot.""Get the fuck out of that relationship.""This is the live podcast portion.""Dopey means Dopey Dave, first and foremost.""I found the Dopey Nation.""I put stuff up my butt because I was addicted to heroin.""I kept the thing up my butt for 24 hours.""I love that reaction every time." Chapters 00:00Introduction to DopeyCon 500 05:30Reflections on Community and Support 12:25The Journey of Recovery and Gratitude 18:32The Emotional Weight of Addiction Stories 31:23Dramatic Reenactment of Dopey Podcast 39:06John Joseph's Journey and Insights 48:08Surviving the Streets: A Personal Tale 54:50The Changing Landscape of Drug Use 01:00:20Navigating Relationships in Recovery 01:06:13Honoring Loss and Celebrating Recovery 01:17:18Brandon Novak: A Beacon of Hope 01:26:41DopeyCon 500: A Celebration of Community 01:31:48Personal Stories of Gratitude and Growth 01:40:26Humorous and Candid Storytelling 01:54:22Navigating Imposter Syndrome in Recovery 02:02:09The Power of Honesty and Vulnerability 02:10:30A Journey of Transformation and Acceptance 02:18:09The Prison Pocket Experience 02:24:55From Addiction to Attention 02:30:12Finding Clarity in Darkness 02:35:50The Healing Power of Play 02:43:42The DopeyCon Finale
Tuesday Teaser for Patreon! Fentanyl Jay and Sober October Forever! Dopeycon 500! Booze! More!
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Tuesday Teaser for Patreon! Fentanyl Jay and Sober October Forever! Dopeycon 500! Booze! More!
This week on the Patreon teaser! Fentanyl Jay is back to talk about why he is on the path to attempt 'Sober October Forever'! We hear some of his latest bender stories and more! Plus Dopey Con 500 and I'm sick at home!   https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast for Patreon!   What AI Thinks:   keywords Dopey, addiction, recovery, community, sobriety, DopeyCon, Fentanyl J, Sober October, financial motivation, dreams summaryIn this episode of Dopey, host David Manheim reflects on the recent DopeyCon 500, sharing highlights and personal experiences. He discusses the importance of community in recovery, the challenges of sobriety, and the financial implications of addiction. The conversation also touches on the theme of pursuing dreams and the emotional journey of recovery, culminating in a heartfelt musical tribute. takeaways DopeyCon 500 was a magical experience for attendees.The importance of community in recovery cannot be overstated.Pursuing dreams is a vital part of recovery.Sobriety can lead to financial savings and better life choices.Personal stories of recovery can inspire others.Sober October is a commitment to lasting change.The emotional impact of addiction is profound.Celebrating small victories in recovery is essential.Connection with others in recovery fosters strength.Music can be a powerful outlet for expressing feelings. titles The Magic of DopeyCon 500Sober October: A Fresh Start Sound Bites "DopeyCon was absolutely incredible.""The dream of recovering your life is very special.""Sober October forever." Chapters 00:00Welcome to Dopey and DopeyCon 500 Highlights 03:11Reflections on Recovery and Dreams 06:03Community and Connection at DopeyCon 08:54Sober October: A New Beginning 12:14Financial Realities of Sobriety 15:05Closing Thoughts and Musical Tribute
AA vs. NA - Patreon Tuesday Teaser with Giovanni of Don't Drink and Go to Meetings! Heroin! Withdrawal! Memes!
Oct 2 2024
AA vs. NA - Patreon Tuesday Teaser with Giovanni of Don't Drink and Go to Meetings! Heroin! Withdrawal! Memes!
This week on the new Patreon Teaser - Meme Maker Giovanni of Instagram's Don't Drink and Go To Meetings tells his recovery story! Plus a few emails! Dopeycon updates and much more! Dopeycon is this Saturday 10/5 at 430 pm doors open at 4pm! Get tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation  Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast WHAT AI SAYS: keywordsDopey podcast, addiction, recovery, humor, community, DopeyCon, memes, personal stories, hernia, drug culture summaryIn this episode of the Dopey podcast, host David Manheim shares personal anecdotes about his struggles with a hernia and reflects on the upcoming DopeyCon event. He discusses the importance of community in recovery, the role of humor in addressing addiction, and the impact of memes in the recovery space. The conversation also touches on personal stories of addiction, treatment experiences, and the significance of celebrating milestones in recovery. takeaways David shares his personal struggle with a hernia.DopeyCon is a significant event for the Dopey community.Humor can play a vital role in discussing addiction.The concept of a 'heroin comedy' is explored.Memes have a powerful impact on the recovery community.Personal stories of addiction highlight the challenges faced.Community support is crucial in recovery journeys.David reflects on the importance of celebrating milestones.The conversation emphasizes the complexity of addiction.The podcast fosters a sense of belonging for listeners. titles A Deep Dive into DopeyConHumor and Heart in Recovery Sound Bites "It's fucking horrible. So anybody out there with a bad hernia, I feel bad for you.""Giovanni from Don't Drink and Go to Meetings.""It's our 500th episode and I'm super excited." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Personal Struggles 03:10DopeyCon and Community Engagement 06:07Reflections on Addiction and Recovery 11:52Humor in Addiction and Recovery 17:09Memes and Their Impact on Recovery
Dopey 498: Carl Radke Lost his Brother to Overdose while Recovering on Bravo's Summer House, Cali Sober, Designer Cocaine, Selling Weed,
Sep 29 2024
Dopey 498: Carl Radke Lost his Brother to Overdose while Recovering on Bravo's Summer House, Cali Sober, Designer Cocaine, Selling Weed,
This week on Dopey we are joined by Carl Radke of Bravo's Summer House! Carl shares his addiction recovery journey - starting on the mean streets of Pittsburgh, PA growing up a part of a hard working middle class family with his older brother Curtis who also struggled with substance abuse. We learn how alcohol and drugs became deeply engrained in Carl's life. We also hear how Carl got on Summer house in the first place and the bottom that got him to recovery!   Carl starts around 30:00   DopeyCon Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast What Emilia Noted: - brother arrested at a family party -  coke at syracuse - brother selling stuff from his family - buying bricks of weed to sell to college friends - reckless drinking/partying - buying ounces of coke in hollywood - pink coke - partying benders - selling bars - drinking/drugs and summer house - brother's addiction/OD portrayed on summer house  What AI Said: keywordsDopey Podcast, addiction, recovery, community support, Carl Radke, Summer House, mental health, esoteric healing, reality TV, sobriety, recovery, addiction, reality TV, sobriety, mental health, personal growth, substance abuse, family dynamics, public scrutiny, sales career summaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, host David Manheim reflects on the community's support following the loss of a beloved member, Annie. The conversation includes heartfelt tributes, voicemails from listeners sharing their recovery stories, and discussions about various recovery resources. The episode features an interview with Carl Radke from Bravo's Summer House, where he shares his journey through addiction, family struggles, and the impact of reality TV on his life. The episode emphasizes the importance of community, support, and personal growth in the recovery process. In this conversation, David Manheim shares his journey through the challenges of addiction, the impact of reality TV fame, and the complexities of personal relationships. He reflects on his struggles with substance abuse, the transition from a career in show business to sales, and the profound effects of family dynamics on his recovery. The discussion also touches on the role of THC in his sobriety journey and the launch of his new venture, Soft Bar, aimed at promoting mindful consumption. takeaways Oro Recovery is a transformative place for addiction treatment.The Dopey Nation provides incredible support for its members.Community fundraising can help individuals in need.Sunnyside offers a unique approach to alcohol moderation.Esoteric healing practices can lead to unexpected emotional responses.Reality TV can complicate personal recovery journeys.Family dynamics play a significant role in addiction.College life often involves experimentation with substances.Fame can bring additional challenges to sobriety.Personal stories of struggle and recovery resonate deeply with listeners. Public scrutiny can amplify personal struggles.Transitioning from showbiz to sales can be challenging.Substance use often intertwines with professional life.Coping mechanisms can lead to further complications.Reality TV fame can complicate personal relationships.Grief can trigger a deeper understanding of addiction.Sobriety requires constant self-reflection and growth.Navigating social situations while sober is a skill.THC can be a viable alternative for some in recovery.Creating supportive environments for sober individuals is essential. titles Community and Healing: A Tribute to AnnieThe Impact of Community Support in Addiction From Reality TV to Recovery: Carl's StoryThe Journey from Addiction to Empowerment Sound Bites "Oro has changed their life.""The Dopey Nation is nothing less than fucking incredible.""Rest in peace, Tyler.""I couldn't believe that something like this was going to be so public.""I created even more problems around it by how I responded to it.""I was really proud of it. It was really hard work." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Context of Dopey Podcast 10:09Voicemails and Community Stories 18:07Sponsorships and Recovery Resources 23:50Esoteric Healing and Personal Experiences 29:06Interview with Carl Radke: Background and Reality TV 40:00Carl's Journey: Family, Addiction, and Recovery 01:00:11Reflections on College Life and Substance Use 01:14:12Navigating Fame and Personal Struggles 01:19:58Conclusion and Final Thoughts 01:26:34The Role of Alcohol and Drugs in Sales 01:33:13The Escalation of Substance Use in New Environments 01:39:17Reality TV Fame and Family Dynamics 01:45:35The Challenges of Sober Living in a Party Culture 01:57:44Finding Strength in Loss and Recovery 02:06:27The Journey to Sobriety and Self-Discovery 02:11:48The Challenges of Sober Living in a Party Culture 02:20:28The Launch of Soft Bar and Mindful Consumption
Harm Reduction Doesn't Work? Dopey BONUS Tuesday Patreon Teaser with Alan on why his controversial take on harm reduction! Plus Heart Attack Doug!
Sep 24 2024
Harm Reduction Doesn't Work? Dopey BONUS Tuesday Patreon Teaser with Alan on why his controversial take on harm reduction! Plus Heart Attack Doug!
On this new bonus tuesday teaser my dad dis back! and he just might change his tune about harm reduction and Safe Spot! If you are using and want to call them - their number is 1-800 972-0590.  Then Heart Attack Doug from the Beach is back fat shaming me. Join Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast Buy DopeyCon 500 Tickets at https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031 $15 discounted tickets on Patreon!   Here is what AI said: keywordsDopey, addiction, harm reduction, Safe Spot, drug use, recovery, overdose prevention, family dynamics, podcast, community summaryIn this episode of Dopey, David Manheim engages in a lively discussion with his father about harm reduction strategies in addiction treatment, particularly focusing on the Safe Spot hotline. The conversation explores the complexities of addiction, the effectiveness of harm reduction, and the personal experiences that shape their views. They also touch on community responses, critiques of harm reduction, and the upcoming DopeyCon event, emphasizing the importance of support and understanding in the recovery journey. takeaways Harm reduction strategies can save lives if implemented effectively.Safe Spot hotline provides a safety net for drug users.Critiques of harm reduction often stem from personal experiences and beliefs.The conversation around addiction is complex and multifaceted.Community support plays a crucial role in recovery.Personal reflections on addiction can influence opinions on treatment methods.The importance of data in evaluating harm reduction effectiveness.Engaging in open discussions can help bridge differing viewpoints.DopeyCon serves as a platform for community engagement and support.Humor and personal anecdotes can lighten serious discussions about addiction. titles Family Dynamics in Addiction ConversationsExploring the Impact of Safe Spot on Users Sound Bites "Harm reduction doesn't work?""Safe Spot saves lives!""You might die anyway!" Chapters 00:00Introduction and Controversy 03:06Harm Reduction Debate 06:12Safe Spot and Its Impact 09:08Critiques of Harm Reduction 12:02Personal Reflections on Addiction 15:01DopeyCon and Community Engagement
Dopey 497: Dabbing Crack and Tar with Duane Betts! Growing up Allman Brothers! MDMA, MALIBU! HEROIN! DEATH! RECOVERY!
Sep 20 2024
Dopey 497: Dabbing Crack and Tar with Duane Betts! Growing up Allman Brothers! MDMA, MALIBU! HEROIN! DEATH! RECOVERY!
This Week on Dopey! We are joined by brilliant singer/songwriter/guitar player Duane Betts! Duane grew up touring with the Allman Brothers Band with his father - the legendary Dickie Betts! Duane gets super honest and raw on his childhood on tour, his life bicoastal between Malibu and Florida. Getting into music, playing in bands and how he got lost in the world of addiction and how he found himself clean, sober and enjoying his life. PLUS! Voicemails! Emails and the return of Howard 'Beach' Buksbaum! All that and more on a brand new episode of that good old Dopey Show!    notes from the editor: - growing up on tour - mdma youth - living in malibu at cher's house - various music projects - malibu black tar - allman brothers and heroin - car accident while scoring crack - crack and tar dabs - finding his friend dead - crack OD - possession arrest - making him choose between family in the game lol   AI NOTES:  keywordsDopey Podcast, addiction, recovery, harm reduction, Dwayne Betts, music, personal stories, community support, therapy, drug culture, addiction, recovery, music, family, relationships, heroin, opiates, community, DopeyCon, Dwayne Betts takeaways David shares his struggles with addiction and love for drugs.The importance of compassion in addiction treatment is emphasized.Debate on whether harm reduction strategies enable drug use.Community support is crucial in recovery, as seen in DopeyCon.Listeners share their personal stories, highlighting the podcast's impact.Therapy is presented as a vital tool for self-care and recovery.David discusses his early experiences with drugs and music.Dwayne Betts reflects on his father's legacy and his own musical journey.The transition from fun to addiction is explored in depth.Malibu's drug culture and its influence on David's life are discussed. Addiction can lead to a tumultuous journey filled with highs and lows.Relationships often suffer due to the effects of addiction.Recovery is a personal journey that can take many forms.Music can serve as a powerful tool for healing and connection.Community support is crucial in the recovery process.Experiences with drugs can vary greatly depending on the environment.Finding purpose in life after addiction is essential for long-term recovery.The legacy of family can influence one's path in life and recovery.Engaging with others who share similar experiences can foster healing.Life can be beautiful and fulfilling after overcoming addiction. titles Celebrating Community: DopeyCon 500Harm Reduction: A Double-Edged Sword? The Role of Community in RecoveryReflections on Life After Addiction summaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim shares his personal struggles with addiction, the importance of compassion in treatment, and the ongoing debate surrounding harm reduction strategies. The conversation highlights community support through events like DopeyCon, the significance of therapy in recovery, and personal stories from listeners. David also interviews musician Dwayne Betts, discussing his father's legacy and the impact of growing up in a musical family amidst drug culture in Malibu. The episode explores the transition from fun to addiction and reflects on the challenges faced along the way. In this conversation, Dwayne Betts shares his journey through addiction, the impact it had on his relationships, and his path to recovery. He reflects on his experiences with drugs, the challenges of touring, and the importance of community and family in his life. Dwayne discusses how music has become a source of purpose and joy for him, and he emphasizes the beauty of life after addiction. The conversation also touches on the upcoming DopeyCon and the significance of community engagement in recovery. Sound Bites "I'm a junkie""Compassion and connection are two things I strive to have.""Does this enable users to go hard in the paint?""I just want this to end.""I have all of these experiences from being in nice houses.""I got probably 21." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Dopey Podcast and Personal Struggles 02:55The Role of Compassion in Addiction Treatment 05:47Debate on Harm Reduction Strategies 09:07Celebrating Milestones and Community Support 11:59Voicemail Stories and Listener Engagement 18:05The Importance of Therapy and Self-Care 20:01Personal Stories of Addiction and Recovery 27:12Interview with Dwayne Betts: Musical Legacy and Personal Journey 34:10Growing Up in a Musical Family and Early Experiences with Drugs 39:50The Transition from Fun to Addiction 49:47Reflections on Malibu Life and Drug Culture 01:07:02The Journey Through Addiction 01:12:50The Impact of Addiction on Relationships 01:20:30Finding Recovery and New Beginnings 01:30:11Life After Addiction: Music and Purpose 01:34:01Reflections on Recovery and Community 01:40:06The Legacy of Family and Music 01:46:13The Future of Dopey and Community Engagement
Tuesday Raytreon Teaser with Alan (my dad) and a Special Guest,  Religion, Safe Spot, Heroin, Fentanyl Death
Sep 17 2024
Tuesday Raytreon Teaser with Alan (my dad) and a Special Guest, Religion, Safe Spot, Heroin, Fentanyl Death
On this very controversial teaser my dad and our special guest join in! My Dad gives his controversial take on Safe Spot! Plus DopeyCon info and much much more!   AI Notes: keywordsDopey Podcast, DopeyCon, Safe Spot Hotline, drug addiction, Patreon, father-son conversation, podcast critiques, drug safety, humor, recovery summaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim welcomes his father back to discuss various topics, including the benefits of joining their Patreon, critiques of the podcast, and a heated debate about the Safe Spot Hotline and its implications for drug users. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the complexities of drug addiction and recovery. takeaways David's dad has been listening to recent episodes.Patreon offers exclusive content and discounts for DopeyCon.Merchandise is a perk for Patreon subscribers.David's dad provides constructive criticism of the podcast.The Safe Spot Hotline is a controversial topic.There are pros and cons to the Safe Spot Hotline.David believes the hotline saves lives.Critics argue it may enable drug use.The conversation touches on personal experiences with addiction.DopeyCon 500 is highly anticipated and nearly sold out. titles The Return of Dad to DopeyThe Safe Spot Hotline Debate Sound Bites "I have listened to the last three or four...""If you want to join Patreon, you go to...""Real Patreon people get all this stuff." Chapters 00:00Welcome Back to Dopey 03:13Patreon Benefits and DopeyCon 06:06Critiques and Improvements 08:57Safe Spot Hotline Discussion 17:47Debate on Drug Use and Safety 23:54Closing Thoughts and DopeyCon 500
Dopey 496: Psychosis and Parenting or Mind of a Junkie pt. 2, The Return of Anders Osborne, Loss, Grateful Dead, Meth, Heroin, Suboxone, Recovery
Sep 13 2024
Dopey 496: Psychosis and Parenting or Mind of a Junkie pt. 2, The Return of Anders Osborne, Loss, Grateful Dead, Meth, Heroin, Suboxone, Recovery
This week on Dopey we are joined by singer/songwriter, guitar player and all around good guy and new(ish) friend Anders Osborne! Anders and I have a fun talk about next level recovery, spirituality and some of his last days of using! Plus his time playing with Toots and the Maytals and Phil Lesh! Twas a beautiful time! PLUS voicemails, emails, DopeyCon 500, Lux Dungeon's The Muffin Man and much much much more on this brand new episode of the good old Dopey show. NOTE: DopeyCon 500 doors open at 4pm show starts at 4:30pm! Dopeycon 500 Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031 Patreon: whttps://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast Here is what AI said: keywordsDopey, addiction, recovery, community, compassion, sobriety, music, mental health, support, personal stories summaryIn this episode of Dopey, host David Manheim discusses the importance of compassion and connection in recovery, shares listener stories, and reflects on the journey of sobriety. The conversation features musician Anders Osborne, who shares insights on purification, self-discovery, and the duality of experience in recovery. The episode emphasizes the significance of community support, the role of music in healing, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and understanding. takeaways Compassion and connection are essential in recovery.Community engagement is vital for celebrating milestones.Listener stories highlight the struggles and triumphs of sobriety.Moderation in alcohol consumption can be beneficial for some.Detox experiences can be challenging but transformative.Purification in recovery involves self-discovery and awareness.Loss and grief can significantly impact the recovery journey.Music plays a crucial role in healing and recovery.Ambition can coexist with recovery but should be balanced.Finding purpose through suffering can lead to personal growth. titles The Role of Music in HealingNavigating Ambition in Sobriety Sound Bites "Compassion and connection is just the way to do it.""It's gonna sell out!""Leave a five-star review on iTunes!" Chapters 00:00Introduction to DopeyCon and the Podcast's Mission 02:56The Importance of Compassion in Recovery 05:49Celebrating Milestones and Community Engagement 09:09Listener Stories: Struggles and Triumphs 12:04Sponsorships and Support for Recovery 14:48The Role of Moderation in Alcohol Consumption 18:07Reflections on Detox and Early Recovery Experiences 20:53Voicemail Stories: Precipitated Withdrawal 23:53Introducing Anders Osborne: A Journey Through Recovery 26:46Purification and Self-Discovery in Recovery 30:08The Impact of Loss and Grief in Recovery 33:12The Journey of Sobriety: From Darkness to Light 36:02The Role of Music in Healing and Recovery 38:54Ambition and Its Place in Recovery 41:48The Duality of Experience: Pain and Joy 44:51Finding Purpose Through Suffering 48:01The Importance of Community in Recovery 50:48Final Thoughts and Reflections on the Journey 54:08Closing Remarks and Future Aspirations
Dopey Tuesday Raytreon Teaser - Serious Dumb Shit - DOPEYCON THEME SONG CHALLENGE TEASER!!!!!! with a sery Special Guest.
Sep 10 2024
Dopey Tuesday Raytreon Teaser - Serious Dumb Shit - DOPEYCON THEME SONG CHALLENGE TEASER!!!!!! with a sery Special Guest.
This week on the teaser we are joined by a special guest! He doesn't like when i put his name in the description. We talk all about his plan of making a Banana Ball song! Just listen to the thing...   Here is what AI said.... summaryThis episode of Dopey Tuesday Teaser discusses DopeyCon, the DopeyCon theme song challenge, and Ray's involvement in the Banana Ball game. The hosts also talk about their songs and their plans for DopeyCon. The conversation touches on various topics such as addiction, music, and pop culture. keywordsDopey, DopeyCon, theme song challenge, Banana Ball, addiction, music, pop culture takeaways DopeyCon is an upcoming event that the hosts are excited aboutThe DopeyCon theme song challenge is happening on PatreonRay is involved in the Banana Ball game and has written a song about itThe hosts discuss their songs and plans for DopeyCon titles Songs and Plans for DopeyConRay's Involvement in Banana Ball Sound Bites "DopeyCon is coming. It's our fifth DopeyCon. It's October 5th. It's in New York City.""We will put up all the songs on Dopey Patreon, and the one with the most likes wins.""Dopey con is October 5th. Yeah, do you have a song? No, you don't have a song. What's your plan?" Chapters 00:00Introduction and DopeyCon 05:05DopeyCon Theme Song Challenge 08:13Ray's Involvement in Banana Ball 09:11Songs and Plans for DopeyCon
Dopey 495: Smoking Crack, Drunk and Homeless to Cookie Millionaire -Janie (Deegan)'s Life Changing Baked Goods, Crack, Booze, Recovery
Sep 6 2024
Dopey 495: Smoking Crack, Drunk and Homeless to Cookie Millionaire -Janie (Deegan)'s Life Changing Baked Goods, Crack, Booze, Recovery
This week on Dopey! We are joined by Cookie Magnate, creator of Janie's Life Changing Baked Goods - Janie Deegan! Janie might be the feel good Dopey of the year - a drunk and homeless New Yorker who saved her soul by making cookies! Janie's story starts off innocently enough before she tumbles down the stairs of total rock bottom insanity! Plus there are multiple voicemails, emails and much more on this sad, salty but ultimately super sweet new episode of the good old Dopey Show! AI Notes: summaryJanie Deegan, the founder of Janie's life-changing baked goods, joins the podcast to discuss her journey and the impact of her baked goods. She shares how she got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village. Janie also talks about her early experiences with alcohol and the thrill of drinking as a teenager. The conversation touches on the challenges of production and the potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli. Overall, the episode explores Janie's life-changing baked goods and her personal journey. Janie reflects on her early experiences with alcohol and drugs, from feeling like an outsider in her teenage years to finding her identity in partying. She discusses her codependent and abusive relationship in college, where she turned to alcohol as a way to cope. After graduating, she moved back to Ann Arbor and her alcoholism escalated, leading to financial and personal problems. Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. After experiencing the emotional bottom of her alcoholism, Janie enters a period of darkness and depression. She meets a sober guy who becomes a bright spot in her life, but she is unable to maintain a relationship with him due to her drinking. Janie's drinking escalates, leading to consequences and interventions from her friends and family. She goes through multiple rehab programs and detoxes, but struggles to fully commit to sobriety. Eventually, she ends up in a shelter and then in a therapeutic community on the Upper West Side. Janie Deegan shares her incredible journey from addiction and homelessness to becoming a successful entrepreneur. She talks about her experiences in rehab, her struggles with sobriety, and how baking became her outlet and passion. Janie's story is a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and finding purpose in life. keywordsJanie Deegan, Janie's life-changing baked goods, sobriety, alcohol, East Village, production challenges, collaboration, Katz's Deli, alcohol, drugs, identity, codependency, abuse, college, partying, coping, addiction, Ann Arbor, alcoholism, emotional bottom, depression, sober relationship, consequences, interventions, rehab, detox, shelter, therapeutic community, addiction, homelessness, sobriety, entrepreneurship, baking, resilience, determination, purpose takeaways Janie Deegan got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village.She had early experiences with alcohol, including drinking from her parents' liquor cabinet and attending a Halloween party in the West Village.Janie's life-changing baked goods have had a significant impact on her life and the community.The potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli is discussed.The episode highlights the challenges of production and the importance of finding the right business plan and vendors. Janie's early experiences with alcohol and drugs were influenced by her desire to fit in and escape her anxiety and low self-esteem.Her codependent and abusive relationship in college further fueled her reliance on alcohol as a coping mechanism.Moving back to Ann Arbor after college intensified Janie's alcoholism, leading to financial and personal problems.Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. Alcoholism can lead to a period of darkness and depressionHaving a support system and a sober relationship can provide hope and motivation for recoveryConsequences and interventions from friends and family can be catalysts for changeRehab programs and detoxes may not be effective without a genuine commitment to sobrietyHomelessness and living in a shelter can be a reality for individuals struggling with addiction Resilience and determination are key in overcoming addiction and rebuilding one's life.Finding a passion or creative outlet can be instrumental in the recovery process.Being authentic and embracing one's story can inspire and help others.Support and mentorship from others can make a significant difference in one's journey to recovery.Building a successful business requires hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks. titles The Thrill of Drinking as a TeenagerFrom Superintendent to Baker: Janie Deegan's Journey The Downward Spiral in Ann ArborConcerns from Friends and Family The Challenges of Committing to SobrietyNavigating Homelessness and Shelters in Addiction Finding Purpose and Passion in Baking: Janie's StoryFrom Addiction to Entrepreneurship: Janie Deegan's Journey Sound Bites "I'm making it really big with my pie crust cookies. I don't need your stupid fucking cookie.""Come to me with a business plan and some vendors who are ready to place purchase orders.""I just remember thinking it was so wild. There's cops everywhere and we're getting away with this.""I don't remember having an identity before I started drinking.""I was alone at some frat school in upstate New York and I was like, I don't know what else to do.""I'm finally free. I'm at University of Michigan. I'm having a blast.""I'm still a person. I'm still like a young lady who just graduated from like a really good school.""Alcohol is a depression. It really is.""He was like emanating this light.""I'm like, this is great. I'm like back on the Upper West Side, like I'm not paying rent, know, I'm on Medicaid, whatever.""What are you doing here? What's a nice girl like you doing here? And I'm like, I'm different.""I guess I gotta leave right now, right? And so I was like, okay, let me go to the bathroom and I just leave and I all my clothing there." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Janie's Journey 27:31Janie's life-changing baked goods 38:05Finding Identity in Party Culture 46:32The Downward Spiral in Ann Arbor 01:09:00Concerns from Friends and Family 01:15:46The Emotional Bottom 01:23:02Moving to New York and Escalating Addiction 01:32:30From Rehab to Shelter 01:44:51The Illusion of Sobriety 01:53:42From Addiction to Entrepreneurship 02:04:55Building a Business and Finding Purpose 02:19:18The Invention of the Pie Crust Cookie 02:26:09Embracing Authenticity and Finding Success
Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Handsome Evan Get's Busted Rolling A Blunt with Subs! Plus a Paranoid LSD Story!
Sep 3 2024
Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Handsome Evan Get's Busted Rolling A Blunt with Subs! Plus a Paranoid LSD Story!
This week on the Teaser! Evan gets busted for rolling a blunt whilst having suboxone! PLUS meal plans! PLUS LSD shenanigans and much more! Join Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast DopeyCon Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031   What AI THINKS: summary: In this episode of Dopey the podcast, Dave talks about his recent food choices and the upcoming Dopeycon event. He also plays a voicemail from a listener sharing a story about a drug-induced reality shift. Dave and Evan then have a conversation about Lake Ronkonkoma and share some personal stories. The episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener. keywordsDopey podcast, food choices, Dopeycon, voicemail, drug-induced reality shift, Lake Ronkonkoma, personal stories, song, shoutout takeaways Dave shares his recent food choices and talks about barbecuing chicken thighs and air frying cauliflowerDopeycon is an upcoming sober cultural event with various guests and influencersA listener shares a story about a drug-induced reality shiftDave and Evan discuss Lake Ronkonkoma and share personal storiesThe episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener titles Food Choices and Cooking HabitsA Song and Shoutout to a Listener Sound Bites "I just made a banana peanut butter and chocolate powder protein smoothie and it was really good""Dopeycon looks to be the sober cultural event of the year, if not the decade""I'd been drinking all day with my boyfriend at the time and we went to go get a bag from one of our dealers" Chapters 00:00Food Choices and Cooking Habits 02:14Dopeycon: The Sober Cultural Event 05:07A Listener's Drug-Induced Reality Shift 11:17Stories and Memories of Lake Ronkonkoma 20:59A Song and Shoutout to a Listener
Dopey 494: The World's Greatest Storyteller with Steve Poltz; Bong Hits for Indegestion and Prehistoric Cocaine! Plus Spirituality with Thuann!
Aug 30 2024
Dopey 494: The World's Greatest Storyteller with Steve Poltz; Bong Hits for Indegestion and Prehistoric Cocaine! Plus Spirituality with Thuann!
This week on Dopey! We are reunited with Dopey Legend, Folk Singer, Comedy Genius and Super Naturally Good Story Teller Steve Poltz! Steve plays tunes and takes us on a journey to the optimist and pessimist inside! PLUS the tackle box full of drugs and how Steve maintains his sunny disposition! Next Thuan from Mountainside is back to share with us how spirituality works and how it can be accessed! PLUS voicemails, emails and much more on this brand new, good timey episode of that Good Old Dopey Show! AI SAYS: summaryDavid Manheim shares his morning routine of eating oats and drinking coffee, and discusses his positive outlook on life and his love for people. He talks about building his career from gig to gig and the importance of staying grateful. David also mentions the impact of the Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created. Steve Poults shares his practice of declaring every show as the greatest show he's ever played, and how it brings joy to both him and the audience. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and enjoying the journey rather than focusing on external success. The conversation also touches on the pressure to always be positive and the occasional moments of doubt or sadness. David and Steve discuss their love for connecting with people and spreading positivity through their music and interactions. In this part of the conversation, Steve Poltz shares a deeply personal story about the tragic death of his friend due to drug addiction. He also discusses his own struggles with addiction and how it led him to quit drinking. The conversation touches on themes of loss, forgiveness, and the fragility of life. Steve also talks about his love for music and his experiences as a musician. Overall, the conversation is a mix of light-hearted moments and profound reflections on addiction and recovery. In this episode, David and Tuan discuss spirituality and its role in recovery. They explore the concept of higher power and how it can be accessed through various practices. Tuan shares his daily spiritual routine, including meditation, attending meetings, and using a mindfulness bell app. They also touch on the idea of quantum jumping and the importance of living a life centered around spiritual principles. The episode ends with a call for musicians to submit songs for the upcoming DopeyCon theme song contest.   keywordsmorning routine, positivity, career, gratitude, Dopey Nation, greatest show, pressure, doubt, sadness, connection, spreading positivity, addiction, drug addiction, loss, forgiveness, fragility of life, music, musician, recovery, spirituality, higher power, recovery, meditation, meetings, mindfulness, quantum jumping, spiritual principles, DopeyCon takeaways Having a positive outlook on life and spreading positivity can bring joy to oneself and others.Building a career from gig to gig and staying grateful for the opportunities can lead to organic growth and fulfillment.The Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created can provide support and inspiration for those in recovery.It's important to be true to oneself and enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on external success.While it's natural to experience moments of doubt or sadness, maintaining a positive mindset and connecting with others can help overcome these challenges. Addiction can have devastating consequences, leading to the loss of loved ones and personal struggles.Quitting one substance may be necessary to break the cycle of addiction and prevent further harm.Music can be a powerful outlet for expressing emotions and connecting with others.Forgiveness is an important part of the healing process, both for oneself and for others.Life is fragile, and it's important to appreciate the present moment and make choices that prioritize well-being. Spirituality can be accessed through various practices and beliefs, such as meditation, attending meetings, and living by spiritual principles.A higher power can be a person, nature, or the universe, and it can provide guidance and support in recovery.Being aware of and utilizing spirituality in moments of vulnerability can help bring ease and peace.Living a life centered around love, compassion, gratitude, and humility can contribute to a more spiritual existence.Musicians are encouraged to submit songs for the DopeyCon theme song contest. titles The Dopey Nation: A Community of Support and InspirationEmbracing the Journey: Finding Fulfillment in the Present Moment The Power of ForgivenessEmbracing the Fragility of Life Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song ContestExploring Spirituality and Higher Power in Recovery Sound Bites "Every day when I wake up, I go, this is the greatest day.""I love people that are the addicts. I love them. I love them so much.""Brand new song.""I probably would still be drinking today had I not discovered my love of cocaine.""Once you go into crack, it's a dark world.""Life is a thing where you just think about, you know, there's a million things I wish I could go back and not have done.""Being human and feeling all the emotions is a spiritual experience.""Spirituality is accessing a higher power, whether seen, felt, heard, or just known.""Releasing character defects is a moment-to-moment choice, and meditation can help expand the window between stimulus and response." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Morning Routine 09:46Spreading Positivity and Building a Career 19:46The Dopey Nation: A Community of Support 29:50Embracing the Journey and Overcoming Doubt 40:06Connection and Positivity in Recovery 47:49Music and Drug Stories 48:28The Tragic Consequences of Addiction 52:06Finding Healing and Sobriety Through Music 58:26The Power of Forgiveness 01:09:49Embracing the Fragility of Life 02:55Exploring Spirituality and Higher Power 15:01Daily Spiritual Practices for a Grounded and Peaceful Life 29:50Quantum Jumping and Setting Intentions 44:53Living by Spiritual Principles and Embracing a Higher Power 01:00:05Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song Contest 01:15:03Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Oasis Reunion! Liam and Noel on Crystal Meth! PCP, Weed, MDMA Cormac Chemical Corner with Selby!
Aug 27 2024
Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Oasis Reunion! Liam and Noel on Crystal Meth! PCP, Weed, MDMA Cormac Chemical Corner with Selby!
This Tuesday is classic old school dumb shit. Me yelling at the Subway sandwich maker, fumbling and bumbling. We hear a Dopey story all about Oasis and their impending reunion. Plus we hear a tease from the PATREON show with Cormac and Selby all about weed, PCP and more on this Tuesday Patreon Teaser! PLUS DOPEYCON 2024 tickets are on sale at https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031 Discounted Tickets on Patreon at: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   AI STUFF:  summaryIn this episode, Dave talks about DopeyCon 2024, his love for Oasis, and shares some personal stories. He also discusses his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in college. The conversation touches on topics such as drug business sense, the sacredness of psychedelics, and the effects of excessive drug use. keywordsDopeyCon 2024, Oasis, drugs, addiction, personal stories, drug business, psychedelics, excessive drug use takeaways Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patronsDave shares his love for Oasis and their reunionHe talks about his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in collegeThe conversation explores drug business sense and the sacredness of psychedelicsDave reflects on the effects of excessive drug use titles Dave's Love for OasisDopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup Sound Bites "Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patrons""The big news is that Oasis got back together""It totally changed my life forever"   Chapters 00:00DopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup 05:03Dave's Love for Oasis 13:44Early Experiences with Drugs and Selling 16:16Drug Business Sense and the Sacredness of Psychedelics 18:41The Effects of Excessive Drug Use
Dopey 492: Facing Death 21 Years Sober - R.I.P Tim Kelly. Recovery, Cancer, Grateful Dead, LSD, Kratom
Aug 23 2024
Dopey 492: Facing Death 21 Years Sober - R.I.P Tim Kelly. Recovery, Cancer, Grateful Dead, LSD, Kratom
This week on Dopey - we had a very special opportunity to spend some time with Tim Kelly - a super inspirational alcoholic/drug addict in recovery. Tim and I did this talk 3 weeks ago - he was basically on his death bed. Last Friday morning Tim finally succumbed to his cancer and died. This episode allows Tim to tell his story of what its like to face death sober. It was humbling and powerful and I was extremely grateful to be able to do it. PLUS John 'Sugar Bear' Bukaty got to travel to 'Tim Fest' where a bunch of Tim's friends - and legendary musicians like Anders Osborne, Ivan Neville, Jason Ricci and Alex Orbison went to see them play. John also got to talk to some of them as well as his friends! All that plus some Dopey emails and more on this heart wrenching new episode of that good ol Dopey Show!   AI SAYS: While he was episode of Dopey is dedicated to Tim Kelly, a man with 21 years of recovery who was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Tim's friends organized Tim Fest, a concert event to celebrate his life. The episode features interviews with Tim and his friends, including musicians like Anders Osborne and Jason Ricci. Tim shares his journey of addiction, recovery, and his love for the Grateful Dead. The episode also includes stories from Dopey listeners and sponsors promoting addiction recovery centers. Tim shares his experiences of attending Grateful Dead shows and his struggles with alcoholism. He talks about his journey of finding spirituality through the 12-step program and the importance of willingness and vulnerability. Tim also discusses his current battle with cancer and his perspective on life and death. This conversation covers Tim Kelly's battle with cancer, his journey in recovery, and the impact he had on others. The themes include spirituality, family dynamics, addiction, sobriety, and acceptance. The conversation highlights the importance of support systems, the challenges of addiction and recovery, and the power of love and connection. The takeaways include the significance of living a meaningful life, the importance of being present, and the impact of Tim's legacy. The titles could be 'Finding Meaning in the Face of Adversity', 'The Power of Love and Connection', and 'Embracing Life's Challenges with Courage and Resilience'. keywordsTim Kelly, addiction, recovery, cancer, Tim Fest, Grateful Dead, music, Dopey listeners, sponsors, Grateful Dead, alcoholism, spirituality, 12-step program, cancer, life, death, Tim Kelly, cancer, recovery, spirituality, addiction, sobriety, family dynamics, support systems, love, connection takeaways Tim Kelly, a man with 21 years of recovery, was diagnosed with terminal cancerTim Fest was organized to celebrate Tim's life and featured interviews with Tim and his friendsTim shares his journey of addiction, recovery, and his love for the Grateful DeadThe episode includes stories from Dopey listeners and sponsors promoting addiction recovery centers The Grateful Dead played a significant role in Tim's life, and he attended numerous shows throughout the years.Tim struggled with alcoholism and found solace and support in the 12-step program.He emphasizes the importance of willingness and vulnerability in finding spirituality.Tim is currently battling cancer and has a positive outlook on life and death. Living a meaningful life in the face of adversityThe importance of being present and embracing life's challengesThe power of love and connection in recoveryThe impact of Tim Kelly's legacy titles From Addiction to Recovery: Tim's JourneyStories of Hope and Healing from Dopey Listeners The Grateful Dead and the Impact on Tim's LifeEmbracing Life and Death in the Face of Cancer The Power of Love and ConnectionFinding Meaning in the Face of Adversity Sound Bites "Welcome to the show. Well, thank you for having me.""I always say that AA, the Grateful Dead, and yoga have influenced my life.""When I was at the top of Alpine Valley, I had arrived.""John Belushi, I see the light.""Violent Thumbs are opening up.""People started coming around to me to get things done.""And that's why I was so bummed. You know, obviously it was God's fucking tropical storm or whatever that, but I was so bummed because I, I never, don't say never. rarely go.""Phenomenal man. Agreed. I want to talk more about, I want to talk about your son. Okay. Like when your son was at his worst, does he go straight to you? In two ways, in violent ways, and then when he's in remorse for help.""But a wrestling altercation, you it's not punches, it's more wrestling. And he hates me. He hates me because he hates my recovery. He knows since then and he's made his amends to me. He says it was, I knew that's where I was going to be and you were cheating me." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Sponsor Promotion 02:22Reflecting on Loss and Life 03:20Life's Challenges and Gravitas 04:14Impactful Stories from Dopey Listeners 06:06Humorous and Disgusting Stories 10:19Encouraging Listener Stories 11:13Sponsor Promotion and Introduction to Tim Kelly 12:41Tim Kelly's Journey and Tim Fest 14:07The Last Recording of Tim Kelly 15:06Interview with John Bucati at Tim Fest 20:16Interview with Tim Kelly 41:00The Influence of the Grateful Dead and Yoga 45:52Falling in Love with the Grateful Dead 46:51Conclusion and Sponsor Promotion 48:19Struggles with Alcoholism 56:02Finding Spirituality through the 12-Step Program 01:19:43Love and Relationships in Recovery 01:28:32Embracing Life and Death 01:33:17Embracing Unexpected Opportunities 01:34:44Family Dynamics and Addiction 01:36:41Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Relationships 01:39:07Acceptance and Finding Support 01:42:03Spirituality and Facing Mortality 01:45:26Managing Pain and Medication in Recovery 01:48:49Living a Meaningful Life in the Face of Adversity 01:52:44Reflecting on Life's Challenges and Legacy
Dopey 491: DOPEY DAY SPECIAL! Chris's Mom and Sister Remember Chris for ChrisMiss 2024, Remembering All the Fallen Dopes!
Aug 16 2024
Dopey 491: DOPEY DAY SPECIAL! Chris's Mom and Sister Remember Chris for ChrisMiss 2024, Remembering All the Fallen Dopes!
This week on Dopey! It is Dopey Day Again! We are celebrating ChrisMiss and remembering Chris and all of our fallen friends. We are joined by Chris's mom and sister today to remember Chris! We hear about some of their favorite memories and listen to what it's like living on after you lose someone!  PLUS TONS OF VOICEMAILS, EMAILS, REMEMBERING THE FALLEN DOPES! FROM AI: This part of the conversation focuses on the ongoing impact of losing loved ones to addiction and the importance of remembering and honoring their memory. The hosts discuss their personal experiences of remembering those who have passed away and the comfort it brings. They also touch on the significance of anniversaries and milestones in relation to grief. The conversation transitions to Dopey Day, a holiday created to pay homage to those lost to addiction and celebrate those who are still fighting to stay alive. The hosts share messages and greetings from the Dopey Nation community, highlighting the support and connection within the community. They also discuss the grief and healing process, including visiting Chris's grave and engaging in activities that remind them of him. The chapter ends with a reflection on the complexity of addiction and the challenges of recognizing relapse in loved ones. In this part of the conversation, David and Arden discuss the pain and guilt that comes with losing a loved one to addiction. They reflect on their own experiences of not recognizing the signs and blame themselves for not being able to prevent the tragedy. They emphasize the importance of forgiveness and self-compassion in the healing process. They also discuss the difficulty of moving on and the bittersweet feeling of seeing others continue with their lives while their loved one is gone. They share their thoughts on how to support someone who has lost a child and offer advice on finding hope and healing after such a devastating loss. In this part of the conversation, Annie discusses her ambivalence towards the significance of the new year and reflects on her recovery journey. She shares her struggles with addiction, including relapses and the challenges of staying sober. Annie contemplates recommitting to the 12-step program despite her reservations about certain aspects of it. The conversation ends with messages from Dopey Nation members and a classic Dopey episode featuring Chris and Dave. In this final part of the conversation, David Manheim shares some personal stories and anecdotes about his experiences with drugs and recovery. He talks about his disease and the constant struggle to stay sober. He also discusses his experiments with psychedelics and the possibility of achieving similar experiences through meditation and spiritual practices. The conversation ends with various members of the Dopey Nation sharing their messages of love, remembrance, and gratitude. keywordsaddiction, grief, remembrance, Dopey Day, support, community, healing, relapse, addiction, loss, guilt, forgiveness, self-compassion, moving on, support, hope, healing, ambivalence, new year, recovery, addiction, relapse, 12-step program, messages, Dopey episode, personal stories, anecdotes, drugs, recovery, disease, sobriety, psychedelics, meditation, spiritual practices, love, remembrance, gratitude takeaways Remembering and honoring loved ones who have passed away from addiction can bring comfort and a sense of connection.Anniversaries and milestones can be significant triggers for grief and reflection.Dopey Day is a holiday created to pay homage to those lost to addiction and celebrate those who are still fighting to stay alive.The Dopey Nation community provides support and connection for individuals navigating addiction and recovery.Visiting gravesites and engaging in activities that remind us of loved ones can be a way to feel connected and take care of their memory.Recognizing relapse in loved ones can be challenging, especially when they are intelligent and convincing. Losing a loved one to addiction can bring feelings of guilt and self-blame, but it's important to forgive yourself and recognize that the outcome was out of your control.It is not helpful or respectful to ask someone how they didn't know about their loved one's addiction. Each person's experience is unique, and blaming oneself or others does not change the outcome.Over time, the acute grief and self-questioning may fade, but it can resurface on certain days or during difficult moments. It's important to give yourself time and space to process these emotions.Seeing others move on with their lives can be bittersweet for those who have lost a loved one to addiction. It's a reminder of what could have been and can bring a mix of emotions, including hope and pain.Finding support from others who have experienced similar losses can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and provide a sense of understanding and connection.Engaging in acts of service and helping others can be a way to honor the memory of a loved one and find healing in the aftermath of loss. The new year may not hold significant meaning for everyone, and personal growth and change can happen at any time.Recovery from addiction is a challenging journey with ups and downs, and it's important to seek support and make a commitment to change.The 12-step program, while not perfect, can provide a supportive community and structure for recovery.The Dopey Nation community continues to honor and remember Chris and Annie, and their stories inspire others to stay strong in their own recovery journeys. The constant struggle to stay sober and prioritize recoveryThe potential for psychedelic experiences through meditation and spiritual practicesThe importance of love, remembrance, and gratitude within the Dopey Nation titles Dopey Day: A Holiday of Remembrance and CelebrationGrief and Healing: Navigating the Loss of a Loved One Moving On and Finding HopeNavigating Guilt and Self-Blame Messages from Dopey NationContemplating the 12-Step Program Messages of Love, Remembrance, and GratitudeThe Struggle of Sobriety and the Disease of Addiction Sound Bites "To know that they're remembered in some capacity, I'm just assuming, you know what I mean?""Every August 16th, we celebrate Dopey Day, aka Christmas in August.""Happy Christmas in August Dopey Day episode.""The best gift they gave him is when we really suspected something was wrong, they said, doesn't matter what happened, we'll pay for the next rehab, we will get you, we will work with you so you get better.""Even if we had known, even if we had the best interventionist and the best companion and the best treatment center, it doesn't matter, it still could have ended where it was.""I don't think it's ever helpful to ask somebody, how don't you know? I actually find that really disrespectful and obnoxious and just not a helpful comment.""How do you feel now we're coming up on the new year? Is the new year significant to you?""I've kind of decided I'm going to recommit to 12 step thing, which I'm not 100 % happy about.""I would just like to wish the Dopey Nation a very, very happy new year and I hope to see you all at DopeyCon 2023.""My disease is in the parking lot doing pushups, waiting for me to go out.""I cannot imagine you found any sort of psychedelic experience without taking a hallucinogen.""I got a bunch of this that DMT stuff it was what about dope stories the podcast with crazy Mike and the other guy from fish or whatever that thing I think that's ending didn't we see that was anything so yeah, we're gonna replace dope stories whatever that might be" Chapters 00:00Remembering and Honoring: Finding Comfort in Remembrance 05:47Dopey Day: A Holiday of Remembrance and Celebration 14:20Grief and Healing: Navigating the Loss of a Loved One 27:01Visiting Graves and Engaging in Activities: Keeping Memories Alive 37:30Recognizing Relapse: The Challenges of Supporting Loved Ones 47:19Navigating Guilt and Self-Blame 56:19Finding Healing Through Acts of Service 01:36:28Reflecting on the Significance of the New Year 01:43:28Struggles and Commitment in Recovery 01:54:14Messages from Dopey Nation 02:17:15Classic Dopey Episode: The GHB Bottle 02:24:07Exploring Psychedelics and Alternative Spiritual Practices 02:37:38Coincidences and Strange Encounters 02:44:09Messages of Love, Remembrance, and Gratitude
Dopey 490: Is Dead Head 1 Word or 2? Shooting Methadone and John W. Comerford's NYC Hippie Punk Rock Opus! MDMA, Recovery, Jail
Aug 13 2024
Dopey 490: Is Dead Head 1 Word or 2? Shooting Methadone and John W. Comerford's NYC Hippie Punk Rock Opus! MDMA, Recovery, Jail
This Week on a super new bonus Dopey Tuesday! We are joined by filmmaker and recovering addict John W. Comerford! We hear all about his super psychedelic path of addiction and recovery! John tells about his unsupervised nyc youth- we learn the secrets of old New York's music scene and Grateful Dead culture and much more on this super duper bonus episode of that good old Dopey Show! More on John: www.linktr.ee/johnwcomerford PLUS SHOOTING METHADONE VOICEMAIL!!!!! and MORE! Emilia's Notes:  - brothers intervention - realizing his mom was taking percs his whole childhood - lsd at red rocks - mdma sale arrest - bill w and huxley - bill w and belladonna - brother's death AI NOTES: In this part of the conversation, David Manheim discusses the purpose of the Dopey podcast and emphasizes the importance of real recovery work. He also shares personal experiences, including being alone in his house for the first time, dealing with a hernia, and celebrating his nine years of sobriety. The conversation then transitions to a voicemail from a listener who shares his experience of shooting methadone and being prescribed benzos at a methadone clinic. The episode concludes with an interview with John Comerford, a film producer and music presenter, where they discuss their love for jazz and their experiences with alcohol and drugs. David Manheim reflects on his early experiences with music and drugs, including attending jazz shows and experimenting with acid at a young age. He discusses his identity formation and the role of feeling and experience in his life. He shares stories of his tumultuous family life and the impact of addiction on his brother. David also talks about his introduction to the Grateful Dead and the transformative power of their music. He delves into his own struggles with alcoholism and drug addiction, including selling ecstasy and his eventual decision to get sober. In this final part of the conversation, David and John discuss their experiences with addiction and recovery. They share personal stories of their struggles with drugs and alcohol, including John's time in jail and David's journey to sobriety. They also talk about the importance of community and support in the recovery process. David shares some of the projects he is currently working on, including a documentary about General Yamashita's gold and a character study of Sarah Jane Moore, the woman who attempted to assassinate President Ford. keywords: Dopey podcast, recovery work, personal experiences, hernia, sobriety, methadone, benzos, film producer, jazz, alcohol, drugs, music, drugs, jazz, acid, identity, addiction, family, Grateful Dead, alcoholism, sobriety, addiction, recovery, jail, sobriety, community, support, documentary, General Yamashita's gold, Sarah Jane Moore takeaways The Dopey podcast is meant to be supplemental to someone with a recovery program and is not a substitute for real recovery work.Personal experiences, such as being alone in the house, dealing with a hernia, and celebrating sobriety milestones, can be shared openly to reduce shame and judgment.The listener's voicemail highlights the dangers of shooting methadone and the inappropriate prescribing of benzos at a methadone clinic.The interview with John Comerford explores their love for jazz and their experiences with alcohol and drugs.Music, such as jazz, can have a profound impact on emotions and enhance the experience of substances like cannabis and alcohol. Early experiences with music and drugs can shape one's identity and worldview.Addiction can have a profound impact on individuals and their families.The transformative power of music can provide solace and inspiration.Recovery from addiction requires a shift in focus from the problem to the solution. Addiction can lead to serious consequences, including jail time and death.Recovery requires a commitment to change and a willingness to seek help and support.Community and connection are essential in the recovery process.Sobriety opens up new opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment.Projects like More Than Music Foundation aim to foster wellness and educational opportunities for musicians and audiences. "titles" The Importance of Real Recovery WorkListener Voicemail: Shooting Methadone and Prescribed Benzos Finding Sobriety and a New PathThe Impact of Addiction on Family The Power of Community in RecoveryFinding Purpose and Fulfillment in Sobriety Sound Bites "Good morning, Dopey. Good morning, Dopey. Ay -ay -ay.""This Friday is Dopey Day, AKA Christmas in August.""I'm on the methadone program here in my state, in my home state, and I've been on it since 2013.""What these guys are putting out there has magnitude, and it has power.""I didn't really develop an intellectual life until I was like in my mid-late 30s.""That's why she's an hour late all the time. That's why she doesn't know why I'm at Irving Plaza at 13.""I mean, you jails, institutions and death is where we're headed. If we don't change it""I reapplied to Boulder. I got in because I told them the story of what happened.""It's completely life-changing because I mean, Tommy had been my friend for a long time and was involved with the fellowship and always talked about how he wouldn't give up his sobriety for anything." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Overview 01:15The Importance of Real Recovery Work 03:41Personal Experiences: Alone in the House and Dealing with a Hernia 09:09Listener Voicemail: Shooting Methadone and Prescribed Benzos 18:58Interview with John Comerford: Love for Jazz and Experiences with Alcohol and Drugs 36:04Early Experiences with Music and Drugs 39:01Family Dynamics and Addiction 44:12The Transformative Power of Music 46:04Navigating Addiction 57:45Selling Drugs and Consequences 01:08:13Finding Sobriety 01:11:01From Jail to Filmmaking 01:18:08The Power of Community in Recovery 01:21:00Uncovering Hidden Stories 01:27:19Finding Purpose and Fulfillment in Sobriety 01:34:15More Than Music: Fostering Wellness and Education
Dopey 489: The Hollywood Dope Game with Reno from It's All Bad and Remembering Annie Ellie!  Overdose, Heroin, Meth, Recovery, Death
Aug 9 2024
Dopey 489: The Hollywood Dope Game with Reno from It's All Bad and Remembering Annie Ellie! Overdose, Heroin, Meth, Recovery, Death
This week on Dopey! We got horrible news that our dear friend, contributor and all around beloved OG favorite Dope - Annie Ellie died this week. We remember her and play her first voicemail which was, tragically and ironically all about a time she overdosed and almost died. We also play her review of DopeyCon 2022 and another thing she had sent in. Then Reno from the 'It's All Bad' podcast came to meet me at Jeremy's house when I was in Los Angeles - ironically for the Rich Roll show which aired last week! Reno tells his gnarly story of addiction and recovery! We hear all about his crazy beginnings in addict life and the hell he went through before it all got pretty good for him. Plus Dopey emails and much more on a brand new super tragic episode of that good old bitter sweet Dopey Show!  FROM AI:  yIn this episode of Dopey, Dave mourns the loss of Annie Ellie, a beloved member of the Dopey Nation who died of an overdose. He shares voicemails and memories of Annie, emphasizing the importance of reaching out for help and support. Dave also interviews Reno from the podcast It's All Bad, discussing their experiences with addiction and the challenges they faced. They talk about their early drug use, encounters with the law, and the journey to recovery. Reno shares his insights on navigating the prison system and finding a path to a better life. David Manheim shares his experiences with addiction and relapse, highlighting the importance of community and connectivity in recovery. He discusses his time in rehab and the intense group therapy sessions that helped him confront his character defects. David also talks about his Neapolitan background and how his natural skills of connecting with people served him both in his addiction and in his recovery. He reflects on the shame and guilt that came with his relapse and the impact it had on his personal and professional life. David emphasizes the importance of sharing stories of addiction and recovery to combat loneliness and provide hope to others. In this final part of the conversation, Reno reviews his drug use experiences, including his encounters with PCP, GHB, DMT, Ibogaine, and ketamine. He also shares a wild story about trying to access his tax refund while in the midst of addiction. Annie, a fan of the show, provides a review of DopeyCon 2022 and expresses her love for Brandon Novak. The episode concludes with Annie's tribute song to Brandon Novak. keywordsaddiction, overdose, mourning, support, recovery, podcast, interview, drug use, law, prison, life, addiction, recovery, community, connectivity, rehab, character defects, Neapolitan, shame, guilt, relapse, personal life, professional life, sharing stories, drug use, PCP, GHB, DMT, Ibogaine, ketamine, tax refund, addiction, DopeyCon, Brandon Novak takeaways The loss of a loved one to addiction is a tragic reminder of the importance of reaching out for help and support.Sharing memories and voicemails can be a way to honor and remember those who have passed away.Early drug use and encounters with the law can be wake-up calls that lead to a desire for change and recovery.Navigating the prison system can be challenging, but finding a community and seeking help can lead to a better life.Recovery is a journey that requires commitment, support, and a willingness to change. Loneliness and disconnection are breeding grounds for addiction, while community and connectivity are essential for recovery.Group therapy sessions in rehab can help individuals confront their character defects and work towards personal growth.Natural skills, such as connecting with people, can serve both in addiction and in recovery.Relapse can be a part of the recovery journey, and it's important to learn from it and seek help.Sharing stories of addiction and recovery can combat loneliness and provide hope to others. Reno reflects on his experiences with various drugs, highlighting the dangers and consequences of addiction.Annie's review of DopeyCon 2022 showcases the sense of community and connection among Dopey fans.The tribute song to Brandon Novak demonstrates the impact and admiration he has among the Dopey Nation. titles Mourning the Loss of Annie EllieFinding Community and Support in Recovery Confronting Character Defects in RehabThe Role of Community and Connectivity in Recovery A Tribute to Brandon NovakAnnie's Review of DopeyCon 2022 Sound Bites "If you're using and you're really, you don't want to die and you don't want to get really hurt, call that number.""I love Annie and I will totally miss her.""Discover Recovery: An Amazing Treatment Facility in the Pacific Northwest""Addiction is a disease. Loneliness really thrives. Addiction really thrives in loneliness. Connectivity is one of the bigger things that unlocks addiction.""They did this thing called the game where they would circle up chairs in the middle of a room and there were no rules whatsoever, except for no violence.""I'm Neapolitan. And that's one of the characteristics. Is Neapolitan besides chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry?""Love all the acts, crack, smack, and Brandon Novak.""Oh Mr. Novak, this is Mrs. Novak.""Mr. Novak is good, Mr. Novak is kind, Mr. Novak don't care." Chapters 00:00Mourning the Loss of Annie Ellie 10:48Recovery and Support 19:46Interview with Reno from It's All Bad 32:11Early Drug Use and Encounters with the Law 44:47Finding a Path to Recovery 46:59The Role of Community and Connectivity in Recovery 48:19Confronting Character Defects in Rehab 55:42The Impact of Relapse on Personal and Professional Life 01:14:46The Power of Sharing Stories of Addiction and Recovery 01:32:17Wild Drug Use Experiences 01:57:33Annie's Review of DopeyCon 2022 02:06:14A Tribute to Brandon Novak
Tuesday Patreon Teaser: Cormac Chemical Corner - featuring Scott Wic plus Chris reads an email about FLAKKA plus a voicemail about Fenta
Aug 6 2024
Tuesday Patreon Teaser: Cormac Chemical Corner - featuring Scott Wic plus Chris reads an email about FLAKKA plus a voicemail about Fenta
This week on Patreon Teaser! We first hear from Micro! Who tells us how he accidentally got addicted to fentanyl - then we take a walk down memory lane with Cormac and Scott Wic - and hear when Chris read Wic's first email all about Flakka!  DopeyCon 2024 Tickets only available on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   Here is what AI says: summaryIn this episode of Cormac's Chemical Corner, Cormac and Scott Wick discuss their experiences with drugs, including Flakka and cocaine. They share stories of addiction, paranoia, and the challenges they faced. The conversation also touches on the upcoming DopeyCon event and the celebration of Dopey Day in honor of Chris's birthday. The episode concludes with a musical performance by Scott Wick. keywordsCormac's Chemical Corner, drugs, addiction, Flakka, cocaine, DopeyCon, Dopey Day, celebration, music takeaways Flakka is a synthetic street drug that can induce intense paranoia and hallucinations.Addiction can lead to desperate and dangerous behavior, such as flushing drugs down the toilet in a panic.DopeyCon is an upcoming event that offers savings for Patreon subscribers.Dopey Day is a celebration of Chris's birthday and a show of solidarity with addicts in recovery.Scott Wick showcases his musical talent with a performance at the end of the episode. titles Remembering Chris: Dopey Day CelebrationDopeyCon: A Gathering of the Dopey Nation Sound Bites "My thing is stored in Coke, but I did have a short run with a synthetic street drug called Flakka. It's a stimulant similar to Coke, but one tiny bump is probably equal to two huge rails of good Coke.""As I am taking the second bump, there is a loud pounding at the door. I run to the people to see who it was, and I see what appears to be an entire SWAT team. Red lights flashing, dogs, detectives with megaphones, Raider trucks the whole night.""Dopey Day, AKA Christmas in August, where we all put the Dopey logo over our eyes in solidarity with addicts who are still suffering, also celebrating addicts who are in recovery, and paying homage to those we lost, including Chris."