Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft

Andy Brown

Hosted by business coach and author Andy Brown, the Exploring Emotional Overdraft Pod is a series of honest and thought-provoking conversations with business founders and leaders, during which they explore:

- Their relationship with their own emotional overdraft
- The challenges they face in their businesses
- The impact running a business has had on their mental and physical wellbeing
- Valuable lessons they’ve learnt along the way.

A pod for business leaders or founders who have a habit of overcoming their company’s challenges at the expense of their own wellbeing, and for those who strive for a healthier relationship with their business.

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Katie Street: I might have ADHD / My husband went to prison when my daughter was 13 months old/ the pressure and guilt of running a business

Katie Street: I might have ADHD / My husband went to prison when my daughter was 13 months old/ the pressure and guilt of running a business

"I'm very scatty. I'm one of those people that I think I'm often thinking about the bigger picture or the things that are really important to me. So the little things don't get done.""I mean, I've had some pretty shit things in life, as in my husband went to prison when my daughter was 13 months old.""I think I've always, I always want more. So I'm never happy, which is pretty sad. I mean, I'm not, I'm actually quite a happy person, but I always strive for more and I always put a lot of pressure on myself."In this episode of Exploring Emotional Overdraft, Andy speaks to Katie Street, founder of Street Agency as she shares her personal and professional experiences. Key Discussion Points:Emotional Overdraft Explained:The term refers to the personal cost entrepreneurs pay for their business's success, impacting their emotional and physical health.Andy frames it as an invisible line in one's P&L that shows success at the expense of the founder's well-being.Katie’s Personal Struggles with Emotional Overdraft:Despite her successful appearance, Katie discusses the pressures and guilt she often feels, exacerbated by her rigorous personal and professional standards.She talks about the difficulties of managing a strict detox regimen alongside her business responsibilities, reflecting on the need for self-compassion and realistic goal-setting.Professional Journey and Business Evolution:Katie outlines her career path in sales and marketing, leading to the founding of Street Agency, which specializes in lead generation and content for tech clients.She details the agency’s pivot towards servicing larger tech companies and the evolution of their business model in response to market demands and opportunities.Leadership and Management Challenges:Katie reflects on the challenges of being a self-critical leader, her experiences with hiring and managing a team, and the complexities of scaling a business.She shares lessons learned from a failed attempt to appoint a managing director, emphasizing the importance of role clarity and the need to match job roles with personal strengths and business needs.Resilience and Coping Mechanisms:Despite the tough year financially and operationally, Katie highlights the resilience it took to navigate these challenges, including taking strategic risks like loans to sustain the business.She also discusses the importance of self-care and setting boundaries to maintain mental health and productivity.Advice for Entrepreneurs:Katie and Andy discuss the importance of recognizing accomplishments and the need for entrepreneurs to give themselves credit where it's due.She stresses the importance of time management and self-reflection in making thoughtful business decisions and maintaining a healthy work-life balance.Conclusion:Katie's journey illustrates the hidden costs of entrepreneurship and the essential balance between ambition and well-being.Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their emotional overdraft and consider Katie’s advice on resilience, leadership, and personal growth.https://street.agency/Connect with Katie on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiestreet/

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Katie Street: I might have ADHD / My husband went to prison when my daughter was 13 months old/ the pressure and guilt of running a business

Katie Street: I might have ADHD / My husband went to prison when my daughter was 13 months old/ the pressure and guilt of running a business

"I'm very scatty. I'm one of those people that I think I'm often thinking about the bigger picture or the things that are really important to me. So the little things don't get done.""I mean, I've had some pretty shit things in life, as in my husband went to prison when my daughter was 13 months old.""I think I've always, I always want more. So I'm never happy, which is pretty sad. I mean, I'm not, I'm actually quite a happy person, but I always strive for more and I always put a lot of pressure on myself."In this episode of Exploring Emotional Overdraft, Andy speaks to Katie Street, founder of Street Agency as she shares her personal and professional experiences. Key Discussion Points:Emotional Overdraft Explained:The term refers to the personal cost entrepreneurs pay for their business's success, impacting their emotional and physical health.Andy frames it as an invisible line in one's P&L that shows success at the expense of the founder's well-being.Katie’s Personal Struggles with Emotional Overdraft:Despite her successful appearance, Katie discusses the pressures and guilt she often feels, exacerbated by her rigorous personal and professional standards.She talks about the difficulties of managing a strict detox regimen alongside her business responsibilities, reflecting on the need for self-compassion and realistic goal-setting.Professional Journey and Business Evolution:Katie outlines her career path in sales and marketing, leading to the founding of Street Agency, which specializes in lead generation and content for tech clients.She details the agency’s pivot towards servicing larger tech companies and the evolution of their business model in response to market demands and opportunities.Leadership and Management Challenges:Katie reflects on the challenges of being a self-critical leader, her experiences with hiring and managing a team, and the complexities of scaling a business.She shares lessons learned from a failed attempt to appoint a managing director, emphasizing the importance of role clarity and the need to match job roles with personal strengths and business needs.Resilience and Coping Mechanisms:Despite the tough year financially and operationally, Katie highlights the resilience it took to navigate these challenges, including taking strategic risks like loans to sustain the business.She also discusses the importance of self-care and setting boundaries to maintain mental health and productivity.Advice for Entrepreneurs:Katie and Andy discuss the importance of recognizing accomplishments and the need for entrepreneurs to give themselves credit where it's due.She stresses the importance of time management and self-reflection in making thoughtful business decisions and maintaining a healthy work-life balance.Conclusion:Katie's journey illustrates the hidden costs of entrepreneurship and the essential balance between ambition and well-being.Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their emotional overdraft and consider Katie’s advice on resilience, leadership, and personal growth.https://street.agency/Connect with Katie on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiestreet/

"I thought I was having a heart attack, I blacked out, I'd lost control" Paul O'Malley on intense panic attacks, a reliance on alcohol and being deep in his emotional overdraft

"I thought I was having a heart attack, I blacked out, I'd lost control" Paul O'Malley on intense panic attacks, a reliance on alcohol and being deep in his emotional overdraft

In this incredible and moving episode of Exploring Emotional Overdraft, Andy Brown interviews Paul O'Malley, the COO of Fox Agency. Paul candidly shares his journey of expanding the agency into the US and the challenges he faced. He discusses the pressure he felt to succeed and the toll it took on his mental and physical well-being. Paul opens up about experiencing intense panic attacks and the realisation that after much denial he recognised just how deep he was in his emotional overdraft. The conversation touches on Paul's reliance on alcohol during his hardest times, how he blacked in the middle of the street and how he eventually found his way back through therapy, medication and non-negotiable setting boundaries to avoid burnout.Paul talks about throwing himself into photography and emphasises the real importance of recharging and taking care of his mental health.Chapters00:00Introduction and Background05:16Paul's Experience with Emotional Overdraft12:15Impact of Emotional Overdraft on Paul25:23Panic Attacks and Emotional Overdraft31:46Self-Medicating with Alcohol36:01Recognizing the Need for Help40:20The Importance of Recharging44:16Living in the Present Moment49:52Managing Emotional Overdraft57:43Protecting Time for Yourselfhttps://fox.agency/

"People say I don't have an emotional overdraft" Charlie Marchant on staying calm, embracing challenge, helping people thrive and the power of evolving process

"People say I don't have an emotional overdraft" Charlie Marchant on staying calm, embracing challenge, helping people thrive and the power of evolving process

Introduction:In an engaging episode of "Exploring Emotional Overdraft," Andy Brown dives into a profound conversation with Charlie Marchant, the CEO of Exposure Ninja. Known for her balanced approach to emotional and professional challenges, Charlie shares her journey and insights into managing emotional overdrafts, offering invaluable lessons on personal growth and leadership.Key Takeaways from the Episode:Understanding Emotional Overdraft: Charlie articulates her perception of emotional overdraft, emphasizing the necessity of acknowledging one's limitations. She underlines the importance of separating self-worth from professional achievements and the dangers of the "Just Fix, Do, Implement" (JFDI) mentality. This foundational understanding is pivotal for anyone looking to manage their emotional reserves effectively.The Power of Processes: Charlie credits her ability to manage stress and maintain high-quality work to being process-driven. She highlights the significance of establishing standard operating procedures, ensuring team competence through training, and the critical role of feedback. This approach not only streamlines operations but also fosters a culture of trust and accountability.Navigating New Challenges: A theme that resonates throughout the conversation is the evolution of challenges within the workplace. Charlie discusses the shift towards the need for inter-team collaboration, viewing these challenges as opportunities for growth and development. Her perspective reframes obstacles as catalysts for organizational and personal advancement.Recruiting with Intention: Charlie shares her philosophy on "recruiting slower," focusing on aligning potential hires with the specific demands and culture of the role and company. This thoughtful approach to recruitment ensures a harmonious match between the employee's capabilities and the job's requirements, ultimately reducing turnover and enhancing team dynamics.Adaptive Leadership: A significant portion of the discussion revolves around the concept of being a "people manager" rather than a "line manager." Charlie advocates for adapting leadership styles to meet individual team members' needs, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding in fostering a supportive work environment.Personal Fulfillment Beyond Work: Charlie passionately speaks on the necessity of engaging in activities outside of work that one loves. She believes that a well-rounded life, rich with personal interests and passions, is essential for maintaining balance and preventing emotional overdraft.Conclusion:Charlie Marchant's journey and insights offer a roadmap for effectively navigating emotional overdraft, highlighting the importance of self-awareness, process orientation, intentional recruitment, adaptive leadership, and personal fulfillment. Her evolved approach serves as an inspiration for leaders and individuals alike, seeking to balance professional success with emotional well-being.

I've run for 2,000 days in a row. Prioritising physical wellbeing should be a non-negotiable for leaders and founders

I've run for 2,000 days in a row. Prioritising physical wellbeing should be a non-negotiable for leaders and founders

In this compelling episode of "Exploring Emotional Overdraft," host Andy Brown engages in a profound conversation with Publisher, Alison Jones. They delve into the intricacies of managing emotional health, particularly focusing on the concept of 'emotional overdraft.' Alison, with her insightful perspectives, offers an intriguing look into how she navigates the ups and downs of her emotional and professional life.Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136 Key HighlightsThe Power of Habitual ChangeThe conversation takes a reflective turn as Andy suggests that changing one’s habits can be a pivotal strategy in managing emotional overdraft. He emphasizes the importance of being mindful and intentional about habitual patterns to foster positive emotional health.Embracing the Emotional OverdraftAlison Jones shares her personal perspective on recognizing and accepting her emotional overdraft. She reveals her pragmatic approach to mitigating the drawbacks of emotional overdraft, stressing efficiency and the necessity to reduce it. However, she also highlights the importance of passion and love for what one does, suggesting that a strong sense of purpose can help endure and manage emotional challenges effectively.Finding Strength in PurposeDrawing inspiration from Victor Frankl’s philosophy, Alison and Andy discuss the power of having a strong 'why' in life. Alison expresses her gratitude for the structure provided by the podcast and candidly talks about the resilience that comes from loving one’s work. She acknowledges that having a secure 'why' enables individuals to bear considerable hardships.ConclusionThe episode offers invaluable insights into managing emotional health in the professional sphere. Alison Jones, with her candidness and practical wisdom, provides listeners with strategies to understand and navigate their emotional overdraft. Andy helps uncover the layers of emotional resilience and the significance of having a strong purpose in life.Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own emotional health and consider how the principles discussed in the episode can be applied to their personal and professional lives.Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136

"I was trying to make everyone happy, I was exhausted" Leadership and Wellness Coach Charlotte Wiseman on her emotional overdraft

"I was trying to make everyone happy, I was exhausted" Leadership and Wellness Coach Charlotte Wiseman on her emotional overdraft

Show Notes for "Exploring Emotional Overdraft" with Andy Brown and Charlotte WisemanEpisode Overview:In this enlightening episode, Andy Brown chats with leadership and wellbeing coach Charlotte Wiseman about navigating emotional wellbeing in professional and personal contexts. Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136 Discussion Highlights:The Importance of Recognising Feelings (08:14)Charlotte Wiseman stresses the significance of acknowledging feelings as a part of personal and professional wellbeing.Emphasis on understanding that our narratives are not factual but are self-created.Anchoring Feelings and Narratives (08:27)The concept of using anchors or mantras to remind ourselves that our narratives are internal creations.Strategies for interrupting our thought processes to recognise and differentiate feelings from facts.Exploration of Habits (08:57)Charlotte's approach to habit change: advocating for micro-dosing new behaviors rather than drastic changes.The idea that small habit changes can have a ripple effect on other aspects of life.The Smallest Changes Make a Big Impact (09:11)Choosing minimal changes for maximum effect in breaking cycles and initiating positive habits.The role of one small habit change in impacting overall behavior and routines.Tracking Progress (09:27)The importance of making habit changes tangible and measurable.Charlotte's advice on tracking as a tool for ensuring consistent progress.Simple Changes in Routine (09:36)Charlotte's suggestion for a simple, yet effective, change: altering something in your daily routine.Encouragement to avoid living on autopilot and to take control of daily actions.Living Consciously and Accountability (09:51)The significance of living with consciousness and finding someone to hold you accountable.Making commitments to ensure sustained changes and personal growth.Andy Brown reflects on the fascinating insights from Charlotte Wiseman, emphasising the value of conscious living, recognising internal narratives, and the power of small habit changes in enhancing emotional and mental wellbeing. This episode serves as a valuable guide for anyone looking to improve their emotional overdraft in both professional and personal spheres.Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136

Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Char Hamill, COO, Born Social

Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Char Hamill, COO, Born Social

In the latest episode of 'Exposing Emotional Overdraft', Andy Brown chats to Char Hamill, COO of the incredible Born Social.Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136 Episode Highlights:Leadership Responsibility: Char dives into the unique pressures of being ultimately responsible for the success of everything and the delicate balance of being an empathetic leader while also being the ultimate decision-maker.Empowerment vs. Disinvestment: The challenge of empowering team members while also making them understand that the buck stops with the leader.Impostor Syndrome: Char’s struggles with overcompensation due to impostor syndrome and her solution: hiring good people and trusting their expertise.The Butterfly Effect: The concept of the emotional overdraft and how long-term emotional debt can cause things to spiral out of control.Self-Definition: The tendency to define ourselves by our worst traits and Char’s strategy to counteract this by using evidence-based affirmations.Core Values: Char’s values of loyalty and teamwork, and the importance of understanding and aligning with one’s personal and professional values.Embracing Failures: Char’s approach to treating successes and failures with the same energy and viewing failures as learning opportunities.The Art of Overdraft: Recognising when you’re in emotional overdraft, embracing it, and setting a clear endpoint for recovery.Work-Life Balance: Char’s candid sharing about resenting the limits of being a parent, but not resenting parenting or her kids. Turning her personal challenges into learnings for her team.Strong Organisational Culture: The significance of developing a strong, positive culture and how it has helped Char manage her emotional overdraft.Facing Challenges Head-On: Char’s insightful remark, "If you're trying to run a business where there won't be any challenges, you will set yourself up to fail." Closing Thought:Building a business, leading a team, and managing emotional health are all intricate journeys. Char’s candid insights provide a roadmap for leaders navigating similar paths. Tune in to our next episode for more discussions on emotional intelligence in leadership.Stay connected and subscribe for more episodes of the Exploring Emotional Overdraft podcast.

Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Ian Harris, Founder of Agency Hackers

Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Ian Harris, Founder of Agency Hackers

In this episode of "Exploring Emotional Overdraft", Andy Brown hosts a conversation with Ian Harris, the founder of Agency Hackers. Together they explore the intricacies of founding and leading a business, sharing invaluable insights for other leaders and founders. Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136 Here’s some of what they discussed: Self-awareness in Business:Ian talks about the importance of recognising that individual leaders don't singularly define the success of a business. It's not the sole proprietorship of ideas but the collective efforts that make the real difference.Role of Leadership: Ian, although sceptical about mission statements, is unambiguous about his role. He’s the creative visionary who is intent on amplifying this vision by sharing it with and through his team. He shares why this is so important and how he’s managed it. Hiring Strategy: A standout point Ian makes is about hiring practices. He actively seeks out and hires individuals who possess skills better than his own. This reflects the importance of letting ego take a backseat for the betterment of the company.Business Processes: Andy and Ian agree that business revolves around processes. While not all are codified, recognizing, and harnessing them is crucial. Ian talks about how he uses automation to streamline these processes, ensuring consistency and efficiency in his team's operations.Adapting and Evolving: Ian advocates for the "fail fast" mantra, emphasising the importance of letting go of ideas that aren't working. Instead of forcibly pushing something, it's often wiser to pivot.Handling Stress: Touching upon stress, Ian shares his personal strategy. In moments of overwhelm, he revisits his core purpose, reminding himself of the fundamental reason he's in business. Never Stop Learning: One of Ian's most important messages in the pod is his commitment to continuous learning. He's an avid seeker of stories from other businesses, extracting lessons and adapting them to his context. Thanks Ian for coming on and sharing so openly, there’s a lot here for anyone keen on grasping the nuances of effective leadership and team management.

Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Chris Thomas

Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Chris Thomas

In this episode of "Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft," Andy Brown sits down with Chris Thomas, the founder of Cake Agency, an e-commerce agency. During the chat, Chris discusses his own emotional overdraft, sharing his experience of starting out as retailer, running a business, and the personal sacrifices it has often entailed. Chris shared that like many founders, he has frequently dipped into and even lived in his emotional overdraft. Chris talks about finding solace in working alongside his partner in the business - speaking about the benefits of having someone who understands the business, creating a shared understanding and language. Andy and Chris also discuss the importance of identifying times when you play hard into your emotional overdraft and how to actively work towards repaying it. Chris shares his strategies of delegating and leveraging his accountancy background for reassuranc, noting he has found fulfillment in coaching others. Throughout, there is a theme that Chris feels a real sense of duty towards his business and team, and the two discuss the implications this driver can have on emotional overdraft. Episode Highlights:Stepping away from the office and finding physical distance to resolve issues in one's head.The personal sacrifices often associated with running a business and the importance of appreciating the journey.The significance of having a partner who understands the business and shares a common language.Recognizing that everyone's experience of emotional overdraft is unique and finding individual ways to address it.Strategies for reducing emotional overdraft, such as delegating and leveraging skills and expertise.The value of coaching as a means of redirecting one's doer instincts.The duty of building a business that can achieve goals, emphasizing the role of systems and processes.

Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Jamie Hancox

Andy Brown's Exploring Emotional Overdraft with Jamie Hancox

"I'm an accidental business leader. I was looking for a way for it not to be about me for a long time"Andy's book, 'The Emotional Overdraft' is available now on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Overdraft-balancing-business-wellbeing/dp/1788605136 Jamie Hancox is the founder of a business called Buying Time. It's a high pressure business, it's sales oriented business, and that's Jamie's background. And yet, despite that, Jamie's incredibly emotionally connected. He's a smart and funny guy and has really sought to understand where his emotional overdraft comes from and how he's going to work with it and be kind to himself. So I think you heard a lot from this one.Emotional overdraft is such a simple concept, but when you spend time talking with someone about it, you discover that everyone has their own complexities and their own flavours and their own interpretation, and those kind of interpretations are infinite and so revealing. It was very generous of Jamie to share so openly, but a few things that jumped out at me:Recognising that you are emotionally overdrawn whilst also recognising you're good at handling itThe importance of building a leadership team and giving them autonomyHiring people with something to prove and valuing attitude over other factorsAllowing employees to ask for more responsibilities instead of overwhelming themThe significance of unplugging and taking time to rechargeJamie's emotional overdraft being related to his concern for his team's pressure to succeedThe dependence of Jamie's business on the quality of his peopleEnjoying the journey as a vital aspect of successBeing happy for employees who move on to better opportunities and celebrating their growth and achievements.