Engender Love Podcast

Dr Shannon

Welcome to "Engender Love," a podcast dedicated to unraveling the complexities of gender identity, gender expression, and biological characteristics. Join us as we embark on a journey to foster greater understanding and compassion for all individuals, regardless of where they fall on the gender spectrum.

In each episode, we dive deep into the fundamentals of gender, unraveling misconceptions and exploring the intersections between biology and identity. Through thought-provoking discussions, the aim is to question personal beliefs and ignite conversations that push the boundaries of understanding.

Are you ready to understand how to create a gender-inclusive family, practice, community, or world? Do you seek a deeper understanding of how societal norms shape our perceptions of gender? Or perhaps you're seeking guidance on how to support a loved one going through a gender transition. "Engender Love" is your guide to challenging preconceived notions and inspiring meaningful conversations.

My mission is simple: to create a safe space where listeners can learn, grow, and examine their own beliefs about gender. By fostering empathy and awareness, we hope to empower individuals to embrace diversity and champion inclusivity in their communities.

Join me on this transformative journey as we navigate the intricate tapestry of gender identity. Together, let's engender love and celebrate the beautiful spectrum of human diversity.

Tune in to "Engender Love," and let's explore gender with understanding.

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Empowering Patients: Guidelines for Healthcare Providers Treating Transgender and Nonbinary People

Empowering Patients: Guidelines for Healthcare Providers Treating Transgender and Nonbinary People

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the importance of empowering patients, especially transgender and non-binary individuals, in healthcare settings. She shares valuable insights on how healthcare providers can enhance patient empowerment through effective communication and respectful practices. Dr. Panszi emphasizes the significance of providing patients with information, understanding their preferences, and respecting their decisions regarding exams and treatments. Join us as we explore practical ways to promote patient empowerment and foster a more inclusive healthcare environment.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

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Empowering Patients: Guidelines for Healthcare Providers Treating Transgender and Nonbinary People

Empowering Patients: Guidelines for Healthcare Providers Treating Transgender and Nonbinary People

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the importance of empowering patients, especially transgender and non-binary individuals, in healthcare settings. She shares valuable insights on how healthcare providers can enhance patient empowerment through effective communication and respectful practices. Dr. Panszi emphasizes the significance of providing patients with information, understanding their preferences, and respecting their decisions regarding exams and treatments. Join us as we explore practical ways to promote patient empowerment and foster a more inclusive healthcare environment.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Fostering Inclusive Healthcare through Gender Education

Fostering Inclusive Healthcare through Gender Education

In today's episode, we tackle the urgent need for better healthcare training around gender diversity. I recently spoke with a healthcare provider who, like many others, felt embarrassed and unprepared when treating transgender or nonbinary patients. This episode explores why this knowledge gap exists and how medical education is beginning to address it.We’ll discuss the historical context of gender diversity in healthcare, a key study that shifted our understanding, and practical steps for healthcare providers to enhance their competence and compassion. If you're looking to improve your ability to support gender-diverse patients, this episode is for you. Let’s get started!For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Overcoming Fear in Gender Inclusion

Overcoming Fear in Gender Inclusion

In today's episode, we delve into the prevalent yet challenging topic of fear in pursuing gender inclusivity within businesses and organizations. Dr. Shannon discusses how fear, whether due to potential backlash or the anxiety of making mistakes, can deter individuals and businesses from embracing inclusion. Throughout the episode, we explore practical ways to navigate these fears, the importance of aligning with personal and organizational values, and how making changes in everyday language and practices can signal a safe space for all genders. We also examine why errors in gender identity might be handled differently from other social mistakes and how maintaining focus on respectful recovery can reinforce personal integrity and business ethics. Join us as Dr. Shannon guides us through understanding and managing these fears, ensuring they do not hinder the commitment to inclusivity.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

(#15) It's Not a Choice: Understanding and Respecting Gender Identity Through Language

(#15) It's Not a Choice: Understanding and Respecting Gender Identity Through Language

Today, Dr. Shannon, dives deep into the common misconceptions surrounding gender identity, emphasizing the crucial understanding that gender identity is not a choice. Shannon challenges outdated terms and expressions, such as "preferred pronouns," and addresses how language can unintentionally imply choice in gender identity. She shares poignant examples from her experiences, shedding light on the language used by parents of transgender or non-binary children, the assumptions made when someone transitions, and the hurtful implications that can arise when gender identity is treated as a mere trend or a decision to be made by someone else. Join us as we explore the importance of language in shaping our perceptions and the profound need for education and understanding in how we discuss and support gender identity.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

What to Call Someone Who Has Transitioned (#14)

What to Call Someone Who Has Transitioned (#14)

Today, our host, Dr. Shannon Panszi, delves into the intricate and ever-evolving world of gender terminology. Often, many of us find ourselves unsure of how to address or refer to someone who has transitioned. Dr. Shannon provides insight not just into the 'how' but, importantly, into the 'why' behind the terms we use, especially why they matter in respecting others' identities. She will guide us through three crucial rules for addressing individuals respectfully, explain common misunderstandings, and the significance of using terms that people choose for themselves. Join Dr. Shannon as she equips us with knowledge and sensitivity to help us foster more inclusive environments and understand the pivotal role language plays in identity and acceptance. So, let's dive in and learn how to engender love through our words and actions.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

The First Step to Gender Inclusivity in the Workplace (#13)

The First Step to Gender Inclusivity in the Workplace (#13)

In this episode, we dive into the foundational actions businesses must undertake before claiming the title of a gender-inclusive organization.Today, we dissect the importance of going beyond surface-level changes and delve into the necessity of a deep understanding of gender that transcends outdated perceptions. We'll tackle the key steps required to become a gender-inclusive business and underscore the imperative of reviewing and aligning company policies with gender-inclusive values.Get ready to unravel how these crucial elements work in tandem to avoid unintentional harm and ensure respect and dignity across all gender identities. Join us as we illuminate the path to authentic gender inclusivity in the workplace, reminding all that this journey is continuous; it's about progress, not perfection. Engender love, and let's get started.If you want to learn more about how to grow your business in a way that aligns with your values, join the Platform and Profit Summit for FREE where you will have access to all the talks from May 1-3, and you can watch in the comfort of your own home. Sign up at https://engender--readytopropel.thrivecart.com/eb-summit-pass524/For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Creating An Inclusive Gendered Business Space (#12)

Creating An Inclusive Gendered Business Space (#12)

Dr. Shannon Panszi examines the delicate interplay between creating exclusive spaces for safety and fostering inclusivity. Shannon invites listeners to question the rationale behind gendered business practices and the impact on achieving their intended goals.Through personal stories and critical questioning, the discussion emphasizes the impact of gender intentionality, the use of inclusive language, and the recognition of diverse experiences within gender-specific groups. Shannon also addresses the inclusion of non-binary individuals and the importance of not conflating gender expression with gender identity.This episode serves as a guide for businesses aiming to navigate the complexities of gender inclusivity with clarity and respect, ensuring that the pursuit of safe spaces does not compromise the value of an inclusive environment.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

How to Ask About Pronouns (#11)

How to Ask About Pronouns (#11)

In episode #11 of Engender Love, host Dr. Shannon Panszi dives into the important topic of asking for pronouns. Shannon shares personal experiences and insights on when and how to ask for somebody's pronouns. She discusses her journey of assuming pronouns, learning from experiences, and evolving. Shannon also addresses the importance of respecting pronouns in group settings, emphasizing the need to make sharing pronouns optional, explaining why it's important, and setting the expectation that it's not a joke. Tune in to hear practical tips and thoughtful reflections on navigating pronouns with respect and understanding.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

"I Can't Learn": Challenging Beliefs About Learning Pronouns (#10)

"I Can't Learn": Challenging Beliefs About Learning Pronouns (#10)

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the common belief that some people have that they can't learn to use someone's pronouns correctly. She challenges the reasons people use, such as age and academic background, and emphasizes that learning pronouns is possible if you are willing to put in the work. Dr. Panszi shares a powerful story of an 83-year-old grandfather who successfully learned and used the pronouns of his transgender grandchildren, highlighting the role of love and respect in embracing this learning process. Tune in as she encourages listeners to consider the impact of their beliefs and offers guidance on how to train the brain to use pronouns correctly.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Names & Pronouns: Understanding and Conquering the Challenge (#9)

Names & Pronouns: Understanding and Conquering the Challenge (#9)

In this episode of Engender Love, host Dr. Shannon Panszi delves into the complexities of learning names and pronouns in relation to gender identity. Dr. Shannon shares personal experiences and theories behind the challenges of adjusting to new names and pronouns, offering insights into the subconscious associations our brains make. She provides practical tips for retraining the brain to use the correct names and pronouns, emphasizing the importance of practice, compassion, and the eventual natural integration of these changes. Tune in as Dr. Shannon offers valuable guidance on navigating this integral aspect of gender expression and connection.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Introducing the Engender Courses!

Introducing the Engender Courses!

In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi shares her journey of understanding gender and the importance of language in properly representing and honoring gender diversity. She introduces her upcoming courses, starting with Gender 101, aimed at helping people comprehensively understand gender, terminology, and respectful language usage. To promote understanding, Dr Shannon is including office hours with each purchase, where people can ask any question about gender in a non-judgmental space. Dr Shannon's courses aim to support a wide range of individuals, including service providers, educators, healthcare professionals, and parents, who seek to better understand and support gender diversity. Tune in to discover how these courses can help you on your journey to understanding gender and promoting inclusivity in your life and work.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Pink and Blue: The Origin of Gendered Colors Exposed (#7)

Pink and Blue: The Origin of Gendered Colors Exposed (#7)

On episode 7 of the Engender Love Podcast, Dr. Shannon Panszi examines the societal construct of associating colors with gender. As she delves into the historical context, Dr. Panszi uncovers the origins of the pink for girls and blue for boys convention, shedding light on the societal influences and marketing strategies that perpetuated these associations. Join us as we challenge preconceived notions and contemplate the profound implications of these color stereotypes.Resources for this podcast:https://www.artandobject.com/news/color-pink-cultural-history#:~:text=Few%20colors%20are%20as%20politically,as%20either%20genderless%20or%20masculine.https://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/when-did-girls-start-wearing-pink-1370097/https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/12/health/colorscope-pink-boy-girl-gender/index.htmlFor more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

The Continuous Evolution of Gender Expression

The Continuous Evolution of Gender Expression

In Episode 6 of the Engender Love podcast, we delve into the ever-evolving landscape of gender expression. Dr. Shannon Panszi explores the shifting perceptions of gender presentation throughout history. She shares anecdotes, historical insights, and thought-provoking observations on how societal norms around clothing, hairstyles, and accessories have changed over time. Join us as we challenge preconceived notions and uncover a rich tapestry of gender expression across different cultures and eras. Stay tuned as we engender love and understanding in our ever-changing world.Information from this episode may be found in the following sources:1. https://www.gentlemansgazette.com/why-men-stop-wearing-wigs/2. https://www.readersdigest.co.uk/lifestyle/fashion-beauty/the-history-of-earrings3. https://www.gentlemansgazette.com/why-men-stop-wearing-jewelry/4. https://www.britannica.com/video/204898/Video-pants-women#:~:text=Trousers%20were%20seen%20as%20a,called%20rational%20dress%20for%20women.5. https://www.lofficielusa.com/fashion/men-wearing-dresses-fashion-history-harry-styles-david-bowie-kurt-cobain-dressFor more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Beyond the Binary in Biological Classifications

Beyond the Binary in Biological Classifications

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon dives into the fascinating world beyond the biological binary. She delves into the misconception of binary classification in nature, particularly in the context of biological characteristics. Dr. Shannon provides insight into the four main characteristics used to classify sex, debunking the idea of a strict binary in external and internal anatomy, chromosomes, and hormones. She emphasizes the importance of embracing the diverse variations in biology and anatomy, challenging the notion that an individual's identity is solely defined by their biological characteristics. Join us as we explore the beauty of nature's variation and the significance of moving away from strict binary classification to truly engender love for all.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

#4 Rules of Nature: Embracing Nature's Diversity in Gender and Biology

#4 Rules of Nature: Embracing Nature's Diversity in Gender and Biology

In this episode, Dr. Shannon discusses the rules of nature and how they apply to gender. She explores the concept that there are no absolutes or binaries in nature, emphasizing that exceptions exist in every aspect of biology and functioning. Dr. Shannon challenges traditional beliefs and encourages listeners to embrace the diversity of human experiences. Join us as we delve into the fluidity and complexity of gender in this thought-provoking episode of Engender Love.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Exploring Gender Beliefs: How Childhood Messages Shape Our Understanding of Identity and Expression

Exploring Gender Beliefs: How Childhood Messages Shape Our Understanding of Identity and Expression

In episode 3, Dr. Shannon Panszi reflects on the gender beliefs she was raised with and how they shaped her understanding of gender roles and expressions. She discusses the messages she received from her family, school, and society and how they influenced her perceptions of what is considered masculine and feminine. Dr. Shannon explores the importance of understanding the origins of our beliefs and how it can lead to greater self-acceptance and compassion. She encourages listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and the impact they have on their interactions with others. Join us as we delve into the complexities of gender beliefs and how they intersect with love and acceptance.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

Gender Unraveled: Understanding Identity, Expression, and Biological Traits

Gender Unraveled: Understanding Identity, Expression, and Biological Traits

In this episode, we delve into the complexity of gender identity, gender expression, and biological sex. We'll go on a journey of understanding, addressing common misconceptions, and shedding light on the distinct aspects of gender. Through insightful analogies and real-life examples, Dr. Shannon breaks down the definitions, challenging societal norms and encouraging listeners to reflect on their own understanding of gender. Tune in as we uncover the nuances of gender and embrace the importance of honoring individuals' authentic selves.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.

How My Journey Began

How My Journey Began

Welcome to the Engender Love podcast with your host, Dr. Shannon Panszi. In this episode, Dr. Shannon shares her personal journey of discovering and understanding gender. As a retired OB/GYN, she realized her lack of knowledge about gender when a loved one came out to their family. Determined to support and educate herself, Dr. Shannon dove into learning about gender, sex assigned at birth, and gender expression. She found that having these conversations not only dispelled misinformation but also spurred self-reflection and stronger connections with others. Join us as Dr. Shannon delves into the impact of understanding gender and how it can lead to greater awareness, empathy, and connection in our lives. And be sure to visit engenderlove.com for more resources and support on this important topic.For more information, go to engenderlove.comIf you gained anything from this podcast, share, rate, or leave a review, so more people may learn with us. Thank you to Indy M W for the music. Like and follow him on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your music.