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#DDMS episode 28 :The Badge and the Burdens: Unpacking a Tragic Shooting, Life’s Quirky Challenges, and Farmstead Gratitude
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#DDMS episode 28 :The Badge and the Burdens: Unpacking a Tragic Shooting, Life’s Quirky Challenges, and Farmstead Gratitude
Have you ever had one of those days where everything just seems to go awry? Well, I've had a whole week of them—complete with a dental disaster, family property management issues, and a live stream face-off that took a wild turn. Grab your headphones and settle in as I, Deputy Dane, share these personal challenges and confront the prickly subjects of entitlement, misunderstood rights, and the complex reactions my badge tends to stir up in people.Strap yourselves in for a deep and critical analysis of a heartbreaking law enforcement incident—the shooting of a US airman. With the weight of the badge on one shoulder and a commitment to truth on the other, I'll walk you through the body cam footage that's sparked heated debates and widespread misconceptions. Together, we'll navigate the difficult terrain of self-defense and police protocols, all while honoring the profound impact such events have on the families and communities involved.Finally, we'll switch gears to a more tranquil setting: life on the farm. Join me as I express sincere thanks for the new support around the house that's helping to keep the wheels turning smoothly. From the buzz of excitement over new chicks to battling the elements in the garden, I juggle the demands of work, creativity, and family life. Your loyalty as listeners is the wind in my sails, and it's with a full heart that I remind you all to have a safe and fantastic week ahead.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS episode 27: The Brink of Tomorrow: Sifting Doomsday Hype, Ethical Influence, and the Echoes of George Floyd
Apr 8 2024
DDMS episode 27: The Brink of Tomorrow: Sifting Doomsday Hype, Ethical Influence, and the Echoes of George Floyd
Step into a world where the end is nigh—or is it? This episode peels back the curtain on doomsday prepping, eclipses, and apocalyptic anxiety. With a healthy dose of skepticism, we dissect the sensationalist theories peddled by those who stand to profit from panic. But it's not all eye-rolls and head shakes; I'll share how my own slice of self-sufficient paradise is a blend of prudent planning and amusement at the more outlandish survival tactics. Ready for a reality check on what's truly worth preparing for? Tune in and find out.Content creation isn't just about chasing virality; it's a dance of authenticity and practicality. We navigate the murky waters of sponsorships and partnerships, revealing how the allure of freebies can tempt even the most stoic public servant. Yet, amid the sea of offers, I stand firm on endorsing only the products that align with my personal values and lifestyle. If you've ever wondered about the untold stories behind your favorite content creator's glowing reviews, this candid conversation shines a light on the hidden truths of the influencer economy.Finally, we're not shying away from the heavier discussions, as the George Floyd case and its impact on our society take center stage. This isn't just a regurgitation of news cycles; it's an introspective journey through the evolution of my own viewpoints, spurred by the Anti-Hero podcast. We grapple with the burdens of justice, exploring how a single incident can ripple out to policies and training methods in law enforcement. From the streets' outcry to the courtroom verdict, this episode confronts the complexities of institutional accountability and the long road to reform. Join us for a thought-provoking dialogue that challenges us all to look beyond the headlines.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS episode 26:The Valor and Vulnerability Behind the Badge: Inside Police Work, Privacy Paradox, and Navigating American Turmoil
Mar 25 2024
DDMS episode 26:The Valor and Vulnerability Behind the Badge: Inside Police Work, Privacy Paradox, and Navigating American Turmoil
Ever wonder what it's really like behind the badge? Strap in as I take you through the highs and lows of police work, from the intensity of life-or-death decisions to the aftermath that often goes unseen. The valor and the vulnerability come hand-in-hand for those in uniform, and I'm here to share it all — including a Medal of Valor story and the lighter side of how a hurricane became a comedy of errors in the media's hands. It's not just about the adrenaline; it's also about the often-misinterpreted encounters with firearms, the growing rift between officers and communities, and the political powder keg we're sitting on.Transitioning from the streets to the beats of social media, I untangle the web of our digital identities. We tackle the tough stuff, like the unintended audiences for platforms like OnlyFans and the battles we face protecting kids in a world where online age checks are as flimsy as a fake ID. I muse over the paradox of privacy in our share-everything culture and the long shadow global tech giants cast over our personal freedoms. It's a candid look at the push and pull between our public and private lives, and the societal ripples from what we do—and don't—share online.Lastly, buckle up as we navigate the turbulence of current American life. We dissect the raw realities at the Texas border, the whispers of civil strife amidst a post-pandemic America, and the question of national security that looms over us all. From the challenges faced by local organizations against a backdrop of human trafficking to the personal sacrifices of those on the front lines, this episode doesn't shy away from the complex web of issues that define our times. Plus, a glimpse into the heart of law enforcement reminds us of the courage it takes to serve and protect in an ever-evolving society.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS episode 25: Resilience in the Face of Adversity: Embracing Community Support, Seeking Justice, and Reflecting on True Crime Narratives
Mar 11 2024
#DDMS episode 25: Resilience in the Face of Adversity: Embracing Community Support, Seeking Justice, and Reflecting on True Crime Narratives
When life throws a curveball, it's the community around us that anchors our spirit. This episode is a heartfelt journey through the recent challenges I've faced, from the profound loss of my father to the ongoing hurdles in both my professional and personal spheres. I'm opening up about the sheer power of the support I've received, which lights up the darker moments and fuels my resolve to keep pushing forward. Amidst this, I discuss a gripping case that has captured my focus: the relentless pursuit of a sex offender, bringing to light the importance of justice and the impact of advocacy.Navigating the minefield of law enforcement investigations, we dissect an interrogation fraught with doubt and the perils of tunnel vision. We'll explore how critical it is to balance skepticism with a fair, evidence-based approach, especially when past traumas intertwine with the present. This conversation steers us into examining the profound effect of fictional narratives on real-life cases, questioning the ethics of drawing parallels with stories like "Gone Girl" and their sway over both public perception and judicial outcomes.Wrapping up, we venture into the captivating world of true crime documentaries, expressing amazement and sometimes horror at their plot twists, including those in "Abducted in Plain Sight." I also don't hold back on my latest thoughts regarding the political landscape, the societal shifts we're witnessing, and the pressing need for a collective effort to foster a brighter future. It's a candid discussion that will touch on both the heart and the intellect, urging all of us to carry a torch of love and positivity through the fog of our current challenges.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS episode 24: The Struggle with Loss, National Borders, and the Influence of Extremist Ideologies
Feb 26 2024
DDMS episode 24: The Struggle with Loss, National Borders, and the Influence of Extremist Ideologies
When the world hands you the unexpected, how do you stand up to the challenge? This episode is a raw, unfiltered experience of tackling the unforeseen—from the poignant emptiness of loss to the gritty realities of farm life and national concerns. I invite you on a deeply personal voyage, where I confront the absence of my father and embrace the mantle of responsibilities that come with a shift from the urban rush to the rhythms of the countryside. Joe Rogan and Dr. Phil recently sparked a profound dialogue on border security, leading us to question the implications of foreign land ownership, with a spotlight on Chinese investments. These conversations are critical, and we need to grasp their breadth and depth fully.The undercurrents of political destabilization are no fiction. They are as real and as close as our next breath. As we unpack the testimonies of a KGB defector alongside a North Korean escapee, we trace the sinister stages of ideological subversion eroding our society's fabric. The conversation stretches from dissecting the influences of Marxist-Leninist ideologies on our economy and defense to contemplating the severe impact of leftist ideology on law enforcement and the contentious drive to defund the police. It's a chapter that's as enlightening as it is unnerving, pushing us to stay vigilant against the tide of "big brother" governance.Meanwhile, the episode's latter half casts a lens over my time in law enforcement, the skepticism I now harbor towards government control, and the balance between belief and conspiracy. Navigating the pitfalls of cancel culture and societal conformity, I examine the influence of current events on our community ethos, emphasizing the power of resilience without caving to fear. Wrapping up, I can't help but extend a heartfelt salute to you—my listeners—for your steadfast support. It's your engagement that fuels this journey, urging us forward into another week of navigating these complex, ever-shifting times.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS episode 23: Life After Loss Embracing Farm Responsibilities Amidst Policing Discussions
Feb 19 2024
DDMS episode 23: Life After Loss Embracing Farm Responsibilities Amidst Policing Discussions
Grief has a way of reshaping our lives in unexpected and profound ways. As I open up about the recent loss of my father, I invite you into a raw and honest discussion of the whirlwind of emotions and duties that come with such a significant change. Amidst the heartache, life on the farm presses on with tasks from driveway repairs to welcoming new baby pigs. I'll also share how supporting my mother through this transition has brought its own set of trials and changes, including the potential for her retirement to join me on the farm.The fine line between duty and humanity often blurs for those in law enforcement, a truth brought into stark relief by a recent event in Florida. An officer's split-second decision under the shadow of PTSD sparked intense debate and a personal reflection on the power of social media humor. In sharing my misstep with a video that crossed the line, I underscore the delicate dance between comedy and sensitivity, and the weight of responsibly wielding the tools of public communication.As we navigate the tangled web of truth, transparency, and public expectation, the conversation turns to the contentious topic of racial bias in policing. Surprising research findings challenge popular narratives, igniting a discussion on the bravery required to publish controversial data. The episode wraps up with a candid look at the overwhelming pressures faced by law enforcement, on and off the clock, and how privacy, scrutiny, and the intersecting challenges of our public and personal lives never cease to demand our attention and compassion.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
Episode 22: First guest episode on DDMS, huge thanks to Traumadiva1: Unscripted Insights from the Front Line The Human Side of Policing and Digital Fame
Jan 29 2024
Episode 22: First guest episode on DDMS, huge thanks to Traumadiva1: Unscripted Insights from the Front Line The Human Side of Policing and Digital Fame
Ever wondered how first responders train for the unexpected, or what goes on behind the blue line of law enforcement? TraumaDiva joins us from TikTok fame to shed light on the complexities of public service, the resilience it demands, and the humor that often serves as an officer's lifeline. Our unscripted conversation meanders through the rigorous world of first responder training, the emotional cost of online harassment, and the silent battles fought by officers under the public's critical eye.We laugh, we share, and sometimes we grapple with the gritty realities of our roles in law enforcement and digital entrepreneurship. From the adrenaline of SWAT team drills to the tension of handling online transactions gone awry, the episode is a candid chronicle of the challenges and triumphs that mark our professional and personal lives. It's an intimate peek into the gift-giving culture of influencer fame, juxtaposed with the stark responsibilities of running a small business, and a rare chance to celebrate the power of body positivity and personal growth within the force.Finally, take a seat as we unpack the nuances of policing—a job where the right personality can mean the difference between life and death. Listen closely as we dissect the crucial balance between authority and ego, reveal the unspoken philosophies that guide traffic stops, and address the alignment of roles in high-stress jobs. This episode is more than just a conversation; it's a tribute to the unwavering spirit of those who serve, the communities they protect, and the importance of staying true to oneself in the face of adversity.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS episode 21: Finding Strength Amidst Trials: Personal Battles, Law Enforcement Ironies, and Life's Unexpected Comedy
Jan 15 2024
DDMS episode 21: Finding Strength Amidst Trials: Personal Battles, Law Enforcement Ironies, and Life's Unexpected Comedy
When life throws a curveball that hits too close to home, like my dad's battle in the ICU with pneumonia, it's a stark reminder of our shared vulnerability. Yet, through this emotional rollercoaster, we've found strength and solace in our live sessions with you - our listeners - who bring laughter and connection to even the darkest of days. Amidst this personal struggle, I also take a light-hearted jab at the absurdities and dramas that can unfold within the walls of a police department, including a peculiar critique from a former colleague that's more laughable than offensive.We often see law enforcement as an impenetrable force, but this episode peels back the curtain to reveal the all-too-human side of the badge. From the fall of an officer leading a double life to the widespread issue of hypocrisy and irony that plagues the department, the realities we discuss are as complex as they are compelling. I don't shy away from addressing the generational clashes and the competitive spirit that sometimes skews priorities within the ranks, raising the hard-hitting question of accountability when it comes to policing our communities.To lighten the mood, we jump into a mix of bizarre news stories that could only happen in the unpredictable theater of real life. Imagine the drama of a courtroom outburst, the head-scratching tale of a Florida driveway gone without a trace, or the whimsical possibility of an alien bungling their GPS coordinates. These anecdotes serve as a gentle reminder to not take life too seriously, and to appreciate the odd and humorous moments that pepper our existence. So tune in, unwind, and join us for a heartfelt expression of gratitude for the incredible support that makes this shared journey so rewarding.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS Episode 20: A Solemn Reflection on Protecting Home, Heart, and Humanity
Jan 1 2024
DDMS Episode 20: A Solemn Reflection on Protecting Home, Heart, and Humanity
As the holiday glitter settles, we're left grappling with the cold that's been nipping at our noses, and a Florida family's unimaginable loss—a stark reminder of how quickly joy can turn to tragedy. The stories in today's episode, from the lethal end to a brotherly spat over Christmas gifts to the chilling recount of a daughter's ex-boyfriend breaking into her home, are not just narratives; they are profound reflections on life's fragility and the complex dance between self-defense and the violence it can beget.Navigating the thorny thicket of legalities surrounding stand-your-ground laws, we examine cases like that of young Ralph, whose life was snuffed out too early, and Nicholas, whose actions open a Pandora's box of moral and ethical questions. The episode is lined with stories that challenge us to consider where the line is drawn between protecting our loved ones and the repercussions that follow. Allie and her father's fateful encounter with an aggressive ex-boyfriend ignites a discussion on the true cost of safety in a world where home invasions are becoming all too common.Celebrating 20 weeks of shared stories and growth, we look ahead to the infusion of fresh perspectives with future guests set to join our conversations. As the year unfolds, I urge you to join me in embracing vigilance and cherishing life beyond material attachments. Together, we'll continue to navigate the ever-evolving landscape of crime, self-defense, and the impact of technology on justice—a journey of open hearts and minds.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
DDMS episode 19: Navigating Health Crises and Viral Theories: From Respiratory Struggles to Sovereign Citizens and TikTok Cops
Dec 25 2023
DDMS episode 19: Navigating Health Crises and Viral Theories: From Respiratory Struggles to Sovereign Citizens and TikTok Cops
Gasping for air while taking out the trash isn't exactly a highlight in anyone's day, but when it's due to a relentless respiratory virus, it becomes a story worth sharing. This episode isn't just about my struggle with an unnamed illness; it's a deep-dive into the murky waters of health crises and conspiracy theories, where the echoes of pre-COVID days resurface and the outlandish suddenly seems plausible. Alongside these reflections, we take a candid look at how current events are bending the public's ear towards ideas they once dismissed.Do you know what a "strawman" is, and I'm not talking about the one from the Wizard of Oz? Prepare to enter the rabbit hole of sovereign citizens and their bewildering legal theories that can turn a routine interaction into a head-scratching conundrum. Then, as we peel back the layers of online hate, we encounter the world of anti-TikTok cops and the intense backlash they endure from within their ranks. We'll explore the intersection of law enforcement, family life, and the sometimes toxic environment of social media, all while keeping it real with a blend of humor and sincerity that navigates the complexity of these modern-day challenges.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 18: A Merry Mix of Simple Joys, Social Media Struggles, and Future Excitements: From Family Challenges to Holiday Celebrations
Dec 18 2023
#DDMS Episode 18: A Merry Mix of Simple Joys, Social Media Struggles, and Future Excitements: From Family Challenges to Holiday Celebrations
Have you ever noticed the joy that simple things bring, like finding a good deal on crab legs or watching your favorite Christmas movie? Join us as we reminisce about our love for "The Grinch" and discuss the impact of a recent family injury. We navigate through the challenges of being there for your partner in testing times and finding happiness in the little things that life throws at us. Switching gears, let's talk about the influencers who rule our feeds. Unfortunately, the digital age has also brought out some who prioritize profit over positive interactions. We share our frustrations and highlight the importance of balance in work and family life. How do we keep it real in a world where everything is filtered and monetized? We also share our gratitude for your unwavering support, which has become our anchor in the tumultuous sea of social media. Finally, we're thrilled to announce plans for live shows and the construction of a studio for future interviews. We owe it to you, our listeners, and our Patreon supporters, who've made all this possible. So let's be kind, check in with each other and spread some holiday cheer. We're excited about what lies ahead, and while we're at it, let's plan a fantastic crab boil. Merry Christmas and here's to a safe and joyful week ahead!Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 17: A Behind-the-Scenes Look at Law Enforcement: Shop with a Deputy, Coping Mechanisms, and Accountability in Media Headlines
Dec 10 2023
#DDMS Episode 17: A Behind-the-Scenes Look at Law Enforcement: Shop with a Deputy, Coping Mechanisms, and Accountability in Media Headlines
As law enforcement officers, we often bear witness to the harshest realities life can throw at us. My recent involvement in a "Shop with a Deputy" event was more than a sobering experience, it was a stark reminder of the pressures and responsibilities that some children are forced to endure. Tune in as I share the story of a nine-year-old boy, who, despite his struggles, put the needs of his younger brothers before his own. But it's not just the victims who bear the brunt. We officers carry a heavy emotional load too, especially when dealing with child abuse cases. How do we cope? What resources are available to us? I discuss my experiences, shedding light on the importance of learning from our mistakes, being patient, and the dire need for supporting infrastructure in our line of work. In the realm of social media, I delve into the controversial world of TikTok battles and the destructive impact they can have on a user's attitude and behavior. Finally, we discuss some of the more alarming events making the headlines. A Deputy and his wife causing a ruckus at an adult toy store, an officer involved shooting during a traffic stop - incidents that raise questions about accountability and the misconceptions that law enforcement can act recklessly without consequences. We also tackle the sensitive topic of suicide, emphasizing the value of life and the importance of reaching out for help. It's a tough job, but sprinkled with lighter moments too. Like that time when there was a prank involving a decomposing body. So join us, as we traverse these sensitive topics, providing honest insights and sharing some laughs too.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 16: A Journey Through Law Enforcement: Tales of Justice, Disorder Diagnoses, and Community Gratitude
Dec 3 2023
#DDMS Episode 16: A Journey Through Law Enforcement: Tales of Justice, Disorder Diagnoses, and Community Gratitude
Strap in as Deputy Dane takes us on a journey through the uncharted territories of his dangerous and unpredictable world. From confronting death and abuse to fighting for justice and equality, he gives us a no-holds-barred account of his experiences and the life-altering events that have shaped his perspective. We share a slice of life from the law enforcement world, demystifying misconceptions about phone usage, the rigors of the training, and the essence of community service. We push the conversation further and delve into the fascinating trend of people seeking diagnoses for various disorders. From Hitler's obsession with perfection to the worrying trend of disorder diagnoses, we explore the profound implications of this phenomenon. Adding to the intrigue, we share a live DUI test interaction that throws light on the complex layers of identity and societal expectations. Lastly, we take a moment to express our gratitude for our listeners, their unwavering support, and their contribution towards our success. Amidst the chaos, we discuss our plans to give back during the holiday season and the heartfelt reasons behind our cause. So join us on this exploration of life, law enforcement, disorders, and more.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 15: Navigating Parenthood, Policing, and Public Perception: From Personal Trials to Social Concerns
Nov 27 2023
#DDMS Episode 15: Navigating Parenthood, Policing, and Public Perception: From Personal Trials to Social Concerns
Ever wonder what it's like juggling the rollercoaster of parental responsibilities while training to serve and protect as law enforcement officers? Let's navigate through the messy but memorable moments of parenthood - we're talking about everything from our daughter's first birthday party getting canceled due to be sick, to the challenges of building our own family traditions. Plug in as we reveal the realities of our journey, and yes, there will be some laughs along the way.Picture the grueling physical workouts, the mentally taxing classes, and the intensity of the police academy training. We're pulling back the curtain and giving you an insider look. Hear about the unconventional strategies we used to keep morale high amidst the toughness of it all. From amusing academy anecdotes to the importance of humor, experience the camaraderie that made it all bearable.As if parenting and police training weren't enough, we're also taking a deep dive into some serious societal issues. How is law enforcement perceived by the public? What is the impact of freedom of speech and bullying in the education system? We're opening up about an unforgettable suicide scene we attended and discussing the balance between online criticism and the realities of our profession. This is a platform for candid conversations, dispelling misconceptions, and providing an insight into our world. So, tune in, and let's navigate these complex societal issues, together.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 14: Unravelling Law Enforcement Challenges: Thanksgiving Drama, North Korea Escape, and Defund Movement Effects
Nov 20 2023
#DDMS Episode 14: Unravelling Law Enforcement Challenges: Thanksgiving Drama, North Korea Escape, and Defund Movement Effects
Have you ever thought about how a festive holiday like Thanksgiving can prove to be challenging for law enforcement? We're pulling back the curtain on the less-than-idyllic side of the holidays, discussing the uptick in domestic disturbances and confrontations that often arise during these times. I'll be sharing some personal encounters from my hunting trips that delve into the public's perception of law enforcement - even in casual settings.Our journey then takes us from the domestic to the international. Yeonmi Parks, a North Korean defector, courageously shares her journey from the oppressive grip of communism to the liberating freedom in the US. Her chilling account serves as a stark reminder of the importance of safeguarding our liberties and freedoms. We're also delving into an ongoing conversation about the defund movement, shedding light on its influence on the quality of law enforcement personnel and the potential repercussions on the communities they serve.We'll be closing out the episode with gratitude, thanking our Patreon supporters and all our listeners for their support. We'll also highlight the often-overlooked dangers and challenges that law enforcement officers face due to constraints in budget and resources. We hope our discussions today serve as a reminder that beneath the uniforms, law enforcement officers are humans too, deserving of empathy and understanding. So, join us for this meaningful conversation as we navigate through law enforcement, societal issues, and our personal experiences.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 13: Unpacking Children's Development, Extreme Sports Anxiety, and Law Enforcement Realities
Nov 13 2023
#DDMS Episode 13: Unpacking Children's Development, Extreme Sports Anxiety, and Law Enforcement Realities
What if we've been getting it all wrong with children's health and development? Come along for a candid conversation where we unpack our experiences dealing with our Little Dude’s progress and his captivating journey. We unearth the significance of allowing children to grow at their own pace, the repercussions of labeling and diagnosing too quickly, and the importance of accepting everyone's unique quirks. Brace yourself as we plummet into the heart-stopping world of extreme sports like cave diving and free climbing, and confront the anxiety such activities can unleash. We'll also pull back the curtain on the worryingly easy access to police uniforms and badges online. Ever wondered about the historical background of law enforcement uniforms in the United States, or the quirky role of Dalmatians in firehouses? You're about to find out. Lastly, we tackle a less discussed facet of law enforcement - their role in civil matters - as we share a personal story about dealing with stolen guns. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt shoutout to our amazing Patreon supporters, whose generosity makes this all possible. So, sit back and gear up for an enlightening journey through these far-reaching topics, and many more.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 12: A Serious Look at Parenting, Community Faults, and Policing Challenges
Nov 6 2023
#DDMS Episode 12: A Serious Look at Parenting, Community Faults, and Policing Challenges
Did you ever pay attention to how your children mimic your every word and gesture? It's both amusing and terrifying at the same time. Like our little dude, who's been marching around the house shouting 'march, march,' and saluting everything, after learning about saluting the flag at school. Parenting moments like these are adorable, but, sometimes, they also demand our serious attention. Like when he didn't want me to leave for work. Was it just a child's plea or a sign of something more profound?But not all parenting tales are sweet. Some rip your heart out. Like a 13-year-old's life cut short due to negligent parenting and society's apathy. How are we, as a community, failing our children? The chilling story of Amelia and Christine, two sisters caught in a cycle of abuse and violence, further underlines the lasting impact of these failings. But, it's not just about identifying the problems, it's about holding those accountable that perpetuate them.Switching from parenting to police work isn't easy, neither are the challenges we face in the line of duty. Like this one time, when an officer had to prove his right to use an oil pad. The dark underbelly of society, marked by gang violence, drug use, and theft, doesn't make it any easier. But, the support from our Patreon community and keeping a positive mindset amidst negativity, helps us get through. Join us in our conversation, and let's figure this out together. Post your thoughts and feedback in the Communication tab on our page.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 11: Combining Learning and Laughter: The Unique Life in Law Enforcement
Oct 30 2023
#DDMS Episode 11: Combining Learning and Laughter: The Unique Life in Law Enforcement
Who wouldn't enjoy hearing about a community coming together for a good cause, while also unraveling the intricacies of a significant ruling and its effect on law enforcement? Well, get ready because that's exactly what we've got in store for you. We kick things off with a fun-filled story of our helmet house initiative which helped raise funds for the Shop of the Cop while also bringing smiles to the faces of our community members. Then we tackle a more serious matter as we dissect the McGirt ruling in Oklahoma. From its roots in the Trail of Tears to the significant role it played in Jimcy  McGirt's sentencing, we present a detailed account of this landmark ruling and the implications it holds for tribal reservations.But that's not all, folks. We also delve into the real-world repercussions of the McGirt ruling on our brave law enforcement officers. You'll hear firsthand about the challenges they face when dealing with criminals from specific tribes, and the story of a police officer's harrowing encounter with a violent, meth-addled criminal. We also shed light on the impact on the Light Horse Police Agency and the extra workload shouldered by its officers post the McGirt ruling. Finally, we switch lanes and slide into the importance of learning in law enforcement and the instrumental role of the FTO phase. We discuss how officers can take the experiences of veterans and mold them into their own learning, constantly bettering themselves, and why this, combined with the unique camaraderie among them, makes their job so special. And it's not all serious business - we've got a few laughs lined up for you too, with some hilarious anecdotes about coupons and KY Jelly. We round things off on a thoughtful note, emphasizing the importance of mental health and expressing our heartfelt gratitude to our Patreon members whose support keeps us going. So buckle up for an episode that promises a heady blend of community spirit, judicial complexity, law enforcement challenges, and some good old humor.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 10: Adventures in Law Enforcement: Trauma Kits, High-Speed Pursuits, and the World of Detectives
Oct 23 2023
#DDMS Episode 10: Adventures in Law Enforcement: Trauma Kits, High-Speed Pursuits, and the World of Detectives
Imagine being jolted awake by a late-night call, plunging into the dark woods, hunting down a suspect involved in a gunshot incident! That's how my week started, a stark reminder of the importance of being prepared for any eventuality - from unexpected stakeouts to medical emergencies. So, today, we're going to delve into the world of trauma kits, tourniquets, and vital medical training, underlining their significance in the field. Ever wondered how fine the line is between escalating a situation and maintaining safety during high-speed pursuits? Drawing from real-life experiences, including a recent event where a deputy's actions sparked a lively debate, we explore this delicate balance. This incident opens up discussions about vigilance, quick decision-making, and the readiness necessary when responding to such calls. Lastly, we venture into the realm of detective work, quite a leap from law enforcement. Patience, report writing skills, and effective court appearances - all integral parts of a detective's life. To lighten things up, I'll share an amusing anecdote of a suspect and a 20-year hammer. Also, a big shout out to our growing Patreon supporters and a warm welcome to our new chat feature for listeners. Buckle up for another thrilling episode packed with insights, lessons, and debates from the frontline of law enforcement.Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE
#DDMS Episode 9: A Rollercoaster Ride: Anniversary Bash, Law Enforcement Insights, and Personal Walk Down the Memory Lane
Oct 16 2023
#DDMS Episode 9: A Rollercoaster Ride: Anniversary Bash, Law Enforcement Insights, and Personal Walk Down the Memory Lane
Let's take you back to our whirlwind anniversary weekend in Tulsa, where the revelry never stopped! Picture this - open bar, casino nights, and a grand conference featuring the legendary Gil Carrillo. We'll transport you to the crime scenes of the Nightstalker, with Carrillo's riveting narrative, peppered with unexpected humor. But it's not all fun and games, as we also dive into our hotel's peculiar rules, our sneaky alcohol antics, and the wild ride that was our anniversary celebration.Next stop, law enforcement - but not as you know it. We're peeling back the blue uniform to explore what happens when the camaraderie ends and the 'members only club' mentality persists post-retirement. How does it feel to lose your purpose, your mission, your 'why'? And here's one for the debate club: Should our community protectors - teachers, first responders, military personnel - be allowed an OnlyFans account? Controversial, yes, but a discussion worth having. Finally, we're getting personal. Walk with us as we revisit our engagement story, relive the last-minute proposal mishap that almost ruined our vacation, and confront the judgment of others. More than just a trip down memory lane, we're discussing mental health, the importance of support, and the power of partnerships in facing job stress. All this while keeping the humor alive, because who doesn't love a good laugh over a story about a cross-dressing cyborg that works for the CIA? So, buckle up, this journey promises to be a rollercoaster ride of highs, lows, and laugh-out-loud moments!Support the Show.Thank you all for all the support! I couldn't do this without everyone's support! Please have a great week and stay safe! Please check out our Patreon to support us and help us grow! https://www.patreon.com/DEPUTYDANE