Send us a Text Message.Ever had one of those months where everything seems to go haywire? That’s been my May, and I’m here, sinus infection and all, to share the rollercoaster ride with you. From Teacher Appreciation Week turning into a chaotic blur to hospital visits and family illnesses, this month has tested my patience and sanity. My son, New Face, was knocked out of commission by a nasty virus, missing his much-anticipated eighth-grade dance. And just when I thought I had a handle on things, planning Big Baby's graduation trip to New York threw another wrench into the mix. Today, we’ll unpack all these frustrations together.Ever been at an event and had to dodge clouds of marijuana smoke? Let's talk about the impact of those pungent fumes on everyone around. I’ll share my gripes about recent graduation ceremonies, including one where we had to sneak out for a snack run due to zero concessions, and another "clap out" event where parents had to cheer from behind a fence. We’ll also dive into the world of customer service, or rather, the lack of it. Spoiler: If you’re easily irritated by people, maybe a customer-facing job isn’t for you. Trust me, these tales of misadventures will resonate with anyone who’s experienced public frustrations.Finally, let me take you on a journey through a maddening visit to Dunkin' Donuts, where I faced off with unprofessional staff over a simple order of donuts and drinks. I didn’t just let it slide, and I’ll tell you exactly how I handled it with the manager. On a lighter note, get ready to chuckle as I recount my mom's amusing physical therapy sessions, featuring an elderly gentleman named Rufus who fancies himself her boyfriend. Through all the chaos and laughs, remember to like, comment, share, and subscribe to "The Gag is Podcast." Here’s hoping I’m back to my healthy self next week! Stay tuned and keep it real with me. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.When Joanne Sutton recounts her tale of love and loss, it's impossible not to be moved. Her journey began with a chance encounter in Korea and culminated in the ultimate sacrifice of her military spouse. In a stirring conversation, we navigate the complex emotions of military widowhood and the challenges of parenting in the wake of profound loss. As Memorial Day draws near, we unpack the meaning of remembrance and the personal toll it exacts, revealing the intimate struggles and quiet strengths that emerge from such profound grief.The nuances of navigating life after loss surge to the forefront as we explore the rituals of coping and the significance of memorial events like Angelversaries. Joanne and I share the evolution of our grief, acknowledging how the days that once demanded grand gestures now slip by with a more introspective gravity. From strange happenings that hint at the presence of our departed to the vacuum of identity post-widowhood, our candid exchange offers a glimpse into the tender balance between honoring memories and forging onward. Through laughter and tears, we embrace the mysteries and milestones that keep the spirits of our loved ones ever-present. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.When I found myself grappling with the untimely loss of my spouse, the path to healing seemed shrouded in a mist of grief and misunderstanding. My struggle with mental health is a tale many can relate to, yet it's often left untold. This episode is an unflinching exploration of mental well-being, as Mental Health Awareness Month takes center stage. We strip away the veneer of normalcy to reveal the raw struggles beneath—from my personal battle with alcoholism post-widowhood to the nuanced pressures black women face when it comes to mental health. My best friend, a beacon of strength, illuminates her own powerful narrative dealing with depression, PTSD, and substance abuse, and how a simple lunch invitation steered her back to her psychiatrist and a journey of authentic self-discovery.This conversation isn't just about the battles we face; it's a testament to the triumphs that come from vulnerability and the unwavering support of friends. I share how journaling, exercise, and time spent with my children have been instrumental in my personal growth and maintaining mental equilibrium.  I refuse to shy away from the gravity of this subject, opting to forgo the typical distractions in order to focus on the message at hand. For anyone who feels alone in their fight, this episode stands as a promise that there's hope and strength to be found in community, therapy, and the resilience of the human spirit.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.As a mother, every day is a chapter of an ongoing adventure, but Mother's Day holds a treasure chest of emotions and reflections for me. This episode is a heartfelt journey through the alleys of motherhood—a celebration of the strength and sacrifices that define my role as a mom. I take you along to an intimate brunch with my mom, where I ponder the changing meanings of this special day over the years. You'll hear about the light I found in my children, Marco Polo and B-Rad, who give purpose to my every day and make me proud to claim the title of mother. And I'll share a chapter of my life that nearly closed the book on my chance to become a mother before it even began.Shattering stereotypes comes with the territory of being a single mother, and in this episode, I pull back the curtain on the resilience it takes to juggle higher education and career goals while raising kids solo. I talk about the myths that single mothers are neither lazy nor lacking in ambition and how we thrive on the support of our community over competition. I also recount an emotional tribute to the day I almost lost my mom—a day that reshaped my understanding of motherhood. Through tears and laughter, we celebrate the unbreakable bonds and the profound impact of our mothers on our lives, not just once a year, but every day.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.From the unique vantage point of a middle school teacher and parent, I've seen the education world from both sides of the desk. My journey has been anything but ordinary, filled with moments that have shaped not just my career but also the way I raise my own middle schooler. In this candid conversation, I unravel the intricacies of the teacher-parent dynamic, sharing stories that will touch your heart and perhaps even change your perspective on the educational challenges we face today. As we navigate through anecdotes and personal reflections, prepare to see the classroom through a lens that blends humor with hard-earned wisdom.The heart of any educational experience hinges on the synergy between educators and parents - a dance of communication and accountability that can either propel a child to success or leave them floundering. We tackle the thorny issues, from cell phone policy struggles to the broader systemic challenges like inadequate teacher pay and oversized classrooms that educators battle daily. Armed with tales from the trenches and a fierce passion for teaching, this episode is a call to action for more effective partnerships in education. By the end of our time together, you'll have a richer understanding of the pivotal role each of us plays in crafting an environment where our children can truly thrive. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.They say the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. My own path of sobriety has been a trek of endurance, reflection, and, yes, sometimes stumbling. As we observe Alcohol Awareness Month, I pull back the curtain on the raw and often hushed realities of alcoholism, sharing not just statistics, but the visceral experiences that statistics can never fully capture. We grapple with the shadow cast by alcohol in family relationships, acknowledging the heartbreaking cycle of addiction and the courage it takes to break free. The personal narrative woven throughout this episode is a testament to resilience and an invitation for anyone on a similar journey to find solace and solidarity in these words.Navigating the tightrope of tough love and support systems, we uncover the significance of standing by loved ones battling alcoholism and the importance of sturdy networks for those in recovery. I recount my own moment of clarity that led to the microphone before me, my voice now a vessel of hope and a beacon for change. In sharing my transition from alcohol to abstinence, I spotlight the myriad of recovery avenues available, from the privacy of online support to the helping hand of medication-assisted treatment. This episode is as much a celebration of sobriety as it is a candid exploration of the complexities of addiction, offering both my story and the reassurance that every day of sobriety is a victory worth toasting—with a non-alcoholic beverage, that is. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.As a parent, nothing hits home harder than when your child takes a tumble on the sports field—cue the rush of adrenaline and a silent prayer that it's just a scare. That's why this week on Gag Is Podcast, we're putting the spotlight on Youth Sports Injury Awareness and Prevention. My personal journey through the minefield of my kids' soccer matches and swim meets has taught me a thing or two about the essential armor we call safety gear. With a mix of heartfelt stories and a nod to my confidante Tiffany's expertise, we peel back the layers on the importance of protection and preparation in youthful athletic pursuits. And because we're all friends here, I'll even let you in on my go-to sports drink flavor that keeps me company during those intense sideline moments.But it's not all fun and games; the sobering stats on ER visits and concussion rates in children demand attention. That's why we're having a critical conversation about the potential life-saving role of EKGs in sports physicals and the measures we can take to safeguard our young champions' hearts. On the flip side, I'm calling all parents to the field—your involvement is a game-changer! From advocating for your child's health to modeling good sportsmanship, we've got some serious coaching to do. Let's face it, if we want to see our kids thrive, we need to ensure the field, the court, and the pool are as safe as they are fun. Join us for a candid chat that just might make you the MVP of your child's sports experience. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Welcome to the raw edges of my heart as I delve into the poignant struggles unique to a Gold Star Spouse. April showers us with military appreciation, but it also brings a torrent of emotions as I navigate the remembrance of my beloved and the complexities of widowhood. This week is a special one as I share the tender decision to step back from public commemorations for the sake of my mental health, balancing the act of honoring my late husband while forging onward with life's milestones.As the conversation unfolds, I open the doors to my life, exploring the reasons behind my choice to keep a distance from the widow community and its expectations. The episode takes an unexpected turn towards levity when I recount a humorous, yet heartwarming exchange with my son that reminds us of the unpredictable journey of motherhood. Join me in this intimate exploration of love, loss, and the strength found in privacy, paired with a song that encapsulates my young widowhood and the courage to embrace adulthood's challenges. Together, we'll navigate these deep waters, finding solace and connection within the shared experiences that bind us. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Ever survived the parental aftershock of spring break with your wits barely intact? Then this episode's for you!  With Marco Polo still on his adventures and new face sporting a thumb cast, we kept our thrill-seeking to a minimum. But hold on to your grocery lists, fellow parents, I'm also breaking down how I managed to wrangle my budget back in line after a break-induced spending spree, all while adding a new word like 'bruh' to my daily mom lexicon thanks to my kiddos. You're not alone in the post-break pandemonium, and I've got stories and strategies to prove it!Now, let's swap tales from the honesty files of our little commentators. Binding us in laughter and the occasional wince, kids have a talent for dropping truth bombs at the most unexpected times. I'll recount how my son's couch commentary on my snoring became an accidental nudge about my single status, and you'll hear how other listeners' children have become mini life-coaches with their unsolicited advice on everything from aging to career choices. These pint-sized pundits remind us to find humor in the raw clarity they bring to our lives, and I'm here to highlight the best of their unscripted moments. Tune in for a dose of reality served with a side of giggles, as we celebrate the unfiltered charm that comes standard with every child.https://blog.feedspot.com/widowed_mom_podcasts/ Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Fumbling with my credit card, I once again felt the sting of ignorance biting into my finances. That's why I am pulling back the curtain on personal financial literacy, especially from the viewpoint of a single parent. In today's episode, I get candid about my past blunders with impulsive buys and how I've turned the ship around by arming myself with credit knowledge. You'll hear about the shock of finding errors on credit reports and navigate the repair process with me, using free resources and avoiding those pricey 'quick fixes'. Ever bought a car with cash and later realized you missed out on building your credit history? I have, and it's one of the lessons I'll share in this journey from cash transactions to credit smarts. Planning for big expenses, like vacations, doesn't just ease the stress of last-minute funding; it also strategically positions you for a healthier financial future.  And because we're not just planning for today but for our children's tomorrow, I'll discuss setting an example with savvy spending and the power of financial allies.  Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Time has a funny way of slipping through our fingers, which is why seizing the moment is something I hold dear to my heart, especially as a businesswoman. This week, I'm peeling back the curtain on my own entrepreneurial journey, celebrating Women's History Month, and diving into the unexpected twists that come with reaching an audience I never imagined. From the challenges that accompany female professional achievements to the thrills of making our voices heard in the workplace, I'm revealing the essence of what it means to stand out in a crowd and the joyous realization that it's never too late to chase your dreams.As I map out how I plan my podcast in quarterly segments, transforming downtime into empowering explorations, you'll see just how critical it is to have a circle of friends who lift you up. And for those moments when you need a good chuckle, I recount an unbelievable story of a roaming kangaroo in Florida—yes, you heard that right—which not only serves up a dose of hilarity but also sheds light on the state's peculiar kangaroo regulations. So, whether you're here for the empowerment, the support, or just to find out more about Florida's exotic pet policy, I promise this episode has something for everyone. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Grab your headphones and a dose of empathy, folks, because it's time to ride the rollercoaster of life with me. This week, I'm peeling back the curtain on the unscripted comedy of my world – from a sinus infection that knocked me down to a stomach rebellion post-surgery that had me learning lessons the hard way. Plus, I’ll give you the inside scoop on my son's bowling birthday bash, featuring a broken thumb and the kind of improvisation that only a mother could muster. Who says resilience can't be hilarious?Join me as we celebrate Women's History Month  – not just by honoring the past, but by owning our present and powering through our personal hurdles. I'm toasting to the triumphs, like defying the teen mom statistics with diploma and degrees in hand, and popping the confetti for my company’s first anniversary. It's a journey of growth, grit, and a touch of glamour – all shared with you. Let's make some history together, one laugh and one milestone at a time. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.When life handed me the title of a military widow at just 21, the ground beneath me shifted in ways I never imagined. This week on the podcast, I open up about the labyrinth of grief and the quest for a light in the darkness that followed the loss of my husband. I unfold the unexpected camaraderie and the sharp sting of superstition I encountered among a community grappling with their own fears and losses. My journey is a raw testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the powerful ties that can bind us, even when hope seems like a distant memory.Navigating the aftermath within the military community brought challenges and divisions I never anticipated, revealing the complexities of solidarity among gold star spouses. I recount the steps I took towards rediscovering myself beyond the identity of a widow and how a bold move to a new city offered a surprising path to healing. Join me as I share the importance of finding a tribe that embraces you, scars and all, and the resilience that propels us forward. This episode is not just my story; it's an invitation to anyone facing the specter of loss to seek out spaces that foster growth and embrace the journey toward a life rebuilt on the foundation of the past. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Time sweeps forward like an unrelenting tide, and here I am, your guide through a journey of love, loss, and the indelible marks they leave on our lives. As February unfurls its days, I find myself reflecting on the emotional milestones, sharing with you the story of my late husband, a man whose memory is etched in the very fabric of my being. I honor his legacy, revisiting intimate memories, the shared laughter of Super Bowl Sundays past, and the Valentine's Day that never came.The fabric of grief is complex, woven with threads of sorrow, resilience, and, at times, bureaucracy—especially within the confines of military life. This episode delves into the heart-wrenching reality of losing a spouse in service to their country, the profound sorrow that follows, and the strength it takes to forge a new path in its wake. I explore the deep spiritual connection known as twin flames, recounting the visceral sense of loss that struck even before the official news arrived and how it has shaped the journey I continue to walk.Yet, even in the darkest of times, life has a way of offering unexpected moments of levity. I'll share a surprising incident from a military funeral that brought a glimmer of humor amidst the somberness. This episode also serves as a testament to the importance of representation and the unique hurdles faced by black women in the context of trauma and loss. And for those who seek comfort in music, as I often do, I'll introduce you to a playlist that has been my solace, featuring a song that holds the memory of a dance, a promise, and a love that endures. Join me on this profoundly personal episode, where we celebrate the resilience of the human spirit and the unbreakable bonds that love creates. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.When the lines between love and limits blur, how do we draw the map that guides our families through the terrain of respect and personal space? Come along with me, as I share my heartfelt encounters from the frontlines of motherhood. As a teen mom transformed into a mother of boys with a decade between them, I've seen the boundaries shift under my feet. This episode is an honest narrative of my parenting evolution, a story not just of setting limits but of knowing when to redraw them.Navigating the emotional labyrinth of family relations often means facing the Minotaur of toxicity, and I'm no stranger to the challenge. I delve into the art of declining favors from those with whom our bonds are frayed and offer a glimpse into my own struggles with distant relatives who pop up only in times of need. We'll laugh at the irony of discovering ancient bones and the dusty, forgotten branches of our family tree, and groove to the beat of "We Are Family," embracing the harmony and discord of our nearest and dearest. Join me in a conversation that celebrates the balance between holding tight and letting go, all within the embrace of family.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Ever found yourself stretched thinner than your favorite pair of pre-shrunk jeans? That's the tightrope walk of setting boundaries for me, Charlie Shanta,  and it's something we all wrestle with from time to time. Inside this heart-to-heart, I'm stripping back the layers on why it's crucial to establish limits that keep us humming along happily. From personal anecdotes about learning to say "no" without causing a scene to the challenges of maintaining privacy in a world addicted to oversharing, I'm laying it all out there for a conversation that's as real as it gets.Now, let's chew on the tough stuff – like those manipulative moves that can sneak into our relationships, and the juggling act of being both caring and self-preserving. I'm digging into the meat of what it means to stay true to ourselves, without ending up on an express train to Burnout City. Plus, I'm mixing in some lighter fare with tales of my kids redefining personal space and the love-hate relationship we have with self-checkouts. Trust me, it's a rollercoaster of laughs and face-palms that'll leave you nodding along.To tie a bow on our chat, I take a cue from Coleman Lane's "Keep My Cool" and reflect on the harmony found in holding our ground with a dose of cool composure. So, thanks for letting me be the voice in your earbuds, sharing tales and tips on finding that sweet spot between personal freedom and being there for others. Remember to leave that review, hit share, and I can't wait to hear from you after you've had a listen. Keep those boundaries in check, but most of all, keep your cool, my friends. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.As the clock ticks forward, we all grapple with the idea of transformation, but what if instead of a complete overhaul, we focused on enhancing the person we already are? Join me as I share my own metamorphosis f all while guiding you through setting powerful, yet achievable New Year's goals. This episode isn't just about lofty aspirations; it's a heartfelt exploration of why "new year, new me" is taking a backseat to realistic personal progress. From my triumph in adopting a healthier lifestyle to insights on why waiting to ditch toxic relationships isn't worth the wait, we'll tackle the truths behind our yearly pledges for change.Shifting gears, we'll lighten the mood with a quirky tale of a dog's costly taste for cash, and I'll reveal how my anthem of the year, "Hello" by Aqyila, keeps me centered. Remember, it's not just about the big picture; it's about the intimate moments too, like my journey in nurturing individual bonds with my children. So whether you're looking to revamp your fitness routine or seeking solace in more restful nights, let's kick off the year with a dose of laughter, community, and a commitment to content that resonates. Get ready to not just set goals but to live them, right here on the Gag Is podcast. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Gather 'round as I, Charli Shanta, along with the always charismatic Marco Polo, take you through a year's worth of turmoil, triumphs, and the plain ridiculous. It's been an unpredictable roller coaster, from grappling with my son's hospital scare to sharing a laugh or two over local shenanigans, including a topsy-turvy vehicle that had everyone talking. We'll also let you in on the peculiar tale of a woman in Ecuador whose wake took a lively turn, sparking a whimsical debate on the ramifications of attending your own funeral rehearsal.As we wave goodbye to the old and usher in the new, I peel back the curtain on the podcast journey that's been filled with the passion and persistence of early morning recordings to set the stage just right for you, the listeners. You'll be treated to an exclusive throwback to our Unpredictable Lifestyle Podcast days, reflecting on the growing pains and laughter that have shaped us along the way. We'll revisit a contentious moment that had the feathers of a particular demographic ruffling,  Join us as we toast to the adventures ahead and the stories that bind us, illuminated by the steadfast belief that even in darkness, there's a beacon of hope waiting to shine. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.As the holiday season rolls around, it can be a bittersweet time for those of us dealing with grief. Sharing my personal journey, I will take you through my first Thanksgiving and my late husband's birthday without him. Dealing with an emotionally charged period filled with tears, laughter, and even a challenging interaction with my mother-in-law, I found solace in celebrating my husband's life and finding comfort in visiting his grave. Amid the emotional rollercoaster, I stress on the significance of maintaining and cherishing traditions during this season as they serve as beautiful reminders of our loved ones. From adopting an Angel tree kid to the joy that giving back during the holidays brings, I share my experiences that reflect the true spirit of the season. We also discuss how the smallest donations can make a significant impact on someone's life and the importance of supporting organizations assisting families in need. Remember, even in the midst of grief, it's possible to spread kindness and generosity, and to find moments of joy and laughter. So tune in for an episode filled with heartfelt moments and inspiring stories. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered what the unfiltered and raw truth behind the festive season chaos looks like? Well, wonder no more. Join me, Charlie Shanta, as I navigate through the holiday madness, share my shopping tales (no spoilers for my little listeners though!) and reflect on the tranquility of a mellow Thanksgiving. The holiday season is a rollercoaster, and I'm here to share the ride.But it's more than just holiday chatter. This episode also brings to the forefront some real-life issues I've recently faced. The struggles of securing educational accommodations for my son and dealing with an uncooperative teacher are just the tip of the iceberg. It's been a tough journey, but through it all, the lesson remains - teaching our children to advocate for themselves is crucial. This is parenthood, this is life, and this is the Gag Is podcast. Buckle up for a heartwarming episode filled with real talk and raw emotions. Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispodEmail:TheGagIsPod@gmail.com