Ever wondered what it’s like to grow up in a family of funeral directors? Join me as I chat with Kelly Scott, the General Manager of T.J. Scott and Son Funeral Directors in the Macedon Ranges.Kelly shares her unique journey, insights on dealing with death, and the profound importance of family and community in the funeral industry.Kelly Scott, a fourth-generation funeral director, takes us through the fascinating and often misunderstood world of funeral services. Kelly, who joined the family business over 30 years ago, shares her experiences growing up around the funeral home, how she and her family approach death with sensitivity and respect, and the evolving nature of funerals in modern times.Growing up in a funeral home might seem unusual to many, but for Kelly, it was just part of life. She recounts her childhood experiences, from family dinners interrupted by the phone ringing to her initial misconceptions about her father’s work. Despite the ever-present nature of death in their lives, Kelly’s family maintained a clear boundary between work and home, respecting the privacy of those they served.As Kelly delved into the funeral industry, she discovered her passion for helping families during their most difficult times. She talks about the importance of personalised funerals and how small touches, like playing a loved one's favourite music or involving families in the care of the deceased, can make a significant difference. Kelly’s dedication to her work is evident as she describes the joy she finds in supporting families and ensuring that every funeral is a meaningful and comforting experience.Key Points:Childhood in a Funeral Home: Kelly describes growing up in the only funeral home in Kyneton.Early misconceptions about her father's work and the privacy maintained by her family.Joining the Family Business: Kelly’s journey into the funeral industry, starting with administrative tasks.The natural progression from nursing to funeral directing.Personalising Funerals: The importance of making funerals personal and reflective of the deceased's life.Examples of unique touches, such as custom image-wrapped coffins and incorporating personal items.Professional Insights: Kelly’s role as the President of the Australian Funeral Directors Association.The impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on the funeral industry and advocating for essential service recognition.Resources and Links:MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Today, we're joined by Camilla Rowland, CEO of Palliative Care Australia, who brings decades of experience in transforming palliative care practices and perceptions.In today's discussion, we delve deep into the holistic approach of palliative care—how it integrates into our healthcare system and what it means for individuals facing life-limiting conditions. Camilla sheds light on how embracing the realities of death can enhance the quality of life and why early conversations about end-of-life care are crucial.Key Takeaways from This Episode:Understanding Palliative Care: Camilla provides insights into the essence of palliative care, which is not merely about managing the end of life but about enhancing the quality of the remaining life through comprehensive care that addresses physical, emotional, and spiritual needs.Breaking Taboos Around Death: We discuss the importance of normalising conversations about death, especially in a post-COVID world where awareness of mortality has heightened. It's about shifting perspectives from fear to acknowledgment and preparedness.The Importance of Advanced Care Planning: Learn why it’s critical to plan for the end of life, much like we plan for other major events. This planning includes understanding the trajectory of terminal illnesses, the potential impact of treatments, and ensuring that wishes regarding end-of-life care are respected.Links and Resources:Palliative Care Australia Website: www.palliativecare.org.auResources - Advance Care Planning AustraliaEpisode Transcript: Full transcript available at www.dontbecaughtdead.comJoin us as we continue to bring the shadows of death into the light, encouraging everyone to talk openly about the end of life. Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Annie Whitlocke is a death doula with a rich history of embracing life’s trials with an open heart.Annie shares her profound journey from a turbulent childhood through to her multiple personal tragedies, including loss of multiple husbands and struggles with miscarriages.These challenges have uniquely equipped her to assist others at the end of their lives. Her story is one of transformation; from pain and isolation to finding her calling in helping others face death with dignity and peace.Key Points from This Episode:Annie's Early Life: Learn about her challenging early years in foster care and the impact of reuniting with a family she didn’t remember.Professional Evolution: From working in various caregiving roles to becoming a respected death doula, Annie discusses how her past experiences with loss and recovery informed her career.Philosophy on Death: Annie speaks to how her difficult life experiences opened her heart rather than hardening it, allowing her to provide unique support to those at the end of their life.The Role of a Death Doula: Discover what it means to be a death doula, the services they provide, and the emotional and practical support they offer to both dying individuals and their families.Buddhist Influence on Embracing Death: Annie explores how Buddhist teachings have shaped her understanding of death as a natural part of life. She discusses the concept of death awareness in Buddhism, which encourages living each moment more fully and with greater presence.Links and Resources Mentioned:Contact Annie Whitlocke hereThe Trauma Cleaner by Sarah Krasnostein - Annie discusses how this book impacted her and her connection to the story through her interview with the author.Advance Care Planning: Annie stresses the importance of advance care directives and how they can ensure a person’s wishes are respected at the end of life.Buddhist Practices in Death: Insights into how Annie’s Buddhist beliefs inform her practice as a death doula, particularly around the concept of impermanence.Compass episode referenced: ‘Goodbye My Dog’Grist for the MillAwakening to OnenessBy: Ram DassWhether you'MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Welcome to another episode of 'Don't Be Caught Dead' where we shine a light on the topic many of us shy away from – death.This week, we're joined by a special guest, Jackie Slater, an authorised marriage and funeral celebrant. Jackie's spent over 40 years working in the funeral industry, and her journey in this industry is as intriguing as it is inspiring.In this episode, Jackie unravels her career journey, from starting as a 'Saturday girl' doing admin work for a funeral director, to becoming the manager of a cemetery and crematorium. Along the way, she's seen it all – from good funerals, to the bad and mediocre ones, which led Jackie to become a funeral celebrant herself. She shares her experiences of working with families to create personal, meaningful ceremonies, and the challenges she's encountered in this process.We also dive into Jackie's role as the president of the Funeral Celebrants Association of Australia, and how this role intertwines with her duties as a funeral celebrant. Jackie shares insights on the shift from traditional, religious funerals to more personalised, secular ceremonies, and the importance of open conversations about death in our families.Key points from this episode:Jackie’s journey from a 'Saturday girl' to a funeral celebrantChallenges faced by the families while planning for a ceremonyThe shift from traditional funerals to more personalised ceremoniesRole of a celebrant in creating a meaningful ceremonyNo matter where you are in your understanding or acceptance of death, this episode is sure to provide valuable insights. As always, we're here to encourage open conversations about death, dying, and everything in between.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Do you crave captivating conversation about the things that REALLY matter?Then you can’t go past listening to a seasoned end of life doula with nearly 40 years of experience, like Helen Callanan. Helen is the founder and lead educator at Preparing the Way, an organisation that delivers holistic end-of-life and doula education across Australia and New Zealand. Helen's profound experience and passion for education create a wealth of knowledge that she generously shares with us today.In this revealing episode, Helen explains how she has managed to bring life to stories of death through her work and passion. We delve into her journey of creating Preparing the Way and how her mission of empowering all people with choice at the end of life has shaped the way she operates. We also explore how she managed to design and deliver the world's first nationally accredited  Certificate IV in End of Life Doula Services, a feat that required rigorous work and dedication.Helen shares fascinating insights into the world of end-of-life care, including how she has adapted her training methods in response to the Covid-19 pandemic. She also discusses the importance of having open conversations about death and the critical role of end-of-life doulas in our society. This is a must-listen episode for anyone interested in the field of end-of-life care, or anyone looking to gain a deeper understanding of what it means to face death consciously and compassionately.In this episode, we discuss:Helen's journey to becoming an end-of-life doula and the creation of Preparing the Way.How Preparing the Way developed the world's first nationally accredited Certificate IV in End of Life Doula Services.The impact of Covid-19 on doula training and how it has led to unexpected positive outcomes.The importance of bringing conversations about death into the open and the role of doulas in this process.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineMentioned resources:Preparing the WayNatural Grace Holistic FuneralsMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

This episode focuses on the escalating issue of funeral poverty and debt.I speak with Kieran Worthington and Kevin Hartley, who discuss their mission to provide dignified funerals for those who might not be able to afford one.The conversation begins with a poignant question: where were Kieran and Kevin last year when our friend's children had to crowdfund their father's funeral?As it turns out, they were always there, offering their services to those in need, only we weren't aware of them.Regrettably, many are unaware of their services when they need them the most.This episode aims to increase awareness about their services.Kieran and Kevin highlight the challenges that small charities face in making a significant impact, especially in a large city like Melbourne. They have been working for 27 years, striving to reach as many people as possible to inform them about the support they can provide in times of need.Throughout the conversation, we delve into the various facets of their work and the people they assist. Their mission isn't solely about helping those living on the streets or without any money. They also support those who are barely managing, individuals on the brink of their financial limits. A funeral expense can push them over, and that's when Kieran and Kevin step in.In the podcast, we discuss:How Kieran and Kevin's work contributes to the community.The challenges they face in creating awareness about their services.The types of people they've been helping and how their demographic is shifting.The future of funerals and the changes they anticipate.We hope this episode provides you with a new perspective on funerals and the financial considerations that often accompany them. Remember, it's not morbid to think about death, but rather a part of life. Let's not be caught dead unprepared.Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review 'Don't Be Caught Dead' on your favourite podcast platform. Stay tuned for more insightful episodes.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineContact Kieran and Kevin’s Charity:Bereavement AssistanceMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

In this episode, I speak with a pioneer in the death care industry, Zenith Virago. Zenith is the founder and executive officer of the Natural Death Care Centre Charity Australia. She is a death walker, a celebrant, and an educator.Zenith has been empowering people to have healthier, healing bereavement with few or no regrets for over 30 years. Our conversation was enlightening and funny, ranging from the significance of graveyards in England, ceremonies for the LGBTQ community, how to support children through grief.And we even managed to talk about vaginas!I'm sure you'll enjoy hearing from Zenith as much as I did.In this episode, we cover:Zenith's journey into becoming a 'Death Walker'The importance of community in death careThe enlightening experience of founding the Natural Death Care Center charityThe impact of generosity in the world of death careZenith's exploration of death care in the UKThe role of ceremony in complex death situationsStay tuned for this enlightening episode and remember, let's break the taboo around talking about death. Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineContact Zenith:Zenith Virago, Deathwalker TrainingMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

What happens when some family members see dollar signs in death? How do you navigate such a fraught situation?In this episode, we're discussing family ties, estates, and confronting death, a topic many avoid.I'm sharing a personal and painful story about Grace. After her mother Patricia's death, she discovered her sister had allegedly taken $350,000 from Patricia's account. This led to a legal fight put Grace through many challenging situations.This episode isn't just about a financial family feud. It's a warning about the importance of understanding legal matters, especially concerning powers of attorney and discussions about death and inheritance. It's about preparing for what's inevitable – both legally and emotionally.We look at The stark reality of elder financial abuse and how it can fracture families.The unexpected legal loopholes and pitfalls when dealing with powers of attorney.The emotional toll of grieving amidst a legal battle and feeling betrayed by those closest.Links:1800 ELDERHelp (1800 353 374) is a free call phone number that automatically redirects callers seeking information and advice on elder abuse with the phone service in their state or territory.The phone line has been set up in collaboration with state and territory governments.Doyle Guide https://doylesguide.com/ Remember: Always seek professional legal advice on your own specific situation. And if there's one thing I want you to take away from this episode, it's this: while we may not be able to control death, we can certainly prepare for the aftermath with wisdom and foresight. Let's not be caught dead without having those tough, necessary chats.If Grace's story resonates with you, or if you've been through something similar, drop me a line. I'm here to listen, share, and support. Until next time, stay savvy and speak openly.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

In the episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead," I had the pleasure of interviewing Arwen Dropmann, a skilled professional organiser with a background in social work.Arwen is a certified social worker and has additional training in grief and loss, disability, chronic illness, hoarding disorder, motivational interviewing, neurodivergent affirming practices, and compassion-focused therapy.We delved into the realm of decluttering, organising, and the emotional connections we have with our belongings, especially when coping with the death of a loved one.In This Episode:Arwen shines a light on the challenges families face when dealing with a loved one's belongings after death.We explore the emotional aspects of decluttering and organising, especially in sensitive situations like handling a deceased person's possessions.Arwen provides practical advice on future preparation, emphasising the importance of organising essential documents and planning for unforeseen events.This episode should enlighten anyone who has grappled with clutter or faced the daunting task of sorting through a loved one's belongings. Arwen's insights highlight the importance of preparing for the inevitable and the emotional journey that accompanies it.Related Links:The Book, ‘The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning’ can be found hereArwen Dropmann's Calm Space Professional organising serviceThe Institute of Professional Organisers websiteMarie Kondo's show and The Home Edit.1800JunkBuried in TreasuresPlease share this episode with anyone who might find it useful or comforting. Subscribe for more enlightening conversations like this one.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Welcome to another episode of 'Don't Be Caught Dead'! This week, we delve into an incredibly raw and honest conversation with James Robinson. James courageously shares his personal experiences with loss, grief, and the impact of suicide on his family.In this episode, James opens up about the tragic loss of his older brother, Michael, to suicide when they were just teenagers. This loss, which he describes as a 'huge shock', marked the start of a series of bereavements that profoundly affected James and his family. His recounting of these experiences paints a vivid, heartbreaking picture of the struggle that families face when dealing with the unexpected loss of a loved one.Over the course of our conversation, James also reflects on his parents' passing and the significant toll these losses have taken on him. His story is a poignant reminder of the importance of support and understanding in navigating the journey of grief and loss. The strength and honesty with which James shares his story offer valuable insights and a sense of connection for those grappling with similar experiences.In this episode, we:Discuss James's early loss of his brother to suicide and the devastating impact it had on his familyExplore the coping mechanisms James and his parents adopted in the wake of their lossReflect on James's subsequent experiences of bereavement with the passing of his parentsDelve into the importance of support networks and the role they play in the grieving processStay tuned to hear James's powerful story and the lessons he's learned along his journey of grief and healing. As always, we hope this episode provides comfort, understanding, and a sense of connection to those who need it.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,CatherineMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Have you ever pondered the experience of facing the end of a loved one's life? In this episode, we share a touching story from Susan Bollard, who grappled with the loss of her husband during the height of the Covid lockdown.Susan, the owner of Showbiz Dance Studio, shares her profound journey through the loss of her husband, Phil. It's a story filled with love, loss, and unexpected lessons learnt along the way. Let's dive into the salient points of this extraordinary conversation.Key Learnings:Susan's life before and after Phil's passing: An exploration of her dance studio and how it transformed into a sanctuary after her loss. The reality of managing a terminal illness: Susan reveals the emotional rollercoaster and difficult decisions faced during Phil's battle with pancreatic cancer. Navigating life after loss: Susan discusses the challenges of adjusting to life without Phil, from managing his affairs to carving out her own path forward. The power of dance: Discover how Susan utilised dance as a therapeutic outlet to rediscover herself and establish a supportive community. Preparing for the inevitable: Insights into the importance of wills, funeral planning, and engaging in difficult conversations.Highlighted Resources:Showbiz Dance Studio WebsiteCritical Info WebsiteWhilst death might be a disconcerting topic, it is a part of life we all must confront. Susan's story stands as a testament to the inner strength and resilience we can unearth within ourselves. Tune in and let's navigate this journey collectively.Keep dancing through life, and don't forget to subscribe for more poignant narratives and insights. See you in the next episode! Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared. Take care,CatherineMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Have you ever pondered over what it's like to confront death each day? Today we offer a captivating chat with Bradley Lett, who was raised in a family that ran a funeral business, a tradition he's upheld for two decades. It's a voyage through the complexities of life, death, and all that lies in between. So, let's delve into the show!Episode Summary:The Privilege of Funeral Directing: Bradley Lett, a veteran Funeral Director, imparts his profound experiences and the honour he carries in assisting families during their toughest times. Bradley candidly discusses the challenges and rewards of working closely with his Sale community, emphasising the emotional aspects of serving families he personally knows.Options:The Privilege of Funeral Directing: Bradley Lett, a veteran Funeral Director, imparts his profound experiences and the honour he carries in assisting families during their toughest times.Growing Up Amidst Death: Bradley contemplates his extraordinary childhood, being raised in a family deeply rooted in the funeral business. It's a viewpoint few of us have the opportunity to hear about!Family Business and Personal Journeys: We explore his path from training to be a fitter and turner to taking over the family business. It's a narrative of unforeseen twists and heartfelt decisions.The Fine Balance between Personal and Professional: Bradley candidly discusses the challenges and rewards of working closely with his community, emphasising the emotional aspects of serving families he personally knows.Preparing for the Unexpected: He underscores the significance of discussing and preparing for death, despite the discomfort it entails, and how his professional experiences mould his personal outlook on death and mourning.A Personal Touch in Funerals: From the importance of personalised funerals to the evolving trends in the industry, Bradley affords us a glimpse into the art of making each service unique and poignant.The Effect of COVID-19 on Funerals: A moving narration of how the pandemic has transformed the paradigm of farewells and the importance of adaptability in times of crisis.Contemplating Life and Legacy: Bradley's sincere conversation about planning his own funeral and the wisdom garnered from decades in the funeral industry.Key Insights:The role of a funeral director extends beyond organising a service; it hinges on compassion, understanding, and reverence for each unique journey.The significance of open discussions about death and preparationsMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

You’ve probably heard of the term ‘doula’ before, often used in the context of those who support birthing mothers. But do you understand the role of a death doula?In this episode, we demystify the often misunderstood role of an end of life doula, a role that Rebecca Lyons embodies with passion and dedication.Rebecca shares her personal journey that led her into the funeral industry and eventually to her current role as a doula and independent funeral director.Learn about the broad and diverse responsibilities of a doula, from practical logistics to the deeply emotional 'heart work'.Hear about Rebecca's experiences and challenges whilst advocating for a more personalised and family-centric approach to death care.Be inspired by Rebecca's commitment to raising death literacy and promoting open conversations about end-of-life matters.In this episode, we explore the invaluable role of a doula, delve into the importance of clear communication amongst the care team, and discuss the concept of 'home funerals'. We also touch on Rebecca's work as an independent funeral director and her efforts to reimagine what a funeral can be.Tune in to hear Rebecca's unique perspective on dying and death, and be prepared to view end-of-life care in a whole new light. Key Talking Points:The Role of an End-of-Life DoulaThe Importance of Communication in End-of-Life CareUnderstanding 'Home Funerals'Rebecca's Work as an Independent Funeral DirectorRaising Death Literacy and Promoting Open Conversations Mentioned Resources:Zenith Virago, Deathwalker Training https://www.zenithvirago.com/deathwalker-trainingNDAN - Natural Death Advocacy NetworkAustralian Home Funeral Alliancehttps://preparingtheway.com.au/https://www.deniselove.net/Bec’s TED Talk - https://youtu.be/_oQz_8v52a0?si=IEIycmfKtZ42DRF_Libby Maloney - https://naturalgrace.com.au/Dr Pia Interlandi - https://www.piainterlandi.com/garments-for-the-grave/Dr Kerry Noonan - https://www.deathliteracy.institute/kerrie-noonanDr. Alan Kellehear Dr.Julian Abel and Helen Kingston - https://compassionate-communitiesuk.com/our-team/The Compassion Project. A Case for Hope & Humankindness from the Town That Beat Lonelinesshttps://bjgp.org/content/70/701/605Geeveston Public Cemetery - https://www.geevMY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

In this episode, I'm bringing you a conversation that's both emotional and enlightening. I had the pleasure of reuniting with an old high school friend Libby Neesham, who shared her incredibly personal experiences with the death of her parents, her unique approach to motherhood, and her valuable insights on dealing with grief as someone with neurodiversity.🌹 In this episode:Libby opens up about the different ways she grieved the death of each of her parents and the lessons she learned along the way.She reflects on her journey into motherhood and how it has shaped her understanding of life and death.We delve into the importance of having open conversations about end-of-life matters and the impact it has on our lives.Libby's story is a powerful reminder of the complexities of grief and the strength we find in the most challenging times. Her insights are not just about coping with loss but also about growing from it, embracing life, and cherishing the memories of those we've lost.Don't forget to follow and leave a review if this episode resonates with you. Your support helps us continue these meaningful conversations.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care,Catherine 🌟MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Today's conversation is one that's close to my heart, and I believe it will touch yours too.I had the incredible opportunity to sit down with my best friend and medical advisor to Critical Info, Dr. Renee Stamation. As an emergency doctor, she faced incredibly challenging life-and-death moments during the tough times of the COVID-19 pandemic.🩺 In this episode:Dr. Stamation shares her firsthand experiences from the frontline, weaving a tale of resilience, compassion, and the emotional toll of being a healthcare worker during a global crisis.She opens up about profound moments of connection in the midst of the pandemic, like being the last person to comfort patients in their final moments.We discuss the invisible burdens our healthcare heroes carry and the misconceptions often held by those outside the medical profession.Dr. Renee's stories are not just about the struggles; they highlight the human spirit, the kindness, and the unforgettable bonds formed in the hardest of times. Her insights are both heartbreaking and inspiring, offering a rare glimpse into the lives of those who have been our pillars during this pandemic.This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the true impact of the pandemic on those who fought on the frontlines.Don't forget to hit follow and leave a review if you find these stories as moving as I do. Your support helps us keep these important conversations alive.Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.Take care, Catherine 🌟MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.SUPPORT SERVICESIf you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Welcome to the trailer for "Don't Be Caught Dead"! 💀I'm excited to give you a glimpse of what's to come in this podcast.This podcast delves into the delicate balance between life and death, the defining moments that shape us, and the conversations we often avoid but need to have. My mission is to change that.I'm Catherine Ashton, the founder of Critical Info, and I'm here to revive stories of death. Because while you may not be ready to die, at least you can be prepared.🌟 Here's a sneak peek 👇Experience the profound and often unspoken moments at the edge of life.Join me as I reflect on witnessing the elusive transition from life to death.Get a taste of the depths we'll explore, as we embark on life's final journey and discover its teachings.🚀 Mark your calendars! We officially launch on 22nd February 2024.Prepare yourself for a series of soul-stirring and thought-provoking episodes that will revolutionise your perspective on life... and death.Contact CatherineBusiness Website: https://dontbecaughtdead.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094865491683Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/critical_info_org/LinkedIn Business Page: : https://www.linkedin.com/company/critical-infoLinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-ashton-73254528/Podcast Editor: https://www.livvimusic.com/ Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/