In this episode we are discussing how everything isn't always something, How past experiences, pains and traumas can effect our perceptions in certain situations. And we went and seen the comedian David Arnold!Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question?Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @havewordswithHERE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS#trustissues #suspectingcheating #fearinginfidelity #snooping #checkingcellphones #trustworthy #perceptionvsreality #pasttraumas #davidAarnold

In this episode we are discussing what "bringing something to the table." means and what it is that you bring to the relationship. Does it differ for men and women?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question?Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @havewordswithHERE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS#bringtothetable #relationshipgoals #realtionshipqualities #menvswomen #womenvsmenqualities #relationshiptopics #relationshipadviceandtips #letsstarttheconvo #opentheconversation

In this episode we are discussing the qualities that attract you in beginning of the relationship vs the qualities that now sustain the relationship. How has it changed?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question?Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @havewordswithHERE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we discuss the conclusion of Sex/Life series on Netflix, Spicing up sex in marriage, and do's and don'ts.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question?Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @havewordswithHERE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we discuss and reflect the 1 yr anniversary of WGHW podcast. What we have learned along way, what changed as well as what is to come, and some goals we have in mind. We also discuss the Sex/Life show on Netflix, what we agree/disagree with per our own experiences in marriage.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question?Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @i.me.mandydE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we are discussing Trigger Words. Are you knowingly using trigger words with your spouse?  Are you triggered?  How to identify and manage when you are triggered.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWords Mandy on IG: @i.me.mandydE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDSSHOW LESS

In this episode we are discussing Father's Day, The Role of Dad being under appreciated and balancing work/life and stress. (PLEASE NOTE: We were having some mic/sound issues in this episodes. We apologize. We'll do better next time. Thank you for your understanding!)Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492Mandy on IG: @i.me.mandyd E on IG: @gonnahavewordsEnjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWordshttps://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we discuss what vulnerability is in a relationship. What it means for us, our errors/corrections, and how it benefits a relationship (or not.) Vulnerability: Men VS Women- is one likely to be more vulnerable than the other?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492Mandy on IG: @i.me.mandydE on IG: @gonnahavewordsEnjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWordshttps://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

We are discussing reactions and responding while communicating. What determines or triggers your responses and reactions. "Its too late to apologize." Is there such a thing? Apologizing vs Excuses.A multicultural married couple discuss, debate, and explore (and sometimes argue) topics on life, love, relationships, and family. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords WANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492 Mandy on IG: @i.me.mandyd E on IG: @gonnahavewords Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWords https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords ** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS: https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

We are discussing support in relationships. Supporting your spouse's ambitions, dreams and emotions. The Kite & String/Rock Theory.   Does your spouse saying " I feel this in my spirit" make you feel like you HAVE to support them even if you might not want to? Join us as we get the convo started!Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWordshttps://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we discuss: If all men/women cheat in some form? What is considered cheating? What aspects of infidelity makes it so egregious to you?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsFollow Mandy: @i.me.mandydFollow E: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWordshttps://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we are discussing age gaps in relationships and ageism.  Are men treated/judged differently as they age than women? Does the size of age gap matter in relationships? What are the challenges with age gaps?****SPECIAL NOTE: We realize our audio from a few episodes are far from perfect. If you want an easier listen you can head over to our YT channel with the link below.YouTube Channel Link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvV_TzDA7oyj_eCxVtLmIAQThanks for your patience as we iron the audio wrinkles!***** Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords WANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWordshttps://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** Your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS: https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDS

In this episode we are discussing Interracial/ Multicultural Relationships: The challenges those relationships may face,  Our ethnic backgrounds and challenges, Did you always date outside your ethnicity? and How does your family feel about your relationship? Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords  WANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492 Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWordshttps://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords ** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!

In this episode we discuss pettiness in relationships. Who is the most petty in your relationship? Who is more petty, Men or Women? Does your pettiness have a limit?  & more!Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords  WANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492 Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWords ** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!

In this episode we will discuss Valentines Day- To celebrate or NOT to celebrate. Our stance on this. Questions for our audience: Is the romance/sex different for Valentines Day/ Expectations?  We also cover the Topic Suggestion: How to respond when someone flirts with your spouse? Physical altercations and why E can't go to jail. ;PBe sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords WANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492 Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHaveWords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!SHOW LESS

In this bonus live stream episode we discussed how to get your spouse to buy in on money matters and sexual dealings. Managing expectations, dealing with rejections and respecting each others boundaries. E asks for Gold Stars and a stripper pole?*slight audio difficulties- we are still ironing out the live stream wrinkles*Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords  Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492

In this episode we discuss expectations of reciprocity in relationships. Should one just know to reciprocate what is given or does there need to be a conversation about expectations of the relationship.  Do the expectations of reciprocity differ for other relationships compared to marriage/committed relationships? What happens when a relationship is unbalanced? Reciprocating love is not the same accepting love. We share the first expectation of reciprocity that pops into our minds. (Can you guess what Es is? )

In this episode we discuss new year mindsets. 2021 outlook, expectations and New Year Resolutions.. Mental health and our differing perspectives on counseling/therapy. -Choosing thoughts and feelings and Self-care Communicating your feelings while managing your response expectations. How to LUV. "Don't Shake the Strawberries!" and E sings.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords  Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492 New Year Brings New Things! Stayed Tuned for Video Episodes, Live Episodes and Live Conversations and Q&A. Group Members get exclusive content, so head on over to Facebook, like our page and join our group!

In this episode we discuss societal perspectives, stigmas for stay at home parents vs the provider. Who has the toughest job?  We share our experience with reversal of the roles. How do you show appreciation to the bread winner? How do you show appreciation to the stay at home parent? Gift giving and appreciation and the holidays.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!  If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS! J Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWords  Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492 New Year Brings New Things! Stayed Tuned for Video Episodes, Live Episodes and Live Conversations and Q&A. Group Members get exclusive content, so head on over to Facebook, like our page and join our group!

In this episode we discuss, explore (and argue a little) about Privacy, Secrets and Lies in marriage. What is privacy in marriage. Is it privacy or is it secrecy? Secrets VS lies,  Digital Device/ Cell Phone Privacy,  E gets controversial. Mandy gets annoyed.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS!Need some relationship perspective? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsor email us: GonnaHaveWords@gmail.comJoin us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4274444492630492