The Puffy Hair Podcast | Hair Care, Textured Hair, Curly Hair, Multicultural, Cultural Diversity

Welcome to the most magical yet potentially challenging time of the year – holiday season. It's Shar here, guiding you through navigating those awkward family dinners with a head full of snappy comebacks for any unsolicited comments about your magnificent mane. In this episode, we're armor up with words sharper than any scissors, ready to trim down any negativity tossed our way about our hair, or frankly, any part of our identity.   **In This Episode:**   **Unwanted Comments Be Gone:** Shar dives into tackling those inevitable and often awkward remarks about changes in our appearance – with a focus on our hair. The holiday season should be filled with joy, not dodging verbal bullets about our looks.   **Holiday Giveaway:** Stick around for a special segment where you could win some cool stuff. Participation details to follow.   **Family Matters...Or Does It?:** Shar shares a personal journey of cutting ties with a toxic family member. This year, she's rewriting her holiday narrative and empowers you to do the same if you're facing similar challenges. There's strength in choosing peace over tradition.   **Clapback Academy:** Gear up with a arsenal of comebacks fit for any remark. Whether it's deflecting ignorance with humor, invoking self-reflection in the offender, or simply standing your ground with grace, we've got you covered. Examples include:    - "**Flag on the Play**": Pointing out offensive remarks without escalation.    - "**I wonder why you feel comfortable saying that to me.**": Making them question their own biases.    - "**I don’t get it? Can you explain that joke?**": Highlighting the absurdity of their "humor".    - And several more tailored responses to shut down disrespectful banter.   **Community Support:** The episode emphasizes the importance of not bearing the burden of addressing racism or any form of discrimination alone. It's a call to allies and loved ones to step up and share the responsibility.   **Giveaway Details:** Learn how to participate in our holiday contest for a chance to win a Mizani holiday gift set. Head over to the Puffy Hair Podcast Facebook page for more details.   **Celebrating Success:** Before we part ways, we celebrate a milestone – climbing into the top 5% of all podcasts online. A heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, for making this possible.   **Final Thoughts:**   This episode isn't just about surviving the holidays; it's about thriving, embracing our identity, and standing tall against any comments that try to bring us down. Remember, your beauty isn't up for debate.   **Happy Holidays from the Puffy Hair Podcast Team!** We're not just a community; we're a family, growing stronger and more resilient together. See you next year for more empowering conversations.   **Don’t Forget:** - Participate in our giveaway on the **Puffy Hair Podcast Facebook page**. - Join our conversation and share your own clapback stories. We're all in this together.   **Happy Holidays, and here's to a New Year filled with love, peace, and fantastic hair days!**

**Podcast Title:** Puffy Hair Podcast   **Episode Host:** Shar   **Theme:** Unpacking the Trend of Praising Basic Parenting Duties in Interracial Families and the Underlying White Saviorism   **Key Points Discussed:**   **Opening Remarks:**      - Shar kicks off the episode with a lighthearted touch, sharing her personal social media browsing habits and setting the stage for a serious discussion.   **Social Media Trends:**      - Highlighted the increase in videos showcasing white parents managing their black children's hair.    - Shar expresses disturbance not at the content of the videos but at the disproportionate praise in the comments for basic parenting duties.   **Personal Insights and Anecdotes:**      - Shar shares her own experiences with interracial family dynamics and her concerns over the skewed appreciation of white parents doing basic hair care tasks for their black children.    - Detailed recount of a professional salon episode emphasizing the lack of skill in handling black hair, leading to wider discussion on standards of beauty and care.   **Critique of White Saviorism:**      - The conversation transitions into a critique of white saviorism, its implications on racial stereotypes, and the true nature of support versus overshadowing.    - Shar discusses the misconception that mastering hair care equates to parental success, challenging this narrative with personal and observed experiences.   **Specific Social Media Example:**      - Shar talks about a particular TikTok family from Cedar Rapids, using their story to illustrate misunderstanding and misrepresentation of black children's needs, particularly regarding hair care and identity.   **The Real-Life Implications:**      - The episode delves into the serious effects of these social media trends and behavioral patterns on children's identity, self-esteem, and understanding of racial dynamics.   **Opposing White Saviorism:**      - Shar presents an alternative approach to celebrating and supporting community-driven standards, empowerment, and real understanding of diverse needs.   **Closing Reflections:**      - The podcast closes with a call to action for more genuine, informed, and equal recognition of basic parenting efforts across all racial lines, highlighting the need to challenge societal biases and expectations.   **Listener Engagement:**   Shar encourages listener participation through comments on Facebook or direct messaging on the Puffy Hair Podcast website, emphasizing community discussion and shared narratives.   **Takeaway Message:**   The episode aims to foster a deeper conversation about societal perceptions, racial biases, and the true meaning of support and assistance across different communities, with a hopeful note on self-care during the holiday season.   **Next Episode Alert:**   Listeners are invited to tune in next Friday for another compelling discussion.   "You are such a good Dad" https://youtu.be/pfltmHtqdzM?si=3GfrhPh4KTugwcGv   Connect with Shar:  www.thepuffyhair.com

**Welcome to today’s episode**, where we're diving deep into the beauty industry, specifically focusing on the significance and impact of supporting Black-owned haircare and beauty brands. Black women are at the forefront of beauty spending, investing up to $7.5 billion annually, which is double the amount spent by other demographics. Today, we're here to guide you on making smarter, healthier, and more ethical choices in your beauty product selections.   **Today's Highlights:**   - **The Economic Power of Black Women in Beauty**: Discover the substantial influence Black women have in the beauty market and the importance of directing that spending power towards brands that truly understand and cater to their needs.   - **Choosing the Right Products**: We'll discuss what questions to ask when selecting haircare products, including ensuring they are ethically sourced and support Black-owned businesses.   - **The Importance of Supporting Black-Owned Brands**: Learn why it’s crucial to support Black entrepreneurs in the beauty industry, who often create products based on personal experiences and struggles with black hair, leading to innovative and effective solutions.   - **Recognizing Black Entrepreneurship**: Highlighting the success stories of Black-owned brands like Mielle Organics, Pattern by Tracee Ellis Ross, and Beyoncé's Cecred, and discussing the positive impact of supporting emerging Black entrepreneurs in the beauty space.   - **The Truth About Brand Ownership**: We address the importance of researching the real ownership of brands that target the Black community, using examples such as Cantu and Mizani, and encouraging support for truly Black-owned businesses.   - **Balancing Support**: Our host, Shar, shares their approach to balancing the support between Black-owned brands and broader market options, explaining the rationale behind their product selections, including local and non-Black-owned brands.   - **Holiday Shopping Reminder**: As the holidays approach, remember that haircare products make fantastic gifts. Check out our link to Shar’s hair shop for some great options that deliver.   **Closing Thoughts**: Supporting Black-owned businesses is more than just a purchase; it's an investment in economic empowerment, innovation, and the future of the beauty industry. We encourage our listeners to make conscious decisions about where they spend their money, not only to look good but to do good.   **Next Episode Tease**: Have specific haircare questions or need advice? Join us next Friday for more insightful discussions. Meanwhile, send your queries to our page at thepuffyhair.com  We can't wait to hear from you!   **Stay connected**: Don’t forget to support Black and shop local! For more beauty insights, tips, and recommendations, tune in every Friday.   ---   Thank you for joining us on this journey towards more mindful, impactful consumption in the beauty industry. We hope today's discussion inspires you to make choices that resonate with your values and contribute to a fairer, more inclusive world. Shop from me  www.vagaro.com/shars

**Welcome to Today's Episode!**   Hello, fantastic listeners! Did your day bring you joy and satisfaction? Well, let's add to that happiness with some savvy shopping tips and hair care advice. Brace yourself for a wonderful episode where we explore essential tips for snatching the best Black Friday deals on hair products. Plus, we delve into how to prepare your hair for a protective style this holiday season. Ready to give your wallet and hair some love? Let’s dive in!   **Celebrating Milestones and New Looks:**   - **A Thousand Thank-Yous:** Kicking off today's podcast with a massive shoutout to you, our listeners, for helping us reach 1,000 downloads since our start in August this year. Your engagement, calls, and shares mean the world to us. Here’s to many more milestones together!    - **Twist It Up:** Our host shares a personal hair journey, switching from braids to twists for an easier-to-maintain look this holiday season. Discover a humorous tale of shots on Thirsty Thursday at the salon and tips for choosing your next style or stylist.   **Prepping Your Hair for Protective Styles:**   - **Know Before You Go:** Learn the importance of preparing your hair for braids or twists to avoid unexpected costs and ensure the best results. We cover everything from the necessity of a good wash, conditioner, and the right use of products before your stylist appointment.   **Black Friday Shopping Tips for Hair Enthusiasts:**   - **Gear Up on Tools:** Now's the time to upgrade your hair styling arsenal. We spotlight the Babyliss brand and encourage exploring small businesses this Small Business Saturday for unique finds before diving into Cyber Monday deals.   - **Stock Smart:** Advice on smart shopping for hair growth products and essentials, emphasizing the importance of mindful purchases, especially products with short shelf lives or those requiring refrigeration. Plus, discover how to check the product’s lifespan via batch codes.   **Exclusive Deals and Recommendations:**   - **Wig Wonder:** Considering a wig? We share insights into scoring deals on high-quality wigs, including a special promotion from Maven Hair. Enjoy 30% off plus an additional $40 off your first purchase with Maven, perfect for those seeking versatility and quality in their wig choices.   - **Get the Deal:** Don’t miss out on Maven’s Black Friday promotion. Visit [Maven Hair’s Website](https://mayvenn.com/puffyhair) for 30% off and more on your order. A must-visit for those eyeing a new look with wigs, 360 wigs, and closures.   **Closing Thoughts:**   - **A Heartfelt Thank You:** Once again, we express our deepest gratitude to all our listeners for their support and engagement. Your stories, questions, and shares fuel this podcast's journey.    - **Stay Tuned:** Keep your hair happy and your shopping savvy. Share your Black Friday hauls and hair transformations with us – we love hearing from you!   **Links and Resources:**   - [Check Cosmetic Batch Codes](http://checkcosmetic.net) - [Maven Hair’s Special Offer](https://mayvenn.com/puffyhair)   Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. We hope you’re leaving with your cart full and your hair ready to stun this holiday season. Remember, happiness is a good hair day!

Curious about the experience of relocating to the United States from Ethiopia, specifically regarding hair care? Discover the journey through my conversation with Tazita, who moved to the US after being adopted at 12. Her distinct viewpoint will undoubtedly prompt you to reconsider your hair care decisions.    Lets get connected! thepuffyhair.com   The Studio: https://www.instagram.com/thestudiowaterloo?igsh=Z2p5b29nbnl1YTd0

Reflecting on Post-Election Feelings and Community Support   Emotions and Election Impact   - **Personal Reaction**: Shar opens up about being significantly affected by the recent election results, expressing a mix of shock, upset, and hope. - **Emotional Support**: Emphasis on the podcast serving as a space for shared feelings and a sense of community. - **Unedited Expression**: Chooses to share thoughts in an unfiltered manner, prioritizing authenticity while maintaining respect.   Experiences with Race and Politics   - **Colorism Discussion**: Planned topic was sidelined to address the immediate emotional impact of the election. - **Racism and Denial**: Shar discusses personal encounters with racism, including being discredited and gaslit by others. - **Trump's Election**: Attributes an increase in openly racist behavior to Trump's presidency, recounting personal experiences of discrimination.   Personal Journey and Growth - **Voting Shift**: Shar shares a personal transition from voting for Trump in 2016 to advocating for black women's rights, based on increased awareness and rejection of past influences. - **Family Dynamics**: Highlights the complexities of discussing politics and race in interracial families or with those holding differing views.   Community and Solidarity - **Importance of Black Community**:Shar discusses the struggle and isolation felt in white-dominated environments, especially for those raised in white families or communities. - **Sisterhood and Support**: Encourages reaching out to fellow black women for support and understanding, emphasizing the strength found in communal connections. Action and Engagement - **Avoiding Family Arguments**: Shar advises against engaging in potentially draining and divisive discussions with family members about politics. - **Call to Action**: Motivates listeners to focus their energies on support, education, and the fight for equality, emphasizing the power of community to overcome challenges.  Outreach and Future Focus - **Listener Engagement**:  Shar invites listeners to reach out for support and promises to return to regular programming, underscoring ongoing commitment to dialogue and community support.   ---   This reflection encapsulates the depth of feeling in the aftermath of a polarizing election, providing a heartfelt call to action for unity, understanding, and mutual support within the community. It serves as a reminder of the resilience and solidarity among those facing discrimination and highlights the importance of continual growth, learning, and advocacy.   Connect with me:  thepuffyhair.com

Welcome to a very special episode of our podcast, where we dive into a conversation that's a cut above the rest - literally. As we stand on the brink of election results that promise to free us from the barrage of political spam, we're channeling our Election Day jitters into a discussion that's both timely and timeless: the politics of black hair.   In an arena where the aesthetic has often leaned towards a Eurocentric ideal, we're combing through the history and significance of black hair in political spheres. From historical focus groups obsessing over presidential partings to the game-changing locks of today's trailblazers, we're exploring how hair intersects with identity, power, and societal norms.   Dive deep with us as we untangle the story of black hair in politics, from Eisenhower's bald presidency to Barack Obama's paradigm-shifting presence, and the fascinating emergence of a woman of color candidature. We're not just talking hairstyles; we're probing the critical role of appearance and voter expectations in political candidacy and representation.   Hear the scandalous side of political hairdos, from Nancy Pelosi's controversial salon visit during pandemic lockdowns to the alleged haircare faux pas of other high-profile politicians. And amidst all this, we're shedding light on the struggles and achievements of black women navigating this tangled landscape, smashing stereotypes with every curl and coil.   Our special salute goes to those making a resounding statement with their hair in the halls of power: Stacey Abrams, Karine Jean-Pierre, and Ketanji Brown Jackson, to name a few. Their courage and authenticity are reshaping perceptions and challenging norms, proving that leadership and professionalism are not a matter of hair texture but of skill, dedication, and authenticity.   This episode isn't just another talk. It's a celebration of progress, a call to action for more inclusivity, and a reminder of the diverse beauty that strengthens the fabric of our democracy. Amidst the tension of Election Day, let us reflect on how far we've come and the leaps still ahead, in the politics of hair and beyond.   So, before you cast your vote or post your "I Voted" sticker selfie (sweater orientation checked), join us for a meaningful detour into the politics of black hair. It's a conversation you won't want to miss - because when it comes to shaping our future, every strand counts.   Stay tuned, subscribe, and let's keep unraveling the stories that matter. Your voice, your vote, and your hair - they're all part of the big, beautiful democracy we live in. Here's to making every bit of it count. See you on the airwaves, and remember - democracy looks good on you.   Till next time, keep embracing the inevitable, and maybe, just maybe, let's start voting for folks based on their policies rather than their hairstyles. Mmkay, bye bye now!   Check out where to vote here:  https://www.vote.org

**Episode Summary:**   In this enlightening episode of the Puffy Hair Podcast, Shar delves deep into the vibrant yet often misunderstood aspects of Halloween, cultural appropriation, and the celebration of black culture. From dissecting the thin line between cultural appreciation and appropriation to navigating the complexities of blackfishing and the importance of embracing one’s roots, Shar offers a candid look at the significance of our choices in fashion, style, and beyond. Join us as we explore the liberating, yet sometimes daunting, journey of self-exploration and cultural sensitivity. It’s a hauntingly insightful episode you won’t want to miss.   **Key Topics:**   - **Halloween Revisited:** Shar's personal reflection on Halloween and its unique charm, despite a conservative upbringing.   - **Cultural Appropriation vs. Appreciation:** The crucial understanding of why some Halloween costumes can be harmful and the significance of making respectful choices.   - **The Shadow of Blackfishing:** An exploration of blackfishing – the problematic trend of altering one’s appearance to mimic the look of being of Black or African heritage and why it's considered exploitative.   - **A Personal Journey into Black Culture:** Shar shares her own path towards connecting with her black roots and the joy of celebrating one's culture from a position of understanding and respect.   - **Listener Engagement:** An invitation for listeners to share their views on Halloween participation, cultural exploration, and embracing diversity.   - **Inspiring Action:** Encouragement for those feeling disconnected from their cultural heritage to begin a journey of discovery and connection.   **Episode Highlights:**   - A candid discussion on the realities of cultural appropriation and its impact on minority cultures.    - Shar's personal anecdotes and reflections on growing up with a conservative background, and how it shaped her understanding of Halloween and cultural celebrations.   - Insightful conversation on the concept of blackfishing, its implications, and the broader discussion on racial and cultural sensitivity in contemporary society.   - Encouragement for individuals, especially those of black heritage, to explore and reconnect with their cultural roots in meaningful ways.   - A heartfelt call to action for all to approach cultural exploration with respect, empathy, and an open heart.   **Quotes from the Episode:**   - "It’s so much more fulfilling to be part of black culture, celebrating it from within, rather than admiring it from a distance."   - "People’s races, customs, and cultures are not costumes. Cultivating a world of respect and understanding starts with seeing past the surface."   - "Bridging the gap between who you are and the cultural roots you've yet to explore isn't just enriching, it's a journey back home."   **Call to Action:**   Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with a friend, and join us next Friday for another engaging episode. If Shar’s journey resonated with you or if you have insights and experiences to share, reach out. Let’s broaden our horizons together and foster a community rooted in respect, curiosity, and inclusiveness.     Stay tuned, keep listening, and let's embark on this enlightening journey together.

**Episode Summary:**   In this eye-opening episode of The Puffy Hair Podcast, host Shar delves deep into the often overlooked saga of hair care, especially within the textured hair community. She challenges the norms of fitting hair transformations within the conventional workday and sheds light on the cultural, emotional, and social intricacies that surround hair care journeys. From the enduring quest for box braids to navigating societal expectations, Shar shares a personal story from her 7th-grade experience that brings to the forefront the importance of prioritizing self-care and hair care, even if it means bending the rules. **The Hair Care Saga:**   - Shar initiates a thought-provoking dialogue on the complexities of hair care, particularly for those with textured hair, emphasizing the significant time and dedication it demands.    - The conversation reflects on the struggles of fitting lengthy salon visits into busy schedules and the increasing challenge of finding stylists available during weekends.   **Box Braids Expedition:**   - The episode takes a closer look at the time-consuming process of getting box braids, comparing it to a full-blown expedition that requires commitment and dedication.    - Shar enlightens listeners about the journey one undertakes, often traveling to different locations, in pursuit of the perfect box braids, highlighting it as a form of self-care and an expression of cultural identity.   **A Personal Tale:**   - Through Shar's narrative from her 7th-grade experience, listeners are transported back to her trips to Waterloo for hair appointments, a testament to the bonds formed through hair care and the lengths one would go to maintain them.    - The story unfolds into a confrontation with school authorities, brought about by missing school for a hair appointment, showcasing a clash between cultural practices and institutional policies.   **Advocacy and Understanding:**   - Shar's mother becomes a beacon of advocacy, challenging the school's stance and asserting the importance of cultural sensitivity and the recognition of personal care as paramount.    - This segment explores the broader issues of cultural acceptance and the need to prioritize self-care over conforming to restrictive policies.   **A Call to Action:**   - Encouraging listeners to reevaluate their priorities, Shar advocates for the importance of self-care, urging individuals to make time for their hair care needs without guilt.    - The discussion turns to systemic rigidities, like those in schools, pushing for a shift in perspective towards recognizing the importance of personal and cultural practices.   **Closing Thoughts:**   Shar wraps up by calling on the audience to embrace their hair care journeys as essential, urging them to advocate for their needs and share their own stories of navigating self-care amid societal expectations. With a reminder of the podcast's community support, listeners are encouraged to subscribe, share, and contribute to the ongoing conversation about reclaiming time for self and hair care.   **Subscribe & Share:**   Don't forget to subscribe to The Puffy Hair Podcast for more empowering discussions, and share this episode with friends and family to spread the word about the importance of prioritizing hair care and self-care on your terms.

Welcome back to the Puffy Hair Podcast, where curls, coils, and all the twists in between come to find their voice and space. I'm your host, Shar, and today, we're unfurling the secrets behind textured hair with none other than the legendary Lora.   Lora isn't just any stylist – she's a textured hair virtuoso with nearly two decades of experience that have shaped her into the industry beacon she is today. Her journey has been paved with passion, resilience, and a deep-seated love for embracing the natural beauty of textured hair. Today, she's here to share with us not just her unparalleled expertise, but also the story of how she's navigated through challenges to do what she loves the most.   **In This Episode:**   - **The Beginnings:** Lora takes us back to where it all started, revealing the moments that ignited her passion for textured hair styling and how she took her first steps into the industry.    - **Rising Through the Ranks:** From early challenges to her breakthrough moments, Lora discusses her ascent in the world of hair styling, emphasizing the importance of perseverance and dedication.   - **The Art of Textured Hair:** Lora delves into what makes textured hair so unique and extraordinary. She'll share her insights on the latest trends, techniques, and treatments that are revolutionizing the way we approach textured hair care.   - **Overcoming Obstacles:** The road to success is never smooth. Lora opens up about the hurdles she's had to jump over, from industry biases to personal trials, and how these experiences have shaped her into the maestro she is today.   - **Words of Wisdom:** For those aspiring to make their mark in the beauty industry, Lora offers invaluable advice drawn from her own journey. Learn what it takes to succeed and how to thrive by doing what you love.   - **Looking Ahead:** What's next for Lora? Get a glimpse into her future projects and how she plans to continue impacting the world of textured hair.   **Closing Thoughts:**   Lora's story is a testament to the power of passion and perseverance. Whether you're a seasoned stylist, a newcomer to the world of textured hair, or simply someone who appreciates the artistry behind beauty, this episode is a treasure trove of insights, inspiration, and intimate reflections on a professional life devoted to the elevation of textured hair.   So, plug in, relax, and let's dive into the wonderful world of curls and coils with Lora. It's time to celebrate the beauty of textured hair, one strand at a time.   ---   *Don't miss out on this inspiring journey. Tune in to the Puffy Hair Podcast, available on all major streaming platforms. Be sure to subscribe for more episodes and follow us on Face Book for the latest updates. And check out our web page thepuffyhair.com*   To Book with Lora Call or Text: 319-830-8156  or leave a message on The Puffy Hair Face Book group that you would like her to reach out to you.  mysteeknaturals.com   See you there!   - Shar

**Episode Summary:**   In this captivating episode of "The Unexpected Ties," we dive deep into a heartwarming story of discovery, identity, and the powerful bonds of family. Join us as we follow the journey of our host, who, on the brink of motherhood, unravels the truth about her biological family and meets her long-lost sister, Shawna, a federal investigator with a life-changing message. This tale stretches from the cornfields of Iowa to the swimming pools of Texas, shedding light on stories of adoption, cultural exploration, and the creation of the Puffy Hair Podcast.    **What You'll Discover in This Episode:**   - The incredible tale of how the host met her long-lost sister, Shawna, and the revelation of more siblings scattered across the country. - A poignant look into the hosts' and Shawna’s upbringing in white conservative Christian families, exploring the nuances of adoption and the quest for cultural identity. - The inspiration behind the Puffy Hair Podcast and its mission to create a welcoming space for individuals with similar backgrounds to share their unique stories and questions. - Expert advice on finding the right hair stylist for textured hair and navigating sensory issues with children when introducing new routines, like wearing a bonnet at night.   **Key Highlights:** - Discover Shawna’s contribution to her sister’s life and her influence on starting an inclusive and educational podcast. - Delve into Shar's and her sister’s personal narratives of adoption, and the challenges and joys it brought into their lives. - Get practical advice on hair care and dealing with sensory issues from the perspective of individuals who've navigated similar challenges.   **Special Sections:** - **Listener Q&A:** Answers to real questions from the audience about finding a skilled hairstylist for curly hair and helpful tips for parents navigating sensory issues with their children. - **Resource Links:** Direct links to Shawna’s Manta Swim Academy and recommended therapy services for further support and advice:     mantaswimacademy.com     statestreetcounseling.com     **Call to Action:**   Join our community by subscribing to "Puffy Hair Podcast" podcast and leaving your feedback. Have similar stories or questions? Reach out through our social media channels and become part of our next episode! thepuffyhair.com   Make sure to tune in and immerse yourself in a journey of connection, resilience, and the discovery of what truly makes a family.

Welcome to "the Puffy Hair Podcast" the podcast where we unravel the complexities of textured hair, one curl at a time. Today, we're diving into a seemingly new trend that's actually an old favorite with a twist – gel casting. Plus, we'll break down some hair terminology that might sound alien to the uninitiated. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a newbie seeking guidance on navigating the wondrous world of textured hair, stick around for some enlightening insights.   **Episode Highlights:**   - **Gel Casting Demystified**: Discover the trend that's been taking social media by storm, only to realize it's a classic technique in disguise. Find out how to achieve that soft, frizz-free look without the crunch.    - **Navigating Black Hair Terminology in White Spaces**: Feeling lost when it comes to hairstyling terms specific to textured hair? You're not alone. We're here to guide you through some of the basics and beyond, offering a springboard for further exploration.    - **The Curly Girl Method – A Critical Take**: Hear our thoughts on the Curly Girl Method, its limitations, and why it might not be the one-size-fits-all solution it's made out to be. Whether you're for or against the method, we're here to shed some light on its practices.    - **Decoding Hair Styling Techniques**: From raking to shingling, and finger coiling – we explain these terms and techniques, helping you understand how they can transform your hair care routine.    - **A Glossary of Textured Hair Terms**: Feel like you're reading a foreign language when you hear terms like "Bantu knots" or "silk press"? We'll give you the rundown on these and many more, aiming to enrich your hairstyling vocabulary.    - **Navigating the Hairstyling World Without Fear**: Unsure of how to describe the hairstyle you want? We emphasize the importance of pictures and open communication with your stylist, ensuring you walk out feeling fabulous.    - **Listener Q&A**: Afraid to ask certain questions about textured hair? We address inquiries from the community, fostering a safe space for learning and discussion.   **Closing Thoughts:** Textured hair is incredibly versatile, and with the right knowledge and techniques, the possibilities for styling are endless. Whether you're embracing your natural curls, exploring new styles, or simply seeking to understand more about textured hair care, we're here to support your journey.   **Contact Us:** For more tips, or if you have questions or topics you'd like us to cover, visit us at [puffyhair.com](http://thepuffyhair.com) or join our community on the Puffy Hair Facebook page. Your insights and experiences enrich our conversations, and together, we can continue to foster a culture of inclusion and understanding around textured hair.   Thanks for tuning in to the show. We'll be back next Friday with more hair care wisdom and stories from the heart. Stay curly, stay confident!   ---   **Remember to subscribe to “The Puffy Hair Podcast”  on your favorite podcast platform to never miss an episode. Share this with your friends and family, and don’t forget to rate and review us. Your support helps us grow and reach more people just like you, looking to celebrate their curls in all their glory.**

Hey guys, it's Char, and welcome to another episode of the Puffy Hair Podcast! Today, we're diving deep into the world of black hair care to debunk some of the most common misconceptions. We're going to obliterate falsehoods and celebrate the authentic essence of our natural crowns. In this episode, we tackle five top myths about black hair. From the belief that all black people have the same hair type to the notion that black hair doesn't grow, we're setting the record straight. We'll also discuss the Andre Walker hair typing system, the truth about hair growth, and why black hair is incredibly versatile yet fragile. Join me as we explore these myths, share some hair care tips, and celebrate the beauty of textured hair. Whether you're looking for guidance on how to care for your curls or just want to learn more about black hair, this episode has something for everyone. Don't forget to leave a review, share with a friend, and connect with me via email at puffyhaireducation.com. Let's embrace our natural beauty and wear our hair loud and proud! Check out some great hair growth products by following the links bellow  https://www.lulitshairessence.com https://www.fithgenerationskinandhair.com

Welcome back to the Puffy Hair Podcast! In this episode, Shar tackles a heartfelt question from listener Angel, who feels self-conscious about wearing a bonnet in front of her soon-to-be husband. Shar offers practical advice and shares her own experiences to normalize the practice and boost confidence. Shar delves into the cultural significance of bonnets in the Black community, exploring their history, purpose, and how they've been perceived over time. She touches on the controversy sparked by Monique's comments about Black women wearing bonnets in public, presenting different viewpoints and her own stance on the matter. Join Shar as she educates, empowers, and celebrates textured hair, offering a compassionate space for listeners to share their stories and learn valuable hair care tips. Don't miss this insightful discussion on hair culture, identity, and self-love.

Are you ready to make a difference in the fight against hair discrimination? this week Shar dives deep into the groundbreaking CROWN Act, a law designed to ban discrimination based on hairstyle and texture. From braids to twists, we celebrate all hair types and advocate for inclusivity.    Learn how education is the key to understanding and combating discrimination. Get inspired by stories of resilience and empowerment and  discuss how to advocate for the CROWN Act in your state.    Steps to Take: Contact Local Representatives:- Express support for the CROWN Act - Encourage bringing the issue to your Governor’s  attention   Engage with Advocacy Groups:- Reach out to organizations promoting the CROWN Act  - Join or support their strategies and campaigns   Participate in Events:- Attend rallies, forums, and town halls - Raise awareness about the CROWN Act   Utilize Social Media:- Share information about the CROWN Act - Encourage advocacy and tag local leaders   Together, we can make a difference and create a more respectful and inclusive world for natural hair. Take action today to support the CROWN Act in your state today. Stay informed, engaged, and amplify your voice for change. To advocate for the CROWN Act in Iowa:    Office of the Governor Iowa State Capitol 1007 East Grand Avenue Des Moines, IA 50319    1-515-281-5211   https://governor.iowa.gov/contact-office-governor Thank you for listening to the Puffy Hair Podcast. Remember to subscribe for more episodes on important social issues.  Visit thepuffyhair.com or stop by the Puffy Hair Podcast page to say hi.

This week Shar, delves into topics related to advocacy, inclusion, and empowerment,  focusing on the experiences of individuals with Afros experiences with hair discrimination in various settings, ranging from sports to schools and workplaces. The episode highlights stories of individuals who faced challenges due to their natural hairstyles and discussed the broader implications of systemic racism in such discriminatory practices.   This episode touches on the importance of advocating for oneself and others, navigating hierarchies to address issues, and pushing back against discriminatory policies and practices,  shedding light on the detrimental impact of hair discrimination and the need for broader conversations around inclusivity and diversity.   https://www.aauw.org/resources/article/fast-facts-woc-higher-ed/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNEK3Fk5/ https://www.google.com/search?q=the+soul+cap&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari

Like many of you, I grew up in a small town where my natural hair drew a lot of stares, especially when I wore it in a full afro. This attention can be both comical and frustrating, but over time, I’ve grown secure in myself and my hair. In today’s episode, we’re diving into how you can become confident with your natural hair and embrace its beauty. We’ll discuss the journey from chemically straightened hair to embracing natural curls, dealing with societal reactions, and finding support in a predominantly white environment. We’ll also address the unique challenges faced by white parents raising Black children, offering practical advice on connecting with the Black community and finding the right hairstylists. Therapy can be a vital tool in overcoming insecurities tied to growing up without representation. We’ll explore signs that therapy might be beneficial and how to find a therapist who understands your cultural background. Remember, your natural hair is beautiful, and you deserve to feel secure in your identity. Join us as we work towards wholeness together. Reach out to me on www.thepuffyhair.com or join our Facebook group for open discussions. Let’s embrace our natural hair and elevate our community!

Welcome to the Puffy Hair Podcast! In this episode, Shar dives into the sometimes awkward but necessary conversation about how to end your relationship with your hairdresser. Whether it's due to bad experiences, price hikes, or simply not getting the results you want, Shar offers practical advice on how to navigate this delicate situation. Join us as we explore different approaches to breaking up with your stylist, from ripping off the bandaid to more gentle methods. Shar also shares her personal experiences as a hairdresser and highlights the unique culture and expectations within black hair salons. This episode is packed with insights and tips to ensure you find the right stylist for your textured hair needs. Tune in to learn how to make a smooth transition and why you deserve a hairdresser who truly understands your hair. Don't miss out on this essential guide to getting the best salon experience possible!

Welcome to the Puffy Hair Podcast! I'm Shar, your host, and today we dive into a fascinating and fun topic: black hair in Hollywood. Join our diverse community as we discuss the importance of representation and the challenges faced by black actors with textured hair in the film industry. As a biracial individual raised by Caucasians, I created Puffy Hair to empower and educate about textured hair. In this episode, I share my passion for movies and the shocking revelation about inadequate hair care for black actors on set. Discover how actors are pushing for equality and better hair representation. From my days at Blockbuster to analyzing hair in movies, I explore the evolution of black hair in Hollywood and celebrate shows and films that get it right. Tune in to learn, laugh, and connect with fellow curl friends. Let's elevate our afros and embrace our unique beauty together!

Welcome back to the Puffy Hair Podcast with host Shar! Transitioning from summer relaxation to a busier season doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your hair routine. In this episode, Shar provides essential tips to help you save time and maintain your sanity while looking fabulous.   Discover the importance of:   **Practicing Desired Styles**: Save time by mastering a few go-to hairstyles that suit your routine and personality.  **Avoiding Experimentation**: Stick to what works during busy times to prevent stress and styling mishaps.  **Choosing the Right Products**: Invest in quality hair products that cater to your hair type and needs for effortless styling.  **Using Appropriate Tools**: From diffusers to brushes, using the right tools can make a significant difference in your styling routine.  **Considering Weather and Activities**: Tailor your hair routine to suit the weather and events in your schedule for long-lasting styles.  Don't miss out on the chance to connect with Shar and the curly hair community on the Puffy Hair Podcast Facebook page or website. Share your feedback, tips, and experiences to be part of a supportive community dedicated to rocking curls effortlessly.   Stay tuned for more insightful episodes to help you navigate your curly hair journey with confidence and convenience. Thank you for tuning in to the Puffy Hair Podcast!