Consistency with God is the key to unlocking your destiny.What happens when you don’t talk to God consistently? When you talk to God, do you let Him talk back to you?God, the creator of the universe, wants to talk with you.Pray.The best prayer life is a never-ending conversation with God. ”“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.“- ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” - ‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭16‬-‭18‬ ‭NIV‬‬“For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” - ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭8‬ ‭NIV‬‬

It’s your season The way to know your season is discernment.To know the seasons of your life you can borrow discernment. If you don’t know what season you're in you will not know what to doSeasons of our lives are determined by the choices we make. You can start a new season in your life by deciding to do what God saysGod will help you get through every seasonGenesis 1:14 (KJV) And God said, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide the day from the night; and let them be for signs, and for seasons, and for days, and years: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Eziekel 34:26 (KJV) And I will make them and the places round about my hill a blessing; and I will cause the shower to come down in his season; there shall be showers of blessing.

With everything going on in our world, people are loosing hope and walking out of relationships because of fear. Prayer and prudence will save a lot of relationships and rebuild broken marriages. Don’t give up on your relationship, lean into the conversation and do want you need to do for your relationship to win.

2 Chronicles 1:7-127 That night God appeared to Solomon and said to him, “Ask for whatever you want me to give you.”8 Solomon answered God, “You have shown great kindness to David my father and have made me king in his place. 9 Now, Lord God, let your promise to my father David be confirmed, for you have made me king over a people who are as numerous as the dust of the earth. 10 Give me wisdom and knowledge, that I may lead this people, for who is able to govern this great people of yours?”11 God said to Solomon, “Since this is your heart’s desire and you have not asked for wealth, possessions or honor, nor for the death of your enemies, and since you have not asked for a long life but for wisdom and knowledge to govern my people over whom I have made you king, 12 therefore wisdom and knowledge will be given you. And I will also give you wealth, possessions and honor, such as no king who was before you ever had and none after you will have.”

Do you have a money plan? God has a plan and if followed will lead to financial prosperity. In life you don’t win by accident.  You succeed in life because you intentionally put a plan in place and you stick with it. God's plan for debt is to eliminate it. To eliminate debt, focus more on needs and not your wants. Eliminate so you can elevate your lifeFollow God's money plan. Faith in God's plan will lead to Financial prosperity!  Proverbs 21:5 (GNT)  Plan carefully and you will have plenty; if you act too quickly, you will never have enough.Proverbs 21:5 (NLT) Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity, but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty.Proverbs 13:22 (NIV) A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children,

I desire to have a fully funded life.Give money a purpose.What is your money fuel? Commit to developing a plan that will fully fund your life. Your money needs a purpose.1 Chronicles 29:14 (NIV) “But who am I, and who are my people, that we should be able to give as generously as this? Everything comes from you, and we have given you only what comes from your hand.”Proverbs 21:5 (GNT)  Plan carefully and you will have plenty; if you act too quickly, you will never have enough.

So many people are getting hurt and losing hope in relationships because individuals do not want to commit. Lean into the conversation and learn what it takes to become committed in dating and experience a fruitful marriage.

You can choose the sin, not the consequence. Adam's choice led to death but Jesus' choice led to life.Grace doesn't just save you, grace empowers you to live right. Jesus chose to die for me so that I could have eternal life.Choose Jesus and liveRomans 5:12 (CSB) Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, in this way death spread to all people, because all sinned.Romans 5:14 (CSB) Nevertheless, death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those who did not sin in the likeness of Adam’s transgression. He is a type of the Coming Romans 5:15 (CSB) But the gift is not like the trespass. For if by the one man’s trespass the many died, how much more have the grace of God and the gift which comes through the grace of the one man Jesus Christ overflowed to the many. Romans 6:11 (NIV) In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus.”Romans 6:14 (NIV) For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.

Celebrate with purposeDo not let your tradition get in the way of the reason you have a tradition to begin with. Honor with purpose Live with purpose Celebrate with Purpose”The next day the great crowd that had come for the festival heard that Jesus was on his way to Jerusalem.“ ‭‭John‬ ‭12‬:‭12‬ ‭NIV‬‬”They took palm branches and went out to meet him, shouting, “Hosanna!” “Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!” “Blessed is the king of Israel!”“  ‭‭John‬ ‭12‬:‭13‬ ‭NIV”Rejoice greatly, Daughter Zion! Shout, Daughter Jerusalem! See, your king comes to you, righteous and victorious, lowly and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.“ Zechariah‬ ‭9‬:‭9‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Patients guard your heart against anger and aggravation. Wait with patiencePatience is a fruit of the spirit.  The Holy Spirit empowers you to wait with patience.Faith in Jesus gives you the confidence to wait with patience. Faith in Jesus will give you patience to endure tribulations. People who are patient know that the season they are in is not permanent. Good things come to those who wait. James 5:7 (NIV) Be patient, then, brothers and sisters, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop, patiently waiting for the autumn and spring rains. 8 You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near.Habakkuk 2:3 (NLT) This vision is for a future time. It describes the end, and it will be fulfilled. If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, or it will surely take place. It will not be delayed.

Excessive worry will lead to health problems. The word worry comes from a German word that means to strangle and be choked by your emotions.   Worrying is deadly. How do you stop worrying and start living? The reason you shouldn’t worry is because Jesus cares.Worry less and trust Jesus more.Mark 4:19 (NIV)….the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful.”Matthew 6:25 (NIV) Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Matthew 6:33 (NIV) But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.  Matthew 6:34(NIV)Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Why is it you have so many younger women dating Older men and Why do you have older men wanting to date younger women in relationships today? Why is that?Let's Talk about It.Like - Share - Subscribe #TheAnswerPodcast

What can be better in your life today?What’s stopping you from your better life?What’s stopping you from experiencing a better life?God’s word is the key to unlocking a better life. ”Where there is no vision, the people perish: But he that keepeth the law, happy is he.“ ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭29‬:‭18‬ ‭KJV‬‬”When people do not accept divine guidance, they run wild. But whoever obeys the law is joyful.“ ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭29‬:‭18‬ ‭NLT‬‬”If people can’t see what God is doing, they stumble all over themselves; But when they attend to what he reveals, they are most blessed.“ ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭29‬:‭18‬ ‭MSG‬‬

God's greatest matches usually take the most time.A match a match is a person circumstance or situation that is similar to another If you want to find the right match in life prioritize your lifeIn order to determine if someone or something is the right match you must evaluate and investigate Look at your comfort as the compass as to whether or not God is guiding you to the right matchRuth 2:2 (NIV)  And Ruth the Moabite said to Naomi, “Let me go to the fields and pick up the leftover grain behind anyone in whose eyes I find favor.” Naomi said to her, “Go ahead, my daughter.” 3 So she went out, entered a field and began to glean behind the harvesters. As it turned out, she was working in a field belonging to Boaz, who was from the clan of Elimelek.4 Just then Boaz arrived from Bethlehem and greeted the harvesters, “The Lord be with you! ”The Lord bless you!” they answered.5 Boaz asked the overseer of his harvesters, “Who does that young woman belong to?”Ruth 2:13 (NIV) “May I continue to find favor in your eyes, my lord,” she said. “You have put me at ease by speaking kindly to your servant—though I do not have the standing of one of your servants.”Ruth 2:19(NIV) Her mother-in-law asked her, “Where did you glean today? Where did you work? Blessed be the man who took notice of you! "Then Ruth told her mother-in-law about the one at whose place she had been working. “The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz,” she said.

Teams that win are unified.A marriage is a team.  The bible is the playbook for marriageTeams practice to improve their skills. You have to improve your relationship skills to make the marriage better. You can’t win without a team. Genesis 2:22 (NIV) Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.”Genesis 2:16 (NIV) And the LORD God commanded the man, You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; 17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die. Ecclesiastes 10:10 "If the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed but skill will bring success."

Love is more than what you say, it's what you do. Talk is cheap but action is pricelessLove provides and protects.Love is a promise keeper.Marriage is a covenant and not a contract.Love is affectionate.Put your love into action. Love does.Songs of Songs 3:6 (NIV) Who is this coming up from the wilderness like a column of smoke, perfumed with myrrh and incense made from all the spices of the merchant?Genesis 2:24 (NIV) That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.1 Corinthians 7:3 (NKJV)  Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. Songs of Songs 5:1b (NIV) Eat, friends, and drink; drink your fill of love.”

Let Him Lead is an excellent conversation that will combat culture’s perspective on relationships. We often hear “Ladies First,” but is that quote damaging God’s design for healthy marriages? Let’s talk about it.The Answer Podcast

Love and hurry are incompatible. Love takes time.Marriage doesn't conceal problems, marriage magnifies them. Jesus was never in a hurry.   To build a loving relationship un-hurry your life, commit to being present so you can build a relationship that lasts. Song of Songs 1:2 ( NIV) Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth for your love is more delightful than wine.3 Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the young women love you!Prov. 31:30 (NIV) Charm is deceitful, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised1 Corinthians 13:4 (NIV) Love is patient

With opportunity there comes opposition. The tactics of opposition are psychological.Satan has one trick in his bag, mind games.  The effects of opposition is discouragement. Insecurity comes when you live in your feelings.Security comes when you live by faith. The response to opposition should be spiritual and practical. God is fighting for you but you will have to fight. Confidence for the battle comes from remembering The Lord. Remember that through Jesus we have victory. Nehemiah 4:1 (NIV) When Sanballat heard that we were rebuilding the wall, he became angry and was greatly incensed. He ridiculed the Jews, 2 and in the presence of his associates and the army of Samaria, he said, “What are those feeble Jews doing? Will they restore their wall? Will they offer sacrifices? Will they finish in a day? Can they bring the stones back to life from those heaps of rubble burned as they are?”3 Tobiah the Ammonite, who was at his side, said, “What they are building, even a fox climbing up on it would break down their wall of stones!”Nehemiah 4:6 (NIV) So we rebuilt the wall till all of it reached half its height, for the people worked with all their heart.Nehemiah 4:10 (NIV) Meanwhile, the people in Judah said, “The strength of the laborers is giving out, and there is so much rubble that we cannot rebuild the wall.”11 Also our enemies said, “Before they know it or see us, we will be right there among them and will kill them and put an end to the work.”Nehemiah 4:9 (NIV) But we prayed to our God and posted a guard day and night to meet this threat.Nehemiah 4:14 (NIV) After I looked things over, I stood up and said to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people, “Don’t be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your families, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your homes.”

To fix that which is broken you need a planGet things in order now. You know when things are out of order because there is a spirit of confusion.  God is not the author of confusion so when your life is not aligned to the book (Bible) you are out of order.  Get help.People are essential to your prosperity. Let go of toxic people.  Stop worrying about who isn't willing to help and go with the goers. Get to work. Nothing that is broken is beyond repair, Jesus can fix whatever is broken. 1 Corinthians 14:33 (NIV) For God is not a God of disorder but of peace in all the congregations of the Lord’s people.Proverbs 21:5 (NLT) Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity, but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty.