WE3 The Winning Team

Eugene & LaTanya Gatewood

Helping Couples Work Together To WIN At This Game Called Life!

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She's The PRIZE...He's a GIFT!

She's The PRIZE...He's a GIFT!

Girl dad's proclaim that their daughters are THE PRIZE, but as parents of a son, we declare that he is A GIFT.A PrizeImplies winning or achieving something: A prize is often earned or sought after. It can suggest a competitive or transactional element.Focus on external validation: The value of a prize is often determined by others' perceptions.Can create pressure: Labeling someone as a "prize" might inadvertently put pressure on them to maintain a certain image or standard.A GiftImplies unconditional love and acceptance: A gift is freely given without expectation of return.Focus on intrinsic value: The worth of a gift is often found in its uniqueness and the thoughtfulness behind it.Promotes gratitude and appreciation: Recognizing someone as a gift fosters a sense of gratitude for their presence in one's life.Are you preparing your daughters to know how to receive the gift of my son (or young men such as him)?During this podcast, you will get the opportunity to meet Micah Gatewood, our first guest, as he shares his transformative experience from High Point University to Bradley University. Discover how Micah navigated freshman year, grew as a sports announcer, and prepared for the abundant opportunities that await him at Bradley’s prominent Sports Communication program. You’ll get a firsthand account of his ambitions, the challenges of maintaining personal values, and his enthusiasm for joining diverse clubs and internships.Modern dating is a maze, and we’re here to guide you through it. Compare romantic gestures and communication styles from the 90s to today's trends, and understand the frustrations young men face with mixed signals in the dating scene. Through engaging anecdotes and discussions, we unravel how social media and music shape behaviors, the importance of authentic connections, and the role of mutual support and understanding in relationships. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay true to yourself while navigating modern dating's pressures, this conversation is a must-listen.Building a strong relationship in college? We’ve got you covered. We tackle everything from aligning personal values with your partner to balancing career aspirations with personal growth. Explore the significance of love languages and the power of trust and patience in relationships. Plus, get practical advice on time management and effective communication to achieve a fulfilling relationship and personal success. With heartfelt reminders of faith and divine timing, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking meaningful connections.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

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She's The PRIZE...He's a GIFT!

She's The PRIZE...He's a GIFT!

Girl dad's proclaim that their daughters are THE PRIZE, but as parents of a son, we declare that he is A GIFT.A PrizeImplies winning or achieving something: A prize is often earned or sought after. It can suggest a competitive or transactional element.Focus on external validation: The value of a prize is often determined by others' perceptions.Can create pressure: Labeling someone as a "prize" might inadvertently put pressure on them to maintain a certain image or standard.A GiftImplies unconditional love and acceptance: A gift is freely given without expectation of return.Focus on intrinsic value: The worth of a gift is often found in its uniqueness and the thoughtfulness behind it.Promotes gratitude and appreciation: Recognizing someone as a gift fosters a sense of gratitude for their presence in one's life.Are you preparing your daughters to know how to receive the gift of my son (or young men such as him)?During this podcast, you will get the opportunity to meet Micah Gatewood, our first guest, as he shares his transformative experience from High Point University to Bradley University. Discover how Micah navigated freshman year, grew as a sports announcer, and prepared for the abundant opportunities that await him at Bradley’s prominent Sports Communication program. You’ll get a firsthand account of his ambitions, the challenges of maintaining personal values, and his enthusiasm for joining diverse clubs and internships.Modern dating is a maze, and we’re here to guide you through it. Compare romantic gestures and communication styles from the 90s to today's trends, and understand the frustrations young men face with mixed signals in the dating scene. Through engaging anecdotes and discussions, we unravel how social media and music shape behaviors, the importance of authentic connections, and the role of mutual support and understanding in relationships. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay true to yourself while navigating modern dating's pressures, this conversation is a must-listen.Building a strong relationship in college? We’ve got you covered. We tackle everything from aligning personal values with your partner to balancing career aspirations with personal growth. Explore the significance of love languages and the power of trust and patience in relationships. Plus, get practical advice on time management and effective communication to achieve a fulfilling relationship and personal success. With heartfelt reminders of faith and divine timing, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking meaningful connections.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Staying Married: When Life Be Lifin'

Staying Married: When Life Be Lifin'

Can chronic illness strengthen a marriage? How do you stay connected when life gets overwhelmingly busy? These are just some of the pivotal questions WE explore in this episode. WE begin by reflecting on our journey through 2024, celebrating the small victories in our personal and financial goals while acknowledging the areas that need more work. You'll hear about our commitment to regular date nights and the enriching Bible studies that have deepened our bond, alongside a candid discussion on our "Money Monday" meetings and the importance of budgeting and multiple income streams.Our conversation then shifts to the deeply personal topic of chronic illness and its impact on marriage. We open up about the progression of lung issues from sporadic incidents to persistent health crises and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies it. This heartfelt segment reveals our evolving perspectives on support and self-reflection, emphasizing the strength found in unity and unconditional love. WE aim to offer valuable insights for anyone navigating similar challenges, underscoring the importance of rejecting selfish thoughts and staying united in the face of adversity.Finally, WE delve into the concept of "drift" in marriage and the importance of intentional communication. Drawing wisdom from Gary Thomas' "Sacred Marriage," WE discuss how shared activities and prioritizing our relationship have fostered deeper intimacy. WE also touch on the significance of mutual understanding, respect, and grace, especially during busy times. From strategic planning of personal and marital goals to celebrating the joy of growing together, this episode is a testament to faith, support, and the enduring power of love. WE invite you to subscribe, share, and engage with our community as WE continue this journey together. Until next time, peace.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Grow Together or Drift Apart...PART 2

Grow Together or Drift Apart...PART 2

Ever wondered how speaking to the King or Queen in your spouse can transform your communication? WE are inviting you to a candid discussion about the art of communication in marriage—a reflection sparked by our transformative experience at the "Weekend to Remember" marriage conference. We navigate the journey from casual conversation to the depths of transparency, sharing how vulnerability crafts a sanctuary for two souls to thrive. This episode is an open book about our own communication evolution and the pivotal moments that taught us the power of nurturing words within a family.WE have worn many hats, but perhaps the most enlightening was our role as House Parents to young moms—a chapter in our lives that exemplified the ripple effect of respectful communication. Our stories from this time not only celebrate the strength in kind words but also challenge the entrenched patterns that can silently erode the foundations of our relationships. Join us as WE dissect the habits WE have inherited and the silent dangers they pose, offering insights on how to break free from the chains of our past. It's an exploration of the tools necessary to build a bridge back to one another when distance creeps in, and a reminder that dialogue is so much more than just exchanging words.This episode doesn't shy away from the challenges of fostering an environment where transparency is not just welcomed but celebrated. WE peel back the layers of what it means to truly listen and be present, and how our attentiveness can become the bedrock for deeper connection. From navigating relationship triggers to supporting one another in complementarity, we share the intricate dance of communication that guards against creating an atmosphere of walking on eggshells. It’s about understanding the unsaid, the power of "I feel" statements, and how every word we speak reverberates into the legacy we leave behind. So, tune in and let us guide you towards enriching your own language of love and togetherness.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Grow Together or Drift Apart

Grow Together or Drift Apart

Who knew that attending a Marriage conference could rekindle the sparks and teach old dogs new tricks about unity, transparency, and the art of growing as ONE? Join us on our latest WE3 Winning Team Podcast episode, where WE share our eye-opening experiences from the "A Weekend to Remember" marriage conference, and why it's a must for couples committed to becoming ONE or maintaining unity in their marriage. This time around, WE peel back the layers of routine that often camouflage the beauty of intentional connection. WE're talking about the nitty-gritty of maintaining oneness, steering clear of isolation, and the power of transparent communication. It's not just about what's said out loud, but what's shared from the soul. WE share our personal stories, including the triumphs and trials that have shaped our dialogue as a couple, revealing how humility and divine guidance play pivotal roles in strengthening a marriage.Wrapping up with a rapid-fire question session that's as revealing as it is entertaining, WE invite you to share in our dreams, chuckle at our quirks, and ponder the endless adventures that marriage has to offer. Each episode is an opportunity to explore the intricate mosaic of partnership and the continuous journey of growing together – and WE can't wait for you to join us. So tune in, engage with us, and be a part of spreading the message that investing in your marriage is one of the best decisions you'll ever make.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Steering Through Money Matters With Your Better Half (Part 2)

Steering Through Money Matters With Your Better Half (Part 2)

Have you ever caught yourself in the middle of a financial feud with your significant other, wondering why you can't see eye to eye? Money talks can indeed be the make-or-break of marital harmony. But fear not, because this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom on navigating the fiscal labyrinth of marriage. We take you on a journey from the Gatewoods' strategic plan for 2024 to the dreamy horizons of Club 55, all while dissecting the financial spats that could capsize the sturdiest of relationships. We're not just sharing our aspirations; we're revealing the cornerstone practices of credit, savings, and mastering personal finance—skills that are often handed down, for better or worse, through family lore.Navigating the choppy waters of money and marriage requires a sturdy vessel built on trust, communication, and a sprinkle of shared dreams. Through the lens of our own matrimony, we unveil the emotional tussle of varied views on savings and spending, while a poignant book provokes introspection on the roots of our financial behaviors. The shift from seeing money as a mere survival tool to a means of thriving is a voyage in itself, and we're your captains charting the course. As we reflect on our stories of growth and financial enlightenment, we invite you to consider your own journey and the influences that have shaped your fiscal voyage.But what happens when the tide turns, and scarcity clouds the horizon? In this episode, we recount the transformation from financial constraint to abundance within the confines of marriage. Hear how we navigated the emotional odyssey through monetary strife, evolving from tense scarcity to a shared mindset of security and joy in life's adventures, like travel without the shadow of anxiety. The art of financial planning in marriage is laid bare, highlighting practical steps toward aligning goals, managing income disparities gracefully, and the crucial, often undervalued, task of estate planning for future generations. So join us, and let's chart a course together toward a legacy of love, wealth, and wisdom.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Money Triggers & Marriage - Part 1

Money Triggers & Marriage - Part 1

When Eugene and I, Latanya, tied the knot, we never imagined that our most profound growth would come from navigating our finances together. Yet, here we are, ready to peel back the curtain on our financial evolution, a journey that's been anything but linear. Our latest episode is a candid confession of how we've gone from letting money matters divide us to using them as a tool for unity, all through a lens of faith that's as sturdy as the foundation of our marriage.We've come to see every spreadsheet and budget meeting as a chance to fortify our partnership and align our life's purpose with our financial goals. It's a dance of numbers and nuances, tackling topics like our aspiration for early retirement, dubbed "Club 55," and the essential role of transparent communication. We're not shying away from discussing how we've embraced an equal partnership in managing our finances, moving past traditional roles and sharing the reins in a way that's strengthened us beyond measure.This episode isn't just a sharing of our story; it's an invitation to reflect on your own financial journey within your relationships. Discover how embracing shared responsibilities can be a game-changer and why tackling money talks head-on could be the secret ingredient to a thriving marriage. We're sharing the raw, the real, and the transformative power of faith in finance, and we can't wait to have you join the conversation.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Thrive! Don't Just Survive in Marriage

Thrive! Don't Just Survive in Marriage

Embark on a transformative journey with us as we reveal the secrets to setting and sustaining powerful intentions in marriage. Forget the fleeting fervor of New Year's resolutions and join us in embracing the "2024 Gatewood Strategic Plan," a blueprint designed for couples committed to nurturing both their individual and collective growth. Our candid conversation is a treasure trove of wisdom gleaned from 21 years of marriage, offering a fresh perspective on how to align your life goals with your partner across spiritual, financial, family, and professional, and personal realms for a thriving partnership.We've talked the talk and now we're walking the walk, sharing the habits and strategies that have paved our path to a flourishing relationship. From the art of setting SMART goals to the essential roles of teamwork and accountability partners, we divulge the tactics that have fortified our bond and driven our success. Our podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to join our community of motivated listeners who value authentic self-expression and mutual support. We're opening the door to deeper dialogues and accountability that extend well beyond this episode.As we wrap up this heartfelt episode, we extend an open invitation to connect with us and become an integral part of our W3 winning team podcast community. Feel the excitement as we look forward to sharing more engaging content, and get ready to take your relationship to the next level. We close with a prayer that is both a soothing send-off and a beacon of hope for all our listeners, asking for prosperity, safety, and a brighter future for every partnership. Tune in and let's navigate the road to a successful marriage together.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

The Dating Game: Insights, Challenges, & a Christian Perspective

The Dating Game: Insights, Challenges, & a Christian Perspective

Ready to rethink your dating game? Brace yourself as this episode of the WE3 Winning Team Podcast promises to challenge your current beliefs and practices about dating and relationships since the 1900's (Smile). WE compare the modern dating landscape with our experiences back in the '90s. WE delve into how technology, particularly dating apps, have changed the game and how societal pressures and cultural influences impact Christian dating.Having been married for 21 years, WE've weathered storms and navigated through the highs and lows of our relationship. WE share anecdotes from our journey and discuss the importance of compatibility, setting boundaries, self-love, and self-awareness in relationships. We also throw light on the significant influence of societal and cultural pressures on Christian dating. Our candid conversations about the challenges our 18 year old son faced underline the need for a change in perspective while dating in a post-Christian society.Sharing wisdom from our personal experiences and a Christian perspective, WE conclude this episode with key takeaways for those navigating the world of dating and relationships. WE touch on the importance of healing past traumas and seeking professional help to avoid distorted views of relationships. To add a pinch of humor, WE also share a quirky habit that still annoys us after two decades of married bliss. Tune in for this enriching conversation on dating and relationships; you might find a new perspective on finding 'the one'.HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

Drafting the Winning Team: Navigating Relationship Expectations and Preparations for Marriage

Drafting the Winning Team: Navigating Relationship Expectations and Preparations for Marriage

Remember when you picked teams for a game in school? The pressure of choosing the perfect combination can be overwhelming. Now, imagine marriage as the NFL Draft, where your choices need to be spot on! On this episode of The Winning Team Podcast, WE discuss the process of selecting the right 'player' for a successful 'team', highlighting the different perspectives men and women might have on this process.WE also share a funny story from a holiday gathering when everyone mistakenly thought Eugene was about to propose. Playing on that suspense, WE then shift gears to a serious conversation about setting and understanding expectations in a relationship - because let’s face it, unwrapping gifts might be easier than unwrapping expectations! From managing finances to parenting, WE share personal anecdotes and highlight the key role of effective communication in aligning expectations and avoiding potential pitfalls. Ever wondered about the tricky balance of combining incomes while allowing personal spending? WE’ve got some insights!Lastly, WE uncover the importance of preparation and open conversation in maintaining harmony in relationships and marriage. Issues like work-life balance, trust, managing social media, and handling conflict can create cracks if not dealt with wisely. So, join us as WE navigate the field of relationships, giving you the playbook to draft the perfect team. Let's huddle up and get started!HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

The Power of Friendship in Building a Marriage

The Power of Friendship in Building a Marriage

What makes a marriage thrive for over two decades? How do you stay committed to a common goal while maintaining your individuality? Join us, Eugene and Latanya Gatewood, in the second episode of the We3 Winning Team Podcast, as we reflect on our 21-year journey of partnership. We candidly share our wins, missteps, and the lessons we've gleaned from our shared life. Far from experts, we are simply a couple who have navigated the waters of marriage, with a desire to stir meaningful discussions on setting the right expectations and making informed decisions about this life-long commitment.Dive into our conversation, where we discuss the concept of submission in marriage, and how our expectations have evolved across the score years we've shared. We delve into the importance of having a common goal in a marriage and how our individual tasks, although different, work together to complement each other. We also dissect the importance of building a friendship before entering a marriage, and how this solid foundation can be the bedrock of a successful union. This episode isn't just for those who are married, but also for those considering marriage or aspiring to marry someday. Whether you are single, engaged, or a veteran in the marriage game, we hope our reflections can serve as valuable insights for you on your journey. [END SHOW NOTES]HostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood

This is Us! What Does "WE3" Really Mean, Anyway?

This is Us! What Does "WE3" Really Mean, Anyway?

Vision: Helping Couples Work Together To WIN At This Game Called Life.Episode Summary: Eugene & LaTanya laid the foundation for how they formed their team and why they decided to launch the WE3 Winning Team Podcast. Episode 2 will premier October 3rd and a new episode will be posted on the 3rd of each month. STAY TUNED! Bonus Winning Team material will be posted on social media and YouTube Shorts throughout the month. Follow Our Host on Social!Eugene Gatewood- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah GatewoodHostEugene Gatewood- Website - https://eugenegatewood.com- YouTube: @Original_Mentor - Facebook: @Eugene.Gatewood- Instagram: @Original_Mentor -TikTok: @elgatewoodLaTanya Gatewood- Facebook: @LaTanya.Gatewood- Instagram: @reddinglPodcast Music by Micah Gatewood