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In this enlightening episode of Father and Joe, hosts Father Boniface Hicks and Joe Rockey delve into the profound role of Mary, the Mother of God, in our spiritual lives. As we navigate the Jubilee of Hope, Father Boniface and Joe explore the significance of intertwining our daily communication with God and Mary, emphasizing the importance of devotions to Mary in fostering hope and spiritual growth.Father Boniface shares insights into how Mary, as the Mother of Holy Hope, exemplifies unwavering faith and hope, even in the face of despair. Through her experiences, particularly at the foot of the cross, Mary teaches us to hope beyond hope and trust in God's plan. The episode highlights the mysteries of the rosary as a beautiful way to connect with Mary and see our lives through her eyes, aligning our journey with that of Christ.Joe reflects on the challenges of understanding and embodying a mother's perspective, drawing parallels between his own experiences as a parent and Mary's unique relationship with Jesus. Together, they discuss the lessons we can learn from the Holy Family's life in Nazareth, where perfect love and faith flourished.Listeners are encouraged to contemplate the broader view of Mary's life, her unwavering support for Jesus, and her ability to navigate life's challenges with grace and strength. By turning to Mary in prayer, we can find solace, guidance, and hope in our own lives, knowing that she is always there to intercede for us.Join Father Boniface and Joe as they invite you to reflect on the profound impact of Mary's love and devotion, and how embracing her example can lead us to a deeper union with God. Whether you're seeking comfort in times of despair or striving to strengthen your faith, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration for your spiritual journey.Tags:Mary, Mother of God, Jubilee of Hope, Spiritual Growth, Faith, Devotion, Rosary, Holy Family, Nazareth, Perfect Love, Spiritual Life, Hope, Prayer, Intercession, Jesus, Christian Faith, Catholicism, Spiritual Direction, Parenting, Family Life, Grace, Strength, Consolation, Spiritual Journey, Faithful Living, Christian Podcast, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Spiritual Reflection, Religious Podcast, Christian Inspiration, Catholic Podcast, Spiritual Guidance, Faith and Hope, Christian Living, Spiritual Practices, Devotional Life, Christian Community, Spiritual Conversations, Faith-Based Podcast, Religious Reflection, Christian TeachingsHashtags:#MaryMotherOfGod, #JubileeOfHope, #SpiritualGrowth, #FaithAndDevotion, #Rosary, #HolyFamily, #Nazareth, #PerfectLove, #SpiritualLife, #Hope, #Prayer, #Intercession, #Jesus, #ChristianFaith, #Catholicism, #SpiritualDirection, #Parenting, #FamilyLife, #Grace, #Strength, #Consolation, #SpiritualJourney, #FaithfulLiving, #ChristianPodcast, #FatherBonifaceHicks, #JoeRockey, #SpiritualReflection, #ReligiousPodcast, #ChristianInspiration, #CatholicPodcast, #SpiritualGuidance, #FaithAndHope, #ChristianLiving, #SpiritualPractices, #DevotionalLife, #ChristianCommunity, #SpiritualConversations, #FaithBasedPodcast, #ReligiousReflection, #ChristianTeachings

In this deeply introspective episode of "Father and Joe," hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey delve into the intricate journey of cultivating an autopilot faith in God. Joe opens up about his personal struggles with trust and the desire to seamlessly integrate his faith into everyday life, much like the unconscious act of breathing. This episode explores the challenge of transitioning from a conscious effort to a natural, instinctive trust in God.Father Boniface provides spiritual guidance, drawing parallels between the autonomic nervous system and our spiritual lives. He explains how intentional practices, like controlled breathing, can help manage anxiety and foster a deeper connection with God. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing the underlying causes of anxiety, rather than merely treating the symptoms.The hosts discuss the significance of forming habits of holiness through intentional practice and reflection. They emphasize the value of daily spiritual exercises, akin to the practice routines of athletes, in achieving spiritual growth and transformation. By examining the lives of saints, they illustrate how small, consistent efforts can lead to extraordinary spiritual achievements.Joe and Father Boniface also touch on the importance of self-awareness and the role of relationships in spiritual development. They encourage listeners to engage in honest self-reflection and to seek guidance from both human and divine relationships. Through prayer and intentional practice, individuals can gradually align their actions with their faith, making holiness a natural part of their daily lives.This episode serves as a reminder that the journey to spiritual maturity is a continuous process, requiring patience, perseverance, and a willingness to embrace the practice of holiness. By focusing on the day-to-day efforts and trusting in God's presence, listeners are encouraged to cultivate a deeper, more authentic relationship with God.Tags: Faith, Trust in God, Spiritual Growth, Autopilot Faith, Anxiety, Spiritual Practice, Holiness, Saints, Self-awareness, Relationships, Prayer, Spiritual Maturity, Intentional Practice, Daily Life, Spiritual Direction, Father Boniface, Joe Rockey, Podcast, Spiritual Journey, Personal Growth, Autonomic Nervous System, Anxiety Management, Spiritual Exercises, Habit Formation, Virtues, Holiness Practice, Spiritual Reflection, Divine Relationship, Human Relationship, Spiritual Transformation, Spiritual Guidance, Spiritual Awareness, Spiritual Habits, Spiritual Development, Spiritual Connection, Spiritual Presence, Spiritual Patience, Spiritual Perseverance, Spiritual AuthenticityHashtags: #Faith #TrustInGod #SpiritualGrowth #AutopilotFaith #Anxiety #SpiritualPractice #Holiness #Saints #SelfAwareness #Relationships #Prayer #SpiritualMaturity #IntentionalPractice #DailyLife #SpiritualDirection #FatherBoniface #JoeRockey #Podcast #SpiritualJourney #PersonalGrowth #AutonomicNervousSystem #AnxietyManagement #SpiritualExercises #HabitFormation #Virtues #HolinessPractice #SpiritualReflection #DivineRelationship #HumanRelationship #SpiritualTransformation #SpiritualGuidance #SpiritualAwareness #SpiritualHabits #SpiritualDevelopment #SpiritualConnection #SpiritualPresence #SpiritualPatience #SpiritualPerseverance #SpiritualAuthenticity

In this enlightening episode of "Father and Joe," Joe Rocky and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the profound theme of the Jubilee of Hope for the year 2025. Father Boniface explains the deeper meaning of hope beyond the everyday wishes and desires we often express. This episode explores the concept of being "Pilgrims of Hope," emphasizing the journey towards a destination that transcends worldly aspirations. Father Boniface draws on Pope Benedict's teachings, distinguishing between "little hopes" that pertain to our daily lives and the "great hope" found in Christ's victory on the cross.Listeners are invited to reflect on the courage it takes to embark on meaningful ventures, acknowledging that setbacks and failures are part of the journey. The discussion highlights the importance of community and mutual support among pilgrims, as well as the significance of the Jubilee year, which offers a unique opportunity for spiritual renewal and forgiveness.Father Boniface also touches on the historical roots of the Jubilee, tracing it back to the Old Testament and its evolution within the Church. He shares insights into the various events planned for the Jubilee year, both in Rome and at local dioceses, encouraging listeners to participate in this global celebration of hope.As the episode unfolds, Joe and Father Boniface discuss the practical ways we can align our daily actions with the greater hope in God, transforming our lives into a pilgrimage towards eternal love. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and embracing the pain and challenges we face, knowing that they are not the end but part of a larger journey towards the ultimate victory in Christ.Join us in this thought-provoking conversation as we explore how to consciously integrate our faith into everyday life, guided by the light of Christ. Whether you're a seasoned pilgrim or just beginning your spiritual journey, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement to keep moving forward with hope and trust in God's plan.Tags: Jubilee of Hope, Pilgrims of Hope, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rocky, spiritual journey, hope in Christ, Pope Benedict, little hopes, great hope, spiritual renewal, forgiveness, Old Testament, Church history, Rome events, local dioceses, spiritual direction, daily life challenges, community support, mutual support, eternal love, faith integration, spiritual pilgrimage, courage, setbacks, failures, meaningful ventures, spiritual bypassing, pain and challenges, ultimate victory, Christ's plan, spiritual encouragement, faith journey, spiritual growth, hope and trust, God's plan, spiritual insights, spiritual conversation, spiritual podcast, faith podcast, spiritual guidance, spiritual reflection, spiritual exploration, spiritual renewal.Hashtags: #JubileeOfHope, #PilgrimsOfHope, #FatherBonifaceHicks, #JoeRocky, #SpiritualJourney, #HopeInChrist, #PopeBenedict, #LittleHopes, #GreatHope, #SpiritualRenewal, #Forgiveness, #OldTestament, #ChurchHistory, #RomeEvents, #LocalDioceses, #SpiritualDirection, #DailyLifeChallenges, #CommunitySupport, #MutualSupport, #EternalLove, #FaithIntegration, #SpiritualPilgrimage, #Courage, #Setbacks, #Failures, #MeaningfulVentures, #SpiritualBypassing, #PainAndChallenges, #UltimateVictory, #ChristsPlan, #SpiritualEncouragement, #FaithJourney, #SpiritualGrowth, #HopeAndTrust, #GodsPlan, #SpiritualInsights, #SpiritualConversation, #SpiritualPodcast, #FaithPodcast, #SpiritualGuidance, #SpiritualReflection, #SpiritualExploration, #SpiritualRenewal

""In this special New Year's Eve episode of "Father and Joe," Joe Rocky and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the profound impact of small, seemingly insignificant decisions in shaping our lives and the world around us. As we stand on the cusp of a new year, they explore the notion that every choice, no matter how minor, can contribute to significant change and growth, both personally and societally.Father Boniface reflects on the importance of historical context, reminding us that history often overlooks the small steps that lead to monumental achievements. He draws parallels between technological advancements and moral progress, emphasizing that just as technology builds upon itself, so too can our moral and spiritual lives. The conversation highlights the power of incremental change, encouraging listeners to recognize the potential of their daily actions to create a ripple effect of positivity and hope.Joe shares personal anecdotes from his experiences in sales and business, illustrating how unexpected connections and innovative ideas can lead to transformative outcomes. He recounts a story of merging two seemingly unrelated industries—custom song creation and funeral services—to provide comfort and healing to those in grief. This example underscores the theme that even in moments of failure or uncertainty, there lies an opportunity for growth and meaningful impact.Father Boniface and Joe also discuss the significance of the upcoming Jubilee Year, a time for renewal and hope within the Church. They invite listeners to embrace this period as a chance to become "pilgrims of hope," making conscious choices that align with their values and aspirations.As the episode concludes, Father Boniface and Joe encourage listeners to share the podcast with others, spreading the message of hope and the power of small actions. They remind us that while we may not always see the immediate effects of our choices, each decision contributes to a larger tapestry of change and growth.Join Father Boniface and Joe as they inspire us to enter the new year with confidence, hope, and a renewed commitment to making a positive difference in our lives and the lives of others.Tags:New Year's Eve, Small Steps, Big Impact, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rocky, Spiritual Growth, Moral Progress, Historical Context, Technological Advancements, Personal Anecdotes, Sales and Business, Custom Songs, Funeral Services, Comfort and Healing, Jubilee Year, Pilgrims of Hope, Positive Change, Ripple Effect, Daily Actions, Incremental Change, Transformative OutcomesHashtags:#NewYearsEve, #SmallStepsBigImpact, #FatherBonifaceHicks, #JoeRocky, #SpiritualGrowth, #MoralProgress, #HistoricalContext, #TechnologicalAdvancements, #PersonalAnecdotes, #SalesAndBusiness, #CustomSongs, #FuneralServices, #ComfortAndHealing, #JubileeYear, #PilgrimsOfHope, #PositiveChange, #RippleEffect, #DailyActions, #IncrementalChange, #TransformativeOutcomes

Join Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks in this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode of Father and Joe. Together, they explore the complexities of discipleship, the power of love, and the challenges of living a faith-filled life in today’s world. Using the Gospel message from the third week of Advent as a starting point, they reflect on the historical context of Jesus' time and its relevance to our modern struggles, while emphasizing how love remains the most transformative and powerful force.Joe begins by sharing his personal struggle with excuses and reflects on the Gospel passage where John the Baptist foreshadows Jesus' transformative mission: "I baptize you with water, but He will baptize you with fire and the Holy Spirit." This sparks a deep discussion about what it means to be a disciple, especially during difficult times. Joe asks an important question: "If we were living in Jesus’ time, would it have been easy to be a disciple, or would we have hesitated because of the challenges and sacrifices required?"Father Boniface delves into the historical context, explaining how the Roman Empire’s oppression and societal challenges might have made Jesus’ message difficult to embrace. He contrasts worldly power with God’s power of love: "The power that God brings is not the power that the world prizes...but the power of sacrificial love." Using examples from Scripture and theology, he explains how Jesus’ approach to love upends the values of worldly power, showing that true victory lies in love, not domination.The conversation also touches on the challenges of modern discipleship, as Joe reflects on the divided responses to struggles like the COVID pandemic: “Do we quietly accept the circumstances, violently oppose them, or join the side of the oppressors?” Father Boniface emphasizes that, no matter the circumstances, love must remain central. He explains, "Love never runs out. God, who is love, comes not in the form of worldly powers but in the form of sacrificial love."As Christmas approaches, the episode shifts to an invitation for those who may only attend church twice a year (on Christmas and Easter). Father Boniface encourages listeners to welcome and support others in their journey of faith: "Let them feel like Christ cares that they’re there because you care that they’re there." Whether it’s through a simple connection, a prayer, or a welcoming gesture, discipleship begins with embodying love in everyday actions.In a world where power, money, and status often feel like the only ways to thrive, this episode of Father and Joe reminds us that love—God’s greatest gift—offers a more fulfilling and eternal path. As Father Boniface puts it, “God rearranges the hierarchy of values to show that love is the most powerful, love is the top, love is victorious.”If you're seeking inspiration on how to deepen your faith, love others, and embrace discipleship in your own life, this episode offers profound insights and practical encouragement. As the hosts remind us, "The prerequisite of discipleship is love."faith and discipleship, Catholic podcast, Christian living, power of love, Advent reflections, Christmas message, Father and Joe, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Gospel reflection, John the Baptist, Jesus and love, embracing discipleship, being a disciple, Roman Empire and faith, Eucharistic reflections, Brant Pitre Jesus studies, overcoming oppression with love, sacrifice and love, love vs power, Beatitudes explained, modern Christian struggles, faith and challenges, love in Christianity, discipleship in history, Christmas faith reflection, Catholic inspiration, challenges of faith, how to deepen faith, love as the greatest power, historical context of Jesus, welcoming others to church, Catholic Christmas reflection, sacrificial love in action

Are you ready to deepen your understanding of God’s infinite mercy and its role in our lives? In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into the profound concepts of forgiveness, confession, and the spiritual journey toward healing and growth. Through relatable stories, heartfelt reflections, and practical insights, this episode is perfect for those yearning to bring more faith, understanding, and peace into their lives.Key Themes Discussed:The complexities of confession: Why fear and misunderstanding often hold us back from experiencing the full mercy of God.Overcoming the fear of judgment: "It is hard to face these things, hard to be honest with ourselves, hard to look ourselves in the eye."Shattering misconceptions: Why early teachings on sin and judgment might have missed the mark, and how to reframe them for deeper spiritual connection.A firm purpose of amendment: What it truly means to sincerely want to change and grow.The role of attunement in emotional and spiritual healing: How being present with others helps us process emotions and navigate life’s challenges.The significance of mercy: “We can't form by lies. Presenting a false version of reality to scare someone into good behavior is not the right approach.”Healing through honesty: How reflecting on past mistakes with gentleness allows us to grow into the people God calls us to be.Joe reflects on his childhood experiences of learning about sin, confession, and the promises of Christ, while Father Boniface offers profound insights on how God's mercy extends beyond our human limitations. Together, they explore the importance of confession as a sacrament of healing and how to avoid reducing it to a mere legalistic act.Quotes from the Episode:🕊️ "We are called to love people into the fullness of life rather than shaming or punishing them into change."🕊️ "You cannot scare someone into good behavior by distorting the truth. Lies are not the path to true formation."🕊️ "Confession is not a transaction; it's a moment of healing, a chance to let God's mercy repair what is broken."🕊️ "Being gentle with yourself is not a weakness; it’s the starting point for understanding and growth."🕊️ "Addictions and compulsive behaviors remind us of St. Paul’s words: 'I do not do what I want to do. I do what I hate.' This calls us to address deeper patterns with compassion."Whether you’re a lifelong believer, someone rediscovering their faith, or just curious about how to bring more love and spirituality into your life, this episode offers something for everyone. Join us as we explore the grace of God and what it means to live a life of faith!We’d love to hear from you!Have you tried implementing the spiritual practices or reflections discussed in this episode? How has God’s mercy shaped your life? Share your stories and feedback by emailing us at fatherandjoe@gmail.com.Tags:God's mercy, confession, forgiveness, Catholic faith, spiritual healing, God's love, confession process, healing in faith, purpose of amendment, spiritual growth, Catholic podcast, Father and Joe, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, overcoming fear, God’s grace, deeper faith, Christian forgiveness, dealing with sin, healing the soul, sacrament of confession, spiritual journey, faith and emotions, God’s infinite mercy, personal growth in faith, faith and healing, grace of God, understanding forgiveness, Christ's mercy, how to confess sins, emotional healing in faith, overcoming guilt, faith for life.

In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks tackle one of life's most challenging and deeply personal experiences: navigating fear, uncertainty, and moral dilemmas during a medical crisis. As Joe shares his personal journey of emotional and spiritual turmoil after receiving a distressing letter about his wife’s pregnancy, Father Boniface provides guidance, wisdom, and insights grounded in faith.The conversation begins with Joe reflecting on his reaction to the emotionally-charged letter and the subsequent weeks of waiting for clarity. “I don’t even know if the way that I handled it and addressed it was right, fair, proper, sinful, or amoral,” Joe shares, admitting his struggle to reconcile worry and faith. For three agonizing weeks, Joe was forced to confront one of life’s most difficult questions: What would I do if faced with choosing between the life of my wife and our unborn child?Father Boniface offers clarity and hope, diving deep into the principles of moral theology, the importance of intention, and the concept of choosing the greater good without embracing evil. He explains:“You can never choose evil for any reason. You may choose the lesser good or the greater good, but you can never choose an evil. If two people are drowning, your intention must always be to save both, even if circumstances limit what you can achieve.”Through this meaningful conversation, Joe and Father Boniface also explore:The overwhelming nature of medical bureaucracy and the stress caused by legal disclaimers, which often lack empathy and perspective.The moral principles behind life-and-death decisions, including the “principle of double effect.”How faith, trust, and relationship with God can guide us in moments of uncertainty.The importance of involving trustworthy, morally grounded individuals in difficult decision-making processes.Joe’s story sheds light on the raw emotional and spiritual challenges that many families face, especially during pregnancy, and highlights the need for compassion, communication, and trust in both faith and relationships.This episode invites all of us to reflect on how faith shapes our responses to life’s toughest moments. As Father Boniface reminds us: “Ultimately, what you want in these moments is not a blanket statement or pre-made decision. You want a relationship with someone you trust—someone morally well-formed and clear-minded—to guide you through the storm.”Tune in to discover how faith, moral principles, and trust can transform anxiety into peace, even in the most difficult situations.Tags:faith and family, moral dilemmas, Catholic faith, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, medical crises and faith, faith and pregnancy, moral theology explained, faith and tough decisions, trusting God, religious guidance, faith in uncertainty, Catholic perspective, faith during pregnancy, choosing between life and death, principle of double effect, Catholic morality, living with faith, family and faith podcast, father and Joe podcast, dealing with stress, trusting experts, morality in healthcare, religious response to stress, pregnancy and faith, faith and medical decisions, Catholic teaching on life, moral challenges, faith in hard times, Catholic podcast, faith-based guidance.

In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the promises of Christ and their transformative power in our lives. Reflecting on the profound truth that "heaven is being in perfect relationship with everyone," this discussion highlights the essence of God’s love, forgiveness, and constant presence in our lives.Father Boniface eloquently reminds us:"Jesus promises really always to forgive and to have mercy. He promises always to be with us. I will be with you always to the end of the age."The conversation centers on how Christ’s promises are eternal truths designed to guide us, console us, and draw us closer to Him. Yet, as Joe notes, it’s often our own trust issues or subconscious fears that block us from fully receiving God’s grace:"It’s not God letting us down; it’s our own hesitations and resistance that keep us from trusting in His promises."Through heartfelt reflections and relatable examples, this episode delves into:The universal need for relationships and how they mirror our connection with God.Overcoming subconscious fears of being unworthy of love or mercy.Healing wounds of trust to build a deeper relationship with Christ.The significance of seeing ourselves as gifts to God and others.Practical steps to grow in trust, openness, and relationship with God.Father Boniface beautifully explains that:"Jesus really does love us. He wants to lead us to green pastures, rescue us, stand up for us, and bring good things into our lives."Joe emphasizes the importance of conscious effort in growing trust and relationships, stating:"We naturally create big moments in our minds, but every one of these is an opportunity to grow in trust and love with God and others."This episode offers powerful insights into how trusting in God’s promises can improve not only our faith life but also our relationships with others. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges or simply seeking a deeper connection with God, this conversation will inspire you to open your heart to His grace and promises.👉 Join us on this journey of faith and transformation. Please share this episode with someone who might need these words of encouragement, and don’t forget to leave a written review to help others discover this uplifting message.📧 We want your feedback! Let us know how these conversations have impacted you by emailing us at fatherandjoe@gmail.com.🙏 Let’s grow together in trust, faith, and love.#FatherAndJoe #FaithJourney #CatholicTeachings #TrustInGodpromises of christ, catholic faith, christian relationships, trust in god, jesus promises, heaven explained, catholic podcast, father boniface hicks, joe rockey, faith journey, forgiveness and mercy, jesus always forgives, catholic spirituality, overcoming fear, self-awareness in faith, healing trust issues, christian inspiration, god’s love, faith and trust, catholic teachings, personal growth through faith, advent reflections, mercy of christ, catholic community, trust in jesus, prayer and trust, healing through god, spiritual growth, catholic life lessons, jesus christ promises, relationship with god, forgiveness in faith, spiritual healing

In this deeply insightful episode of Father and Joe, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks tackle a pressing issue that affects countless Americans: the growing disconnect within families. Recent surveys reveal that over 50% of Americans feel a sense of dread or disinterest when it comes to seeing their family, particularly between adult children and their parents. This troubling trend of family disintegration isn’t just a societal issue—it’s a personal one. How do we heal broken family bonds, especially during the holidays or challenging seasons of life?Father Boniface draws on his Catholic perspective and personal experiences to shed light on the importance of family, no matter how difficult those relationships may seem. As he notes:“Heaven consists of a perfect communion of love between all persons. And that includes the people that you’ve canceled in your life.”The episode explores powerful motivations for working on strained relationships:Spiritual Growth: Healing family bonds isn’t just about earthly peace—it’s preparation for eternal communion.Self-Reflection: Relationships can reveal deeper issues in our own hearts, providing opportunities for personal growth.Evangelization: By reaching out to family members, we may be the catalyst for positive change in their lives, too.Joe also brings up the unique challenges of modern life, such as long distances, time constraints, and past grievances that may hold us back. Yet, as he highlights:“You can’t have incredibly negative relationships in one part of your life and consistently be amazing in another. Your relationships blend together, just like food coloring in icing.”This episode isn’t about glossing over genuine pain or abuse in families. Father Boniface acknowledges that there are times when boundaries are necessary for healing. However, for most of us, the call is clear: Rebuild. Reconnect. Forgive.Some of the key takeaways include:The Importance of Effort: Loving someone takes work. But every act of love, no matter how small, has eternal value.Addressing Fears: Reaching out might feel vulnerable, but as Joe says, “It’s amazing how much your life gets better by talking about something that might not even be perceived the same way by the other person.”Practical Steps for Reconnection: Instead of seeing family gatherings as a burden, view them as opportunities to strengthen bonds, share love, and heal wounds.If you’ve been struggling with family relationships, this episode is for you. Use it as an invitation to extend grace, understanding, and kindness to those closest to you—even when it’s hard.“No act of love is ever lost. This life really consists in making acts of love in one form or another.” — Father Boniface HicksDon’t let past misunderstandings hold you back. Start the journey toward healing today. And remember, the effort you put into family relationships now will echo into eternity.📢 We Want Your FeedbackIn episodes 383 and 384, we introduced specific drills to help you improve your relationships. If you’ve tried these, we’d love to hear about your experiences! Send your feedback to fatherandjoe@gmail.com.👉 Subscribe, Like, and ShareHelp us reach even more people with this message of love and reconciliation. Share this episode with someone who might need it, and don’t forget to subscribe for weekly insights.family relationships, healing family bonds, Catholic family advice, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, faith and family, how to fix broken family relationships, forgiveness in families, overcoming family conflict, Catholic podcast, family struggles, rebuilding family unity, family reconciliation, holiday family tips, spiritual growth, love and forgiveness, Catholic teachings on family, family disconnection, strained relationships, healing emotional wounds, communication in familie

How can we navigate parenting, relationships, and emotional growth in a world filled with challenges? In this heartfelt episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the art of parenting, emotional resilience, and building meaningful relationships. Drawing from personal experiences, psychological insights, and spiritual perspectives, they discuss topics that resonate with parents, couples, and anyone seeking to strengthen their connections with loved ones and with God.Joe begins with a personal parenting story about his son, who experienced a small but meaningful injury, sparking reflections on the importance of communication and emotional understanding in relationships. “A lot of times we don’t know the right question to ask,” Joe observes, echoing a theme we all face in our daily interactions. How do we truly understand others, or even teach our children to ask the right questions? Joe’s story sets the stage for Father Boniface to offer wisdom on navigating life’s challenges with empathy and faith.Father Boniface shares a powerful insight: “Trauma happens not so much from the pain itself, but from being alone in the pain.” Using an example from Bonnie Badenoch’s The Heart of Trauma, he illustrates the crucial role of secure relationships in helping children—and adults—process difficult emotions. Whether it's a preschooler overwhelmed by the world or an adult navigating relational pain, the message is clear: connection and validation are key to healing.Joe and Father Boniface also explore the delicate balance of parenting. Joe reflects on the fear many parents feel: “What if I mess up when it matters most?” Father Boniface reassures listeners with the concept of “good enough parenting,” emphasizing the importance of building resilience and secure attachments. “It’s not about getting everything perfect,” Father Boniface explains, “but about teaching repair mechanisms and showing your children they’re never alone.”From parenting challenges to fostering emotional curiosity in relationships, the conversation expands to explore the universal desire for better connections. “Relationships thrive when we seek to understand, not just to answer,” says Father Boniface, encouraging us all to develop empathy and wisdom in our interactions.Whether you're a parent worried about making the "right" decisions, a spouse striving to improve communication, or simply someone seeking more fulfillment in relationships, this episode offers invaluable insights rooted in faith and humanity.As always, Joe and Father Boniface invite listeners to join the conversation:💬 Share your feedback and experiences at fatherandjoe@gmail.com.📢 Have a question or topic you’d like covered? Let us know!Thank you for watching, and don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to help us reach others seeking a deeper connection in their relationships and faith.parenting advice, Christian parenting, emotional resilience, secure attachment, trauma and healing, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, building better relationships, faith in parenting, how to parent better, spiritual parenting, faith and family, emotional intelligence, relationships and faith, parenting fears, understanding trauma, communication in relationships, emotional validation, Christian relationship advice, Bonnie Badenoch, The Heart of Trauma, Catholic parenting, raising resilient children, relationship skills, overcoming trauma, emotional healing, faith and resilience, parenting challenges, how to strengthen relationships, Christian family advice, asking the right questions, how to understand others, parenting tips faith-based, Catholic faith parenting, father and joe podcast, emotional growth

In this episode of Father and Joe, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into a profound yet often overlooked aspect of faith and life: curiosity. While curiosity isn't explicitly commanded in scripture, its presence is seen throughout the Gospel, serving as a catalyst for growth, understanding, and deepening relationships. Father Boniface shares, “Curiosity in one sense is a luxury. It’s the kind of thing you can only do when you’re not in danger of being eaten,” highlighting how essential safety and freedom are to allowing curiosity to flourish.Curiosity, as Joe and Father Boniface discuss, isn't just a casual interest; it’s a choice—a vital force that encourages us to step out of our comfort zones, fostering new connections and enhancing the relationships around us. By choosing curiosity, we open ourselves to discovering new insights, encountering diverse perspectives, and building deeper bonds with others and with God.Father Boniface explains that when we feel secure and supported, curiosity has the freedom to grow. He uses the analogy of children, who explore confidently when they have a “secure attachment” with their parents. Similarly, a strong faith and supportive community allow us to venture out, be curious, and deepen our understanding of the world and our faith without fear. Joe adds, “Curiosity, to me, is one of those moving parts that's essential, almost like drinking water, but we don't really think about it.” The hosts explore how curiosity enriches our lives by keeping us engaged, interested, and continually learning—both spiritually and personally.The conversation also touches on why curiosity can sometimes be difficult. In moments of stress or fear, like when we’re in a “threat response,” our curiosity tends to shut down. Father Boniface emphasizes, “If you're in a position of saving your life, you’re not wondering why that flower is purple.” The discussion turns toward practical ways to nurture curiosity, such as setting aside time to explore interests, creating supportive environments, and surrounding ourselves with others who are open-minded and engaged.Towards the end of the episode, Joe challenges listeners to embrace curiosity in their daily lives and relationships. “If there's an opportunity to be curious about something, take it,” he urges, suggesting that the simple act of asking questions and exploring new ideas can bring us closer to others and to God. By being open to new perspectives and stepping outside our own assumptions, we not only grow personally but also enhance our spiritual journey.Whether you’re looking to strengthen your faith, improve your relationships, or simply live a more fulfilled life, this episode offers valuable insights into the importance of curiosity. Join Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks as they discuss how to actively incorporate curiosity into your life, deepen your relationships, and grow in faith.Tags:curiosity in faith, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Christian podcast, religious curiosity, deepening faith, strengthening relationships, curiosity in relationships, gospel and curiosity, Father and Joe podcast, faith and exploration, curiosity in Christianity, exploring life through faith, spiritual growth, growing in faith, Christian life lessons, meaningful relationships, curiosity benefits, becoming a better person, curiosity in the Gospel, importance of curiosity, personal growth, improving relationships, faith discussions, religious insights, curiosity as a virtue, relationship advice, Christian spirituality, spiritual podcast, secure attachment in faith, open-mindedness, Christian virtues

In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into the powerful concept of nurturing and strengthening relationships by focusing on the future. Over the course of nearly 400 episodes, one recurring theme has been how relationships form the foundation for living a holy and fulfilling life. Today, they discuss a unique and practical tool that Joe shares with his clients—recording regular voice or video messages for loved ones, addressing them at future milestones in their lives.Joe explains, “The real secret of life has really not been articulated correctly. It’s not the accumulation of power, money, or time. It’s building the best relationships.” These weekly messages—crafted with love and intention—are intended to help us visualize the long-term development of our relationships, ensuring they remain strong over the years. Joe suggests setting aside 20 to 30 minutes on Fridays to record a message, thinking about how you want your relationship to look a decade from now.Father Boniface reflects on how this practice connects with spiritual exercises and insights from psychology, drawing comparisons to Jordan Peterson’s concept of self-authoring, which involves looking ahead to one's future and visualizing a positive path. He shares a touching story from his own life where his mother chronicled his childhood, and how that long-term reflection offers a deeper understanding of our relationships.Joe also provides insight into how this practice has worked with his clients, even those who are introverted or pessimistic, helping them see a more positive and realistic future. As he says, “Problems and barriers that used to be insurmountable start to fade over time.”Key points covered in this episode:The Power of Future-Focused Messages: Joe outlines a practical way to improve relationships by recording messages for loved ones to receive years down the road, helping to foster stronger, more loving bonds.Real-Life Client Examples: Joe shares stories of clients whose lives have been changed by this exercise, explaining how it helps them face and overcome fears, improve communication, and strengthen relationships.A Practice for Everyone: Father Boniface emphasizes that this exercise is not only valuable for those who have a naturally optimistic outlook but can be transformative for anyone, regardless of their emotional disposition.Spiritual and Psychological Perspectives: Reflecting on how this practice aligns with spiritual growth and psychological principles, the discussion brings out the profound benefits of focusing on the future with hope and love.As Father Boniface says, "Just going out of ourselves and thinking positively about other people has a really positive effect on ourselves as well." This episode encourages everyone to try this practice—whether for a spouse, child, or friend—and experience the ripple effect of improved relationships in all areas of life.We invite you to listen and take this exercise into your own life. Discover how intentional, future-focused messages can deepen your relationships and make a lasting impact on both you and your loved ones.Thank you for joining us in another insightful conversation. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with those who are looking to bring more love and intention into their relationships. We'll be back next week with more.Tags: relationships, future-focused, positive messages, family bonds, relationship advice, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, spiritual growth, Catholic podcast, love and faith, faith-based relationships, long-term relationships, strengthening family, communication tips, life advice, Jordan Peterson, self-authoring, personal development, faith and relationships, podcast, relationship building, spiritual exercise, family communication, future planning, emotional intelligence,

In this heartfelt episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks explore the deep-rooted issues of trust, control, and healing. Through an insightful conversation, they uncover how past wounds, fear, and betrayal shape our present lives, impacting everything from relationships to business leadership. Joe opens up about his experiences as a consultant, where he helps business owners learn to delegate and trust others. The challenge many face, however, is letting go of control and learning to trust after being hurt.Father Boniface reflects on how our need to control, whether in business or personal relationships, often stems from past pain and disappointment. "If you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together," he shares, illustrating the importance of collaboration and trust. He emphasizes that it’s essential to look inward and explore the reasons we struggle with these control issues: “We don't trust unless we have a reason for it…often an experience of betrayal or disappointment."In this episode, we are reminded that healing begins with understanding and nurturing our hearts. By revisiting past experiences and facing them with compassion, we can break the cycle of fear and control. Joe describes a practice of "quietly entering your mind and witnessing memories without judgment." This gentle process, as discussed, can lead to significant personal growth: "It's remarkable how the Google search of past hurts in your mind starts to shrink."Father Boniface offers wisdom on how to approach this healing process, encouraging listeners to engage with trusted friends or spiritual counselors when needed. The journey of healing and trust is not one to walk alone—God is there with us every step of the way. "God has a vested interest in you," Father Boniface reminds us, underscoring the importance of relying on God’s love to heal our deepest wounds.By the end of this episode, you’ll gain profound insights into:How to recognize the root causes of control and trust issues.Practical steps to begin healing emotional wounds from the past.The importance of letting others into our lives and learning to trust again.As you listen to Father Boniface and Joe’s conversation, consider this gentle invitation: Where in your life are things not working, and what steps can you take toward healing? Whether it’s in your personal relationships, parenting, or business life, God invites you to start the process of letting go, trusting others, and finding peace.Tune in and discover how faith and reflection can lead you to greater healing and wholeness!Please subscribe, share, and leave a review if you found this episode meaningful.Tags:spiritual healing, trust in God, overcoming control, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, emotional healing, faith journey, letting go, healing trauma, trust issues, business leadership, personal growth, Christian reflection, self-improvement, dealing with betrayal, Catholic spirituality, prayer for healing, Christian counseling, dealing with fear, trusting others, overcoming fear, how to heal emotionally, faith in difficult times, Father and Joe, healing from the past, control issues, inner healing, parenting with faith, God’s guidance, dealing with disappointment, spiritual growth, relationships and trust, delegation in business

In this insightful episode of the Father and Joe Podcast, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into a profound and timely issue – loneliness. As society faces an unprecedented wave of isolation, driven largely by the modern digital world and changing social structures, it can often feel impossible to form meaningful, Christ-centered relationships. But, as Father Boniface shares, these relationships are not only vital for our emotional well-being, they are essential for our spiritual growth."We cannot grow as human beings without what kind of relationships? Well, let’s just call them Christ-like relationships, in the sense that relationships of real trust and mutual love."Father Boniface explains the importance of cultivating relationships of love and trust, where individuals affirm each other’s goodness and uniqueness. It is through such bonds that we truly thrive as human beings. This episode explores the detrimental effects of being relationally starved, and how loneliness can become a self-perpetuating cycle of pain and isolation."That loneliness can be more pervasive... and has a way of isolating me more. Sometimes other behaviors can come out, either collapsing in on myself or acting out, which ends up driving people away from me even more."Father Boniface also highlights the danger of negative feedback loops, where loneliness breeds more loneliness, and discusses practical ways to break free from this harmful cycle. Whether you are in a relationship or not, this episode provides thoughtful guidance for anyone who is struggling with feelings of isolation and wants to nurture deeper, more meaningful connections.The episode also touches on important social issues like homelessness, addiction, and political division, as Father Boniface argues that many societal problems stem from relational breakdowns. He points out that "a lot of symptoms we spend time on politically, like homelessness or drug abuse, are often a symptom of the breakdown in relationships."For those feeling the weight of loneliness, the episode offers hope, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom. Joe Rockey and Father Boniface discuss how to start forming quality relationships, even when it feels like everything is falling apart. From the loneliness of a broken heart to the relational trials of adolescence, this conversation will resonate deeply with anyone seeking true connection in today’s world.As Father Boniface reminds us, "We need relationships of affirming love... where we are blessed by our existence and help others experience that gift." Tune in to hear more about the path to healing, meaningful connections, and the transformative power of relationships rooted in Christ.If you found this episode helpful, explore our archives for more discussions on relationships and other important topics. We don’t charge for any of our content, and our goal is to help others grow in their faith and relationships. Please consider subscribing, sharing this episode with someone in need, and leaving a comment below to join the conversation.Tags:loneliness, building relationships, overcoming loneliness, Father and Joe podcast, Christ-like relationships, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, spiritual growth, relationships in Christ, emotional well-being, meaningful connections, Christian relationships, isolation in modern society, how to stop feeling lonely, negative feedback loops, Christ-centered love, spiritual healing, loneliness solutions, Christian advice, digital age loneliness, finding community, the importance of relationships, breaking isolation, healing from loneliness, dating and relationships, mental health, overcoming fear in relationships, relationship advice, religious podcast, Christian faith

In this enlightening episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the journey of becoming a saint, breaking down the practical steps that lead to holiness. Drawing parallels between mastering worldly skills and growing in faith, they offer insights into how we can gradually build the habits of virtue that will lead us closer to Christ.Joe starts by reflecting on how seemingly difficult tasks, like getting on the front page of Google, appear impossible until we learn the specific steps. He compares this to the spiritual journey: “Many people have this feeling of becoming a saint as so strange or foreign that there’s no way I'd be able to do it.” However, just as with learning a skill, holiness requires consistent effort and daily practice.Father Boniface builds on this by discussing the importance of making Christ a part of our everyday actions. He explains that “learning Christ” is more than a mental process—it's something that must be embodied, much like learning to play a musical instrument. “We grow through repetition, we grow through failure, we grow through learning from our mistakes,” Father says, emphasizing that holiness isn’t a talent we’re born with; it’s something we cultivate through persistent practice and effort.One of the most powerful points Father makes is that grace is not something we "do" alone—it’s something we let God do through us. “What steadily happens is His thoughts become my thoughts, His logic becomes my logic.” As we practice virtue and live in Christ, we begin to see the world through His eyes. This spiritual growth transforms us internally, allowing us to naturally live out our faith with ease, joy, and promptitude, even in difficult situations.Father Boniface also addresses the fear many Christians have of failure. “Nothing of value is possible to do the first time perfectly. We have to keep growing in it and figure out where the hard spots are for us.” This applies to every aspect of our faith journey. By embracing vulnerability, sharing our struggles with trusted individuals, and recognizing that growth often comes through trial and error, we can make meaningful spiritual progress.The conversation also turns to the challenges of standing up for faith in a world where not everyone will understand or agree. As Joe points out, many of us fear alienation when we speak about our beliefs. But Father reminds us that even Jesus wasn't liked by everyone: “There’s never going to be a moment when everyone is happy with us.” Nevertheless, we must have the courage to share our faith, trusting that God will guide our steps.Whether you're someone struggling with how to live out your faith in everyday life, or just looking for practical ways to deepen your relationship with Christ, this episode will inspire and guide you. It’s a powerful reminder that holiness is not only possible—it’s something within reach if we practice, trust, and allow God’s grace to work through us.Join Joe and Father Boniface as they tackle these vital topics:How consistent practice and failure lead to holinessWhy holiness is a skill you develop, just like any otherHow to build habits of virtue in your everyday lifeOvercoming the fear of failure and social rejectionThe importance of relationship and vulnerability in your spiritual growthLearning how to embody Christ in everything you doIf you’re looking for a way to make your faith an integral part of your daily life, this episode is for you. Hit the subscribe button, leave us a review, and start your journey toward holiness today.Tags:holiness, christian life, father and joe podcast, spiritual growth, building virtue, living in christ, daily faith practice, embracing faith, becoming a saint, christian habits, developing holiness, how to live like christ, overcoming failure, catholic podcast, joe rockey, father boniface hicks

In this insightful episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the concept of silence and how it plays a crucial role in strengthening your relationship with God. For many of us, silence is often misunderstood as just the absence of external noise, but it goes far deeper than that. As Father Boniface explains, silence is not just about the absence of sound, but about achieving interior peace. It's about quieting the mind and soul amidst the distractions and chaos of everyday life.Joe opens up about his personal struggles with finding silence, saying, “There’s always something going on, whether it be inside my mind trying to think of a solution, or listening to a book or podcast, or falling asleep with the TV on. Yet in prayer, that’s not the case, and it feels weird sometimes.” Father Boniface thoughtfully responds by breaking down what silence truly means, highlighting that it's more about calming our inner restlessness rather than simply eliminating noise. "We’re really looking for interior peace," he notes, emphasizing that inner silence is more about order, harmony, and focusing on what’s truly important.In today’s fast-paced world, we are constantly bombarded by distractions—from social media, work, and technology—that prevent us from finding peace. In this episode, Joe and Father Boniface offer valuable insights on how to cultivate silence in our lives as a means of drawing closer to God. Father Boniface touches on the beauty of the church as a peaceful space, explaining how the quiet of a church can serve as a refuge, helping us to slow down and get in touch with our innermost thoughts, desires, and fears.Father Boniface provides practical advice for reducing external stimulation and creating moments of silence in our daily lives. Whether it's turning off your phone, getting adequate sleep, or spending time in nature, these small but powerful actions help bring order to the busyness in our hearts. As Father Boniface explains, “Peace is not a lack of things, but it’s the tranquility of order.” It is through this ordered silence that we find God and establish a deeper, more meaningful connection with Him.Throughout the conversation, Joe and Father Boniface share relatable anecdotes and spiritual wisdom that resonate with anyone seeking peace and a deeper relationship with God. Whether you’ve struggled with finding quiet moments in your busy life, or simply want to improve your prayer life, this episode is packed with guidance on how to embrace silence as a way to listen to God.Join us in this powerful episode as we explore the transformative nature of silence and its ability to bring clarity, order, and peace to our lives. Be sure to like, comment, and share this episode with others who may benefit from these insights. Your support makes a difference!Quotes from the Episode:"We’re really looking for interior peace." - Father Boniface"Peace is not a lack of things, but it’s the tranquility of order." - Father Boniface"There’s always something going on...whether it be inside my mind or outside. Yet in prayer, that’s not the case." - Joe RockeyThank you for tuning in, and we look forward to being with you again next week. Don’t forget to subscribe and share this episode with others who are seeking more peace in their lives.Tags: finding peace through silence, how to listen to God, deepening your relationship with God, prayer and silence, overcoming distractions, Father and Joe podcast, spiritual growth, Catholic podcast, achieving interior peace, cultivating silence in a noisy world, spiritual silence, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Christian spirituality, how to hear God in prayer, peaceful prayer life, reducing distractions in prayer, quieting the mind, overcoming mental restlessness,

In this thought-provoking episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks explore how to live a life rooted in faith, even when it seems overwhelming or impossible. Can we truly live like Christ? What does it mean to be called to holiness in our everyday lives? Drawing from the lives of saints like Pope John Paul II and Blessed Karl of Austria, Father Boniface sheds light on how we can all respond to God's call to holiness.Joe begins the conversation by reflecting on the miracles attributed to saints like John Paul II, who lived in recent history. While the temptation is to think that holiness is reserved for people like popes and priests, Joe and Father Boniface delve into how everyday people can grow closer to Christ, even amidst the demands of family, work, and societal pressures. Father Boniface explains, “We can either draw principles about how to live from the gospel, see them applied in the lives of the saints, and then see how they apply in our own life, and then we’re setting out on a process.”Through the lens of scripture and spiritual insight, Father Boniface encourages us to not just look to the saints as unreachable models, but to recognize that the same Holy Spirit working in their lives can work in ours. He beautifully says, "Maybe it's not for somebody else. Maybe it's for you. Maybe you can try this."This episode also tackles the subtle barriers we place between ourselves and holiness. With the rise of technology and social media, many feel consumed by messages that imply their situation is unique, often resulting in a detachment from the gospel. Joe poignantly reflects, “We know there are better options. We intellectually know it...but we don’t do them.” The conversation challenges listeners to bridge the gap between knowing what is right and actually doing it.As Father Boniface emphasizes, one key step is prayer and scripture. He states, “Listening to Jesus in prayer and reading the scriptures...that’s the two most common answers.” These are practices that keep us connected to the source of holiness and allow us to grow in trust.The episode concludes with an actionable challenge: "Try it." Father Boniface encourages all listeners to begin small and take concrete steps toward living the gospel in their lives. Whether it's giving your full attention to a loved one, changing your habits at work, or taking a moment of prayer, the message is simple yet powerful: “Try it.”Join us in this deeply spiritual conversation and find encouragement to take your own steps toward holiness. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who might benefit from these insights. As Joe mentions, “If people just knew it would work, they would do it.” Let’s help spread the word.#ChristianLife #Holiness #FaithJourney #CatholicPodcast #PrayerAndScripture #TrustingJesus #SpiritualGrowth #LivingLikeChrist #FatherBonifaceHicks #JoeRockeyfaith journey, trusting Jesus, spiritual growth, Pope John Paul II, Christian life, holiness in daily life, living like Christ, scripture reflection, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, becoming holy, Catholic podcast, Catholic teachings, prayer and faith, Christian inspiration, Christian podcast, applying the gospel, imitating saints, power of faith, deepening faith, finding holiness, spiritual wisdom, personal transformation, Catholic spirituality, walking with Christ, Christian principles, applying scripture, faith and family, Christian examples, trusting God, Blessed Karl of Austria, following Jesus, power of prayer, spiritual reflection, relationship with Jesus.

In this episode of the Father and Joe podcast, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks explore the deep and often complex relationship between human desires, self-control, and the journey of faith. Through thoughtful and personal examples, Joe shares his experiences as a parent of a toddler, facing the daily challenges of saying "no" to his son and teaching him what is truly best in the long run. Father Boniface provides insightful reflections on how our innate human tendencies, from childhood through adulthood, can shape how we approach life's choices—whether it’s something as simple as craving candy bars or something as profound as navigating sexual desires.As Joe explains, "What we want now keeps getting debased lower and lower with less and less forethought down the road...this is why you see much more obesity, diabetes, etc. because, ooh, it tastes good now." This concept of instant gratification versus long-term good is central to the discussion, with Joe and Father Boniface exploring how modern society complicates our ability to discern what we truly need and how that impacts our spiritual journey.Father Boniface offers a deep dive into the importance of recognizing both the good and bad in our desires. He states, "Helping people to choose according to the fullness of reality rather than the immediate satisfaction of the moment is a really crucial thing." This episode sheds light on how parents can help children navigate their emotions and desires, but also how adults can learn to better understand the desires within themselves.Sexuality, one of the most complex and misunderstood topics, is also discussed in a thoughtful and faith-based way. Father Boniface remarks, “Sex is holy. It just has to be in the right context of marriage and open to all of the right things.” He emphasizes the beauty of sexual desires when they are expressed within the fullness of God’s design, while cautioning against the dangers of oversimplifying these desires into black-and-white rules that don't capture their true purpose.This conversation isn’t just for parents; it’s for anyone grappling with desires, self-control, or seeking deeper meaning in their spiritual and personal lives. The hosts offer practical wisdom on how to shape desires in a healthy way and avoid internal conflict or self-hatred by better understanding their root causes.Tune in for an enlightening discussion that challenges societal norms around instant gratification and offers a faith-filled approach to navigating life’s most difficult choices. Share this episode with someone who needs guidance in their spiritual journey or is facing challenges in discerning what’s truly good for them.Highlights from the episode:Joe’s experience as a parent: "He knows. Well, if dad's going to say no, Aunt Lauren will say yes. So I'm just going to ask her."Father Boniface on navigating desires: “What you want right now, in the short term, may not be what’s truly good for you in the long run.”The balance between physical cravings and long-term consequences, using candy bars as an example.Sexual desires and the importance of context within marriage: “Sex is not bad. Sex is holy. It just has to be in the right context of marriage.”How parents can help guide children through their desires in a healthy and faith-centered way.If you found this episode helpful, please leave us a 5-star review and share the podcast with someone who might benefit. Subscribe for more discussions on faith, family, and life’s biggest questions! faith, religion, parenting, spirituality, Christian parenting, self-control, Catholic podcast, instant gratification, desires, morality, human desires, temptation, Catholic faith, raising children, navigating desires, overcoming temptation, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Christian values, family life, marriage, sexuality,

In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks tackle a pressing issue we all face today: navigating the hateful and divisive political climate that is so prevalent during election seasons. Joe shares his observations on how political advertising today is filled with negativity, hate, and division. He explains, “One of the responsibilities of building a successful society, of being holy, is to not spread hate. Hate being pretty much the opposite of love.”Together, Joe and Father Boniface reflect on how we can protect ourselves from falling into these traps of negativity, starting with personal responsibility. As Father Boniface highlights, “When you notice something that is irritating, frustrating, or hurtful, rather than simply condemning others for it, you're asking the question, 'Am I doing that?' That attitude is already such a remedy. If we were all doing that, we'd be much better off.”Father Boniface takes the conversation deeper by connecting it to the example of Christ, who "took responsibility for everyone, as if he were the one creating all the problems. God made him to be sin so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him." He explains how Jesus' sacrifice invites us to take ownership of the ways we contribute to division, both big and small, while still acknowledging that we are victims at times too.This episode offers valuable insights on how to break away from the toxic patterns of modern political discourse. Rather than demonizing others, we are encouraged to "try to understand the best of your opponent's argument. Rather than setting up a strawman argument, set up a strongman argument or an Ironman argument."The conversation also touches on how shallow political messages have become, with Joe explaining that most campaign ads are “intellectual cotton candy” – designed to evoke strong feelings but lacking any real substance. He advises, “I think it’s more about the how than the who. Like, what are you actually going to do? How are you going to solve this question? Because at the end of the day, all I’ve heard is platitudes… they say you’re a bad person if you don’t agree with this, but there’s no substance to it.”This episode serves as a much-needed reminder that, as Christians, we are called to live in love, even in the most heated and hostile environments. It challenges us to engage with politics and society in a way that reflects Christ’s teachings, seeking to spread love rather than hate, and striving to understand rather than condemn.If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the negativity of modern politics and are looking for ways to stay grounded in your faith, this episode is for you. Remember, we can’t control everything, but we can control how we respond and how we contribute to the conversation. Let’s do it with love.Tune in now to hear more valuable lessons on how we can transform today’s divisive environment into one of love, understanding, and healing.#FaithInAction #LoveAndPolitics #FatherAndJoeTags:faith, politics and faith, love and responsibility, divisive politics, election season, religious podcast, Father and Joe, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Christian values, moral responsibility, forgiveness, Catholic podcast, faith in society, dealing with hate, avoiding political negativity, political debates, personal responsibility, spreading love, loving your enemy, political hate, political division, negativity in media, how to stay positive, protecting yourself from hate, Christ's example, spreading love not hate, the power of forgiveness, being holy, politics and love, how to spread love, political advertising, avoiding negativity, Christian teachings, love thy neighbor, healing through love

In this powerful and insightful episode of the Father and Joe podcast, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the profound topic of vulnerability, particularly in the context of our modern, digitally connected world. With the rise of social media and the pressures it brings, many of us—and our children—are navigating a landscape where personal worth is often judged by likes and comments. But is this really the vulnerability that leads to growth and meaningful relationships?As Father Boniface Hicks eloquently shares, true vulnerability is not about seeking validation from strangers online, but rather about taking the courageous step to be open in our real-world relationships, even when it comes with the risk of getting hurt. "Wisdom needs you. Wisdom is experienced, it's lived knowledge, it's embodied insight," he explains. The conversation challenges the misconception that vulnerability is merely about being exposed to judgment, instead framing it as an essential element of wisdom, growth, and authentic human connection.Throughout the episode, Father Boniface highlights the importance of community and the danger of isolation, particularly in moments of pain. "Trauma is not about the pain. Trauma is about being alone in the pain," he stresses. By sharing personal stories and practical advice, Joe and Father Boniface offer guidance on how we, as parents and individuals, can foster healthy, supportive communities that help us navigate life's challenges—whether it's a child's first steps, a young adult's foray into social media, or the deep wounds that life inevitably brings.The discussion also touches on the delicate balance parents must strike in today's world: How do we allow our children to explore and grow, knowing they may get hurt? How do we teach them to navigate a world that is not always safe, without sheltering them from its realities? Joe reflects on this as a father himself, questioning whether encouraging his son to climb a tree, knowing he might fall, is an act of harm or an important life lesson.In a world that often promotes a false sense of safety, this episode reminds us that true resilience is built not by avoiding risk, but by learning to face it with the support of those who love us. As Father Boniface wisely notes, "Stay in relationship, make everything possible. Don’t shut down your children. Don’t invalidate their pain. Don’t dismiss them and neglect them. Love them. Listen to them. Be with them in their pain."This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the deeper meaning of vulnerability, the importance of community, and the role of wisdom in navigating the complexities of modern life. Whether you're a parent, a young adult, or simply someone looking to deepen your relationships, the insights shared here will resonate deeply and offer practical steps for living a more connected and meaningful life.Remember to like, share, and subscribe to our channel, and leave us a comment or review to help others find this valuable content. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more insightful discussions each week.YouTube Tags: vulnerability, community, wisdom, relationships, social media, parenting advice, trauma, mental health, emotional resilience, support system, digital age, wisdom vs logic, parenting in a digital world, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, personal growth, spiritual growth, faith and family, Christian parenting, dealing with rejection, building self-esteem, overcoming trauma, importance of community, childhood development, online safety, wisdom in relationships, emotional intelligence, spiritual guidance, overcoming isolation, supportive relationships, mental wellness, healthy family dynamics, faith-based guidance