This Is Fine!

Dominique Michelle Astorino

This Is Fine! is a comedy and advice podcast by Dominique Michelle Astorino. Welcome to the sh*t show! We’ll make sure you have great seats. From mental health to astrology to unpacking trauma and breaking stigmas, no topic goes untouched (except NFTs). Think of catching up over a glass of perfectly dry rosé with a best friend on a terrace, or getting advice from your friend who’s also a doctor-slash-therapist, and put that into podcast form. Voilà: This Is Fine! read less
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Episode 66: WHO ARE YOU?? Figuring Yourself Out & the Joy of Self Discovery (solo episode with Dominique) 😇🎀🌸
Mar 26 2024
Episode 66: WHO ARE YOU?? Figuring Yourself Out & the Joy of Self Discovery (solo episode with Dominique) 😇🎀🌸
Mood: quick and light, encouraging, self development, interactive Who are you?  Don’t answer with your job title or what you do. You can’t say where you work. Who you’re related to. Where you went to school. What clubs you’re in.  So again… who are you?  This seems obvious, but often, we don’t really know. Join Dominique for a handful of minutes (the duration of a commercial break if you listen on 2x!) and get a little mini coaching session on figuring out who you are, becoming more secure, and having a rock solid sense of self.  In true Dominique fashion, she figured this out by making a PowerPoint presentation (for herself), so she has some tips on that as well.  Get Dominique’s new newsletter, Dominique En Rose, with Paris updates and cosmic coaching on Substack now: https://dominiquemichelle.substack.com/ 🌹🦋 Book a mini astrology reading / cosmic coaching session at dominique-media.com/astrology 🪐✨ — IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle.Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 65: The 2024-2025 Astrological Year Forecast (feat. Shannon Aganza) 🌌
Mar 13 2024
Episode 65: The 2024-2025 Astrological Year Forecast (feat. Shannon Aganza) 🌌
Mood: cosmic, magical, self dev, educational HAPPY ASTROLOGICAL NEW YEAR Y’ALL! Preparing for the first day of Aries season — aka the first day of the 2024-2025 astrological new year — we’ve got a look at the year(s) ahead and some major planetary shifts with Shannon Aganza, master oracular astrologer (and Dominique’s teacher and mentor).  We’re talking about all three Mercury retrogrades this year, eclipses, and the shifts of Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto. 0:02:45 — the 2024 vibe shift 0:07:00 — demystifying Mercury retrograde (a preview) 0:08:35 — more themes for 2024 0:12:40 — Uranus in Gemini forecast (“the new age”) 0:16:09 — Saturn in Pisces vibes 0:21:21 — Neptune in Pisces → Aries 0:27:17 — Jupiter x Uranus in Taurus (biggest transit of the year!!!) 0:31:08 — April 8 Solar Eclipse 0:32:22 — Self Exploration Theme! 0:35:05 — Jupiter in Gemini, May 25 0:40:29 — Locate Gemini in your chart! 0:49:32 — More on Neptune in Aries 0:56:06 — Uranus changing signs / big disruptions 1:00:43 — Preparing for the vibe shift, editing people out of your life 1:25:37 — Venus x Uranus conjunction  1:27:06 — Neptune retrograde PIsces  Mercury Retrogrades 2024 1:13:52 — demystifying mercury retrograde 1:19:22 — April 1, Mercury retrograde in Aries 1:28:09 — August 4, Mercury retrograde in Virgo/Leo 1:31:12 — November 25, Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius Want to learn more about astrology with Shannon? Visit her site: MoonGathering.com to discover courses, book a reading, and more. — IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle. Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast Sign up for the Dominique en Rose newsletter on Substack, here. Learn more about astrology with Dominique at dominique-media.com/astrology.
Episode 59: Moulin Rouge, Building a Business, and Being a Canadian in Paris (feat. Allie Goodbun) 🇨🇦🇫🇷
Jan 18 2024
Episode 59: Moulin Rouge, Building a Business, and Being a Canadian in Paris (feat. Allie Goodbun) 🇨🇦🇫🇷
Mood: fun and personal, Paris themed, silly Join us for a conversation with the one and only Allie Goodbun (find her here on TikTok and Instagram), principal dancer at THE Moulin Rouge in Paris. Allie and Dominique chat about what brought them to France, life as an expat in Paris, and observations about cultural differences. The Toronto-born dancer shares her “day in the life” of a Moulin Rouge dancer, as well as how she started her new international business, Ready Freddie.  Check out Ready Freddie and use Allie’s discount (FREDDIE10!) at checkout at readyfreddieshop.com to get your own cozy Freddie! Links mentioned in the show:  Dominique’s article on Allie’s day in the life on Well+Good Paris Traffic Chaos  Allie’s TikTok and Instagram Nuxe Rêve de Miel Body Wash (USA) (France) Memo Paris fragrance Susannah Conway word of the year PDF Red Wine Supernova by Chappel Roan — IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle.Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 58: The 111 Portal (January 11, 2024), Numerology and Spiritual Forecast for 2024, and Manifestation 101 (feat. Shannon Aganza) ✨🕰️1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣🕰️✨
Jan 11 2024
Episode 58: The 111 Portal (January 11, 2024), Numerology and Spiritual Forecast for 2024, and Manifestation 101 (feat. Shannon Aganza) ✨🕰️1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣🕰️✨
Mood: spiritual, cosmic, manifestation, self development Today, January 11 (1/11 or 11/1, depending on where you live and how you write dates!) is the “111 portal.” You may have seen some advice on TikTok about manifesting and calling in what you want on this energetically charged day, but our master astrologer, celestial teacher, spiritual hygiene expert, numerologist, and moon mama Shannon Aganza is here with some DIFFERENT advice. Yes, manifesting is coming… but we need to check on some other things first! This is our first episode diving into the world of numerology. To figure out your personal number (based on your birth date and year) and your personal YEAR number (which changes yearly on your birthday, and provides you a theme for your year!), we have some materials below. Consider this your episode guide, and have your numbers ready and in the back of your mind! CALCULATING YOUR PERSONAL NUMBER AND PERSONAL YEAR NUMBER Personal number numerology:  Add the individual digits of your birth date together (for example, Jan 1, 2000 would be 1+1+2+0+0+0 = 4) If you’re left with a double digit number, add those digits together — UNLESS (!!) it’s an 11, 22, 33, 44, etc. (for example, September 29, 1980 would be 9+2+9+1+9+8+0 = 38, 3+8 = 11 ; August 21, 1991 would be 8+2+1+1+9+9+1 = 31, 3+1 = 4) Personal YEAR number:  Now, use your birthday without the year, and add in the year of your most recent birthday. For instance, it’s January 2024 now, but if your birthday is in March, use 2023 to calculate which year you’re currently in (this will change on your birthday this year). March 1, 2023 would be 3+1+2+0+2+3 = 11 year. You’ll change in 2024, on your birthday, to 3+1+2+0+2+4 = 12, 1+2= 3 (3 year).  Shannon’s big lessons for today’s numerology (11!) and 2024 at large (8)... Find a mantra or word for your energy this year “What do I need to feel whole without the addition of something outside of myself?” Moving into balance within a world of polarity Do money and possessions own YOU? What’s your relationship with money and possessions and materials?  Turn your energy inward for better, more conscious manifestation energy Self accept, don’t overthink Step into receptive energy (soft girl life!) Find more from Shannon at moongathering.com and @moongathering on Instagram.  — IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle. Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 56: Astrology for LOVE & Cosmic Romance (feat. Oak, founder of OAK ASTROLOGY SCHOOL) 🌌❤️‍🔥
Dec 7 2023
Episode 56: Astrology for LOVE & Cosmic Romance (feat. Oak, founder of OAK ASTROLOGY SCHOOL) 🌌❤️‍🔥
Mood: astrology, romance & love, educational Ready to find a romance written in the stars? A love story from the galaxy? Oak, creator of Oak Astrology School is here to help. We’re looking at our OWN charts to find partnership, love, and real meaningful relationships.  Oak created the course “Don’t Pull Up Your Crush’s Chart” to teach relational astrology from a more introspective POV. Our natal charts are a map… a treasure map, if you will… for so many areas of our lives. Let Oak guide you through this cosmic quest toward the love of your life! Step one: make sure you have your natal chart handy (or know your descendant sign and its ruler). If you need a natal chart, get a free one at astro-charts.com (not sponsored it’s just literally free). If you need more resources, go back to past Astro 101 episodes: Episode 6: the moon signsEpisode 15: the rising signsEpisode 39: the housesEpisode 50: venus retrograde Step two: Find your descendant (opposite your rising sign, aka ascendant). Here’s a cheat sheet: Aries rising: Libra descendant Taurus rising: Scorpio descendant Gemini rising: Sagittarius descendant Cancer rising: Capricorn descendant Leo rising: Aquarius descendant Virgo rising: Pisces descendant Libra rising: Aries descendant Scorpio rising: Taurus descendant Sagittarius rising: Gemini descendant Capricorn rising: Cancer descendant Aquarius rising: Leo descendant Pisces rising: Virgo descendant Step three: Find your descendant ruler. Find the planet in your chart. What sign is it in? What house is it in? Cheat sheet: Aries descendant: Mars Taurus descendant: Venus Gemini descendant: Mercury Cancer descendant: Moon Leo descendant: Sun Virgo descendant: Mercury Libra descendant: Venus Scorpio descendant: Mars Sagittarius descendant: Jupiter Capricorn descendant: Saturn Aquarius descendant: Saturn Pisces descendant: Jupiter Once you have those details, buckle up for more astro school with Oak! If you want to dive deeper into the topic of love and relationships with Oak, This Is Fine! listeners get 15% off their love course, “Don’t Pull Up Your Crush’s Chart” with code ABSOLEM. For eager astro students the popular Full Natal Astrology Course is on mega sale for a limited time!  You can follow Oak on Instagram at @OakAstrologySchool and catch their new podcast ABSOLEM: the art of astrology and demon slaying.  — IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle. Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 55: This Is Fine GIFT GUIDE 🎁(feat. Dominique’s Favorite Things From 2023) 🤶🏻
Nov 29 2023
Episode 55: This Is Fine GIFT GUIDE 🎁(feat. Dominique’s Favorite Things From 2023) 🤶🏻
Mood: shopping guide, holiday, just girly things, being ~*~influenced~*~ The annual gift guide + recommendation list is back! Welcome to our 2023 extravaganza.  ****** FIND THE WHOLE (SHOPPABLE) GIFT GUIDE HERE (under the super neglected transcripts tab of our website). ****** From beauty and home must-haves to Dominique’s extremely unrealistic personal wishlist, your unfathomably niche holiday shopping guide has arrived! Since Dominique considers herself a tiny wannabe Oprah, we’re back with a Dominique’s Favorite Things 2023, which ended up being a lot of beauty, fragrance, powder pink, and all things french. Plus, some fun and aesthetic things you might want for your house/life (*gestures broadly at everything*). You can use the links below in the description or head to our gift guide HQ, here. GOBI Pink Cashmere Joggers La Bonne Brosse Hairbrush, Numéro 1 l’Universelle Brosse à Cheveux Pink Le Creuset Cocotte Maje Ivory Wrap Coat Guerlain Perfume Spiritueuse Double Vanille Cuir Beluga Angelique Noire Memo Paris Odéon Perfume (you can only get this in Paris, sorry!) Repetto Ballet Lounge Set Biologique Recherche P50W Bianco Latte lotion, Giardini di Toscana Laines London Croissant Slippers Astrology Corgis Champagne Fireball Gin (here too) Spritzes Nautical motifs Flamingos Evil eyes (here too) Celebrating a new home, wedding, shower, or baby Christmas (here too) Aphrodite Pendant from Awe Chanel Rosy Light Drops Ultra Mini Platform UGGs Cody Foster Venus Ornament Polene Numero Neuf Mini Chanel Coco Sling Not Pictured: Reformation Boots Skims Fits everybody T-Shirt Repetto Ballet Flats Sézane Sweaters Fabienne Delacroix Puzzle Veggiekins Cookbook: SESAME, SOY, AND SPICE  Memo Paris Sintra  Comfort Zone Hydramemory Cream Davines Oi All-in-One Milk Spray Typology Tinted Glow Duo Chanel Inimitable Intense Mascara Dior Lip Glow Oil Diptyque Candle in Narguilé Memo Paris Fine China Candles Philips SmartSleep Sunrise Lamp Longchamp Tote Mariage Frères Tea Anissa Kermiche Adjustable Ring Nespresso Vertuo Next Premium Papier Croissant Journal Slip Silk Pillowcases Raclette Machine — IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle.Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 54: Your Own “Eras Tour,” Life Chapters, and How to Glow Up (feat. Jenny Gaither, your personal glow up coach) ✨
Nov 22 2023
Episode 54: Your Own “Eras Tour,” Life Chapters, and How to Glow Up (feat. Jenny Gaither, your personal glow up coach) ✨
Mood: validating, personal development, reflective, fun What do you want to be when you ‘grow up’? Here’s a fun concept: you don’t have to just be one thing your whole life.  Your style may change, your preferences may change, your appearance may change, your interests and passions and hobbies and careers… you get it. You have your own ERAS. Different life chapters. Seasons. You can live a dynamic life! As Oscar Wilde once said, “If you want to be a grocer, or a general, or a politician, or a judge, you will invariably become it; that is your punishment. If you never know what you want to be, if you live what some might call the dynamic life but what I will call the artistic life, if each day you are unsure of who you are and what you know you will never become anything, and that is your reward.”  Confidence and Mindset Coach Jenny Gaither, Creator of Brave Babe Glow Up, joins us for a chat about our personal evolution, our personal “Eras Tour.” What era are you in? Are you leveling up, glowing up, evolving?  Jenny tells us, “life is a progressive glow up.”  And if you’re ready for a new era, a new glow up, a personal evolution… whether you’re quitting your job, leaving a relationship, moving to a new country, or simply cutting your hair or changing your clothes… let us (Jenny) help! She walks us through the “anatomy of a glow up” and a Glow Up 101 (take notes!). Get ready for your best era yet… and a validating chat about not knowing what you want to be for the rest of your life (it’s a good thing, we promise).  💫Get your Brave Babe Glow Up Guide from Jenny here! 💫 Journal prompt: What is your glow up leading you to? If you could wave a magic wand right now and you had everything you wanted, what would it be like? Get really creative and specific… don’t hold back. References in this episode: Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers by Robert M. Sapolsky The Blue Crush Soundtrack Oscar Wilde quote/Stephen Fry audio clip on TikTok Comfort Zone Hydramemory Cream Parfums de Marly Delina Exclusif (also on Gilt) * * * * * * IF YOU LOVED TODAY’S EPISODE, please leave us a five-star rating on whatever listening platform you found us on 🤩🥰😇DM us a screenshot of your review and we’ll buy you a coffee (no joke). What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle. Want to see some This Is Fine! merch? Join our Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 51: FOMO, Comparison, and the BS of Societal Timelines (feat. Dr. Kevin Gillilland, PsyD) 🕰️⏳
Nov 1 2023
Episode 51: FOMO, Comparison, and the BS of Societal Timelines (feat. Dr. Kevin Gillilland, PsyD) 🕰️⏳
Mood: therapy, mental health focused, upbeat, validating WELCOME BACK! It’s been a (longer than anticipated) minute since we’ve last chatted, but This Is Fine! Podcast is back in action after Dominique moved to Paris (salut de la France, tout le monde!).  Perhaps over this past summer (and start to autumn) you felt a little bit of FOMO, or got jealous of someone’s vacation updates on TikTok and Instagram. Maybe you haven’t gotten promoted yet, or saw that everyone in your age group has begun to buy a house. Have you gone to one too many baby showers and thought, this is not where I thought I’d be at [age redacted] years old?! Don't worry, we called the therapist for you. Dr. Kevin Gilliland, PsyD, our trusted on-call (literally) clinical psychologist is here to talk about the BS of the ‘societal timeline’ (the milestones you’re ‘supposed’ to meet, and when)... plus the idea of FOMO, comparison, and searching for what we really want in life. Sound good? Prepare for some validation. You can find more of Dr. Gilliland on his podcast, Struggle Well, Live Well, Worry Less (on Spotify and Apple), and our own episodes 27, 24 and 2. Resource mentioned in episode: Word of the year PDF (Unravel Your Year by Susannah Conway) We’ll be back soon with updates from Paris! What do you want to hear next? How did you like today’s episode? Send us a note at imfine@thisisfinepodcast.com. You can hear more from Dominique on Instagram and TikTok at @dommymichelle.  --- Support This Is Fine! Podcast by Dominique Michelle Astorino on Patreon: patreon.com/ThisIsFinePodcast
Episode 48: Adult Women with ADHD (feat. Terry Matlen, MSW, psychotherapist AND 4 bonus guests!) ⚡️🧠
Jul 1 2023
Episode 48: Adult Women with ADHD (feat. Terry Matlen, MSW, psychotherapist AND 4 bonus guests!) ⚡️🧠
Mood: educational, empowering, validating, insightful, mental health Has TikTok diagnosed you with ADHD? Have you actually been diagnosed with ADHD? If you're female, there's an extra hurdle for you. The gender gap in research and diagnoses leaves many women and girls undiagnosed and untreated... sometimes for their entire lives. This episode takes in four accounts of adult women who were diagnosed with ADHD at different stages in their lives, from their 20s to their 60s. We interview Terry Matlen, MSW, psychotherapist and acclaimed ADHD expert. Terry has a clinical and personal perspective: she and her adult daughter both have ADHD. Terry is also the author of The Queen of Distraction and Survival Tips for Women with ADHD: Beyond Piles, Palms & Stickers — check these out if you've been recently diagnosed or are pursuing a diagnosis! Accounts from Lori (diagnosed 65), Jenny (diagnosed 32), Caroline (diagnosed 28), and Avery (diagnosed 31) will provide personal context about what life was like before and after diagnosis. Sources and tools mentioned in this episode: CHADDAdda (ADD.org)ADDitude MagazineRussell BarkleyJohn Ratey, Driven to DistractionUndiagnosed ADHD Ruined My Life (reddit) Time stamps: 0:02:00 - Lori (personal account) 0:10:20 - Terry Matlen, MSW (interview with the expert) 0:58:20 - Jenny (personal account) 1:06:05 - Caroline (personal account) 1:26:45 - Avery (personal account)