Calibrate Conversations w/ Brady Cone

Tim Barnett joins us on Calibrate Conversations for an eye-opening discussion on faith, apologetics, and the complex issues of sexuality and identity in today's world. As a passionate advocate for apologetics and a key figure at Stand To Reason @STRvideos Tim sheds light on his journey from a superficial grasp of Christianity to a deeper understanding through apologetics, offering invaluable insights for young Christians grappling with faith in diverse settings. Together, we emphasize the crucial role of establishing a solid foundation in biblical truth, equipping the next generation with vital tools to confidently navigate their beliefs amidst contemporary challenges.Our conversation ventures into the world of subjective versus objective truths, using captivating metaphors like "ice cream truth" and "insulin truth" to illustrate the distinction. We confront the perception of morality as subjective and argue for the existence of universal moral standards, addressing timely issues such as LGBTQ matters. By examining these through the lens of authoritative sources, we stress the importance of evaluating moral claims beyond personal or societal preferences, encouraging open dialogue within church communities to offer young people the answers they seek without straying from traditional teachings.We also tackle the trend of faith deconstruction among youth questioning traditional biblical interpretations of sexuality. By fostering an environment where doubts and questions are welcomed, we aim to build understanding and compassion. The episode closes with practical advice on engaging in empathetic conversations with LGBTQ individuals, focusing on building genuine relationships and embodying Christian love and grace. Join us as we explore how authenticity and empathy can lead to profound dialogue, guiding today's youth toward a balanced and meaningful understanding of faith and identity.Timestamps:(00:19) - Embracing God's Standard for Sexuality(09:34) - Exploring Morality and Objective Truth(18:26) - Understanding the Trend of Deconstruction(22:14) - Navigating Deconstruction and LGBTQ Issues(36:53) - Navigating Compassionate Dialogue With LGBTQ Individuals(43:32) - Navigating Relationships Through Deconstruction(49:35) - Empowering Authenticity in Today's Youth(57:52) - Ministry Focus on Sexuality and GenderJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#RedPenLogic #StandToReason #TimBarnett

Cutting ties with family is not just a personal choice; it’s a cultural phenomenon with far-reaching consequences. We’re tackling the controversial trend of going no contact, especially within the LGBTQ community, and how this practice, amplified by social media and even some psychological approaches, disrupts family harmony. Joined by insights from an Israeli psychologist and a revealing clip from MSNBC, we dissect the ideological shift that is reshaping how we handle familial and generational bonds. Our conversation anchors on viewing these challenges through a biblical perspective, recognizing our shared human frailty, and the transformative power of grace and forgiveness.Our complex world often prioritizes self-interest, leading to divisiveness that creeps into even the most faith-based communities. We share our personal stories and the joy discovered in serving others, acknowledging the cultural polarization that complicates political and religious identities. Despite sharing core beliefs, many feel isolated when political discrepancies are left unaddressed. We’re advocating for humility and love as foundational values, fostering unity and open dialogue within the Christian community, and encouraging a deeper understanding of how these dynamics affect our interactions.Emotional resilience and biblical discipleship aren’t just buzzwords; they’re crucial tools for navigating today’s parenting landscape and the fragility brought on by digital echo chambers. By examining the story of King David and his emotional candor with God, we highlight a path toward healing and maturity. Our discussion extends to the pitfalls of unchecked pride and the necessity of difficult conversations to build stronger, Christ-centered relationships. We invite you to join us on this journey of emotional and spiritual growth, where true strength is found in surrender to God’s unchanging grace.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) - The Impact of Going No Contact(12:36) - Navigating Culture and Divisiveness in Christianity(23:22) - Biblical Discipleship and Emotional Resilience(29:41) - Emotional Resilience in Christian Discipleship(40:22) - Strength Through the LordOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

This week, we explore the world of non-monogamous relationships, focusing on the trends of polygamy and polyamory. In our conversation, we dissect the cultural and religious contexts of these practices, noting how polygamy is often associated with religious traditions, typically involving one man with multiple wives. Despite some attempting to justify it with biblical references, we argue that such arrangements stray from God's intended design for marriage. On the other hand, polyamory has gained visibility through cultural shifts and celebrity endorsements, encompassing romantic, emotional, and sexual relationships among three or more people, regardless of gender. We also tackle the controversial topic of whether polyamory should be classified as a sexual orientation, presenting a perspective that challenges this notion.We navigate the complexities of blurred relationship boundaries, where polyamory often emerges unintentionally in relationships. We compare this with the more structured approach of polygamy, exploring how cultural changes have influenced these dynamics. The discussion highlights the evolving language of relationships, such as the increasing use of the term "partner" over traditional titles. We differentiate between polyamory and open relationships, emphasizing the role of consent and commitment structures. Through real-world experiences and the challenges faced by individuals, particularly in Christian communities, we provide insights into how families grapple with these evolving relationship norms and prepare for their complexities.TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) - Exploring Polygamy vs. Polyamory Trends(10:33) - Differences in Polygamy and Polyamory(18:19) - Navigating Blurred Relationship BoundariesJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Polygamy #Polyamory #BiblicalSexuality

Complementarianism doesn't mean inequality, and egalitarianism isn't necessarily the solution. Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the often controversial terrain of gender roles and biblical sexuality, with a spotlight on the thought-provoking podcast "Sons of Patriarchy." This episode will challenge your understanding of patriarchy, and the contentious figure of Doug Wilson, a pastor known for his polarizing views. As we prepare for the heated debates likely to arise from this podcast, we urge listeners to consider the complexities and biases inherent in these discussions.Our conversation navigates the tension between complementarian and egalitarian beliefs within Christian relationships, dissecting misconceptions and misapplications that have led to misunderstandings and allegations of abuse. We argue for a scripturally grounded approach that promotes accountability and mutual respect in marriages, cautioning against extreme interpretations on either side. By examining the role of church leadership in fostering healthy relationships, we aim to inspire a balanced, respectful dialogue that upholds the dignity and worth of both spouses. Tune in for a thought-provoking journey through the intersection of Christianity, theology, culture, and personal relationships.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Chapters(00:19) - Exploring Gender Roles and Biblical Sexuality(09:35) - Gender Roles in Christian Relationships(14:41) - Navigating Gender Roles and Church CultureOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#DougWilson #complementarianism #egalitarianism

Join me on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound challenges and heartaches faced by parents and family members of LGBTQ children from a Christian perspective. In this episode, we share insights and stories from Calibrate Ministries, shedding light on the emotional and spiritual burdens these families carry when their children do not align with their beliefs. We celebrate the joy of witnessing a child's return to faith while acknowledging the sorrow of those who continue to walk away. Through encouragement and support, we emphasize the importance of not condemning these families but rather recognizing their steadfast faith as a testimony to the world.We also address the evolving relationship between parents and their adult children, especially concerning LGBTQ issues. This conversation highlights the shift from parental authority to mentorship and support, urging parents to relinquish control and trust God with the outcomes. By focusing on their identity in Christ and receiving support from the church community, parents can navigate the complexities of maintaining relationships and setting boundaries. We discuss the need for wisdom, discernment, and the strength that comes from the faith community, while acknowledging the pain that can accompany broken relationships.Lastly, we emphasize parenting LGBTQ children with grace, encouraging a balance between avoiding self-righteousness and maintaining hope in their potential transformation. We discuss the importance of creating a welcoming and grace-filled environment for children to return to, drawing on the story of the prodigal son. This episode offers support and encouragement for parents, highlighting the opportunity to join a parents ministry and find solace in a shared journey. Embracing growth and self-reflection through God's grace, we extend love and encouragement, reminding listeners of the absence of condemnation for those in Christ and inviting them to explore further resources at Calibrate Ministries.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Navigating Parenting LGBTQ Prodigal Children(09:44) Establishing Boundaries With LGBTQ Loved Ones(19:12) Parenting LGBTQ Children With Grace(32:31) Supporting Parents of LGBTQ ChildrenOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Prodigal #Parenting #LGBTQ

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore "The Widening of God's Mercy," a new book by Richard B. Hayes and his son, Christopher B. Hayes. This episode unpacks the unexpected shift in Richard's perspective, a retired New Testament professor once known for his staunch defense of traditional biblical marriage. Together with Christopher, a professor at Fuller Seminary, they present a more inclusive stance on sexuality, which has stirred controversy and conversation within both evangelical and LGBTQ communities. We analyze their use of terms like "inclusive" and "hospitality" and challenge their assumptions about human sexuality from a conservative Christian viewpoint.Listen in as we navigate the complexities of interpreting God's character across the Old and New Testaments, especially concerning LGBTQ inclusion in the church. We discuss how some scholars might misinterpret biblical stories, like those involving child sacrifice, and explore the implications of open theism versus dispensational theology. Our conversation emphasizes that God's nature remains unchanged even as His interactions with humanity evolve, offering insights into the balance between scriptural authority and contemporary societal issues.This episode highlights the transformative power of God's mercy and the need for a compassionate, yet biblically grounded approach to modern debates on sexuality. Through personal stories and scriptural analysis, we invite you to consider a narrative that honors God's unchanging truth while engaging with the complexities of human experience.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) The Widening of God's Mercy(09:20) Misinterpretation of God's Old Testament Character(15:35) God's Mercy and Biblical Sexuality(28:33) Challenge of Old Testament Interpretation(34:26) Reimagining Scripture and Sexuality(40:55) Sexuality, Scripture and Personal Experience(56:05) The Transformative Power of God's Mercy(01:02:38) God's Unchanging Mercy and TruthOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #Christianity #Marriage

Ready to question some widely accepted teachings on sexual purity? "Every Man's Battle" might be doing more harm than good. On this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady dissects the implications of this popular book and its over-the-top graphic content, arguing for a healthier, more biblically sound approach to tackling lust and sexual sin. By illustrating the pendulum effect, where extreme corrective measures backfire, he open the floor to a critical and balanced discussion on the real solutions to these deep-rooted issues.As Brady ventures into the murky waters of marriage expectations, he challenges harmful stereotypes and generalizations about men's struggles with lust. Brady shares his personal journey of fidelity to his wife, countering the narrative that all men face the same battles. He also confront the dangerous idea of treating wives as mere objects for sexual gratification, advocating instead for relationships built on love, mutual respect, and true intimacy. By rethinking these conventional narratives, he aims to set a new standard for what a healthy marriage should look like.Navigating the broader implications of abuse and redemption within relationships, we touch on the #MeToo and #ChurchToo movements, dissecting high-profile scandals and their impact on public consciousness. Brady critiques the misuse of influential resources like "Love and Respect," discussing how they can lead to manipulation and unrealistic marital expectations. Through the lens of biblical principles and gospel-centered leadership, he calls for accountability, balanced perspectives, and heart-level transformation to foster relationships that reflect God's true design.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Abuse #Sexuality #EveryMansBattle #JulieRoys #SheilaWrayGregoire

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we address a pressing issue within Christianity, prompted by the recent resignation of Pastor Steve Lawson due to moral failure. This episode examines the pitfalls of consumeristic Christianity and the dangers of pastors spreading themselves too thin with numerous commitments. We explore the critical need for pastors to be deeply involved in their local congregations and held accountable within a biblical eldership structure. Emphasizing the importance of local church involvement, mutual accountability, and authentic discipleship, we argue for a shift away from valuing charismatic preachers to prioritizing shepherds who engage deeply with their church communities.Listen in as we discuss how to respond when Christian leaders or members fall into sin, emphasizing the importance of demonstrating hope in Jesus. We explore the necessity of praying for God's grace in the lives of sinners and developing better responses that bring glory to God. By being vigilant in our personal lives and relationships, confessing sin early, and embracing God's standard for sexuality, we can foster a community that reflects Christ's love and hope. This episode aims to encourage you in your walk with the Lord and inspire a deeper commitment to authentic discipleship and mutual accountability within the church.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#stevelawson #sexuality #Christianity

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound influences of social media on today's youth, particularly those grappling with LGBTQ issues. In our first chapter, we examine how platforms like TikTok provide teenagers with a sense of validation, belonging, and identity, often conflicting with Christian teachings. Through a critical analysis of a YouTube podcast clip featuring lesbian women, we emphasize the importance of understanding these natural desires for connection and how they can be misdirected. We also underscore the necessity of discipleship and applying the gospel to transform hearts, drawing insights from the book of James to highlight the need to protect our children from harmful external influences.In the following chapters, we address parenting decisions and the impact of smartphones and school environments on children. From the humorous moment when Rowan mistook a phone for a body part to a serious discussion about the anxiety technology causes in younger generations, we stress the importance of modeling responsible behavior and maintaining parental control. We also critique the overreach of public school systems in LGBTQ matters, advocating for alternatives like homeschooling in regions with problematic policies. Lastly, we encourage listeners to evaluate their own lives for worldly influences, set boundaries, and seek spiritual transformation to better navigate and model a Christ-centered life for their children. Tune in and equip yourself with insights to foster a heart aligned with your values.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#TikTok #SocialMedia #Parenting

Struggling with my own journey of same-sex attraction, I once believed that my persistent desires meant God must be okay with it. In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, we unpack the story of a woman who arrived at a similar conclusion after years of prayer and self-reflection. We delve into the challenging yet liberating truth that God's promises aren't about removing our struggles but rather empowering us to surrender and live in obedience. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, we explore how daily surrender, community, confession, and accountability are vital parts of the discipleship process, leading to genuine transformation and a life of peace with Christ.We also address the psychological toll of concealing one's sexuality and the freedom that comes with living authentically within a Christian community. The weight of others' opinions can be crushing, but anchoring our identity in Christ brings unparalleled relief. Furthermore, we tackle the controversial topic of conversion therapy, separating harmful misconceptions from the true journey of spiritual growth. By examining the choices we do have in living a life aligned with faith, we emphasize the importance of building a compassionate, grace-filled community where authenticity and support can truly thrive.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:37 - 01:50) Exposing False Beliefs on Same-Sex Attraction(06:09 - 07:17) Transformation and Surrender in Discipleship(14:54 - 16:21) Struggles and Authenticity in Christian Community(22:26 - 23:25) The Efficacy of Conversion TherapyOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#TikTok #LGBTQ #MadeItOutPodcast #Christian #Christianity

What if the wisdom you’re following is leading you astray? Join us as we unravel the profound insights from the book of James, contrasting earthly wisdom marked by selfish ambition and jealousy with heavenly wisdom that is pure, peace-loving, and merciful. We explore the damaging effects of pursuing significance through worldly means and emphasize the importance of examining our hearts to ensure our actions align with godly principles, bearing good fruit instead of disorder.Our discussion delves into contemporary issues, such as critical race theory, through the lens of biblical wisdom. We share personal reflections on the value of gentleness in conflict and the unparalleled strength found in meekness. With practical advice on being teachable and open to reason, we highlight how these qualities can lead to better relationships and deeper understanding. As we seek unity rooted in wisdom and equal treatment, we address the dangers of tribalism in both religious and political arenas. Reflecting on the controversy surrounding Megan Basham’s book, "Shepherds for Sale," we discuss the divisiveness it has caused within the Christian community and call for a perspective filled with mercy and compassion. Finally, we provide practical steps for living out biblical truths, emphasizing patience, empathy, and a prayerful approach to seeking divine wisdom in all aspects of life. Tune in for an enlightening episode that challenges you to reflect on your motives and pursue true, godly wisdom.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:01) The Pursuit of True Wisdom(06:41) Wisdom From Above(23:39) Unity Through Wisdom and Equal Treatment(37:00) Biblical Wisdom in Daily LifeOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Sexuality #Wisdom #Christian

Join us for an uplifting and transformative conversation on Calibrate Conversations, where we welcome Ally Kutz as our special guest. Ally shares her powerful testimony of finding hope and freedom through faith in Christ. From growing up in a Christian home, grappling with her identity and sexuality, to living a gay lifestyle for over a decade, Ally's journey is one of inner conflict, steadfast love for Jesus, and ultimate redemption. Her story underscores the liberating truth found in the gospel and aims to challenge the world's narratives about sexuality and transformation.Throughout this episode, we explore the profound shifts that come from seeking God's guidance. Ally recounts a pivotal moment with Pastor Paul that led her to a deeper spiritual quest, culminating in a transformative shift in her heart. We discuss the misconceptions within the church regarding sexuality and the importance of focusing on a relationship with Jesus rather than adhering to societal or even traditional church expectations. Listen in as we tackle complex issues surrounding LGBTQ relationships within the church, the impact of generational sins, and the damaging effects of rigid gender stereotypes. Ally shares her experiences with love and support from her church community, the struggle between faith and sexuality, and the importance of setting boundaries while maintaining love. We also address the significance of genuine discipleship and the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding believers through personal struggles. This episode is a compelling narrative of transformation, truth, and the beauty of a life continually growing in Christ.TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Hope and Freedom Testimony(07:35) Identity Transformation Through Faith(17:39) Embracing Identity in Christ(33:35) Navigating Church and LGBTQ Relationships(42:23) Transformed by Truth and Love(53:14) Navigating Gender Stereotypes and Sexuality(01:00:29) Navigating Sexual Choices and Susceptibility(01:06:00) Navigating Family Acceptance and BoundariesJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Sexuality #LGBTQ #Christian

How can parents remain faithful to their beliefs while supporting children who identify as LGBTQ? Join us for a thought-provoking conversation on "Calibrate Conversations" with our special guest, Mary Comm, a ministry leader from Oklahoma. Mary brings a wealth of experience in ministering to parents of LGBTQ children and those affected by abortion, sharing her personal stories and insights. You’ll learn how her own experience with abortion has shaped her ministry, emphasizing the church's critical need for compassion and understanding.We tackle the emotional and societal challenges that parents face when their children come out as LGBTQ. Drawing from personal narratives, including my own journey with my daughter, we discuss the turmoil and pressures that can arise. Mary and I highlight the significance of addressing personal grief and shame through faith, prayer, and creating safe spaces for Christ-centered forgiveness. This episode serves as a guide for navigating complex family dynamics without compromising faith, offering hope and support for parents and families.Finally, the episode delves into broader cultural issues influencing LGBTQ identities and abortion. We explore how society's focus on self-centered sexuality can lead to significant pain and denial of consequences, offering valuable resources and testimonies that demonstrate the power of God's grace in transforming lives. This episode is a beacon of hope, showcasing the positive strides the church is making in offering grace and redemption. Whether you're a parent grappling with these issues or someone seeking to understand them better, you will find this conversation both enlightening and encouraging.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPS:(00:19) Embracing Biblical Sexuality and Healing(10:30) Navigating Parenting LGBTQ Children(19:20) Navigating LGBTQ Parenting Challenges(28:59) Journey of Parenting LGBTQ Children(41:07) Parenting LGBTQ Support and Hope(53:30) Finding Hope in God's GraceGrab your copy of Mary's Bible Study here:https://a.co/d/eFfd39ZOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #parenting #Christian

Can sex work through platforms like OnlyFans offer genuine empowerment, or is it a path to dysfunction? On today’s episode of Calibrate Conversations, we unpack this pressing debate by diving into the meteoric rise of OnlyFans. With figures that stun—1.25 million daily active users and a revenue leap from $375 million in 2020 to $2.5 billion in 2022—OnlyFans has become a monumental digital force. We explore whether this phenomenon can be seen as a form of self-determination or if it aligns more with the biblical warnings about sexual perversion leading to societal decay. Real-world anecdotes, including the story of a teacher who swapped her traditional career for the lucrative allure of OnlyFans, bring these discussions to life. We also examine the darker ties between sex work and human trafficking, and how pornography exacerbates these issues, underscoring the legislative battles being fought to protect vulnerable individuals, particularly minors.Our conversation then shifts to a beacon of hope amidst these concerns—the transformative power of Jesus Christ. Drawing inspiration from Paul's teachings on redemption and sanctification, we delve into how embracing God's standards for sexuality can offer true freedom and restoration. Despite past transgressions, believers are washed, sanctified, and justified through Jesus and the Holy Spirit. This discussion isn't just theoretical; it's a call to action to extend this hope and transformative love to those searching for meaning in all the wrong places. Tune in for a compelling dialogue that not only scrutinizes the complexities of the sex work industry but also illuminates the unwavering hope found in faith.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! TIMESTAMPSOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#SexWork #OnlyFans #Pornography

What happens when a popular video game streamer’s past as an OnlyFans content creator is exposed? This week on Calibrate Conversations, we examine the fallout surrounding Kylie Cox, better known as Sketch, and the whirlwind of mixed reactions that ensued after his involvement in gay pornography came to light. We dissect his response through an awkward apology video where he acknowledges his past and emphasizes his personal growth and transformation. We also explore the varied public reactions, from those defending his past as a legitimate form of sex work to others who criticize him harshly, and consider the broader implications of his actions.  In our second segment, we reflect on the darker side of social media, focusing on the intense struggles and desperation that often drive people to public confessions and the inevitable online bullying that follows. We advocate for kindness and empathy, highlighting the importance of finding true value as image bearers of God rather than chasing online fame. Sharing personal stories of social awkwardness and ridicule, we urge listeners to cultivate genuine, supportive relationships. Tune in as we emphasize the necessity of finding worth in Christ and taking a compassionate stance towards those in need of love and understanding in today’s digital age.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Timestamps:(00:16) Controversy Surrounding Social Media Influencer(08:30) Online Bullying and Seeking HopeOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Gender isn't a social construct—it's a divine design. Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we confront the contentious issue of gender identity through the unwavering lens of biblical truth. Our exploration begins with the foundational narrative in Genesis, affirming that God intentionally created humanity as male and female. We dissect modern distinctions between gender and biological sex, countering prevalent lies of the transgender movement with scriptural truths, underscoring the significance of adhering to God's divine order in our lives.As we navigate the complexities of identity in today's society, we draw from Carl Trueman's "Strange New World" to critique the modern shift towards self-discovery and immediate gender affirmation. Historically, identity was shaped by external factors such as family and religion, but now it’s driven by internal feelings, leading to instability. By comparing past practices of "watchful waiting" to the current trend of rushed transitions, we advocate for a more thoughtful, scientifically grounded approach that prioritizes internal understanding over external changes.In the latter part of our discussion, we emphasize the transformative power of redemption through Christ. Addressing the embodiment of gender, we highlight the physical and spiritual aspects of human identity, drawing from biblical passages and the hope of resurrection. We wrap up with a call to compassion, urging prayers and community support for those struggling with gender dysphoria. Listen in as we explore how aligning with God's standard for sexuality can lead to true healing and inner renewal, offering hope and restoration in Christ.Timestamps:(00:16) Challenging Gender Identity Lies and Truths(10:21) The Disturbing Truth About Gender Transition(19:51) Navigating Gender Identity and Biblical Truths(25:27) The Embodiment of Gender Identity(36:57) The Transformative Power of Redemption(48:40) Embracing Identity in Christ(59:12) Prayer for Gender Identity RestorationJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Gender #Transgender #Christian

Unlock the secrets to parenting with grace in today's ever-evolving landscape. Join us for an engaging conversation with youth minister Crystal Nelson, who brings over 20 years of experience to the table. From creating a youth group and a traveling soccer team in Nebraska to penning her new book, "Toilet Tales," Crystal's journey is filled with compelling insights and humorous anecdotes that middle school boys will love. Her dedication to guiding teens through the labyrinth of love, relationships, and the challenges posed by drugs and alcohol is truly inspiring. We also take a deep look at the profound impact of social media and the upheavals caused by COVID-19 on both teens and their parents.Parenting isn't always a walk in the park, and many parents grapple with hidden shame and guilt. Together with Crystal, we unravel these deep-seated feelings, offering biblical wisdom and practical advice. Highlighting the importance of unconditional love and finding worth in God rather than in children's achievements, we explore the pressure-laden world of modern parenting. With an emphasis on understanding the teen brain and maintaining a delicate balance between being a parent and a friend, this episode is a treasure trove of valuable insights for any parent navigating the tumultuous teenage years.The complexities of identity formation during adolescence are intricately discussed, from the pressures of sports and academics to the need for building a supportive community. Crystal emphasizes the role of open communication and positive affirmation, sharing personal stories and real-life examples. We touch on essential topics like drug and alcohol counseling and the significance of early conversations about love and relationships. The digital age's impact on family dynamics and the necessity of multiple caring adults in a child's life are also covered, making this episode a must-listen for anyone invested in the well-being of today's youth.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Navigating Teenage Life and Relationships(09:11) Parenting With Grace and Unconditional Love(14:36) Navigating Parenting and Teen Realities(21:29) Building Healthy Identity and Community(26:24) Navigating Family, Community, and Identity(35:25) Navigating Generational Relationships(40:50) The Power of Early Conversations(51:01) Navigating Parenting in the Digital AgeGrab your copy of Crystal's Book "Toilet Tales" here:https://a.co/d/0cPZM8YAJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Parenting #Teenagers #Christian

Can memes really reflect our deepest beliefs? Join us on this insightful episode of Calibrate Conversations as we unpack the intersection of LGBTQ theology and modern expressions of sexuality during Pride Month. We begin by analyzing the significance of memes from both LGBTQ and Christian perspectives, uncovering their theological implications. From discussing the notion that God made trans people to participate in creation to critiquing the "Sparkle Creed," we emphasize the necessity of aligning our beliefs with biblical teachings and the transformative power of the gospel.In our second segment, we tackle the delicate art of communicating about sensitive issues, especially online and within personal relationships. We emphasize the importance of timing, tone, and context, providing practical advice on how to navigate difficult conversations—whether addressing a loved one’s struggles with sin or interacting on social media. By scrutinizing harsh memes and comments, we challenge whether these truly bring people closer to Jesus or inadvertently harm relationships and witness.Finally, we confront the sensitive topic of LGBTQ pride from a Christian perspective, exploring the biblical concept of pride as sin. We question the effectiveness of critical or mocking social media posts about LGBTQ pride, urging listeners to consider whether such content aligns with Ephesians 4:29. Through self-reflection and communication that fosters humility, kindness, and grace, we aim to build others up and offer grace to all who hear. TIMESTAMP:(00:16) Navigating Theology and Communication(11:08) Navigating LGBTQ Conversations Online(23:54) Reconsidering Messaging(33:37) Promoting Humility and GraceJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

What happens when a dedicated pastor, educator, and community leader like Pastor Dustin Alley faces the brink of exhaustion? Join us on Calibrate Conversations as Dustin shares his transformative journey from near burnout to spiritual renewal through the powerful scripture of John 15:3-4. Discover how this revelation redefined his mission and fueled his passion for the Men After God Network, aimed at fostering better husbands, fathers, and community leaders for God's kingdom.Faith is a dynamic journey, much like marriage, requiring intentional and varied practices to maintain vibrancy. Pastor Dustin reflects on the evolving nature of one's relationship with Jesus and the crucial balance needed to avoid spiritual burnout. This episode highlights the beauty of diverse spiritual practices, whether through worship, prayer, or just being in God's presence, and the importance of understanding one's personal identity in Christ. Learn how different personalities can harmoniously contribute to the faith community, enhancing the strength of the church and its mission.Family devotion and emotional connection take center stage as we discuss the vital role fathers play in their children's spiritual and emotional growth. Pastor Dustin shares practical examples of intentional family time, emphasizing the significance of listening to and supporting teenagers, especially as they navigate challenges like sexual identity. This episode underscores the necessity of serving others while prioritizing self-care to prevent burnout, offering valuable insights for building strong family bonds and fostering personal growth within the local church and community.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Embracing God's Standard for Sexuality(13:22) Deepening Your Relationship With Jesus(19:35) Family Devotion and Emotional Connection(29:28) Importance of Family, Listening, and Self-Care(41:31) Importance of Serving and RestingJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Manhood #Masculinity #Jesus #God #Bible

Can a marriage serve as a cure for deep-seated sexual sin? Join us as we tackle this provocative question by scrutinizing the controversial theology of Doug Wilson, founder of Christ Church in Moscow, Idaho. We dissect Wilson's troubling views on marriage and gender roles, such as his belief that women should be controlled by their fathers until marriage and that they should avoid questioning their relationships. Balancing this, we advocate for a healthier complementarian approach that champions mutual respect and communication. Additionally, we broaden our discussion to examine how these issues relate to broader theological concerns, including same-sex attraction and marriage, promoting equality and respect in all relationships.Moreover, we unravel the flawed notion that marriage can fix sexual sin through a heartbreaking case where Wilson arranged a marriage for a man with a history of sexual abuse. Personal anecdotes and critical analysis reveal the dangers of expecting a spouse to heal profound personal issues. Highlighting the necessity of genuine repentance and transformation before entering marriage, we emphasize the vital role of discipleship and sanctification in true healing. Listen as we advocate for marriages rooted in self-giving love, accountability, and heart-level ministry, challenging harmful beliefs and encouraging a healthier, Christ-centered approach to sexuality and relationships.TIMESTAMPS:(00:16) Unraveling Doug Wilson's Controversial Theology(09:50) Expecting Marriage to Cure Sexual Sin(15:23) Transforming Sexuality Through Discipleship and SanctificationJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#DougWilson #Theology #Abuse #Christianity #DouglasWilson