Let's Talk Relationships

Beatrice Rosu

The Let’s Talk Relationships podcast, hosted by Beatrice Rosu is a place where real conversations about all things relationships can be had. Let’s face it—dating in the modern age is interesting, confusing and can be downright discouraging. This is a space where we’ll learn together from everyday people (like you and me!) along with some experts on what makes (and maintains) a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Come along as we learn together how to cultivate meaningful connections from a place of confidence, openness & self-assurance.


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EP 17: Why Healthy Love Can Feel Terrifying & Confronting with Coach Emily Gough
Mar 13 2024
EP 17: Why Healthy Love Can Feel Terrifying & Confronting with Coach Emily Gough
In this episode, we're diving deep into the fascinating journey of navigating healthy relationships while staying true to ourselves. Join me as I chat with Emily Goff, a human connection specialist, where we uncover common myths about love and highlight the importance of personal growth, self-awareness, and staying genuine in building meaningful connections. We'll tackle tough topics like breaking free from toxic relationships, facing our fears head-on, and even exploring the idea of 'confident detachment.' Plus, we'll dig into the empowering effects of embracing our true selves and how it can transform our relationships. Throughout our conversation, we'll touch on the raw emotions of vulnerability, the beauty of maintaining our individuality in partnerships, and the valuable lessons we learn from conflicts. So, if you're ready for a journey of self-discovery and relationship growth, hop on board and let's explore together!About Emily GoughEmily Gough is a human connection coach, author of the book You Grow Me, speaker and host/founder of the respected top 200 Room to Grow™ Podcast. Fuelled by insatiable curiosity for the nuance and complexities of relationships and the human experience, she takes a holistic mind/body approach using the psychology and physiology of emotions to give you the guidance, real-life tools and perspective you need to take ownership of your life, revolutionize your relationship to yourself, and create thriving connections with others.An old soul, Emily’s style of both teaching and coaching combines powerful insights and wisdom with a playful attitude and sense of humour. With features in well-known publications like Forbes and interviews on dozens of podcasts, Emily is sought after for her compassionate, direct and genuine approach. Connect with Emily at emilygoughcoaching.com or on IG @emilygoughcoach.Resources:Work with Emily: emilygoughcoaching.com Listen to Emily's Podcast:  Room to Grow™ PodcastGet Couples coachingInstagram: @emilygoughcoachBuy the book You Grow Me here ____________________________________________________--01:48 Emily's Personal Journey: From Corporate to Coaching02:49 The Shocking Revelation: Betrayal and a New Beginning04:02 Embracing Personal Responsibility in Healing04:51 Transitioning to Relationship Work: Finding Purpose10:43 The Power of Language and Personal Responsibility in Relationships17:09 Understanding Healthy Love: Expectations vs. Reality18:56 The Importance of Self-Connection and Recognizing Healthy Dynamics20:58 Redefining Relationship Goals: Beyond the Checklist31:56 Embracing the Unexpected: Staying Open to Love35:05 Embracing Growth in Relationships35:58 The Power of 'You Grow Me' Philosophy36:40 Navigating Conflicts as Opportunities for Growth37:16 The Importance of Self-Trust and Reassurance37:40 Challenging the 'Strong Independent' Narrative37:57 Creating Interdependence and Openness38:16 Questions for Self-Reflection and Growth48:33 The Role of Fear in Relationships48:38 Rethinking Attachment Styles and LInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 16: Men Who Heal: A Candid Conversation with Matthew Pool
Mar 6 2024
EP 16: Men Who Heal: A Candid Conversation with Matthew Pool
In this heartfelt episode of 'Let's Talk Relationships,' I sit down with the insightful Matthew Poole, who candidly shares his transformative journey, starting from his weight loss to the lessons learned from his marriage, divorce, and current dating experiences. Matthew underscores the significance of vulnerability and self-growth in nurturing meaningful connections. He delves into the complexities of love, unpacks his personal insecurities, and reflects on the consequences of not addressing inner struggles before and during his marriage. Matthew opens up about the hurdles of post-divorce dating, particularly in finding a partner who shares his commitment to growth and faith. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the necessity of effort in relationships, the pivotal role of therapy, and the power of introspection in fostering personal healing. Join us for insightful reflections and valuable lessons on self-improvement and cultivating fulfilling relationships.About Matthew Pool:Matthew Pool, a native Texan and graduate of Dallas Baptist University, is a construction sales consultant and athlete with a heart for community service. He's deeply involved in Austin organizations like Hope for the Hungry and Operation Liberty Hill, showcasing his commitment to the last, the lost, the least, and the lonely. Matthew's transformative journey from over 300 pounds in 2016 to under 185 pounds in 2024 reflects his resilience and dedication to personal growth. As a driven leader, he empowers others through relational leadership, recognizing the value of every individual in both business and community endeavors.00:00 Introduction and Guest Arrival01:11 Getting to Know Matthew Poole02:18 Matthew's Personal Journey and Transformation02:58 Diving into Relationship Discussions03:12 Matthew's Past Relationship and Lessons Learned03:42 The Impact of Personal Trauma on Relationships04:09 The Breakdown of Matthew's Marriage05:44 Reflections on Relationship Failures and Growth07:24 The Role of Pride and Culture in Relationships08:10 The Importance of Effort and Commitment in Relationships11:51 The Struggles of Balancing Personal and Relationship Needs12:26 The Impact of Unresolved Personal Issues on Relationships13:06 The Importance of Prioritizing Relationships15:46 The Challenges Men Face in Relationships17:44 The Role of Fatherlessness and Culture in Men's Relationship Struggles20:52 The Need for Open Communication and Support in Relationships28:14 The Struggles of Communication in Relationships28:32 The Importance of Deep and Meaningful Connections28:54 The Role of Men in Society and Relationships29:22 The Impact of Cultural Norms and Expectations29:49 The Misalignment of Values and Actions31:15 The Misconceptions and Realities of Marriage33:00 The Dangers of Pornography in Relationships34:30 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Growth35:03 The Impact of Busyness on Relationships35:34 The Importance of Intentionality in Singleness36:29 The Importance of Self-Work in Relationships43:07 The Importance of Knowing, Caring, and Serving in Relationships43:18 The Importance of Therapy and Strong Friendships45:31 The Challenges of Dating After Growth45:50 The Struggles of Dating as a Mature Christian46:48 The Importance of Being Open and Honest in Dating51:54 The Importance of Learning from Past RelationshipsInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 15: The Four Letter Word No One Wants to Talk About: Porn. With Jessica Indries
Feb 28 2024
EP 15: The Four Letter Word No One Wants to Talk About: Porn. With Jessica Indries
In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships, we delve into the profound and often overlooked effects of pornography addiction, particularly within the Christian community. Our guest, Jes Indries, bravely shares her personal journey, unveiling the insecurities and fears that underpin such struggles. Together, we explore the intricate ways pornography impacts relationships, fostering emotional distance and cultivating unrealistic expectations. Through candid discussion, we strive to break down the stigma surrounding this issue, advocating for openness and embracing God's unconditional love and acceptance.About Jessica IndriesJessica Indries is a Fashion Designer with a background in branding, graphic design, and the apparel industry. Beyond her professional pursuits, she is also dedicated to her family and committed to helping others break free from generational patterns and past traumas to realize their full potential.One significant aspect of Jessica's journey to healing is her involvement in the REMEDY program, a faith-centered recovery program designed to assist individuals in addressing past trauma and unhealthy coping habits. Through this program, she has learned practical tools to process her unaddressed trauma. Jessica is enthusiastic about sharing helpful resources with others on their journey to healing and has made the 'Wheel of Feelings,' a tool from REMEDY, available for free on her website: http://www.wewhoinfluence.com/resources/p/the-wheel-of-feelingsTo stay updated on Jessica's journey and to explore the intersection of healing and influence further, you can follow her personal account on social media (@jesindries) and tune in to her upcoming podcast, "We Who Influence" (@wewhoinfluence). Through her podcast, Jessica will be exploring the intersection of healing and influence in our world.Social Accounts: @JesIndries@WeWhoInfluenceWebsite:  www.WeWhoInfluence.comNOTES:Atlas of the Heart - Brene BrownConnor Beaton - Man Talks ________________________________________________________________00:00 Introduction to the Topic: The Impact of Pornography00:25 Guest Introduction: Jess Shares Her Story01:03 The Prevalence of Pornography in Society01:44 Jess's Personal Journey with Porn Addiction03:11 The Church's Approach to Sex and Pornography04:20 The Connection Between Porn and Other Addictions05:55 The Role of Shame in Porn Addiction06:08 The Impact of Porn Addiction on Women10:41 The Role of Fear and Rejection in Addiction15:19 The Importance of Emotional Awareness in Overcoming Addiction25:58 The Impact of Porn Addiction on Relationships30:25 The Struggle with Addiction31:35 The Importance of Emotional Intimacy32:05 The Taboo of Sex in Church32:44 The Power of Open Communication32:57 The Impact of Premarital Sex33:20 The Spiritual Aspect of Sex34:10 The Misconceptions about Sex34:47 The ConsequenceInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 14: Why Our Attraction to Dysfunction, Toxicity and Unhealth is Hurting Us with Dr. Alexia Holovatyk
Feb 21 2024
EP 14: Why Our Attraction to Dysfunction, Toxicity and Unhealth is Hurting Us with Dr. Alexia Holovatyk
Back with another episode on relationships, and this time, I'm joined by the amazing Dr. Alexia Holovatyk! We dive deep into the mystery of why we're often drawn to those who seem emotionally unavailable. Using the lens of attachment theory, we unpack why these patterns persist and, more importantly, how we can break free to find healthier connections. We chat about the power of self-awareness, making mindful choices, and understanding how our past shapes our present. Plus, we get real about the importance of checking in with ourselves during those nerve-wracking dates. Tune in for some serious relationship wisdom! About Alexia Holovatyk Dr. Alexia Holovatyk is a licensed clinical psychologist with a nearly a decade of experience helping women navigate relationships and identifying the root cause of their attachment issues. She is the founder of Live Well Psychology Group, a private practice located in West Los Angeles, and co-founder of the Self-Healing Toolkit, an integrative online course and community, designed to help women heal from stress and trauma. She is also an advisor to Alurx, a behavioral health app, working to help people develop healthy habits to better cope with stress. www.livewellpsychologygroup.comdr.alexia@livewellpsychologygroup.com00:00 Introduction and Topic Reveal00:24 Understanding Attraction to Unavailable People02:22 Guest's Perspective on Attraction03:44 Exploring the Concept of 'Spark' in Relationships09:19 The Role of Self-Perception in Attraction12:30 The Impact of Availability in Attraction14:10 The Fear of Commitment and Its Influence on Attraction17:51 The Role of Excitement in Attraction25:27 Understanding the Meaning of 'Boredom' in Relationships26:54 Understanding the Dynamics of Dating27:30 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Relationships28:35 The Layers of Dating and Attraction32:16 The Role of Environment in Sparking Chemistry35:43 The Highs and Lows of Toxic Relationships39:07 The Reality of Love and Relationships42:56 The Choice and Loss in Commitment46:40 Navigating the Dating World49:11 Final Thoughts and Wrap UpInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 13: Why Dating as a Christian is so Challenging With Dating Coach Mel New
Feb 7 2024
EP 13: Why Dating as a Christian is so Challenging With Dating Coach Mel New
In this week's episode, I sat down with special guest Mel New, a dating coach and the founder of 'If You Know, You Know' dating.  Together, we delve into the unique challenges Christian singles face in today's dating landscape. From navigating the pitfalls of social media to honing in on effective communication, we share personal anecdotes and practical advice to help you find love while staying true to your faith. Mel's passion for connecting people shines through as she reveals the inspiration behind her innovative 'mixers,' offering a glimpse into a world where meaningful connections flourish. Join us for an intimate conversation where faith, love, and personal growth intersect, offering guidance and camaraderie along the journey.About Mel NewMel New is the founder and owner of IYKYK Dating, a Christian dating coach, and runs a singles community with over 5000 members across the USA. Mel's own dating struggles with dating anxiety led her to develop a strong understanding of healthy dating relationship dynamics. Her approach is grounded in a strong biblical worldview, which emphasizes the importance of knowing true identity in Christ for a peaceful, enjoyable dating experience.  With over 80 first dates, trial and error, and eventually successfully implementing these concepts in her own life, Mel has honed her skills and expertise in helping anxious Christian women who overanalyze dating, uncover their stumbling blocks, and attract and maintain healthy, loving relationships.Instagram: IFYKYK Dating https://www.christiandatingworkshop.com/ Book a Call With Mel00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:47 Guest's Journey into Dating Coaching02:55 The Concept of Mixers and Dating Coaching05:23 The Challenges of Modern Dating05:59 The Impact of Technology on Dating09:52 The Role of Online Dating13:14 The Importance of Connection in Dating15:00 The Challenges of Online Dating17:13 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Dating25:28 The Lost Art of Dating25:35 Challenges in the Christian Dating Scene26:12 Understanding Gender Roles in Dating27:15 The Impact of Society's Expectations on Dating29:02 The Importance of Advocating for Yourself in Dating29:57 The Role of the Church in Christian Dating31:12 The Importance of Communication and Confidence in Dating33:03 The Role of Faith in Dating35:12 The Need for More Singles Ministries in Churches37:24 The Importance of Intentionality in Dating39:10 The Role of Discipline and Self-Improvement in Dating52:38 The Need for Better Dating Advice in Churches55:16 Final Thoughts on Christian DatingInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 12: An Honest Conversation with Alexis Andra on Divorce and Healing
Jan 31 2024
EP 12: An Honest Conversation with Alexis Andra on Divorce and Healing
This week's episode, I sat down with a dear friend Alexis Andra. We've been friends for over a decade and I am honored that she was open and willing to share her journey with divorce and how that has impacted her life. She dives deep into the emotional struggles she faced during her relationship, how her faith was affected, and the process of healing. She shares valuable insights on the importance of inner work, self-acceptance, and seeking counseling. Alexis also offers advice for her younger self and others navigating similar experiences. Throughout this meaningful discussion, Alexis's resilience and candidness paint a picture of growth and understanding, making it a must-watch for anyone looking for encouragement and wisdom in relationship challenges.About Alexis Andra: Alexis Andra is the creative force behind The Shift Creative, a marketing agency specializing in brand narratives through innovative sets, experiences, and digital campaigns. With a background in psychology and a deep faith, Alexis is also a motivational speaker and writer. Her remarkable journey from childhood adversity to entrepreneurial success, marriage, and eventual divorce underscores her resilience and determination.  Through her work and her words, she endeavors to instill hope and remind others that even in the midst of pain, there is profound purpose waiting to be discovered.Insta: @alexisnandra business: @theshiftcreative www.theshiftcreative.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Presentation00:58 Reminiscing Old Times and Friendship02:36 Memories of Shared Experiences03:45 Discussing Professional Life and Career04:30 Diving into Personal Life and Relationships05:21 Reflecting on the End of a Relationship05:31 Exploring the Aftermath of Separation07:17 Understanding the Importance of Individual Growth10:08 Discussing the Role of Faith in Relationships11:44 The Importance of Emotional Depth in Relationships13:38 The Struggles of Balancing Personal and Professional Life17:35 The Role of Counseling in Relationships23:59 The Impact of Divorce on Faith and Self-Perception26:10 Struggles with Faith and Church26:48 Feeling Hurt by the Church27:31 The Importance of Love and Disagreement32:51 The Impact of Gossip35:42 The Decision to Divorce38:59 The Aftermath of Divorce41:30 Reflections and Lessons Learned46:27 The Power of Apology and Healing49:45 Final Thoughts and GratitudeInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 10: The Expectation Trap: How Unrealistic Ideals Impact Our Dating Life with Jeremiah Carter
Dec 12 2023
EP 10: The Expectation Trap: How Unrealistic Ideals Impact Our Dating Life with Jeremiah Carter
In this candid conversation, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Jeremiah Carter (what a strong name!). If you're seeking a male perspective on dating and relationships, look no further. The good guys do exist, I promise. Together, we delve into the male experience navigating today's complex dating landscape amidst cancel culture. Jeremiah opens up about his personal journey with therapy, providing valuable insights into the challenges and growth he has encountered. Our conversation also explores societal expectations placed on both men and women, shedding light on the nuances of these dynamics. Jeremiah shares candidly about his own dating journey, offering a genuine and relatable perspective. We even talk about toxic relationships and why they are so intoxicating. About Jeremiah CarterJeremiah Carter, a former athlete, navigated through diverse career paths prompted by injuries that altered the trajectory of his professional life. Presently, he dedicates his time to nurturing the growth of Street Kings FC, his street soccer brand designed to positively impact the lives of children. Alongside his commitment to community development, Jeremiah engages in the art of storytelling through his voice acting and acting endeavors. Hailing from Nashville, Tennessee, he humorously admits to not having a fixed geographical anchor for his home base, embodying the dynamic and adventurous spirit that characterizes his journey.https://www.instagram.com/jmiahcarter/https://www.instagram.com/streetkings_fc/00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:35 Discussing the Difficulty of Scheduling the Interview00:57 How the Podcast Topic Came About01:15 Discussing the Post that Sparked the Conversation02:02 The Decision to Record a Podcast on the Topic02:14 Reflecting on the Initial Social Media Interaction03:33 Discussing the Challenges Men Face in Modern Relationships04:51 The Importance of Understanding One's Truth05:01 The Role of Chivalry in Modern Dating06:23 The Impact of Unrealistic Expectations in Dating06:48 The Influence of Dating Apps and Options on Commitment11:08 The Importance of Shared Principles in a Relationship12:19 The Challenges of Navigating Modern Dating13:54 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Dating17:18 The Dangers of Projecting Desired Traits onto Potential Partners25:37 The Impact of Fear and Insecurity on Dating Choices35:05 The Struggles of Dating in a Social Media Dominated World38:38 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Dating42:04 The Shift from High to Low Self-Esteem42:36 The Importance of Humility and Genuine Interest43:30 The Dangers of High Self-Esteem and Criminal Behavior44:01 The Power of Engaging with the World44:56 The Pitfalls of Self-Help and the Enneagram45:53 The Role of Passion and Giftedness in Life46:36 The Biblical Perspective on Calling and Purpose47:28 The Importance of Stepping into God's Calling48:07 The Power of God in Our Weakness48:47 The Pursuit of Relationships and Dating49:38 The Importance of Character in Dating01:02:06 The Dangers of Love Bombing in Relationships01:03:29 The Value of Simple First Dates01:05:33 The Importance of Being Yourself in Relationships01:11:39 The Power of Time and Truth in Relationships01:14:02 The Importance of Communication in Relationships01:14:53 The Role of Expectations in RelationshipsInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 9: Understanding Attachment Theory: Insights from Dr. Alexia Holovatyk
Dec 5 2023
EP 9: Understanding Attachment Theory: Insights from Dr. Alexia Holovatyk
In this episode, I sat down with friend and psychologist, Dr. Alexia Holovatyk to break down the Attachment Theory. Together, we unravel the many layers of the Attachment Theory, a concept that has gained prominence in recent years. We dive into the profound impact of childhood attachment styles on adult relationships, exploring patterns associated with anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure attachments. Alexia provides practical insights on fostering a secure attachment style through enhanced self-awareness, compassionate self-talk, and effective communication of needs. Join us on this journey toward building meaningful connections, where we highlight the significance of cultivating a secure attachment with oneself as a foundational step to nurturing secure relationships with others. About Dr. Alexia Holovatyk Dr. Alexia Holovatyk is a licensed clinical psychologist with nearly a decade of experience helping women navigate relationships and identifying the root cause of their attachment issues. She is the founder of Live Well Psychology Group, a private practice located in West Los Angeles, and co-founder of the Self-Healing Toolkit, an integrative online course and community, designed to help women heal from stress and trauma. She is also an advisor to Alurx, a behavioral health app, working to help people develop healthy habits to better cope with stress. Instagram & tik tok- @dr.alexiah www.livewellpsychologygroup.comwww.theselfhealingtoolkit.com______________________________________________________00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:08 The Impact of Attachment Theory03:19 Understanding Attachment Theory05:31 Exploring Different Attachment Styles11:37 The Impact of Attachment Styles on Relationships12:02 How Attachment Styles Play Out in Adult Relationships12:29 Personal Experiences with Attachment Theory13:51 The Healing Power of Understanding Your Attachment Style18:26 The Role of Communication in Addressing Attachment Needs24:40 The Attraction Between Different Attachment Styles27:46 Understanding the Draw Towards Growth and Healing in Relationships28:16 Exploring the Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles28:52 The Difference Between Connection and Intimacy29:43 The Fear of Abandonment in Anxious Attachment31:14 The Cycle of Anxious and Avoidant Attachment in Relationships32:01 The Role of Awareness in Breaking the Push-Pull Cycle34:46 The Journey Towards Secure Attachment35:14 Understanding Disorganized Attachment35:59 The Importance of Self-Regulation in Attachment Styles37:41 The Importance of Self-Care in Attachment Styles39:20 The Role of Communication in Secure Attachment39:32 The Possibility of Changing Attachment Styles48:27 The Role of Triggers in Attachment Styles49:13 The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner for Growth50:27 Closing Remarks and Contact InformationInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 8: Dating in Your Healing Era with Cory Camp
Nov 28 2023
EP 8: Dating in Your Healing Era with Cory Camp
In this episode of 'Let's Talk Relationships,' I'm thrilled to have Cory Camp as my guest. We get real about personal growth, navigating the dating scene, and truly understanding ourselves. Cory shares his journey, moving beyond the identity of a sportsman and creating 'Forever Athlete,' a platform aiding athletes in their transition to life after sports. Join us as we dive into self-discovery, conflict resolution, the nuances of modern dating, taking emotional risks, and the significance living from our God-given identities. Plus, we tackle the intriguing dynamics of making the first move from both male and female perspectives.About Cory CampCory Camp is a curious community builder that’s on a mission to help eliminate isolation after sports. A former nationally ranked swimmer turned Forever Athlete, Cory has spent much of his time following a successful career at the University of Delaware bringing the sports “zone” into daily life.This lead to founding Forever Athlete, a social club designed to bring athletes from all backgrounds together in consistent community. From flag football tournaments to weekly workouts & fellowship, Forever Athlete is focused on giving a space for athletes of all to play again.Links: https://www.instagram.com/corycamp/https://www.foreverathletesocialclub.com/home_____________________________________________________00:00 Introductions01:18 Cory's Journey and His Company, Forever Athlete03:05 The Importance of Vulnerability and Authenticity03:51 The Role of Podcasting in Cory's Growth05:34 Transitioning from Acknowledging Problems to Taking Action06:11 Navigating the Dating World Post-Growth09:38 The Value of Building Strong Friendships14:13 The Impact of Ghosting and the Importance of Clear Communication23:39 The Fear Behind Men's Reluctance to Open Up28:22 Understanding the Nuances of Relationships29:10 The Role of Expectations in Relationships29:43 The Importance of Time and Patience in Cultivating Relationships32:43 The Fear of Heartbreak and Its Impact on Relationships33:32 The Role of Identity and Self-Understanding in Relationships45:34 The Importance of Conflict Resolution in Relationships50:19 The Role of Social Media in Modern Dating53:33 The Importance of Clear Communication in Dating54:57 Final Thoughts on Relationships and DatingInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 7: Why Doing "The Work" Really Matters with Ash Meaney
Nov 21 2023
EP 7: Why Doing "The Work" Really Matters with Ash Meaney
In this candid episode, I sit down with Ash Meaney, a seasoned pastor with over 20 years of experience. We dive deep into the real work behind building healthy relationships, exploring the nuances of the healing journey. Ash, ordained as an Anglican priest, shares valuable insights from his extensive background in soul care, inner healing, and spiritual direction. We discuss the unspoken expectations that often harm relationships and marriages, delving into the necessity of unlearning to foster genuine connections. With over 30 years of marriage, Ash provides down-to-earth wisdom on making love last. Join us for a genuine conversation about the messy, beautiful path to love and healing. Show Notes: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero About Ash MeaneyAsh has over 20 years of experience pastoring, preaching, and caring for people. He received his seminary training at Ridley Hall College, Cambridge UK, and was ordained as an Anglican priest, becoming involved in leadership and pastoral care in the church planting movement in London. After moving to Southern California in 2012, he continued to pastor in the non-denominational church. Ash specializes in soul care, inner healing, spiritual direction, and contemplative prayer and is passionate to see people being healed and transformed by the love of God. He’s been married to Sibs for over 30 years and they have three adult children. Together they are founders of Eremos Place is a ministry dedicated to holistic healing.Links https://www.eremosplace.com/Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 2: A Pastor's Wisdom: Navigating Love in LA with Logan Lee
Oct 17 2023
EP 2: A Pastor's Wisdom: Navigating Love in LA with Logan Lee
Welcome back to 'Let's Talk Relationships'! Today we're dropping the second episode with our special guest, Logan Lee, lead pastor of Ignite LA Church. Together, we delve deeper into the complexities of dating and relationships in Los Angeles, a city that's constantly in flux. In our engaging conversation, we explore how LA's transient lifestyle and diverse culture shape its unique dating scene. We share valuable insights into finding guidance and forming lasting connections in the midst of the city's ever-changing landscape. Join us as we uncover the secrets of navigating LA's intricate dating culture and building fulfilling, stable relationships in this vibrant metropolis ABOUT Logan Lee: Logan Lee is the Lead Pastor of Ignite LA Church - A new church in the heart of the city of Los Angeles - that he planted in September 2022 along with his wife, Pastor Gabriella.Originally from Omaha, Nebraska, Logan moved to SoCal in 2020, with a vision to launch a church that would Impact Los Angeles with the Gospel, Ignite a movement of the Holy Spirit, and Influence the Nations with the love of Jesus!Logan attended Southeastern University in Lakeland, Florida, majoring in Journalism and minoring in Theology. He is passionate about seeing the local church living on mission, by reaching the lost for Jesus in a post-Christian, West Coast context.Links:https://www.instagram.com/loganlee.la/https://ignitelachurch.orgShow Notes:Calling in the One - Katherine Woodward ThomasMeaning of Marriage - Tim KellerInstagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
EP 1: The Dating Dilemma: A Candid Conversation with Steezus
Oct 10 2023
EP 1: The Dating Dilemma: A Candid Conversation with Steezus
Welcome to the very first episode of "Let's Talk Relationships." I'm super excited because today, we're diving deep into the dating scene, and I've got a fantastic guest with me—DeWayne McMurry, or as many of you might know him, "Steezus."Together, we explore our personal dating experiences, sharing the stories and transformations that have shaped us. But this episode isn't just about our own journeys; it's also an eye-opening discussion about the dating scene in the bustling city of Los Angeles. We dissect the challenges, frustrations, and intricacies that make dating in LA uniquely perplexing. DeWayne McMurry, widely known as “Steezus”, has amassed a remarkable influence in the skateboarding, sneaker and streetwear communities. Building a reputation as a trusted voice through digital content creation, DeWayne utilizes his platforms to entertain and inspire his audience. As a strong advocate of mental health, raising awareness on the often-taboo topic, particularly from the perspective of a Black male in America, is a vital part of DeWayne’s messaging. His expertise in content creation and social media strategy has made him a go-to resource for a number of established businesses, and continues to extend beyond the digital realm.So, with his unique insights and experiences, you can bet this episode is going to be an eye-opener when it comes to understanding the crazy world of dating and relationships. Buckle up, folks; it's going to be a fun ride!_________________________________________________________Links: https://www.instagram.com/_steezuschrist/Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/