Put Em On The Couch

Michael Jason McCoy

Welcome to ’Put Em on the Couch,’ the podcast where hosts Nelson Beaulieu and Jason McCoy invite you to explore every nook and cranny of this thing called life. Listen weekly as long-time friends and educators, embark on a variety of evocative discussions and fun thought experiments. Who knows, you may even come away happier and smarter. read less
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Confidence Men: The Art of the Con
5d ago
Confidence Men: The Art of the Con
Episode 76: The Art of the Con – Exploring the Psychology and Tactics Behind Famous Con Artists In this gripping episode of Put Em On The Couch, hosts Jason McCoy and Nelson Beaulieu take a deep dive into the world of con artists—those charismatic manipulators who make deception an art form. From 19th-century fraudsters like Samuel Thompson to modern-day scammers like Anna Sorokin (aka Anna Delvy), this episode explores the fascinating techniques and psychology behind the perfect con. We break down the lives of some of history's most infamous conmen, including the legendary Ferdinand Waldo Demara, who successfully posed as a Canadian Navy surgeon, a prison warden, and even a college professor. We also explore the motivations behind cons like the "Nigerian Prince" scam and discuss the fascinating charisma that makes con artists so compelling. Whether you're curious about the psychology of persuasion, the traits that make a successful conman, or why we sometimes idolize these criminals, this episode has it all. We explore classic cons, modern scams, and discuss how confidence and charm play a pivotal role in pulling off the perfect deception. Plus, we get into the psychology behind successful cons, such as the "foot-in-the-door" technique, and debate whether even conmen can get conned themselves. This episode is a must-listen for anyone intrigued by human behavior, persuasion, or the fascinating world of deception. Listen now to discover: The story of Samuel Thompson, New York’s first “confidence man”The psychology of persuasion and the dark triad of personality traitsHow Anna Sorokin conned her way into the high society and landed on Dancing with the StarsWhy con artists like Frank Abagnale and Ferdinand Waldo Demara are so compelling Like, share, and subscribe to Put Em On The Couch for more deep dives into the minds of fascinating figures in history!
Sleep on the Couch
Oct 19 2024
Sleep on the Couch
Episode 71: The Science and Secrets of Sleep on Sleep on the Couch In this episode of Sleep on the Couch, hosts Jason and Nelson dive deep into the fascinating world of sleep. With insights drawn from historical perspectives and modern research, they explore our love-hate relationship with sleep, the evolution of sleep patterns, and the implications of our increasingly demanding schedules. Key Topics Covered: Historical Perspectives: Discover how our ancestors approached sleep and how this has evolved in modern society.Circadian Rhythms: Learn about the importance of our biological clocks and how they impact our daily lives, especially for adolescents.Fascinating Studies: Hear about Nathaniel Kleitman's groundbreaking cave study and its implications for our understanding of sleep cycles.Health Risks: Understand the serious health risks associated with sleep deprivation, including increased susceptibility to heart disease, diabetes, and more.Improving Sleep Quality: Get practical tips on enhancing your sleep hygiene, from caffeine consumption to the impact of blue light.Dreams and Parasomnias: Delve into the mysteries of dreaming, including REM sleep, lucid dreaming, and the intriguing world of sleep disorders. Join us as we unravel the complexities of sleep, challenge common misconceptions, and share personal anecdotes that resonate with anyone navigating the demands of modern life. Whether you struggle to find the right balance or are simply curious about the science behind sleep, this episode offers valuable insights for everyone. If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review Sleep on the Couch on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and continue to explore the fascinating world of sleep! Have a question or a topic you’d like us to cover? Connect with us on social media or visit our website to share your thoughts. Sleep well, and join us next week for more insights!
Power on the Couch
Sep 8 2024
Power on the Couch
Title: Power on the Couch: Unpacking Influence, Wealth, and Responsibility Description: In this episode of Put Em On The Couch, hosts Jason McCoy and Nelson Beaulieu dissect the multifaceted nature of power. From understanding how influence shapes behavior and society to exploring the effects of wealth on honesty, this episode covers it all. We compare Machiavellian tactics with cooperative strategies, delve into historical and modern perspectives on power, and discuss the role of gossip in holding leaders accountable. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on the dynamics of power and its implications for personal and societal responsibility. Timestamps: 1:53 – Defining Power4:30 – Different Forms of Power8:00 – Who Seeks Power? Insights from Research11:00 – Wealth and Its Impact on Behavior17:00 – Power Dynamics and Success Attribution20:00 – Benefits and Drawbacks of Power25:00 – The Role of Soft Power in Diplomacy33:00 – Power Through History45:00 – Gossip as a Check on Power48:00 – Imagining Immense Power52:00 – The Desire for Power57:00 – Political Power and Democracy61:00 – The Influence of Modern Internet Personalities65:00 – Responsibility and Voting Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode of Put Em On The Couch, don’t forget to subscribe to our podcast and leave us a review on Apple, Podbean, and/or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners! For updates on new episodes and behind-the-scenes content, follow us on [social media platforms, e.g., Twitter, Instagram, Facebook]. Have questions or topics you’d like us to cover? Reach out to us at putemonthecouch@gmail.com Thanks for tuning in!
You Know What's WEIRD?
Sep 1 2024
You Know What's WEIRD?
Episode 66: You Know What Is WEIRD? | Put Em On The Couch Podcast Welcome to the 66th episode of Put Em On The Couch! In this engaging installment, hosts Jason McCoy and Nelson Beaulieu explore the concept of "weird" through four distinct psychological lenses, providing a comprehensive analysis of what makes something appear strange or out of the ordinary. We start with a thought-provoking clip from Gov. Tim Waltz and J.D. Vance using "weird" to critique political ideas and opponents. How does the term shape our understanding and perception of various topics? Jason and Nelson delve into four key perspectives on what defines "weird": Understanding: Does the behavior or idea challenge our comprehension, making it appear "weird" simply because it is not easily understood?Norm Violation: Does the behavior or concept violate societal or cultural norms, leading us to label it as "weird"?Moral Violations: Does the behavior breach moral or legal standards, contributing to its classification as "weird"?Statistical Uniqueness: Is the behavior statistically rare or deviates from the norm, which might make it seem "weird" in comparison to the average?The episode also explores real-world examples, including RFK’s unusual fascination with roadkill and the effects of brain parasites on behavior. Insights from Dan Dennett on microorganisms that influence the brain provide an intriguing addition to our discussion. Additionally, we examine the concept of W.E.I.R.D. (Western, Educated, Industrial, Rich, Democratic) and its impact on social science and psychology. How does this framework influence our understanding and categorization of "weird" behaviors? Enjoyed the episode? Subscribe to Put Em On The Couch for more in-depth explorations of complex topics! If you found this episode insightful, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform—it helps us reach more curious listeners. Follow us on social media and join the conversation! Keywords: weirdness, psychological lenses, political rhetoric, clinical psychology, James Joyce, brain parasites, RFK, Dan Dennett, W.E.I.R.D., social science, human behavior, understanding norms, moral violations, statistical uniqueness Hashtags: #Weirdness #PsychologicalLenses #PoliticalRhetoric #ClinicalPsychology #JamesJoyce #BrainParasites #RFK #DanDennett #WEIRD #SocialScience #HumanBehavior
Teachers Unite: A Conversation With Jen Mangrum
Aug 25 2024
Teachers Unite: A Conversation With Jen Mangrum
In this episode of Put Em On The Couch, titled "Teachers Unite! A Conversation with Jen Mangrum," host Jason McCoy explores the pressing issues facing public education in North Carolina. With teacher vacancies skyrocketing, morale at an all-time low, and funding falling short, the state's education system is in crisis. We’ll dive into the challenges—like dwindling teacher pipelines, stagnant pay, and the struggle to secure necessary resources—while also examining the efforts of advocates like Brian Proffit, VP of the NCAE, who are sounding the alarm on these critical issues. We’ll also discuss the role of state leaders such as Phil Berger and the implications of the Leandro Ruling on the future of public education in the state. Our special guest, Dr. Jen Mangrum, a veteran educator and newly appointed leader with the American Federation of Teachers (#AFT), joins us to discuss her bold new role in driving reform. Dr. Mangrum will share her insights on the current state of public education, her mission to support educators, and what actions can be taken to improve the system. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the challenges and solutions facing North Carolina’s public schools and hear from a key figure dedicated to making a difference.   To learn more about the AFT and/or what you can do to support public education, email Jen Mangrum at aft.jennifer@gmail.com or Jason McCoy at putemonthecouch@gmail.com and/or visit the AFT website at aft.org   Keywords & Hashtags: #NCAE #AFT #TeachersUnite #PublicSchools #EducationReform #TeacherSupport #CollectiveBargaining #SchoolChoice #TeacherMorale #NorthCarolinaEducation #RandiWeingarten #EducationCrisis #TeacherVacancies #TeacherPay #EducationAdvocacy #JenMangrum #EducationEquity #RedForEd #TeacherUnion #PublicEducation #PhilBerger #LeandroRuling
Sliver Medal Blues: Why Runners Up Feel Like Losers?
Aug 18 2024
Sliver Medal Blues: Why Runners Up Feel Like Losers?
Description: Why does coming in second often feel worse than finishing third? In this episode, we dive into the "Silver Medal Paradox," exploring why silver medalists sometimes experience more regret than bronze winners. We examine how this psychological phenomenon, tied to #ProspectTheory and #LossAversion, affects not just Olympic athletes but also talent show contestants, backup quarterbacks, and even social contexts like dating. From exploring historical examples and famous runner-up stories to analyzing reality TV and sports, we uncover why being "almost the best" can feel like a bigger letdown. We also discuss how these insights apply to everyday life, from job interviews to romantic relationships. Join us for a thought-provoking exploration of how second place impacts our emotions and perceptions of success. Keywords: #SilverMedalBlues, #SecondPlace, #ProspectTheory, #LossAversion, #RunnerUpRegret, #OlympicAthletes, #TalentContests, #RealityTV, #BackupQuarterbacks, #Dating, #SocialPsychology Call to Action: Enjoyed this episode? Please like and rate our show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts—it really helps us reach more listeners! Share this episode with friends who might enjoy it, and join the conversation on social media using #PutEmOnTheCouch. We’d love to hear from you—email us at putemonthecouch@gmail.com to comment, say hello, or send us recommendations for future shows. Your feedback and ideas are always welcome!
Why Your Best Effort Might Not Be Enough: The Hard Work Myth
Aug 3 2024
Why Your Best Effort Might Not Be Enough: The Hard Work Myth
In this eye-opening episode of Put Em On The Couch, hosts Jason and Nelson tackle the prevalent myth that hard work is the ultimate path to success. "Why Your Best Effort Might Not Be Enough: The Hard Work Myth" questions the assumption that putting in more hours and effort always leads to better results. In This Episode: The Limits of Hard Work: Discover why relentless effort doesn’t always yield success and explore the concept of “leverage” as an alternative approach.Defining Hard Work: Examine the varying interpretations of hard work and why a universal definition remains elusive.The "Rise and Grind" Fallacy: Analyze the popular mantra of working tirelessly and its potential downsides, including incentivizing unnecessary misery.Success Perspectives: Compare insights from figures like Elon Musk and Warren Buffett on whether hard work alone is the key to success.Beyond Effort: Reflect on the roles of luck, talent, and strategic decisions in achieving success. Featured Clips: Motivational speaker insightsTED Talks and news segments highlighting key themes Join Jason and Nelson as they challenge conventional beliefs about hard work and offer a new perspective on achieving success. If you’re an ambitious professional, entrepreneur, or curious about what truly drives success, this episode will provide thought-provoking insights. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Google Podcasts. Follow us on Facebook and Twitter for updates and more discussions!
For the Love of Psychology with Sue Frantz
Jun 15 2024
For the Love of Psychology with Sue Frantz
In this captivating episode of Put Em On The Couch we are joined by the passionate and insightful Sue Frantz, a veteran psychology educator with over three decades of experience. Sue shares her profound love for psychology, describing it as a "user's manual for life." She delves into the significance of understanding psychology as a fundamental tool for navigating the complexities of human behavior. Sue highlights the growing importance of undergraduate education in psychology, noting that "big schools are beginning to believe that undergraduate education is worth caring about." She emphasizes the crucial role of introductory psychology courses, likening them to psychology's "PR program," designed to captivate and inform students about the discipline's broad impact. For those aspiring to a career in psychology education, Sue recommends connecting with established professionals and suggests joining the Society for the Teaching of Psychology (STP), an accessible resource through the American Psychological Association, with annual memberships costing around $35. In a fascinating analogy, Sue describes psychology as "Volume 1 of the human user's manual," with anatomy and physiology as "Volume 2," underscoring the interconnectedness of these fields in understanding the human experience. Tune in to discover the invaluable insights Sue Frantz offers on the transformative power of psychology and the vital role of educators in shaping future generations. Whether you're a psychology enthusiast, a prospective educator, or simply curious about the field, this episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration. #putemonthecouch #SueFrantz #SocietyfortheTeachingofPsychology #MacmillianCommunityBlog #psychasusermanual4life #HighlineCollege #DouglasBernstein #StephenChew #BryanSaville #CharlesStangor #PsychOneConference #AaronRichmond #learningstyles #LillianMollerGilbreth #CharlesLindbergh #Interteaching #EricLandrum