Creating Her Best Life

Ever feel like you're living the same day over and over again? Like you're stuck in some weird, soul-sucking loop of “meh” and “whatever”? Yeah, we’ve all been there. Indifference and complacency sneak in like uninvited houseguests, making themselves comfortable while you’re too exhausted to kick them out. In this episode, we’re getting real about that numbing autopilot mode—why we fall into it, how it tricks us into thinking we’re “fine,” and, most importantly, how to break the cycle. Because let’s be honest, “fine” is just a polite way of saying “I’ve settled.” If you’ve been waiting for a sign to shake things up, this is it. It’s time to stop pressing repeat on a life you don’t love and start making moves toward something better. Let’s get into it! Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a beautifully designed digital planner and workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

You know those sneaky little thoughts that tell you, “You’re not good enough,” “You’ll never figure it out,” or “Who do you think you are?” Yeah, we’re calling those out today. In this episode, we’re breaking down how to stop letting those limiting beliefs run the show. It’s not about magically thinking positive—it’s about proving to yourself that those thoughts are flat-out wrong. We’ll talk about simple ways to create real, everyday evidence that can help you shift your mindset and start believing something new about yourself. Because let’s be honest—your brain loves to cling to old stories, even when they don’t serve you anymore. But you’ve got the power to rewrite them. So grab your coffee (or wine—we don’t judge), settle in, and let’s get real about flipping the script in your head. This is your sign to start believing in the BOSS you really are. Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a beautifully designed digital planner and workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

Life is full of challenges, but not all "hard" is created equal. In this episode of Creating Her Best Life Now, we’re redefining what hard truly means and exploring the power of choosing the hard that aligns with your long-term goals and purpose. Do you find yourself stuck in cycles of short-term gratification that leave you feeling unfulfilled? It’s time to flip the script. We’ll dive into the difference between temporary comforts and the kind of effort that leads to lasting transformation. From building healthy habits to navigating tough decisions, we’ll help you embrace the challenges that serve your growth and joy in the long run. Get ready to shift your perspective and take ownership of your choices, one intentional step at a time. Tune in and discover how to create a life where every challenge becomes a stepping stone toward your best self. Make 2025 your year with the Year of You program! Each month, join an empowering workshop designed to help you grow, refocus, and take charge of your life. Paired with a beautifully designed digital planner and workbook, this program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to create your best life—one intentional month at a time. Say goodbye to feeling stuck and hello to a year of purpose, progress, and possibility. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

In this episode, I’m sharing how to begin right where you are, even if you don’t have it all figured out. It’s about taking the next step, rewriting your story, and understanding how your thoughts shape your beliefs—and ultimately your actions (or lack of them). Let’s talk about creating your best life, one bold move at a time.

Welcome to Creating Her Best Life, the podcast where women are empowered to embrace fresh starts and step into their future with confidence. Hosted by a seasoned life coach with five years of experience, this episode dives into reframing fear as fuel for growth and taking small, intentional steps toward big changes in 2025. We'll explore the power of visualization, tackle the challenges of starting over, and introduce a new monthly workshop and 12-month program designed for immediate life transformation. Ready to create your best life? Tune in, share with a friend, and start your journey today!   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/257 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Over the past five years, this podcast has been such a special space where I’ve shared my personal experiences with weight loss and the emotional ups and downs of the diet roller coaster. It’s been my mission to help women transform their lives, embrace their bodies, and live their best lives—and it’s been one of the greatest gifts of my life. In this episode, I reflect on the incredible successes I’ve seen from the women in the Transform Boss program and share some big news about what’s coming in 2025. With a new podcast and fresh opportunities through BFLYCoaching, I’m expanding my focus to help women achieve more than weight loss, including mindset shifts, better relationships, goal setting, and overall well-being. Thank you for being part of this journey with me. I’m so grateful for each of you and can’t wait to reconnect on January 31st. Together, we’ll continue to grow, learn, and create the lives we’ve always dreamed of.

It’s time to stop waiting and start living boldly! In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to embrace your one big, beautiful, bold life—unapologetically. No more waiting for “someday.” Today is the day to step into your best self and live with purpose, passion, and courage. Whether it’s taking that first scary step, owning your story, or simply giving yourself permission to dream bigger, this episode will leave you inspired to seize the moment and make it count. Let’s do this—because now is your time! Catch the show notes for this episode at bflycoaching.com/255

Let’s talk about managing holiday overwhelm and making this season truly special without all the pressure. You don’t need a perfect holiday to have a wonderful one. Set realistic expectations, simplify where you can, and remember to take care of yourself through it all. Focus on what really matters—time with family, making memories, and finding joy in the simple moments. Let’s make this holiday season a little more meaningful and a lot less stressful.

People-pleasing might feel like keeping the peace, but it can quietly drain our energy, time, and self-worth. This episode dives into the roots of people-pleasing, why we crave approval, and the hidden toll it takes on our well-being. Discover practical steps to set healthy boundaries, nurture self-respect, and reclaim your energy for what truly matters. Tune in and learn how to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and step into a more empowered and authentic life.

Comparison has a sneaky way of robbing us of joy, making us feel like we’re always falling short. It’s easy to get caught up in what others are doing, but that mindset keeps us stuck and unfulfilled. By shifting our focus to our own progress and celebrating our personal milestones, we can reclaim our happiness. Life becomes richer when we stop measuring ourselves against others and embrace our unique journey.

In this episode, I dive into the often-overlooked aspect of weight loss: dealing with disappointment. We'll explore the emotional challenges that can arise when progress feels slow or when goals aren't met as planned. You'll learn practical strategies for managing these feelings, reframing setbacks, and staying motivated on your journey. Whether you’re facing a plateau, feeling frustrated, or simply need a fresh perspective, this episode will equip you with tools to handle disappointment and continue moving forward with grace and resilience. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/251 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen Follow me on Facebook: @bflycoaching

The real change happens in our mindset and emotional life.  If you want off the diet roller coaster part of the work is shifting your weight identity. This identity is strong and can lead you to sabotage your results.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/250 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Relationships are foundational to our lives.  They matter and can also cause a lot of stress. You may have been taught that if the other person changes then the relationship will get better. In this episode Coach Jenn and I discuss how to have better relationships and it is not what you think.    Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/249 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Relationships are the foundation of our lives including the one with yourself.  Do you have a lot of negative self talk, trouble reaching your goals, finding that you feel a lot of doubt and worry, then you want to listen to this episode.   Learning how to develop and nurture the relationship with yourself is the beginning of living a life you love.  You deserve it, you deserve everything you desire and dream of.    Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/248 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Is stress why you are struggling losing and maintaining your weight loss?  In this episode, Coach Jenn & I talk about stress and what to do about it so you can get off the diet and mental roller coaster.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/247 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Dopamine is a powerful part of the diet roller coaster.  In this episode, Coach Jenn and I talk through how it is hurting your weight loss success.  You will get tips on what to do.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/246 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Do you ever feel like the word "hard" stops you in your tracks? In this episode, discover how your perception of "hard" can either hold you back or push you forward in your personal transformation as Coach Jenn and I dive into the "hard" you choose and discuss the fears of failure and success that keep many stuck in the dieting loop.   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/245 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

In this empowering episode, Shannan opens up about her lifelong struggle with weight and how she finally found a sustainable path to health and confidence. Shannan & Jenn delve into the common feelings of dread associated with summer and body image, offering listeners a personalized and compassionate approach to overcoming these challenges. She introduces the concept of being a "Transform Boss," a unique methodology that focuses on individual experiences and sustainable change. Tune in for an inspiring discussion that will leave you feeling motivated and ready to embrace the summer with newfound confidence.   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/244 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Are you tired of the constant battle with overeating? This week, join Shannan and Coach Jenn as they dive into the three main culprits behind overeating: habit eating, emotional eating, and losing touch with your body's signals. Discover how automatic responses, coping mechanisms, and disconnection from bodily cues contribute to your struggle. In this eye-opening episode, Shannan emphasizes the power of reconnecting with your body and truly listening to its signals. She unveils the "Transform Boss" approach, a comprehensive plan encompassing eating basics, brain basics, body basics, and emotion basics, designed to revolutionize your weight loss journey and mental well-being.   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/243 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

In this episode, we delve into the concept of “Success Pain” and its impact on losing weight. Success Pain refers to the subconscious tendency to create failure our of a need for familiarity and comfort. When it comes to weight loss, this manifests itself as self-sabotage, where individuals revert to unhealthy habits despite their progress. This psychological barrier makes lasting change difficult, as the comfort of known pain outweighs the uncertainty of new success. Join us as we explore strategies to overcome Success Pain and pave the way for sustainable weight loss and personal growth.   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/242 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen