Family Twist

Corey and Kendall Stulce

Family Twist is a podcast about DNA surprises, finding lost family and amazing adoption stories. Through DNA technology, genealogy and personal history, co-hosts and co-creators Kendall and Corey Stulce, share the story that brought them across the country. Since, we've met dozens of people with remarkable, heartwarming and heartbreaking stories. We can all learn from these stories and perhaps telling them and hearing them can help better shape our journeys - and those who are just embarking on similar journeys. https://familytwistpodcast.com/ (Family Twist Podcast) read less
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Untangling Our Roots: The Power and Pitfalls of Genetic Discoveries
2d ago
Untangling Our Roots: The Power and Pitfalls of Genetic Discoveries
Have you ever imagined discovering a completely different truth about your past as an adult?This episode delves deep into the powerful, emotional journeys that unfold when hidden family truths come to light through DNA testing and genealogical discoveries. For anyone curious about their own family background or grappling with questions of identity, this podcast provides a compelling exploration of the complexities involved in uncovering one's true heritage. In it, we revisit past guests from Family Twist that are taking part in the Untangling Our Roots conference in April 2024.Untangling Our Roots: The Power and Pitfalls of Genetic DiscoveriesBenefits of Listening:Gain insight into the emotional and psychological impact of uncovering unexpected family secrets and how individuals navigate these discoveries.Understand the broader implications of DNA testing and genealogy in redefining family relationships and personal identity.Be inspired by real-life stories of reconciliation and the quest for truth, showing the resilience and transformation possible when confronting the past.Uncover the hidden stories of family, identity, and resilience that resonate with us all by listening to this insightful episode of the Family Twist podcast.Guest episodes:Brad Ewell: NPE Held Prisoner by Parental SecretsJon Baime: NPE's Documentary is Filling in the BlanksPeter J. Boni: Unveiling the Secrets of Assisted Reproductive TechnologyWendy Kramer and the Donor Sibling Registry Part 1Lauren LoGiudice: The Comedy of DiscoveryMichelle Tullier: NPE: Guess What? My Dad is Not My Dad.Right to KnowNational Association of Adoptees and Parents
Unregulated Donation with Spermworld Documentary Director
Apr 16 2024
Unregulated Donation with Spermworld Documentary Director
Have you ever wondered about the alternative ways people can become parents in today's world? This episode delves deep into the fascinating and sometimes controversial world of unregulated sperm donation, a topic that touches on ethics, identity, and the human desire to connect and find meaning through family.Unregulated Donation with Spermworld Documentary Director Listeners will gain insight into:The Personal Stories: Discover the compelling narratives of individuals who participate in sperm donation outside the conventional medical and legal frameworks, highlighting their motivations and the complex emotional landscapes they navigate.Ethical and Societal Implications: Understand the broader implications of sperm donation as it operates in the grey areas of legality and morality, raising questions about responsibility, rights, and the implications for offspring.Human Connection and Legacy: Hear how the desire to create a legacy and form connections drives people to extraordinary lengths, offering a raw look at the human condition and the innate need to belong and be remembered.Tune in to the Family Twist podcast to explore these gripping stories that challenge conventional notions of family and parenthood. Join us for a journey that promises to expand your views on kinship and identity in the modern world.Guest bio:Lance Oppenheim is a filmmaker from South Florida. Inspired by the larger-than-life stories that unfolded around him in his native South Florida, Lance has been making films since he was in his teens. In college, he became the youngest active contributor to The New York Times Op-Docs and received six Vimeo Staff Picks. Lance is a former Sundance Ignite Fellow, has been featured as one of Filmmaker Magazine's 25 New Faces of Independent Film, and was named one of Forbes' 30 Under 30 in 2022. His first feature, Some Kind of Heaven, premiered at the 2020 Sundance Film Festival and was released by Magnolia Pictures and Hulu in 2021 to critical acclaim.Link: SpermworldJoin the Family Twist family here!https://familytwistpodcast.com/Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
Opening Up About Being the Child Result of an Affair
Apr 9 2024
Opening Up About Being the Child Result of an Affair
Are you grappling with the complexities of family identity and secrets?In this episode of Family Twist, we delve deep into the emotional journey of Pam, an NPE (Not Parent Expected) who discovers her true parentage through a DNA test, uncovering the reality of being conceived through an affair. If you've ever wondered about your family secrets or the truths that DNA tests can reveal, this episode is especially relevant in today’s age where genetic testing is becoming more common.Opening Up About Being the Child Result of an AffairWhat Listeners Will Gain:Insight into the Emotional Rollercoaster of NPE Discoveries: Understand the deep emotional impact and personal challenges faced by individuals like Pam who learn about their origins in unexpected ways.Awareness of the Stigma Surrounding Children of Affairs: This episode sheds light on the often unspoken stigma attached to individuals conceived through affairs, enhancing empathy and understanding.Strategies for Navigating Family Secrets: Gain strategies from real-life experiences on how to handle complex family dynamics and revelations effectively.Tune in to this gripping episode to explore the transformative power of truth and the resilience required to face it head-on. Pam's story could change your perspective on family, identity, and the secrets we keep. Listen now for a journey into the heart of what it means to discover oneself through layers of family history.Guest link: Discover more captivating family stories here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleSpotifyAmazonGoogle
Scripts and DNA: Search for Birth Parents Part One
Apr 2 2024
Scripts and DNA: Search for Birth Parents Part One
Have you ever wondered how uncovering hidden family truths could reshape your identity and relationships? Dive into the first part of this intriguing journey of Brian Stanton, an actor and writer who reveals the profound impact of DNA discoveries and adoption on his life.In this episode, listeners will explore the intricate dynamics of adoptive relationships, emotional support, and personal discovery. Whether you're connected to adoption personally, know someone who is, or simply love a gripping narrative of self-discovery and family secrets, this story will touch your heart and expand your understanding of family and identity.Listeners will gain:Insight into the emotional roller coaster of discovering one’s roots through DNA testing and its impact on personal and family identities.Understanding of the importance of support systems for adoptees, as shared through Brian's experiences and those of his supportive spouse.Awareness of the complexities involved in adoptive relationships and how adoptees navigate the quest for belonging and identity.Don’t miss this powerful tale of uncovering hidden truths and the journey toward self-acceptance. Search for "The Family Twist: Corey & Kendall Stulce" and immerse yourself in a story that promises not only to engage but also to enlighten.Guest Bio:Brian Stanton (He/Him) is a critically acclaimed playwright, actor, and a poignant voice in the adoptee and arts communities. His solo play, "Blank" and film, "The Ghost Kingdom," delve into his adoption story, exploring themes of identity, loss, and reunion. Through his art, Brian seeks to connect with others, fostering understanding and healing within the adoption community.Brian's work has been recognized across the United States, where he has performed his plays for a decade, earning accolades and touching hearts. Beyond his plays, Brian actively participates in conferences and workshops, sharing his journey and insights to support adoptees and their families.Brian is also involved in initiatives to promote openness and healing in adoption narratives, advocating for the rights and voices of adoptees to be heard and respected.Resources Mentioned:"Blank" and "The Ghost Kingdom" - Brian Stanton's play and film exploring his adoption journey.DNA testing services (23andMe, Ancestry.com) - Crucial tools in Brian's search for his biological roots.Adoption conferences and workshops - Platforms where Brian shares his story and connects with the community.Join the Family Twist family!Listen, Rate & Subscribe on your favorite platform to dive deeper into stories of family, identity, and the unbreakable bonds that define us.AppleAmazonGoogleSpotify
Scripts and DNA: Searching for Birth Parents Part Two
Apr 2 2024
Scripts and DNA: Searching for Birth Parents Part Two
Have you ever thought about the impact of meeting your birth parents can have on your life and existing family relationships? In this compelling second part of Brian Stanton's story, we dive deeper into his emotional experiences of connecting with his birth mother and the subsequent challenges with his adoptive family.Scripts and DNA: Searching for Birth Parents Part TwoThis episode offers a deep dive into the complexities of adoptive relationships, exploring the delicate balance between birth and adoptive families. Here's what listeners can expect to gain from tuning in:A firsthand look at the emotional negotiations and conflicts that can arise when an adoptee decides to connect with their birth family.Insights into managing the dynamics between adoptive and birth families, especially in scenarios where past relationships and emotions are complex.Strategies for adoptees to maintain and assert their identity while honoring all familial relationships.If you're intrigued by the intricate dance of relationships and identity within adoptive families, make sure to listen to this episode of the Family Twist. Guest Bio:Brian Stanton (He/Him) is a critically acclaimed playwright, actor, and a poignant voice in the adoptee and arts communities. His solo play, "Blank" and film, "The Ghost Kingdom," delve into his adoption story, exploring themes of identity, loss, and reunion. Through his art, Brian seeks to connect with others, fostering understanding and healing within the adoption community.Brian's work has been recognized across the United States, where he has performed his plays for a decade, earning accolades and touching hearts. Beyond his plays, Brian actively participates in conferences and workshops, sharing his journey and insights to support adoptees and their families.Brian is also involved in initiatives to promote openness and healing in adoption narratives, advocating for the rights and voices of adoptees to be heard and respected.Resources Mentioned:"Blank" and "The Ghost Kingdom" - Brian Stanton's play and film exploring his adoption journey.DNA testing services (23andMe, Ancestry.com) - Crucial tools in Brian's search for his biological roots.Adoption conferences and workshops - Platforms where Brian shares his story and connects with the community.Join the Family Twist family!Listen, Rate & Subscribe on your favorite platform to dive deeper into stories of family, identity, and the unbreakable bonds that define us.AppleAmazonGoogleSpotify
Discovering I'm 'A Stranger in My Family'
Mar 26 2024
Discovering I'm 'A Stranger in My Family'
In this surprise-filled episode of Family Twist, we dive into filmmaker Luke Davies’ compelling journey of self-discovery, ignited by the results of a home DNA test. Raised in Rochdale, England, Luke grew up believing he was white British, only to have a DNA test in his 20s reveal a rich tapestry of ancestral backgrounds, including West African, Portuguese, and more. This unexpected revelation leads Luke on a quest to find his biological father, a journey documented in the BBC documentary, “A Stranger in My Family.”What You'll Learn:How Luke's DNA test results shattered his lifelong perceptions of his identity.The emotional and psychological impact of discovering one's racial and ethnic heritage later in life.Luke's process of approaching his mother for the truth, leading to the revelation of a holiday romance in Portugal.The challenges and complexities of searching for a biological parent with limited information.The role of commercial DNA testing in connecting Luke with distant relatives and ultimately his biological father.Luke's exploration into filmmaking as a medium to document and navigate his journey.Insights into Luke's current projects and how his personal journey has influenced his work and passion for telling stories of marginalized voices.Episode Highlights:[00:05:22] - Luke's initial reaction to his DNA test results and the moment of revelation with his mother.[00:12:35] - The intricate dynamics of Luke's family relationships following the discovery.[00:19:58] - The challenges and breakthroughs in Luke's search for his biological father.[00:27:44] - Luke's transition from TV work to documentary filmmaking amid personal upheaval.[00:34:17] - The serendipitous events leading Luke to take the DNA test and start his quest.[00:42:55] - The impact of Luke's journey on his professional life and the development of new film projects.Guest bio: Luke Oliveira-Davies (He/Him) is an interdisciplinary Creative Producer and the Founder of Polari, an award-winning production company that champions the boundlessness of queer and intersectional lives through film, television, and more.His short films have premiered and collected awards from BAFTA and BIFA-Qualifying festivals around the world, and his latest short ‘Run(a)way’ received funding from the BFI Short Film Fund.Luke's debut documentary, Stranger in My Family, which he initially developed and produced, won the BBC Three Northern Docs Pitch at Sheffield Doc Fest (2022). It has been longlisted in the ‘Single Documentary’ category at the BAFTA Television Awards (2024), and received a ‘Best Documentary Programme’ nomination at the Broadcast Awards (2024).The film is out now on BBC iPlayer as a Nine Lives Media production, in association with Polari.Luke's work extends beyond Polari, including working as a Assistant Producer on Savage Waters, a multi-award-winning documentary by Emmy-winning director Mikey Corker, which released in UK and Ireland cinemas in 2023/24.Luke is a BAFTA Connect member and is currently taking part in the Momentum program from We Are Parable x Sony Pictures Television & Channel 4, as well as the Thrive Freelance Development Programme from Creative Access x Lee & Thompson. Luke is also alumni of the BFI Creative Producers Lab (2019), and was nominated for an RTS Futures Award (2020) for his 48-hr short film Tomorrow. Additionally, he was a finalist...
DNA Test Transforms Strangers Into Sisters
Mar 19 2024
DNA Test Transforms Strangers Into Sisters
In this gripping episode of "Family Twist," we delve into Sharon Adams' remarkable journey of self-discovery, initiated by a curiosity-driven DNA test as she approached her 70s. This quest uncovers a hidden lineage, introducing her to a father and two half-sisters, Beth Mamo and Kathy Reddy, she never knew she had. Kendall navigates through their compelling narrative of discovery, acceptance, and the profound connections of family that defy mere genetics.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Sharon Adams' motivations behind taking a DNA test and the astonishing family connections it revealed.The emotional labyrinth of connecting with unknown family members.The critical role of understanding one's medical history and its impact on personal health decisions.The dynamics of forming relationships with newly discovered relatives amidst a global pandemic.The immediate bond and welcoming embrace shared among the newfound sisters.How delving into one’s roots can lead to unexpected, life-altering realizations.Episode Highlights:The genesis of Sharon's quest for her medical history and the revelation of her biological family.The pivotal moment Sharon reads the email that would change her life.Beth and Kathy's perspective on gaining a sister overnight.Adjusting to new family dynamics during times of social isolation.The unforeseen medical insights gained from discovering one’s ancestry.The sisters' plans for future gatherings to strengthen their familial ties.Reflective thoughts on the essence of family, identity, and life’s unforeseen twists.As we wrap up this episode of Family Twist, we've traversed the emotional landscape of discovering family ties previously hidden in the fabric of DNA. Sharon, Beth, and Kathy’s story illuminates the profound impact of exploring our roots, reminding us of the unanticipated connections waiting to be unearthed. It's a narrative that underscores the importance of curiosity, the resilience of newfound relationships, and the enduring nature of familial love that extends beyond genetics.Thank you for joining us on this journey of discovery and emotional reunion. We hope it inspires you to delve into your own heritage, embrace the mysteries within, and possibly uncover stories of your own that reaffirm the deep-seated bonds of family. Until we meet again, keep weaving your own family twist, cherishing the old ties while being open to the new. This is Family Twist, where every episode is a new chapter in the larger story of who we are. Stay connected, stay curious, and who knows what fascinating tales your own family tree holds.Subscribe and Review:If you enjoyed this episode and Lauren's unfiltered humor, don't forget to subscribe and leave us a review. We love hearing your thoughts!Connect with Us:Website: http://familytwistpodcast.comInstagram: @FamilyTwistPodcast
The Comedy of Discovery
Mar 12 2024
The Comedy of Discovery
Dive into an uproariously insightful episode with Lauren, a stand-up comedian whose journey from genealogical confusion to comedic triumph is anything but ordinary. With a warning for our listeners: we don't censor comedians, so expect some raw and real language. Lauren shares her tale of discovering her donor conception through a DNA test, her quest to find her biological father, and how these revelations have fueled her unique brand of humor.The Comedy of DiscoveryKey Moments:Lauren's childhood feeling like a "Viking" in a family of Italians and her path to questioning her identity.The life-changing moment Lauren took a DNA test and the cascade of discoveries about her donor conception.Finding her biological father and connecting with half-siblings, turning complex emotions into comedic material.Lauren's insights into "genealogical bewilderment" and using comedy as a way to heal and connect with others.A glimpse into Lauren's stand-up routines and how her unique background shapes her comedy.Lauren's journey is a powerful reminder of the unexpected ways our origins can shape us and the transformative power of laughter. Her story not only entertains but also offers profound insights into identity, family, and the courage to face life's surprises with a smile. Tune in next time for more compelling stories on Family Twist.Episode Links:Lauren's Comedy WebsiteFamily Twist Podcast WebsiteUntangling Our Roots ConferenceSubscribe and Review:If you enjoyed this episode and Lauren's unfiltered humor, don't forget to subscribe and leave us a review. We love hearing your thoughts!Connect with Us:Website: http://familytwistpodcast.comInstagram: @FamilyTwistPodcast
DNAngels: Guardians of the DNA Galaxy
Mar 5 2024
DNAngels: Guardians of the DNA Galaxy
In this episode, we're thrilled to conclude the conversation Jennifer Schweibinz from DNAngels, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping individuals unravel genetic surprises. From uncovering unknown biological parents to shedding light on forgotten familial bonds, DNAngels highlights the importance of knowing our roots, no matter how twisted they may be.In the conversation, we unravel the complexities and emotional journeys of individuals seeking to understand their genetic heritage.DNAngels: Guardians of the DNA GalaxySpecifically, we discuss:The mission and impact of DNAngels, including their success in solving over 5,000 cases.The unique challenges faced by individuals with genetic surprises and the specialized support provided by DNAngels.The emotional rollercoaster of discovering family secrets and the importance of having access to one's genetic and health history.How DNAngels navigates sensitive cases, such as those involving incest, with care and professionalism.The transformative power of finding answers and the sense of community and support fostered by DNAngels.The personal stories of discovery shared by Kendall, and Jennifer, highlighting the diverse experiences and outcomes of those seeking their genetic roots.The importance of grace, forgiveness, and understanding in the process of uncovering and accepting one's genetic heritage.Join us as we twist open the DNA bottle and spill the tea on family secrets, revealing the profound impact of genetic discoveries on individuals' identities and sense of belonging. Whether you're someone who has experienced a genetic surprise or simply fascinated by the stories of others, this episode offers a deep and compassionate look into the world of genetic genealogy and the quest for truth.About DNAngels:DNAngels is a collective of individuals, all of whom have been impacted either personally, or through a loved one. The organization is comprised of skilled genetic genealogy experts – Search Angels – along with other dedicated volunteers who offer support and advocacy for our clients. DNAngels was incepted in February 2019. They solve more than 90% of all cases accepted.Guest Bio:Jennifer Schweibinz is a Genetic Genealogist. Jennifer found her love for Genealogy when she stumbled across an old family secret. As she rolled up her sleeves and tapped into her Jersey Girl stubbornness, she relentlessly worked until she found answers. After that, Jennifer found herself volunteering as intake manager for an organization that could teach her a more methodical approach to being a Search Angel. When that organization merged with DNAngels, Jennifer was welcomed to the new team with open arms, and enjoys every moment of it.In her personal life, Jennifer lives with her husband, Mark. They have four sons together. She grew up in a close-knit, supportive family and loves when the entire crowd gets together for barbecues in the backyard.Jennifer’s love language is Acts of Service, which she attributes to her appreciation for everyone that reaches out to DNAngels looking for help. Jennifer was a keynote speaker for the 2022 Illinois State Genealogy Society Annual Conference, a presenter at 2023 Untangling Our Roots Summit in Louisville, KY, and an exhibitor at the 2023 National Genealogical Society conference in Richmond, VA.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeApple
From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part One
Feb 27 2024
From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part One
In an episode that epitomizes the very essence of Family Twist, we unveil a story so captivating it blurs the lines between disbelief and destiny. Sit tight as they introduce Jennifer Schweibinz from DNAngels, whose DNA test unraveled a family secret so profound it challenged her identity and reshaped her understanding of family.From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part OneEpisode Highlights:The Revelation: Jennifer's world turns upside down with a DNA test result that rewrites her family history.Parallel Paths: Kendall shares his own riveting story, creating a powerful echo of Jennifer's experience, highlighting the raw emotions surrounding family secrets and the quest for belonging.The Emotional Odyssey: From disbelief to determination, Jennifer and Kendall navigate the tumultuous journey of confronting their new realities.Finding Closure: The episode delves into the complexities of seeking acceptance, the pain of rejection, and the eventual peace in new beginnings.Closing Thoughts:The first part of our episodes with Jennifer isn't just about the shock of discovery—it's a testament to human resilience, the search for truth, and the creation of new family bonds from the fragments of the past. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who believes in the power of truth to transform lives.Guest Bio:Jennifer Schweibinz is a Genetic Genealogist. Jennifer found her love for Genealogy when she stumbled across an old family secret. As she rolled up her sleeves and tapped into her Jersey Girl stubbornness, she relentlessly worked until she found answers. After that, Jennifer found herself volunteering as intake manager for an organization that could teach her a more methodical approach to being a Search Angel. When that organization merged with DNAngels, Jennifer was welcomed to the new team with open arms, and enjoys every moment of it.In her personal life, Jennifer lives with her husband, Mark. They have four sons together. She grew up in a close-knit, supportive family and loves when the entire crowd gets together for barbecues in the backyard.Jennifer’s love language is Acts of Service, which she attributes to her appreciation for everyone that reaches out to DNAngels looking for help. Jennifer was a keynote speaker for the 2022 Illinois State Genealogy Society Annual Conference, a presenter at 2023 Untangling Our Roots Summit in Louisville, KY, and an exhibitor at the 2023 National Genealogical Society conference in Richmond, VA.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part Two
Feb 27 2024
From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part Two
In the second half of our eye-opening episode, Family Twist host Kendall continues the conversation with Jennifer from DNAngels. This segment illuminates the incredible work of DNAngels in reuniting individuals with their biological families and the profound impact of finding community through this podcast. The discussion delves into the essence of healing, grace, and the friendships forged in the fires of shared experiences.From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part TwoEpisode Highlights:The Mission of DNAngels: Jennifer explains the organization's goal to become a beacon of hope for those facing genetic surprises, offering their services free of charge for those seeking to find their biological parents.Success Stories and Specialized Support: With over 5,171 cases solved, DNAngels demonstrates the vast need for such services, highlighting their specialized teams that cater to unique cases, including those involving incest and adoption from various regions.Finding Community: Both Jennifer and Kendall touch on the importance of finding a community that understands and shares similar experiences, offering solace and support in times of turmoil.Healing and Moving Forward: The conversation circles back to the themes of healing, giving grace to oneself and others involved in the discovery process, and the strength found in newfound connections.Closing Thoughts:This episode not only showcases the remarkable efforts of DNAngels but also reflects on the personal growth and understanding that comes from facing our origins head-on. Through their stories, Kendall, Corey, and Jennifer remind us that while the journey may be fraught with challenges, the destination of self-discovery and community can offer unparalleled peace and reconciliation.Guest Bio:Jennifer Schweibinz is a Genetic Genealogist. Jennifer found her love for Genealogy when she stumbled across an old family secret. As she rolled up her sleeves and tapped into her Jersey Girl stubbornness, she relentlessly worked until she found answers. After that, Jennifer found herself volunteering as intake manager for an organization that could teach her a more methodical approach to being a Search Angel. When that organization merged with DNAngels, Jennifer was welcomed to the new team with open arms, and enjoys every moment of it.In her personal life, Jennifer lives with her husband, Mark. They have four sons together. She grew up in a close-knit, supportive family and loves when the entire crowd gets together for barbecues in the backyard.Jennifer’s love language is Acts of Service, which she attributes to her appreciation for everyone that reaches out to DNAngels looking for help. Jennifer was a keynote speaker for the 2022 Illinois State Genealogy Society Annual Conference, a presenter at 2023 Untangling Our Roots Summit in Louisville, KY, and an exhibitor at the 2023 National Genealogical Society conference in Richmond, VA.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
Beyond the Donor: A Deep Dive into Conception and Connection
Feb 20 2024
Beyond the Donor: A Deep Dive into Conception and Connection
This week, our guest, Jaclyn Frosolone, shares her compelling narrative, shedding light on the profound impacts of discovering one's origins in the world of donor conception. Prepare to be moved, educated, and inspired as we explore themes of identity, family secrets, and the quest for belonging.Beyond the Donor: A Deep Dive into Conception and ConnectionEpisode Highlights:Jaclyn's initial discovery through a DNA test and the emotional rollercoaster that ensued.The complexities and confrontations within her family following the revelation about her donor conception.An insider's critique of the fertility industry, underscored by Jaclyn's personal encounters and the shared experiences of her half-siblings.The formation of an unexpected community among Jaclyn and her half-siblings, despite threats and challenges, showcasing resilience and solidarity.Jaclyn's reflections on health, genetics, and her advocacy for transparency and change within the donor conception community.Contemplating the future: Jaclyn's musings on parenthood, hereditary health concerns, and the legacy of her donor's decisions.We hope this episode has opened your eyes to the multifaceted experiences of those touched by donor conception and sparked conversations on the nuances of modern family dynamics. As we close this chapter, let's carry forward the courage to face our truths, the strength to forge connections, and the grace to embrace the diverse ways families come together. Stay tuned for more episodes that challenge, enlighten, and celebrate the twists and turns of family life. Topics mentioned in this episode:‘I slept with my half-sibling’: Woman’s horror story reflects loosely regulated nature of US fertility industryLaura HighWomen discover 200 siblings from same sperm donorLove CanalJoin the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
Hidden Roots: The Emotional Odyssey of Adoption
Feb 13 2024
Hidden Roots: The Emotional Odyssey of Adoption
In this soulful episode of the Family Twist podcast, we are joined by Janeen, a vibrant soul who embarked on an unexpected journey into her past, unraveling secrets that would forever change her understanding of identity, family and belonging. Following the death of her father, Janeen, along with her brother Jermaine, delved into building a family tree. Their quest for connection led to DNA tests, revealing a truth hidden for decades: Janeen was adopted. This discovery catapulted her into a whirlwind of emotions and revelations, including her mixed racial heritage and a vast, unknown family waiting to embrace her.Hidden Roots: The Emotional Odyssey of AdoptionEpisode Highlights:The Spark of Curiosity: Janeen's story begins with the loss of her father and a desire to connect more deeply with her roots, inspiring her and her brother to explore their family history.A DNA Test's Unexpected Turn: What started as an exciting exploration took a dramatic twist when Janeen's DNA test results uncovered her adoption, a fact unknown to her and her siblings.Revelations and Emotional Turmoil: Janeen shares the emotional rollercoaster of discovering her adoption, mixed racial heritage, and the existence of biological parents and family members previously unknown.The Search for Truth: Determined to understand her origins, Janeen reaches out to the adoption agency, leading to a series of revelations about her birth, foster care, and the loving intentions behind her adoption.Building New Bridges: Janeen narrates her poignant experiences of connecting with her biological family, including her parents and siblings, and the profound impact of these newfound relationships on her identity and worldview.The Power of Storytelling: Inspired by her journey and as a means to explain adoption to her children, Janeen authors a children's book, "Hello Sweet Baby," exploring themes of adoption, family diversity, and acceptance.Healing Through Therapy: Janeen emphasizes the importance of therapy in navigating the complex emotions and challenges that arose from her discoveries, advocating for mental health and the power of professional support.Closing Reflections:Janeen's journey is a profound reminder of the intricate tapestries that compose our identities and the strength found in embracing our truths. Her story not only highlights the complexities of adoption and the search for belonging but also celebrates the resilience of the human spirit in the face of unexpected revelations. Through her courage to confront the unknown, Janeen has forged new connections, redefined family bonds, and inspired others with her vulnerability and strength.Guest bio: Janeen Jackson received her B.A. from Norfolk State University and completed her Master’s in Education Leadership and Change in 2020 from Antioch University, Los Angeles. She has over 25 years combined experience in art and design, and equity and justice and education Currently, she works at Oakton College as an Equity Coordinator for Black student success. Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle
Linked by DNA: The Discovery of 75 Siblings
Feb 6 2024
Linked by DNA: The Discovery of 75 Siblings
This episode takes us through an extraordinary exploration of family, identity and the unforeseen connections DNA testing can reveal. Our guest, Brenna Siperco, shares her compelling story of curiosity, discovery, and the complex emotions surrounding donor-conceived relationships. This episode not only peels back the layers of Brenna's personal journey but also delves into broader discussions on the implications of genetic testing and the ethics of donor conception.Linked by DNA: The Discovery of 75 SiblingsEpisode Highlights:The Catalyst for Discovery: Brenna details her initial decision to undergo a 23andMe DNA test, driven by a lifelong curiosity about her biological origins and the possibility of having siblings she's never met.A Sibling Network Unveiled: The revelation that Brenna has discovered 75 siblings through DNA testing, surpassing her wildest expectations and leading to a mix of astonishment and excitement.Emotional Encounters: Brenna recounts the profound experience of meeting her siblings for the first time, highlighting the surreal and immediate connections that challenge traditional notions of family and belonging.Navigating Anonymity: The discussion shifts to the anonymity of the sperm donor, known only by a number, and Brenna's nuanced views on privacy, respect, and curiosity about her biological father.Voices from the Donor-Conceived Community: Brenna shares insights into the donor-conceived community's perspectives, advocating for more transparency and regulation while respecting individual choices and circumstances.Shared Traits and Interests: An exploration of the diverse ages, interests, and talents among Brenna's siblings, revealing surprising similarities and the role genetics and environment play in shaping us.Support Systems and Future Aspirations: The episode touches on the support Brenna received from her parents, the dynamic within the sibling group chat, and dreams of a grand family reunion.Through Brenna's story, "Family Twist" listeners are invited to reflect on the meaning of family in the modern era, the power of genetic connections, and the evolving landscape of reproductive technologies.Closing Reflections:Brenna Siperco's journey into the heart of her genetic lineage offers a profound look at the unexpected paths our lives can take when curiosity meets science. Her story is a testament to the strength of newfound connections and the resilience of individuals navigating the complex web of donor conception. As we conclude this episode, we're reminded of the endless possibilities that come with opening the door to our past and the future relationships we might find on the other side.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
Down the Rabbit Hole with Family Secrets
Jan 30 2024
Down the Rabbit Hole with Family Secrets
In a captivating episode of the Family Twist podcast, Kendall Stulce sits down with author Kate Brody to explore the intertwining of personal narratives and fictional storytelling. Brody, drawing from her own experience of discovering a secret brother, shares insights on family dynamics, the complexities of blended families and the emotional journey of reconnecting with estranged family members. The episode dives deep into the nuances of adoption, secret siblings and how these realities can influence fictional narratives.Down the Rabbit Hole with Family SecretsHighlights from the Episode:Kate Brody discusses the connection between her personal story of finding her long-lost brother and her book "Rabbit Hole."The book's main character, Teddy, reflects Kate's family structure, with a focus on abandoned and restarted familial relationships.Brody's interest in exploring common yet often unspoken family dynamics such as secret siblings and family shame.The impact of Brody's piece in the Guardian, which resonated with many people experiencing similar family situations.Kate’s reflections on how fiction can serve as a means of rewriting history or extending an apology.The reactions of Kate’s siblings and brother to her book and Guardian article.Kendall Stulce shares his own adoption story, drawing parallels to Brody's experiences.Discussion on cultural shifts and the impact of DNA technology on family secrets and adoption.The exploration of sibling relationships in fiction, emphasizing genetic similarity versus shared history.Brody's book tour experiences and the response from readers who resonate with her personal and fictional stories.This episode of Family Twist offers a profound look into the delicate balance between fiction and reality, especially when it comes to familial relationships. Kate Brody's personal experiences with her long-lost brother and her family's dynamics provide a unique backdrop to her fictional work, blurring the lines between art and life. The conversation with Kendall Stulce adds depth, highlighting the universal themes of adoption, family secrets, and the pursuit of belonging. This episode is a must-listen for anyone intrigued by the intricate ways our personal histories shape our creative expressions.Guest bio:Kate Brody lives in Los Angeles, California. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Guardian, Lit Hub, CrimeReads, Electric Lit, The Rumpus, and The Literary Review, among other publications. She holds an MFA from NYU. "Rabbit Hole" is her debut novel.Kate's essay in The GuardianKate's essay in The New York TimesJoin the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle
An Uncle's Promise
Jan 23 2024
An Uncle's Promise
In this episode of Family Twist, host Corey delves into the intricacies of family bonds and the impact of distance on relationships. Joined by his niece Samantha in St. Louis, they explore the journey of their family's cross-country moves and the deep connections maintained despite geographical separations. Samantha's candid insights and Corey's reflections on family dynamics offer a touching perspective on how familial love and shared experiences shape our lives, regardless of the miles between us.An Uncle's PromiseHighlights:Corey's decision to delay his move to the West Coast until after Samantha's birth, highlighting the importance of family in major life decisions.The evolution of Samantha's and Corey's relationship over the years, including their special traditions and shared memories.Samantha's love for roller coasters, spurred by early childhood experiences with Corey and Kendall.The significance of maintaining family connections across long distances, illustrated through regular visits and constant communication.Samantha's growing interests in social justice and her perspective on donor rights and donor-conceived individuals.A discussion on the importance of knowing one's medical history, especially in the context of donor conception.Samantha's thoughts on her future, including her aspirations for a career and a family, and her preference for adoption over biological parenthood.Insights into Samantha's academic drive, organizational skills, and her views on nature versus nurture.The role of family history and experiences in shaping Samantha's outlook on life, relationships, and her future aspirations.This episode of Family Twist offers a profound look into the dynamics of family relationships, emphasizing the enduring bond between uncle and niece. Samantha's perspectives, from her academic ambitions to her thoughts on adoption and family, coupled with Corey's anecdotes, paint a vivid picture of a family navigating life's twists together. Their discussion not only highlights the importance of maintaining familial connections across distances but also delves into deeper themes of identity, heritage, and the shaping of future generations.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
An Instant Big Fat Greek Family
Jan 16 2024
An Instant Big Fat Greek Family
This episode of the Family Twist podcast offers a compelling look into the life of Linda Carol Trotter (her Greek name is Eftychia), an adoptee with a deeply engaging story. Linda Carol's experiences, from understanding her adoption to embracing her Greek heritage, take us through a journey that highlights the profound impact of cultural roots and the enduring connections of family. This episode not only illuminates Linda Carol's journey but also sheds light on the broader experiences of Greek adoptees, revealing the unexpected twists and turns that life can take.An Instant Big Fat Greek FamilyEpisode Highlights:Linda Carol Trotter's lifelong knowledge of her adoption and her Greek origins.The misconceptions surrounding her adoption, including her birth mother's fate and her own origins.Linda's contentment with her adoptive family and her initial lack of interest in exploring her Greek roots.The revelation that Linda Carol's birth mother was alive, igniting her quest to connect with her Greek heritage.Linda's emotional reunion with her biological mother in Greece and the discovery of her extended family.The transformation of Linda Carol's story into activism, including the establishment of the Eftychia Project to assist other Greek adoptees.Linda Carol's advocacy efforts, including speaking at the United Nations and fighting for Greek adoptee rights.The first annual Greek Adoptee Reunion in Nashville, Tennessee, and subsequent reunions in Greece.Linda Carol's ongoing efforts to learn the Greek language and integrate into Greek culture.This episode of the Family Twist podcast poignantly captures the essence of adoption's complex emotional landscape. Linda Carol Trotter's story is a testament to the enduring strength of familial bonds, regardless of distance and time. Her journey from discovering her roots to becoming an advocate for Greek adoptees illustrates the profound impact of uncovering one’s identity. The episode serves as a beacon of hope and understanding for adoptees worldwide, highlighting the importance of embracing one's past to shape a more meaningful future.Guest links:The Eftychia ProjectJoin the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
Donor-Conceived, Genderqueer Artist Advocates for Change
Jan 9 2024
Donor-Conceived, Genderqueer Artist Advocates for Change
In this episode, we have the privilege of hosting Melanie Blanc, self-described "curvy spice girl," who shares her/their deeply personal journey as a donor-conceived individual. Her/their story is a riveting blend of self-discovery, family dynamics, and the complex emotions that come with uncovering one's true origins. Melanie's openness in discussing her/their experiences from childhood realizations to adult revelations makes for an engaging and thought-provoking listen. If you're intrigued by the intricacies of donor conception and the powerful bonds it can create, this episode is a must-listen.Highlights of the Episode:1. Early Discovery: Melanie discovered she/they were donor-conceived at the age of eight, prompted by a school lesson on genetics, leading to a life-altering revelation about her/their family.2. Family Dynamics: Melanie shares the impact of this discovery on her/their family life, particularly their relationship with her/their social father, and the acceptance she/they experienced from their family.3. Siblings and Connections: Melanie delves into their experience of connecting with her/their half-siblings through DNA testing platforms like 23andMe and Ancestry, highlighting the joys and complexities of these newfound relationships.4. The Search for Identity: The episode touches on Melanie's search for her/their biological father, the lack of communication from his side, and Melanie’s emotional journey through this process.5. Advocacy and Awareness: Melanie speaks about their involvement in advocacy for the donor-conceived community, emphasizing the need for ethical practices in the industry.6. Future Aspirations: Melanie discusses her/their plans to further connect with her/their half-siblings and her/their idea of starting a podcast to explore these unique family bonds.Closing Summary:Melanie's journey, from the innocence of childhood curiosity to the nuanced understanding of their identity as an adult, offers a compelling glimpse into the life of someone born through donor conception. Her/their story is a tapestry of emotions, challenges, and the enduring quest for connection. If Melanie's experiences have moved you or sparked your interest in the fascinating world of donor conception, don't forget to rate, follow, and review Family Twist. Your support helps us share more stories like Melanie's with a broader audience.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify
Wendy Kramer and the Donor Sibling Registry Part 1
Jan 2 2024
Wendy Kramer and the Donor Sibling Registry Part 1
Join us as we welcome Wendy Kramer, the visionary co-founder of the Donor Sibling Registry. Wendy shares her poignant journey into the world of donor conception, offering unique insights into a realm many of us know little about. Her story is not just about creating a family but also about the complexities and unexpected challenges that come with donor conception.Wendy Kramer and the Donor Sibling Registry Part 1Summary of Episode Highlights:The Inception of the Donor Sibling Registry: Wendy discusses how personal experiences led to the creation of this groundbreaking resource for donor-conceived individuals and their families.Understanding Donor Conception: Delve into the initial steps and decisions involved in donor conception, as Wendy narrates her personal experience.Conversations on Origin and Identity: The episode highlights crucial conversations between Wendy and her son about his origins, emphasizing the importance of honesty in donor-conceived families.The Emotional Landscape of Donor Families: Explore the varied emotions and challenges that families face in navigating donor conception.The Impact of DNA Testing and Social Media: Wendy talks about how advancements like DNA testing and social media platforms have revolutionized the way donor-conceived individuals connect with their biological relatives.Ethical Issues in Donor Conception: Wendy sheds light on the lack of proper education and counseling in the sperm and egg donation process.Our conversation with Wendy Kramer brings to light the nuanced and often hidden world of donor conception. Her insights challenge us to rethink our understanding of family and identity. If this episode has resonated with you or sparked your curiosity, please rate, follow, and review Family Twist. Your feedback is invaluable to us.Join the Family Twist family here!Listen, Rate & SubscribeAppleAmazonGoogle Spotify