Chat With Elaina St James

Elaina St James

Known as "That Midwest Mom",  Adult Content Creator and Author, Elaina St. James hosts Chat N Laugh, the Feel Good podcast.  After restarting her professional life at 54,  Elaina brings her unique perspective on pop culture, social media, travel and the adult industry.   Guests adult and mainstream entertainment will share their stories and behind the scenes insight. You can expect to laugh, learn and be inspired because if it's not fun, you're doing it wrong!

You can follow Elaina on both Instagram and Twitter @ElainaStJames
For all links https://www.elainastjames.com

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Episodes

Episode 13: Catfishers, Scammers, Stalkers, Oh My!
Apr 30 2024
Episode 13: Catfishers, Scammers, Stalkers, Oh My!
Elaina St. James discusses her experiences with catfishers, scammers, and stalkers in the adult entertainment industry. She shares her background and the precautions she takes to protect herself and her family. Elaina highlights the prevalence of stalkers and the challenges faced by women in dealing with unwanted attention. She then delves into the unexpected issue of catfishers and scammers impersonating her and other creators, stealing their content, and attempting to deceive fans. Elaina emphasizes the importance of verifying the authenticity of creators and warns against engaging with imposter accounts. She also discusses the bias against adult entertainers on social media platforms like TikTok and Facebook. In this conversation, Elaina St James discusses the prevalence of scammers and fake accounts on social media platforms, particularly Facebook and TikTok. She highlights the lack of protection provided by social media companies and the challenges content creators face in dealing with these issues. Elaina also shares her experiences with unauthorized use of her content and the creation of misleading ads using her image. She expresses frustration with the media's lack of attention to these problems and emphasizes the importance of empathy for celebrities who face similar challenges. Finally, she warns about the potential misuse of AI technology to create fake content and offers advice for fans and content creators to protect themselves.TakeawaysStalkers and unwanted attention are common challenges faced by women, regardless of their profession.Catfishers and scammers impersonate creators, steal their content, and deceive fans for financial gain.It is crucial to verify the authenticity of creators and avoid engaging with imposter accounts.Social media platforms often benefit from the presence of scammers and may not take adequate action to address the issue. Scammers and fake accounts are rampant on social media platforms, such as Facebook and TikTok.Social media companies often fail to provide adequate protection against scammers and fake accounts, leaving content creators and their followers vulnerable.Unauthorized use of content and creation of misleading ads using content creators' images is a significant issue.The roller coaster of fame can have both positive and negative effects on content creators, including the challenges of dealing with success and the pitfalls of being in the public eye.AI technology poses a potential threat as it could be used to create fake content and impersonate content creators.Fans and content creators should be cautious and verify information on official and verified platforms to protect themselves from scams and catfishing.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background00:30 Three Years in the Industry00:59 Unprepared for Catfishers, Scammers, and Stalkers04:26 Addressing Stalkers and Introducing the Topic of Catfishers and Scammers09:21 The Impact of Catfishers and Scammers11:36 Impersonation and Theft15:22 The Tactics of Catfishers and Scammers20:57 Issues with TikTok and Facebook24:29 Social Media's Benefit from Scammers27:01 Social Media Bias Against Adult Entertainers27:45 The Challenges with Facebook33:27 Scammers and Fake Accounts on Social Media41:06 Lack of Protection from Social Media Companies48:32 Collaboration Considerations53:49 Unauthorized Use of Content and Ads54:15 Lack of Attention from Media and Social Media Companies55:32 The Roller Coaster of Fame58:01 Taking Advantage of Success59:27 Empathy for Celebrities01:03:37 Impersonation and AI Technology01:04:16 Advice for Fans and Content CreatorsMake sure to Like, Follow, Subscribe (a 5 star review would be great too!)For More About Elaina: www.ElainaStJames.com
Episode 12: AI - The End of Content Creators?
Apr 9 2024
Episode 12: AI - The End of Content Creators?
SummaryThe conversation explores the impact of AI (Artificial Intelligence) on social media influencers and content creators. It discusses the potential of AI chat bots and the desire for an emotional connection with them. The limitations of AI chat bots and the challenges of creating emotional connection with synthetic influencers are also examined. The conversation delves into the creation of AI-generated images and the monetization of AI influencers. The importance of labeling AI creators and the response of audiences to AI influencers are highlighted. The visual appeal of AI influencers and concerns about face swap technology are also discussed. In this conversation, Elaina St James discusses the issues of content theft and impersonation in the age of AI. She shares her personal experiences of seeing her own content being stolen and used by others without permission. Elaina expresses her concerns about scammers and imposters using AI technology to deceive and manipulate people. She also explores the potential of AI for both good and bad, highlighting the creative possibilities it offers for content creators while acknowledging the risks of misuse. Elaina concludes by discussing the future of AI in influencer marketing and addressing concerns about its impact on society.TakeawaysContent theft and impersonation are significant issues in the age of AI, with creators' work being stolen and used without permission.Scammers and imposters can exploit AI technology to deceive and manipulate people, posing risks to individuals' privacy and security.AI has the potential to be both a powerful tool for content creation and a source of concern, as it can be used for both good and bad purposes.The future of AI in influencer marketing may involve custom photos and videos, virtual reality experiences, and enhanced creative possibilities for content creators.While AI offers exciting possibilities, it is important to establish guardrails and ensure transparency to prevent misuse and protect individuals' rights.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background01:00 Impact of AI on Social Media Landscape05:29 Emotional Connection with AI08:25 Limitations of AI Chat Bots09:50 Synthetic Influencers and Emotional Connection11:20 Challenges of Creating Emotional Connection with Synthetic Influencers13:48 AI-Generated Images and Influencers20:15 Monetization of AI Influencers23:14 Labeling AI Creators25:10 Response to AI Creators28:09 Visual Appeal of AI Influencers29:05 Concerns about Face Swap Technology30:31 Content Theft and Impersonation35:21 Concerns about Scammers and Imposters40:04 The Potential of AI for Good and Bad45:34 AI as a Tool for Content Creation51:43 The Future of AI in Influencer Marketing55:20 Addressing Concerns and Potential Benefits of AIMake sure to Like, Follow, Subscribe (a 5 star review would be great too!)For More About Elaina: www.ElainaStJames.com
Episode 11: My Cancer Story - A Massage Saved My Life, A Second Opinion Saved My Face
Apr 1 2024
Episode 11: My Cancer Story - A Massage Saved My Life, A Second Opinion Saved My Face
In this conversation, Elaina St James shares her personal experience with a parotid tumor and the journey she went through to seek treatment. She emphasizes the importance of listening to your body and seeking second opinions when necessary. Despite the challenges she faced, Elaina remained determined to find a better outcome and ultimately underwent surgery with a surgeon who cared. The pathology report revealed that the tumor was cancerous, but the doctor believed they had removed it all. Elaina continues to be closely monitored for any signs of recurrence. In this conversation, Elaina St James shares her personal experience with cancer and the impact it had on her life. She emphasizes the importance of early detection and how it can significantly improve survival rates. Elaina also discusses how her cancer scare changed her perspective on life and made her more focused on finding joy in everyday experiences. She encourages listeners to prioritize their health and get regular check-ups and screenings. Ultimately, Elaina's message is to be grateful for each day and to live life to the fullest.TakeawaysListen to your body and take action if something feels offSeek second opinions when it comes to your healthFind a doctor who cares and is committed to achieving the best outcomeRegular monitoring and follow-up are crucial after treatment Early detection is crucial in improving survival rates for cancer.Finding joy in everyday experiences can greatly enhance one's quality of life.Regular check-ups and screenings are essential for maintaining good health.Being grateful for each day and living life to the fullest is important.Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Motivation04:08 Discovering the Lump06:00 Living the Young Professional Life07:00 Diagnosis and Treatment Options13:40 Seeking a Second Opinion16:05 Finding a Surgeon with a Better Outcome28:23 Pathology Report and Aftermath32:03 The Importance of Early Detection39:18 Finding Joy in Life46:06 Taking Care of Your Health57:11 Being Greedy for JoyMake sure to Like, Follow, Subscribe (a 5 star review would be great too!)For More About Elaina: www.ElainaStJames.com