Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wondered how hustlers from Georgia turned their early struggles into entrepreneurial success stories? Meet Jack and Guest Sniper AKA BigPlay Ray, and XtraGramSam, as we recount our journeys from the gritty streets to business triumphs. Listen to how our brotherhood, rooted in resilience and a shared history, fuels our relentless drive. Through personal tales of risk-taking and overcoming setbacks, we reveal the hustler mentality that defines us and keeps us pushing forward.Surrounding yourself with goal-oriented people can make or break your success. We share our experiences cultivating a strong support system, stressing the importance of genuine connections and removing negative influences. As fathers, we discuss the legacies we aim to leave behind, and the relentless drive to succeed for our children. Be prepared for some laughs and touching moments as we share stories about the joys and challenges of parenting, and the unique motivation from our kids.The world has changed, and so has parenting. We reflect on our childhoods filled with outdoor adventures and how today's screen-focused youth are missing out. From reminiscing about drinking from water hoses to discussing the impact of technology, we highlight the generational shifts in upbringing. Wrapping up, we emphasize the importance of mutual support, self-belief, and the need to let go of stress. Pour yourself a drink, sit back, and enjoy an episode packed with motivational reflections, humorous anecdotes, and powerful insights into growth and resilience.

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever found yourself at a strip club, doused in body spray, wondering if there's more to life than cash and racy entertainment? Buckle up, as we rip away the misconceptions and get real about strip club etiquette, the unexpected power of vinegar in personal care, and why hygiene should be your wingman in the club and beyond. The For Steppers Only Crew crack open our dating vaults, revealing cringe-worthy moments and hard-learned lessons about the critical need for a pre-intimacy shower – trust us, your future self (and partner) will thank you.Imagine discovering the price of someone's self-worth is less than your weekly grocery bill – it's a tough pill to swallow. In a raw and revealing conversation, we dive into the complexities of self-worth in relationships, the ethics of sex work, and the heart-wrenching repercussions of betrayal. Through humor and gravity, we peel back layers of personal boundaries and examine the intricate dance between value, vulnerability, and the quest for genuine connections.As if navigating the murky waters of dating and club culture wasn't enough, we also step onto the battlefield of modern-day controversies. With a blend of wit and wisdom, we confront the contentious topic of Civil War reenactments and the role of African Americans in the South, while sending a blunt message to those clinging to antiquated prejudices. And for those pondering the intricacies of wealth management, we share a few financial nuggets to keep your bank account as robust as your social life. Join us for a rollercoaster ride of laughter, introspection, and a no-holds-barred approach to everything from love life to Civil War legacies.

Send us a Text Message.Ever been so deep in the friend zone you started getting family discounts? Jack, Ace, and Smiley are here to share the laughter and the pain, diving headfirst into the murky waters of unrequited love and the infamous Claremont Lounge antics. Chance might have missed out, lured by the allure of a one-legged stripper, but we're spilling all on those cringe-worthy moments when you realize that 'homie' is not the pet name you were hoping for. The highs and lows of high school crushes come flooding back, proving that some awkward moments are timeless.Turn down the lights and lean in; we're about to explore the intimate corridors of late-night conversations and those confusing relationship signals. Have you ever wondered if a 'just because' gift is a beacon of hope or just a friendly gesture? We tackle the complexities of first impressions, snoring debacles, and the subtle art of claiming your spot on the couch without causing World War III. Get ready for unfiltered tales and insights into the dance of human connection, where breath mints might just be your secret weapon.Hold on tight because we're cranking up the adrenaline with a trip down the roller coaster tracks of our scariest amusement park escapades. From the dizzying heights of Goliath to the unexpected creation of a mock prison shank, there's no shortage of thrills and gut-busting laughter. Nicknames become wrestling personas, and we come to terms with our own mortal fear of heights. So, strap in and prepare for a wild ride through the shared moments that weave the fabric of our friendships. It's an episode that promises to entertain as much as it reaffirms the joys of camaraderie.

Send us a Text Message.Hey, fellow night owls and fun-seekers, your captain on this wild nocturnal journey is none other than me, joined by the legendary DJ Eazie Dick spinning the decks. Grab your headphones, because we're about to share some of the craziest radio station tales you've never heard—think impromptu guitar solos, live show mishaps, and those tunes that make your late-night city cruise an epic one. We’ll also let you in on the art of the perfectly timed 'appointment text' that'll have you sliding from club to afterparty smoother than a buttered up bass line.Strap in for some unfiltered truths about the nightlife hustle, including why arriving fashionably late is more strategy than faux pas. I'll be unpacking those unwritten rules of party etiquette passed down from the sage advice of our mothers, with a twist of my own experiences. Ever debated the perfect moment to Irish exit or wondered how to balance a buzzing social life with the demands of a relationship? You're in the right place. Plus, get ready to laugh along as we share our most memorable (and sometimes regrettable) exits, proving that timing really is everything.When the lights come up and the music fades, the real stories come out. We're laying it all on the table: the post-party antics, the awkward goodbyes, and yep, even those intimate moments that leave you contemplating whether to change the sheets or jump in the shower. Remember, it's all about the journey—and sometimes the walk of shame is just another part of the adventure. Tune in for a session of rollicking good times and sage advice that'll have you ready to take on the night like a pro. With DJ Eazie Dick riding shotgun, this episode’s not just a conversation; it’s a full-blown experience.

Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered why sundresses spark such a cheeky buzz around town? We're dishing out all the playful secrets and personal takes on the quintessential summer garment that turns heads and hearts alike. From the subtle art of strap placement to the allure of spontaneous encounters, we're unpacking the wardrobe choices that heat up our days and nights. And you won't want to miss the light-hearted debate on whether sundresses are more about the fashion or the frisky escapades they tempt us with!Pull up a seat at our brunch table, where conversations swirl from the quirky versatility of chopsticks to the unexpected delight of cheesy ramen. Angeliki, our latest addition to the crew, jumps right in as we chew over the changing social norms in relationships and how intimacy weaves through the fabric of our day-to-day lives. It's a blend of foodie confessions and candid relationship talk, served with a side of humor and a whole lot of heart.Money matters can be a slippery slope in friendships and love affairs, and we're sharing stories from the trenches about financial expectations, lending dilemmas, and the struggles of single parenthood. It's not all about the dollars and cents though; wrap up with us as we extend a heartfelt thank you to our fans across the globe. From surprise early morning calls to hair dye dares, our listeners remind us why every episode is an adventure worth sharing.

Send us a Text Message.Navigating the treacherous tides of social media drama and its spill-over into real life, we, Jack and Smiley, cut through the noise to bring you insights on handling online boldness versus face-to-face silence. The digital landscape is a minefield of bravado where words fly freely without consequence, but what happens when the screen barrier lifts? We dissect this disparity, advocating for the art of measured reactions and the powerful statement made by choosing silence. Discover the strength in staying steadfast to your morals amidst the clamor, as we peel back the layers of authenticity against the backdrop of loud, yet often hollow, virtual assertions.When verbal spats escalate to dangerous confrontations, the stakes couldn't be higher. We take a sober look at the alarming societal shift towards settling disputes with finality rather than words or fists. It's time to address the consequences of decisions made in the heat of the moment—choices that can lead to irreversible outcomes. Stepping into the arena of conflict resolution, we share wisdom on walking away, the perspective that comes with age, and the blurry line between self-defense and escalation. Our candid conversation serves as a reminder of the value found in choosing battles with the foresight of what's at risk and the legacy we leave.Finishing strong, we explore the labyrinth of workplace drama and the intricate dance of relationship dynamics, from professional squabbles to the private intricacies of intimate connections. Personal anecdotes shed light on the lessons from owning our slip-ups, leveraging humor to defuse tension, and the necessity of boundaries and trust. And let's not skirt around the myths and misconceptions—like the earwax test for STIs—we're calling out the absurd and advocating for mature, responsible approaches to sexual health. It's an episode packed with raw examinations and hard-earned lessons on navigating life's dramas, both public and private. Stay tuned for a journey into the heart of conflict, connection, and personal integrity, right here on For Steppers Only.

Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how you'd react if your buddy showed up with neon green eyes? We sure did, and the laughs were non-stop as our Oakland firecracker, Aysha, sparked a hilarious debate on the fashion minefield of color contacts. From the daily bizarre to the outright spooky, we swap stories that'll make you think twice before picking out that next pair of Halloween peepers. And trust me, when it comes to public fashion interventions, we don't hold back – especially when it borders on extraterrestrial underwear defense strategies. Now, let's talk about the darker side of the moon – or should we say, the night shift. It's a world where sleep is a luxury, and public restrooms are your new best friend. We all get a little loopy without our beauty rest, don't we? Imagine juggling that with dodging the 'chum bucket' in a bathroom break gone wrong. Join us as we recount tales that'll have you howling with laughter and maybe, just maybe, appreciating your own day job a little more. We even touch on the military's 'unique' facilities, which give a whole new meaning to the term 'roughing it.'Wrapping up with a bang, we explore the price tag of life's quirks – both literal and figurative. How far would you go for a hefty sum, or what kind of odd job would it take for you to throw your principles out the window? Our candid conversation might just surprise you with its depth and twists. Then, Asia helps us turn up the vibe with a "Friday razzle dazzle" chat that's all about the spontaneous joys of life. So kick back, let us spin you a yarn, and start your weekend with a style only "Four Steppers Only" can deliver.

Send us a Text Message.Pour a glass and join the laughter as your hosts swirl through a cocktail of stories with Ayesha, fresh from Michigan State with a PHD in the Art of Stunting on them HOES! We're serving up a potent mix of memories as we recall our first clumsy dance with alcohol - think eclectic kitchens, the unexpected charm of Fireball whiskey, and sipping on the notorious MD 2020 and Bacardi Dragonberry. It's all about those drinks that fueled our most legendary tales and the hilarity of looking back on our younger selves with a blend of fondness and face-palming.Ever wondered about the wild dynamics of money tossing in clubs or the importance of friends who shoot straight from the hip? Well, you're in for a treat. We share a colorful array of experiences, from a money-flinging night that turns into an eyebrow-raising club encounter to the refreshing honesty that keeps us grounded. The conversation takes a twist as we confront the trickiness of helping the homeless and decompress with “customer service“ workers over their stress-relief methods. Plus, get a front-row seat to my discovery on a child's phone that sparks a must-hear chat on parenting in the tech era.As the episode wraps, we talk heart to heart about personal growth, the lessons we learn from navigating the social maze of school, and the importance of not repeating past errors. Aysha promises to return for another round of conversation—cheese platter in tow! To all our listeners, remember: growth is a journey without end, and it's always possible to redirect your course. Join us for an episode that's as rich in laughter as it is in life's revelations.

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever been swept up by the tidal wave of sexual desire, letting it steer the ship of your life decisions? Smiley and Jack sure have, and we're laying it all out there in a heart-to-heart about the intoxicating power of passion. We've both fallen into the trap of letting physical attraction cloud our judgment, and in this candid chat, we uncover the hilarity and havoc that can ensue when you put 'pussy on a pedestal'. With tales that will make you laugh and nod in agreement, we're tearing down the taboo and looking at sex with the reverence—and caution—it deserves.It's not just about who's under the sheets; it's also about the symphony that scores our life's most poignant moments. Music, that universal salve, gets its moment of glory as we share how melodies have held us through heartbreak. But it's not all slow jams and reminiscing; we're also taking a hard look at modern love and the importance of bringing your A-game to the table. Forget about 'plan B'—it's time to focus on personal growth and 'leveling up' in love. Join us as we muse on the standards we should be setting in our relationships and the dangers of backtracking into comfort zones.Ready to peel back the curtain on the more controversial topics? Let's talk about breastfeeding on social media and the complex reactions it evokes, from admiration to discomfort. This isn't just chatter; it's an exploration of the boundaries of privacy in our oversharing culture. And when it comes to dating, we're questioning the price tag we're slapping on romantic gestures: has love become a transaction? We're advocating for digging deeper, valuing shared goals and reciprocal energy over flashy gifts and surface-level allure. Tune in for a discourse that's as profound as it is provocative, where we challenge you to rethink what you're really investing in when seeking a partner.

Send us a Text Message.Ever pondered what unique flavors you add to the relationship stew? Tune in as Jack, Chance, and our vibrant guest SJae, also known as Lady Jae or Miss Jae, stir up a hearty conversation that will leave you appreciating your own secret sauce. Beyond the laughs, we dissect the real currency of personal worth in partnerships, debunk myths of a perfect 50-50 effort split, and serve up some spicy truths about the misconception of independence within intimate connections. It's not just about what's on the surface; we're going deeper.Let's talk about money, specifically, how it spices up or spoils the romance broth. We slice through the common fallacy of a financial threshold for dating and simmer down the pressures single parents face on the dating scene. As we navigate the social maze of clubbing as parents, we garnish our chat with tales of financial transparency, privacy, and the occasional club night gone awry. Whether you're a gaming or a budgeting wizard, you'll find a piece of your story in our candid game of fiscal truth or dare.So, you think you've heard all the bedroom bloopers and triumphs out there? Think again. We're sharing unfiltered accounts of sexual encounters that range from face-palm to high-five moments, all seasoned with the kind of humor that comes from taking a tumble or two. Whether it's your first time out of the gates or you're a seasoned player, we've got relatable anecdotes that'll have you chuckling and nodding along. SJae, you've added just the right amount of kick to this episode, and we can't thank you enough for bringing your whole pantry to the table.

Send us a Text Message.There's an old saying that a man's word is his bond, and in this episode, we're peeling back the layers on what integrity truly means in a world where handshake deals have been replaced with text message agreements. Jack’s late father passed down some priceless wisdom about the weight of a promise, and I'm bringing those life lessons to the table, spiced with personal anecdotes and a touch of humor about the perils of grocery shopping sans list. Joining us with his own streetwise insights is W aka Smiley, who's not afraid to tackle the thorny issues of trade ethics and the moral maze of 'theft by receiving.'When's the last time you passed someone on the street and wondered about their story? We take a hard look at the complexities of homelessness and begging, debating the alpha and beta dynamics that weave through our everyday interactions. It's a candid conversation about trust, technology's role in communication—even among the homeless—and the fine line between helping out and being exploited. And as we navigate these social quandaries, we're not shying away from the occasional awkward moment—like when my kids put my own vulnerabilities on full display.Wrapping up with a bang, we're bringing you tales from the front lines of work dynamics and personal growth, learned in the unforgiving corridors of a correctional facility. It's a world where respect is currency, and every move is a delicate dance with potential conflict. We're sharing an edge-of-your-seat account of a customer altercation that escalated faster than a speeding bullet. So buckle up for an episode that promises to shake up your perspectives and maybe, just maybe, leave you with a few nuggets of wisdom on standing firm when the going gets tough.

Send us a Text Message.Ever find yourself swapping those epic fail hookup stories with friends, only to end in stitches or a cringe? That's what we're bringing to the table in our latest episode. With over 300 downloads under our belts and a YouTube channel on the horizon, Chance, Jack, and along with a special guest “W”, laugh our way through the trials and triumphs of modern intimacy. We're peeling back the curtain on those sexual escapades that etch themselves into memory, and we're not shying away from the awkward, the hilarious, or the downright human moments that come with navigating the bedroom.Think adult toys are just a fad? Think again. We reveal the game-changing nature of rechargeable gadgets and confess to our own misadventures in the pursuit of pleasure. Our special guest weighs in on the delicate art of introducing toys into a relationship, tackling insecurities head-on, and the sheer comedy of trying to live up to the bedroom acrobatics of adult entertainment. We even dare to broach the dreaded topic of 'body count' and how past partners' histories play into new relationships, all while keeping the vibe light, laugh-filled, and as realistic as it gets.As we wrap up, we take a step back to reflect on the growth and evolution of our perspectives on intimacy and relationships. Life's rich tapestry is woven with the threads of our experiences, and we're not afraid to discuss the influence of friends, the introduction of sex toys, and the judgments we sometimes face. Join us for a candid, eye-opening romp through the world of relationships, where we celebrate the successes, learn from the missteps, and embrace the continuous journey of personal development. This episode isn't just a milestone; it's a treasure trove of connection and discovery, served with a side of irreverent humor.

Send us a Text Message.Navigating the tumultuous waves of life's changes can feel like steering a ship through a storm, but it's the shared laughter and lessons that keep us afloat. Join me, Jack, and my good friend Chance, as we mark the fifth episode of our podcast series with candid reflections on everything from Jack’s recovery and moving to the Georgian countryside, to the culture shock of soaring rents. We're swapping stories from the days of DVD hustles to the quirks of rural living—complete with a month-long wait for internet—drawing on the humor and nostalgia that bond us.Ever notice how the smallest moments can reveal the biggest truths about ourselves? It's amid the uproar of fatherhood, where  Jack dad to five, unpack the complexities of parenthood, contrasted with tales from my military life and street-smart survival. We're getting real about the challenges and triumphs, sharing wisdom on everything from old-school hygiene to the unwritten rules of street etiquette. Chance and Jack explore these narrative threads with a mix of heartfelt insights and laughter, underlining the values that sculpt our lives.Remember the days when your school attire could make or break your social life? Those awkward years are back in the spotlight as we recall the pressure to conform to dress codes and the youthful bravado that often landed us in trouble. From fashion faux pas to childhood punishments, these are the stories that shape us, and we're just getting started. With a promise to dive deeper into a pivotal childhood memory involving my sister in our next session, this episode is a tapestry of the past, weaving together the experiences that have made us who we are today. Pull up a chair and join us for a journey through laughter, life lessons, and the camaraderie that makes it all worthwhile.

Send us a Text Message.Ever tried to measure out your cough syrup with one of those tiny cups they give you? Chance and Jack couldn't help but chuckle over this shared slice of life as we delved into the gritty truth about adulting on this week's podcast. From flu battles to the relentless march of responsibilities, our conversation uncovers the not-so-shiny aspects of growing up, including the pressure to persevere for those who rely on us. We peel back the layers of workplace loyalty, reflecting on how our roles extend far beyond personal ambitions to the lives of our families and colleagues.Cooking up nostalgia with 'struggle meals,' we reminisce over the comfort of simple foods and how they're more than just sustenance—they're a beacon of hope during tough times, like post-surgery recovery. Chance and Jack ponder on survival mode, questioning if it's a state of mind that comes and goes with life's ups and downs or a constant battle. Authenticity in relationships emerges as a key theme, capturing the essence of genuine connections and the significant choice to invest energy wisely, avoiding the drain of negativity.Wrapping up with a potent mix of insight and experience, we navigate the complex currents of gender roles in dating and the societal pressures they bring. From financial boundaries to mutual support, we share personal takes on navigating relationships in today's world. The episode culminates with a rallying call to business growth and financial literacy, stressing the value of investing in oneself and the lasting payoff it promises. It's not just about the grind; it's about growing through what we go through, and this episode is a testament to that journey. Join us for a heartfelt blend of life lessons, laughter, and the pursuit of success—whatever that may mean for you.

Send us a Text Message.What's up For Steppers Only Family!! We are here toasting to our global community with humor, wisdom, and a splash of real talk. Ever wondered how your virtual cheers could echo across oceans? Our podcast sails have caught a hundred-download wind, and we're steering this ship into new territories like YouTube and TikTok. Keep your life in motion with us as we navigate the ripples of being role models and the tides of personal growth that have shaped our journeys from day one.Cruise into the heart of professional relationships with us; it's a delicate tango of staying true while drawing the line. Discover how an abandoned Thanksgiving plate became a lesson on workplace boundaries without dimming our authentic shine. We're serving up stories with a side of laughter as we explore the genuine connections and the dance of 'rocking with someone from a distance'—all while keeping our principles at the forefront. Jump aboard for a talk on the seismic shifts NIL deals are causing in the athletic ocean. High school and college athletes are riding the waves of early entrepreneurship, but with great contracts come great responsibility. Join our discussion as we chart the course these young sports talents are navigating, from financial windfalls to the responsibility of being a brand ambassador. Remember, every stride, every leap, and every sprint puts you in motion toward your goals, and we're here to fuel that journey. So, subscribe, join our conversation, and let's keep the positive energy flowing!

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever snuck away from a gathering, phone pressed to your ear, wondering if everyone's imagining the worst about your clandestine conversation? Jack and Chance chuckle over such phone faux pas and the comedy that ensues when privacy and suspicion collide. We're beyond grateful for the love you've shown since our launch and we’re eager to share more – from my own shoulder surgery saga and a family mystery involving eerie nocturnal calls, to tackling the towering topic of height disparities in the dating game. It's all about the little things (and the tall tales) in this episode where we navigate societal expectations with humor and honesty.Picture this: you're lying next to your partner and suddenly height differences don't matter – it's one of the many amusing truths we uncover when discussing romance with a significant altitude adjustment. We exchange stories about the highs (quite literally) and lows of dating taller women, and how society's measuring stick often misses the mark. Then, we pivot to the intriguing courtship dance of modern times, questioning whether intellectual allure trumps physical attraction and debating the merits of a 90-day trial period to get to know someone truly. Whether you're a WNBA fan or just fascinated by the evolving landscape of love, you'll find a kindred spirit in our candid banter.The episode crescendos with a bold exploration of the OnlyFans phenomenon and its ripple effects on trust and exclusivity within relationships. We confront the thorny issues surrounding personal content in the public domain, shared pasts among friends, and the delicate dance of discussing the dreaded 'body count'. Amidst the humor, we dare to dissect the boundaries we set in our personal lives, questioning how far is too far when it comes to voyeurism and the intersection of past and present rendezvous. So, why kick back, relax, and join us for a journey through the quirks of connectivity, both digital and romantic?

Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered if your Valentine’s Day antics are hilariously relatable or just a series of personal missteps? Join me as I peel back the layers of Cupid's holiday, diving into the comedic truths behind romantic investments and the playful dynamics of 'work spouses.' This episode is a riotous exploration of love and the lighter side of workplace relationships. We'll share a chuckle over the singles who are dodging the financial bullet of love's high holiday, and I'll tell you why your partner might side-eye that home-cooked meal from your 'work wife.'Who says wisdom's only worn by the weathered? We're tearing down the age barriers and basking in the brilliance of mentorship across the generations. This pod is your backstage pass to the harmonious blend of personal development and work-life antics. We'll share stories of respect, appreciation, and the hidden menu items that keep our 9-to-5 lively. Tune in for a genuine look at the bonds that bolster us and the laughter that lightens the load. Whether it's navigating thorny office dynamics or the intimate shuffle of partner support, we're mixing sound advice with a side of humor to serve up your new favorite blend of podcast perfection.