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Finding You: An Evoke Therapy Podcast
Dr. Brad Reedy
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Evoke Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving adolescents, young adults, parents, couples, and families. Email the host brad@evoketherapy.com
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3d ago
Evoke Therapy Intensives for Couples, Parents, and Families - Ep 603
Dr. Reedy discusses Evoke’s custom private intensives for couples and families. He explains what make Evoke’s Intensive work different and how we aim to be the experts, not on your life, but on creating a process where you can discover your truth.
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3d ago
Evoke Therapy Intensives for Couples, Parents, and Families - Ep 603
Dr. Reedy discusses Evoke’s custom private intensives for couples and families. He explains what make Evoke’s Intensive work different and how we aim to be the experts, not on your life, but on creating a process where you can discover your truth.
Apr 17 2024
Evoke Intensives: What Sets Us Apart - Ep 602
Dr. Reedy discusses what sets Evoke Therapy Intensives apart from other programs. He explains the clinical model and explains how Evoke uses attachment and the concepts of transference and counter transference.
Apr 10 2024
When Apologizing Doesn’t Work (Q&A) - Ep 601
Dr. Reedy takes questions from the audience on what to do if doing your own work and apologizing to your children doesn’t make a difference.
Apr 5 2024
Blocked Care: Regaining Compassion for Your Child - Ep 600
From an article by Melissa Corkum and Lisa Qualls, Dr. Reedy discusses what happens when the chronic stress from children struggling with mental health issues bring parents to a point of numbness, disconnection, and shame. He talks about the isolation and shame that comes when a parent loses their ability to feel warmth and love for a struggling child. Dr. Reedy talks about this dynamic in the context of attachment, parental guilt, and self-care. Full article here: https://thearchibaldproject.com/blocked-care-how-to-regain- compassion-for-yourself-and-your-child
Apr 3 2024
Is Taking Care of Yourself Selfish? (Q&A) - Ep 599
Dr. Reedy talks takes live questions from the audience and talks about self-care in the context of the child parent dynamic. He talks about looking for a therapist that is patient, kind, and secure. He explains attachment-based therapy and the upcoming Master Class and how the medicine in therapy is the way the therapist is with the client.
Mar 29 2024
Communication Theory and Skills - Ep 598
Dr. Reedy talks about communication skills and how “why” we share is more important than the words we use.
Mar 27 2024
Helping Children Move Through Feelings (Q&A) - Ep 597
Dr. Reedy take live questions from the audience. He discusses how to deal with an angry, resentful child. He also talks about what can happen when one spouse doesn’t want to do their therapy work.
Mar 21 2024
Addiction and Self-Medication - Ep 596
Addiction and Self-Medication - Ep 596 by Dr. Brad Reedy
Mar 20 2024
Modeling Change for Our Children (Q&A) - Ep 595
Dr. Reedy takes live questions from the audience on the process of wilderness therapy, how to support a family member in treatment, the new book "Bad Therapy," and how to model the change you want to see in your children.
Mar 15 2024
Myth, Story, and the Heroic Journey Inward - Ep 594
Dr. Reedy talks about how myth and stories provide a template for the heroic journey inward to discover ourselves. He uses this idea to show that our stories and out myths are invitations to look at the lost parts of ourselves so that we can heal and become who we are.
Mar 13 2024
Finding Hope After Mistakes (Q&A) - Ep 593
Dr. Reedy answers a question about finding hope and worth after an affair. He talks about how to make a repair with a child who doesn’t want to engage anymore. He explains that our context can be internalized and the way to healing is to spend time with a patient, empathic Other.
Mar 6 2024
How to Find a Therapist - Ep 592
Dr. Reedy talks about what to look for in a therapist. He talks about how to recognize a mature therapist who is capable of holding you with compassion and patience. He explains that "the way a therapist is with you" is the medicine. He talks about characteristics of the adequate or "good enough" therapist. He emphasizes that the therapist must first model being human since that is the task in therapy. He explains that if the therapist can hold your anger, frustration, and resistance with love, you have found a therapist worth keeping.
Mar 1 2024
Let’s Talk About the “Defense” (Q&A) – Ep 591
Dr. Reedy takes live questions from the audience. He talks about defenses, where and why they happen, what it feels like when we encounter the defense in ourselves or the Other, and what healing looks like so we don’t need the protection of the defense.
Feb 28 2024
The Eden Project: In Search of the Magical Other by James Hollis (Book Review) - Ep 590
Dr. Reedy provide an overview of The Eden Project by James Hollis. He explains how the early stages of romantic love are fraught with pitfalls of projection, blame, and the working out of the unconscious, unexplored parts of ourselves. He talks about the responsibility to live our own life and cease abdicating our chief responsibility – to individuate and become more whole, more conscious as the pathway to greater intimacy and love in marriage.
Feb 23 2024
How We Love Those Hurting Themselves - Ep 589
Dr. Reedy takes live questions from the audience on loving our children when they are hurting themselves and on finding the right kind of therapist for ourselves.
Feb 21 2024
The Teen Whisperer: An Interview with Kirsten Cobabe - Ep 588
The Teen Whisperer: An Interview with Kirsten Cobabe - Ep 588 by Dr. Brad Reedy
Feb 21 2024
Skills and Self - Ep 587
Dr. Reedy talks about the value and limitations of skill-based work and therapy. He talks about how the development of the self is the foundation for deeper change and how that can be accomplished. He posits that the outcome of therapy is that we become who we are.
Feb 14 2024
Owning and Dealing with Your Guilt (Q&A) - Ep 586
Dr. Reedy takes live questions from the audience. He discusses that the work isn’t always about learning to put up with more and more, but may be setting boundaries with people in your life. He explains that the primary barriers to higher enlightenment are shame and guilt. He says that the dominant cultures offers erroneous ideas on the subject of becoming and person and loving others. Dr. Reedy explains that enlightenment means that we deal with the parts of ourselves we avoid.
Feb 7 2024
How Al-anon and Coda Help - Ep 585
Dr. Reedy discusses Al-anon, Codependency, and how the 12-Steps apply to the non-identified patient. He defines codependency and talks about its connection to attachment and the attachment wound we suffered. He goes through each of the 12 Steps and ties them back to the principles they address. He debunks the excuses people have when resisting attending meetings for themselves.
Jan 31 2024
Shadow Work - Ep 584
Dr. Reedy discuss the shadow and how the repressed energy of our unconscious impacts our behaviors and relationships. He talks about how to recognize the shadow and how to unpack and heal so that we don’t ask our children and our partners to carry our unconscious, undone work.