Fearlessly Curious

Melissa Indot

Hey! I’m Melissa Indot and I’m here to help you navigate through your emotions for greater self-awareness, heal trauma and cultivate curiosity to help you live with purpose. Every Friday, I’ll share with you my personal stories and reflections plus a selection of interviews with experts and thought leaders in the mental health space, all designed to help you live with fearless authenticity. Please subscribe, rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. read less
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S02E02: Confidence in Authenticity: Breaking Free from Comparison & Doubt
Apr 11 2024
S02E02: Confidence in Authenticity: Breaking Free from Comparison & Doubt
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!In this excerpt from Season 2 #fearlesslycuriouspodcast I'm sharing a clip from a Private Coaching Session with a client who's revamping their online presence as we build together the framework for their new entrepreneurial journey.In this clip my client shares their internal struggle with self-doubt and fear of judgment in life especially when posting on social media. The importance of authenticity and self-expression is emphasized. I encourage my client to post content that brings joy rather than conforming to social expectations. I suggest how to deal with negative self-talk, such as acknowledging and logging doubts to understand and overcome them. Human design is introduced as a tool to understand your unique traits and to use this knowledge to navigate social media with confidence and a sense of direction. I encourage you to embrace your individuality, dismiss the fear of not being good enough, and to post content that genuinely represents YOU, turning the act of sharing into a joyful and empowering practice.In every coaching session, the aim is not just to share and discuss but to suggest strategies for clients to honour their needs in this case to be seen and recognised for their authenticity.After all what makes your business and you stand out in a sea of compeition is what no one can compete with - your Unique personality and vision.Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
S02E01: Navigating Relationships - Conscious Parenting Communication | Awareness, Authority & Accountability
Mar 13 2024
S02E01: Navigating Relationships - Conscious Parenting Communication | Awareness, Authority & Accountability
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Season 2 #fearlesslycuriouspodcast kicks off with a clip from a real  Conscious Parenting Coaching Session where I address the situation of a child choosing NOT to communicate with an authority figure, and the parent's role in managing this situation. I present an opportunity for the parents to recognise their child's consistent decisions to assert her boundaries as qualities in her developing character to be admired.Their child is clear on their needs, has the ability to express them, is consistently & confidently showing up in their decisions showing strong boundaries.We discuss how parents can support their children while maintaining safe and legal practices and the importance of open dialogues and understanding the perspectives of both the parents and the child. I highlight to the parents the importance of being open to expressing to their child that they are figuring things out, doing the best they can with what they know as they go along and sometimes parents don’t make the best decisions.At the end of the day they are in this together and as long as together they stand strong with a forward view on refining and improving then any errors can be resolved with loving kindness and compassionIn every coaching session, the aim is not just to share and discuss but to suggest strategies for parents to honour their children's unique needs, in this case upholding boundaries, while fulfilling their legal obligations and responsibilities.Clients voices have been replaced with ai generated voices in respect of their privacyResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
50: Emotional Healing Life Coaching: Why It's Important and How It Can Benefit You
Jan 11 2024
50: Emotional Healing Life Coaching: Why It's Important and How It Can Benefit You
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!What if your healing journey unlocked a deeper understanding of yourself and paved the way to live authentically, according to your unique blueprint?For the last episode of this season, I want to delve deep into the transformative process of emotional healing life coaching.You are born into this world with so much conditioning encoded within your DNA that you may not be aware of until you allow your fearless curiosity to guide you.That’s why I want to share my gift with you: emotional healing life coaching and the benefits of undergoing this transformative process.Here are the highlights from this episode:04:57 - The difference between coaching, counselling, and therapy08:35 - The benefits of emotional healing life coaching10:08 - The importance of living according to one's individual blueprint 15:39 - How emotional healing life coaching reduces stress and anxiety19:31 - How to develop a foolproof strategy to improve decision making process24:26 - Emotional healing life coaching focuses on long-term transformation, not quick fixes.Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
49: Friends with Benefits: Navigating Choices, Creating Home, and the Art of Giving with Joo Teoh and Adeleena Lim
Dec 28 2023
49: Friends with Benefits: Navigating Choices, Creating Home, and the Art of Giving with Joo Teoh and Adeleena Lim
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Have you ever wondered about the intricate dance between choice, the concept of home, and the art of giving? How do these elements intertwine to shape our experiences, relationships, and sense of self?Imagine peeling back the layers of fear, failure, and societal expectations to uncover the authentic self. Joo Teoh and Adeleena Lim guide us through the labyrinth of choice, challenging us to question, "Where is home?" Is it a physical space, an emotional sanctuary, or a journey toward self-discovery?Come along with Joo, Adele, and me as we challenge the conventional notions of home, contemplating its essence beyond physical spaces. You'reinvited to join in on this inspiring conversation.Here are the highlights from this episode:05:41 - The essence of a home08:53 - The story behind Normandy Retreats12:32 - The importance and disadvantage of holding space for someone23:56 - Understanding individuals' needs when developing a program37:38 - How hustle culture negatively impacts an individual's identity and choices43:46 - The importance of saying “no”48:23 - The need to assess one's self-awareness in decision-making.About Our GuestsJoo Teoh, a trailblazer in holistic healing, found his calling amidst the shadows of adversity in Beijing back in 2006. Leaving behind a thriving 17-year corporate career, Joo took a bold leap into yoga, qigong, meditation, acupuncture, and massage. Breaking societal norms and familial expectations, he now serves as a devoted healer, offering public group classes and private retreats in Normandy, France.As a Five Element acupuncturist trained in London, Joo blends ancient wisdom with modern practices, inspiring others to embrace well-being beyond cultural boundaries. His teachings, emphasising breath, alignment, and intention, create an inclusive space for practitioners of all levels.Learn more about Joo on his website: https://www.jooteoh.com/ .Adele Lim is a beacon of resilience and self-discovery in the healing arts realm. Her journey began with corporate burnout and a challenging breakup, prompting her to seek solace and grace through yoga. Undeterred by adversity, she took a bold risk, leaving everything Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
48: How to Reshape Your Mindset Using Neuroscience and Mindfulness with Steffi Seefeld
Dec 14 2023
48: How to Reshape Your Mindset Using Neuroscience and Mindfulness with Steffi Seefeld
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!What if the key to unlocking your true potential lies in understanding the intricacies of your mind? Steffi Seefeld joins me to share valuable insights into the mind-body connection, emphasising that thoughts trigger chemical responses in the body. She talks about how awareness, metacognition, and interrupting habitual states can empower you to break free from the cycles of unproductive thoughts and emotions.Come along with me and Steffi as we explore the fascinating world of neuroscience and its profound impact on transformation. It's a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the conscious rewiring of our brains.Here are the highlights from this episode:02:53 - Why Steffi wants to connect people to more joy05:06 - How Steffi healed after a precancerous cell diagnosis07:34 - The importance of consciously choosing how to respond to events15:41 - How to connect with your intuition 20:13 - The power of curiosity in personal growth and overcoming fear28:47 - Why most people feel stuck30:14 - How to create new neurological pathways in your brain34:18 - How negative thought patterns can trigger stress hormonesAbout Our GuestSteffi Seefeld is a passionate advocate for deep human connection and transformation. Four years ago, she experienced a transformative moment during her morning meditation, leading to the creation of the Connection University—a platform dedicated to cultivating deep human connections. This vision unfolded through monthly workshops, bridging the gap between individuals and their relationships.As a facilitator and coach, Steffi's purpose is clear: enabling individuals to create the life and relationships they dream of, blending neuroscience-based concepts and conscious relationship practices. Discover more about Steffi Seefeld's transformative work and connect with her on her website, Instagram, and LinkedIn.Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
47: Healing from Within: How to Navigate Emotional Pain and Trauma
Nov 30 2023
47: Healing from Within: How to Navigate Emotional Pain and Trauma
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!What does it mean to truly heal from within?I'm taking you on a journey into the heart of navigating emotional pain and trauma. It's about more than just overcoming; it's about acknowledging, feeling, and transforming these deep emotions. From the pangs of rejection to the shadow of abandonment, we'll explore how to confront and comfort these feelings, rooted in our need for connection.Together, we'll learn to listen to our bodies, recognise the whispers of our emotions, and gently guide ourselves towards healing and self-compassion. This is a path not just to recovery, but to discovering the strength and resilience that lies within us all.Here are the highlights from this episode:02:32 - What does healing from within mean? 10:01 - How understanding your emotions can help in self-healing13:17 - Practising emotional healing15:22 - Dealing with rejection and abandonment18:20 - Addressing the feeling of disconnection through self-reflection and self-compassionResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
46: How to Pivot from Trauma to Triumph: A Healing Journey with Ozzin Jun
Nov 16 2023
46: How to Pivot from Trauma to Triumph: A Healing Journey with Ozzin Jun
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Healing and success may seem like parallel paths, but what if you could merge them into a transformative journey? What if your personal healing was, in fact, the key to unlocking your entrepreneurial spirit and business growth?Ozzin Jun joins me for an insightful conversation, guiding us towards a deeper understanding of how personal development, self-worth, and healing integrate seamlessly with entrepreneurship. Rather than seeing healing as a separate part of her journey, Ozzin embraces it as the foundation of her success, teaching us that our inner struggles and personal healing can become driving forces for personal and professional triumph.Ozzin and I dive into the world of healing and entrepreneurship, explore the essence of self-worth, and underscore the importance of authenticity. Together, we're consciously crafting  empowered narratives, transforming adversity into success and making a conscious decision to heal and thrive. Here are the highlights from this episode:02:25 - The importance of a holistic approach in navigating your business15:12 - The story behind Ozzin’s life challenges22:56 - How Ozzin created her own path to self-healing29:15 - Understanding the concept of marrying yourself36:55 - The difference between the Korean culture and Western culture44:01 - Ozzin's journey from struggles to success51:25 - Why hyperfocusing on your mission is importantAbout Our GuestOzzin Jun, the founder of Jun International Coaching and Your Universal Way, has empowered individuals to heal and unite the world through various means, including awakening spirituality, trauma healing, world-class leadership, and transforming education and healthcare.From a humble beginning as a financially challenged student and university dropout, Ozzin has risen to become an international business luminary. Her mission is clear: to assist entrepreneurs in transforming their passions into world-class 6-7-figure coaching businesses.Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
45: How Music & Human Design Guide Us Through Anxiety and Fear
Nov 2 2023
45: How Music & Human Design Guide Us Through Anxiety and Fear
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!What if I told you that fear isn't always the enemy? That it could, in fact, be one of your most powerful teachers, guiding you towards a holistic life.I'll be sharing with you why and how the combination of music with human design is incredibly powerful for navigating anxiety and fear, especially for those of you who identify as introverts and creatives.Let’s dive deep into the distinction between fear and anxiety, gain a clearer understanding of your own emotions, and explore the incredible role music plays in our lives.Here are the highlights from this episode:02:17 - Why music is a powerful tool for navigating anxiety and fear03:52 - The difference between fear and anxiety07:42 - The role of music in creating awareness and new experiences13:57 - How to learn to navigate fear15:26 - How to leverage your own music to befriend your fearCheck out these episodes about Human Design:EP.34 - How to Rediscover Your True Self with Human DesignEP.36 - Unearthing Your Potential: A Dive Into Human Design's Energy Centres and AuthoritiesEP.38 - Your Unique Path: Understanding and Embracing Human Design ProfilesResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
44:  Exploring Life and Love: A Deeper Dive into Confronting Hard Truths with Chris Do (Part 2)
Oct 19 2023
44: Exploring Life and Love: A Deeper Dive into Confronting Hard Truths with Chris Do (Part 2)
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!After the first part of my  dynamic conversation with Chris Do on finding purpose, identity, and community,  we go deeper in Part 2 of our discussion.Chris shares his candid insights on choosing the ideal life partner using his revealing "drive-thru test," why complete honesty has been his Achilles’ heel in relationships, and how to uncover your unique gifts  to use them to make the world better.Join us for a thoughtful and open dialogue as Chris shares more about authentic partnership, understanding people, and living purposefully. Discover more relationship and life wisdom with the talented Chris Do.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:02:12 - Why choosing the right life partner is very crucial06:47 - Money is the byproduct of pursuit10:19 - Chris’ dating advice17:31 - Subtle things people do that reveal so much about them20:49 - What is Chris’ Achilles heel?24:57 - The truth is such a high value25:40 - Whatever a person perceives of you. is a reflection of who they are31:04 - Find your inner freak – your weirdo, your shadow self, your vulnerabilitiesAbout the GuestMeet Chris Do, the Emmy award-winning designer and visionary behind The Futur—an online education platform that captures the essence of a private art school, without the crippling debt. Chris' journey is painted with a bold ambition to teach an impressive one billion people the art of earning a living by pursuing their passions. This mission isn't just a number for him—it's a testament to his deep-rooted belief in empowering individuals to unlock their potential.With over 15 years teaching at ArtCenter and Otis College, he's also graced global stages from AIGA conferences to Digital Design Days in Milan.Connect with Chris and be a part of his billion-strong vision on various platforms:TwitterInstagramTikTokYouTubeFacebookResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
43: How To Find Your Purpose, Identity, And Community With Chris Do (Part 1)
Oct 5 2023
43: How To Find Your Purpose, Identity, And Community With Chris Do (Part 1)
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!I've been a member of the FuturPro Community for quite some time now, and it's with great honour that I introduce my special guest, Chris Do, onto the show.Chris and I delve deep into the fundamental questions that resonate with many throughout their journey in life:What is our purpose in life?How do we go about defining our authentic identity?Where can we discover a sense of belonging within our community?Drawing from his extensive experience and wealth of wisdom, Chris offers invaluable insights and practical advice aimed at helping creatives and introverts boost their self-confidence, unearth their life or career purpose, and carve out a unique identity within our community.Join Chris and me in this engaging and powerful conversation as we uncover the answers to these profound questions together.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:02:45 - How Chris Do discovered his purpose and zone of genius07:43 - How to adapt and avoid labels becoming limits in our identities12:05 - Finding your two-word personal brand20:20 - How the Futur Pro community helps creative entrepreneurs 26:48 - Be the person that you needed in your own journey32:16 - The value of having diverse voices and different points of view34:36 - Why Futur Pro is not a cult40:31 - How to operate on a generosity principleAbout the GuestMeet Chris Do, the Emmy award-winning designer and visionary behind The Futur—an online education platform that captures the essence of a private art school, without the crippling debt. Chris' journey is painted with a bold ambition to teach an impressive one billion people the art of earning a living by pursuing their passions. This mission isn't just a number for him—it's a testament to his deep-rooted belief in empowering individuals to unlock their potential.With over 15 years teaching at ArtCenter and Otis College, he's also graced global stages from AIGA conferences to Digital Design Days in Milan.Connect with Chris and be a part of his billion-strong vision on various platforms:TwitterInstagramResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
42: The Gift of Surrendering to Life and Love: A Journey to Fearless Authenticity
Sep 21 2023
42: The Gift of Surrendering to Life and Love: A Journey to Fearless Authenticity
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Have you ever wondered what it truly means to surrender? I want to share a personal journey with you - my recent experience of falling in love again. After years of focusing on my work and personal growth, I felt a deep desire for an intimate relationship, but with clear boundaries and intentions. Through prayer and meditation, I set my intentions for a conscious relationship, breaking free from codependency and hyper-independence.As I share my personal experiences and insights, we'll explore the importance of embodying our true selves, embracing our unique perspectives, and honouring our own needs and boundaries. This experience involves surrendering into the present moment, letting go of what we know, and being open to the wisdom of our lived experiences.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:01:50 - The purpose of being true to oneself04:00 - Experiencing the gift of falling in love again06:05 - The importance of clarity in understanding one’s needs07:23 - Moving from hyper independence to interdependence in relationships10:50 - What surrendering really means14:07 - The role of curiosity in conscious relationshipsResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
41: How To Share Your Story and Heal Through Writing with Eda Utku
Sep 7 2023
41: How To Share Your Story and Heal Through Writing with Eda Utku
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!What if the very things that seem to hinder you—your big emotions, your sensitivities, your quirks—are actually your greatest gifts? What if sharing these gifts through storytelling could help you heal, inspire others, and, ultimately, live a more fulfilled life?When it comes to transforming lives through the magic of words, few people understand this better than Eda Utku. An esteemed writer and author of "Live the Gift," Eda is here to tell us that it's not only possible, but it's also a journey many have taken, including herself.Join Eda and me as we explore the transformative power of writing, its ability to heal past traumas, and its potential to shape not just narratives, but lives. As we navigate this journey, we're not just crafting stories; we're weaving the very fabric of who we are and who we aspire to be.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:08:08 - Don’t allow other people to create your reality through their words14:47 - Why the feminine strength is so powerful17:46 - The importance of honouring your feminine cycle and allowing it to take its course24:01 - Take the plunge and surrender into your transformational healing journey30:54 - The biggest challenges and risks Eda had to take32:42 - What people can expect from “Live The Gift”About the GuestMeet Eda Utku, the vibrant soul and thought leader behind WritePublishGrow, an innovative platform that encourages everyone to recognise the miracle of their lives through storytelling. Shaped by her parents' unrealised artistic dreams and her own unique experiences, Eda has turned to writing as a fearless act of self-expression and a pathway to explore her own truths. From unearthing the intergenerational trauma within her family to redefining the ways she celebrates her holidays, Eda is a living embodiment of transformation.Eda has invested her time and resources into writing several impactful books, including a biography about her mother, a memoir exploring her complicated relationship with Christmas, and "Live the Gift"—a compelling anthology of stories about individuals who have chosen to live a life built around creativity.Learn more about WritePublishGrow on their Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
40: How to Thrive in the Face of Fear and Failure with Chris James
Aug 24 2023
40: How to Thrive in the Face of Fear and Failure with Chris James
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Fear and failure can seem like massive roadblocks in your journey, but what if you could turn them into stepping stones? What if these challenges are actually your secret keys to unlocking courage, resilience, and untapped potential?Chris James swings by for an eye-opening chat, steering us towards a new way of looking at fear and failure. Instead of seeing them as tough obstacles, he suggests treating them as life's teachers and guides towards self-discovery, growth, and personal triumph.So, come along with me and Chris as we dig into fear and failure, explore the power of curiosity, and highlight the importance of staying true to yourself. We're writing our own story here, using our fears and failures to shape our authentic selves. You're totally invited to join in on this inspiring adventure.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:05:32 - Chris dives into his purposeful mission10:56 - There's such a fine line between confidence and arrogance19:39 - The importance of having single focus22:51 - A rejection is essentially a redirection31:56 - When you do something repeatedly, your confidence grows38:46 - Why talking with your fear can be beneficial45:11 - We are not one dimensional, we are on a spectrum47:58 - Feeling fear is completely normalAbout the GuestChris James, the visionary behind Content To Clients, has an inspiring personal journey marked by determination and transformation. Driven by his family and personal fulfilment, he turned his life around from being overweight and unhappy to embodying vitality and contentment.With a wealth of B2B sales and marketing experience under his belt, Chris has successfully sold to major brands such as FedEx, Subway, and Jack Daniels. Today, he dedicates his expertise to help coaches, consultants, and creatives build and scale their businesses through social media.Through his consulting program, Content To Clients, Chris is committed to changing lives, empowering his clients to live life on their terms, channel their expertise, and monetize their audience using multi-platform content. His story is one of resilience and purposeful change, resonating with everyone seeking to transform their lives and their businesses.Follow and get to know more about Chris and his Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
39: How to Maintain Authenticity and Diversity in Podcasting with Dylan Schmidt
Aug 10 2023
39: How to Maintain Authenticity and Diversity in Podcasting with Dylan Schmidt
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Diving into the heart of podcasting, authenticity and diversity are two facets that significantly make this platform more special.In a world echoing with voices, what sets yours apart? Is it the courage to be yourself? Is it by allowing your unique stories and perspectives to colour your narratives?According to Dylan Schmidt, the man behind Podcast Academy, the uniqueness lies in embracing your individuality and nurturing diverse conversations. His journey is a testament that standing tall in your truth and giving a platform to a variety of experiences and perspectives truly brings out the beauty of podcasting.Join Dylan and I as we explore what it means to stay true to our own voice and bring new, different perspectives into the world of podcasting. As we navigate this space, we're shaping our own unique narratives in tune with who we truly are.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:03:57 - Dylan talks about what his expertise and who he helps09:40 - What is the Podcast Academy?12:36 - You gotta leave room for something beautiful to happen20:25 - How Dylan’s “Content Secrets” helps podcast hosts determine what to talk about28:23 - Taking care of mental health and well-being while giving value to your community33:29 - Surrendering to the flow of life is a skill37:36 - Journaling is a really powerful way for self-communication42:20 - The current stereotype on white male podcasters50:31 - You can’t fake authenticity in podcastingAbout the GuestDylan Schmidt, the founder of Digital Podcaster, has dedicated his life to amplifying voices from all backgrounds. Guided by adversity and an innate drive to make an impact, Dylan took the daring leap to fully commit to his dream - a decision which ultimately led him to the formation of Digital Podcaster. Despite facing hurdles such as impostor syndrome and industry stereotypes, Dylan has been unwavering in his commitment to diversify the podcasting space.With his ventures, Content Clips and Podcast Academy, Dylan continues to aid others in sharing their unique narratives. A family man based in Los Angeles, Dylan’s purpose lies Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
38: Your Unique Path: Understanding and Embracing Human Design Profiles
Jul 27 2023
38: Your Unique Path: Understanding and Embracing Human Design Profiles
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Embarking on a unique journey towards self-discovery and understanding your innate capabilities can lead to a more enriching and fulfilling life. Where does one start on this intriguing journey?Let’s talk about human design profiles—a robust tool that not only reveals your inherent strengths, your decision-making strategies, and purpose but also showcases your distinctive approach to life. Think of it as your personal roadmap, marking out your unique gifts and charting the course on how best to utilise them.By understanding the human design profiles, you'll gain the self-awareness and knowledge necessary to make decisions that truly resonate with your authentic self and understand how you interact with the world around you.I'm here to guide you on this captivating journey of self-discovery. Let's explore the fascinating world of human design profiles together, unravelling your potential and setting the stage for a life lived with authenticity, understanding, and fulfilment.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:02:24 - What is human design?02:51 - The significance of conscious and unconscious lines in defining personality and design03:39 - Exploring each profile line, starting with the 1-3 and 1-4 profiles08:12 - Discussion on the 2-4 and 2-5 lines and their implications on relationships and personal development12:42 - Explanation of the unique characteristics and challenges of the 3-5 and 3-6 profiles17:20 - The 4-1 and 4-6 profiles and the importance of influence, foundation, understanding, and experiential wisdom for these individuals22:30 - Deep dive into the 5-1 and 5-2 lines, stressing the importance of recognizing personal gifts and avoiding excessive retreat24:28 - Analysis of the 6-2 line and the significant transitions it entails, particularly around the age of 3026:40 - Understanding the final profile, the 6-3 line, with personal insights into this dynamic, experimental experienceResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
37: Burnout, Productivity, and the Power of Music: An Engaging Discussion with Dr. Li Lian Gan
Jul 20 2023
37: Burnout, Productivity, and the Power of Music: An Engaging Discussion with Dr. Li Lian Gan
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Burnout is often seen as a dead-end, a barrier to productivity and creativity.What happens if you transform it into a learning opportunity? What if it could act as a stepping stone towards understanding your energy, pace and potential?Li Lian Gan gracefully returns for another inspiring conversation, this time placing us in a compelling exchange. She's asking the questions that lead us to reframe burnout, not as a formidable adversary but as a gentle inner whisper, urging us for pause, introspection, and personal growth.Join me and Li Lian as we explore the transformative potential of burnout, the essence of productivity, and the often-underestimated power of music. We're crafting our unique narrative, in harmony with the rhythm of our authentic selves. You're invited to be part of this inspiring journey.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:03:25 - Melissa’s productivity hacks07:11 - Tap into the infinite well of information that you are and know that that there is no such thing as the mundane09:16 - If even just one person is impacted by your message, that is more than enough12:55 - The burnout you are feeling can be a warning sign17:08 - Burnout can be a process which builds up over months or probably years18:20 - Sometimes burnout doesn’t go away, you just learn how to navigate around it19:26 - The power of music in helping navigate burnout23:44 - Li Lian’s biggest struggle with productivity25:26 - Honour your human design to avoid burnoutCheck out Melissa’s Spotify Playlists here.About the GuestLi Lian Gan is a woman of many talents and roles – a mother of two boys, a medical doctor, an aspiring musician, and now a freelance content creator. Unconventionally, Li Lian chose to step away from mainstream clinical medicine, disrupting the typical trajectory of her career and breaking societal norms.Her decision was fuelled by her pursuit of authenticity and a deep desire to follow her passion. She began embracing calculated risks, from transitioning out of corporate life to participating in a music production workshop. As a freelance content creator, she aids businesses in promoting their services through writing engaging content, from medical and scientific to technical pieces.*DISCLResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
36: Unearthing Your Potential: A Dive Into Human Design's Energy Centres and Authorities
Jul 13 2023
36: Unearthing Your Potential: A Dive Into Human Design's Energy Centres and Authorities
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Unlocking your true potential and understanding your unique capabilities can pave the path to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.How do you start on this enlightening journey of self-realisation?Enter the world of human design—a powerful tool that provides a window into your innate strengths, decision-making strategies, and purpose in life. Think of it like a one-of-a-kind blueprint that lays bare your unique gifts and shows you how to use them.By embracing this extraordinary tool, you'll acquire the self-awareness and knowledge needed to make decisions that truly resonate with your authentic self.I'm here to accompany you on this intriguing journey of self-discovery. Let's delve into the riveting world of human design's energy centres and authorities, unearthing your potential and paving the way to a life lived with authenticity and fulfilment.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:03:11 - By understanding your energy blueprint, you can gain insights into your traits05:22 - Exploring the human design energy types08:10 - Comprehensive dive into the nine energy centres, their traits, and how they shape an individual's human design13:39 - Unravelling the human design authorities17:55 - The experiential nature of human design22:40 - The importance of curiosity and experimentation in the journey of human design explorationResources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
35: How To Find Your True Self: Li Lian Gan’s Inspiring Journey
Jul 6 2023
35: How To Find Your True Self: Li Lian Gan’s Inspiring Journey
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Change is constant, yet it's often seen as something to fear.But what if you embraced it instead? What if you saw it as a door to infinite possibilities, a chance to evolve, grow, and align with your truest self?Li Lian Gan is a living testament to this powerful shift in perspective. She has challenged norms, shifted careers, and dared to step into her authentic path. Her journey is a clear demonstration that it's never too late to redefine your life trajectory and pursue your dreams.Your path may diverge from what's conventional, and that's perfectly okay. It's your personal narrative, your story unfolding in a series of choices and transformative moments.Join me and Li Lian as we delve into how embracing change can unlock boundless possibilities, stimulate your personal growth, and set you on the journey to becoming who you're truly meant to be.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:04:28 - With every decision you make, you take risks.08:01 - We shouldn’t live in silos; we should interact with people from all walks of life.11:02: The concept of having a “deep knowing.”13:32 - When we open our minds to possibilities, then everything aligned with who we are comes to us.16:00 - The moment Li Lian made the decision to switch from corporate to freelance.18:09 - When we know better, we have the responsibility to be better.20:57 - Learning something new keeps our minds active and alert.Check out Melissa’s Spotify Playlists here.About the GuestLi Lian Gan is a woman of many talents and roles – a mother of two boys, a medical doctor, an aspiring musician, and now a freelance content creator. Unconventionally, Li Lian chose to step away from mainstream clinical medicine, disrupting the typical trajectory of her career and breaking societal norms.Her decision was fuelled by her pursuit of authenticity and a deep desire to follow her passion. She began embracing calculated risks, from transitioning out of corporate life to participating in a music production workshop. As a freelance content creator, she aids businesses in promoting their services through writing engaging content, from medical and scientific to technical pieces.*DISCLAIMER - This episode was recorded in March 2Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
34: How to Rediscover Your True Self with Human Design
Jun 29 2023
34: How to Rediscover Your True Self with Human Design
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Understanding yourself is the key to personal growth and living an authentic life. How do you embark on this transformative journey of self-discovery?Let’s talk about human design—a fascinating tool that provides deep insights into who people are at their core. Imagine having a personal blueprint that reveals your unique gifts, decision-making strategies, and life purpose.Human design combines ancient wisdom from several sciences and philosophies to create a comprehensive system just for you. By embracing this remarkable tool, you'll gain the knowledge and self-awareness to make decisions that align with your true self.I'm here to serve as your guide on this journey of self-discovery. Let's dive into the captivating world of human design and unlock the door to a more authentic and fulfilling life.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:01:20 - An overview of a life tool and system called “human design.”05:00 - Human design is not to be used as dogma, it is not an absolute rule.07:15 - We are born already knowing who we are and we already have everything we need.10:33 - Your design is the “unconscious” part of you.17:18 - You don't need to abandon who you are in order to fit in and belong.19:06 - Different life strategies broken down : Wait for the invitation, respond to life, take a lunar cycle to discern the ideal decision or initiate.21:23 - Commit and pour love into yourself by getting to know who you are.Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.
33: How To Use Art as a Tool for Healing and Self-Awareness with Sharon Abdullah
Jun 22 2023
33: How To Use Art as a Tool for Healing and Self-Awareness with Sharon Abdullah
I'd love to hear from you. What about this episode did you / not enjoy? What would you like more of? This podcast is made for you!Art isn't just about pretty pictures or decorations. It's about feelings, emotions, and a whole world of self-expression. It's the ultimate connection between you and your deepest self. It's raw, it's real, and it's transformative.Sharon Abdullah is an artist who lives and breathes this truth every day. She is a vibrant and multifaceted artist who embraces the power of art, not just as a form of self-expression, but also as a tool for processing feelings and healing. Sharon's experiences have shown her that art provides an incredible way to navigate through life's challenges and emotions.In the world of art, Sharon emphasises that there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Your style might look different from others, and that's perfectly fine. It's your unique journey, your story told in colours and shapes.Join me and Sharon as we dive into how art can truly shape and heal your life, stir up your emotions, and ignite a creative revolution in your world.Here are the key takeaways from this episode:02:50 - Sharon shares the story of how and why she started scrapbooking08:34 - Don’t lose sight of what makes us unique as humans11:25 - Embrace imperfection and don’t afraid to get creative with your art14:38 - Sharon talks about Meraki Studio and what it does17:36 - The value of bringing artistic practices into our everyday lives19:50 - Art journaling is an expression of self-awareness25:50 - Each person is different, and that’s perfectly okay26:40 - Sharon talks about Angsanacare, that provides art and music therapy to paediatric patientsAbout the GuestSharon Abdullah, the creative force behind Sharon Abdullah/Meraki Studio, is a passionate advocate for helping others and making a positive impact on the world. Through her journey, she discovered her purpose in inspiring and empowering people through art and music therapy. After leaving her investment banker job, Sharon co-founded Angsanacare, a charity organisation dedicated to facilitating art sessions for sick children in hospitals. Combining her love for painting and teaching, she conducts group sessions and individual private art sessions in her studio. Sharon's expertise spans a wide range of artistic techniques, from mixed media painting to sculpting and arts and crafts.Learn more about Meraki Studio on their Instagram page Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for real client success stories and life strategies, reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.