Building Positive Relationships for Personal Growth Positive relationship is one of the needs of human being, it's a thing many people desire in their lives, but it's not everyone that gets it What is relationship? A state of connectedness between people (especially an emotional connection) What's a positive relationship? A positive relationship is characterized by mutual respect, trust, empathy, and support between individuals. It involves healthy communication, shared values, and a genuine desire for each other's well-being There's also toxic relationship, which is unpleasant and damaging or offensive, that's why we are looking at the positive aspect of relationship A toxic relationship is also a harmful or very unpleasant and provocative behaviors and interactions that undermine the well-being and happiness of those involved. It can include manipulations, excessive controls, emotional abuse or disrespect. Such relationships can erode sel-esteem, cause emotional distress and impede personal growth by causing: emotional drain, undermined self-esteem, distorted perception etc My main focus tonight is not on toxic relationship, so, I'll be speaking on the benefits of positive relationshps Advantages of positive relationship: Nurturing Supportive Connections: Building positive relationships foster a supportive network that uplifts and encourages personal growth. Surrounding oneself with individuals who believe in your potential and offer constructive feedback cultivates an environment conducive to self-improvement. Learning and Development: Engaging in meaningful interactions with others exposes us to diverse perspectives, knowledge, and experiences. Through these exchanges, we not only broaden our understanding of the world but also acquire valuable insights that contribute to our personal development journey. Emotional Well-being: Positive relationships provide a sense of belonging and emotional stability, essential for navigating life's challenges. Strong social connections promote resilience, reduce stress, and enhance overall well-being, laying a solid foundation for personal growth and self-discipline. Accountability and Motivation: Surrounding ourselves with individuals committed to growth holds us accountable for our actions and aspirations. Whether throubgh mentorship, peer support, or collaborative endeavors, these relationships inspire us to strive for continuous improvement and stay focused on our goals ALO OLATOKUNBOH AKIN +2348036506376 Website: https://aloolatokunbohakin.com.ng --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

STRATEGY FOR ENHANCING CREATIVITY Understanding the Creative Process: The creative process refers to the series of steps or stages individuals go through to generate, develop, and implement new ideas or solutions to problems. It typically involves several key stages such as inspiration or ideation, conceptualization, refinement, and execution. Understanding this process involves recognizing that creativity is not a random phenomenon but rather a structured and iterative journey where ideas evolve and take shape through a combination of imagination, exploration, and problem-solving. Cultivating a Creative Environment: Cultivating a creative environment involves creating conditions that foster and nurture creativity within a team, organization, or community. This includes factors such as encouraging open communication, embracing diverse perspectives, providing resources and support for experimentation, promoting autonomy and risk-taking, and fostering a culture of collaboration and innovation. A creative environment is one where individuals feel empowered to express their ideas freely, take calculated risks, and explore unconventional approaches without fear of judgment or failure. Embracing Failure and Resilience: Embracing failure involves recognizing that setbacks and mistakes are inherent parts of the creative process and opportunities for learning and growth. Instead of being discouraged by failure, resilient individuals and teams view it as valuable feedback that can inform future iterations and improvements. Embracing failure requires cultivating a mindset that values experimentation, perseverance, and adaptability, where failures are seen not as endpoints but as stepping stones toward success. Balancing Structure and Flexibility: Balancing structure and flexibility involves finding the right mix of organization and adaptability in the creative process. While structure provides a framework and guidance for creativity, too much rigidity can stifle innovation and hinder experimentation. On the other hand, excessive flexibility without any structure can lead to chaos and lack of direction. Finding the right balance requires being open to new ideas and approaches while also establishing clear goals, deadlines, and processes to keep creativity focused and productive. Continuous Learning and Growth Mindset: Continuous learning and a growth mindset involve recognizing that creativity is a skill that can be developed and honed over time through practice, feedback, and reflection. Individuals with a growth mindset embrace challenges, persist in the face of setbacks, and see failures as opportunities for learning and improvement. They actively seek out new knowledge and experiences, remain open to feedback and constructive criticism, and are willing to adapt and evolve their perspectives and approaches based on new information and insights. This mindset fosters a culture of lifelong learning and continuous improvement, essential ingredients for sustained creativity and innovation. Alo Olatokunboh Akin +2348036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

WHY am I where I am? This question can be asked from two perspectives It's possible to ask this question from a REGRET perspective What does that mean? It means you're regretting your life and where you find yourself It also means, you're looking at your life and it's short of what it could have become This question can also be asked from am INQUISITIVE perspective How do I mean? This is asking the question for wanting to know what you are meant to do and who you're meant to be It's asking the question to know your WHY in this world If you ask from the INQUISITIVE perspective early enough, you'll not have any reason to ask it from the REGRET perspective You have more in you than you're exhibiting at the moment, you can ask questions inquisitively to uncover, unearth and dig out more treasures locked up on your inside Questions such as What will I do next? What should I do next? What can I do again? These are questions that can spur you into action to want to do more You can know yourself more, doing so will make you escape from the prototype-kind of life that people have known you with You can be a better version of yourself and that's what Personal Development helps you to do I can guide and train you in discovering answers to these questions and many more questions that are raging in your heart, seeking answers I remain Alo Olatokunboh Akin +2348036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

How you can spend your time for productivity! Same number of hours is allotted to everyone in this world, both rich and poor! There are strategies you can learn to be able to utilize your time effectively for productivity This was the focus of my first audio event this year on Monday, January 2024 I opened the session by letting my listeners know that the term Time Management is not about managing time, but managing your activities within the time allocated to you I then shared the following four strategies with them (the recording will be uploaded on my Spotify channel soon) ⏳ Prioritize Tasks Effectively: I encouraged my listeners to categorize tasks based on urgency and importance using Matrix. Which helps in focusing on high-priority items and ensures essential tasks are completed first, leading to increased productivity. 🥅 Set Clear Goals and Deadlines: I emphasized the importance of defining specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and time-bound goals. By so doing, individuals can create a sense of urgency, fostering a more organized and efficient approach to their work. 🚧 Use Time Blocking Techniques: I also introduced the concept of time blocking, where individuals can allocate specific blocks of time for different types of activities. I made them understand that this method helps in minimizing multitasking, increasing concentration, and dedicating focused attention to specific tasks, ultimately enhancing productivity. 💻Embrace Technology Wisely: I encouragedspoke on the use of productivity tools and apps that streamline tasks, automate repetitive processes, and provide insights into time usage. Leveraging technology effectively can save time and enable individuals to allocate their energy toward more value-driven activities, boosting overall productivity I'm your host, Alo Olatokunboh Akin Pastor, Certified Content Creator, Personal Development Expert, Award Winning Public Speaker, Podcaster, Spiritual Life Coach +234-8036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

You're welcome to Time Out With Alo on CU 107.5 FM The program that takes you to unto the Tower I'm your host, Alo Olatokunboh Akin: a Pastor, Certified Content Creator, Personal Development Expert, an Award Winning Public Speaker, I also train people to develop their Public Speaking ability and a Spiritual Life Coach On this episode of my show I'll be speaking on the series on Personal Development --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

Purpose and Personal Development Personal development encompasses activities that improve awareness and identity, foster talent and potential, enhance quality of life, and contribute to the realization of dreams, visions and aspirations. Personal development involves a lifelong commitment to learning, evolving, and adapting to new experiences, knowledge, and skills. "When Purpose is not discovered, Life is meaningless" This quote implies that if Purpose is not discovered, there's nothing you want to develop in your life ALO OLATOKUNBOH AKIN +2348036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

🚀🚀 How to gain Influence and create Impact through Speaking about your Purpose🚀🚀 It's not a new thing that right from the beginning of creation has speaking been required ⚫⚫ When God didn't speak, there was darkness, voidness and formlessness 🌩️🌩️ But immediately God spoke, light came, beauty came and life was unleashed into the earth You therefore need to note the following that I shared in my audio event on Monday, where I spoke on: The Role of Speaking in Fulfilling your Purpose 🎙️Speaking is a powerful tool in fulfilling one's purpose. It's not just about the words we use, but how we use them to convey ideas, inspire action, and connect with others. 🎙️ Speaking allows you to articulate your purpose clearly. When you put your purpose into words and share it with others, it becomes more concrete and real. 🎙️ This clarity is essential for creating a roadmap and taking deliberate steps towards fulfilling your purpose. 🎙️ Moreover, speaking helps you share your passion and conviction. When you speak about your purpose with enthusiasm and sincerity, it becomes contagious. 🎙️ In addition, speaking facilitates collaboration and partnerships. To fulfill your purpose, you often need to work with others who share similar goals or can contribute to our mission. For instance, I was able to generate a lead from outside Nigeria as I'll be taking up the mentoring of someone to help in growing her speaking prowess Are you looking for a Speaker to Inspire, Motivate and Energize your Staff, Ministers and Church Workers, you're meeting the right person for it Recognized by a Global brand like The Iconic Brand Awards Follow and connect with me Alo Olatokunboh Akin, your favorite LinkedIn Pastor for positive and life-transforming content that will bless your life 𝐍𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐀𝐍𝐒𝐖𝐄𝐑𝐒 𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐌 𝐌𝐘 𝐋𝐈𝐏𝐒 🇨🇦🇺🇲🇬🇧🇿🇦🇧🇷🇧🇶🇧🇬🇧🇫🇧🇪🇧🇩🇮🇱🇵🇷🇷🇺🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿💷🇺🇦🇦🇺🇳🇫🇦🇹🇧🇬🇪🇨🇵🇦🇮🇨🇨🇲🇰🇭🇳🇬🇳🇴🇸🇽🇮🇴🇳🇱🇭🇳🇲🇽🇰🇷🇰🇵🇬🇭🇦🇴🇦🇲🇦🇿🇧🇦🇧🇧🇦🇸🇦🇱🇦🇩🇦🇶🇦🇷🇦🇽🇧🇸🇧🇹🇵🇰🇲🇾🇸🇰🇷🇼🇶🇦🇰🇼🇺🇬🇪🇸🇸🇪🇩🇪 +2348036506376 Alo Olatokunboh Akin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

Don't look down on yourself When you look down on yourself, you look down on the Ability of the Almighty If you look down on yourself, you don't know what is deposited in you See yourself the way God sees you I remain your host Alo Olatokunboh Akin A Pastor, Certified Content Creator, Personal Development Expert, Podcaster, Public Speaker and Life Coach +234-8036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

Persistence and its Challenges Introduction In the journey of life, on the way to achieving your set goals, fulfilling your dreams and actualizing your vision or purpose The journey is never a smooth road, it's not a dash without hurdles, it's a marathon that takes long hours, days, months and years It takes you through valleys, deserts, hills and marshy places before you can get to the place of success There's therefore need for you to be prepared with the necessary resources for the journey In this series tonight, I'll be speaking on one of the major resources you need, the challenges that come against it on the way and what you must have to overcome the challenges What's Persistence? Persistence is the unwavering commitment and determination to achieve a goal, regardless of challenges, setbacks, or obstacles that may arise along the way. It is the ability to keep pushing forward, maintaining focus, and putting in consistent effort until the desired outcome is achieved. Persistence is not just about working hard; it's about having the resilience to endure hardships Why should I develop it? The importance of persistence cannot be overstated. It is often the key factor that differentiates between success and failure. Many great achievements throughout history can be attributed to individuals who refused to give up in the face of adversity. If you don't want to remain or die in obscurity If you don't want to live an unfulfilled life If you don't want to die without fulfilling your Purpose in life Then you must develop Persistence What are the challenges of Persistence? There are basically three challenges I'll be discussing about tonight 1. Distraction - this comes when your attention is drawn away from something you're focusing on. In this case, your vision or purpose is your focus and gaze, but with the noise in the world, distraction comes easily 2. Discouragement - is the feeling of despair in the face of obstacles. There are various obstacles on the way to fulfilling your Purpose, when you always get to the state in which you lose hope, you begin to get discouraged The down time in the economy of your country may drive you into the state of discouragement 3. Doubt - this is the state being unsure of something. If you're not sure of being able to actualize your dreams, you subscribe to doubt To overcome these challenges, you must develop the following 1. Focus - you must develop an unwavering and unswerving focus on your goals, vision and purpose 2. Fearlessness - fear attacks everyone but you must learn to defeat it by doing that which you fear 3. Faith - your vision or purpose came from the Most Powerful Source, which is God, you must therefore be connected to Him for you to overcome the challenge of fulfilling your Purpose in life I remain your host Pastor Alo Olatokunboh Akin Pastor | Certified Content Creator | Personal Development Expert | Counselor | Life Coach +2348036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

When you reach out to the I AM, you are made rich Being rich in Christ is not only about the financial aspect of life You're made rich in Power You're made rich in Glory You're made rich in Capacity You're Free Reach out to Him now Alo Olatokunboh Akin A Pastor, Certified Content Creator, Personal Development Expert, Podcaster, Public Speaker and Life Coach +234-8036506376 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

There's only one way leading to the destination that's characterized by Light, Peace, Joy The Way is calling you to come over and follow the right direction Follow the Way and you'll get to the final destination --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

There's a Place There's a Path There's a Pattern And There's a Purpose Know that there's a Place that's been prepared for you But For you to get there, you must follow the Path leading there On the path, there's a Pattern that's been designed for you to apply And there's a Purpose for you to fulfill In this Podcast, I spoke on these points Alo Olatokunboh Akin Your Host +234-8036506376 pastoralotokunboh@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

The High Flyer There's a place that's higher than the ordinary flat place There's also a place that's lower than the flat place There are people that are found in the low place, in fact, they are many there, those in the low place are struggling for a way up There are many people in the flat place, a little higher than the low place, but they are also struggling to move to the high place Why are people struggling and striving to leave the low and flat place? I keep wondering! Why are you wondering? I ask myself, you should have known that the low and flat places are too crowded, the people there are not reckoned with, the people there are not recognized, the people there are not celebrated, the people there are not celebrities, the people there are not seen, the people there are not selected, the people there are marginalized, the people there are localized. But, can you believe that those that are in the high place were once in the low and flat places? Hmmm, such is life! The same people that were in the low place but later stepped up have now forgotten the place and the people where they once were staying Hmmmm, such is life! They stepped out and stepped up, but have now forgotten where they came from, some still have their friends, families and colleagues in the low and flat places, but they've forgotten them The low place is crowded, slimy, miry, dirty, it's obscure, dark, it's full of struggles and strugglers, striving to make things work, striving to make ends meet, running but no speed, walking but no movement Everything seems to be on static mode, the more they move, the more they struggle, running from pillar to post, but ends don't meet, setting target but not meeting up with it, they keep asking the question: is this how it will continue to be? This is to announce an answer to the question,with the hope that those asking the question will have the opportunity to get this answer, because it may not get to some of the people in the low and flat places of life But, I'm hopeful that the good news of this answer will spread to the widest territory where those that are struggling, striving and running to scale out of the miry and slimy place of life, to the high place where there's light and visibility are Here's the good news: You can receive wings to mount up - Yes, you can soar out of the low place of struggle - Yes, you can fly high beyond your widest imagination - Yes, you can glide beyond your grade, it is by Grace You also need to know by this good news that: You can receive speed to run and not be tired - Yes, you can gain haste to cover for your waste, you can run to overtake those that have gone ahead of you - you can get the speed to launch out to the gates of greatness, yes, yes, yes I have come to announce to you that there's Wing of the Spirit to fly high and there's the Speed of the Spirit to run fast The combo of the wings of the Spirit and the speed of the Spirit is what you need to be a high flyer, hopping out of the low and flat places moving to the high place, boarded on the wings of the Spirit, where you can never crash or be crushed, where you are protected by the potency of the Spirit, where you are guided never to miss the path, where you receive grace never to be disgraced I announce to you that the High Place is meant and made for you - yes, you, don't look down on yourself, don't remember the things you've experienced in the low place, there's a transition into the High Place - the High Flyer in you is activated - your background doesn't mean you should remain in the background, there's a place for you in the high place, there's a sit for you among the high flyers, it's not the exclusive right of only a few, you are meant for the High Place, you're a High Flyer Say with me: I have waited for this moment, I have stood my ground with the Lord, I receive wings to mount up and I receive speed to run never to be tired. I AM A HIGH FLYER ALO OLATOKUNBOH AKIN 08036506376 Pastor --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

Power of Re-visioning Hi, this is Pastor Alo Olatokunboh Akin welcoming you to the Life Potential Discovery Series event on LinkedIn In this edition, we'll be considering an important aspect of personal development and fulfilling life's goals and plans I'll be speaking on The Power of Re-visioning but first I'll consider what a vision is and how it can help you as an individual or as an organization Vision is a picture of your future or the picture of where you want to be in the nearest future You can create vision for yourself, your business, relationship or any area of life Having a vision empowers you to go on a difficult journey in business, relationship or any area of life where your interest is Vision gives you focus and keeps you focused on your journey despite the Volatility in the world, vision will keep you going Now, why do you need Re-visioning? To reassure yourself of the vision To reaffirm your way to fulfilling the vision To recommit yourself to the vision With these, you'll see that you won't have to lose focus on the vision --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

In this powerful discussion, Pastor Alo Olatokunboh spoke on the power of persistence, highlighting the definition of persistence Will you like to know the three enemies of persistence? Will you also like to know how to combat and conquer these enemies? Listen to this podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

Dr. Achi Bekomson. Lecturer, Researcher, Psychologist, Mental Health Expert, Research Consultant. Questions to send to her Topic: What is the connection between and impact of Mental Health on your Physical Health? Can we meet you? Introduce yourself How can you define Mental Health for our listeners? What is Physical Health? What is the connection between mental health physical health? What is the impact of negative mental health on physical health What advice can you give to our listeners about their mental health? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

In this edition of the Podcast, I spoke about women using the acronym W. O. M. A. N. Women are wonderful and valuable --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

In this Podcast, we speak on Mental Health is a matter that must be spoken about so that those who are ignorant about it can learn about its reality Many incidents are happening to people and they don't have the knowledge of going through it and so they drown into depression and moodiness, but with enough information on Mental Health, they can snap out and overcome And in this time and season, there's a need to take personal development with seriousness Therefore, in this special edition of the Fragrance of the Spirit Podcast, I'll be having a guest from Malaysia who will speak on the subject of Mental Health and Personal Development, in person of Naomi Hebby Rosell --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

In this special edition of this Podcast, in the concluding part, we look at the subject of Mental Health, how it relates to or affect Personal Development. Mental Health is a matter that must be spoken about so that those who are ignorant about it can learn about its reality Many incidents are happening to people and they don't have the knowledge of going through it and so they drown into depression and moodiness, but with enough information on Mental Health, they can snap out and overcome And in this time and season, there's a need to take personal development with seriousness Therefore, in this special edition of the Fragrance of the Spirit Podcast, I'll be having a guest from Malaysia who will speak on the subject of Mental Health and Personal Development, in person of Naomi Hebby Rosell --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message

You're welcome to the FRAGRANCE OF THE SPIRIT PODCAST... EPISODE 70 I'm Pst Alo Olatokunboh Akin, your Host Victory in Christ is permanent but must be maintained by continuous connection to the source of victory. For a machine to continue to function and operate, it must be connected to the power source, otherwise, it will be dormant and ineffective. As a believer who is more than conqueror, He that's made you so must not be neglected or relegated to the back in your journey in life. You must therefore continue to be in alignment with Him to receive insights and instructions from Him to keep your victory till the time you'll go and meet Him in Glory Let your declaration today be: I will not disconnect from my source of Victory God bless you with the Fragrance of the Spirit Pastor Dr Alo Olatokunboh Akin (JPil) Anchor Man Transformation Hour Network International, Nigeria 08036506376 I remain your host, Alo Olatokunboh Akin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transformationhournetwork/message