BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Lisa Limehouse - Christian Betrayal Trauma Specialist, Affair Recovery Coach, Certified Life Coach, Phoenix Rising

Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal read less
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Episodes

5 simple ways to re-establish vulnerability in your marriage after betrayal | E155
Mar 15 2024
5 simple ways to re-establish vulnerability in your marriage after betrayal | E155
Just the thought of being vulnerable with your spouse after you discover they have betrayed you can be frightening. I get it. I remember thinking to myself, "I will NEVER open up to him again. I will NEVER let him into my heart again. I will NEVER share my thoughts, desires, hopes or dreams with him ever again!" I was wounded, devastated, and didn't think I could. But then I came to realize how vital it was to open up again if we were ever going to reconcile our relationship. In order for relationship to work, vulnerability is key. We have to be willing to be authentic, open and honest in the marriage. If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet.... Should I risk being vulnerable if we are reconciling after betrayal?  Listen Here If you have decided to step into vulnerability for the sake of reconciling your marriage, today's episode will give you 5 simple ways to begin re-establishing your vulnerability. Starting off slow is OK. It's just important that you start. I pray today's episode opens up a great conversation for you both. :: MORE RESOURSES: Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information   Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE
E150:  Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? Part 1
Feb 28 2024
E150: Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? Part 1
Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? 🧐Have you ever wondered why some are able to move on from the devastating effects of betrayal and even Thrive? Have you ever wondered why there are those that just can’t get past the trauma? 🤔Could it be that the first group or just more resilient or it’s possible they have a certain personality type that helps them heal quicker? What is hindering the second group? I’m going to be breaking all of this down in the next 2 episodes on Beauty Beyond Betrayal podcast.🎙️ There are certain components that help both groups heal, and can hinder the process. If you are currently stuck in the quicksand of trauma, you will definitely benefit from these next 2 episodes. I’m even sharing info on my upcoming group coaching membership program that is launching March 11. Registration is NOW OPEN! If you would like early access, as well as the added bonuses, REGISTER TODAY! You don’t have to stay stuck, Beautiful. Healing is available. 🥰 The Link to Register for the Beyond The Betrayal Group Membership Program:  MEMBERSHIP More Resources: Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information   Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE
E149: Is my marriage to blame for the affair?
Feb 23 2024
E149: Is my marriage to blame for the affair?
Many would like to blame marital problems to justify their affair. Or even use the difficulties within the marital relationship as an excuse to stray. But let me just begin today with truth… Marriages don’t cause affairs. Good or bad. Many who have affairs actually have good marriages. And then there are those whose marriages are difficult - both husband and wife recognize it - yet only one chooses to cheat. And then there is the scenario where one spouse views the marital relationship differently than the other and strays. While marriages don't cause affairs, they can certainly make one or both parties vulnerable. This is Part 3 of the series - What makes you vulnerable to an affair? In today’s episode, I want to help you identify relational issues that might cause vulnerability in your marriage.  Again, this is not a justification for betrayal. Even in the most difficult of marriages, the unfaithful make the choice to cheat and must take full responsibility for their actions. But we will explore certain factors that can make both parties vulnerable to an affair if not address properly. Grab your spouse, pen and paper, your favorite latte and let's dive in. :: More Resources: Beyond the Betrayal Membership Program:  MEMBERSHIP Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information   Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE
E148:  Am I vulnerable to an affair? 3 Individual factors to consider. Part 2
Feb 20 2024
E148: Am I vulnerable to an affair? 3 Individual factors to consider. Part 2
Why are some people more vulnerable to an affair than others? Last episode, we explored social factors that can create vulnerability. (The link to Part 1 is below)  In today’s episode, I want to help you understand the individual factors that can make you vulnerable. Let me just begin by restating what I said in the last episode: What I am sharing with you cannot be used as an excuse for infidelity, nor does the absence of these factors eliminate the possibility of being unfaithful. Those who remain faithful in their marriage work diligently to do so. They work daily to maintain their commitments and covenant to one another. So what are some of the individual factors that can play a role in making you vulnerable to an affair? We are going to explore 3 in today's episode.  Grab your spouse, a pen and paper and take notes. I pray you will both use this episode to have an open, honest discussion to put into place the safeguards you need individually to stay safe to yourself and your marriage. What makes someone vulnerable to an affair? Part 1 :: More Resources: Beyond the Betrayal Membership Program:  MEMBERSHIP Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information   Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE