Yes, We Fight

Gerald Mayes and Juliamarie Mayes

Join Gerald "Mr. BPOZ" Mayes and co-host Juliamarie Mayes in their unique podcast "Yes, We Fight." They share their journey as a married couple, offering insights into self-improvement and relationships. Gerald, a husband and father, shares his thoughts, while Juliamarie challenges and inspires. Discover valuable advice for couples and parents, all while celebrating love and growth. read less
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Episodes

Surviving the Storms of Marriage - Ep. 20
Feb 8 2024
Surviving the Storms of Marriage - Ep. 20
👋🏽Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️In this episode of Yes, We Fight, the Julia and Gerald engage in a candid discussion about navigating the complexities of relationships and marriage. They delve into the importance of understanding oneself, setting boundaries, and communicating effectively to foster healthy relationships. They emphasize the need for individual growth within the context of a partnership and offer insights into managing challenges and embracing perspectives. 🌟Key Points Discussed: -Importance of self-awareness and understanding personal needs within a relationship. -Setting and respecting boundaries to maintain healthy dynamics. -Effective communication as a cornerstone for resolving conflicts and addressing concerns. -Embracing perspectives and recognizing the uniqueness of each relationship. -Making sound decisions within a marriage based on self-awareness and growth. -Avoiding the tendency to dwell on past grievances and focusing on growth and mutual understanding. -Continual self-work and reflection to foster personal and relational growth. Books Mentioned:📕 Meditations by Marcus Aurelius: https://amzn.to/3SSs8Wv 🚀Call to Action: The hosts encourage listeners to engage in self-reflection, prioritize effective communication, and work towards individual and relational growth within their relationships. They emphasize the importance of seeking help or counseling when needed and making decisions based on self-awareness and mutual understanding. Additionally, they invite listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more insightful discussions on relationships and personal growth. 🔗 Connect with Us: Join Our Community More Episodes and Show Notes: #Relationships #Marriage #PersonalGrowth #Communication #SelfReflection #HealthyRelationships --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Navigating the Rollercoaster of Fatherhood - Ep.19
Jan 27 2024
Navigating the Rollercoaster of Fatherhood - Ep.19
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊!🎙️ Welcome to the Yes, We Fight Podcast! 🌟Join Julia and Gerald in a raw and insightful conversation about the journey of parenthood, relationships, and personal growth. 🤝 In this episode, they discuss the importance of creating safe spaces for dads to share experiences and explore the collaborative nature of fatherhood. 🌈 Join Our Community 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Key Points Discussed: -Discover why safe spaces for dads are essential in navigating the challenges of fatherhood. -Embrace the collaborative spirit of parenthood—building a team with your partner. -Insights into guiding children in relationships and fostering emotional awareness. -Grow alongside your children, adapting to evolving family dynamics. Transitioning relationships as children get married—gaining a new perspective. 📚 Books Mentioned: "What Happened to You?" by Oprah Winfrey. 🔗 Stay Connected: Subscribe, like, and hit the notification bell to keep up with the Yes, We Fight Podcast. Engage in the ongoing conversation about collaborative parenting and personal growth. 🚀 👥 Influential People Mentioned: Megan And Joe Gassler - Studio Of VIM 🌐 Connect with Us: Join Our Community Show Notes 🚀 Exciting Future Ahead! Discover more about the collaborative sport of parenthood. Miss Mays and Gerald share their journey, insights, and plans for the Yes, We Fight Podcast's future. 🎉 #ParentingPodcast #CollaborativeParenthood #YesWeFightPodcast #Relationships #PersonalGrowth 🙌 Thanks for joining the conversation! Let's grow together as parents and create a space for shared experiences. 🌈 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Navigating Blended Families - Ep.18
Jan 26 2024
Navigating Blended Families - Ep.18
👋 Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️In this real and raw conversation, we dive into the world of co-parenting in blended families. Drawing from personal experiences, we share insights, lessons learned, and practical advice on navigating the challenges that come with raising children in a blended family setup. 🤔 What's Inside: -Candid reflections on growing up in a two-parent household. -Mindful parenting tips for embracing diversity and unique needs in blended families. -Addressing parental guilt and acknowledging the continuous learning curve of parenting. -Unpacking the concept of gentle parenting and the importance of emotional maturity. -Pro tips on establishing clear boundaries, effective communication, and standard rules in co-parenting relationships. -The do's and don'ts of comparisons between households to create a safe environment for children. 📚 Books, Products, and Influencers: -No specific books or products were discussed in this dialogue. -Our insights are drawn from real-life experiences and continuous learning in the parenting journey. 🌟 Key Takeaways: -Diversity is the norm in blended families; embrace it, don't see it as a burden. -Parenting is a lifelong journey of growth; don't let guilt overshadow the progress. -Gentle parenting means making decisions based on what's right, not just how you feel. -Clear boundaries and communication are crucial for successful co-parenting. -Avoid comparisons; focus on creating a safe space for children amid changes. 🚀 Call to Action: Reflect on your co-parenting approach; assess boundaries and communication in your relationship. Consider the unique needs of each child in blended families; strive for mindfulness in your parenting journey. 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your co-parenting experiences in the comments; let's learn from each other! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more real-life insights and conversations. 🔗 Connect with Us: Join Our Community: For More Episodes and Show Notes: Thanks for being part of this open and supportive community. Remember, parenting is a journey, not a destination. Let's navigate it together! 🌈✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
F.D.K., Date Nights, and Building Stronger Marriages - Ep.17
Jan 25 2024
F.D.K., Date Nights, and Building Stronger Marriages - Ep.17
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️Join Julia and Gerald in this candid conversation where they spill the beans on the magic of "F.D.K." (that's right, F**k Them Kids), Date Nights, and the art of building rock-solid families. 🏡✨ Join Our Community 🔑 Key Takeaways: Discover the essence of F.D.K. Date Night – the secret sauce to balancing parenting and marriage. Dive into their family night rituals, involving the kids and creating unforgettable moments. Unveil the importance of maintaining intimacy, discussing insecurities, and adapting to life's changes. Embrace grown-up time – the small stolen moments that add up to a fulfilling relationship. Navigate the transition as kids grow older, leaving room for trust and responsible parenting. 🌍 Community Engagement: Julia and Gerald are on a mission! Learn about their initiatives, from backpack drives to live shows, aimed at supporting families in the community. 📢 Call to Action: Ready for a monthly married couples' night out? Excited to contribute to community-driven events? Shoot an email to Gerald at Gmayes@mrbpoz.com and be part of the movement! 📚 Books, Products, Websites: (No specific mentions in this episode) ✨ Stay Connected: Don't miss out on upcoming live shows and community events – hit that subscribe button, ring the bell, and join the family! 🎉 Join Our Community Let's redefine family life and build stronger connections together! 💪💖 #FamilyFirst #FDK #datenight #StrongFamilies #yeswefight --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
The Power of 'I': Understanding Forgiveness in Relationships - Ep.16
Jan 25 2024
The Power of 'I': Understanding Forgiveness in Relationships - Ep.16
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️Welcome back to another episode of the Yes, We Fight Podcast! In today's conversation, we're tackling the intricate dance of forgiveness and communication in relationships. 🌟 Julia shares personal stories, insights, and practical tips for navigating the complexities of forgiveness, while Gerald drops some wisdom on mindful communication. Join Our Community 🤔 Key Takeaways: Forgiveness Empowers: Julia sheds light on forgiveness as a personal power move, emphasizing its transformative impact on the individual. Mindfulness Matters: Discover why understanding yourself and your partner is the secret sauce to effective communication in relationships. Navigating Tough Convos: We dive into the necessity of those tricky conversations, unveiling how they're the secret ingredient to relationship growth. Boundaries & Friendships: Learn the art of gracefully bowing out when boundaries are crossed, and the dynamics of navigating friendships. External Expectations: We caution against falling into the trap of external expectations, urging you to focus on your relationship's unique needs. Self-Reflection & Responsibility: Julia opens up about the impact of self-reflection, showcasing how taking personal responsibility contributes to healthier dynamics. Complexity of Forgiveness: Join us as we acknowledge the intricate web of forgiveness, exploring the challenges and power that come with letting go. 📚 Resources Mentioned: No specific books, but the wisdom dropped is 💎! 💡 Call to Actions: Reflect on YOUR forgiveness journey and reclaim your personal growth. Mindfulness FTW! Prioritize understanding your and your partner's needs in communication. Tough convos are growth opportunities - embrace them! Set boundaries, protect your vibes in relationships and friendships. Forget external expectations; focus on aligning your relationship with YOUR goals and values. Join us on this journey of growth, self-discovery, and relationship magic. Hit that subscribe button, drop a like if you vibe with our insights, and share your thoughts in the comments below! 🚀✨ Join Our Community⁠ #Relationships #Communication #Forgiveness #SelfGrowth #Mindfulness #Podcast #marriagewarriors #yeswefight 🎧 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Through Thick and Thin: Unraveling Love In Marriage - Ep.15
Jan 25 2024
Through Thick and Thin: Unraveling Love In Marriage - Ep.15
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🚀 Welcome to another soul-stirring conversation with Gerald and Julia! 🚀In this episode, we discuss the intricate dance of love within the sacred institution of marriage. 🌟 Gerald and Julia, with their 18 years of shared history, explore the power and neutrality of love, questioning common misconceptions and sharing valuable insights into keeping the flame alive. Join The Community 🔍 Key Takeaways: Powerful & Neutral Love: Discover why love is both a powerful force and a neutral guide in decision-making. Love in Action: Explore the importance of actions driven by self-love and extended to your significant other. Navigating Tough Times: Hear Gerald's reflections on never leaving the neutral space of love during challenging moments. Understanding the Essence: Question whether the essence of love is misunderstood as couples enter into marriage. Keeping Love Alive: Uncover the secret sauce to sustaining love - consistent efforts, communication, and avoiding the pitfalls. 📚 Books, Products, and Influencers: This episode is more about personal experiences and reflections, so no specific books, products, websites, or influencers are mentioned. 🌈 Call to Action: Are you in a relationship? 🤔 Take the challenge and spend just 10 minutes having an intentional conversation with your significant other. Check-in, align, and nurture that beautiful love! 💖 🎙️Connect With The Show: Join us on our journey as we navigate the complexities of love, life, and everything in between. Subscribe for more heartfelt conversations! Join The Community Remember, love is a journey, not a destination. Let's explore it together! 🌟 #LoveInMarriage #RelationshipGoals #Podcast #GeraldAndJulia #LoveJourney --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Navigating Parenthood, Marriage, and Long-Term Happiness - Ep.14
Jan 25 2024
Navigating Parenthood, Marriage, and Long-Term Happiness - Ep.14
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️ Join hosts Juliamarie Mayes and Gerald "Mr Bpoz" Mayes in this candid and heartwarming episode of the "Yes, We Fight" podcast. In this dynamic conversation, Julia and Gerald dive into the complexities of marriage, parenting, and the unique journey that has brought them to where they are today. Join Our Marriage Warrior Community 👫 Venturing Out and Family Updates: The hosts share personal experiences of a rare night out with friends and reflect on family dynamics. 🔄 Different Backgrounds on Marriage: Explore the diverse backgrounds of Julia and Gerald and how their unique perspectives shape their approach to relationships. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Parenting Styles and Perspectives: Delve into the strengths and challenges of parenting within a committed relationship, recognizing the diverse styles of Julia and Gerald. 💖 Benefits of Long-Term Relationships: Uncover the rewards and challenges of long-term relationships, especially in the context of raising children and evolving together. 😅 Challenges of Gratitude: Julia opens up about occasional struggles with gratitude, sparking a discussion on maintaining positivity amidst life's challenges. 👶 Parenting and the Baby's Crying: Experience a humorous exchange about the realities of parenting, handling a crying baby, and sharing responsibilities. 💑 Happiness in the Relationship: Reflect on the current happiness in the relationship, therapy, and the importance of seeking professional guidance. 💰 Financial Stability in the Relationship: From early financial struggles to mutual support and communication, explore the journey of financial stability within the relationship. 👥 Leadership, Ego, and Checking Ego: Gerald discusses leadership dynamics and the importance of checking ego, while Julia shares insights on appreciating each other's strengths. 🔄 Evolution of Marriage Benefits: Reflect on the evolution of marriage benefits over the long term and the beauty of committed relationships. 🗣️ Benefits of Safe Communication: Dive into the significance of safe communication, understanding, and creating boundaries for a healthier relationship. 🌈 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts, experiences, and questions in the comments below. Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful conversations on navigating life, love, and happiness. 🎉 Stay Connected: Follow Julia and Gerald on their journey – don't miss out on upcoming episodes, events, and updates. Your support means the world to us! Join Our Marriage Warrior Community #YesWeFightPodcast #MarriageJourney #ParentingPerspectives #LongTermLove #RelationshipHappiness --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
The Foundations of Great MARRIED Sex - Ep.13
Jan 24 2024
The Foundations of Great MARRIED Sex - Ep.13
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors 🥊, Join us on a candid journey into the world of evolving marital intimacy (SEX)! 🚀 In this episode of the "Yes, We Fight" podcast, hosts Gerald and Julia open up about the real, unfiltered experiences of navigating sex and emotional connections in long-term relationships. From hilarious anecdotes to heartfelt insights, we're spilling the beans on what it takes to keep the flame alive. Join Our Marriage Warriors Community 🔍 Key Takeaways: Changes Over Time: Discover how intimacy transforms with the addition of kids and the beauty of those spontaneous moments. Variety in Sexual Experiences: Laugh along as the hosts share unexpected surprises and humorous mishaps in the pursuit of spicing things up. Importance of Self-Care: Uncover the vital role of self-care in fostering a healthy sex life and building a foundation of authenticity. Communication and Experimentation: Explore the hosts' emphasis on open communication, experimenting with positions, and breaking free from societal expectations. Relationship Trauma and Compassion: Delve into the deeper aspects of relationship trauma, and learn how compassion and understanding can pave the way for healing. 🎙️ Join the Conversation: Share your own stories and experiences in the comments below! Let's make this a two-way street where we learn and grow together. 🌱 📅 Live Event in Las Vegas: If you're in Las Vegas, don't miss our live event every Thursday at Mariposas Cocina – a chance to connect with the community and dive deeper into these conversations. 📚 Books Mentioned: "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski 💡 Products/Websites Mentioned: None mentioned in this episode. 🤝 Influential People: None mentioned in this episode. 🎉 Help Us Grow: Like, share, and subscribe to "Yes, We Fight" for more real, relatable conversations. Hit the bell icon to stay updated on our latest episodes. Join the community – because navigating marriage is a team effort! Ready for some laughs, insights, and a whole lot of real talk? Dive in now! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
The Emotional Rollercoaster of Love: Building Awareness in Relationships - Ep.12
Jan 24 2024
The Emotional Rollercoaster of Love: Building Awareness in Relationships - Ep.12
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! In this episode, we're discussing the unfiltered stories of the emotional ups and downs of marriage. Join me and my amazing wife, Julia, as we peel back the layers on communication challenges, emotional maturity, triggers, and the real deal behind long-term relationships. Join Our Marriage Warrior Community 🗣️ Communication Mishaps: Ever felt like you and your partner are on different wavelengths? We've been there. Discover the hurdles we faced and how recognizing them transformed our communication. 🧠 Emotional Maturity: Let's get real about emotions. Julia opens up about not being emotionally mature enough at times. It's a journey, and we spill the beans on navigating through the highs and lows. 🎭 Understanding Triggers: Triggers – the silent saboteurs. We discuss the responsibility of managing each other's triggers. It's not about shushing; it's about mindfulness. Learn how this shift can revolutionize your relationship. 💑 Consideration of Different Needs: Every person has unique needs. We share our experiences, with Julia emphasizing the importance of considering each other's needs, even if they differ. 🔥 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships: Marriage ain't a fairy tale, and we're here to embrace the messiness. Gerald drops truth bombs – show me a marriage without arguments, and I'll show you a short or unfulfilling one. 🎉 Live Date Night Show: Exciting news! We're launching a live Thursday night date night show at a local restaurant. Join us for food, drinks, vibes, and relationship-boosting prizes. It's about having fun and connecting. 🔥 Married Sex Discussion: Brace yourselves for our next episode – married sex. We're going there! Julia and I share insights and tips on spicing up the intimate side of long-term relationships. Get ready for actionable research and a few laughs along the way. Ready to navigate the twists and turns of marriage with us? Hit play and let's dive in! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Beyond Gender Roles: Navigating Marital Success - Ep.11
Jan 23 2024
Beyond Gender Roles: Navigating Marital Success - Ep.11
👋 Hey Marriage Warriors! Welcome to a raw and real conversation about the often-unexplored realm of gender roles and collaboration in relationships. Join us as we share our journey, debunk myths, and uncover the true essence of partnership. 🚀 Key Takeaways: Goodbye Gender Roles: We kick off challenging the very concept of gender roles. Spoiler alert: "there is no such thing." It's about personal preferences and understanding. Collaboration Over 50-50: We ditch the '50-50' myth and embrace the magic of collaboration. As one listener wisely put it, "collaboration over compromise... everyone can win." Personal Stories Unveiled: We share personal stories, like the two women who ended their engagement because of misaligned expectations. It's a reminder to find a partner, not just a spouse. Learn Each Other: Relationships get better with time. Learn about each other; it's the only way to have a successful and lasting connection. Time, a Precious Resource: As you get older, time becomes your most valuable asset. We discuss how understanding, collaboration, and effective communication become the pillars of a lasting partnership. 🔗 Call to Action: Ready to invest in your relationship? Head over to https://www.mrbpoz.com for a free 3-video series. It's a gentle reminder that self-care is the key to pouring into your family and world. 🎙️ Join the Conversation: Drop your thoughts in the comments! How do you navigate gender roles in your relationship? Share your insights and let's build a community of marriage warriors fighting for relationships. Thanks for tuning in! Remember, there's no script – just your story. Cheers to navigating the beautiful chaos of relationships! #communication #marriage #yeswefight #wefightforourmarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Building Trust in Parenting: A Conversation With Our Youngest Kids - Ep.9
Jan 22 2024
Building Trust in Parenting: A Conversation With Our Youngest Kids - Ep.9
🚀 Embark on a Journey to Better Parenting | Yes We Fight Podcast Highlights Hey Warriors! 👋 Join us on this insightful journey through the lens of the "Yes We Fight" podcast hosts Gerald and Julia and there 2 youngest children, where Gerald Sr., Julia, Gerald Jr. and Layla share candid experiences, life-changing lessons, and invaluable insights into parenting and personal growth. 🌱 Join Our Community: Yes We Fight - The Marriage Group 👉 Key Takeaways: Redefining Discipline: Explore the shift from traditional discipline to creating a safe haven for our kids. "Your disciplining and correction shouldn't induce fear," says Gerald. Trust & Communication: Learn why trust and open communication are the cornerstones of successful parenting. "You guys are smart, and it's easier to navigate your smartness when y'all trust us," highlights Gerald. Personal Growth Unveiled: Delve into the transformative power of personal growth in becoming a better parent. "Once you become a better person on the inside, everything else becomes better," shares Layla. Affirmative Change in Relationships: Uncover the secret sauce to successful relationships – creating safety first. "In order to have successful relationships... you have to first create safety," advises Gerald. Discipline as an Expression of Love: Shift your perspective on discipline – it's an expression of love, not a cause for fear. "They need to know I love them," emphasizes Gerald. 🌟 Reflect & Connect: Take a moment to reflect on your parenting style and consider how you can create a safer, more trusting space for your kids. 🤔 🙌 Cheers to Growth & Learning! 🌈 Don't forget to hit the like button, share your thoughts in the comments, and subscribe for more parenting insights and personal growth discussions. 🚀 Let's become the best versions of ourselves for our amazing kids! 🌟 #Parenting #PersonalGrowth #YesWeFightPodcast #DadLife #TransformationalParenting --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Navigating Trauma and Building a Healthier Future - Ep. 8
Jan 22 2024
Navigating Trauma and Building a Healthier Future - Ep. 8
Hey Warriors! 👋 In this riveting episode of the Yes, We Fight Podcast, we're diving deep into the raw, unfiltered world of trauma, vulnerability, and the journey to building a healthier future. 💪 Join hosts Gerald and Julia as they unravel the concept of the "web effect" – how even the smallest traumas can create a tangled web of behaviors impacting our lives. 🕸️ Julia shares her powerful realization about authenticity – the fear of being seen, of letting your true self slip out. 🌟 Key Takeaways: The Slip Showing: Discover the power of authenticity and the fear that often keeps us from being vulnerable. "I wasn't able to be as vulnerable as I really wanted to be because I was too afraid he wouldn't like it," says Julia. Impact on Relationships: Hear the honest struggles of Julia and Gerald, as past experiences shape self-perception and unintentionally build walls instead of bridges. Choosing the Impact of Words: Gerald emphasizes personal choice – "You get to choose how impactful those words get to be to you." A reminder that our choices matter even in challenging moments. Tool for Growth: Future Self Journaling: Gerald introduces a practical tool for personal growth, setting daily intentions per goal through future self journaling. Fear's Inhibiting Effect on Communication: Julia opens up about how fear inhibits open communication – "My fear stopped me from saying so many things that were probably extremely necessary." 🔥 Gerald and Julia call on you to focus on personal improvement, fortify mental well-being, and create thriving environments for your families. Get ready for a game-changing checklist for self-improvement dropping soon! 🚀 Join the Journey: Hit that Subscribe button, tap the notification bell, and let's embark on this journey of growth and self-discovery together. 🌱 Don't miss out on the Yes, We Fight Podcast – where the real talk happens. https://www.facebook.com/groups/yeswefight 💡 Your Path to Growth Starts Here! #YesWeFight #Podcast #TraumaHealing #FutureSelfJournaling #PersonalGrowth #Vulnerability #Authenticity #SubscribeNow #marriagewarriors --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Navigating Marriage Challenges and Personal Growth - Ep.7
Jan 18 2024
Navigating Marriage Challenges and Personal Growth - Ep.7
🌟 Welcome to another insightful episode of The Yes, We Fight Podcast! 🌟 In this candid conversation, hosts Julia and Gerald Mayes delve into the transformative journey of Jessica Mayes; Gerald's younger sister, a remarkable individual who embarked on a path of self-discovery from a young age and through marriage, divorce, and finding love again. 🚀 Key Takeaways: Breaking Free: Explore Jessica's empowering decision to end a significant relationship and witness the positive transformations in her life since. Generational Shift: Join the hosts in recognizing and embracing the evolving perspectives on marriage and relationships, encouraging inclusivity and open-mindedness. Learning and Growth: Gain valuable insights from Jessica's experiences, sparking reflections on personal growth and the challenges she faced on her journey. Challenges to Societal Expectations: Unpack the societal pressures within marriages and the importance of breaking free from unhealthy situations, fostering environments for individuals to thrive authentically. Breaking Cycles and Support: Explore the significance of breaking generational cycles and offering support to those navigating through difficult times, fostering understanding and compassion. 📚 Books and Products: While specific books or products weren't discussed, Jessica's story emerges as an influential narrative, inspiring strength and openness. 🌈 Conclusion: Join the hosts as they conclude with excitement for future episodes, potential guest spots, and the prospect of travel for the podcast. Subscribe to the Facebook page to become part of a community dedicated to building healthier families for a healthier world. https://www.facebook.com/groups/yeswefight 🔗 Connect with The Yes, We Fight Podcast:Subscribe to the podcast for more enriching conversations and join the Facebook page to be part of a community fostering positive family dynamics. https://www.mrbpoz.com/ywfpodcast 🎉 Thank you for tuning in! Let's continue the journey toward healthier families and authentic living. 💙 #marriage #divorce #self-reflection #yeswefight --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
The Importance of Discipline, Commitment, and Submission In Relationships - Ep.6
Jan 17 2024
The Importance of Discipline, Commitment, and Submission In Relationships - Ep.6
🚀 Embark on a Journey of Discipline, Commitment, and Submission In Relationships with Gerald and Julia Mayes hosts of the Yes, We Fight Podcast! 🌟 In this episode, we fight about life's intricacies, exploring the power of discipline, commitment, and submission. 🌈 Join us for an enriching conversation that goes beyond the surface, offering insights that resonate with your unique relationship journey. Join Our Community 🔍 Key Takeaways: Navigating Life's Choices: Discover the beauty of individual choices over conventional advice. 🤔 Emotional Intelligence: Explore trigger points and enhance emotional awareness for healthier interactions. 💬 Discipline as a Tool: Uncover the transformative role of discipline in understanding oneself and fostering personal growth. 🌱 Redefining Submission: Challenge preconceptions and embrace submission as a means to personal and shared goals. ⚖️ Language and Perspectives: Learn to navigate language and differing perspectives, fostering open communication. 🗣️ 📚 No Books or Products Mentioned: While we don't dive into specific books or products, our conversation offers universal insights applicable to diverse audiences. 🌍 👥 Influential Figures: We draw inspiration from Tim Ross, whose perspective on "submit" in relationships adds depth to our exploration. 🤝 🌟 Conclusion: Wrap up the journey with us as we emphasize the importance of self-discipline for personal success and contentment. 🌟 🤝 Final Thoughts: Join us in this thought-provoking space where authenticity meets wisdom, providing a compass for your own journey of self-reflection. Subscribe, like, and share as we continue this adventure together! 🚀✨ #SelfDiscovery #Discipline #Commitment #JourneyWithin #LifeReflection #AuthenticConversation #yeswefightpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Navigating Boundaries in Relationships - Ep. 5
Jan 17 2024
Navigating Boundaries in Relationships - Ep. 5
🎙️ Join us in this candid podcast conversation where Gerald and his wife dive deep into the intricate world of relationship boundaries. From expressing personal limits to understanding the emotional tapestry behind each boundary, this episode explores the delicate balance of love and respect within a partnership. 🌟 Key Insights: The fine line between expressing and understanding boundaries.The crucial role of self-reflection in setting healthy relationship boundaries.Differentiating boundaries as rules, asks, or wants in a relationship.Challenging boundaries through open dialogue and the power of "I-statements."Personal decisions and the importance of reciprocity in relationship boundaries.Unpacking the complexities of addressing habits, using alcohol consumption as an example. 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts in the comments! What are your experiences with relationship boundaries? How do you navigate the delicate balance between expressing your needs and understanding your partner's perspective? 📚 Resources Mentioned: While specific books or products weren't discussed, Gerald and his wife bring valuable insights from their own experiences, contributing to a rich and honest conversation about the intricacies of love and boundaries. 🔗 Connect with Us: WebsiteJoin Our Community 🚀 Subscribe and Stay Tuned: Don't miss out on more engaging conversations. Hit subscribe and turn on the notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes. Let's navigate the journey of love and boundaries together! #Relationships #Love #Podcast #Boundaries #OpenConversation #yeswefight #podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Parenting Unpacked - Ep.4
Jan 16 2024
Parenting Unpacked - Ep.4
Parenting has always been an intricate journey, but the challenges have evolved in the digital age. In the recent "Parenting Unpacked" podcast episode, hosts Julia and Gerald delved into the complexities of modern parenthood, shedding light on key issues and sharing personal experiences. Key Points Discussed: Parenting in the Modern Age: Acknowledged challenges associated with parenting in the digital age, emphasizing the impact of technology and social media on children's upbringing. Importance of Self-Awareness: Explored the significance of self-awareness in parenting, reflecting on personal experiences and traumas that shape parenting styles. Communication Challenges: Highlighted communication challenges between partners in parenting, particularly when protective instincts come into play, leading to the need for understanding each other's perspectives. The Evolution of Parenting Styles: Discussed the evolution of parenting styles, emphasizing the need for parents to adapt to the changing dynamics of the world and parenting in a different era than their own upbringing. Preparing Children for the Future: Advocated for preparing children for the world they will live in, rather than expecting them to conform to past norms, stressing the role of parents in instilling values and a strong work ethic. Parenting in Blended Families: Shared insights into the complexities of parenting in blended families, addressing challenges in bridging the gap between different parenting styles and protective instincts. Parenting through Social Media and Technology: Discussed the unexpected challenges of parenting through social media and technology, highlighting the need for parents to stay informed and involved in their children's digital lives. Closing Thoughts and Call to Action: Expressed gratitude to the audience for tuning in, encouraged sharing of the podcast, and announced plans for a Facebook group to facilitate further discussions and connections. Be Sure To Join Our Facebook Group For More Check Out Our Website --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Would $500 Bucks Save Your Marriage
Jan 13 2024
Would $500 Bucks Save Your Marriage
In the latest episode of "Yes, We Fight," hosts Gerald and Julia provide an intimate look into their financial journey within the realm of marriage. The couple, managing four accounts, shares their perspectives, occasional disagreements, and the crucial role communication plays in their financial harmony. Key Insights: Diverse Financial Approaches: Gerald and Julia navigate the delicate balance of managing four accounts, each reflecting their unique perspectives on spending and saving. The couple sheds light on how differing spending habits can be a strength when approached with understanding. Communication is the Cornerstone: Emphasizing the importance of open communication, Gerald and Julia discuss their experiences, highlighting the occasional conflicts that arise. They stress the need for creating a safe space for financial discussions, fostering understanding and support. Long-Term Vision vs. Day-to-Day Management: Gerald's visionary thinking is juxtaposed with Julia's practical day-to-day approach to paying bills. The couple shares insights into how these differing viewpoints contribute to their overall financial strategy. Continuous Evolution of Financial Plans: Financial plans in marriage, the hosts suggest, are not static. Regular evaluations and discussions are crucial to making adjustments, ensuring the plan aligns with the couple's evolving goals and circumstances. Trusting Your Partner: Trust emerges as a central theme, with the hosts encouraging listeners to trust their partner's ability to execute the financial plan, even if their approaches differ. This trust, they argue, is fundamental to a successful financial partnership. Resources Mentioned: Dave Ramsey's Podcast: The hosts refer to Dave Ramsey's podcast as a valuable resource for financial planning and management, showcasing their openness to seeking external guidance. Gerald and Julia's candid sharing of their financial journey offers valuable insights into the complexities of managing finances within a marriage. From diverse spending habits to the importance of trust and communication, their experiences serve as a beacon for couples navigating the intricate waters of financial harmony. "Your finances are not different from your relationship. It needs to evolve, be discussed, and checked on as often as you can." "There is no financial cookie-cutter manual to get to where you're trying to go. There's only the way that you agree to with your spouse." "Money is something that is very personal; it's also something that you have to build trust with." Please Enjoy! The Podcast In 3 Sentences --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message
Marriage, Communication, and Boundaries
Jan 12 2024
Marriage, Communication, and Boundaries
Show Notes: Episode 2- Marriage, Communication, and Boundaries In this episode, Julia and Gerald candidly share their experiences and insights into the complexities of marriage, effective communication, and the importance of setting boundaries. They discuss their journey through disagreements, periods of silence, and the challenges of navigating emotional spaces. The couple emphasizes the significance of understanding each other's patterns and creating a safe space within the relationship. Key Takeaways: Boundaries in Relationships: Julia and Gerald stress the importance of establishing healthy boundaries within a relationship. These boundaries serve as guidelines for mutual respect and understanding. Effective Communication: The couple reflects on the evolution of their communication skills, highlighting the need for honesty and the impact of words chosen during discussions. Therapy and Self-Improvement: They share their experiences with individual therapy, emphasizing the benefits of working on personal growth to enhance the overall dynamics of a relationship. Camaraderie and Support: Julia and Gerald express their desire to create a supportive community for couples, acknowledging the challenges of marriage and the need for open conversations. Products/Books/Companies Mentioned: Therapy: The couple advocates for individual therapy as a means of personal growth and self-improvement.Books: Specific books were not mentioned in this episode. Note: The conversation covered a wide range of topics, including arguments, emotions, therapy, and family dynamics. The show notes aim to capture the essence of these discussions. This podcast aims to provide insights and support for couples navigating the complexities of marriage. Julia and Gerald openly share their experiences, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and effective communication. The couple encourages creating a safe space within relationships and expresses their commitment to building camaraderie among couples. For more details and to join the conversation, visit https://www.facebook.com/groups/yeswefight Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of any specific organization or entity. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mr-bpoz/message