Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast!  As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special.We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our  Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions. You'll hear:- Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box.- Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition.- Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning.- Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began.- Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations.- Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration.- Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering.- Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas.We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season.From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage. Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingStay tuned for the upcoming episodes, and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace.Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable.Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss.Resources mentioned in this episode:- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call- SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter- In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The GardenFor more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit:- URL: One Flesh Ministries- IG: @onefleshministries- FB: OneFleshMinistriesConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallOther Resources:Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)SUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions.They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life.Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship.Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity.The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members.Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices.The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes mentioned:Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with GraceStay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment.  Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Connect with Guests:Website: actagape.comDr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymingtonConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Connect with Guests:Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremyKourtney IG: @kourtney.roseberryConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen!Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes mentioned:Shifting Gears for CommunicationConflict: The Opportunity for Unity10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage. Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Other episodes you'll enjoy:The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanConnect with Guests:Cole IG: @colejbrJasmine IG: @karissabrConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships.  The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesHope Ride For FreedomSponsor James for Hope Ride '24Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery.Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes mentioned:From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle GrahamShifting Gears for CommunicationConflict: The Opportunity for Unity10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this compelling episode, we explore the powerful impact of the past on our present and future. We dive deep into a conversation about the destructive force of pornography on marriages and relationships, guided by their insightful guests Travis and Adelle Graham of The Noble Marriage.Topics discussed include the journey of healing from infidelity, the importance of personal responsibility, the process of forgiveness, rebuilding trust, establishing boundaries, and the role of God in filling emotional voids. Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to navigate the complexities of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find healing in their own relationships. The episode also highlights practical tools and resources, including an online community and a forthcoming book, to support individuals on their journey to wholeness. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation that offers hope and healing to struggling couples.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterWalking Through Betrayal Course (75% discount with code "artofspousing")Other episodes you'll enjoy:The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanThe Noble Marriage Resources:Website: thenoblemarriage.comIG: @thenoblemarriageFB: thenoblemarriageYT: thenoblemarriageConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast, hosts James and Lisa dive into the topic of misunderstandings in marriage and provide practical tips to strengthen communication and prevent tensions. They highlight that misunderstandings are normal and even healthy in a relationship, and emphasize the importance of addressing and discussing them. The hosts explore different types of misunderstandings, such as when the speaker is not aware or the listener does not understand. They discuss the responsibility of both spouses as speakers and listeners, and provide ten ways to avoid misunderstandings, including listening to understand, using I statements, speaking calmly and clearly, and avoiding blame, complain, or defend. They also touch on the significance of body language, shared calendars, and practicing patience. The episode concludes with the powerful advice of praying together to maintain unity. Don't miss the next episode featuring Travis and Adele Graham, who will share their story about overcoming infidelity and the impact of pornography in a marriage.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesCues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic CommunicationSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicJoin us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of the podcast, James and Lisa talk with guests, Greg and Julie Gorman, founders of Married for a Purpose. The Gormans share their recent trip to Africa and the impact they had on couples there. They discuss the challenges and benefits of working together as a couple and the importance of setting boundaries. They also provide recommendations and advice on navigating tough decisions as a couple. The conversation highlights the need for unity, good communication, and finding common ground. They mention resources such as the Marriage Reboot, the Couplepreneur video curriculum, and the Peacemaker tool. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize one's marriage and seek growth together. Listeners are encouraged to check out the Gormans' resources and share the episode with others. In the next episode, James and Lisa will discuss communication and how to avoid misunderstandings in relationships.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterCOUPLEPRENEUROther episodes you'll enjoy:The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanGreg and Julie GormanMarried For a Purpose Resources:Website: marriedforapurpose.comIG: @marriedforapurposeFB: marriedforapurposeBooks:What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving MarriageMarried for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for CouplesTwo Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your MarriageWhat I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About MenGentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's StormsConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Welcome to the preview episode of Season 4 of the "Art of Spousing" podcast. In this 19-minute teaser, your hosts James and Lisa give you a sneak peek into the season ahead.James and Lisa highlight the various topics that will be covered and guests who will appear throughout Season 4, giving listeners a taste of what's to come. This season promises a range of perspectives and fresh insights on marriage, relationships, and the art of successful spousing.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicJoin us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Welcome to the Art of Spousing Podcast! We're thrilled to have you here as we dive into today's topic: in-laws, or as we like to call them, "in-loves." This is a significant aspect of marriage that requires careful navigation and setting boundaries.In this episode, we'll share practical strategies to strengthen your relationship with your in-laws and create a harmonious family dynamic. We believe that by implementing these strategies, you can foster a loving and supportive environment that allows your marriage to thrive.First and foremost, setting boundaries is crucial. We'll guide you through the process of discussing and agreeing on boundaries with your spouse, including visits, holiday plans, and involvement in major decisions. By establishing clear expectations, you can maintain a healthy balance between your in-laws' influence and your own married life.Navigating relationships with in-laws can sometimes be challenging, but patience and understanding are key. We'll share insights on practicing empathy and seeing things from their perspective. By approaching these relationships with love and respect, you can build a strong foundation for lasting connections.We'll also discuss the importance of presenting a united front with your spouse when dealing with in-law issues. Together, you'll learn effective communication strategies for addressing concerns and finding common ground. We'll provide practical tips for maintaining a positive outlook and appreciating the unique contributions your in-laws bring to your life.Throughout this episode, we'll emphasize the significance of seeking God's guidance in your relationship with your in-laws. We'll explore the power of prayer, wisdom, and forgiveness as essential components of building healthy and thriving connections.Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast. If you find this content valuable, please share it with others who may benefit from it. Don't forget to rate and review our podcast to help us reach more listeners like you. Stay connected and continue nurturing your marriage to new heights. Until next time!Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting Practising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

As a parent, we strive to raise our children to be independent individuals. That's why we were intrigued when we learned about the Journey to Independence: Four Stages of Parenting. In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, we discuss the different stages of parenting and how parents can navigate each stage successfully. The first stage is the caretaker stage, where parents protect and provide for their children. The second stage is the cop stage, where parents must teach and discipline their children, and the third stage is the coach stage, where parents guide and encourage their children. The final stage is the consultant stage, where parents provide friendship, counsel, and support. We emphasized the importance of not staying in one stage too long and moving to the next stage at the right time. We believe this episode will help parents raise their children to become independent individuals and reduce some of the tension that happens in marriage as a result of raising kids.In this episode, you will be able to:Discover the four crucial stages of parenting and their role in your child's development.Master tips for nurturing independence in your children throughout each phase.Embrace your parenting phase and effectively adapt to challenges, setting an example as a role model.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Navigating Three Types of Tension in MarriageHow to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common GroundPractising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode, James and Lisa talk about their experiences with commitment - from when they were in college to now - and share practical tools that listeners can use to transform their relationships from mundane to masterpiece level. They dive into the three types of commitment, first introduced by Penn. State University Sociology Professor Dr. Micheal Johnson; moral, structural, and personal, and explore how they relate to building a vibrant and long-lasting marriage. Through humorous anecdotes and relatable personal stories, the hosts provide insight into the ups and downs of relationships and offer hope for every couple out there. If you're looking for ways to strengthen your commitment, reignite the spark in your relationship, and have fun doing it, tune in to this podcast episode.Topics Discussed:- The importance of commitment in marriage- The three specific dimensions or types of commitment: moral, structural, and personal- How each dimension of commitment is necessary to build a successful and thriving marriage- Practical tools and activities for strengthening commitment in relationships- The hosts' Marriage Reboot Retreat and how it can help couples reconnect and recharge their relationshipResources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common GroundPractising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In today’s episode of the Artist Spousing podcast, we’re exploring the profound impact that practicing gratitude can have on marriage and, more specifically, on sexual intimacy. Studies have shown that gratitude is essential in any relationship, and toxic relationships are often void of gratitude. Through experiencing moments of thankfulness, couples can create a cycle of giving and receiving which deepens their emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. We’ll also share some practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage, from showing interest in your partner to expressing appreciation for even the smallest victories. Join us for today’s episode to learn about the benefits of practicing gratitude and how to strengthen your own gratitude muscles. Topics discussed: - The relationship between gratitude and sexual intimacy - The impact of gratitude on marriage and toxic relationships - The benefits of practicing gratitude in a committed relationship - Practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Conflict: The Opportunity for UnityPractising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Are you tired of falling into the same old patterns in your marriage? Do you want to deepen your connection with your spouse? Look no further than this episode of Art of Spousing. Lisa and James speak with Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach and authors of two books focused on using the Enneagram to create stronger, gospel-centered marriages. In this episode, they delve into the Enneagram types of James and Lisa and discuss the tensions that can arise in relationships. They highlight the importance of communicating intentionally and asking good questions to truly know your partner. Plus, they offer insights on how to use the Enneagram to lead and manage the different parts of yourself and navigate conflict with greater empathy and understanding. Don't miss out on this valuable tool for improving your marriage. "All parts of us need leadership and can show up in healthy or unhealthy ways. We can use all of these parts of ourselves to live out our sense of calling." - Jeff McCordIn this episode, you will be able to:Unlock the potential of Enneagram principles to enhance communication and empathy within your marriage.Pinpoint recurring patterns that ignite conflict and initiate personal growth within your relationship.Expertly navigate diverse Enneagram types to maintain harmony and balance in your partnership.Apply an Enneagram Internal Profile (EIP) for proactive conflict resolution and long-lasting marital satisfaction.Discover valuable resources for delving deeper into the power of Enneagram principles in relationships.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: NewsletterSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of SpousingEnneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCordConnect with Guest:Websites: yourenneagramcoach.comIG: @yourenneagramcoachFB: YourEnneagramCoachConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Do you love this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Despite their busy lives, Beth and Jeff McCord never could have imagined that the Enneagram would lead them on a journey of profound discovery and transformation - not just in their own marriage and parenting, but in the lives of their Christian community as well. What was this unexpected twist and how did it bring healing and wholeness to their relationship?In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Discover the power of Enneagram as an instrument to transform marriages. 2. Uncover ways to fuse Enneagram insights with Christian perspectives for a holistic approach. 3. Harness your unique attributes for more effective couple communication. 4. Delve into the complexities of Enneagram-based marriage dynamics and how to better navigate them. 5. Root your marriage improvement journey in faith and self-awareness.These personality tools actually name something of our glory, of our God-given glory, about how we can uniquely reflect something of who God is for us. - Jeff McCordOur special guests are Jeff and Beth McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, an organization dedicated to helping individuals and couples understand the Enneagram and use it to transform their lives. They are also the authors of two books, "Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage" and "More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World." With a strong foundation in theology, Jeff and Beth have dedicated their lives to helping couples strengthen their marriages through a Gospel-centered approach to the Enneagram.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Visit becomingus.com to access the 45 unique Enneagram couple-type courses offered by Jeff and Beth McCord.Schedule a call with James and Lisa Duvall to learn more about their Marriage Reboot retreat at artofspousing.com/marriagecoaching or direct message them on Instagram with the word Call.Read Jeff and Beth McCord's books, Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage and More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World.Follow Your Enneagram Coach on social media to stay updated on their content and resources.Explore the Enneagram from a biblical perspective and use it to deepen your understanding of yourself, your spouse, and your relationship with Christ.Share the Enneagram with friends, family, and the church community to help them better understand themselves and their relationships.Reflect on your Enneagram type and consider how it may affect your marriage and other relationships and how you can use it to align with the Gospel.Look into other resources, such as John Gottman's material on marriage, to gain further insights into maintaining a healthy, Christ-centered relationship.Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: NewsletterSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of SpousingMe Awareness We AwarenessConnect with Guest:Websites: yourenneagramcoach.comIG: @yourenneagramcoachFB: YourEnneagramCoachConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode James and Lisa have a conversation with Shaunti Feldhahn, co-author of the book "Secrets of Sex and Marriage." The episode tackles one of the most taboo topics in most relationships - Sex in marriage. Shaunti and her co-author, renowned sex therapist Michael Sytsma, spent three years and $120,000 on a research project involving interviewing over 5,300 people, leading to major surprises and aha moments. They identified the little things that make a big difference in making marriage sex work. The episode reveals how communication is crucial and how making people understand the differences in desire and addressing underlying issues can bring freedom and growth in a relationship. With the book designed to be read together, Shaunti believes that "Secrets of Sex and Marriage" can help couples understand each other better and feel validated. "Communication is the elephant in the room - the topic we avoid because of its awkwardness. Despite having close friends, we rarely address it with them. It’s the only issue we never speak about, leading to the creation of myths and misunderstandings which guide our actions. If we don’t learn to communicate with our partners, these myths will keep us from true understanding." Topics discussed:- How intimacy in marriage is the least talked-about topic- Research on the little things that make a big difference in making marriage intimacy work- Communication gaps and misunderstandings and how they impact intimacy- Understanding the differences in desire- Establishing signals or cues for willingness to engage in sexual activity- The church as a safe place for difficult conversations, and the creation of a curriculum on intimacy in marriage Resources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: NewsletterSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Practising the Art of SpousingGuest Resources:Websites: shaunti.com, secretsofsexandmarriage.comIG: @shauntifeldhahnFB: Shaunti FeldhahnShaunti's Books:Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the DifferenceFOR WOMEN ONLY: What Men Think 98% of the Time: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men. What You Need to Know About How Guys ThinkFor Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of WomenThriving in Love and Money: 5 Game-Changing Insights about Your Relationship, Your Money, and YourselfShark Tank Episode Mention in PodcastConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Are you looking for ways to improve your marriage? If so, then this podcast episode is for you! James and Lisa discovered new truths about their relationship, even after 30 years of marriage. They share a personal experience that led to some realizations in their marriage, believing that their podcast can help you take your marriage from survival mode to thriving. In this episode, they discuss the three types of tension that can create conflict in marriage and offer practical tips on how to navigate them. They emphasize that acknowledging a season of tension can help keep things in perspective, and staying connected with your spouse is crucial in difficult seasons. They even discuss how the power of the Holy Spirit can help us avoid heartache and frustration by speaking correction. Tune in to learn how to address tension in your marriage and gain greater unity."Conflict is not the absence of unity. Conflict is the opportunity for greater unity."Topics Discussed:- Three types of tension- Conflict management tools- Marriage Reboot Retreat- Situational, seasonal, and systemic tensions- The power of the Holy Spirit in marriage- Identifying the root causes of tension- Check-ins on different dimensions of intimacy- Conditional clause rules for conflict managementResources:Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage RebootSUBSCRIBE: Email UpdatesSupport the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes you'll enjoy:Conflict: The Opportunity for UnityPractising the Art of SpousingConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here