Balance Shared

Michelle Lasley

Michelle Lasley believes to heal our world, we need to heal women. She focuses on teaching inner healing through joy, time management, and knowing yourself. read less
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Empowering Careers with Sudeshna Sen
Aug 4 2021
Empowering Careers with Sudeshna Sen
Introduction to EpisodeSudeshna Sen discusses what to focus on to both grow your career while also connecting with what is important in your life. We dive into common pitfalls in moving forward in your profession, ways of thinking of women in (or not in) the workforce, and how to forge your own path.Podcast Episode SummarySudeshna Sen is a a career strategist and productivity geek who talks about careers, business, and everything in between. She runs a website and blog called The Abundance Psyche where she hopes to help people move forward in their high end careers.She talks about it from the spiritual angle but also thinks about it from the practical side. How to show up as leaders in our world, find our own truths, and find where our alignment is at it's best.She also organizes the Rise Up Cohort who works to help promote women in financial services and give them a stage during their shows.Quotables"[People with high power jobs] always care about being judged by other people who are scared of being judged.""When you feel like you're in alignment, that shows. It has so much positive energy around it. It's infectious. Just like negative energy is infectious. "Recommended ResourcesFor more information about Sudeshna Sen go to The Abundance Psyche.For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com. Our producer is Matthew Hunter.As mentioned in the episode: Episode with Tiffany Chapman
Motherhood, Differently with Irene McKenna
Jul 7 2021
Motherhood, Differently with Irene McKenna
Introduction to EpisodeMotherhood, Differently with Irene McKenna. In this episode, we sit down with Irene McKenna who is a parenting coach and founder of Irene McKenna Coaching. She aims her message towards moms ready to experience empowered motherhood.Podcast Episode SummaryIrene McKenna is an empowerment coach for moms, founder Irene McKenna LLC, the Empowered Mom Project, and organizes the Facebook community Thrive Motherhood all while being a mom herself.She uses her experience to help mothers not lose themselves in their roles of "mom". Helping mothers learn how to use their unique experiences to be the best mom they can be. Pulling from personal experience as well as the wealth of information available and being forgiving to yourself when it doesn't turn out how those books promised it would.She stresses the importance of moms showing up for themselves to be present for their family the way they are needed. Establishing a belief that moms deserve to be supported and the importance of self-care as a path to building a different kind of motherhood than the one we've been taught.Quotables"The way we get to something different [in motherhood], competently, is a long drawn-out process of implementation [of gathered knowledge]""Stop focusing on the problems of what we don't have. We need to shift our mindset and outlook to what we desire in a way that we expect that it's inevitable if we do the work versus continuing to stand in the 'want want want' but seeing all the problems of why we don't get to have them.""When we believe and trust in ourselves we find the best way to get there for us."Recommended ResourcesFor more information about Irene McKenna go to Irene Mckenna Coaching, Thrive Motherhood Facebook community and her Thrive In Motherhood Podcast.For musings on motherhood, here are some writings from over the years.The Complicated Lives of Mothers and ChildrenSAHM to PSAHM to Not a SAHMThe Price of MotherhoodWrapping up the Price of MotherhoodFor more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com. Our producer is Matthew Hunter.
Finding Balance in All Things with Karen Schopoff
Jun 30 2021
Finding Balance in All Things with Karen Schopoff
Introduction to EpisodeKaren Schopoff shows us how finding balance in all things is about creating boundaries, managing expectations, and recognizing and addressing stress.Podcast Episode SummaryKaren Schopoff Rooff is a health and fitness coach and nationally recognized public speaker, entrepreneur, wife, and mom of 3 kids. She is considered a Women's Wellness Warrior, founded Balance Personal Fitness, and runs the blog Well Balanced Women.We talk about creating balance between the most important aspects of our lives- from fitness to family to personal time. Using balance to even the load of our responsibility and level off the peaks and valleys. As well as setting boundaries and letting go of expectations to make sure we can free time for ourselves. We also touch on how modern life forces us out of sync with our physiology. How society's demands of delayed child rearing misaligns with hormonal changes in the body and how we can use those boundaries and managing expectations to address the "Life Laundry".Quotables"...if we don't have boundaries we are spending our lives... we're spending our energy, our vitality on what other people want.""One of the beautiful things of being human is we are all different. So, what I hate to do, someone else loves to do. If you can find that match, everybody wins."Recommended ResourcesFor more information about Karen Schopoff Rooff go to Well Balanced Women and Balance Physical Fitness Training.For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com. Our producer is Matthew Hunter.
8 Steps to Great Web Design with Michelle Balge
Jun 2 2021
8 Steps to Great Web Design with Michelle Balge
Introduction to Episode Michelle Balge is helping people to help people. In this episode, we dig into 8 steps to great web design. Podcast Episode Summary Michelle Balge, of Worth It Designs, a purpose driven entrepreneur joins us to talk about her web design, and her love for animals. As a purpose driven entrepreneur, she loves working with other purpose driven entrepreneurs - helping people help people.  One part of her work has been getting out of her comfort zone and seeking outside help to continue to support her as she gets out of her comfort zone. She has an invitation to all of us to get out of our comfort zone so we can do our work.  At the time of this recording, she was going to do one Facebook Live, to get out of her comfort zone, and since, she’s completed just under a dozen! Quotables 8 Steps to Great Web Design Make sure your site loads in under 3 seconds.Design a clean experience.No clutter! Be intentional and keep it simple.Have enough white space. Avoid neon colors. Have your ideal client in mind. Use calls to action.Get a paid security plugin! Recommended Resources Visit Michelle Balge at her website: https://www.worthitdesigns.com Check out her Facebook Videos: https://www.facebook.com/worthitwebdesigns/videos/?ref=page_internal  Sessions Design College Color Wheel: https://www.sessions.edu/color-calculator/  For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com.
Dr. Alice Kerby and the Somatic Experience to Heal Trauma
May 19 2021
Dr. Alice Kerby and the Somatic Experience to Heal Trauma
Introduction to EpisodeDr. Alice Kerby teaches us that somatic simply means of the body, and she shares with us her journey to using the somatic experience to heal trauma.Podcast Episode SummarySo many aspects of our lives bring us out of the body and we can turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Dr. Alice Kerby works with sober and sober curious women to help them be in their body. Dr. Alice started as a massage therapist, then she became a doctor of physical therapy. Now, she is working on earning her Somatic Experiencing certification through SETI. In this episode, we discuss using the somatic experience to heal trauma. We discuss Bg T and little t trauma and how the body responds to it. We discuss a little about new brain research and how that has affected our knowing about how trauma lives in the body. And, later, Dr. Alice walks us through a guided technique to get back in the body.Quotables“I want to be moving.” [reflecting why the somatic path]“Looking through external things to make us feel better.” [on one way somatic experiences can support us in our journey]“I can walk around present in my body.” [a result of living the somatic experience]Trauma Tips - first have a practitioner to work with! Build your awarenessRecognize it’s hard to be the observer Learn to know when you do feel good in your body Recommended ResourcesSee Dr. Alice’s work at kerbymethodconsulting.com. Here’s the Facebook live we did last year https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1596804017144650. Here’s a link to Janine Wirth’s episode on Trauma: https://michellelasley.com/captivate-podcast/the-trauma-whisperer-janine-wirth-talks-about-trauma Find out more about Dr. Peter Levine here.Rick Hanson, Being Well (podcast) https://www.rickhanson.net/being-well-podcast/SEI Somatic Experiencing International: https://traumahealing.org Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps Score, https://www.besselvanderkolk.com. For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com.
Ancestral Medicine and Systemic Racism, a Conversation with Laura Rowe
Apr 28 2021
Ancestral Medicine and Systemic Racism, a Conversation with Laura Rowe
Introduction to EpisodeLaura Rowe comes back to discuss ancestral medicine and systemic racism. We believe we have a responsibility to change the system and we discuss pieces of this change.Podcast Episode SummaryLaura and I discuss systemic racism as two white-presenting cis-gendered women. We see a space where we can be quiet, where we can learn, and we pick apart different places where we can elevate and change our society. Quotables“What hurts one of us hurts all of us.”What’s the ‘right’ question? “How can we help you?”Five steps to healing ancestral wounds:Older generations let go. Younger generations tell us what they see.Stop talking and listen. Investigate your bias. Heal.Speak out and use your power.Recommended ResourcesSee Laura on the web: http://thevitalspirit.net/. Laura’s piece on ancestral healing: https://thevitalspirit.net/2014/09/22/ancestral-healing-emotional-inheritance/. Laura’s grounding and clearing meditation tools: https://thevitalspirit.net/the-tools/. Laura’s first episode where we discuss what an empath is, season 1Laura’s second episode where we discuss the shadow side of the law of attraction, season 2 Caliban and the Witch Your Grandmother’s HandsGeorge Floyd Blog Post Vanessa Couto’s website and podcast episodes in season one and season two. For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com.
Intentional change this Beltaine
Apr 21 2021
Intentional change this Beltaine
Introduction to EpisodeBeltaine, the third fertility festival, and the Sabbat that ends the Time of Dawning and welcomes the Time of Light. Let's make an intentional change this Beltaine.Podcast Episode SummaryLet’s make an intentional change this Beltaine. In this episode, I reflect on what Beltaine has meant and then I invite us to consider what it can mean for us as we move towards a future with changing climates.I did not review the story of the God and the Goddess, but for you, dear reader/listener, this is the time where the Maiden becomes Mother, and the god grows. You can see these changes in our seasons as well, where we are in spring fever, planting our gardens or watching nature bloom and grow up around us. Blossoms are shedding and becoming leaves, summer is rapidly approaching. We are aging in our year.A note on climate change. In this episode, I reflect on how fire season has started earlier than before. Our fire seasons have extended beyond just California and now last nearly the entire summer. Communities are in danger. Our ecosystems are in danger. It is up to us to co-create a future that works for all of us. So, this Beltaine, in this last fertility festival, let us work towards bringing seeds and new ideas of how we can co-create a future that will work for all of us.Recommended ResourcesLearish, Jessica. “What Is A Maypole? A History Of The Fertility Rite.” Bustle, May 1, 2016. https://www.bustle.com/articles/157383-what-is-a-maypole-and-how-is-it-used-a-brief-history-of-this-pagan-fertility.Starhawk, Diane Baker, and Anne Hill. Circle Round: Raising Children in Goddess Traditions. New York, NY: Bantam Books, 1998.Wigington, Patti. “A Brief History of the Maypole Dance.” Learn Religions, June 25, 2019. https://www.learnreligions.com/history-of-the-maypole-2561629.For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com.
Sex positive relationships, a conversation with Yael Rosenstock
Mar 31 2021
Sex positive relationships, a conversation with Yael Rosenstock
Introduction to EpisodeYael Rosenstock Gonzalez teaches about sex, reproductive rights, and sexual pleasure. She wants a world full of sex positive relationships. Living her polyamorous, queer life, and also holding many other identities, she is uniquely poised to hold a safe space for these stories. Here is a little bit of hers. Podcast Episode SummaryYael wants a world where we don’t have sexual violence. The under-reported number is that one in four or one in five women have experienced sexual assault. After finding a drive to teach on reproductive rights, after having experienced sexual trauma, Yael moved to wanting to help heal people through the trauma and eventually to sexual pleasure.In this episode, she shares her story about living life as a polyamorous queer cis-gendered woman. Ultimately, she shares a story of how love is the one thing that can tie us all together and help us to break down these barriers we have created. In one vein, her travels to find her polyamorous identity that broke open another vein of holding a safe and accepting space for everyone. She has a vision of a world where there is no sexual violence and no shaming, where we all experience a full body-positive experience. Though, we have a lot of work to do. So, sharing and hearing stories different from our own is one way that we get there.Quotables[From Yael’s website under Sex Coaching] “Communication, boundary setting, sex education, and pleasure are rarely talked about in a useful way in schools and parents often don't have the resources they need to have these conversations. As we get older, it feels harder and harder to figure out skills and values that we missed out on as kids.”[On one thing that can get us to open up about other people’s stories] “Tell me more…”Recommended ResourcesSee Yael’s work online, https://www.yaelrosenstock.com.Check out her book, An Intro-Guide to a Sex Positive You: Lessons, Tales, and Tips, https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43607130-an-intro-guide-to-a-sex-positive-you.Visit Yael on Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/yaelthesexgeek/.For publishing and the Diverse Bodies Project visit https://www.instagram.com/yaelthesexgeek/. OPB Think Out Loud, February 2, 2015, “At Home with Two Polyamorous Couples,” https://youtu.be/F9SkZ1TBJNE For more information about Michelle, Balance Shared, events, and projects, please visit www.michellelasley.com.