As I Live and Grieve

Kathy Gleason, Stephanie Kendrick - CoHosts

It’s time for grief to come out of the basement, or wherever we have stuffed it to avoid talking about it. When you suffer a loss you need support, comfort, and a safe place to heal. What you are experiencing is painful but normal, unique but similar, surreal but very, very real. As grief advocates we understand and want to provide support, knowledge and comfort as you continue to live and grieve. Host, Kathy Gleason; Producer, Stephanie Kendrick. www.asiliveandgrieve.com

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Pancakes for Roger
Feb 20 2024
Pancakes for Roger
When grief tugs at our hearts, finding solace can often light the way through the darkness. Join me as I chat with Susan Combs, who, in honoring her father—a distinguished major general and civilian judge— transformed her sorrow into a legacy of hope. In our compelling discussion, Susan shares how her father's battle with Agent Orange-related throat cancer brought unique challenges, but also how these experiences shaped her endeavors with "Pancakes for Roger," a book and also a non-profit infused with her father's ethos of service and mentorship.As we peel back the layers of grief, we are presented deep look into the nature of grief. We discuss the contrast between anticipatory mourning and the maelstrom of emotions that follow an unexpected loss. Our conversation delves into the importance of embracing the full spectrum of our loved ones' lives and how a personal tribute can be a potent tool in the healing journey. Susan and I reflect on the steps we took to mend after our losses, and how these actions provided much-needed emotional closure.Contact:www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Susan:Website: www.pancakesforroger.com Email:  info@combsandco.comCredits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Grief in the Workplace
Feb 6 2024
Grief in the Workplace
When the sharp edges of loss cut through the fabric of everyday life, how does one tread the delicate path of returning to work? Claire Schwartz, a grief and trauma healing strategist with Miriamswell Healing, joins us to share her profound insights on this very challenge. In our heartfelt conversation, we unravel the intricacies of grief in the workplace, scrutinizing the current bereavement policies that often fail to provide the necessary support for those in mourning. Claire's expertise, paired with her personal narrative of loss, casts a light on the silent struggles that many face while attempting to balance their professional responsibilities amidst profound personal sorrow.Grief doesn't clock out when we swipe our badges at the office door; it lingers, often impacting our performance in ways we and our employers might not anticipate. This episode peels back the layers of emotional and physical toll that grief exacts on individuals, questioning the rationality of standard bereavement practices. We probe the deeper implications of workplace culture, the emotional intelligence of leadership, and how businesses might risk their greatest assets—their people—by not affording them the time and space to heal. Claire and I tackle the often-neglected topics, such as the stigmatized loss of a miscarriage and the convoluted intricacies of the Family Medical Leave Act, prompting a much-needed dialogue on how companies can better value their employees during life’s most trying times.Wrapping up with a beacon of hope, we explore the transformative power of healing from grief and trauma. As I share my own experiences in guiding clients through their darkest hours, we discuss the pivotal role of grief coaching in fostering trust and productivity within the workplace. The "Fearless Grieving to Fearless Living" program emerges as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, underscoring the potential for growth even in the depths of despair. We invite you to join this community of support, as we collectively navigate the complex journey of grief, bearing witness to its transformative potential in both our personal and professional lives.Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Celebration of Sisters
Jan 23 2024
Celebration of Sisters
When the unimaginable happens, and we lose those dearest to us, the journey through grief can be a solitary and complex path. It's a raw and vulnerable experience that Judy Lipson knows all too well, having lost both her sisters, Margie and Jane. She joins us today to share her poignant story of how suppressed sorrow can emerge after many years, and the profound strength she discovered in finally embracing her grief. Through her compelling narrative, Judy opens up about her transformative journey — from the depths of despair to finding solace and empowerment in creating the Celebration of Sisters ice skating fundraiser and authoring a book that delves into the heart of her grieving process.As we traverse the terrain of sorrow, the episode sheds light on the often overlooked and unique agony of sibling loss. Judy's testament to the power of coping strategies — like orchestrating a heartfelt memorial event and pouring emotions into writing — offers insight into the healing that can be found in honoring loved ones. We also discuss the significance of self-care, the necessity of allowing oneself to grieve in individual ways, and the solace that can be found in shared experiences through support groups or therapy. Our conversation serves as an open invitation to all who are navigating the murky waters of loss, reminding us that we are not alone, offering comfort, and underscoring the importance of community and mutual support in times of profound sadness.Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Judy:Website:  https://www.judylipson.orgInstagram: @celebofsistersFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/JudyLipsonAuthorLinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/judylipson/Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeodSupport the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Whispers of the Departed-Exploring Spirit Communication, with Melissa Peil
Jan 16 2024
Whispers of the Departed-Exploring Spirit Communication, with Melissa Peil
When the veil between our world and the next seems impenetrable, Melissa Peel, a psychic, medium, and healer, comes forth to illuminate the path. In our heartfelt discussion, Melissa distinguishes between the nuanced realms of mediumship and psychic insights, offering a beacon to those grappling with the enigmatic journey of the soul. My own transformative encounter with her reading opened doors to personal revelations, and together, we traverse the landscape of spiritual callings and the astonishing shifts that embrace us when we align with our deepest yearnings.Venture with us into the spectral divide as we clarify the often-confused energies of ghosts and spirits. Melissa provides an understanding of why some souls find themselves anchored to our world, while others transcend with ease. I share a poignant narrative of my grandfather's departure, inviting listeners to contemplate the signs and communications they may have encountered from those who've passed. This episode is a sanctuary for anyone seeking solace and understanding amid the vast spectrum of beliefs surrounding spirit communication.As we navigate the healing realms, we confront the shadows of generational trauma and the powerful release that can occur when these deep-seated wounds are addressed. The conversation turns to the practicalities of handling psychic abilities and the poignant moments when messages from the beyond provide unexpected comfort to the living. With Melissa Peel's profound insights, we beckon you to approach the spiritual with an open heart and mind, nurturing a sense of curiosity and wonder about the unseen currents that shape our existence.Contact:www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Melissa:Website:  https://mysticalawakenings.com Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod https://mysticalawakenings.com Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
The Complex Tapestry of Immigrant Grief with Vera Snow
Jan 2 2024
The Complex Tapestry of Immigrant Grief with Vera Snow
Discover the poignant world of immigration grief with Vera Snow, a spiritual director whose life was irrevocably shaped by her parents' flight from Czechoslovakia. Vera's intimate understanding of the hardships faced by refugees becomes the centerpiece of our latest episode, where the past's urgent fight for survival meets the present's journey towards healing. Her unique perspective as a child of refugees offers a profound exploration into the layered emotions that accompany cultural displacement and the forging of new identities in unfamiliar lands.Woven through our conversation are the delicate threads of cultural identity, traditions, and the balancing act between assimilation and heritage preservation. I reflect alongside Vera on the personal tug-of-war of growing up with Czech customs in the embrace of America, capturing the nuanced experience many immigrants and their descendants navigate. We delve into the sense of loss felt during cultural adaptation, the building of communities that become surrogate families, and the often unspoken emotional toll that shapes the immigrant narrative.Closing with a heartfelt discussion on the universal themes of grief and storytelling, our episode emphasizes the transformative power of shared experiences. We examine how narratives from veterans to public figures like Padma Lakshmi serve as vessels for understanding and empathy. Join us for a journey through the shadows of grief to the unexpected joys that can be found in embracing the full spectrum of our histories and selves.Contact:www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Vera: Website:  www.griefenthusiast.com Publications written by Vera: ● When You are Coping with Infertility ● Eight Life Lessons I Learned from the Ricochet Heart of a Narcissist Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Grief in a Blended Family, with Faith Sage
Dec 26 2023
Grief in a Blended Family, with Faith Sage
Have you ever faced a trial so profound that it reshaped your entire existence? Faith Sage joins us with a heart-wrenching yet inspiring story of love, loss, and the blended family dynamic. Her candid sharing on the complexities of step-parenting and the grief-stricken path after losing her stepdaughter in a tragic car accident strikes a chord that resonates with the deepest parts of our humanity. As we navigate the emotional labyrinth of planning a funeral alongside an ex-spouse, Faith uncovers the unexpected silver lining of community support, illustrating the unifying power of shared heartache and the importance of financial preparedness during life's most trying times.Transformative and enlightening, this episode goes beyond the surface of sorrow to reveal the potential for personal growth amidst despair. We hear how a grieving mother found solace in near-death experience stories, knitting a connection to her child beyond the veil of mortality. As Faith recounts the solidarity she received from an unlikely source—her husband's ex-wife—the conversation sheds light on the incredible resilience required to endure not one, but two family tragedies. With practical advice on how to tackle the inertia of grief, the importance of small daily changes, and the necessity of reaching out for support, we're reminded of the continuous journey towards healing and the power of a mindset geared towards recovery. Join us for a profound exploration of the human spirit's capacity to triumph over the darkest hours.Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Faith:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/faith.sageCredits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Grief After Loss from Overdose, with Glen Lord
Dec 19 2023
Grief After Loss from Overdose, with Glen Lord
Losing a loved one to substance use overdose is nothing short of heart-shattering. That's why we're joined by special guest Glen Lord, who turned his personal tragedy into a support network for others experiencing the same grief. Glen shares his journey with us, shedding light on how the loss of his loved one led him to create a program called "Walking with Grief." Together with his partner, Franklin Cook, they formed Support After a Death by Overdose (SADOD), a unique haven that intersects empathy, understanding, recovery, and hope amidst the pain of loss to substance use.How do we show up for those who are navigating the turbulent waters of grief after losing a loved one to substance use? We discuss this and more, exploring the "River" support model — a compassionate approach that stresses relating, inviting, validating, empowering, and reassuring those grieving. We also touch on how organizations like SADOD and Peer Grief Support Org offer resources and support groups to ease the journey. As we navigate the challenges of the COVID-19 era, the rise of virtual support groups has been a silver lining, offering hope and connection in isolation. So, let's take a step back from statistics and remember that each number represents a human life. Join us as we strive to be present, listen, and remind ourselves that even in the depths of grief — there is always a path to healing.Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Glen:Email:  glen@peersupportcommunitypartners.comWebsite:  PEER SUPPORT COMMUNITY PARTNERS - HomeCredits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Grandparent Grief, with Bradley Vinson
Dec 12 2023
Grandparent Grief, with Bradley Vinson
Losing a loved one is a profound and life-altering experience. Navigating the unique challenges of grandparent grief is our esteemed guest, Bradley Vinson. He opens up about the complexities faced by grandparents grieving the loss of a grandchild and having to support their own child in their grief simultaneously. Bradley's candid conversation sheds light on the often-overlooked role of grandparents in today's family dynamic, emphasizing the need for specialized support during such challenging times.Our journey through the labyrinth of grief doesn't stop there. Bradley bravely shares his personal story of losing a granddaughter, the trials of raising grandsons amidst his own grief, and his struggle to reconcile with traditional male norms during the grieving process. His insights reveal the differences in how genders deal with grief and the significance of breaking these norms for healing. Providing resources and support for those dealing with loss, Bradley's heartrending yet enlightening narrative promises to touch your heart and inspire your journey through grief. Don't miss out on this emotional roller-coaster that promises wisdom, compassion, and understanding in the very face of loss.Contact:www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Bradley Vinson:Website:  www.bradleyvinson.com/contactor via Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, LinkedIn Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Children We Never Got to Meet, with Debbie Fischer
Dec 5 2023
Children We Never Got to Meet, with Debbie Fischer
Can you remember a time when you felt completely lost, with nowhere to turn? Picture yourself trying to navigate through the heartbreak of reproductive trauma and grief. Our guest for this episode is Debbie Fischer, a specialized therapist whose personal experience with reproductive trauma has helped her guide countless others through their darkest times. We tackle tough topics, from the complexities of grief to unique experiences of partners and grandparents. This is not a conversation that stops at struggle. We also bring light to resources like the Star Legacy Foundation, a beacon of support for those grappling with the void left by pregnancy and infant loss. As we journey through this episode, we emphasize the importance of caring for oneself amidst the heartache. Handling grief is a tough road, whether you're the one living it or supporting someone who is. So, sit back and join us as we navigate through these tough waters, offering comfort, knowledge, and understanding.Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Debbie:Email:  info@partnersinfertility.netWebsite:  https://partnersinfertility.net Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/partners_in_fertility/Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/partnersinfert/Additional Resources:Return To Zero H.O.P.E. : https://rtzhope.org/Faith's Lodge: https://faithslodge.org/Miss Foundation: https://www.missfoundation.org/Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Grieve with Grace, with Gary Roe
Nov 21 2023
Grieve with Grace, with Gary Roe
Ever wondered why we're so tough on ourselves when dealing with grief? Grief is a journey nobody chooses, yet most of us will have to navigate at some point. Join us in this frank and enlightening discussion with our guest Gary Roe, a grief specialist, author, and speaker. He gets real about his own experiences, particularly the loss of his father, which became the catalyst for his life's work. Gary shines a light on the reasons we put ourselves under immense pressure during these sorrowful periods, including our need for control, guilt, and maintaining appearances.Switching gears, we explore the road to healing and the importance of self-kindness. Gary gives us practical methods to practice gentleness towards ourselves, affirmations, and reminders to help us pause from our self-criticism. We explore the role of faith and spirituality in the healing process and the power of giving ourselves grace amidst the storm of grief. The discussion concludes by focusing on the capacity to find blessings and express gratitude even in times of profound loss. Join us for a comforting and illuminating conversation with Gary Roe and gain a fresh perspective on navigating grief with kindness and patience. Tune in, and let's walk this path together.Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Gary: Website:  https://www.garyroe.com/  Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
The Power of Sound: A Therapeutic Approach to Grief
Nov 14 2023
The Power of Sound: A Therapeutic Approach to Grief
What if there was a tool, older than civilization itself, that could offer healing and relief in times of grief and distress? Pioneering psychotherapist and sound worker, Duff Stoneson, helps us explore this path as we delve into the captivating world of sound therapy. Walk with us on a journey of understanding the power and history of sound, and how it can be harnessed with the right guidance and trust from a skilled practitioner. We're not just talking science here, we're delving into the spiritual and intuitive realm too. Then, we're shifting gears to tackle a subject that many find difficult - grief. Too often, we're led to believe in quick fixes or 'magic pill' solutions. But Stoneson challenges this notion, instead emphasizing the importance of therapists who can recognize their own limitations and direct you to specialized help when needed. Adding to this conversation, we shed light on the often overlooked topic of pregnancy loss, tracing back to Victorian-era mourning customs and their evolution to today. Let's break the silence together. Whether you're a skeptic or a sound therapy enthusiast, there's something in this episode for everyone.Contact:www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Challenging the Five Stages: New Perspectives on Grief with Dr. Terri Daniel
Nov 9 2023
Challenging the Five Stages: New Perspectives on Grief with Dr. Terri Daniel
Let's shake up the world of grief theory! Ever wondered why the traditional five stages of grief don't seem to fit your own experience? Or questioned why this widely recognized model is still so prevalent? Join us as we challenge this flawed concept with Dr. Terri Daniel, a bereavement counselor who brings a fresh perspective on grieving. We'll delve into the origins of the five stages theory and why it may not be the most viable approach for everyone.Moving beyond the five stages, we're thrilled to be joined by Robert Niemeyer, the man who coined the term "meaning making," and also David Kessler. Get ready to discover a new understanding of grief as we reveal the four tasks of grief, the six Rs of grieving, and the two styles of grieving. We'll also explore different grief experiences using the Loss and Restoration Model. As we wrap up, we'll shed light on the various credentials and certifications in grief counseling. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the complexities of grief or for professionals aiming to make a difference in the field of grief counseling.Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Dr. Terri Daniel, CT, CCTP: Website:  www.deathgriefandbelief.comEmail:   office@deathgriefandbelief.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3555532207881486Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.
Dealing with Grief: Sound Healing Insights, with Lana Ryder
Nov 7 2023
Dealing with Grief: Sound Healing Insights, with Lana Ryder
We're taking you on a profound journey, a deep exploration into the power of sound healing with our special guest, Lana Ryder. From her beginnings in herbal medicine to her successful integration of sound healing into her massage therapy practice, Lana's story is captivating. Her encounter with Dr. Mitchell Gaynor's work, which utilizes crystal and Tibetan bowls in his oncology practice, ignited her passion for sound healing and its potential for alleviating grief. Join us as we engage in an enlightening discussion about the effectiveness of sound healing, delving into the depth of belief, and the fascinating nuances of the placebo effect.Embarking on the second half of our conversation, Lana guides us along her path into the realm of sound healing. Offering insights into the necessary precautions when using sound for healing, she emphasizes the importance of seeking a well-trained and experienced sound healer. Listen in as we uncover the profound impact sound healing can have on those dealing with grief, and how it has revolutionized Lana's massage practice. We invite you, our listeners, to engage with us, share your questions, and suggest topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes. It's an enlightening journey you won't want to miss as we navigate the world of sound healing.Contact:www.asiliveandgrieve.cominfo@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Lana:Website: https://www.SoundwiseHealth.com /Credits: Music by Kevin MacLeod Support the showCopyright 2020, by As I Live and GrieveThe views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.