Welcome to another episode of Naked Relationships Post-Trauma with your host, Angela Spooner. In this episode, Angela delves into the complexities of how PTSD triggers, lack of boundaries, and trust issues impact personal relationships. Angela shares her own experiences, exploring the lasting effects of trauma and abuse on relationships with ourselves and others. She discusses the importance of recognizing and addressing PTSD triggers, setting healthy boundaries, and rebuilding trust both within oneself and in relationships. This raw and real conversation aims to help listeners become more self-aware and learn to heal, while also accepting that the journey can be challenging. Angela emphasizes the need for change, self-reflection, and accountability in fostering healthier, more loving relationships. Join Angela as she provides insights and practical advice on navigating these emotional landscapes, and learn how to take control of your happiness, relationships, and confidence.

Hello, hello. Welcome to another episode of Naked Relationships Post-Trauma. Today, we delve into the complex world of triggers, exploring why they are essential to understand and manage after recovery from an abusive situation. We discuss the impact of triggers on personal well-being and interpersonal dynamics, highlighting how they can affect anxiety, guilt, shame, and fear. Learn about the different types of triggers—external and internal—and how they manifest in our daily lives. Through real-life examples and expert insights, this episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, healthy coping mechanisms, and the role of the brain in processing traumatic experiences. Discover how triggers can influence conflicts, emotional responses, and relationship dynamics. Join us as we explore strategies to manage triggers, foster emotional intimacy, and build a supportive environment for healing. Don't miss out on valuable tips for reprogramming your brain, grounding techniques, and the significance of open communication in relationships. Finally, learn about the Finally Connected program, designed to help you dominate your triggers and reclaim control over your life and relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and navigate the complexities of post-trauma triggers.

Hello, my lovelies, and welcome to another insightful episode! Today, we're diving into the complex topic of codependency. Are you feeling overwhelmed or stressed, like nobody understands you? You might be dealing with codependency in your relationships. Codependency is a psychological concept often used to describe a type of dysfunctional relationship where one person is overly reliant on another for their emotional or psychological well-being. This often involves one person assuming the role of caretaker while the other is dependent, leading to unhealthy patterns that are hard to break. We'll explore the characteristics of codependency, such as excessive care and support, control, over-involvement, low self-esteem, poor boundaries, difficulty expressing emotions, and enabling destructive behaviors. These traits can manifest in various relationships, not just romantic ones, but also in friendships, professional dynamics, and parent-child interactions. Understanding the root causes of codependency is crucial. Often, these behaviors stem from past abuse or neglect, leading to a deep-seated need for approval and control. Whether it's emotional, verbal, or physical abuse, these experiences shape how we interact with others and view ourselves. We'll discuss how to recognize these patterns in your own life and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Accepting that change is necessary is the first step towards reclaiming your sense of self. Join us as we navigate through examples of codependency in various relationships and learn strategies to break free from these unhealthy cycles. Don't forget to check out our Finally Connected program, an eight-week journey to help you find freedom and connection with yourself. Change starts with recognizing the problem and taking proactive steps towards a healthier you. Take the time to understand your boundaries this week and start your journey towards a more balanced and fulfilling life. See you next week!

Hello, everyone! Welcome to another episode of Naked Relationships Post-Trauma, hosted by Angela. Today, Angela dives deep into a sensitive topic that reveals her most vulnerable side. She discusses her recent traumatic experience and uses it as a springboard to explore the concept of gaslighting. What is gaslighting? How does it differ from manipulation? And most importantly, who do we gaslight the most? Angela provides insights into how we often gaslight ourselves, questioning our own feelings and perceptions. Throughout the episode, Angela challenges listeners to reflect on their own boundaries, triggers, and self-awareness. She emphasizes the importance of knowing oneself to identify when we are being gaslit, either by others or by ourselves. Join Angela as she shares practical advice on reclaiming your boundaries, dominating your triggers, and building genuine connections. If you're ready to stop self-sabotaging and start validating your feelings, this episode is a must-listen!

Welcome to episode two of my rebranded podcast! This week, we delve into the complex and painful dynamics of narcissistic relationships, drawing from my personal experiences with an ex-partner. We'll explore how narcissistic traits can affect us, the distinction between having these traits and being a true narcissist, and the impact of emotional abuse on self-worth. Join me as I share candid stories about the subtle and overt ways narcissists degrade and control their partners, and the journey to reclaiming one's sense of self. We'll also discuss the importance of validating your own feelings, setting boundaries, and the continuous process of personal growth. Plus, get an exclusive preview of my new program designed to help you dominate your triggers and reclaim your boundaries. Stay tuned for upcoming episodes featuring special guests, including my daughter and boyfriend, as we continue to navigate the path to self-love and empowerment.

Welcome to the rebranded podcast, Naked Relationships Post-Trauma, where vulnerability meets raw truth. Join Angela Spooner, a trauma-informed coach and single mother, as she strips away the masks we wear to dive deep into the heart of healing and rebuilding relationships after experiencing trauma. In this episode, Angela shares her personal journey through emotional, physical, sexual, and verbal abuse, emphasizing the importance of true vulnerability. She discusses her past abusive relationships, the impact on her children, and the challenges of co-parenting with an abusive ex-partner. Angela highlights the necessity of accepting one's past and understanding personal triggers to foster genuine connections with oneself and others. She also introduces her 12-week Connected Relationships Camp, aimed at helping individuals achieve extreme self-acceptance and emotional fulfillment. Join us as we explore the tools, insights, and stories that will help you heal, connect, and redefine love and intimacy in the aftermath of trauma.

Welcome to the latest episode of "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" hosted by Angela Spooner, your emotional intelligence guide and trauma-informed coach. In this episode, we delve deep into the complexities of childhood trauma and attachment theories, exploring the groundbreaking work of John Bowlby and contrasting it with Freud's controversial views on infantile sexuality. Angela shares her insights and personal reflections on how these theories have shaped our understanding of human behavior and relationships. She discusses the importance of self-awareness, self-acceptance, and the need for creating a secure attachment with our children. Through engaging anecdotes and thought-provoking discussions, Angela challenges us to rethink our own beliefs and behaviors. Don't miss out on Angela's exciting announcement about the upcoming Transformation Camp and the revamped BFF Society Membership, designed to empower busy moms to confidently pursue their goals while building strong relationships with their loved ones. Tune in for an enlightening journey towards self-discovery, healing, and becoming the best version of yourself!

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast with your host, Angela Spooner. Join Angela, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and badass single mom, as she takes you on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. In this episode, Angela dives deep into the science behind our dysfunctional behaviors and how trauma impacts our perception of the world. She reflects on studies involving children who have experienced extreme trauma and discusses how their worldviews are shaped by their experiences. Angela also shares personal anecdotes and insights from her own journey of overcoming trauma and finding her true self. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-compassion, and resilience in transforming our lives. Don't miss out on Angela's exciting announcement about her upcoming BFF Society membership and the 12-week Transformation Camp designed to help you become your most confident and empowered self. Join Angela in this thought-provoking episode as she explores the attachment theory, the challenges of healing from trauma, and the incredible potential for growth and change. Tune in and discover how you can rewrite your story and become the badass you were always meant to be.

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast with your host, Angela Spooner. In this episode, Angela dives into chapter seven of "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk, focusing on attachment and attunement. This chapter explores the critical role of being understood and the profound impact of trauma on children's brain development and emotional regulation. Angela discusses the challenges traumatized children face in processing their experiences, highlighting how their perceptions differ starkly from those of non-traumatized children. Through compelling anecdotes and personal reflections, she sheds light on the complexities of diagnosing and treating trauma in children, emphasizing the importance of understanding and compassion. Join Angela as she unpacks the science behind trauma's effects on the brain, the misdiagnosis of ADHD, and the crucial need for advocacy and empathetic support for traumatized children. This episode is a call to action for parents, caregivers, and mental health professionals to listen, communicate, and help children—and themselves—heal and thrive. Stay tuned for more insightful discussions as Angela continues to explore these vital topics in upcoming episodes.

Welcome to another episode of "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" Today, Angela switches things up by being interviewed about her harrowing experience with the Department of Child Safety (DCS). Angela shares the traumatic events that led her to call DCS, only to face further turmoil and accusations. As she navigates the challenges of protecting her children from an abusive ex, Angela reveals how this ordeal transformed her life and fueled her journey towards healing and empowerment. Joshua, who is unaware of the full details, digs deep into Angela's story, uncovering the emotional and psychological battles she faced. The episode highlights the severe impact of emotional abuse and the resilience required to overcome such adversity. Angela's candid recounting of her struggles and triumphs serves as an inspiration for all, especially mothers grappling with guilt and trauma. Listen in as Angela and Joshua discuss the importance of standing up for oneself and the transformative power of vulnerability. Angela's journey from victim to victor is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the unyielding pursuit of personal growth. Don't miss this powerful and raw episode that sheds light on the complexities of abuse, resilience, and the path to self-discovery.

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast hosted by Angela Spooner, your guide to emotional intelligence, trauma-informed coaching, and self-discovery. In this episode, Angela teams up with Tammy from Rising with RLP Holistic Wellness for an unfiltered conversation about embracing mistakes and transforming them into opportunities for growth. Join Angela and Tammy as they share their personal journeys, discussing the importance of being authentic, setting boundaries, and continuously learning from every experience. They dive into the science of self-awareness, the power of shadow work, and the significance of putting yourself first to become the best version of you. Get ready for a candid, raw, and real discussion that will inspire you to accept your flaws, learn from your lessons, and move forward with confidence. Tune in and discover how to turn your self-doubt and insecurities into self-aware badass confidence and understanding.

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and a confident, badass single mom. This episode dives into the journey of self-discovery, self-awareness, and building confidence through real-life experiences and heartfelt discussions. Angela shares a raw and unfiltered story about a recent TikTok encounter that led her to reflect on judgment, empathy, and the importance of understanding one's coping mechanisms. She emphasizes the need to love and accept oneself, while also being mindful of how we approach and support others in their struggles. Join Angela as she passionately discusses the significance of self-love, the challenges of personal growth, and how to transform self-doubt into empowering confidence. This episode is a powerful reminder to be real, vulnerable, and unabashedly you.

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" podcast with your host Angela Spooner, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and a badass single mom. This episode dives deep into understanding who you truly are beyond societal labels and expectations. Join Angela and guest Joshua as they discuss the science behind why we often don't recognize ourselves in the mirror, especially after experiencing chronic trauma. They explore how trauma impacts brain activity, affecting our sense of self and ability to process emotions. You'll learn about the brain's "default state network" and how it plays a crucial role in overall consciousness. Angela shares personal stories and insights, including a recent confrontation that led to a breakthrough in self-awareness. Joshua provides practical tools for managing emotional responses, emphasizing the importance of continuously building new neural pathways through mindfulness, yoga, and self-reflection. This episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice for anyone looking to transform their self-doubt and insecurity into self-aware confidence. Tune in to discover how you can start your journey towards becoming your most authentic, confidently badass self. Don't miss out on the exciting announcement about Angela's new Confident Queen membership, starting July 1st, offering a comprehensive package of resources to help you on your journey. Enjoy a 7-day free trial and access to live coaching sessions, yoga, mindfulness games, and much more. Stay connected and share your thoughts on Angela's social media platforms. Your feedback is invaluable in making this podcast even more impactful. Let's embark on this transformative journey together!

Welcome to the Who the Fuck is in the Mirror podcast with your host, Angela Spooner. Join Angela, an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and confident badass single mom of three, as she takes you on an eye-opening journey to uncover your true self. In this episode, Angela delves into the profound impact of trauma on our self-perception and emotional well-being. She shares her personal experiences, including a recent confrontation that triggered deep-seated emotions, to illustrate the importance of self-awareness and mindfulness in overcoming self-doubt and insecurity. Angela emphasizes the significance of connecting with our bodies and understanding the physical sensations associated with our emotions. By becoming mindful of these sensations, we can begin to heal and transform our dysfunctional thinking into self-aware, confident badassery. Angela also introduces exciting changes to her app, offering a new membership that provides access to her transformative content, including live coaching, yoga sessions, and mindfulness games. Tune in to discover how you can embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your inner strength. Don't miss this empowering episode that promises to help you find out who the fuck is in the mirror and embrace your true self with confidence.

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror?" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner, your guide to emotional intelligence, trauma-informed coaching, and self-discovery. In this episode, Angela delves deep into Chapter 6, "Losing Your Body, Losing Yourself," exploring the profound impact of trauma on our sense of self and how we perceive our bodies. Angela begins with a thought-provoking quote from Rainer Maria Rilke, breaking it down to uncover the importance of embracing our unsolved questions and emotions. She discusses how trauma can desensitize us, leading to self-destructive behaviors and a disconnection from our true selves. The episode also introduces the concept of the default mode network, explaining its role in self-awareness and how trauma can disrupt this crucial brain function. Angela shares personal anecdotes and practical insights on how to reconnect with your body and mind, emphasizing the need for safety and self-awareness in healing from trauma. Join Angela in this enlightening journey to transform self-doubt and insecurity into self-aware, badass confidence. Don't miss out on the strategies and techniques she'll share next week to help you find a sense of safety and belonging within yourself. Remember to follow, like, comment, and share the podcast with your friends. Binge-listen and have an awesome day!

Join Angela Spooner, a trauma-informed coach and yoga instructor, as she dives deep into the intricacies of self-awareness in this compelling episode of "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror." Angela is joined by her insightful guest, Josh, as they explore the profound impacts of trauma on the mind and body. Using the book "The Body Keeps the Score" as a guide, they unpack the various stages of trauma response and the significance of emotional intelligence in healing. From personal anecdotes about parenting challenges to the importance of self-care and self-acceptance, this episode provides a raw and unfiltered look at how we can transform our insecurities and dysfunctional patterns into self-aware confidence. Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone on a journey of self-discovery, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice on managing trauma and fostering emotional resilience. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that promises to leave you feeling inspired and empowered to take control of your mental and emotional well-being.

Welcome to the latest episode of "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast! Join Angela Spooner, your emotional intelligence guide and trauma-informed coach, as she dives into the intriguing connections between our body and brain. This episode explores Chapter 5 of "The Body Keeps the Score," focusing on how emotions shape our physical expressions and behaviors. Angela delves into Darwin's observations on the physical signs of emotions and their similarities to animals. She explains how our emotions communicate through our facial and bodily movements, impacting our mental state and interactions with others. Discover the intricate dance between anger, sadness, and fear, and how these emotions manifest in our daily lives. Angela also highlights the importance of understanding our autonomic nervous system and its role in regulating our fight, flight, and freeze responses. Learn how social support, self-awareness, and body regulation techniques like yoga and breathwork can help us rebuild our emotional resilience. Tune in for an eye-opening journey into the science of self-awareness, and find out how you can transform your self-doubt and insecurity into badass confidence and understanding. Don't miss Angela's insights on creating a balanced and fulfilling life!

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner - an emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and badass single mom. In this episode, Angela dives deep into Chapter 4: "Running for Your Life, The Anatomy of Survival." Angela explores how trauma shapes our brain and behavior, using compelling analogies and real-life examples. From the story of a boy coping with the 9/11 tragedy to understanding the roles of the amygdala, hippocampus, and frontal lobes, this episode breaks down complex neurological processes into digestible insights. Join Angela as she discusses the science behind why trauma makes us feel "fucked up" and how it affects our responses, health, and overall sense of self. Learn about the importance of creating a safe environment for healing, and discover practical coping strategies like breathwork, meditation, and intentional movement. Don't miss this powerful journey towards transforming self-doubt and insecurity into badass confidence and self-awareness. Tune in and start reclaiming your power today!

Welcome to the "Who the Fuck is in the Mirror" podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner, your emotional intelligence guide, trauma-informed coach, yoga instructor, and confident single mom of three amazing children. This podcast delves deep into self-discovery, using books, analogies, and metaphors to help you find your true self beyond societal roles and expectations. In this episode, Angela is joined by special guest, Mr. Carpenter, a talented musician, author, and certified life coach. Together, they explore the impact of emotional abuse, the journey of overcoming deep-seated trauma, and the power of taking responsibility for one's choices. Mr. Carpenter shares his personal experiences growing up in a conservative Christian cult, the emotional and psychological challenges he faced, and how he ultimately found the strength to break free and live authentically. Angela and Mr. Carpenter discuss the importance of confronting one's past, the role of emotional intelligence in healing, and the transformative power of embracing vulnerability. Join Angela and Mr. Carpenter as they navigate the complexities of trauma, self-acceptance, and personal growth. This episode is a raw, honest, and empowering conversation that will inspire you to look in the mirror and recognize the resilient, badass version of yourself that you've always been.

Welcome to the 'Who the Fuck Is in the Mirror' podcast, hosted by Angela Spooner. This show is dedicated to providing clarity about our authentic selves, beyond the perceptions of others, and uncovering the confidently badass version of us that might be obscured by distractions. Using books, experiences, and analogous narratives, we delve deep into exploring the essence of who we are, shedding light on the mysterious workings of the mind and the process of self-discovery. This engaging episode provides rich insights into Chapter 3 of the book 'The Body Keeps the Score', which involves a detailed exploration of the neuroscience revolution. It discusses instances of trauma, the brain's structures and functions, and how personal struggles and experiences shape our self-perception. By recounting emotive narratives and flashbacks from trauma victims, we gain profound insights into their behavioral patterns, leading to deeper understanding and empathy. The episode doesn't shy away from the harsh reality of how trauma often impairs self-expression, leaving victims struggling for words and disconnecting their emotions from speech. Angela Spooner, our host, encourages listeners to understand and respect the silent cries of those around us and emphasizes the transformative power of kindness, understanding, and self-love in fostering personal growth and healing. This episode provides a riveting exploration of personal trauma, its impacts, and the path towards healing. Spooner recounts her own journey from denial to acceptance and action and discusses the importance of recognizing and addressing psychological trauma. She also shares insights on trauma's impact on the brain and reassures listeners that their reactions are not character flaws but responses to harm, underscoring that understanding this is key to genuine healing and self-acceptance. The episode concludes with an emphasis on the power of individual feedback in creating relevant content and an encouragement for listeners to embrace change and thereby transform their lives for the better. Join us in this journey of personal transformation that might well be the most important voyage you'll ever undertake.